Rabbi Azriel Brown's Hesped on Rabbi Dovid Trenk ztz"l at Yeshiva Gedola and Mesivta of Carteret

[Music] said that that boxer that he flew to Denver to meet had a son to see she was finish a so keeps going also tall he is so maybe some of the stories lost a little bit watch the influence was of this fair I'm not talking about you not felling talking about my share but what he accomplished my colleague besides being but he started an organization for cast a lake which every Muhammad and the tri-state area and beyond and it keeps growing and growing is gets tremendous help were forth both took us and paste that I don't know multi multi-billion dollar operation at this point I'm sure it's done be covered rad like he can't imagine and Naphtali started this organization he runs it on the side besides weddings now a tremendous Chimere used to go and watch the distributions of cos daily because all the cosmic lanes the people's ass gun him and the people who were involved in it where his time either so he went to chef Mathis but he went to show them how much nakos he's getting from them that's why he went so when you hear about a 13 year old boy you can't Adelphia do is measure shear and he that 13 year old boy is somebody who made all my pacer and ice godless and Kassadin having thousands of rabbihim and the Hamptons lives realm around the country this that's one small example of a change that every mechanics in this room is netted from when the constant basis anybody who's been in Carteret for any length of time it's heard last few years every single time spoken BC in the Shiva he would got up and even tell the story they're about to see all Salomon was here in Carter and dancing in the streets and the sacred tired of the Sun came out and the snow stopped so the kedusha and Power Co Salomon dancing the same attire in the streets of carbon I see everybody's nodding their heads everybody every single time really as five years that he spoken Carter vet he was telling us over why did the I was thinking listening why why did he feel such a need to tell us though so my sure knew what living in Carter and and what being in Carter met the small smaller than Adele fear of the Goldman to there's not the enemy zoomin of zoom in if we count you know children but children but otherwise when the she was not here there's two families that live in Carteret and part of his being the Kazakh both rabbi meir myself was twice telling us constantly than I thought the things that go along with everything else but he wanted to tell us that what we're doing here and he what he wanted to tell the what he wanted to tell everybody else is what we're doing here is something that is vital and I love us and that's why he did it wasn't saying it because he was the small for the nation for some coming out of it wasn't it wasn't it nice but that's why he constantly emphasized that point to be massaged it like he did everything else to be metallic somebody goes everything he did was to be Mahalo to me maybe some of you don't won't find this as mind-blowing historias as I found I found the pool the stories I heard during Shiva this to be was with my shrubbery lake essentially done within the room when my call Rebbetzin Trisha Cutler to tell her how well Ramon kill Cutler's book now good my first job he viewed his life's mission to be MacIsaac both know he's calling Rebbetzin Cutler to tell her that her son who's the biggest Russia Shiva in the world right spoke well why did he do it because you know it would make her feel man feel good it's gonna make her feel great I her she knows her son is a huge Thomas awesome ed speaks well doesn't matter it's gone to be Matt Hossack somebody's trying to bring somebody suka so that's what he then picked up the phone and he called her and he happened to be in the room at the time my sugar but otherwise first of all a we wouldn't know but be he probably sounds like he did that often he did that to her several times if he did that to her I would imagine other evidence other possible relatives also got similar for most but that one who thinks who thinks of that who thinks too cool rap malkiel's mother to tell her how well these folk know anything nobody sits where my field brother thinking about her mother but that's what that's the way he thought and that's I mentioned that at the Leviathan but I think it's cooler that every bathroom here every everybody here can the thing that struck me is the strongest when I first joined the family was how much my share was Mohammed his mother his mother lived in Brooklyn by use every tranq Department needs to go from adelphia mixed in with the whole schedule that rather rabbi Goldman mentioned and there are other parts of that schedule than trying to figure out when they fit in this including carpool and driving Google over etc driving flying to Denver and he would go at least three times a week and certainly if there was anything going on she had a sniffle she would but besides that he would go three times a week drive to Brooklyn say hello to his mother turn around come back that Dunphy yes does she miss mister he went to his older brother of pain you do the same thing as older sister same thing you would go and visit three times three times before tonight I don't know exactly how many times but or the constant constant faces he would just pick up dry in Brooklyn which was whatever two-hour drive it without with that with traffic at a normal time and turn around and come back this what accounts the base is that first of all camp it was an album but it was keep it ain't keeping half keep it up nice he just felt he just read he knew we make me feel good to see him he went he then I lived in in in she Berlanga 401 you should elaine was i could collapse keys the kind of Lou Groza last couple years was the most evil thing so before that he was duh like a cheer for 50 years and there he still lived in the building Shiva let's say Shabbos I met the father of mine malaysia rapper who also lived in the building with her cholesky we both look together and make sure told me that she was a neighbor so map like a friend if it is obviously but you know he mr. Pete was friendly with him he which