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Rabbi Eliezer Zeytouneh | Preparing Yourself For Shavuot | CHAZAQ
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so we have a charity box and everyone
can give there's one on the wall and
everybody's welcome to do that and make
the world uh more of a
stable place
also want to give a special shout out to
the ladies who come here every Wednesday
night usually on Wednesday night we have
a Hackle Gathering and the learning of
Natasha
and uh
I told him about
his program and they were so gracious to
come and we moved uh we moved our class
uh for uh
foreign
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also a reminder about our program that
we have here here is the Ten
Commandments both on Friday morning past
part of the Avenue 10 15 and then six
o'clock in the afternoon you have
welcome to take a flyer versus welcome
to come and bring your friends we have a
beautiful program prepared
so tonight is actually a very special
night it's the last night of the
accounts of the days of the spirit I
don't want to say the number but you
know the number of days account
and this is an anticipation to the
holiday of the time of the giveaway of
the terrorists and uh so so uh
it's from God's Divine Providence that
that the Gathering we're having is on
the night that really uh uh
fills and ends or concludes or is the
Pinnacle of the counts the night is
really the Pinnacle of the counts
tomorrow night already is
so it's been a long count and with ups
and downs so you have to work on
yourself every one of the days of the 49
days and um it should be a good yamchief
I made a Morocco before
and just a little something of hasidis
before to get ready at
you know I'm sure is uh the passing of
the bashemta who he was told by mashiach
and mashiach will come on this
Wellsprings of casidis will go outside
and so the the learnings of hasidis uh
bring mashiach to come quicker
and is also government passed the way I
believe on the day that Hashem
so these three great personalities are
really what personifies this day in this
motion
the secrets of the Torah and uh which is
about prayer
so
the idea that I want to share something
of a minor that I'm working on and I try
to translate the discourses and maybe if
anybody wants more information about it
they can contact me so in this discourse
that was said in 1974 that ever asked
the question what is really so great
about the giving of the term
now if you look at the giving of the
Torah and there's a famous question if
you look at the Ten Commandments what
are the Ten Commandments
The Ten Commandments seem to be uh
obvious obvious ideas
and they believe in God this is uh
something which is obvious uh not about
unto other gods and okay we need to have
a command for that but to to command to
respect your father and mother command
to not to steal not to kill not to
commit adultery not to comfort your
neighbor's wife seemingly this is the
moment that all of the Jewish people are
waiting for All Creations we're waiting
for and what is it that God's telling
you right like someone that someone
comes up with you and tells you I have a
secret to share for you and then yeah
you tell them and what's the secret and
tell somebody that is known what is the
secret of this great event that the
Angels were fighting that they wanted a
Torah that the Torah shouldn't come down
to earth what is this uh what what was
this idea of the giving of the tire
what's so amazing about that and God
seemed to have said obvious things that
we maybe don't even really need to have
the tour to tell us
so in the this course and many answers
are given one answer is is that the
purpose of creation is like I said in
medrish that before God created the
world he made a divide between the
Heaven and the Earth
like an example of a king who was in
Rome and he made a decree that those in
Rome can go to Syria and those in Syria
can't go to Rome
and this Rome represents the heavens and
Syria represents the Earth and God made
a divide he said the heavens are Gods
the Earth is man and they will not
Mingle
and then the king said I wish the
nullified decree and he himself came
from Rome and he went down to Syria and
so the idea is that before God gave the
Torah there was Torah Abraham Isaac and
Jacob the study Torah Even Adam study
Torah notice Noah study Torah all of the
people before they give me the theory
also study term but the Torah they
started it was more a spiritual study
and the Torah that they studied and the
acts that they did didn't but the Surah
says
peeled the sticks he was thinking about
fill in but after he finished peeling
the sticks in order to make the Sheep
the color that he wanted he was able to
throw away the sticks the sticks did not
become holy after they give you the
tutorial what was what was it that God
gave to man what was it the ability that
God gave the Jewish people at the giving
of the terror that a they're able to
draw down from God his infinite light
able to draw us down from God not only
