Rabbi Leib Irons: How to Become a Great Jewish Leader - Project Inspire Convention 2016

hi we're here at the project inspired convention talking about leadership so we're ready a bit into the talk and we went through some of the secular definitions of leadership so now we're talking a bit about followers and leaders so as we were saying so this video shows how people are there right this guy's crazy dancing like a madman and the next thing you know that a person joins him and is dancing with him and they start dancing and he holds his hand and then another three people join and the next thing you know there's a whole crowd there's 50 people dancing on a beach and that is what it takes to create a movement right or to create followers right that you do something it could be outlandish it could be crazy and people follow you and that's generally when we think about leadership you think about the way Warren Bennis explains it the way many thought leaders and leadership talk about it that you need a certain charisma you look at some deleting business people all right so who still richest you in the world you know Sosa Larry Ellison who is he Oracle exactly ok so I did a project on him two years ago or so and contrasting him with some of the other people and you look at some of these secular leaders and they could have the worst possible personal character traits they could be totally narcissistic they could treat people horrific alee and for whatever reason they're the ones in leadership there was an article that came out a couple weeks ago about Amazon and the New York Times and I don't know that any of you see this I they did something on Jeff Bezos so that they really took amazon to task on the way that they were treating their employees the Amazon fought back and they made a hundred of their senior executives available for interviews so they really fought back but it happens to be when you look at our definition of leadership and usually when we think of what a leader is the first thoughts that come to mind is a very secular definition of leadership just when you hear a people who are leaders and when you're looking for somebody who's a leader becomes to mind that there has to be certain character traits sure an ability to do things regardless of how things happen right how does Donald Trump rise in the ratings the more he insults people right the more people look up to and it's mind-boggling that it's hit a point that the way that you define right who could be the next president of the United States is a person who gives the best insults and that's what's happening and it's at a point that even those presidential candidates who do not want to fall to that level they've had to because they realized that otherwise they're going to get swept by the wayside so when you want to contrast that with the Jewish Stephanie's definition of what it means to be a leader ritu how does that work so I'll tell you I was speaking to one of the heads of rabbinic placement and he said that this model of non-jewish leadership has swept so much into the Jewish world that when they're looking for rabbis in most shoals except for the most religious ones want people who are in their late 20s their early 30s they don't really have to know that much they don't have to have any life experience you just have being young you have to be charismatic there's be funny relatable that's all they want and he was telling me about himself he was already in his 50s he said I am finished okay and he happened to have been more in the modern world so he was saying that he for sure couldn't get a job today because there has been this youthfulness that we're looking for the next JFK or book Clinton or whoever else it is who's going to be young who's going to be vibrant and that is definitely very much a secular version of leadership so when we wanted to look in the Torah and you want to say what does it mean to be a Jewish leader what does it take what are the character traits what are we looking for in order to be a Jewish leader and one you want to think about who are the greatest Jewish leaders in history right so throughout some names who are the people who we epitomize as the leading Jewish leaders who would they be you would say Moshe Moshe is the most classic example when you look at motions history right although the fact is that he did grow up in the king's palace but this was a man who couldn't speak I didn't speak to fit a speech deficiency and this was a person who was not the most beloved bike Lolly's role you see that after he passed away they did not have the same period of a valence like they had after Arn he did not have he wasn't the most like person in the world he wasn't and also he had to come down very hard sometimes on the Jewish people so how does that work what was it about moshe rabbeinu de xem decided to choose Moshe as the leader and yes he was chosen already that was already in our right when he was born but what was it about Moshe arabe know that he took off he became right the mimosa Moshe locom commotion that there's nobody else like Moshe Rabbeinu a number of years ago I was working in a show that will remain nameless and the show is pretty modern and there was a eating defense attorney who decided he wrote a book about Moshe and it was the most complimentary book and so they put on a play putting Moshe on trial for killing the Egyptian so they had on one hand you had this leading but attorney who was the prosecutor he was there to prosecute Moshe and then they had one of the leading defense attorneys who constantly is in the news he's in the news right now right for defending some guy in pharmaceuticals and so he was there to defend Moshe Rabbeinu so you had this whole you know up against Moshe so before that shot that Sunday I went over to the prosecutor to this guy who's a leading eternity