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but of course a person needs to know
that if you know whether they have the
heretical gene or not do you look for
excuses to justify the uh the Torah or
to justify that t is wrong uh you know
because you don't want to change because
many times this happens we had a
question where a person asked uh about
promiscuity uh specifically with women
and themsel you know and they uh they
asked whether this is allowed whether
it's allowed for a woman to be by
herself and of course we've brought many
sources over the years about the issues
of morality and even in the issues of uh
of of a woman uh by herself we brought
the gr Moshe Moshe Feinstein who says
that uh it's a not only forbidden for
woman to do such a thing but uh it
creates demons this is simply uh the
same language that the Benish said so
whether you're ashkanazi and follow of
ainstein or Safari of and follow
the and many of the from the Safari
tradition you have plenty of people to
rely on to realize that these things are
forbidden but more than anything else a
person needs to know
that put certain uh nature within a man
certain nature within a woman where Asin
says in that each time a person gets
punished with something he'll notice
that whatever he got punished was
something that he did something wrong
with it why because a usually gives you
a problem in the places you need to fix
in the place you need to fix all of a
sudden you have an eye issue perhaps
you're looking at places you shouldn't
look uh you're uh you have a problem
with your head perhaps you're thinking
about things you're not supposed to look
you have a problem with your hand maybe
you're doing things you're not supposed
to be doing and so on and so forth the
point being is is that says that a
person needs to understand that a is
giving you that tun over there
specifically specifically to give you
the clear message the clarity to fix to
fix that to fix that particular
situation or else there would be no
point for him giving us suffering or
else there would be no point but then
people don't want to necessarily listen
and you tell them listen you know what
even if you want to ignore the giant Pim
that we brought over the years simply
listen to your body every single person
whether male or female young or old Jew
or Gentile as soon as they are doing
things that are immoral whether it's
with themselves or different promiscuity
with others the immediate feeling they
get after it is distasteful uh
depression uh emptiness something not
good the lust that they had the
excitement that they had beforehand is
not only gone it's a you know forgotten
memory it's the feeling that a person
has after is nothing in comparison to
what they had before but whereas a
person does something in Holiness with
his wife a woman with a husband in a
holy way they don't have that same
feeling how come when a person Wast seed
when a person is uh is is promiscuous
with themselves or with others they get
a negative feeling very similar to a
drug addict that takes a drug and then
the drug gets out of his system and all
of a sudden he goes into a sudden
depression a sudden low why because
instilled this into your body to make
sure that you realize this is wrong you
don't feel this when you're with your
husband you don't feel this when you're
with your wife but you do feel this when
it's not with your husband you do feel
this when you're alone you do feel all
this why you feel this negativity
because is simply giving you a clear
message this is not good so if you don't
care about creating demons and mikim
that the Feinstein spoke about and spoke
about and spoke about still listen to
your body your body is not happy with
this it's not worth
it
honesty helped countless people get
closer
to because For the First Time in their
life they hurt honesty Hony that's
brutal but is effective is
effective
