Rabbi Fishel Schachter: Calm Down About Life!

who'll come out volume Bechet me I can share Tyra my sis Boston like to welcome everyone today to tonight she'll the man here in the main show the women upstairs and downstairs and all the people listening in through the phone system and watching it through the livestream buffa my poem to everyone by two biggest requests you heard the Rubens team for support for tonight's shave with a mishmash of live five Obon Yaakov and Mitch must see Maury Ruffalo kvass VI a player my Shaolin I've always said is just one shear left copper rind I was great scores I've also said their album response to the last year tomorrow night of the summer program called seven one eight eight five one eight six five one or email tape Center at yeshiva net.com tonight we have the cover tablet us once again of official chef specially to re-tune shiritori with us and eyelid off to speak the calm down about life gave everyone extra few minutes to calm down for this year and now it's my covered the corner set up it's a nice gesture like everyone for waiting and shoe provided parking over here on the side which is a very big problem for me because usually my excuse for coming ladies that I couldn't find parking so but we have to deal with everything it's a real kiddush Hashem see you know I'm like this over here as we move into our Benish mush ice from summer back into full rubber ball call me at the beginning of the summer and asked to do this partially say say so of course my initial reaction is I can't and enough time and I'm not gonna be here and then they kind of told me well you know if you say you're giving a sheer passion ski say it say then it comes to the varnish lungs problems and make sure you're around then I said you know you're right I think I'll I'll take this year I'll do it you know that they they just put up a red light for the first time on the corner of Avenue F and East second Street there's been an it was in the process of making well aware there it's in the process of but it was functioning yesterday for the first time and there were three accidents Varsham minor I think why because people don't cop there's a light there you're living in the area 20 years 30 years 40 years all of a sudden is light wise their life and also cars coming up a second stop at a stop sign the cars are beeping what he's stopping there's a green light I think that in a way it kind of indicates what Rosh Hashanah is Rosh Hashanah is wake up and see the new red light that ashame installed stop and think we're not used to it our mind it doesn't work it doesn't think there's a bridge someplace which is too low for trucks to pass and trucks keep crashing into the bridge and there's a big sign that says you know the bridge is only it doesn't work so what they did was they installed there's all kinds with all kinds of plans it seems it's a railroad tunnel and they can't make it any high it's railroad bridge and the railroaders want to make it any higher and to dig lower they can't because the plumbing pipes that are there but trucks just don't think they keep crashing in so what they did was a block before they put in a scanner and the scanner was when it senses that a hard truck is coming the light turns red and that took away the vast majority of the accidents why because once the truck driver stopped he read the sign that says low bridge once you got the person to stop we we don't read the signs we just keep going we just keep moving you want a shrimp to wake us up so we can see the red light you know I remember many years ago I was sitting in the car I was driving up to Muncie and I had some things to discuss with my wife we definitely didn't take any passengers because whether we have some things to discuss it's very hard to have those moments you can just discuss things quietly you know on the phone rings I'm not gonna tell you actuals but more or less with something like this so one daughter calls much I do my babies having your first diaper rash you know and she's all excited that wife is busy with that I don't know what the Shamir us how can we talk now and we go a little more and I get another call you know ty he's supposed to co-sign the mortgage there's a problem with the paperwork could you have it done by yesterday okay little bit of ITER phone rings again where's the pump there's a flood in my garage I know you have a palm pocket phone rings I'm not picking it up you gotta pick it up next kid stopped up in your house and there's a raccoon on the front porch oh no I said what do you do it so they opened the door and so how did that help you so well now the raccoon is in your dining room and like if things are really intense like my nerves are about the plots and the phone rings and this a Nicole calls it says he just started to drive it says yes now what's your problem I'm the first time at a gas station new I'm pumping gas yeah how do you know when it's full so I'm like I give up I give up I give her I says answer the kid so I said to him say Furla you'll see when right before it's full the trigger like pops back it it pops back yeah but don't fight it cuz if you keep fighting it you're you're gonna over fall the gas will spritz out on you just just feel it okay and as I'm explaining to Munson like but I'm scared what if I yell oh don't worry you'll what if I don't feel it you'll feel it feel it just don't find it when you feel it slow down and stop and as I hang up the phone so my wife says to me what do you just say I didn't mean to yell at him no no no he took it it deserves a yelling it's gonna what'd you just say I said Hashem has it all planned out we have our tensions we have our moments you know when the tank fills the trigger stops automatically just keep going relax provided that you don't fight the trigger provided when a Shem says stop when the trigger feels that I filled up you know because you could fight that trigger on the gas like might people pop off you know they want to fill up we want to get it to the even number bothers them then it's 6633 it got to be 66 767 right so I'm not sure what that psychological need is to get it 367 but anyway how that exactly helps you I'm not sure so don't fight the