Rabbi Daniel Gladstein: Chodesh Elul Premium Teshuva

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tonight's Russia welcome everyone thank you to Eric and Sheree Tyra rabbi bald and the entire network for giving me the opportunity to share with you some the Vitara in preparation for hi - Aloha Bellino Latifah typically the parsha that we read at the beginning of Qatar shell was partial a usually the way the calendar works out patches for a is the parsha that we lane at the beginning of clay the shell will very often even Shabbos rush clay - lol is a partial a the schlocko - teaches us the very important principle and that is that the parsha of the week is connected to this man of the year even though it's something that we all recognize instinctively obviously the parts of the week is connected but nevertheless according to the Gemara the gamar only mentions specific instances where a certain power has to be laying that a certain time the Gemara says at the end of Magilla that ezra was massaging that before sh wuis we lay in the types of cloth from baku case I and before Rosh Hashanah we lay in the total cloth from cassava other than that any power shook who really fall out any time of the year and one would then think that there's no specific connection between a place mysteriously safe and Hanukkah doesn't say in the Gemara that a certain power is connected to a certain time of the year but nevertheless says - la de varam Godoy l'm a numb the Micra and if a certain power shows usually laned at a certain time of the year there's a reason why it's laned at that time that parsha is specifically connected to that time of the year so the question we have to ask ourselves is what is the connection between partial EA and hi - hello why is it that partial a is always the beginning of clay - yellow the most well known Ramez - the month of L oh of course we're all familiar the pasta conscious um Annie that ID that ideally bruschetta voice L oh that Aniela that if we are for the reeben asylum the abundant Sun will be for us of course this is brandy avodah homina mission brew even brings it down that the so fate a voice of the words a nila David ideally you do do your gematria for tea this corresponds to the forty days the third time as Charbonneau went up to her scene I first time he goes up he comes down high so serving the AYGO so much Charbonneau takes the Luke Weiss he smashes the little ice he goes up again after she lost of atomos for a second time and this time the revenge Psalm says okay let's you know take to mush Rubino makes his ascent Rosh Hodesh ll he goes up and at the end of the 40 days my Chevy no comes down and he hears the magical words so lofty kid Baraka and for all time Yom Kippur was established as a day of sleek la vez hapara I'm Neela died even though ideally hoy - ll asurs in the 40 days 40 days here's the question the repulsion has many names your cave of que la Kim su vacas sha Chi a Kia rock l'm Shannon how many times in Hamish is reversed I'm cold Dodi how many times it's a ferocious zero how many times it's a for-sure moist zero how many times invite you up I'm in my dorm nowhere in the entire Columbus's revenge some called Dodi all of a sudden we get to hide the shell or even was a Dodi it's a beautiful name but it's not shams name it's not one of the Sheva shame I've seen him him he's not ever called Dodi so why when it comes to quite a cello it should be I need lay like hear me like Kim Leonie lash em the last sham Leonie let's focus on ela Chaka Aniela IKEA where do we drum up an Illinois diva though ideally what has died he got to do with Clara shallow that's a question of the feed on why do we specifically use the word Dodi in connection with Michelle so let's start our journey tonight let's see how the first pasta compared shots were a is connected to the process of chuhwa says the Vilna Gaon ray a knife II nice stainless snake Sam hi I'm Brock oak Lala number 1 noise saying here's the first impediment to chuhwa here you have a guy at 13 years old he made a bad decision he decided he's gonna talk by daven e if he made a bad choice and he's been doing it for 10 20 30 40 years now it comes he wakes up he says you know quite a shallow but the guy says to himself Avada I believe in bashira you know I was once giving a shear and we're talking about free choice and somebody raised their hand by the way you know there's no such thing as free choice Hashem runs the world now Shem makes a person do mitzvot navaros so the guy was in his 80s and he's a kafir but Toyo Kula he's a nappy klaris he lifts up a bottle of wine and it's the inss he's a Fromer Yid the guy who has a long beard but he's a kafir he doesn't believe in both lira that's the fundamental principle of a goddess that nothing compels us we have absolute free choice a person can make a decision to do the right thing to do wrong but a person might think says the Gras that maybe we only have bashira in the beginning of our life when we first set out in Nevada session but once we make that initial decision to do right or to do wrong maybe we're locked into it you know a person might say I used to be able to learn beyond or I used to be able to do certain mitzvahs when I was younger but now that I took a certain path in life I'm locked in I can't veer off of that that's not for me anymore no the first principle of chuhwa is noise saying every moment in life a person has a free choice to choose again rah or type Toivo rap no one is locked in to tithe and no one is locked in Tehran every moment in life a person is liberated from past choices and can make an absolutely free this hey Latoya Vahine lamu tov Raheja noisy not know sati laughs Nathan brothel kala noise Seine every moment in life is a new opportunity to choose good or bad says the Gras