Rabbi Boaz Bardea speaking for CHAZAQ on "What we can Do to Rebuild the Bet Hamikdash"

thank you for the organization kazak they're doing so much for K and to spread the Torah all over the here and all over the world to the lectures you don't know what's the Scot that if somebody make another Jew even once just want to do any mitvah even if he didn't do it in the end just if he had the rule of thinking that maybe I'm going to change this already big big big thing because we know in the bedside for example if somebody tell tell his friend let's do any a let's go together to Cancun okay for example let's see on the beach over there and he says no no I don't want to go the guy that convince him to come did the the Tor said yes if somebody's M seit his friend let's go do say the Tor he death penalty even if the guy didn't convince you can't convince him he says no I'm but you try to take him to the bad path you get punished so how much more so if you try only to convince somebody to to become so how much more so you get even if the guy telling you it's not for me but you just try so kazak not only they try they also succeed so they have also the of the mitvah himself I want to tell you a story that thear brings down in m when it says over there the story of theban one of the reason that thear said that theban the story of the temple happened everybody know the story of Kam but there is another story not so familiar that the gar brings down the gar says was a story with one man he was the helper of the nagar nagar in in English I thing it's called Carpenter make chairs make so he was the helper of him and he come he came to him and tell listen I heard rumors about your wife so he told me what do you want me to do he says divorce her you heard rumors you heard people speak about your wife divorce her he says I don't have a proof If I divorce her I have to payba somebody divorc his wife he has to pay theba said I don't have a money I could I divorce her this helper told him don't worry I will I will lend you the money how much you need $5,000 I will give it to you and he gave him the money and the carpet this nagar divorce his wife and pay her the $5,000 he and he went and married her he went and marrier the time came he has to pay the $5,000 he call him said where the money he didn't have a money to pay you don't have money to pay me back come and work in my house and this going to be the payment there was this his ex-wife and this guy he used to P for them the the wine tears coming from his his eyes and the tears go into the cup of the wine this moment says this moment decide to destroy mikdash he come to that such a level finish what said what the says over here here if you look at this story is no a he didn't marry a Shalom big sadik this guy but hasem hate that you're doing something when your heart is not good but outside you what I do something wrong I didn't do nothing but inside everything is rotten what has wants from us that we do the action you put feel in you you go to what hasem wants our heart that we will be better we'll be better people all the Tora is only to order that we going to act better and if you keep 120 years and you stay with the same anger and the same GA and still didn't change a bit in your character in your mid so what all the what it did for you that the ram says for example if you have $1,000 what is better to give ,000 to one poor or to give, dollar to one $1 to each po thousand pools what's better says the ra it's better to give $1 to each po why in order to exercise the giving give thousand times you exercise the giving you exercise giving maybe one day you will be Giver a giver person it's different person we all the time all the just to exercise to the in know we will be better people so what hasem wants our heart not the action if you have the action and you didn't do your heart is not Shalem is not pure with AEM is only the beginning but is if all all your life you just do the action and the action you come to sh put they don't know you pray you're thinking about the Yankees it's good for the you know training but till when this week Paras we read in somebody make a vow think it's you have to whatever you took out from your your mouth you have to do you have to keep right says the when Raba came to this week Paras used to cry what what about what to cry I I wasn't sure I didn't what to cry us to cry why the Tor said over there so let's say a woman says I will not eat apples she make a nether now her husband could make the nether that is not valid the he says not good now he did it the husband says you NE there is zero but she didn't hear about it and she thought the nether still exist and she went and she had an apple she did aut the action was no a because the her husband says no nether but inside in your brain what's going on now she thinking I'm doing something against AEM the Torah says the need why you thinking something against even if you didn't do anything against him because you did you're thinking against hem it's also a you know what the thinking it's something inside in the action it didn't do nothing let's say you know Israel wants to attack Iran there is a nuclear over the nuclear they want to attack okay so let's say the the Prime Minister call the the chief of staff on the Army tell him listen tomorrow 500 a.m. all the F16 go and you destroy all the nuclear bases over there he was 9 9 9:00 in the night told him 5 in the morning 5 you going to send the army okay 11 11: p.m. who called him the president of Iran him listen I heard that's what you thinking if you stop it if you're not going to do it I'm going to deposit for you $50 million in Switzerland Bank just stop it and the chief of staff in Israel will say you know let me think about it and he will end up the phone and then he will call him an hour later and tell him listen I can't do it I can't do it to my country I can't do it to my people what do you think about this Chief of Staff if you will