from a higher world for the world of
elimination the world of its use they're
able to draw out from God even before
that symptom even for the consumed were
able to draw down from God that which is
infinite and they're able to elevate the
creation they're able to elevate a
mundane act they're able to elevate a
physical given that Eternal laws the
joining of Heaven and Earth the joining
of that which is infinite the joining
which is which is finite so when God did
that then he revealed himself at the
mountain he wasn't only revealing
himself of them out and commanding the
Jewish people laws that they would not
know and how here it is you have to obey
these laws
Thou shalt it was a lot more than that
it was that it is empowering the Jew
that every single two time a Jew studies
Torah God is this
he becomes the mouth before it is that
God is speaking and he is responding
he is the god is his study Parton more
than that it is that when he is studying
Tory it becomes like he is a Oracle for
God it's like God is speaking the word
of those three in every Jew when he's
sitting and studying standing ways he
teaches Torah it's like like sign is
occurring again and we're hearing God's
voice coming out of his mouth
and as well when you do the Mitzvah
you're not only uh you are you are
drawing down the Holiness of Hashem but
not just temporarily like it came down
to Mount Sinai but it's actually taking
the physical out you're drawing down the
infinite light of God and you're making
the physical a vehicle for godliness the
the physical never will be the same it
now becomes a holy object when the Torah
fall when it when it when the film falls
on the ground you kiss it when a book is
not it's not able to be used anymore you
bury it the physical object must be
transformed and this is the idea to
answer the questions a lot more to this
why is it that God told us simple things
because the simple things will never
become the same the point of the giving
is that is to combine the Heaven and the
Earth to take the spiritual and the
physical and make it one to ever after
introduce the unity of God we're in
those physical things in those simple
things in respectful of your father in
respecting your mother and honoring your
mother in natural murder in not to kill
in uh to Cove at someone else's uh
property you're taking those simple
things and the point is to take those
simple things that seems simple to us
because it's part of life of mankind and
bring Holiness into it which you're able
to receive the terror and give us some
attention
and again thank everybody for coming and
we wish we have a video and healthy
summer and we should be able to see the
tour and joy and eternal life amen amen
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uh ladies and gentlemen thank you so
much for joining and thank you so much
for having me I want to thank hazak and
the great Rabbi
if a rabbi was so committed and so
dedicated to the people speak to Zeal
and such emotion God should give him
many many years is that Hashem
everything that he does Amen it's not
it's not easy being a rabbi you have to
deal with so many different things and
you need Kawa so every time you know you
see the rabbi you say Rabbi thank you so
much you know thank you for everything
you do it's Infuse the rabbi with that
appreciation to give the rabbi a little
bit more ability and strength to endure
Professor rights a phenomenal thing you
know we think that time comes upon us
tomorrow the hours change right you wake
up in the morning time Came Upon you if
that's the right that's not so
we time doesn't come to us we travel
into time you know it's like anybody
ever go to Disney World that'll make
believe you didn't go everybody
let's call it space
you walk into Disney World and there's a
ride It's a Small World
and you go into It's a small world and
you're sitting there and your mama's
walk and right you travel I hope you're
not walking you travel through all these
wonderful scenes the scenes are not
coming to you you're going to the scene
so if that's the right every year
when you hit a holiday you're going into
the holiday the chef that was in that
time that was present over there
originally is still there that means a
splendor the prosperity the blessing
that was once there before that we
learned about that you hear about is
still there and if you're grabbing
you'll be able to grasp it internalize
it and live it and therefore
Shabbat on the 80th page on the first
site
over there right someone said
we will commit and we will listen we're
going to fulfill and we're going through
here it says that six hundred thousand
Angels descended on the earth each one
with two crowns and every Jew that
accepted the Torah received two crowns
one can make it now I say we will do and
one for them we will hear
and they're always there what does that
mean what are the two what are these two
crowns what does that mean well the
crown represents you know royalty it's a
Regal and therefore if a person accepts