here's the next problem the promise okay I could choose but I feel so dirty I feel so sullied I feel unworthy of the goodwill of Akhilesh Martha says we punish Donuts hi yo him forget about what you did in the past the first step in chula is that what it was yesterday was yesterday what was last year was last year every day is a new opportunity every neshama has the ability to say you bein elekid awesome it's a new opportunity it's a new choice nothing I've done in the past will affect Who I am today so you say it's too hard it's too overwhelming it's too difficult the hurdle is too tall on noisy says the Rabine asylum I'm with you I will help you if I will help you you could do anything it is too hard that's the truth but call yo yo yo I'm yet special Adam miss Gabriel of the O'Malley Hakodesh Marco is Roy I know yo solo so taco says we bunch some are noisy it is I I am with you I will give you the ability I will give you the strength so person might say okay great uh noisy the be bothersome is with me to run Jose with me I'm gonna stay in bed and the rebuy nurse um will give me sea otter - Maya to do everything that I need to do I don't have somebody told me they went to him a couple the guy doesn't learn a word and the mokuba told him Chekov ecause of don't worry the revenge Tom loves you and he's gonna make sure that you do whatever you need to do in this world to get to Alma bah nonsense no the bunch I'm not doing anything for you if you're gonna stay in bed the rebound song is gonna make sure you slavka hunt you have to make the choice listen hm says we've um it's uh noisy but at the end of the day it's your choice it's your decision it's your call you have to take the first step you have to make the first move that's listen a them so the less the person say but here's the problem but nobody else is doing it I want to do the right thing I want to be good I want to be it's a dick but nobody else is doing the right thing so why can't I just do what everybody else is doing says revarnished some not rule but Ray see LaShawn Yahud it doesn't matter what anybody else does doesn't matter what anybody else says everybody lives in their own world but shreelane if ro eylem says the growth the opening plastic of partials were a is addressing already the impediments of chuhwa and the the notions that a person might have that will prevent him from doing chuhwa and therefore says rebound summer a every individual has their own are iose are noisy I'm gonna be with you noise saying every moment is a new free choice how you I'm forget about the past listen a them ultimately you have to make the decision let's talk about Shiva we're good we should start over now okay okay let's talk about Yuva tubers a process Tuva works for personnel chuva it wipes away nivara can everybody do chuhwa is chuhwa available to all of mankind one would think yeah I mean you look through TANF you finds Jana Jana was sent to the city of Nineveh they were not yet in apparently shuva is a process that's available to all of mankind and nevertheless there's an incredible matters if you have the Merrimack MS if you look at number four on your sheets matters Tanguma now this matters town Houma asks the steerer that the Gomorrah and brothel ice answers differently the govern rosh hashanah answers differently but the tan Houma has a different take on it sieve there's one Pathak pasha snow say ye saw hashem pond availa saw the revonnah some will show favoritism to you he will countenance you he will look away he will favor you because of a flaw timer a share law lisa upon him that the revulsion does not show favoritism that the revulsion will not countenance you so to steerer does rebut some show favoritism does ravana shall not show favoritism and sues the Med wish oh you said shuva noisily pon him it all depends if you don't do chuva there ain't nothing you could do the emotions not gonna countenance you he's not gonna show you favor but I said shuva ye saw hashem pon availa ha that's the matters but then the matters continues y'all call a coil I would think that anybody could do tuba in Brooklyn they could do chuva in Florida they could do tuba in Nebraska they could do Shiva if you're a Yid you could do chuva if you're a guru why not your color coil wha either Kurata on video works Oh Carlton either doesn't work says the Med wish no you saw some part of a Lhasa the Loyola luma Malcolm you can do chuva going cannot do Cheever do we pass in this way this is how we pass Caen the bass Ella Kim just to be familiars could i to be familiar with the safer bass alaykum there are not too many farm of rish einem written on Chava you have Shari chuva revenue Jana you have the Rambam he'll hush tuba you have the you rewrote the fee borisova and then you have the basilar Kim of the mob bit of motion met Ronnie he was a contemporary of the bass Joseph in the shower Hakuba the basilar Kimmy number five Tim Babbitt rights Derrick LA Laker chuva Lee Israel only a year Cadoo chuva the rama me pano ramanatham Azam eponymous our Imam RA she says no ain Shiva my LS ller L only a Jew kudu chuva the brainiest Oscar writes from the separately moody a Shem camo Tom him Lama su oh my Ellis Rock Lee Israel the consensus of the acronym is that chuva only works for a Claudius wrong by the way so you'll ask to what was going on in inve what was Jana telling them do chuva but can't do chuhwa the answer is they weren't gonna do Chava ultimately in inve was destroyed Nineveh didn't do chuhwa the posix says oh wait our boyo in vain in vain Napa has the Navi said in 40 days and inve will be destroyed and they were says the malbim Boyd is gomorrah 8008 our bomb is 40 in a hundred and twenty years yo him in the in the Tanakh often means years in 120 years and inve was destroyed yeah that's what the Navi