was women learning anything else coping reports and learning but he's much better 1/10 oz for shelves and he saw like he was cowering in front of collision acceptance if this is roommate rank is is like but failure of collapse people what am i doing he was like that with all Tommy which may be but doing many more good day when we call you so according to my shirt then according to anybody else this person is a goblin that person is ago but they would tell me the common man don't get me wrong but that they would good night Lisa was the government guard this is five or six maybe there's more than that I don't know I think how you can know my shirt heat that's how we reacted to them tell me he related any compliment certainly somebody who is who is bigger than a regular column losses but past that later and that takes them nicely there we go and so that he would jump up and a Paris Area Convention and be myself covered his bathroom the covered these bokram nanny that had no nobody speaking up for them it takes that and triples what he did because he was familiar from those good idea he was you talk about rebellious am II was and but but to speak off for his for his boys how bout I've even talked about kicking out of it shouldn't even be on the table I had terms so dementia they can't be son he would jump off lady as he said they don't want you there so he told me they don't want me to come but that was he had discovered on Titan but he was my bottle that cover that thereõs we want to say it that way he learned for a whole his whole life he could imitate exactly did Mac in general what he did by each year he could tell him over he would tell you over the Raiders overly said of this so good or thereabout man that he spoke out on that serve you with the motions were with the with the exact things that he did during this year he would imitate him join the family is my struggle she would imitate his real family he came for a came from that he imitated have a map to faster don't make fun of them for carrot another see because he absorbed every nuance of what they had to give over and I can a whole life he considered himself the town marshal running to the extent that his children sleep though they should the Buggles hang they should they should he would keep my cache of them like they were responsible with him because he was just like he viewed himself as the album all his company than himself is a band of virtual brother okay and anybody was related or connected he viewed himself as a member of their family and they knew him as a member of their family because that's how that's how he acted everything he gave over he gave over as this is what I was gonna cobble for my era baby mentioned before that he was coming up the road I think that he hasn't been here a whole like he viewed himself as being mash up their personal and then he went to Baltimore he became a dorm counselor for one year in Baltimore and the whole life he did I mean at least the majors that was in Baltimore he could but he would always be me access back to that one year I think he learned through everyone bring that in that year and he considered he told me when we got when when I got married he told me he yes sir every women maybe the schools that he had that the one year he was there maybe that's how he was I'm self tanner you saw son a little bit I think the real that's the real Larry so the narrative real now you saw us but he was me access back to that and then he went back to here became a rabid a little time and he became a ready for all the boys and all the graces that couldn't go and fend the other class because nobody else would have would happen and I already told the mesh figure when he was considered moving todavía I'm W so who's gonna take me boy she said they won't have to me but in other words from ready from gracious beaker up so to speak he that's that's what he was he was somebody who was justly mentioned that he could have he could have sent a shear he could have said that he could have been an achievement he wasn't receiving that but that's he wasn't interested in that he was interested in being the fasiq teaching bathroom and taking welcome that nobody else saw there - nobody else knew who they were that's how he viewed it nobody else knew who they were and turning them into what they could become even before that he was a peer say I can't you know 30 years lady was jumping over tables of what was he as a fearsome leader it's hard to imagine but he viewed a beautiful womans as a ray of his and how to teach how to teach these kind of come at it get people excited he always used to say over that the his Rebbe in our JJ when he was 11 12 years old he used to tell them if you're good and tell you the cash in places like the reward of warning what's the reward of learning more learning your founding you do this and you learn well I'll tell you twice this is passion like it when he said it over you can see him reliving that moment that it was so exciting to hear what Isis's cash was is 11 as a 12 year old boy the Rebbe mate look the reward of learning was learning you once told me you never you never give a reward to get more you know you learn well you get extra recess exactly that's the reverse of this where you telling voices being office Koosh math that's nothing you tell boys you tell what learning more is mortgage man if you could learn this you could learn more you got more out of it so let me go and say he was over at me all this everything else but he had a henchman and how he gave things overall so somebody said over that they came into the class and once and he was hanging outside the window with his head in the window upside down teaching cliffs you have to be you have to be in very good shape but the excitement that gave over in the Hetson teaching was also a focus it was also something that he gave over that the learning itself is sluggish Mac it's not just that I love you it's not just that you're giving but learning tighter and tighter so be sure there's nothing greater than that and teaching that giving that over with something that was a major Taylor so making cool this if they're doing this it has made them over to the public he