Purim: A Time for Unity - Rabbi Eliezer Krohn

[Music] great to see all of you again it's a tremendous pleasure tremendous suppose to be here once again so we know that one of the mitzvahs that we have on the yontiff of Purim that's coming up tonight is our Father Shanee so one of the mitzvahs that we have is much higher harmonics right the pastor tells us how much life - Ashley yo what's the reason for this mitzvah a beautiful mitzvah we all have a great time preparing the Romano's sending the miss los monos eating these false Manos and the theme of course you have to have a theme together with what you're dressing up as what are you dressing up as this perm you know yet you don't know yet okay you still have a couple of weeks so make sure you know if it matches well come on us that's even better it doesn't have to so what's the reason for this Mitzvah so there's really two reasons brought in the motion the truth possession in Kufa Dolloff he brings that and this is really the main reason in Halawa that the recipient the one who gets the most murders should have food for the sudha we know was supposed to have a soother later in the day on pouring this way when you give me some honest everyone they are guaranteed that they'll have food for the souza another reason a beautiful reason brought by the Mohnish lady the - maybe was written by Absalom or Cabot's the one who wrote Mahadevi see he says that ha maan claimed about the Unison nation about the Jewish people that they were Mahfuz iruma farad Ben Harmon they were spread out and that he understands to mean that they didn't get along they were nice to each other there was my ficus one with another and because of that that's why they deserve to be destroyed and don't worry about it they don't have any sweets they don't have enough not merit in order to save them and the remedy was least Kinesis calling who them you gather all the hood them together and bring out those one with another and that's how eventually we were saved so we give much Louis Manos to spread it to spread Athos here I'm thinking of you this is for you you're a friend of mine and the person says wow thank you so much that's so nice here you could have one in return and that's supposed to spread friendship actually in halakhah there could be 79 differences between these two reasons many one reason is that the person should have food for the suit though the other reason is just to spread friendship so may I ask you a question can you give clothing furnish law kimonos see thing with me now of course you can't give clothing well it depends according to the first reason that there food for the suit though so clothing is not good enough but the spread friendship finally I'll be my player I'll be great friends with somebody who gives me a new suit and a new pair a new pair of shoes can can you give something raw for the Suzhou can there furnish law kimonos so as far as food for the Sudha it's not good enough because now they have to go cook it that's not readily available but it's a spread friendship sudden gives me a raw piece of steak I'll be the best friend as far as then it's not a promise they give you small models and the person says no it's okay fine no thank you I don't want to take it so it could spread friendship but they didn't get so there's many many differences but those are two beautiful differences and those are two beautiful reasons for mich las manos and that the first I'm explained that that is one of the major themes of Purim of late Kinesis college abuddin that was supposed to bring the Altos and perm is a time that even if a person is not getting along with somebody now's the time to make amends to accept apologies to go out of your way to spread friendship with others why is it that so many times we don't feel that closeness to another year and the answer is that we feel like wasn't and you are you and and what do I have to do with you okay we'll get along but to be friends nice very there's a phenomenal Gomorrah you can look up the Gemara so come on man all her stuff llamas I animal olive together with Titus and the Shi Tomoko bet says over there a fascinating tomorrow the Gemara says a story of two brothers that they were fighting over an inheritance their father passed away and there was au Russia so like we know so many times unfortunately there comes a mock Leykis when it comes to you Russia oh well this one was out of the ordinary what happened was like this their two sons but one of the people one of the sons had two heads he had two heads so the McLucas was this individual with two heads are they one person or is it two people meaning the Gemara just talks about is someone who had two heads but takes his brains and the shitty competitors brings this story and it makes a big difference if it's one person so they get it fifty-fifty if he claimed they're not I'm two people cuz I have two heads so I should get two thirds as you get two thirds of the Arusha who said how do you answer such a question how do you prove if this person is one individual or they're two individuals so the it brings that this happened in the times of schlemm I'm Ella and you know what ml is did to figure it out slamming Elif said like this he brought this individual into the base mattress into the bed then he took a brown paper bag I don't know if that brown paper bags back then but it took something and he covered the head one of the heads of this individual and he poured hot water on the other head and the other head started screaming out in pain not just the head that had poured their water on even the one that didn't see anything he poured he screamed out in pain shrim ml have said well you see from here that it's all one person so that's not what he