said then of he says he gonna be destroyed it's gonna be destroyed all min Vey was able to do it was able to defer punishment push it off but there's no concept of chuva Robbo say there is no concept of chuva in life somebody's standing in front of a judge so judge says you know you've been convicted of x y&z Avada judge but you don't understand Oh sham no I'm guilty and have wrought I feel very bad and I'm never gonna do it again so that's it let me out so just say yeah behind bars you're never gonna do it again there's no such thing as true van life just because you feel bad about something okay good for you how does that remove from reality what you did there's a special Matano tava that the Reba national gave Clouser all a guy is not able to do chuva that's what the measure says the map it there are mommy pano dominatus sauce car the feed ah and the question is why other yeah uh tarnished is it a real process is it a real mechanism if the reruns um accepts the regret and the confession of human being then it should work and if he doesn't accept it it shouldn't work why would it only work for a year says the hey legacy da this is the secret of chuhwa here's the problem somebody goes over to the king and somebody insults the king so the king happens to be he was just learning Mooser he was just learning the Gemara that says i now love in the aina melvin if you're insulted you don't install back shimon car possum animus even you here you're disgracing you don't respond i'll am i kosovo Amer though i above could say sessions regressor so the king just learned to muster say there and a guy came in he said king you're a you're a dummy and the King says I just learned to muster safer Mahalo Mahalo Mahalo sama I want to work on Mayan Evo's I want to work on my me dice can a king be Michael his insult absolutely not what is the Camorra same condition Mela chemical alkaloid I ain cried I muscle so then how could chew ver work you didn't have era Hashem is melech ha'olam revulsion follows the dictates of the Tyra CD nivara how can the rebuttal be Michael you Mel of chemical alkaloid oh I ain't quite Emma it's a bit kasha the answer is because revulsion is not only mal que no era el shamah is a vino so the kid comes in to shul and the kids sitting in the father seat the father could say stay stay why I've Shama cow elk avoid I cried Emma says the kid ah beautiful you know how chuhwa works the process of chuva is that the abolish them is our Father and therefore as the through the principle through the mechanism of of sham allow clothe I the emotion could be macabre Chuba they say but they say in the world aren't we all the children of the Lord yeah where that checker of asses off we're not all the children of the Lord the oh my solemn are not the children of my color Sparkle the Mishna says in a voice I've even use Ryles Shanna Carew born in LA Malcolm Shan Mr Bonham attend lash Emily kam you you it's a deal it's an exclusion at Samia you are there children live an asylum mamela says a feed on the way that shuva works is for a year three moms our Father so if he's our father he could be Michael us but for the he's the mela mela kasha amalgam the many many sukham that speak about three bones Tom's relationship me will you Rafa Melek ago iam mala koola Kim Al Gore iam the emotional is the mela over the gallium so if a Gentile doesn't have a row he's in big trouble he could stall he could push it off he could convert but he can't do chuhwa but he hid option mahalik avoid i kavod OE muscle mamela but you see their own comes also our mela yeah that's right that's right there if best in down here is Makai so Aneesa there nothing you could do that's because besson's not your father peasants the court you can't chew Ville will not help with peasant schemata absolutely not you're right one of the reasons is how and how does best in how it doesn't know if you did sugar or not how does besan know if you had Kurata how does besan it could be in the swaram that if a person does a genuine shuva the revulsion will orchestrated that the best then will maybe make a mistake where besan will acquit you but a tuba doesn't help for residential Mantha so how does chuva work what's the engine what's the mechanism of chuva which parsec in Hamish is the mechanism of chuhwa Bunim item lashem allocation mamela comes quite a shallow and the first partial that we read and because she'll always partial a and as we're embarking on the part the process of chuhwa the person thinks to themselves chuhwa that's wonderful but how's the revenge don't gonna be Makabe my chuhwa the varnish on this the mela Malky ice house emotionally macabre chuva so the first power shall we lane and by the shallow israeii where we read bunny metemma sharma locate them that's step one that's the introduction to chuhwa the fundamental principle the basis the aside of chuhwa their engine of chuhwa the mechanism sure the way it operates is through the principle of bond amount my Shama like it but there are different kinds of chuhwa you ever go to shul on yom kippur there's this very strange practice that we have the end of the chuan essay on Yom Kippur all of a sudden people they start confessing right they start confessing now if you were confessing how would you confess I stole and I robbed and I killed a lot of people right you would think you would use like placing a stone a gun a snappy upbeat imagine a guy came in oh I stole an right meshuggenah what in the world are you doing Oh sham new Boga Noga and even Udofia sounds like some activist Agathe C said no that's not how you sing it you're supposed to go oh Shamu i'vei've I know you're not supposed to if you want to know what the musical notes of a sham you are you look in the Accra and that going to ask what in the world are we doing