trigger so I remember once I was sitting in the hospital or a family member and one of the machines was beeping beep beanthere hospitals are notorious for not letting a person sleep they I'm convinced you have a bunch of nurses standing behind by a camera as soon as okay you fell asleep swish you know fall asleep swish they come running in I've got to give you an injection I remember my mother lash it was a true story it sounds like Three Stooges but it's unfortunately was true my mother finally fell asleep this nurse comes in I have to give her medication so she just fell asleep I'll give it to her No can I ask you what the medication was she says ambien was just a sleeping pill I said you waking her up to give her a sleeping pill she goes you're not supposed to be here after visiting hours say we know so I'm sitting with this person and it's going beep beep beep if they're coming you know one of the monitors is going yeah it's nothing it's just malfunctioning I know but the patient can't sleep if it's going beep bead so this is I saw a camera I walk back and she's gone so all night long it's gonna go beep beep beep I'm supposed to try to get better I said Huson hospitals are there to get better check into a hotel room so finally I said I said the patient said to me I can't take it I can't take it so I said to him I want to tell you interesting thing I remember once I was up the entire I was up the entire night it was before camp and all the kids off on the bus and I ran to diving for seekin and I came back and I can't wait to get into bed in the morning stayed off from you Sheila the kids are away in camp and someone comes in to me and says no you promised to take me to Home Depot this morning so I figured you know what I'll sleep in the parking lot I sleep in the parking lot and I pull into the parking lot I know it's at least an hour ok and I dropped down the windows and it was like a nice day 70 degrees outside you could sleep in the car then I reclined the seat all the way back and it went all the way back which was a mess and I don't know there was some alarm going that wasn't stopping and I closed my eyes and it was driving me mad and I had this idea I said imagine I'm here with a big hose and someone said there's there's a tank you're full of hundred-dollar bills and every time you pull the trigger hundred-dollar bills will come through the pipe into your into your suitcase it's legal you could fill it up and as soon as it gets filled up then you can walk away with it just press the trigger and I take the trigger and it goes and another few hundred dollar bills go it's like close my eyes and I'm imagining I'm pressing the trigger hundred dollar bills are flying hundred I fell asleep so good you can't imagine it's amazing how this sound didn't bother me any but was the most annoying sound in the world I said no this is my trigger and you want you could imagine you putting chocolate onto the cake you know no listen you take the most annoying honking sound and converted into into Brava it was so peaceful that you can't imagine I remember who in the bungalow colony there was an ice cream truck and I think I had an old refrigerator ice cream truck it made a racket like you can't imagine he was the Mangala colony owner he had a little ice cream concession that we told them no one can sleep because you can't sleep when the truck goes off but as Arnie says I can't sleep when the truck goes off he says that noise is music to my ears music to your ears not music to my ears right but maybe that's that's part of life attaining some level of minerals and effort and maybe somehow we can turn noise into music but how could I turn noise into music the annoying honking of the car is not putting hundred-dollar bills but it's not it's not putting chocolate it's someone's alarm going beep beep so I'm gonna share something with you which again I apologies to the camera but I have said it in the past if you heard it at banging my fila there's a while ago in the summer a little shul next to camp I would go there during the day a little bit vanilla nephesh try to relax a little bit and I'm there and this man is coming down the stairs I said Oh No I was like a little librarian he comes in but a bunch of plastic bags and needed this hour to prepare shear and he's making so much noise I can imagine crunch crunch shopping bag then he sits down and he takes out of coffee daddy bought and he takes off the lid of the coffee and this dish my brother all over including all my notes and I'm like I would get up and leave but you know I didn't want to insult the person and then I didn't realize I just never realized how much noise you can make drinking a coffee he's like slurp slurp slurp then after each gulp I thought I'm gonna go out of my mind and then he notices me and he comes over and he gives me uh Zets on my plate so you know gives me a good slap on the back what I really I wanted to say take your answer I didn't I didn't because I don't want embarrassment or make a fool out of myself or reveal to everyone what's cooking on the inside and he starts telling me that he has a kid of his that's not well and he's listening to one of my tapes so much you're him and how it helped him everybody likes compliments you know that and after he gave me this compliment it's very interesting I didn't hear a drop of noise coming from his coffee I didn't hear a drop of noise coming from his plastic bags did he suddenly acquire good me dose or when he wasn't in my way when he was no longer an adversary to my peace if he wasn't invading my manuka son FS just the absent he was complimenting me well the sudden there was a noise all of a sudden there wasn't music and it occurred to me at that moment that this is the trick of manuka son efficient life if you are gonna try to stop that annoying beeping beep beep beep forget it you can't stop it what you could do is turn it into music okay so you have to have an imagination and believe hundred-dollar bills are coming out how do you do that it really has to do with the level of our Emunah if we had the proper level of our omona and we know that when we wake up in the morning a Shem looks at our file and says okay Shimon has to have