wanted to hear so he only gets a yes fifty percent not two-thirds but that is the way we see if you a person considers them like one individual with somebody else or is it somebody separate when somebody else is in pain then that shows that you feel one with the other individual and I have this host of teaching in four different high schools that slash seminaries two girls in Brooklyn in Passaic where I live and in Edison and I was host as well of giving a Wednesday night cheer to post seminary girls most of them have were my students in high school and now they're after seminary so they want to have a shear once a week so they email me questions with a lot of questions or hash call for questions that they want to discuss want discussed in this year so one of the girls wanted to know she said it's anonymous I don't know who it was but she wanted to know how does a person really know if their might hold somebody now somebody asks for forgiveness and you say yeah I'm Michael you but how do you really know if the hatred is out of your heart since obviously an heiress the girl a girl really they want she wants she wants to forgive somebody but she's not a hundred percent sure has she really fully gotten to that point so now I was like this there's an affair in the entire place it's not so he's all over that huh it's a real evader it's not just bad needless to hate somebody so the first room give guidelines of what is considered hatred or not and the place can say based on a famous passuk initially the puss ik says Beneful are you are you've called Altis ma don't be happy so crime connects Key says Sheinberg says but it's ready from earlier sources that if something bad happens to somebody else I'm sure none of you have ever had this that somebody that you're not really it may be a little bit jealous of maybe somebody else that has the same job as you and something bad happens and it feels a little good it feels a little good pastor Shawn I would never do that to them but once it happened to them you know feel uh you don't feel so bad you feeling even a little bit happy that shows that a person is transgressing this Avera then it shows your know you've been a follow you out this man don't be happy for person is happy that shows that they're not they're not really at the point where they're supposed to be and if there was somebody who passed away recently his name was Robbie cats esteem Edwin cats in scene and he was a mile for many many years and I could tell you as a mile I know a lot of myelin not all myelin in the tri-state area without a doubt but I got to know a lot of different Milan and and I was I started off as a mile an hour to throw and I moved back to Passaic twelve and a half years ago almost almost thirteen years ago and this roughly katzenstein I didn't get a chance to be Menaka mobile because his son Lucas got sixteen who was also a phenomenal mile he was sitting Shiva in Washington Heights and I did not get a chance to go there but I remember when I went when I was starting off as a mile I started off an heir to throne they were always so nice to me and the fact that I was a young mile trying to break in you know Parker my father a piece of Kron has you know helped me break in they were always so nice it come coming to the office with me come you could watch and I asked them questions and they answered the questions but covered goggle that's a high my draga a lot of people when it comes to someone who has the same business as you and they open up a shop so to speak right down the block in the same neighborhood and you could just share your ideas share advice that shows another Mahavira that shows nicer but oil in kaveri and that shows less noise as color yahudim and I was talking with you just a few moments ago about my uncle my uncle I don't know if you've heard of my uncle of common chrome my father's brother and he was in Lakewood for many many many years and he was a tremendous I Heathrow my father was Maspeth in Lakewood in the Laker base Madras I had a Bristol mornings I wasn't able to be by the ice paid him but I got home in time to watch the spade them you know live stream and my father was nowhere near the first of the my speed the mother Lakewood Russia she was who first so I got home in time to to watch my father tested and my father said one of the many beautiful things that my father said Bible Isaiah about his own younger brother which is uh not not an easy thing to do to be mastered a person's in our only younger brother and he said a story that I think he said by the Aspen if I remember correctly that my uncle was once in arity stroll and he was in a taxi and the taxi driver was no yarmulke notes it sis and and then not not from so my uncle sits in the front seat and he says to the taxi driver he says you know I'm not him we're brothers so the taxi driver said very strongly sir no no no of him we're not brothers so my uncle said what do you mean why are you saying that she says glad that even II know that T because you're from your religious and I'm not religious so we're different than each other so anybody who knows my uncle it's as is classic your smiling is I think you already know the story even yeah my uncle said no I had a Rebbe that taught me that we're brothers so the taxi drivers who who's arrived who is your who's your Rabi that taught you that that we're brothers so only my uncle could say this he says Hitler Hitler was my Hitler taught me that we're brothers what do you mean by that this obviously Hitler you maximum he didn't differentiate whether person's religious not religious Luc's vishka see this Ganassi sorry didn't make a difference a person's a yet a person's a year so he used for the negative the those that say in that