singing a happy tune for Vito it's a foot spa it means like you don't recognize you're doing something wrong you sing a happy tune when you have a cash register and you're counting the bills you don't sing a happy tune when you're standing in front of someone admitting to them what they did wrong you ever you know you need to apologize to your wife so so why are you smiling you know that's the worst thing you could do you smile you're dead and you're we're singing a tune we're singing a happy tune a sham Newburg Anna what's going on well Rosh Hashana we davon yachts I'm mofo NASA share your booze with who I say no revarnished some increase our merits so we eat Maron so here we're sitting on the table we're not doing anything we're laying back we're being lazy and we're asking God God give us a lot of mitzvahs are you kidding me I should give you a lot of it's lace you get off your chair and do them what do you want from my life the one thing the Muslim can't do for us is he can't do mixers for us why would you ask the Ramona some to give you a lot of myths vice you want to do the myths voice there's something called Talmud Bavli open it up and learn it Talmud Torah can I go to LA what do you want from the debugger man imagine you're sitting there with the Gemara clothes replenish Delilah give me the Gomorrah open up learn it yourself what kind of deal is that say your booze the who your say no that's the one thing you can't davon for says the Gemara and brockless Bhim ma climbs a ballet chuva I'm them ain't tsadikim Gomorrah McCallum lamb I'd wear the ballet chuva stand the completely righteous will never stand as if somehow the bow Chavez on a higher pedestal than the tzadikim are in what way is the bow chuhwa on a higher pedestal we're talking about its adhigam or we're not talking about somebody who's doing things by rote he's doing he's serving Hashem the lave solemn his entire life and the time he's 13 years old he's thinking Meraki malorum bomb his Sh - ray is like the Baal Shem Tov his level of learning and Lum dose and this guy's about sure he hasn't learned for 40 years exactly what did this vouch Hoover do that that's a de comer didn't - in what way not talking about somebody who's doing it you know mitzvah sonoshee maloo maloo ma da at sadly comer p.m. Oakland Shabalala chuhwa I'm them ain't tsadikim comer McCallum lam I'd there are two kinds of chuhwa the gomorian miss dr. Yuma pave over my bays asks a steer and reish lakish reish lakish made two statements number 11 first first Locker said get Doyle Achieva she has a doily nice Nasus like you Chicago's rich Locker says chuhwa is great that intentional sins are downgraded to unintentional like the plastic says inertia chuva Israel are - amla caca Keith Michelle tow bar Vanessa you stumbled in your intentional sin meaning you did an intentional sin and now we're gonna say it's only a stumble it's only a show Jake so from here we see if you do Chuba intentional is downgraded to shy gig and then for IVA ha I'm Irish luck ish is the Dinos NASA sly kisses whoo yes Shan Mr Hoover Shivraj Amira shall save y'all some mich muttered stalker L AM Yahia that through the avail you'll live that the Avera will turn into a mitzvah so steer and reish lakish first first luggage says its downgraded so here you guy who's driving a hundred miles an hour he got $150 fine and points and he got an attorney and he got the points off and he pays the find that's the first statement the rich lockers downgrade and then rich Locker says no yeah you driving a hundred miles an hour and you regretted it and the judge paid you the hundred fifty dollars so it's a steerer says the gumar it's not a steerer con mayavi can Mira that if you do to VAT of euro its downgraded it says reversal petalburg alumnus is like this you didn't have era you didn't realize you can be thrown into a hot oven if you would have known about the ownership of the avera you wouldn't have done it so it's like you did the Avera the toss so now the 'verily then intentionally it's like matter nether if you would have known the repercussions you wouldn't have done it so now we down grain it to show gig but if you do to the head of lava then the Avera has turned into a mitzvah says the safer tourists i am what we're diving for the night of Rosh Hashanah a year basically I say no is we're saying we punish xylem there's really only one way to add to your merits without doing anything if you do Chuba may have a if you do Chuba may have a-- then all the Aveiro that you've done are turned into MIT slice so a guy went to McDonald's says of Sam cipher if a guy went to McDonald's and now he does Shubham a I have uh it's net Bach net pal Kentucky last korban Pesach ha so you have two people you have one side the Gummer that sat in the basement is his whole life the only problem is it's his bed Mazel he lives in 2018 so he was never circle to eat the car and pass out but this guy who used to be a Russia went to McDonald's for entire year every night then he did suvamay Ahava when he gets up to shamayim he's gonna be rewarded with hundreds of oxy last carbon passer bamako MSHA Bally chuva I am them ain't tsadikim Goomer McCallum lamo it says Akita asada comer will never have the Mitzvah he was Karen Passat he'll never have the mid-south gazella Geneva shakir shaatnez the port Sadiq is limited to the 248 MIT slice the Russia who did Schumer may Allah the possibilities are endless you now many are various you I don't even want to tell you and don't try this that don't be so miss on this but if a person did do a nivara and they do chewer may have of the possibilities are endless clerkship Ally to vol them ain't sets that tzadikim were so limited in the ways he could come closer sham the person who does chuhwa the vast array of the custom that you