I don't know how it gets measured you know 45 cc's of Agnes nephesh today some of it is serious he's gonna back up and rip off the bumper of a guy that's the United States wrestling champion champion who's sitting in his car it's gonna be a nasty sight and Shimon daven's a good Shimon s Rea Shem says no no no what we're gonna water it down there's gonna be an annoying noise coming to mean he's trying to rest if I knew that took place wouldn't I be very very happy with that annoying noise so I needed to punish them to threaten me with the wrestling champion go straight to it so Ramona says like this we have it kiyah true in a true love what's the difference he says it ki has to remind us you have a heart that's beating you have lungs that are breathing your arms can move around you can talk you can open your eyelids I went to visit someone ever had a stroke tomorrow it's Lonnie can't open his eyelids so I leave those shots they have to be taped open never think about it that it's a Brophy you can open your eyelids it's a gift it's a gift from a college parcel so that kia is like this hello I'm here I'm giving you life I'm giving you an ability to breathe and so Edison the truth is you're not getting it huh okay let me take it away from you no no it's amazing uh that maybe cause it's all on a ham it's over oh thank you sure I can do it through the truer but I'd much rather do it through the tier says how much the chauffeur is already Shana mission Oscar wake up with the Kia don't wake up with the true beep beep a Shem says I need that now has Jim transferred who knows what pain and what suffering into a little bit of an annoyance Thank You boy Oracle ILOM him thank you they think about this you tried to sleep at night and there's an annoying honking uh-uh and I'm magnin by Mona Salima there could be different reasons where I can't sleep one could be recommended son the persons waiting a biopsy report one could be recommended son his lawyer told them I'll find out tomorrow if they're pressing charges Russell Marla's love water could be one could be the man I was designing whether he's throwing his get out of the Jeep and he can't sleep at night or it could be beep which won't you rather have yeah I don't have that problem that's the point take the TIA beep beep invention I don't need the true take that Kia so there's a famous story the hey look at the wreck I am he lost his son or mayor nothing it's the father of the bubble screen LeBron the first time so I'm a bubble of so that shabbos heap rabadash omelets in the Rebbetzin was not very happy she said to him you buried a chicken and he said I got a slap on the back someone slaps you on the back you turn around you turn around oh I'm being attacked you're ready for the fight oh that's your friend it's a friendly slap he says I got a slap from the diviner Shaughnessy came from Hashem that came from the friend Cephas full moon she'll tell me therefore fondants free from limbo Gervase I want to take the different kinds of art then let's try to understand it this way you're sitting in shul you're about to drink a coffee a guy walks in a shoes abyssal as I interesting and it comes over and gives you a good zetz on the back good morning and your coffee goes flying and everything long and your turn around you really want to give it to the guy but you didn't think you were being attacked but you're like excuse me not with your hands you understand that okay let's say you're trying to get a hold of a shotgun for your daughter trying to get a hold of him for a week so I'll call you back tomorrow after tomorrow text an email in Macomb he doesn't pick up calling from a different number he does pick up you know the trick hey ox I can't talk to you now you need him in shul listen if I have any information for you I'll talk to you you're really frustrated you get through to him if you were someone important he would pick up Thanks nothing like a little self-esteem injection there right once in a while and all of a sudden you're sitting is showing you on our rotten mood and you feel as s on your back and you say that's it I'm gonna kill this guy and you turn around with all of the fury of that wrestler when his bumper was ripped off and you're about to take this guy's hand and flip it off in some time you turn around with all the anger and you see it's the chaton I have good news for you you go create tell me that slap on the back bar that you have a great idea what happened same sets on the back now if we really had a woman that anyone that zetas you on the back is the replenish loyal I'm slick and maybe our covers bar who says cancer show me you're supposed to be in an accident today instead of Shen's sent someone who needs you know some social skill adjusting and came over and that's you on the back and you want to turn around and say excuse me don't do that instead you turn say hey if I knew fella yo janati came to me and said this was instead of a major accident I'd love the guys hug the guy I'd be so happy that's laughs on the back says delicious I have to put you into a near accident to show you you have to go screeching to a stop trusting trust the same with the Kia and he won't have to do the truest Ezra mice uh just trust him trust him no talk about parking it's remember I'm I blocked was a guy once he has like a taxi something like and he started parking the taxis on the block that there wasn't much parking to start with we tell there's no place to park he goes put there my taxis what's the problem there your taxis not mine right but let's say let's say I really had a money there's no parking the meeting on the block what we can do people the drivers overcome think about it this way I'm gonna have a certain amount of Agnes nefesh in my life I'm gonna have a certain amount of indecision the Punisher was giving it to me through parking initiative fails Michigan fail there was a story once in a camp this story actually verified most stories I don't but this one actually person fell Mesa there were a bunch of kids playing and the camps some of the camps have like an old bus that they don't throw out I'm not sure why they put like a piece of board in front of it and this old bus that was there