said he wants to cut his belly either his father is a shepherd of future lame-o with the banal and insurance see what my grandchildren went and my fair knew him from earlier years and make sure I used to go visit him every day I knew he'd come used to go visit my nose every day he used to go visit him everything he would go we would cover shop it's understood there would be one to apply why because he was walking all over language to go to this town of simpler and this person simply visit this sick person and that's it person just to be mccarthy go to this minion where there may be something there but from that thousand at nine o'clock and they they would they could do so because like somebody jumping up and down during laning i don't know exactly but i didn't follow him around but but so it would take 3-4 hours the extra domini he would what went down the secant certainly in the earlier years and equity without man always missing him and that he would be going very like one to all the fielders thinking of all the people they can be massive and then make them excited that they saw him and therefore and give them some simpler [Music] one o'clock two o'clock depending on the depending on the the shops and exactly what was going one day and during the week it was just that he was dry he wouldn't he would do the exact same things but he wouldn't he wouldn't possibly what a few times that what was then he would either thought they'd be every but he wouldn't even say give all my spot that I mentioned a little by awesome he would say he knew from because he learner you gonna swipe children me so he bombers became his Messiah was mentioned that he used the teacher that's Wolfen as he could in in high school teacher he take out the matches in he would he be teaching from but he walk amongst you loved him obviously know with all the rain and everything anybody know that wears fall back I mentioned metal diamonds good night I say over everybody this pacer space yesterday saved this face I have been a sailor so he was he was very sure and he asked me to read it to read him with Marnie bombs so I happened to be up to duck llama Daisy sicko vectored alone now I think very great that the mission on the top I started reading in a messed up a word name directed me he wasn't looking at the idea seriously it was really not but you could say look down but he certainly knew and not only that every fourth he said would be one history but I mean when does he would whatever passion was right it was an archive my father said something about being positive Tommy didn't word about about that sort of - oh so you say over in that action you know some cipher so that was like if it was whatever whatever was what he would look he would learn looking for those merriment kindness that he could break out this you say how great everybody is how great khali soul is how quaint Tommy Tamar Howard revolution accurate atomic those were the things he focused oldest learning around that throughout the house it would have you say pronounces little slips of paper in it and all the books and apps and all the stories also and have written in front what what page to look at and that's all his bull is tired old Isabella pool is nice and he say over are marked wolf and all this fireman on the books because he wanted to be a before anything when he needed to the next time but yeah everything was focused around this what could what in this parsha he knew Raschi and kuma thrashing coke Michiko he's the Shari Arjun see he knew over my house that we love the Sharia but Tyra he said yeah i'ma holla said this would go for some refraining get him I love with the within the story of her loss of a nice Arya and how he asked his wife and the oh my everything every my sir in there every my surrogate murder that he would focus and learn it and see where can I see in here something that'll be the Kazakh people something that'll tell the Rebbe how great he is they'll tell the Talmud upgrade use that's what even though this and everything was focused around around doing such a running like just maybe one a little bit of a more personal know somebody said over somebody told over my son but it should think that I shy with the pickoff a granddaughter from somewhere Lakewood and person that that he was picking up the grades over for has a Down Syndrome child so they went it he might share with a house in Twitter and so this child of course he picked up the child and he hugged and kissed him and every time you come them to the black even stop tearing so somebody boosted hysteresis and nobody in the family like even my shirt robe wool over language bigger about talking about that he would come every Thursday come back to Edison to pick on my my children to drive them home that a because he wanted to spend time on migration I'm sure that's true but to get my wife she could say one trip in from Edison oh she could go up earlier and even do they did this we're now in carbon 14 years right he did this so last year he would drive in from Lakewood fitmode Edison pick up my kids bring them home I could say every Thursday or every week but come on because because he could give his daughter a little bit of a little bit of a rest he wasn't resting he was driving all over you come even closely careful sleep on the caps diseases but that's that's what he wanted that's - at office - the last crisis he had everything he did he wanted to help out people whatever maybe we can't get you know I was thinking overshadows imagine somebody reads the article or somebody says you know what it says in the attendance every train who's walking down the street is so a bunch of buckram that maybe weren't so a regular Buckner and he had already started dancing with them industry I'm gonna do that also he's gonna go Lakewood and he's gonna go and dance with somebody give me a worse thing to do the only reason it worked was because it was real because like really mayor said because that's who he was and that's the way that's the way where that's who he was he was somebody who just wanted to do whatever he could for the ravenna shot for Clouseau for people Schumaker should have the crisis that go on surveillance you sure