never heard of this guy has in his repertoire bamako MSHA ballet Chu volume the main tsadikim good more McCallum Lam I'd let me tell you Arabica vaguer this is not a fiduciary Becky Baker there's not in the Jewish mafia there's just on the trubiz it's in the biography of Rebecca vaguer the official biography Arabic you beggar is the hood Hamish ooh lush could I'm a sure she's a biography of Sam cipher Rebecca beggar sob cipher hezonia SH said every Jewish home must have this safer they asked the hezonia sh-should you have good Dolan books he said you should have the hood Hamish foolish it was written by the son of the shaft cypher I see my friend from Torah treasures he's gonna get it in tomorrow and he'll give me a commission yeah we'll make a deal later hood at masuleh in the hood Amish ooh lush says well Becky vaguer what Shonn the Gemara the Gemara says you know we lane the he's over there people looking where you are yeah so rabba Kega wants to watch shot what's shot in the Gemara and brought in rosh hashanah that we blows kiss to me you shove Kirsten Ahmad we blow sitting now today we stand the whole time but we blows kiss to me you shall we both kisumu mod so the Gemara says kid Ayla Arbutus eSATA and we're trying to confuse the shotgun says type this toaster says the famous shot that first we blow the Sutton thanks for being macam limit so then we blow again the Sultan thinks mashiac is here and he skedaddle Rashi says a different shot look in number 17 says Rashi shall oi Gaston we confused the tsaatan we don't want him to instigate kiss josh omega you guys should you swirl Mustafa Venus I'm it's Vice than when he hears that cloudy swirl of Smith's voice miss optimum tomorrow he silenced you here the Rashi then when the Sutton sees that we blow the Schaefer twice and we love doing MIT slice the Sutton runs away factor of aqui Vega understand if the Sutton sees that we love MIT slice he should be instigating more he should want to be mechanic more she wanna interfere more why does the fact that we love mitzvahs stop the Sutton from his kid truck says Ricky Vega very posh you see until now the Sutton figures to light the level of chuhwa that we're doing the type of truer that we're doing is true of amira so he starts reading to revenge some the laundry list of cotton here's the guy he wakes up in the morning he comes to shul he's texting the whole Davin e and then he's talking about Hauser shots rebuttal show them why didn't anyone tell him that the car I'm says he's better not even coming to shore how come no one ever told him that he would have gotten more Gani than if he would have stayed home in bed and the whole the Suttons reading all the other ice that person did and then the Sutton sees that we blow the Scheffer twice and the son says I've i this guy loves mitzvos if he loves MIT's voice he's doing chuhwa may ever if you don't you may ever ever er they were I read to the rebars on the road she was net backless loose I better keep my mouth closed that's channelling tomorrow Shoshanna kadai LA our babies are certain Suzuki Vega once the tsaatan gets a whiff of the fact that we have a pistol a vas a sham he's cliche maybe we're gonna do chuva may have a-- and he keeps his mouth closed because he's afraid that every Avera that he tells revulsion the emotions give me my hot bacon toffee Lasker m-pesa says its Pharisees Romo sexta tynus you know what the happiest moment of the year is that if we could squeeze a little of Accession out of our heart it's like we want a windfall oh no Boracay Shama Shama no it's a girl water what is the hose was that we were guilty and we did the Avera Hashanah Barragan Oguz al nude oh gosh guzzanti Barnard our fee we're reading Basim call all the a virus that we've done in order that three bunch amar my happy clam limit slice that's why we say the asam nuba simcha because if we do the chuva may I have uh then the laundry list of cotton that we have is actually a list of zoo 'some that are only made for us as a male it's on the I'm a den and as we're gonna see on the yo Madden actually the biggest Hagana the biggest was custom that we're going to have are the obvious that we did that three bunch um was maja take to the custom and we're gonna explain that's the shot Suzuki de Bamako MSHA ballet chuhwa I'm dim Ain tsadikim Cameron you Calum lamb light if you never went to Burger King you were never macro of the carbon Pesa says exam server I read to his words I'm not making this up look at number 26 as a Josh's clam site how like a shove may Allah nationalize the Deutsche who yours because I use Novello shall have a like you off now carbon pass off but you shall I am it's amazing how close you could come touch them through our arrows so here you have a guy you heard about the oh the biggest oyster in the world he's a multi-billionaire and he's mazovick his daughter with the guy his father is an uneven so the tomb of katana meat you know and if the father with clausten comes in he looks like a schemata and the father collar comes in he's a macula dressed so if I let father collar just says look we're not gonna fool around here we know what's going on I'll take care of it I'll take care of it don't we're not gonna I mean we're not gonna do seventy thirty percent it's covered just do me one favor just get your kid a suit and it'll be a Fastenal like you never saw he couldn't even get the kid in normal suit he went to you know he went to one of these stores you know buy one get ten free and he got his kid a suit and the kids coming and gets into an accident on the way to the husana he goes flying through the dashboard the suit rips he falls into the mud he comes into the class and a disheveled dirty the suit is gone barkhaa Shem the cousins okay the shredder looks at the kid he said Brock assume