for who knows how long started rolling down the hill toward these children all of a sudden beep and the kids heard the honk they turned around they saw the bus charging toward them they all Rex camp it off in different directions one little even picked up her sister and ran and the bus came crashing through a gate and brought her some nobody was hurt who beat the mouse who beeped who beeped any warning the guy supposed to leave the front gate open for the bakery truck he told Anne he's sick and tired of having to wait for someone to come he has to drop it woman that morning that I forgot to open up the gate and the bakery truck just pulled up bakery truck just pulled up beep he's beeping to open the gate regardless was like you there's a key there's no question about it that they curry truck he had access was there was access course in Shania that he should save those children but if we really believed in as Gawker practice and believing in as Gawker practice means a happy that is a hacker yaha and that everything that takes place on this world who are Boyer a who are manic if we really believe that there's one rib initial I love orchestrating things so when you hear a beep you say the dimension needs me to hear that beep but something is annoying and some of the family member says something key which is a little hurtful that one show needed me to hear it thank you a sham I'll take the key uh what do I need the true or for there's a story you know if I Kron has it but actually it happened to me a little bit Stickle listening to a tape listened to a tape and if you know what to take this some of you see pens on how I'll call your beard it just be this thing it was like it's two little holes in it you put it into a cold thing called the tape recorder forget about are you 11:11 saying anyway I'm listening to a tape listen I hear you tongue can look at your hand and like I slowed in what is it they start driving a little bit more and I see a big accident I said the honk was on the tape there's a marquetry of giving a shear someplace and someone on the street is hunky the tape could've been twenty years old that's 20 years later somebody slows down but want to show us how you how you've every year there's no time there's no differentials we see the world as different things taking place it's not there is one freshman agamous nephesh simcha Italian that takes into account money takes into account health it takes into account everything family takes know combines them takes into account parking takes into account shoe laces takes into account every serious and non serious things that takes place in our life and it's orchestrated by one boy we Island to us it looks like a bakery truck there's no shackles to an old school bus the more you believe that it comes from one boy ray alum that's what the Derek I am then so it's the turbine ish alone I'm always slapping you on the back it's the shock pen who's lapping you on the back there's a story they'd bring like this by the remaining you feel my parisa was one of the ballot Isis there were two surveys of what art surveys are of Goldsmith's and they decided to fast ed of Rosh Hashana because they wanted an answer then Hashem I am how much they're going to earn that year and they both fasted air rushes on because they wanted to know how much they're going to earn that yeah because the Guerra says a story about the personnel under basic force but this is like and they both got an answer little the dreams there were was revealed to them in their dreams and it says names over there the octave of hood rahim that was his name he would earn that year to hundreds of them reven of Talia's aria would earn a hundred and fifty-seven the hen a foul loin they wake up so they came to the divan you feel memories they're gonna say you know the strangest thing happened to me last night we were misspelled as Shem she revealed to us how much we are going to earn on a Shoshanna and guess what we got answers Assessor of Yaakov of Oh Johan to hundreds of move in a ribbon of Talia's aria 150 of them is this real is it for real so the Benny Hill says deep records every single day exactly what you're earning the next see we'll see so when I saw the two of them got into a business squabble and they went to add in Tyra to the Romanian Hill and basically Rabbi Yaakov Azaria tine it that they went into a business and that they each invested fifty-fifty that they were 50% partners would have enough Tolley taiented no they went into a business and the breakup was 25 75 suffice it to say who he said was the 25 and who he said was the 75 so the remaining appeal says who the money who's holding the money who's the motsek so they told him the V octave is the most it they said okay so how might seem fo very Oliver aiya that's all if you want to take the money away from him this is you know you can't take the money away from him however he was Messiah finish war he was macabre v October I don't know what the details of the case was and the active said I have to swear no shimmer finish I am NOT swearing I am the Vata I don't want to swear I give up my rights as a MARSOC I'll take only 25% instead of 75 percent even though really was 50/50 how much did he have to pay him tens Ahuva tens of hooting for not swearing that would have been the difference in the 50-50 partnership and the 2575 partnership okay so the Vania pill says I'm just curious come to me editor Shoshanna I want to see your records so Oedipus Shoshanna they both come with her husband is there excel sheets how much they earned over the year the spreadsheet Ravi archive earned 189 he was 11 short of the 200 that he saw in his dream and Roth Naphtali earned a hundred and sixty-one he was 11 to Hooven ahead of what he earned in the dream so that Romania feel said it's so obvious it's obvious that you're missing 11 and you have an extra 11 so the money you gave him because he didn't want to swear but clownfish my regalia you know the truth that it was a 50-50 partnership so give him back to 10 so this servant of Tulley tine is well but the numbers don't stem according to you it should have been 10 he's ahead by 11 if you know if if he was ahead by 11 I would see yeah that's that's