be the Prime Minister will let them to stay in this position huh but he didn't do it in the end will not let him stay one second how you even thought about it what do you mean let me think about it you have a thinking against your nation against your isra let's say somebody go Tosh and start to convince her and she says let me think about it what her husband will say and then she told him no Shalom I have my husband come on what the husband will say it's a good wife huh or opposite don't think it's only one side if the woman come to the husband tell him you know and she said he says let me think about it what do you mean think about it you're not allowed to think against he give you food he give you health he give you breathing how you could think against him so isman he know that we yes big and we sometimes thinking against hem but then keep telling us a shame wants our heart he does not need the action in this we we're gonna read with I don't need you I you I didn't need you come to I don't need you I don't need I don't need I don't need you to come to shoes I don't need you I need you your heart if you have a good heart and you keep the and the the supposed to go and make a change inside you not only action from outside and the the thinking is the what we different from the animals the and the Mak it's the highest level in the in the in the person if somebody think a is worse than the a himself you know the create the world how has created the world by the deur when we speak that's why he a NE when we speak we're taking out from outside from inside outside whatever we thinking and there is very high level to the speaking I by speaking could make something non kosher I says I don't need I make a nether no apples no apples you're not allowed to eat for you like a pig that could be you said you knowest there is a get it off your chest there is there is a story there is a he says in how people will wake up you know we what's the order who is going to wake up first he says no he says it's going according to the ALF bet of your name if your name is abah or Ariel I don't know you wake up first then bet because hem give usim with the words with a debur so whatever you first you name first in the alet you wake up first and he says but there is someone is's above everybody and even if his name is Tough is going to be first you know who is it somebody is is humble says somebody's anav he's going to be the first one even if his name is Tom or whatever he's going to be because somebody's humble so he's he's the first one so we we see that Hashem in his word creates the world hasem in his word whatever he says David says what's because he was supposed to not born he was supposed to be NE andem hem do with him and give him Life by the Deb through the de there is a in the discuss theban and over there the said a story in the end of the was one girl that she was went she went and she marry some of the Greece against the Jewish people and with the Greece going into the Beta mikdash she went with them her husband the was one of the officer in the Greece and she went with him and she took her sandal says and she took her shoe and she bang on the m and she says Locus Locus Locus in Greece is z how you say Z fo W he says lo lo is till when you're going to take all the people money people go and spend money for not give it to you after when the BET mikdash was back to the Jews this says this family that Miriam but bilga came from did not there is a sign the bet mikdash that this family Miram badila came from this family forever each each mishar each each family in bet mikdash of the Kim he has certain spot to put her the stuff knife and whatever they need and over there he was Clos that family and says this the family of Miram but bil came from this family why what's the family what's the family supposed to be what's the what the business of the family if the KY didn't do going in the right way say says the what she heard in the house o why we have to bring Corban o what we have to close this the the the store on Shabbat o why we have to lose money again why we have you could keep your clo store cloth on Shabbat but you complain about this whole day so what's the kid here it's a hard to be jew it's too much rules you have to do too much you know I was going to Manhattan is also too much rules you can't park everywhere right you go ear no left ear no right you go all the street smells from the you know what do you do with the chish Kebab me kalal meat I don't know the street all the street a lot of smell and many rules and still 47 million tourists came in here why you could go to my says oof oof oof but you could go in and enjoy it whatever you know if somebody live in a house that everything is the Tora is is heavy so Miriam badila come from this house and therefore this family let's close and write that this family Miriam bbia came from because you have to do the Tor in you know was weig Rabbi in Europe that used to sleep on bed only in Shabbat all the week he used to sleep on the table when he finished to learn wake up one night he wake up his wife 2 a.m. wake up wake up what happened make me cup of tea let's drink together what happened I have an answer on the kushia of the R I thought about it a long time and now I have an answer let's celebrate it she told him she was very smart lady and she told him no you always have a question on your answers so I know nothing is not worth it to to make a celebration now so he says okay and then he W one hour later says no no I know it's the final answer this good let's let's drink a tea together and in the morning he tell the story to one of his friends his friend told him I don't understand you wake up your wife is gel Shana so he looked at him said you're full of the Moon I think you let's say you somebody call you 2: a.m. and telling you that you have a grandson your daughter just gave birth you have a grandson you're not going to wake up your wife let's say the call says