a mod that that the Nazis are part of a Moloch because doesn't have to be a specific nation the Ramba might might sound like that so perfect forum to you know to say stories against against the the Nazis and he says we're brothers and and the the taxi driver was so shocked by my uncle statement that I don't even I've ever been in Israeli taxi drivers then I they don't drive necessarily also slowly and calm but he was spinning he couldn't believe it he started shaking my uncle thought he was gonna get in a car accident and he says the taxi driver told me uncle you want to know you're one in a million so my uncle said no I'm not one in a million I'm doing a million because we're brothers and and that's what he was trying to teach him that doesn't make a difference whether we're the same as each other where they were different at each other but that that is what Purim teaches us that we're all together listen Isis call how you who'd them only them no matter who they are and the truth is and we know there's a famous kumara the Gemara says that in the times of Purim after the gula came over key blue clients all wasn't half of the tire once again the come on Shabbos top patience tells us that we were meant to Kabul the Torah once again and we find it something interesting if you look up the puck of chemo Vicki blue you'll notice that this was called the Creole kisses a Cree except there's no love it says Kim Oh Vicki blue without of love at the end why is that so my father's reputable Cohn said a beautiful shop says we find in Paris yes right at the POSIX says Valley hunch um you throw naked her heart so rash she wants to know a famous Rashi why does it say that ye can it should save a yacht I knew is plural why does it say in Russian Yahud sera she says she is a hot believer hood they were all together völkisch deliver her alters Armand coned we see that that's a prerequisite for Kabbalah cetera it has to be artists in class or has to be after some clients or to have the true Kabbalah cetera and that's why there's no vote because it says it as if it's washing singular key move icky bill they all women cobble it as one all together as one that's the way we were able to be Makabe the tiger I want to tell you a beautiful story one of my favorite stories and it comes to tessin there was a young rug in South Africa his name was rabbi Tanzer yogurt answer and this rabbit answer a very special a very special man a very special individual and he had this show in South Africa but his father lived in Barra Park had a father lived in Borough Park and this father of his was getting older he wasn't really able to take care of himself and somebody called Robert and in South Africa and said you should just know they know you're not near your father but I'm telling you your father really he can't really be by himself anymore I really think that you should tell your father to come to you in South Africa and live by you I guess his mother was not alive anymore she said okay thanks for letting me know and I don't see him from day to day I don't have contact with him day on day to day basis good so this elder rabbi Tenzer he went to South Africa and he stayed and he lived by his son it was a man in the show his name was Brian and this of high him right away he took a liking to what they called the old man Tanzer that's what they got to call him old man Tanzer and he came he picked them up the rug was very busy so he went to the house and he picked up old man Tanzer and brought him to Sheol and he helped him carry his Thomas and his filling and eventually this old man Tanzer got a little older and he needed help putting on his Tallis and his filling and he needed people to drive him to the doctor as his son was very busy which I'm sure his son did a lot for him but this time Goldberg he was with him day after day after day taking care of him eventually this whole minute answer couldn't even go to show anymore he got even older and this some time he came to the house and he puts feeling on him in the house and he diamonds with him in the house and he took care of him eventually eventually this over in Tanzer got even older and he passed away mr. Brian came one time that he had to go to New York he had to go to New York for a business conference it was in New York for a week a week or so and he had to be in New York over Shabbos where's he gonna go for Shabbos he doesn't know anybody he's from South Africa he doesn't know anyone in New York he figured I'll go to barb Park we've got a barb Park he knows that there's a lot of you didn't barb Park there's nowhere to park in Borough Park but but at least there's a lot of Union that are that he could spread that he could spend with so he's not gonna go and ask somebody stay for the whole Shabbos so this is a hotel he found a hotel in bara Park and he'll stay in the hotel and he figured listen he's from out of town right so and out of town everybody's very nice so of course he's gonna get invited out for the Shabbos meals about just in case just in case he took he bought two little challah rolls and a little bit of fish and a little bit of grape juice but he's not gonna need it I'm saying he's just gonna go to Sheol and of course he's gonna get an invitation so which hole to go through there's so many shows in Borough Park he has no idea so he goes he picks and maybe the closest show to uh to UM to the hotel and this is nothing against Barbara Shalom I love barb Park I teach there it's our box of normal place unfortunately I have shows like this in many different neighborhoods this show that was talking they flew through the davines it was like whoa there's not what he was expecting and nobody said to Chavez to him nobody said hello he's like standing