gotta practice but he paid tense and others if he was missing 10 and I was ahead 10 I would say yes anomaly which then with the dream hey but dreams aren't off so the Diane said and legal fees were one dinner and you know the truth that it was 50/50 and you took him to add entire unnecessarily said that's gained a hundred suffered the dine on the dinner that's the 11th one certain left all he's backed into a corner and he says all of a sudden he remembers the Gemara it's amazing what people remember in de night arter I once heard that tomorrow it's amazing bill I'm done the lump as people have they say the choices far is the most practice takeaways he says did break a lime ice Lima Lima Lima Lima reading he said to the revena you feel so you want me to give back the 11th of Hooven based on a dream you can't pass skin then tire is on dreams notice that the year before he fasted you know I mean it was pretty serious about this dream okay isn't ished and they both went back to work on editor Shoshanna left all he went into his store the last minute a customer came in and bought something his profit 11 Zuffa robbed a new from not revena we have enough Tully on his way back that's what it says somehow there was a garage sale over there this guy was selling crystal and I don't know the the button on his back I sure got caught up into it and whoop all the crystals came crashing down the guy beat the pulp out of him and dragged him off to the police and he plea bargained for Elevens ovum you have to pay the guy so in other words so they they rabbana you feel asked permission if you can repeat the story before thi furnish one wanted to make it simple you don't want to make it simple and does it the hard way but the last day of Rosh Hashanah trust me you are not gonna have one penny more or one penny less says the sound of Islam comes until it's not just money Cohn is annoy social autumn katsu Venetian Natasha Shana is not just money it's sour it's Agnes nephesh it fear you will not have one drop more or one drop less when you rather have it through parking wouldn't you rather have it to aunt neva national anthem has a freshman he's even in the score let him do it this way now someone's an illegal plunger so there's something called the plea bargain you got a ticket in the country you could plea bargain the plea bargain means you're gonna pay less you won't get points on your license we plea bargain with Hashem and the Shem does something to us which doesn't make sense he truly may have it turns myths us into our vey nice once we start plea bargaining Hashem not only lessens it Hashem says I'll turn it into mitzvos says the Sam cipher that when a person takes into account the difficulties that are going through that he's going through in his life and he says it'll burnish to like them I believe it's all with attachment I know or may not understand why I have to go through this but I know for sure it's not one drop more or one drop less that is more effective than a hundredth felis the baal shem akash also says minsu kossei ham yet ceiling if a person understands that the Masuka comes something of an asylum that alone is mum ticktick Zira and really that's our first line of defense before a person even starts making a husband and effort why this happen to him just say there's a reason that it happened I may or may not understand the reason and may not be happy with the reason but there's a reason and there is a judgment there is an accounting says in the safe for Cleef M de for hire below him and he is born of law year he says a person leaves this world the money that's in your assures is law yeaa is the money that you earned honestly the money that you SHM a Dre do if you're not gonna have them to give over to what's going to go on lawyer Lauria would've of the volunter a loafer miss Khalifa's will know it says royal mr. Cullis why does it say roy in the Sequoias why Behar Seanie why was it necessary to see the kyle i said the COTS car ever said law you would evolve late with an olive would have said lorry signal from him law a llama devolve it's a mitzvah to steal her name's Austin gamblin and arrow shot so it had to be while you were in Alice I want to based on that perhaps give you a different perspective on it so nowadays when it used to be in the good old days you taped on a tape recorder now you go to a studio and the guy has a screen screen and you see your words it looks like an EKG when you screen so there are these different ways to say a story our storytellers and there are storytellers some storytellers under do it some storytellers over them but at one point the story especially toward the end toward the climax supposed to have a Canuck and you're supposed to be able to see it on the screen like this like this like this and it gets very wavy toward the end and it ends like what a climax that's how it is and the screen says it yeah I once tried to teach storytelling through them warped into Matros at night I left something was pitch-dark I heard the air-conditioning then I thought I heard footsteps behind me someone grabbed me by my neck I turned around that's one way of saying story another way of saying the story is I may have thought I heard footsteps behind me must be my imagination you know that's how you say it right so of course if you look under under under the screen it shows you how you say then the professional story tells you say not enough not enough emotion there's not enough this is not enough that so if you tell a whole story and all the waves on the screen are just little waves story though on the other hand if you get overexcited over things that aren't as important so so and I can't do you see me that day and the water family screen one order of it if it's just waves it's also not good the perfect story starts or slowly start so slowly there's some kind of incident some kind of suspense it gets big and it ends so you could be wrong in the Sequoias so here I am I'm actually learning how to do this and I say I'm gonna do over the high part of the story and I make a sec I paste and cut it wasn't a single this work that without me erasing nothing but I took I took out the hard part and I made a separate file but about