Parshat Yitro: The War of Tomorrow - Rabbi Meyer Yedid

[Music] sadly throw there's a very famous in my lap okay myself at Shabbat that discusses the events that took place my Tantra so God says okay here's the mountain he puts it on top of it why can he eat like a barrel like we said and what does he say listen to the words he says even make a believe attempt at a Torah if you accept the Torah if you commit the datura Futaba be good for you then he loved but if not shun the heck kagura-san pay close attention shall you think about him champions over there will be your barrier and the question is in Hebrew that would have not been the most appropriate word to use we're talking here were the mountains and half of them God's talking to them it should have said can they make it one of them here will be your burial Paul right now right here what doesn't he shine over there where's over there you stopping to them with a mountain on top of them where is Shannon where is over there this is something to pay attention there's certain type of camera Barry oh that's called Chum it's called all there is a burial where you put a person on the ground six feet under that's a physical burial and there's a spiritual burial the spiritual burial was called shout over there what am i we starting - what does that mean over there there's a spiritual burial I'm gonna give you a real-life example that probably everybody in this room could relate to one way or another a young boy starts Elementary School he's excited to go it's a new opportunity he's gonna make friends he's gonna learn he's gonna excel he's gonna be the top reason to be successful but every person who wakes up to be successful in anything and everything that they do so this young man is ready to build elementary school he's gonna be the most popular have the most friends on the top of the class happy successful what what an opportunity then he starts school and within a very short time he gets the fights with half the class he yells at one he embarrasses the other he punches the other one he doesn't share it with that one he isn't gonna argue it with the other one and within a few months half the class hates him he starts to get lazy he starts to fail he starts to wake up late he's always late late to class like the school he's certainly not top of the class not in popularity not in academics not an anything he's not looked at as someone who says oh that boy what a wonderful guy he's not he didn't make it and he looks at himself and he says come on nope you don't know you don't know me this guy and he gets a little a little a zoop a little inspiration and says come on Joe you got it you gotta change you gotta get go someone you know what most people do is okay I'm gonna change shop over there when I get to high school when I get to high school and how my just goes over I messed up that's it the teachers hate me the principal's think I'm no good my friends don't like me I don't do what I say oh it's over I hate the high school I wouldn't become someone I had a chance I'm gonna be that guy that I always wanted successful now I want to be countered and he gets to high school and he's excited and he's ready okay that's it and we did a few weeks he finds himself in the same spot that he was in elementary school and he's you know what forget 9th grades 2 1 there's 2 1 I knew it's like almost like elementary school but when I had the 10th grade ah oh boy I'm gonna be someone I'm gonna be that guy I'm gonna be the guy with the Sham Co the best name in that is cool do it that's great can't wait with that three and tenth grade comes and that's great goes and within a few weeks 10th grade already he realizes 10th grade is not that great but maybe 11 and then you realize you know my high school's not there it's not gonna happen high school he's not gonna get that success in high school it's not gonna work yeah let me show ya I mean at the high school he's gonna make it me it was the Israel was me she told me they're ready or if she's going to there's no workers it be someone and there he's gonna have a lot of great friends and he's gonna be so successful and he misses up there to know me when I get married but I get married then it's gonna be together I'm gonna crazy the best kid I'm gonna have wow what a show and I'm gonna and then he gets married and within a few months he's getting into the same fights with his wife and he got with his friends the same rights in third grade same argument she'll fool I learned from you who do you think you are it's just the same exact exact person in third grade or in high school now his house and he realized you know there's too much pressure in that house I can't handle any more I hate my job I hate my boss I hate my friends my wife's okay my kids are driving me crazy when they get married when they get married and the out of the house then I don't have to pay tuition anymore no more pills that then I think buy that I'm reading right hit like 50 and this is life that's the story of our lives it's the sad story of shun the heck you were after we bury ourselves with over there I'm gonna do it over there and we never fix the problem we never take care of the issue the same issue we had as little children as high school boys we're gonna have it throughout our lives it's just a little sampling of what's coming if you have small problems now when you get older they're going to be big problems if you have small issues now they're going to be big issues if you have small jealousy now is gonna be big jealousy if you have small anger now it's gonna be big anger if you can't get along with your friend you're not getting along with your wife if you can't commit yourself to doing good things today you're certainly not going to get me there doing it later just because later is gonna come it's not going to change anything Shan the head kid would attend the guy who says tomorrow I'm gonna do it next year I'm gonna do it that's your barrier that's the burial of the spiritual world the story of the two birds the pelican and the owl the Pelican has wings that have a stench in order they'd smell one day the Pelican goes I'm one of the trees that he sees he builds himself he makes himself a nest and he moves in all the birds on that tree they smell elegant so they organized the demonstration against the Pelican moving into the tree and they succeed to get him out of there now then as he well Pelican he lost his home he lost his nest he looks for a new place to live he finds a home he built himself a nest in the ceiling on somebody's house and he means it the homeowner starts to smell things smell those those were feces the ceiling Alec a domestic Greeks he takes an item and he shoes him away most snuggly birds in this house come on Pelican you can't live in the tree you can't live in the house there's no what to do packs of stuff and he goes he decides you know what he's going to a new town he's adding him on his wedding that I will season smart that was the bright bird he doesn't not looking one but were you off Toledo he says I'll tell you I went to the tree they threw me out I went to the house they threw me out he said I'm going I'm moving out go to the city so I will tell them what is it gonna help you to move to a new city if you're still carrying your smelly wings with you you just got the same problem exiting a beautiful my child you think Sean is gonna help you with your smelly wings if you don't click those wings what is it gonna help you to move to a new place you're gonna have the same issue anyway you go anything you do there is no cure cold shower