you just win 50 million in the ladder you're not going to wake up your wife for me that I haven't answer the question of the ramb it's like I have a grandson I'm so happy I have something inside that really you happy from the right thing what people happy today from what it steak Sushi you're happy from the from the right thing from something that really really keeps you forever and ever you know live 400 years ago he couldn't sleep in the night of sukot he all the time look at his watch when is morning I want to take the and I didn't take it for one year when is morning already he couldn't sleep says oh like somebody you know he has something on his head I know people wake up in the first day of sukot 11:00 a.m. no no problem he couldn't go to sleep that he was so in that he could fulfill that's what hasem wants from us don't take theck and wait till the last minute to buy the TR for $10 you could do the Mitzvah but it's not the same we're not coming to this in one second but you have to practice and practice and practice till then be will be there you could do mistake in your life I'm not saying but you can live in mistake you know I always go to Israel and my son when he comes me he's so confused you see a guy we live my parents live in Ramadan going down the stairs in Shabbat and I see a guy that he coming out from his house he has a mza but he coming out from his I was in Shabbat with telephone hello how are you what you doing and my son tell me is a Jewish is a Jewish he's a Jewish so what's going on how could be M speaking on the phone how it could be together people could live 100 years with contradiction I saw an ad in one of the newspapers in in in Brooklyn they want to advertise about renting apartment and he says over there close to the beach and to Sho in deal in deal the one is selling in Deal close to the beach and I said which guy go to the beach and the Sho they tell what do you mean all everybody they need both of them people could go in the morning to the beach and afternoon to the class which is according to all the Pim to go to mix swimming it's almost say I'm not you know I'm not giving but it's what do you mean thear says if somebody change money with with with with with woman and in in thinking to look at her even if he has says why because you you want you says I'm good guy sadik I'm changing money what do you mean so koser Cru right what kosher C the food is kosher but that's it everything is T the same pools the same gambling the same movies the same show the same thing everything you could live with contradiction 100 years and therefore when he says to the people till when you have both World decide either you belong to the beach or you belong to the K decide and they he said he told them this line if hem is right go after if is right go after the B how you could tell them go after the how you could tell them such a thing to go after the you know what mean he mean to say that if you you go after the Bal I be able to save you I'll be able to convince you I will could take you back but if you one day like this you know who is most hard to to somebody was Lear when he was young Rabbi don't tell me I know gar I learned he was he was learn gar till age of 10 10 years old or something 11 then he's finish the shot he can't talk to him if somebody was nothing he didn't Lear he didn't know what the Tor you tell him the story of abah and he breaks theim and he says wow I don't believe it so nice he told them go after the I will I will make you coming back I could walk with you R when she had theob and when she went with wants to come out she went to wants to go what she says why she was so panicking she didn't know she has a twin let's say she went only a he wants to go out she will be panicking she says I can't have someone that go to the beach and the col I told them don't you have a twins he said oh thanks God but I can't have a both because these people never will change therefore in yum kipur in the end of yum kipur what we saying seven times elim that's what the that's what the Jewish people says after the story with was n the fire came out from shamim and everybody says aimim and that's why we sang It's inip we went to say to Hashem we want to be only with you you know if you tell your wife I love you 99 99% 999 but 1% I love the neighbor H what she said don't why at 99% point 99 she want 100% not even one little percent he can't give nothing that's what Hashem wants from us nothing that's what hasem wants from us 100% I'm not saying it's it's easy I'm not saying but a like we said in the story in the Hashem wants the inside of us you have to walk on it slowly slowly slowly till you're going to be those people likei I heard this week his wife made him coffee 11:00 in the morning and the student asked him Rabbi when you drink coffee 11:00 you usually don't drink like today all the people drinking you know all day all day the moue say to walk can't stop but he says you never drink 11:00 why you drinking he says I finish so you drink cup of coffee that's that's people that really connected to the Torah they have nothing in the world but we live in the world but we have to work in ourself to be such a people with with heart that's what build mikdash if we going to be like this story of shulia dagre that we say we do everything but inside the person stay rotten and he could do the worst thing in the world like this go around and around and around and get it that says this D mikdash I don't need you I don't need your Shabbat I I want your heart this fot and Shabbat will cause you in the end that the heart will be with me but if we left only with the action that's that's not what hasm wants from us and every time that we have to walk on something in this world I ask myself many times that today is a lot of divorces going on never was before in any community that I asked in in bukharians if they went to to and the before they came to America not so much in Morocco not too much one