the whole part you know it's a lot of ways and I'm gonna put it in and the guy comes in and he sees the file because that's not good I said why not I said the whole file for me getting Daniel screaming your head off that's not good I said this is not the file of the whole story this is the file that I I'm gonna paste in to the high part it's supposed to be the hard part and after I pasted it in he said ah now it makes sense the high part and I said to myself wait a second how many times here so it doesn't make sense why do I have so many stars in my life why is my wife one pieces as vents at one place for the other why is my life so boring nothing ever happens no one calls me I'm not in any one speed dial you know I mean no one even knows I exist so wait a sec yes so in our whole life there's kompot Sinha the story of our lives are perfect but we don't know how many times the Shem centers down to this world and a Shem says you got to fix that part of your life so Shem is making a separate file for our gilgul for who we are down here on this world and of course if you only look at this it doesn't make any sense wise it's a wavy why does it have lack of waves but if your mind and bam initially know that this is only part of my life is all story over here it fits in and when you trust that the divine asylum has it and it fits in it's a whole different world you know the story the professor says you have 30 more seconds for the test 10 seconds more for the test six seconds more for the test five four three two one I am NOT taking any more tests that's it time's up buzzer this student comes running sticks the test into it into the pile how did you do that and the student goes you know who I am I don't care who you are I don't know who you are you don't know who I am good he runs away which that's beautiful out now right we have a way of you know the Sutton says no this person deserves to be punished it's coming toward the end of Russia Shana there's a way of us like diminishing our name savage says to the sudden okay go find the test I can't find it what do you do but it says when a person is Novato his rut site for the ruts in of others as a stateless storm aggression and we learn to focus on others when a person resigns himself to his decree doesn't have time is why me when he doesn't believe the world is Heffner so you're diminishing your name I'm being live Apple myself then the Sutton can't find your tests it's kind of the way it is like the Harvard sign says that right before we finish allocating its are after yield the rots and you say a name supposed to say a parsec that's the beginning and end of your name so for example if your name is eurosam so you would say nice Yahoo can see the my coverage around the Amish curve I serve begins with a you ends with a man and if you don't believe that I looked that up before I said this then I have a bridge to sell you but okay but the point is that right why is that a school of four it's a school of that we should remember our names losses love I sort of hobbits client says you know says look like us of others you embarrass somebody that person doesn't answer you back you hurt someone and you accept it so you get his mistress he gets your various it's imagine this keeps on going back and forth all your life you're getting somebody else's mitzvahs and you and and you're losing your availa as they come up tuition I am you're totally confuse you don't know your name is so so before we sail akane it's early sunny may rah don't embarrass anybody so you remember who your name is so I remember when I was in eighth grade he went to West Point that was a big trip and we watched soldiers trace me old turnaround so one kid asked me how come that's like military training that's the face turn around but big deal we go into war but what's we turn around a run would even had a turnaround for it he said no a good soldier is walking one way and all of a sudden he's order the other way and a second he's going the other way that's that's not so easy in life no I want it now just a little more no no no they started cabbage okay let me just finish it no it's not easy in life to seek Hashem you're turning me around except in a bad face so I say in persons running away from someone who's shooting is supposed to run zigzag spies are told not to follow the same route so no one should plan an ambush on them I don't know if it's true they say ll doesn't fly on schedule because it's a security thing if I insist and I want things my way you're not a moving target the sudden finds you very easy if I'm saying the bunch come you want this way or this way you want this way I'll do this way you're zigzagging it's very hard to the something to find you very very hard for the Sutton to find you I read a story in the DA yesterday that there was a man who fell over a waterfall trying to catch a cell phone he dropped didn't he tried to reach it went over the wall the idea of losing your phone faster we must endeavor to myself for where are we somebody once asked over Victor Miller second sounded abraca that's they say sense I will be shocked though I'm a locale laughs what if I just have a candy in my mouth you said then you're a puppy he said cuz I'll say don't eat on the street wait till you get home what's your problem what is your problem by the words were after my shell back I'll buy by d'ivoire F da vid you're supposed to get up you know one of the reasons they bring the shine and brain because the ariza says he's supposed to give sadaqa by the otter Marshall Booker and the graboid it's not used to come in he's supposed to stand up for people that come in to do a mitzvah that's one of the reasons to stand up I believe our stuff why do we give it to dr. Banton wash of the club it's our way of saying Hashem I know in a second you could wipe me out some do favor I'm giving it on my own Kia I don't need the Trula that's the real meaning in the bathroom I shove the girl egg loin right he stood up to hear the devar hashem and then he stuck him with the sword that went into his stomach and he was like oh but of course he stood up to hear that Varsham who came out of him Ross right book of nets that went down at par size it's one