soda properly you're a king in two
places you're King and Allah you're a
king and Allah and the next World and
this world in fact Rashi right what were
those crowns
they were from the light of God that
radiated upon every single Jew
which means according to what we said
that if tomorrow night we accept the
Torah with the same fervor the same
zealotry thing that's a word same
excitement exhilaration the benesal
accepted it originally you're able to
grab
extend your hand and grasp
that is
everybody was healed from all their
maladies it was an antidote to all
illnesses it says
the entire nation were able to see the
sound waves which means nobody was blind
okay imagine perfect eyesight imagine I
didn't have glasses and by the way I
think that I look better with glasses
that happens oh my wife tells me that I
guess and why doesn't think I'm deep in
here at all anyway but
right so if I would have a perfect
eyesight I would probably just you know
wear the fake lenses but imagine perfect
eyesight you know what it's like it's a
phenomenal thing it's the most
embarrassing thing my daughter God bless
her just got her permit her driver's
permit drivers please watch that and and
she you know she uh they take it they
take you over there and they want it you
know to gauge your eyesight
right they want to give you eyesight so
they make you read they say please you
know what read the the fourth line The
Fifth Line
so I said honey memorize it
says what do you mean I said remember
why it's the last line she goes what are
you talking about I said look at the
last line you see what it says it says
c-h-k-h-u-m-u-m-a-n it says check human
just remember Daddy I could see it stop
it
you can see it because it's embarrassing
the lady's looking at you okay uh okay
it's embarrassing imaginary cell
crossy
they were able to stand under the
mountain everybody was able to stand
there was no need for wheelchairs for
canes for Walkers everybody was
beautifully healthy
and if I was I were able to tap into
that tomorrow night but we have to be
excited you have to be pumped up the
next couple of minutes
I'm going to try my hardest to try to
inspire you
to be pumped to get excited everybody
ready
let's get started it was a rhetorical
question but you can answer anyway ready
here we go
there's a interesting Pursuit the TV
it
satisfies the soul
because
they're straight they make the heart
Mary
and my question is very simple
why is it the Torah is the remedy
for happiness
why is it to write the right this is
satisfies the soul it makes a person
happy it is the Bill of happiness
you know go out to Google I'm not you
know suggesting but take a look how many
people are depressed anxiety-ridden how
many people have pressure how people are
saddened they walk around with their
heads hung low
and we're telling you tonight that
DaVita milk tells us if a person wants
to solve his Melody he wants to get out
of the you know the uh the sadness of
life
the question is why why is Torah the
magic pill
for joy jubilance and happiness and
that's really what I want to talk about
tonight tonight I want to give you a
couple of reasons why if a person wants
to become happiness happiness doesn't
make sense the person wants to become
happy
you need no pills you need no you know
that I went to a guy I have a
chiropractor have a couple of uh you
know uh pinched nerves in my back my
mother-in will kick me a few times
anyway and uh
tough lady you know she's a good lady
and so you go to these guys at
chiropractor and also he plays this like
mystifying music I said what is this
what is this stuff this guy it puts you
to sleep I want something to make you
happy
the robbers are telling you you don't
need a pill to be happy you don't need
therapy to be happy all you need is a
dose an ounce of Torah and my question
tonight is why why does it work is it
Abracadabra is it a singular is it just
like something if I do if I act a
certain oh it's an omen and it's going
to precipitate happiness what about my
learning
is going to be
able to rid me
of my maladies forever
so let's get started I don't know if the
the uh you know the ashkenazine say this
if we say by Mustafa and Shabbat we say
the following words
is a person who is diligent when it
comes to learning Torah
and he causes a pleasantness a happiness
ugly
which means that when I'm sitting and
I'm delving and I'm committed and I'm
alerting I cause God happiness this is
is reciprocal meaning we have to take
the first step towards academ
when we take a first step towards God
bodilam reciprocates in the same exact
fashion same exact measure
that we enacted so if we precipitated
them here but Elam responds and replies
in kind
in fact
a person thinks
a measure for a measure is a reward and
a punishment it says it's not the Rabbi
says it has nothing to do with
punishment nothing to do with reward
meaning let's say I come and I I make
Buddha I'm happy
so measure for measure God has to make
me happy
what happens if a person doesn't deserve
to be happy
so says
it's not punishment it's not to be wood