one guy told me in khb you come to the I want divorce tell her go back come in 18 months some some guy told me his parents go to the RAB says he want divorce I'm go home struggling you going until today the family still exist what happened today that in every even even in the F Community the the it start to grow what happened expect to I think that the world change the Torah says a person came to this world for Amal what's the Amal to toil to work now I remember when I was a kid if I want to I want to hear a tape of M David I went to buy this tape and I had only one I I used to hear it all day and if I want to change the song I have to wait till the end and I have to take it out and to turn around and put it back and I you know sometimes you took a pen you put inside you want to move it and you today I have the phone which song you want you have thousand songs tuck tuck boom you have the song you want to send it to the the end go to the end in a second you don't have to wait nothing I used to hear one one tape 20 days around and around and around no other song Today t t you have all the song whatever you want you have inside you don't have to walk for a second and if it's too slow this phone is garbage give me 4G 3 G I don't understand in the language you have to have it first if it's not first is not worth anything why we don't want to toil if it's hard it's not for me you go to you go to a to learn language used to be language to learn you have to go to university you have to work one year today give you four CDs 20 days money back if not they don't work he can't walk and if the life that people want is with no Amal so therefore when you come to schom bite when you have to toil so much what do you mean leave me from this wife I'm going a different wife on they don't want to toil it's too hard it's too heart and you know in the in the olden days just for have a breakfast you know what they supposed to do is no fridge the person is to wake up in the morning he has to go to take woods and then to go find a fire and then to go to the well to bring a water and then to go to bring the the cafet from the tree and then to grind it and then to go to the cow to make a milk how long is it and today you have a coffee machine and there somebody told me he put a a sha Shabbat you know before morning and in the morning when he wakes up he already the copy is already prepared for him doesn't have to wait nothing you going into the car today you turn on the car the the the he come to you you don't have to go to him there is a AC so I I went to the guy car I see AC there is temperature used to be not temperature today 69 67 68 and now the guy that sit next to the driver he has different temperature than the guy that in the driver's seat Shalom that he's going to be 69 and you're going to be 60 it can be so I told him what do you mean two temperature you sit next to each other so he told me SL bite if I want 69 wife want 67 we don't fight that's it I told him this is not schlom bite schlom bite is both of you agree to one number there is a kigle schom bite gigle it's called right there is three levels whatever you want there is inside because they fight this one k like this it's called schite is mean that you agree on one thing and you be able to walk and which agree to another but if the separation is I have my own you have your own the kids not connected the kids have a iPad he put his a I remember when I was a kid we used to go to yam in h we had the kushit how do you call it today the Volkswagen the small you huh Bel B we had four kids in the back squished and my parents in the front and all the time move move fighting this that okay but we had a connection we fighting with screaming and all the time today there is van I have this van eight passengers four kids each one has two seat put his iPad we going to the mountain put his this iPad and he go to his world maybe his brother will die next to you you're not even going to realize because he's sewing to himself he's not even connected he wants to speak with his brother he send him a text you want to tell something to your wife you send her a text from the second floor to the first floor what happened you can't move you're not allowed to walk you're not allowed to to sweat and the Torah says this will cause destruction because hasem created a world that you have to work if you're not going to work on this you're going to work on something else you have to work and that's why today there's so much psychologic busy 400 hour $400 an hour $500 an hour people they go to psychologic pills this I me first Tred I'm the all the what happened because once you don't toil you become you go and against the nature of the of the human being and therefore you don't know how to handle yourself and Hashem says you have to toil you have a wife you have a husband you have to work together it's hot it's hot you have to make it don't say okay you don't want shalom see you you have four kids come on I don't care my secretary look better he can he can't toil doesn't want to walk and Shalom if you don't walk so you get Hashem says if you don't walk you don't toil so you get all this Shalom frustration because people jump on the roof because they have too much everything in this world you go to the grocery today you go to shoppr right you see thousand kind of breads you know so much she give us in this world everything to our door and therefore we don't toil and if you don't toil we we got in the wrong way and if you go in the wrong way you you you're coming to this result what's the hardest F in the day Shak you you're doing it my you pray you know you come you come home from wedding you take you remember oh I didn't done with ar you take your your your shoe from you sleepers one you one one your wife and you you pray wa for one second the you do it in the night but the the heart is why is the middle of the day you have to stop everything and you have to say now I'm going to be connected