time doesn't make you better places don't make you different you're the same problem whatever you see tonight look in the mirror you same guy in 20 years from now Sean doesn't do anything to make you a better person there is no magic it is for the Pelican he's starving he has to look at his wings there's nothing that he can do but we are not stuck humans unlike our feelings sometimes we feel that's the way we are I am Who I am I'm a bum I'm not smart I'm not popular I'm not friendly I'm not happy I'm selfish I don't know how to give it I can't be a good student I can't let it cut up that's who I am how many times we heard people say that that's me take it or leave it that's a huge mistake even animals can be trained take a dog you train the dog even a cat can be trained even wild animals can be trained in the service they train elephants that's a ma hsiao if an animal could be trained you don't think every one of us can become something other than what we are you think any one of us is holed up in a place that we can't become something else we must believe we must know that they our situation will never change we will never become somebody else until we decide to do something time place will never change a person and we must believe that we can become anything that we want to become the student was living his whole life at the bottom of the barrel can become number one it's up to him the young man who can't make a friend because each person looks at him in a negative way he become the most popular person a 16 year old with the worst name out in the world because of his behavior can become about Shantou a person with a most beautiful name it's up to you it's up to me no time will change it and no place will change shad tomorrow that's a Qibla that's a spiritual barrier I saw a beautiful commentary a reverence a hint in the Torah to this success they say though helped heal ahem and wage war Bahama Lake Mohave literally means tomorrow go out and fight I'm awake that enemy of the Jewish people but in a way of remnants of him I mean say go out the hill ahem we are all the mill , everyone in this room has the same war we all have fighting the same war what's the war you know it's called the war it's called down my leg Mahan it's the war of tomorrow I'll wait till tomorrow that's a war crime alleged spiritually every one of us fights that war we all want to be the greatest let's not kid ourselves we all want to wake up and was the most but the war the enemy is throwing that's the AMOLED inside every one of us it's a famous story but a great technique a great student the Shiva of illusion a man who knew shots [Music] from beginning to end would has a lot with review you can only become great with review it's not enough to learn you have to know it and to know what you have to review a person who learned that review is missing most of the effect of learning huzzah huzzah huzzah that's the great regressive Engel this is the notice exceed and learning need three things you need three things to see the Torah the other three things are everybody's room three things you need Hazara and the review and he has a rap and you have to review and guess what you need again Hazara goodness that's the secret there are three brilliant there are three good-looking you need husana whatever you do whatever you learn review it and this student this cry student of the shiva of illusion in Europe he knew all of shots and while he was eating in the middle of a cylinder off somebody came over and asked him a question and he didn't know the answer to the question and they told them afterwards actually during the meal that this is actually a toast book in myself at the diner where I was and this taught me what he heard and he forgot a toast what and this myself he don't believe it he ran out of the dining room don't forgot that Mazzone and they say that he closed himself up in the bed Midrash for seven years so hazard out again on everything yes the great rabbi of a kind of illusion and he said to him this student is it right what he did he walked out without saying throw at Amazon to rush back to learn he says no that was the wrong thing to do can't walk out and not say for methimazole even if you're going to learn the rabbi said but know one thing that if he said forgot Amazon he probably would never been able to do what he did in seventies because if you delay if you don't think you don't do things now when you're ready and excited and you're inspired you don't do it now chances are then you may never do it affects hyeme had a person company an old developer he don't Rabbi Roja share I was blessed with a lot of money as I have six children is I'm going to split up my yellow shot I'm going to split up my estate at the seven six I'm going to give when I die I'm gonna give it to my children and the seventh will go to the Shiva to your Shiva and see that number two please on behalf of such a commitment if you could please learn for me for my salute so you thought that how this cameras gonna get up and stop dancing with him and hug him gave him a tremendous amount of money and the best-paying gave him a look clearly not pleased with his offer he told them number one about their money that you're gonna give me after you leave this world why do you have to wait to give me the money to give these Shiva money after the world after the FDA a Lama said if you can do it do it now why do you have to wait to give money after you leave this world so many people have this issue they'll leave money to give it out after they'd done if you have money now and you can give it up give it up now or you're alive what are you waiting for why shot why then do it now if you have to have some savings that you could live with something else if you have extra money to give out give it that down and he said and he asked me to learn for you he says you're alive learn yourself why should I work for you this is the story of my life the story of shell the middle Hamas sham that we all have been fighting since we were little and the fight will continue that's why it says VI Talia al we should have better tell ami silence everybody he says now you snot him i rabbi say what does it mean be Italian ah humming tell us let me brush and VI L my tissue uh unbelievable what is the word para that means they are that means Tituba and you really say what and now reach this you aah what is this shoe I have to do without that and now mean Tituba I think after today we understand it very clear the mill Hana that were in is the sham or got them all of us want success all of us want a rich life all of us want everything that's good in every area the question is are you going to start that right now or you're gonna wait till Xiang and Chantal zombies sell if you accept now the Torah Mutapa it's good making love if you don't accept it now Shan you want to think about it for later you want to see maybe later on I'll do it - heck here would have said that's your camera that's your end dead end your burial in the world of spirituality we have to pray for see and understand that we should be inspired and more important and being inspired to do things our time to do things now in all of our lives everything in learning in me thought in Hessen in getting along with friends in all the areas that make a person successful we have to stop now because if we don't do anything now we will be like that Pelican verb who just flies from place to place from time to time with the same wings the same smell and it is unify himself going from place to place his whole life things won't change by themselves only back