it's the way God runs His World God runs
his world without connecting me that
meaning that if you do something to an
act a certain Merit something in heaven
has to give it to you whether or not
you deserve it I gotta tell you a great
story
approximately 18 years ago
I was a ready for a seventh grade I was
most 20 years ago
and their kids over there were
impossible in fact when I first got the
job the director of the school said good
luck I thought she just was giving me a
bit no she meant good luck okay and one
of the boys was you know making a lot of
trouble and he was acting out in class
and I was a pretty strict rubby and I
turned to him I said y'all see a
thousand word assignment uncovered he
said Rabbi a thousand words a thousand
words thousand words on kavod I'm gonna
count them if it's 998. you have to do a
thousand more
this is Rabbi please cut it down
negotiating with me I said you'll see a
thousand and the whole day is begging me
every time he sees me in the hallway he
begs me rather please thousands too much
a little excessive don't you think you
can't charge me a thousand words I said
you'll see a thousand anyway
before the end of the day I felt bad for
you'll see a thousand words is a lot
okay in high school I don't think I did
a thousand words total okay so I woke up
to him I said y'all see you know what
make it 500. this is Rob I think there's
so much 500. okay tell it now they have
GPT you could do 10 000 words that's
right
so
as I'm walking out of the building my
wife calls me and she says honey you
know you have a court date in New Jersey
I said I have a court date in New Jersey
what are you talking about she goes yeah
you remember you made a u-turn you know
was illegal they stopped you they gave
you a ticket today it's a good thing
you've got to run to New Jersey
I said to myself I said but honey don't
worry she said why I said whatever it is
to find do they want to find me I'm only
gonna have to pay half
she goes how do you know I said watch
I get into my car and I drive to New
Jersey and I pull into the uh to the
parking lot and I walk into the
courtroom and right away as you walk
into the courtroom it's very nice they
do this in New Jersey they don't do it
in Brooklyn you have two options fight
your ticket I settle if you want to
settle do you go to the right and there
you have a lawyer over there and he
compromises with you if you want to
fight good luck go and talk to the judge
so sure enough I was hungry I went to
the right okay I already know the
verdict anyway
the guy comes the lawyer and the clerk
and he says listen the ticket is for a
thousand dollars
he did a tremendous crime a U-turn and
stiff area
he says but if you want to cut it down
to 500
. I said deal I said without gonna give
me that I know I didn't deserve it I did
the crime I went there I did the U-turn
I was even a wise guy with a cap he
walked in I said wow it's a beautiful uh
uniform you have of it can I get one
either way but and
what happened
because I cut it down for my student
says even if you don't deserve it I cut
it down for you I got into my car and I
called my wife and I said honey the fund
was a thousand
but I got it down to 500. she says honey
how did you know so I told her the story
and she said genius I said thank you he
says no no that was rhetorical you
should have given it all off he had only
half off the Whole Thing Off You Came
scot-free because without gonna agree
that is not a system of reward and
Punishment
with that I could understand
which means that if I come and I learn
Torah and I'm excited about it and I
caused a sense of happiness I make
foreign
you don't deserve it there are many sins
that you transgress many infractions
many violations you might not deserve it
but without connecting me that is not a
system of reward and Punishment
and therefore
happiness happiness is exactly what
you're going to get so the more you
learn ladies and gentlemen the more your
in-laws move away every night happiness
that has got to be by the way my mother
was very nice as long as she stays away
it's okay she lives in New Jersey God
bless her and God bless the New Jersey
people God help the New Jersey people
anyway
ladies and gentlemen and now I
understand a couple of things number one
many times we think
than the pursuit of happiness we have to
bend
in our religious and preservance
sometimes we think that if we want to be
wealthy you want to be happy with your
means with your financial means
sometimes you got to compromise
you can't be so honest sometimes you
can't be so genuine
and now we're telling you you want to be
happy person
because by following following the law
and saying to the dictate
that yields happiness what Islam says
you made me happy
I gotta make you happy it's how many
times do we waver and we believe
genuinely
if I talk about somebody I'm jealous of
that's going to cause me to be happy I'm
gonna get him I'm gonna smash him I'm
gonna come now I'm going to post I'm
going to publicize I'm going to publish