to asem I have to stop what I'm doing I have to do something else to pray to Hashem you know it's called it's called is a love time like your husband the wife you know when he wants to show her that he think about her he will call her in the middle of the day and he tell her how are you how is the days going and she thinking wow he was thinking about me I can't believe it he was she was be was so happy why if she if he says good morning in the morning she wasn't so happy but if she call the middle of the day and he says how is your day she's very happy why because you see he was stopping in the middle because you see where is your heart you could do your action but where is your heart your heart is is with hem we had one of the rabbi in thear that went away from the D his name his name is why when he was like after he was big Rabbi he start together from the D he was a rabbi of RAB May RAB used to go with after him in Shabbat he was driving on the horse was going on the horse and used to walk with him and learn from him Tor and he was he was Shabbat and he learn from Tor what caused him a to go away from the D thear says something unbelievable when he was born his father was big sadik and he invite all the rabbis to the breit and the rabbi used to sit in the table and to talk T and the fire came out from shamim and he sees a fire his father and says I want the son will be like like those rabbis and thear says she since he didn't do it sh 100% and because he like the cavod the honor of the fire that's what called him to went off the D because he wasn't 100% sh he was it was something that he want to honor something you know what's a be hard 100% to hasem you had there is a rabbi one of the you heard about him his brother you heard about him huh he was so poor I tell you to remember the story to tell you I tell a different story now buta was so poor he has he has a re his is that was the name of his re one time the student of his reab the student came to thein and tell them Rabbi how could the M says that the person has to be like you have to say thank you aame that you when you win million dollars like if you lost million dollars same thing in same happiness the M says you have to be thank to hem when you lose million dollar like if you win million dollar how could be because you know everything is for good everything is a reason everything from sh so so he told them you know it's very hard question it's very very hard question let me send you to one that I think will know the answer the question so they sent him to Raba and this student went to rusa and he went to his house and they knock on the door the door almost fell because it was broken door they went to the house freezing it was no heat everything was broken it was poor the the the clothes was ripped and he was sitting on the table Tor with small candles nothing in the house nothing to eat and they went and tell him listen you Reby send us to you what you what you want he want you we want us to ask you a question how could be a person could be the same thing bad thing or good thing you have to bless AEM the same thing the same he answered rusha told him he send them to me I never had anything bad in my life I don't know why he send them to me everything is good we said every morning what does it mean AEM I'm sett everything that I need I have call Turkey I don't need nothing anymore thank you H could it be such a thing so I I want to tell you a story about rabusa he went rabusa one time he went to buy something from his daughter his daughter get engaged he need to buy her something and he had $200 in his pocket and he went to buy her something in the middle of the way he heard that there is a wedding going on and used to be walking in the street with a wedding with a music and he was seeing the wedding and all of a sudden sto and the kala start to cry he says what's going on why do you stop why the kala is start to crying he went to the kala and the kala says my mother what happened he went to the mother the mother says listen I was supposed to bring money to the wedding my husband passed away and I supposed to bring money to the wedding and the in the side of the Katan want the money but I lost the money I don't have the money and they don't want to continue the wedding without the money and that's why everything stop abusa says how much money she tell $200 says I found it wow I can't believe it and they start to sing and to to be happy and took him ABA and and start to dance with him give him Cav and respect him and tell him you such unbelievable person how you find it and Returns the a even though you don't have to you turn the Lost object even if you don't have to money and he says okay but I want one thing he take them he say I want 50% to myself since I found it they told them what we can't believe you the start to hit him and they start to curse him and make him a lot of Bion and and he says when he came back to his to to his Rabbi the Reb asked him why did you ask for you I know you you never ask for money back why you ask 50% he says when I saw the respect they give me I don't want I want to do the mitvah without respect I want to do theah without people are praising me 100% to hasem when you somebody praise you for the Mitzvah it takes you away you get cavod it's not anymore 100% we're not in this m we're not this level but you have to come to this level that sh everything everything everything inside is is theem sh and if someone is in such a level his life is so happy thein was a student of the Goa and he says he says I wish my will be like of the g i I wish I will be pleasure in like the in you know what to be connected to Tora how happy you are when you see when you see a a piece of cake and you're in a diet what is more what is more what is better to eat the cake to feel the tasty the enjoyment of the cake or to conquer it you T and not read it when you more happy when you go next to the cake and you don't touch it you feel