you're okay but we need a new suit this time he tells the other militant you're not buying the suit this time I'm buying the suit and when the sure buys the suit he ain't going to hi Misha store to buy the suit he's buying you know he's buying a nice it says the dubna maggot as great as any Sadiq will ever be you can never do even one Mitzvah to which you could stand up and say this Mitzvah is a perfect Mitzvah there IVA Bagheera the whole dicto Capra tell the calm and I sell every Mitzvah that we'll ever do will always be limited by human shortcoming there's only one way to get a perfect Mitzvah and that is when you're not the one who did the Mitzvah but the missile was given to you by the revenge so that if a person Aiden availa but then had genuine Hirata and genuine as he Vasa fades and genuine Kabbalah law said and the rabona sean is my happy hit into as a flora says rebar some I'm the chauffeur now I am giving you a mitzvah from a local store I'm giving you a custom-made Mitzvah I'm giving you my kind of Mitzvah I'm giving you a gem I'm giving you a perfect Mitzvah says Roberta solemn the Malcolm Shabazz a chuhwa om dim said Gomora my enemy Harlem lamb I'd the myths oyster devotion will give somebody who does chuhwa may have a far surpassed even amid so that it's alikum you could have its added gum or who could been learning in the base madras their entire life pic to show Vitara but if someone II didn't have a run the genuine chuva his Mitzvah some emotion will be on a level that will make all the midst of its adhigam or pale in comparison says that them in a maggot and therefore we come to the month of LL and the emotional says don't settle in the month of L oh you can say all's here I've I even the fish faint when you when they say rush quite a shallow right see I'm I'm sit to ring from koi the shallow you should sit there but don't do the tuber just from sit during because if you just do the tuber from sit during then all the avoid noise are gonna be downgraded seseri but Asylum you know they're different kinds of credit cards you want to have you want to have a premium credit card you want to have premium chuhwa if you want to make sure that the a virus are not just downgraded not just wiped away but elevated and upgraded and shined and polished to the highest level you want to do a real chuhwa Shubham a Ahava is what we're talking about clay - ellos for premium chuva says the CEDAW where is the remnants to play the cello I kneel a like Kimberly Kim Lee that's not the kind of Chula were what we're talking about I mean Luke a volcano I need ID vid ideally I am for my beloved the kind of chuva that we're trying to create and we're trying to accomplish in her the cello is an eel with tidytuber my Ava that's heifers asa to do oh no God no that's a quite a shallow that we're looking for that's why the remiz says if a DA to the month of ll is i nila Dodi could ideally the word that describes the love that the rebound room has for us and the love that we have for the run so you say a visage um I mean that's that's a high my drag huh that's that's you know for big tsadikim look in the hobbit abolish the final chapter Shabbos Hashem a regular Jew could a regular do have a visage M says Messiah Shoreham there are many levels of a possession but every single year has a certain baseline fundamental feeling of avataq Adarsh Marco says musharraf you look at number 24 but ver Kalka has a hero's Ava's Hashem is sawatya abbottabad of our key Ava's her bein love like the love of a child to his father a child doesn't love their father because of its IVA tifus it's a natural love says I'm Association even psalm is hallelu IV hawkinsr he's your Tata therefore it is possible for a person not you don't have to go out and bring it home bring it in it's there you need to draw it forth you need to bring it out you ever wonder it's one of the 613 mitzvot sometimes very interesting cuff Italian rights and the say for a viscosity that the same way you don't eat before the Avenue you don't eat before you put on your toe and you want to make sure that you've accomplished the basic Mitsos I say thy rice in the morning before you even eat says a cup of sky and what about a visage em it's also one of the 613 mitzvot says the soffits Khayyam do not go home from shul in the morning until you could check off that today I was Makai aim the Mitzvah of a visage M when are you Makai Emmitt when you say the pasa we all have taw a such a Malaika and if you can't do it then says the covet Shyam so you do it after domine it takes two seconds the same way you put on tefillin you know in the morning how many mitzvahs door ice are you make I am percocet IRA sits is a Vasa Shem says hobbits Khayyam don't go home don't start our Sheila's boy care until you know you've been McCain bat mitzvah and even though the clevis have others rights at Ava's Hashem is the highest Madrigal says the Vilna gone you could teach a VA's Hashem even to little children so that means my Drago's my Drago's eh there many many many levels of Accession just just basic idea what's the difference between Ava and the Vagos you know wheeler wheel ain't in last week's patch a load of cowboy what students between Avon to Vegas so combats crime rights the Vegas means that the feeling of a visage M is permanent in your heart you're always enraptured by a visage M that's the Vegas but Avvo is just even if LIF Rock'em even if upon occasion a person is more of themselves to Ava's a sham that's the Madre Guevara Sasha so a few months ago I had the privilege to speak in London there's a very important item in London that it's the only place in the world that these still exists telephone booths right on every corner there's a big red telephone booth and the telephone booth serves a very important purpose