of the reasons we step out someone that's right and he was actually what he was I got too big deal and the answer is relative to them it's a big deal for a king to get up that's not pushing king should get up Kings don't get up so quickly the harder it is for us to stop what we're doing harder it is for us not to look at something talk to myself realize the harder it is res not to eat something the harder it is the harder this was not to say something is an about-face it means you're a soldier the divine a son says that and you're not who you are you're turning around it makes it's so much harder for the Sutton to find us so we know that the antique necessarily law took away the tiger of of I desire that's what the Gemara says suddenly there was no more of my desire the random census was censored out but the random says if you look in the course of history the major religions of the world started right afterwards why because there was a void till then there wasn't a void desired was not what I desire said there was a void there was a void so people fill the void then the antique mystic Darla tried to take away the Tiber of snows and they look throughout usually I am they couldn't even find a single egg because the roosters weren't interested in the chicken so they did was they made the time for less they took away they poked at the eyes as I stated took away the type of close relatives the swamp says I'm worried the Kazak he says where's the anarchistic Darla why did Ovid an elephant Christy I am now luck and all the kings wider from Levine who have to break as far as the Vedas are I've run was bigger than they actually connect there why couldn't he go poof goodbye of Ida's ara sir Schwab says America's actually says take a look once they took away the Tiber providers are there were no longer any Navi em in Kali Israel cuz the car for being a Navi that level of a shortish Lina only comes after you fight over by the Zara so they have to wait till the last Navi too Zakaria Malathi because without that time and that's what it means I didn't find Boyer F I didn't find a single egg in Eurasia lion didn't have that people had a natural ruler kinda Sh they lost it then but they have no choice it says the I heard some people bring it to the caca and if really find it inside in the Crocker but says besides Allah Muhammad Al are you there who are your enemies it goes on the 8th so harder there are climate Kurdish so the biggest enemies that a person has is gilja Raya Simona and and Tyva so it says in sunny assemble the cash will be a deck all washed New York it because only if I desire that a Shem give over but the Vedas aura of on the cou nights of tiger Shem says I have to leave that cuz that's your holiness cuz trust me you walk on the student you want to look at something and today I hate to say it me sitting in the bathroom when you want to look at something and you hold yourself back or better yet you Institute a lifestyle where I'm not gonna you know I'm gonna filter things the way I should and so on the Russian says this is your hostess feels this is what this door is living for the innovation wasn't caught by surprise by technology this is part of a comes particles Cashman the prett sonic says why do we boss of a dog in on Shabbos he says boss sir is the type of avoid Ozora that a person was able to fight out throughout the entire week it's converted into a simcha on Shabbos and dog in mastitis whatever that means though I know what it means no clue but it means that every time that we have is potential Brock and that's the reason that a banish son gave it to us if a person gets stuck in the taiga the biggest sire is gonna be lost at love Lee says or slum comes Aviles you can do any time in the world but the de bunda Sherman Russia Shana decides how much pleasure you're gonna have you're not gaining anything your next pleasure won't be a drop more and it could be so hard to get up for sleepless it could be so hard to look away but you know you're not losing anything because you're just invention was taking Actos nefesh you would have had anyway giving you scar for it the net result would not be different so just surrender yourself to where it is I met and then the son of the year there was a yiddishe lima of done Schwarz square Lavrov he lived till his high 90s and he wrote a safer famous safe house she Lewis I can he was the expert on she look I can so people tell her much Lokhande Tyra says every cozy on him you lived long so he would say yeah but that wasn't eat that was easy he says yet tremendous kid that have in the times of the Mihama for his father risked his lifetime in a time and again he says you know we'd like to talk about the are--this young if she looked at conv we don't want to talk about the Regals young love cubed a vein you know why cuz that even a vein is much harder but the kid would have the aim leads to the Shailaja can so the conditions lady says right key Akari can see / it's a sip resolution of Safra the heroes the aim of that's SLO a fraction some sunshine gives us a shake to learn to dive in Sim diminishes our yet Sahara it's very nice but the Tyra's advice is LASIK at her email abundant don't wait for the mother to give you the face ship when you're in you're the most rotten fool of your life then say divine is Shalon tech not a capital till when you want to scream and you want to yell and you want to kill the guy that slapped you on the back then turn around and say hi Furniture must have sent you right said you are my shop now you're the last guy in the world I want this left me on the back you're not the shout friend but if I believe in you then the Chaplin will come around so that says the caduceus lady when you take this earth you generated internally when you're not in the mood of Davin II there's a rico element to that Osiris that's the are--those IAM why sick after a Malo bonum says the condition slave you don't wait for God to inspire you people that will tell you the work in Kirov you know a miracle happened the person became involved true but doesn't last what lasts isn't a serious nephesh says the collisions lady it says you're supposed to be my lawyer the chakra wake up before the morning when