by the door waiting for someone to invite him for the sudah nobody says anything to him that's it everybody's gone and he's left all alone what's he gonna do so he leaves he leaves the show he starts walking back to the hotel and he sees another show he stops by the show he looks inside they're singing and it's beautiful everybody's diving I mean that's that's the way it should be so he ready Davin's he ready fitted me he should go in and just stand there and wait for an invitation and they felt awkward they don't want to do that so he just went back to the hotel and he had his two little buckle often he had the grape juice and wasn't gosh man I wasn't the one he was expecting wasn't what he was hoping for the next morning he's not going back to that same soul he's gonna go back to the Sheol that he that he passed by on the way home he comes there I don't know eight eight-thirty was like a few people there he's like is there a minyan sure doesn't mean you then that's all 9 935 take a seat there's plenty of seats available he chooses the seat takes out of commish and he learns in full chakras comes it's all downing the Dom is there the Dobbin he was beautiful people came over to him and said hello they gave him a time we are after diving they said show Malaysian they said what's he named were you from he says my name isn't I am and I'm from South Africa so they set them out South Africa do you know tan sir I said of course I know Tanzer is my row of rabbit answer is the rather the show where I diamond I said no not not the old man old man there mr. Tanzer I said what do I know of course I know him I took care of him for years I helped him and I and I and I helped him man and show and I helped him in his house and I took care of him so much of course I know we were very very close he said you know that he doesn't in this show and you were sitting in his seat and he could not believe it you know many seats there are in Borough Park you count all the shoals together in Borough Park and all the seats that he could have sat in and that's the seat that he sat in the seat of old man Tanzer and they and when they found out that he was you did of this rabbit answer they they couldn't get enough of him and they were fighting over him who's gonna have him for the suit though and who's gonna have him for four shall I show this and and and it was a pleasure it was it was and he realized that the husband was taking care of him maybe in the sauce of the HESA that he did for that old man Tanzer that's what was gonna take care of him at least for the shop is day he was able to get a beautiful suit and I was able to save his Chaves so many times why is it that that we heard sometimes we hurt people's feelings everybody has had that at some point in the life where you say something and and by mistake you didn't realize it in II didn't understand the situation and a person hurt somebody's feelings so many times it's not that we have bad intentions it's not that we're trying to hurt somebody's feelings cause for show them okay people have a temper sometimes and they say something not nice okay but that's that's not for us over here usually it's something that's by mistake but so many times it's not it's just a matter of thinking twice and it's a common sense is not so common so many times it's just a matter of being careful of what you say and my father always talks about when you come to be Menachem móvil along Elaine come on in the salon a person has to sit Shiva so you come you want it and people don't know what to say especially if you don't really know you didn't really know the NIF there you'd only knew the person that's sitting Shiva or vice-versa a person doesn't really know what to say I know somebody that his father passed away on muhtaram kipper says if your mother's if America subas that says that it's a tremendous house it's really special too for someone to be lifted on mots IAM kipper because that's an indication that they had shoes on the feel of a capella and then they were able to go to the Luminess so his sitting Shiva for his father and I guess it's a short Shiva right because it gets cut off by a circus and someone's sitting there he says Wow your father was nifty on mutts 'i'm kipper what a source so the person said skies mr. chen by you you know now's not the time to tell him that you know there was this a social source that same individual never these sometimes these things happen to certain people that same individual his mother passed away a year later and someone came to be Menaka marvel for his mother and the guy said i mean you can't make this up the guy said to him Wow last year was your father this here's the mother who's gonna be next year somebody and it's just a matter of common sense and so many times it's not even that we said something wrong but the person is so extra sensitive I tell you a woman one time told me at Sudeikis of a woman her husband passed away her husband was a tremendous namaha home and she was a bolivia obviously very very very difficult for her and that has paid them were phenomenal so many beautiful things to say about this individual and somebody made a long trip to come to the Lavanya because he felt that that it was important and they otama haha man he was very close to me he made the long trip so he saw the wife and he said to the wife wow that's paid them duis they were amazing he was consigned to make the trip you know just to hear they're speeding and she was so insulted she told me she said what it was kadai for my husband to die Josie you could hear some good has paid them I was like that's not what he said he didn't sure that's not what he said but that's how she took it that's that's mommas how she took it in her time of