so Victor Miller used to say that at least once a day a Yid should say no used to say I love you hash em the only thing is people are gonna think you're crazy so I would say that you know people know already it's okay but if you're worried so he would say you go into a telephone booth and you make a long-distance phone call you know and you say I love you a sham but nowadays we bunch Tom gave us a new invention we don't need a telephone we there's something called I don't know if you know about it's not called a cell phone that a lot of people they holster it onto their belt like a gun like a weapon and you can actually take it out at any time of the day and they're people I don't know if you ever seen they're walking through the streets as cars are coming and hitting them they're still on the cell phone so if people are attacking using it you know all day long why not you take the opportunity to make I aim amidst us I say that resident if you're too embarrassed you could text and also it also works but if a person would squeeze a little a visage em until they're chuba and take advantage of the fact that the month of lol is not a Neal a boy Kim Miller Kim Lee Anil Ashima Chumlee I need the talk is that Sonny Latoya David idly then there to vote becomes dynamite then will be the happiest moment of your life then the awesome new will sound like the saw-max Tubbataha so they're in the safer like active he quotes from a very important safer called and of Sevilla Cheltenham again he quotes in the safer Soviet assault on imagine he brings down the fault of the following story so there's a kid playing by the Seacoast and all the kids are playing they're playing dodgeball and one kid goes all the way down to the water he's not playing with the rest of the kids and he looks like he's doing something very strange and the kids look what in the world is this kid doing and he has this thick he has a flag and he's waving the flag he's waving the flags to the kids clout come play with us well why are you playing by yourself what are you doing so a kid says no I have something very important to do he said they said what are you what's going on I'm waving a flag so who are you waving at I'm waving at the ship so you look at in a distance and they see you know what their binoculars this little speck you know slowly moving across the horizon they said what do you mean you're waving at the ship the ship can't see you huh not only could the ship see me says I'm waving my flag at the captain of the ship say where you can't even see the ship how do you expect to see the cab they said no not only am i waving at the captain I am confident that the captain of the ship is waving back at me say why are you so confident he says because the captain of the ship is my father that's why I'm so confident why are we so confident in the month of ll that if I needed ID says omission Brewer that if we put our best foot forward why are we so confident that the reboiler shel olam will respond in kind and return to us and as we wave our white flag of kuba that the emotion will wave back at us how do we know how could we be so certain says powershots ray the opening parsha of hoy the shallow Bonnie might Amla Shama like a.m. that's the engine of chuhwa that's the mechanism of true but I'm gonna tell you alum disappoints and if you came just to hear this it was could I there's a very frightening Gomorrah the alloys yet vuko had the volume this is a very frightening Gomorrah I asked you a question honest question a person sits in Sheol the whole Yom Kippur and fast the entire day let's say a person fast the entire day what happens to their cation absolutely nothing what does Yom Kippur accomplish zero in Kippur doesn't do anything we don't pass skin like rabbee rabbee says he'd sue me show you I'm a copper we passing like the common Yom Kippur without chuva maybe if you're lucky you lost a pound or two but that's it shuva without shuva nothing will ever happen to anything all of a sudden the room come people open up their checkbook Kaval dick we're building a shoal in five towns I have good organizations you could give to writing outer check has absolutely nothing to do with Chubin I can do anything when you receive money to Sadako what happens to a hate nothing Sadako is not chuva she was three things Kurata Ozzy Vasa hate and veto if you don't do that no my some toy then will wipe away any Avera it's not - Tiferet add not Sadako not sir oka not your Kippur the old there's only one way to get rid of a hey that's Tuva but the problem is rabble Issei shuva doesn't work for every hate the Gemara says in Yuma a very frightening tomorrow that paper man off number 12 the Gomorrah says the famous Bryce ax of rubbish moil where we smallest Irish dalla de luca hapara if a person violates and I say they woke woke up late one morning they missed this man Korea Shima if they do chuga BAM immediately they're Avira's wiped out they do not need your keeper yoram Kippur doesn't do anything from it's as I say it's not needed from it's as I say chuva gets rid of mr. Sesay al of casa jump somebody wore sharpness and they did chuva the Avera is not wiped away you need chuva and then Yom Kippur that's one of the reasons we have a soother of Yom Kippur says I've been Rihanna to show the whole year were worried what if we don't make it to Yom Kippur what's gonna be with all the lovin that we did to Vaughn that the tubers ineffective for until Yom Kippur comes and what if has to jump somebody violated laughs eh biker ace shuva is not enough Yom Kippur is not enough caster Shawn the Gemara says ellaby Suren and pillow hashem says the gomorrah not Shuba not Yom Kippur not you sir Amell Abu Musa oh if I buy from this Kamara that means you're Kippur only works for a love I say you don't need