you're not in the mood of Rosh Hashanah that is when Rosh Hashanah works so there's a year the LA who he says his name should be schlemazel Ben schlemazel someone says gonna embarrass your father whatever he does doesn't work he was a carpenter he was a plumber yeah you got water to run when he was a carpenter banged in the Shelf boom pipe burst in me no man when he tried to connect the pipe no water came in you know he was a shoemaker not for very long he had an idea to use long nails instead of short ones to put the heels it wasn't a good idea I'm not sure that's what he did he get the general idea whatever he did failed and every time he failed at another job he came home crying and I don't if he did have the support of his family or an apple an ice of the bills piled up I have a moon agenda sending me in the right direction the grocery man said that's very nice but I can't give you a campaign of no God can't do it life was really falling apart around him and he was said he was the town schlemazel this is the only time he made monies when he took a painting job for someone to paint the guy's house and the guy said I'll pay you if you leave right now that was the Tommy made money on us so a friend of his took him to the rebel of Yaakov Ali of runs to me he said every time you go into a job you believe you can do it because yeah aren't you supposed to have self-confidence he says I'm gonna give you a job and then you're gonna be mine and I'm gonna slay me you can't do it and then you know you need the diviner shillelagh it goes what job says I want you to travel to Nazca and the Czar that a very complicated system of for certain people that were authorized to give a seal on a legal document and the seal was like a red gold kind of a tinge with the king with the end with the Signia of the czar in the middle you have to heat up the wax and mix of chemicals and cook it and desire seal and on you have to make sure not to mess up the DAC you may think like it's the last thing in the world meat left and he said yeah I want you to do it so to make a long story short he travels to Moscow and he has no clue what to do whatever didn't tell him where to go anyone ought to make a seal shot and he doesn't have any money and you know he bought a lottery ticket he says he never wins and he wins I make a long story short he's in a hotel and he hears someone saying take these documents over the phyto to seal it so he runs he runs behind the guy and he comes to fight ELISA you teach me how to do this he goes sure thousand rubles in trouble I don't have a thousand or she says okay be my apprentice you'll work for me for a year and I'll teach you at the end of the year so one day he sends him with a bunch of documents and he's walking the way at least the story goes in the story book he's walking here I'm in such pain I'm not making a red cent my family he's already gonna start teaching me the laughter a year although son these two kind of wanted to get a hold of those documents and as he's saying marika well I'm and my life is in your hands boom and I kidnapped the two down or something like that happened I don't know and for whatever reason they tried to grab it away from him and he grabbed it back and he wound up winning the fight he didn't know they were too dangerous kind of it and the police gave him a reward for it and his vitals said it was a guy stealing the documents and as an atoning his encounter with those gunawan was at the moment he was screening our my life is in your hands anyway he tried to get the seal right took him six months to learn how to do it he wasted a lot of ink and the seal was all over the place except on the paper finally he got it right that gold red tinge and he comes home and he tells his wife and kids I learned how to do it I'm authorized to do it we're gonna have pernessa his wife says I'll see it when I believe it I'll show you and he makes the seal and he makes the seal and does it and dear it is a big beautiful black seal black had to come out black I Drive does it came out the right goldrich you know he's trying and trying his wife says staff we have five hundred black seals over here we don't need it anymore and he closes his eyes he says okay revenge Selena my life is in your hands I'm even willing to go to the point where I said my life is in your hands and I still don't understand it but I still believe my life is in your hands and suddenly there's an announcement the Czar died tsar nicolai takes over and the government says for the next thirty days as a sign of availables for the Tsar only black seal documents are going to be accepted and no one knew how to make a black seal truth is our friend didn't even know how to make a black seal he knew how to make a gold red one that turns into black and he had this 500 seal black seals ready and as a result he was able to marry off his daughter there's a lot in this story there's there's a there's a bitl hat smears we have to believe with all of our heart but every fiber of our being that there are things in our lives we don't understand why is the bakery truck honking when the truck is rolling there to save the kids yeah but the bakery truck didn't know there but the divine darshan was looking down those it so all the little unattached things that are taking that are taking happening are alive there's one boy um that knows it and once we get that through our mind then the biggest mistakes in our life will become the biggest bras [Music] chez me again sheer terror my SATs Boston Rochester ever sleep thought to give a big Esther kf2 official sector than inspiring Russia mm-hmm back to the biggest a character mmm this is me to me who the Rubens team for supported tonight sailors an issuance of a five album Yakov emo ahold of us viel air McCallum vices just one more sheer remaining hopper Ryan sponsors remaining sheriff ethic and I want to start the robbing the vegan shirt era worldwide call a Beecher Terrace seven one eight eight five one eight six five one an email tape center at Yeshiva net.com be CDs of tonight share variable surely not even a calcium also has both lose our case is a shadow figure table entire mission Emma of enough vitamin C Iago Terry other [Music]