SAR a person needs to be so careful you can never you can never know what the person really understands it as and I tell you something interesting some of you may be something I see some bottom over here maybe your introduction or some those of you are married maybe have children introduction I'm not telling you how so I'm not here to tell you what to do I could tell you what my Russia Shiva made a rule I'm I'm from originally from Kew Gardens in Queens so I learned in yeshiva shy retire so Sharon Thoreau not charade Tara Tara Munsey also phenomenal Shiva but Sheraton Queens so my receiver was absolve get steamed sure a lot of you have heard of represented gaps Tina's my manager Shiva - out the condition so when I was in to look him so I didn't I was in the mirror for three years and I didn't go back to Lakewood I went back to shower Tara and I did when I was in yeshiva in shots are so I knew that zelich had a rule he had a rule for the balcony is not pass caning for dance class always fascinating for just tell me diminish Eva that when you date a girl you have to date more than you have today twice at least twice you can't they just once you have to date just at least two times so it happened once that I dated a girl and I said no after one date now I knew the receiver had this rule but I thought I figured that the rule was because listen you never know the crazier things have happened you think you think oh that's not a chance there's no way but we give it another chance you never know you know try again you know don't don't give up so quickly so I thought that that was the reason so this time I figured not this one is for sure you know it's not as I figured I could say no well I found out that that you know maybe that wasn't the reason I mentioned it to somebody and someone said no that's that's not why it's because you can't hurt the girl's feelings the girl you know a lot of times the girl doesn't have a long list so you know she gets told no after one date you know that that that could really then that could really you know hurt her feelings you have to get after even you have to go out a second time so I said well you know I didn't realize that that's why I saw I spoke to my much Kia and my Kiev said yeah yeah that's the reason because you can't hurt her feelings and this happened during an owl's man right before Rosh Hashanah Yom Kippur so I said okay I told my much gif I said okay fine you know now I'll know for the future I won't do it again he said no you have to go out again I don't know if Rebbe understands I said I already told the shop said the shopton already told the girl no it says no you can't hurt her feelings before Russia Shannon Kippur you can't hurt her feelings and he made me go out again and it was and okay and then okay it didn't work and then I said no after the second date fine you know but but at least and you you couldn't so many times when a person is in a in a compromised situation its compromised situation know a lot of girls out there they don't have long list a lot of boys nothing I've long this a person has to be so careful I was such a lesson for me from my Rebbe from my Russia Sheva how a person extra sensitive and rubs a leg was all for Lima not tire I can guarantee you that and if I wouldn't have gone out on a second date where would I've been in the base bed rest learning no no no no you have to be you have to be sensitive to to other people I'll tell you a story that happened once with my brother and I as I mentioned I have this list of teaching Halawa in several places and one of the hollows that I teach is kosher kitchen a local subconscious in the kitchen as I was upstairs in the base marriage before so somebody called me or the question that there's a lack of question that a cleaning lady in the house they cook something good so you know you got to learn how well you get to help people out teaching a lot of fun answering Silas so one of the Home Office that I teach when it comes to kosher kitchen is all awful that I'm sure some of you are familiar with especially those of you who have been to camp that you're not supposed to keep food underneath your bed you're not supposed to keep food underneath the bed good a great discussion let's say it's packaged let's say busy every night for now but you're not supposed to keep free no supposed to go to sleep with food underneath your bed so at home you think okay oh well I'm gonna have food underneath my bed but in camp it's certainly very relevant because you don't have room to keep all the gnash that you buy in a canteen so you keep it underneath you're not supposed to do that sorry my brother one time was flying from arity throw to America or from America thirties all one of the other and what happened was he was just getting ready you know putting on his seat belt getting ready to start the flight and yeah it's behind him perhaps him on the shoulder and says show more wake up say that welcome did can I ask you a favor so my brother said yeah well what can I do for you says I have food and you know where do you have packaged so will you keep it there's two choices if you could keep it on the you know the overhead bin on top of you or underneath the seats in front of you so he asked my brother he says I have a package of food I want to keep it underneath the seat underneath your seat can you do me a favor can you not sleep the whole flight so my brother this was like one of these overnight flights that like if you don't sleep now that's it you're jet-lagged you know like for the rest of your life it's that so my brother's like I have a better idea maybe keep the food underneath your seat instead of my seat so you know that was insensitive so my brother said I'm sorry I'm Maskin