yom kippur live change Bukhari assume Kippur doesn't work Yom Kippur is a very limited and specific medication Aloha your kippers / I'm - Alma is clean don't fool yourself Yom Kippur only works for loving it's Gomorrah comes Aikido comes the moon cast cannot and they say a kid the schniff law and by the way in the hack dumb of the true Soviet took a han and heap Askins this way that this Kimura is only talking about chuva mayara because if you do Chuba Mira then the Mason is downgraded to shy gig so downgraded to show gig there still a remnant Thalia Vera so you need your I'm Kippur how's the drama continued Surya your me saw but if you do Chuba may I have us as the feed us as amicus kinases Rubeus ago son and then the Avera of novellas transformed the taki less carbon passer you don't need your Kippur you don't need you su Rimkus to show I'm you don't need Mesa if a person does chuva may Ava in one moment eh koi no llama by Jacques chuhwa me Ava that's what your function reminds us it's not our kneel a boy Kimberly Kim Lee I want to give you the opportunity premium chuhwa right now you don't need yunkai / ll I nearly died even though ideally in a moment of chuva may Allah not II know not only do you wipe away all the cat time its net battle is a Hui I swear you could sing or Shamu like you'd be singing or you Shama bar a you who the vas a suicide Bhanumati le chemin lecithin that's the mechanism of chuhwa that's the first message of the Torah and parish and hi - hello so I'll tell you a story my father told me many years ago so my Ma's Eidos olga's ensign was a rub in Pittsburgh since 1951 and as a pulpit rabbi one of the one of the big jobs as a rabbi you have to officiate at an unveiling why you need a rabbi at an unveiling of no idea but it's good for the paranoia you know so you calling the rabbi he reads the grave and he reads the chapter of Psalms you know because you need to you need Smitha to be able to do this and that's a big job of the rabbi so but my grandfather was not well at the time he just had surgery so my father stepped in and this big six-foot-five western Pennsylvania man comes to the door in his big pickup truck and he says rabbi I'm gonna take you out to the cemetery I have a couple of things to show you so he takes my father add to the cemetery and he says rabbi see this this is my aunt this is my aunt see this this is my uncle my brother my sister you know he's showing graves like he'd be showing off a bottle cap collection this is my son this is my daughter no emotion cold like a rock this guy is you know a big gruff guy and then he shows the grave of his father and his mother who passed away fifty years earlier and he breaks down crying like a baby for his father and mother the first emotion planted in the human heart in a way is the strongest emotion the love for a parent even though one would say you know you love your child more that more than anything else in the world that's the strongest love right but even so the love of a child comes later in life the first Ava that's nits bad that's programmed into the human heart the love that you're born with into this world is the love you have for a parent that's the most basic love says my selfish Arum the love for Hakadosh barukh who is an IVA Divis it's a natural love it's not a big Madrigal you just have to access it you just have to pull it out how low you are visa he's your father says Rebekah vaguer we're in darvany is the mitzvah of Accession in the beginning of Shema how could you tell somebody to love something either you like it you like spinach you don't like it love it love it I'm telling you have to love it either you love it you don't love it you can't force somebody law how could you run shall command us to love him but there is a way in this world that you will automatically love some someone who loves you Shama Mel says Kim I in Panama upon him came Lavinia the Mojave Roy says Ricky vaguer what does it say right before the myths of you have testimony kapha baruch hashem ha boy fair beyond oi you throw l bi hava gosh um loves you once you've oh she loves you and you feel it then it's natural it's chameleon pon him upon him came leave any other mojave Roy if we're Zota says Akita to pay attention to the ramus of quite a shallow i nila doughy David ideally then we could be Zoya as frightening as Ella's and the euro and me amide me it's tacle for NASA but nevertheless if we're able to do chuva even a little bit me IVA then hi Josh lol is a high - of simcha it's ahoy - of Yeshua it's a high - of great achievement made a bunch I'm grant associate of the Shanaya that we should be able to do premium to be able to achieve our may OVA should be me happy all of our avoid noise senses of who you eyes to show bazooka Roxy boxy motiva and a Givenchy are for us in all of our family skies che me and she retired my sis boss tonight here biggest rakaia so big lasting for the very inspiring Joshua although to Dhaka as the rough said may not it's not chuva but it still helps on the husband of mitzvahs at least until Rosh Hashanah according to the revulsion after our son is a different story but till Russian and now Alden for Hashanah you did it Sadako still helps for the husband the demisch Kel mitzvahs and a various and it's perfect opportunity with now to help agasshi retire without what's a cetera to help you with your limited tire and a bus started robbing by putting an ad in the journal for the upcoming dinner or sponsoring one of the remaining sheer American cherie terry at seven one eight eight five one eight six five one or email tape center at Yeshiva net.com for this great source like a big-ish occur so mister Mandy Pomerance for sponsoring tonight's shared like to give a big yester Castle mr. 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