million dollars it's more sweet than the cake himself it's more sweet than the cake because you eat it for two seconds that's it but if you conquered something you be very happy inside this happiness no one could take it and hasem wants us to be happy and he says the only way is to toil and since you toil the to then it become part of you then you become to do the mitv from the heart and then you come to sh after 120 Shalom that I I was coming to this world with a lot of anger with a lot of GA and and and I want to give and everything to myself and I left this world totally different person every kid come to this world he wants to grab everything from everybody everything's belong to me doesn't want to share when he come to four years old you only then you start to tell him listen you have to share he says what does it mean to share I don't know this world this world doesn't exist by a kid then you have to give him candy if you share oh okay so now take the candies maybe it's good to share but if no candy shom I never share no you have to share you have to give and there is kids that don't grow up till 80s like this they're sitting in bot and they're still fighting with a with a roommate it's me it's belong to me it's fighting something didn't change eight years in this world nothing change everything belonged to me me me me and Sam character stay and he keep Tov 80 years the rambam says there is a concept is called you know what they mean mean let's say I'm going to restaurant and I says please give me four steak and 10 bottle of coke and four beers I make any of the T I did any a I didn't do any a but the RAM said if you behave like this you you you na you you keep all the Torah but you don't a person that has wants you to be because you go after to you and and you're thinking to do it in the right way that's that's the story of theban I do whatever I want just I'm doing it in the way that a you know any where does it say in the Tor that not allowed one time the says this and these things it's against the Torah somebody ask him where it's written in where is the Torah where do it say he said it says over here there is something is called your heart if you feeling the heart is against AEM will is against the Torah even if it's not written in the Torah not everything has to be written in the Torah leave us space in order to understand what he wants what he really wants from us he leave us a space to understand me I can't tell you everything like your wife tell you something in hint you she want you to understand she doesn't have to tell you if I have to tell you it's nothing it's not worth anything if I have to tell you exactly what I want you don't understand me it's zero but it's work and then we need that hasem will help us in order to rebuild the beta mikdash we need to be a people with with a heart with a like we says the Torah wants our heart and our heart will be only with a toil when we're going to walk when we going to try to walk in ourself not everything easy not everything easy in life we're not supposed to be easy if it's easy it's not good some some says like you go in the bicycle if you go up it's hard if you go easy you're down so sometimes it is you have to walk it's it's hard to wake up in the morning to pray it's sometimes hard to learn but it's good it's the sweetest thing in the world somebody leave a class and he went out I will tell him listen give me the SAR that hasem give you now in sham for this class I will give you $1,000 for it you will give me huh I want you SAR the that you get in this hour now I went outside says give me I give you1 th000 no one will do it because everybody feel that he touch his heart and he's understanding become a better person and he know that he has big share in sh and he doesn't want to sell it for nothing that's exactly what we are but we have to work in ourself not to live in Two Worlds not to be and yob together of the of Beach and and and and and and this all the time go back and forth you could do mistake everybody do mistake could do mistake but not live in the in the life of contradiction because this not what hasm wants to live in contradiction you can't you know in Israel L fall out in Shabbat so the rabbi was scared the people will do med they work fire for Rish shim on Shabbat who could make like fire on Shabbat for shimai the people will do it how it could be because people don't think you know how many families do K Shabbat and watch movies and go after with a car a lot of families if you're in the beginning if you're the right beginning okay but you have to be in the solution one day what I'm doing I'm confused my kids where am I I'm I'm I'm I'm in the right way not in the right way how long we have to do two things that contradict themselves if will help us so the BET mikdash will be rebuild only if you will be 100% with hem hasem wants our heart and that's the this week will read that hasm wants that we going to come and be close to him really really really and we'll we'll be able to give a lot for hasem even if sometime it hard but we know we have to give up because it's a right right thing there is a sto story in Brooklyn that that this store big Supermarket he he wanted to e the guy that own the supermarket told me this story by himself he told me he wants to open supermarket Market in certain Street he start he pay already to the broker he pay already for the to build the supermarket he spend like quite $25,000 and then few doors down was a lady almana widow she had a small grocery store and she came to him and she told him listen if you're going to open this open a market I'm finished I'm not going to have any parasa anything you're going to take everything please don't do it and he told her I can't you know I invest already $225,000 I can't do it what I I'm going to help you whatever you know I'm going to try to help you with money or try to help you with customers but I can't do it and then he told me one Rabbi came to