but that's just a matter of just like thinking twice before before a person says something before a person asks something a person you know sometimes a person just needs just needs to think who is the most the the person that we find in the Torah that the most cared for somebody else and now make sure they know you know we're approaching Zion other as far as yard site is concerns it's a great discussion in the PI scheme if a person is lifter during a door so when is the and then what is the yard site when it comes to when there's another region another Shaney so quite possible by yard site it's by a division but sigh another is definitely not far either it's in a week or it was three weeks ago but either way we know the moonship he knew his yard site is Zion adder why was my sharpener chosen to be the one to lead Claro so the plastic says by the snare by the burning bush said says that - em sake sir Leroy's that must have been returned to see says the mattress a famous mattress that Misha be new he turned to see what other people needed what's the exact washing of the mattress the mattress says Tsar's and literary Spitzer and Shelley's row now make sure been returned to see the tower of Claro Lathika really Australia alayan therefore he is fit to be the Shepherd over them and of Hasek 11 Stein's points out that why was my show boehner chosen not because of his God was in Tyra not because of his hokhmah but because he was serve the rice and all the good Dunham or about all of our good item they're all surly rice to look and care for somebody else just last week I heard a beautiful word in the name of Robert Russell antor Universal answer started the Muslim movement so he was teaching all his Tommy them mustard mustard mustard well he had one tom and by the name of her bits or patty burger a bit so patty burger was a god ol entire yet said God wasn't IRA so those who were opposed to the Muslim movement they begged her be strong be strong answer he says leave him alone leave 1:1 let him box let him grow and Tara everybody else you could teach muster but let him grow and tell her I'll let him be a goblet air why do you have to like so to speak has to show him bother him with Mooser service all cylinders said about the cavort and a teacher who's Broca's in 11th grade in the shock of Passaic so I enjoyed this word very much Abbess awesome aunty said that is a loss and help us brockless and if you have two foods that are the same profit each other and one of them is Charlayne one of them is whole but the other one is much bigger which one do you make a broth on what's that waha says the chef/owner if you make the broth on the shelling even if it's small a small bulk alone but you have a big Hollow but it's cut its cut in half you make the one on the Shaolin she says we see from here that schliemann's comes before godless that's a beautiful words slain was comes before God was she says I'm gonna teach him Muslim he could grow to be a gullible tiger which he did as well but she'll Amos comes before godless and I think that's fits perfectly with this this idea of replica Levenstein that that's why my Shabana was chosen because schwas comes before godless anybody know who is moisture of a new a Gil goal of who is he a goggle of what so he was a goggle of no yeah he was a goggle of nya as a matter of fact there are some safer points out that he was a good there was for people that had the same neshama what does the word neshama stand for none is for no yeah Shin is for chase ma'am is from Isha and hey is for heaven so if you go chronologically as Havel heaven was killed by kyon then was chased the same neshama chase was not yeah and now your host Michelle what was it that no I've had to be Misaki and Nona had to fix that he had to come back so the measure says that night was really in a way at fault for the mob who knows what enough do wrong what didn't he do when it came to the mob war he didn't dive in for Clouseau he didn't stick up for class all the men who says you should know said I'm not going in the table I'm not going in the table unless you save car you saw he didn't do that he didn't do that okay I tried my best and I tried to teach everybody for the past hundred twenty years they didn't listen okay me and my family you know we'll be saved it's a shame about the rest of Kleiser he should have stuck up for classroom and because of that he came back as a Google as moisture Boehner weird didn't my sure of a new overcome his Messiaen that he stuck up for Klaus row by the my say a go but a glass of the klystron did the a go what are my champagne who say I shall you have to be macabre you have to get you have to be Michael them if not much rain enormous Africa a circus after white me out what was the marble cold the novel was called main oh yeah the waters of Noah cuz nayeth was responsible and moisture Boehner took the word made the words name no yeah name you had Nunez and he switched around the letters to Mahaney mania is Matheny and that's where he overcame this is sayin many many connections between moisture of a new and no yeah why was moisture I been who called moisture what is moisture come from came in a Miami she Co which water was he saved from from the mob oh he was saved from the marble because naayak was saved from the marble what was my sure being a little baby Moshe what was he put in a basket what is the tale record at a votes usually not called the taper it's called the tenor a Sal it's called the table cuz my show and no yahoo were saved by eight Ava many many more similarities the forty days of the marble was could have been the 40 days of Kabbalah cetera there's many many many much more I was thinking you know based on I was thinking the connection you