a very defamatory you know product on my
my friend something
thinking that by doing that that's going
to make me happy says you could live
a perfectly life
perfectly content life with yourself
just look to me put it all unhappy
and by the way
were they saying this in a couple of
other things
because there's so many a plethora of
rabbinical sources in the gemara
that we can now put together and weave
into a beautiful blanket everybody ready
listen to this wonderful cameras
over here the following words says
you have 10 people sitting and learning
Torah
comes down comes down and rests upon you
you're sitting down and you're learning
today ladies and gentlemen we have
people over here God is with us
continues if you have five people
sitting and learning tuna
comes down
if you got three the alarm comes down if
you have one
comes down
comes to visit you
when you visit winter when you visit
when you learn Torah
ladies
the 30th page second side
and the Quran says that when the Shakira
comes to rest upon a person that doesn't
come Lord
God doesn't rest upon you if you're
saddened
for over two decades and he says that
finally when you heard that yourself was
alive
it was alive it was revived
and the right she writes that that's
when God spoke to him because God
doesn't come to you when you're silent
he has to come to you out of melancholy
poor Elam comes to you when you're happy
so now let's plug in our previous
equation the equation is that if a
person comes and learns Torah God says I
owe you what do I owe you my presence
I gotta come I gotta visit you
but I can't
because he said
because you're nervous
because you're anxious because you're
depressed
because he agitated
says if that's the case and I owe you my
presence
what do I got to do I gotta remove the
sadness I gotta remove the depression I
gotta move the anxiousness I have to
remove the melancholic feelings that a
person has I gotta move it out of the
way
because I owe you one and that's why
Torah ladies and gentlemen is the recipe
of happiness because it's not Magic
it's just Buddhism says I owe it to you
that's what the Quran says you learn I
gotta visit you you made me happy I have
to come visit you
I gotta visit you I can't come if you're
sad I guess I just got to get rid of the
sadness I just got to get rid of the
agitation the stress the problems
and the truth is I see it in my own life
I see that that I'm agitated
sometimes anyway but
sometimes I walk in and the boys
great boys but not everybody's perfect
and sometimes you get upset at a child
for doing something he's not supposed to
do and I walk into my class and the boys
take a look oh boy Rabbi he must have
just you know I had an encounter with a
boy boy what happened he must have just
chastise this kid he's sitting down
and by the end of an hour class I'm
jumping up and down I'm singing songs
I'm moving around I want to dance with
the boys
what happened how is Torah such a mood
alterer
now we know why because William says you
have a whole class of boys sitting and
learning I got a company I gotta be part
of this but I can't because there's a
cloud over here of Anger of agitation of
stress
that's the case like a vacuum
I got extracted from reality
and when that's extracted
we are left with happiness joy and Glee
sometimes a person has a traffic jam
have happened to you parking ticket have
you got a parking ticket I think I
pulled over once a week anyway and
so and you come in and you'll stressed
but I'm gonna what am I going to do what
am I say
and I sit down and chill and I open up
my safety and I start writing notes
and before you know it it just changes
the entire atmosphere
one second
many times you think that agitation is
not in your hands sometimes a person is
causing me to be upset sometimes a
person right I get screamed at about my
boss my employees the bus driver the guy
who's right behind me says hello shower
once in a while whatever all these guys
are bothering me at all times and fun
that's not within my wherewithal
but God you guaranteed me to be happy
listen to this great puzzle says
when a person does what God wants even
the enemies make peace with you why
should they make peace with you what'd
you do
and the answer is because I want you to
be happy people are upsetting you the
agitating like I gotta stop that
could you imagine that tomorrow
we have the ability to wear with all
to solve our problems
forever
it's an unbelievable thing
tremendous
but wait wait wait
this is
like this ready
jealousy
desires
they extract the person pull a person
out of the world
here's my question what does it mean
they pull the person out of the world
how does jealousy pull you out of the
world how does desire play out of the
world how does the pursuit of covert of
Honor I don't understand by the way
there's a lot of people that are jealous
they're silly
there's no death sentence for jealousy
there's no death sentence for desire
there's no death sentence where people
want covered I know a lot of people who
want honor who live on it they thrive on