him and knock on his door and tell him listen you could do whatever you want but don't start up with Al manot don't start up with r because over there Hashem Hashem said says hasem says I will listen whenever the AL cried hasem listen and he took the word of the rabbi and he closed this store and he opened in different place and he lost this $25,000 but he made a different Supermarket different place and he success and he makes a lot of money today but he wasion test you really could do it or you nice outside you give donation and you give this but inside you do something and ring other people life and you know I was in Israel when it was the story with start to fly on Shabbat and I was in the room by R kki and R kki is not speaking on the phone you know he not speaking not even phone in his house no phone no cell phone and no regular phone nothing so one of his uh shamash helpers I was there and somebody called he had seven ticket from Israel to America approximately $15,000 and kki says this day can't fly in because Shabbat don't fly with he says I bought already the ticket I have seven tickets so he told to the shamash please ask the what should do and and he asked the rabbi Rabbi this guy has seven tickets $15,000 what he should do he has a fight tomorrow the rabbi told him is it's dangerous to fly now what you will do where is what hasem wants you have to lose money I could lose money from for to do the right thing or not there something inside there something that no one will could answer but you in which level you are if you be able to do it is mean that you inside inside you're close to Hashem and and out of people do a lot of big things just because they're close to Hashem and in every situation they always think what hasem want want for me now I know Rabbi in Israel they said they said a sh Ina he said a speeches and he told him you know when I wases when know what I learned this what I said now he told him you know where I was in the Holocaust and I wanted to light kanuka candle and I didn't have water to wash my hands before the Mitzvah so I make some hole in pipe and there is few waters coming down and I wash my hands and they catch me and my punishment was they're going to tie me to the horse and the horse will go all around the camp and I was tied to the horse and jumping all around and he says when I was tied to the horse I was thinking about this this and I have this that I'm telling you now and I'm not so big sadik was the rambam says you have to learn to in every situation so I did what the ram says even in such hard situation I was be able to learn Torah because my heart all the time is and you know the story about this lady from Morocco you probably heard that she has a she's burying in Morocco and all the girls go to DAV and by her cover because she went in and and she she didn't want to go with a and the taller you have to get killed and they also tired to the horse and she says what your last wish my last wish is that when I'm going to go the tight me to the horse and the horse will run maybe they're going to see something for my skin I want to make sure so she took her skirt and she suw it to her to her to her leg in order no one will see nothing and she's today in maroc bar and all the people go to her to ask and and to be M on the C those people everything was was connected to AOS 24 seven and he says what hasem wants for me now what my heart telling me to do what's the right thing to do if I don't ask a rabbi Rabbi want a want me to do what I supposed to do now and if somebody if someone behave like this is building another Stone in bet mikdash but if we live in Generations that outside outside everything he come to sh looking big sadik but inside is rotten in the computer in the TV in the all the the bad things is only you know D like this but inside is right you know how many story I heard about people that catching them in all kind of situation why we we be having like Pim mask there is people come to Sho yam kipur ladies cover the hair and this they're thinking today is puim it's not it's not pu it's Kim don't don't dress it's not it's not you have to be behave like this all year not only Yip but is a start to to to what we really are and that's what if we will be like this hasem will see that you really try in this hard time in hard very hard not in this generation I said once I don't remember if I said it here but I said that Hashem gave us this n that we probably live in the time the most biggest Nan that will ever ever happen in history and why hasem giv us to us why hasem didn't give it to the rambam you know if the rambam had iPhone used to youy it from the window why they give it to us we already fragile people we're already weak Hashem gave us to us because we about to see mashiach and the candle in the last minute he give all his strength once is the last minute Hashem give all his strength all his and the put all his in order that catch us and if someone will stay connected to Bam in the last galut in the last time before mashia then you'll be able to see the mashia and the N will be greater and greater bigger and bigger and we have to stay pure and kados all through this in order that we will be able to see the mashia when mashia will come will was so happy to see us you know when the when the Katan got to cover the kala he didn't see her for a week his heart is beating she she didn't see him the week she couldn't talk to him you know which Sim is it that's the Sim will be when we'll see the P of hem we waiting you so much where are you you m you hitting yourself behind all the iPhone and and the the internet you hearting we wants to see you we can't see you when the mashia will come they could see you but there is people will not be able to see it because if you not pass this not we can't see a and we we need to now he give us all the biggest n in the world to see who is going to be strong and will be to 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