know my job a new table Shem don't I'm not the one I'm not the I'm not the one new to you know to lead clients all and I said no no you're gonna be the one you're gonna be the one and most being said I told you already from the first time that it's not it's not my personality so then before my bothered what I mean I told you already from before this is the first time as I was speaking to my chef I think it's from Maya from the times of Maya already it's not my personality to stick up for everybody and to speak out that sense of lead I'm not the type of guy and a chef said no this is your job I'm a chef a new overcame because he was a surly Royce he stood up for Clio and that's something that we see of my Sabino and Zion Adler this time Oh perfect my Cobain was born as I another so what day was his bris important ok so the words like that says he was born with a bris maybe as a toughest ambrus was on Purim that's why there's so many children so many people named my son more the time because if someone was born as I know the bris is on his arm Forbes could say as a mile I I like that observation that's why you have so many major mortar fights but that's what this time of Adler is teaching us and that's one of the main themes that we need to learn from either let me end off with once one more story hundreds of years ago there was an incident in in Greece in a city called actually Syracuse in Greece and well what happened was like this that there was a community in sin in Greece that there was there was a king the King of Sicily would come to different towns that he ruled over and the way was then that when the king came to town oh the people in the town Jewish not Jewish it didn't make a difference they had to come out and greet the king and show honor to the king how do the Jewish people show honor so they knew the King knew that they had to bring the city tiger now there was 12 Shoals in Greece in in that area and Syracuse at the time and each one of them they're all Sparky so those of you familiar dominant is fried usual the safer Terriers that they have another Garcia a tiger they're gorgeous they're they're they're huge another big case and is the gold or silver on the outside with a parejas it's beautiful they would come out to greet the king now this howling issues with moving cetera it's not so easy in Halawa to just move sifrit area wherever you need so they realized you know we have a great idea what we'll take out the citrate IRA from the cases will go out with these beautiful cases but it'll be empty the King won't have any idea and that's what they did every time the king came to the city a new and advanced they took out this a fighter from the inside they closed it up and they came out beautiful with the city tiger they had no idea that that really was empty and and it was a big secret well there was this one year never that he went off the dara he went off the dark became a knight it became an epic Harris and he wanted to get back at the hidden those the worst he wants to get back at the hidden and he told the King he says you know what the Jews they really hate you they despise you when they come out with this a free tiger it's really empty you know why they do that because they don't like you they pretend as if they like you but they really don't like you now that wasn't the truth they like the King very much it's just that how logically they didn't feel that it was the right thing to do but he said no it's really couldn't hate you he says yeah I'm gonna test it out and he told them that in a week he's coming and he wants them to come out with this a free tiger the night before the king came the gabbai in one of the shoals had a dream and a man came to him in the dream and said that tomorrow the king is gonna come he's gonna test you he's gonna tell you to open up those sea free tiger you better make sure not to take and he woke up in the morning and he quickly ran to the other god billion of the 12 Shoals and amazingly some of the other Shoals some of the other god William had the same dream and they kept the they kept the separate IRA inside the cloth inside the King had them open it and he would the king was mortified she didn't trust them really it was inside the whole time and he was so embarrassed and he felt so bad that he was like Clash of cheering so to speak so he gave them three years that they don't have to pay any taxes and this epic larious he had him hanged in the City Square and they made it into a small poem that happened on the 17th day of Shabbat and was called Polamalu which is like the sperm cotton like a small for him and they made like their own with Google on their own Magilla very talented but Lila who know the darkness you know the of the GABAA and they made a whole thing that he couldn't fall asleep and and they made it into their own for him their own perm cotton they had to show honor for their king we know the MER freshmen tell us that whatever it says hemella in the in McGillis esther that's really deep down it's referring to our king to our cottage borough fool and the best way one of the best ways to show honor to our king how cutters Buraku is to show love to everybody else for all children our cutters burrow who Bhanumati Amish Emily Canham when you give honor to a person's children that shows honor to the father when you're nice to a child the father loves that the mother loves that that is that is the lesson of Purim des - em through actors and Ava's heathrow will be able to take this time of other speakers goola goola that's why I've proven either SHANY will be able to go into the month of listen Vanessa a new governess and I see them and that's Australia you should all see the Google in our time [Music] [Applause]