honor
they're still here so what does it mean
that pulls you out of the world you know
what I mean ladies and gentlemen
it means that has long
does it have one of those negative
attributes as long as I'm a person who
has jealousy
I'm not able to enjoy my own world
I cannot enjoy my world
if I'm jealous of somebody else
I'll give an example
I go for dinner with my wife
and we walk into a restaurant now I know
automatically what I want it's always a
ripstick okay
medium well rip steak I used to love it
well done I used to love my steaks well
done in fact we once went out to kosher
Delight I love our Shalom and we I
ordered a rip steak nobody ordered a rib
steak and coaches like you remember
coaching Delight everybody no you don't
remember coach's life anyway let's go to
the light you know God's arrested
and they would put it on and I said
listen I want it well done if it's not
well done I'm bringing it back you gotta
put it back on I said okay sir sure
enough he gives me a rip steak my wife
is embarrassed nobody had Ripsticks in
Coastal Design and I sit down and I'm
eating my rib steak eating my rib steak
and it was by the bone a little bit
I said honey
it's red
she said it's right by the bone I said
no no we got to give this back
well done rip steak I want a full well
done rib steak he says please don't do
it and I'm doing it I paid for it I'm
doing it please honey don't do it I go I
take it to the guy looks at he says you
want me throw in the garbage I said no
put on the Fire
put one of the fire there's nothing here
so please I paid for a whole steak put
it on the Fire
the guy puts on the fire and all the
days he said call out the orders right
chicken nuggets burger right french
fries a bone
so I go out my wife
and I know what I want my wife doesn't
always know what she wants God bless
that
and sometimes when I order
and I know my orders in when the waiters
walking with the other people's orders
and I see what they have I realize
that my order was not exactly as good as
this
now all of a sudden I love my steak but
it's not the same
I could spend a million dollars building
my house loving my house
proud of it until the guy next door
built the house with one more floor
all of a sudden
my house is not that great make a
wedding for my daughter
and I put out all the Frills that I can
and two days before the wedding I'm
invited to my friends toward his wedding
and I walk in I find it's a little bit
more ostentatious than mine all of a
sudden my wedding don't look as good
why nothing changed about my wedding or
my steak or my house
but when you're jealous you're no longer
able to enjoy your world it takes you
out of your world desire
[Applause]
yeah now it's three numbers instead of
ten extension 106 what do you care what
extension is anyway and I called her I
said she goes hi honey I said honey how
you doing good what's for dinner
always it's a daily conversation me and
my wife God bless her she has to deal
with me
and every day she tells us for dinner
and sometimes I know what I want for
dinner
I know what I want I want a steak I love
steak
honey what's your dinner noodles and
cheese
knows the cheese
I want steak just use the imagination
could you imagine a person eating
noodles and cheese and barbecue sauce
doesn't work it doesn't work because
when you have time you can't enjoy what
you have
and comfort is easy when a person is
always running after honor
look at that
everybody bowing down except for
Mordechai
and he couldn't handle it he couldn't
live his life
what causes a person to be jealous
to have desires and to pursue honor
what is it
a person's evil inclination works on you
and works and you works and he says
do you know that he built a bigger house
so when I'm happy with my house no no
but look how much bigger it is walk in
there walk into that take a look here
you won't buy and as you're walking by
you know you're not getting the stick
that night you walk by and all of a
sudden you smell barbecue next door
and he'll tell you why funny because I
have a little uh you know noodles and
cheese I'm going next door for barbecue
who made you smell the barbecue now
you're Desiring who calls you to want to
honor yes
from being happy I'm not able to enjoy
my life as long as I am here
but what do you think God says you learn
until now you're going to be happy
how's it work how could it be if I
learned but I still have can I
sell jealousy yourself desires there's
someone covered how is God going to make
me happy you listen to this gorgeous
gamara
the gorgeous woman I can be found myself
the 30th preacher in the second side
foreign
I created every person with an evil
inclination
but what stops the evil inclination
God says you learned turnout you're
going to be happy what do you mean what
about my jealousy it's gonna go have to
it's a promise I'm gonna make happy I'm
gonna be happy I gotta get rid of that
yet
I love money
too
foreign
to plug yourself in with the equation
with a combination
of happiness
and happiness forever it's such an
important idea and whatever is there
obstructing the happiness from falling
into my heart
it's like a plunger it just sucks it out
and allows me to enjoy my life
God is what Torah is all about
but there's one more way
that's what our causes it helps the
person become happy
and in my opinion
it's probably the primary way
if that's the rights that there are two
types of people in the world
there's an Hotel
and another thing
an hotel is a person who is always
looking to take
he always wants to receive he always
wants right he wants always gets he
wants to get things from other people
his entire ammo is entire slogan his
motto is take
get it done this guy will give to take
he'll give somebody a gift because he
wants the praise
because he wants the blessings he's not
giving to give
he's giving to take
but then you have other people
tell her the converse
there are people who always give
and sometimes they take
in order to give I'll give you an
example
everybody if you're married your kids
should be well if you're not married you
get married if kids be well
and all of a sudden your little kid
comes up to you right before tomorrow's
holiday
and she presents you
with a beautiful well a picture
that she Drew in school ugliest thing
ever saw and she gives it to you and she
says daddy mommy taught me whatever
happy holidays
and you don't want that thing
but you take it
why do you take it
because you want to give them love
because you want to give them confidence
because you want to give them
reassurance because you want them to
feel good that's taking in order to give
that's the way it works I'll take only
because I know you'll be happy
you know sometimes we have a we have a
party every pudding but that should be
all invited I'm not telling you where I
live now at least 12th Avenue V anyway
and every person we have a party and
people come with me I don't know if you
could notice I probably don't notice I'm
dieting
potato chips and people bring me these
Fried Chicken Fried Chicken I'll eat
anyway and all these all these things
and I take it with a smile
even though I don't want it
because by taking it from you I'm giving
you I'm giving you the satisfaction of
feeling good
ladies and gentlemen teaches you how to
turn and transform yourself from a taker
to a giver
so a person who's always giving I'll
prove it to you yes
tonight 29th preach on the first sight
and they go over there talks about the
relationship between husband the father
and son
Father and Son famous women
says
it's what have been alive
of the Son and the father again the
first time he talks about a connection
between Father and Son
what does it talk about the connection
between Father and Son them it's both of
the Son and the father says
you know what it means it doesn't talk
about the way the fall the son has to
respect the father it starts with the
way that the father has to take care of
his son because your little kid is
incapable of giving we're not worried
about the child giving you now are
starting to become a father
teaches you you have to be a giver from
the get-go
that's when you become a father
if not you're a birther person
he gave birth
to be a father
you got to become a giver so the first
message that the given I gives
is what the father has to do for his son
that's the first interaction we ever
think about between Father and Son
well if you take a look at any medical
studies psychological studies all the
studies that they do it could do once
they're doing a study I'll give it to
you
to the secret of happiness comes from
giving
when you give you're happy because if
you're a takeout you're always going to
look fatigue
but if you're a giver you're always
happy with what you have
just enable me to give you more to help
you more
so we're going to conclude over here
and I want to give you a little bit a
blessing
that's me that's good okay
you should Merit
to the same the same prosperity
wonderful things that have been a cell
merited all those years ago I simply
give you the blessing to give you the
constant happiness and walk around all
day long with a smile because you are
the greatest nation in the world I'm
going to end up with one idea I said it
before
by the way it was a daily dose I only
going to put it again ready we say the
following words
every day when we say because
God you chose us from all the nations
sounds redundant no what do you mean you
chose us to be a nation how do you
choose us to be a nation
so why we're saying the same thing twice
it's not the same thing
means I'm Jewish
it chose me to be a Jew
means you're observing you
because not all Jews are connected to
Torah if you are connected
part of the greatest
club in the world
and the executive branch
of the greatest club in the world
tomorrow you have the ability to change
your life forever to extract to suck out
to plunge out any traces of sadness
forever to give God tremendous happiness
let's do it with a full Heart Like A
tenth mind and by doing so we will Merit
all of the wonderful in the Torah thank
you so much