in New York well no name and I said look you cannot give a talk about moshe and when you don't know the first thing about him like even though you wrote the book I said come this shabbos I'm going to devote my share to moshe and I spoke about who my sheriff and who really was what made my Sharpie new the greatest leader of all time what was to the extent that we know the famous kamara knocks I believe that Moshe was showing an image of rebbi akiva who is darkening all of the lines on top of the words in the right the taärgonn Indy safer Tyra and so Ruby my char Boehner was hear kaliesha Sadat says how could this be Avril be a Kiva like this he should be giving the Torah until rebbi akiva was asked he says we're do you have this all he said we have it promotion I've been no but you right exactly and you find that Moshe what was so special about Moshe that he became the ultimate leader of the Jewish people today what do you think what is it about my Charbonneau Nicola right so moisture was the unab Michael Adam that was number one he was an unofficial oh they were what was the other thing ah so it was his care and compassion and what was the first thing that my sherman who did but it was mentioned earlier what did my sure Ben would do when he realized that he was a Jew that he was part of quality stro what did he do he went out right to help his brethren that's what he did and then what happened next one was he finally chosen when did it come to the snare that Moshe was chosen to be the leader of the Jewish people what did he do over there he was running after the Sheep right needed some water and he picked it up and he was there to take care of all of our miscreation it wasn't just about my next door neighbor my child my friend the person wears the same stromal as me right or the same yarmulkes me or the same shape de las me right it wasn't that at all moser Boehner was there for a little sheep and you find throughout time that Moshe Rabbeinu when you want to understand that what got him chosen for leadership had nothing to do with his charisma had nothing to do with his speaking with his speaking ability to the extent that when he told us sham day he can't speak so Jim said fine you know we'll have iron with you hey but he had all of the aspects he was a man who had to run away because he was on murder trial right so this man should never have been the leader of collies role he comes back close y'all didn't even want to accept him they didn't want to hear of it so what was it about that so my sharpie knew he was the under michael adam and the real key that my sure Ben who had is that he truly truly cared about everybody and how do we see that to what extent that measure been who care and the greatest rise this week's parsha at my sure Ben who said he was so selfless they went to Shem offer to rebuild claw Easter laughter okay they go and he said that I'll give you and your family you'll be the future of call israel and what did much to say he said no he says mccain enormous africa I don't want to have anything to do with this because he had no personal interest in any of this leadership it was a hundred percent there for the other and when you look at the beginning of Kali straw you look at our drama veena and I find this fascinating that a Brahma be no well sure why spoke about this a bit yesterday that Brahma Vienna was not the first sonic in the world he wasn't even the first person who taught IRA it's all question in cos all that when tire was given down in Burma Saira from other mauritian there was a messiah that eventually came to naya came to shame the a ver but it's quite possible Avram wasn't even part of that Messiah the he got a piroca KY dash so we don't even find that he learnt in yeshiva shame behavor maybe there are magician but I'm not familiar with that who was my shot what he learned under right shin was his grandfather but it doesn't seem that that was his time he didn't spend a his son did right yes God he learned but I've run himself we don't find and for sure in the tyra right in in the commish it doesn't talk about any of that part right it says with yaakov aveeno there's a hint that he went to learn all right but with Abram we don't find any of that why is that what is it unique about it from what do we find with a brum that we find it's also the measures we find that he discovered a sham right at whatever age it was let's say it was three right and he was willing to be thrown into the fiery furnace and then what else did I Brom do what made of rum become the future of Kali straw and why was ever I'm different than everybody who preceded him why didn't knock knock give his life for Chloe's row why wasn't nya chosen to be the first Jew what was it about a wrong ah so what I brom did there was different than nya and not by the way na was standing right four gears for endless years he was building a table and that wasn't enough right he was giving his entire life for her shot no question that was the life that he led but even so that wasn't enough and shamed clearly right she was the sadak and that still wasn't enough and that whole generation just wasn't enough but I've Rama had something unique and it wasn't what of ram new and it wasn't his learning even write at least it's not what's mentioned because I'll what's mentioned is the fact that he cared about somebody else and not about Jews right there were no juice in that time so what did I brom do he just wanted to spread the word of our I'm in the world that's all of Rome did and that's why it's called a Brahma every right he stood against the entire world but how did he do that is that he went from place to place trying to find where people are that he could teach them and he could bring them closer to a shot but weird did it come from where it came from is it was a personal care and concern for each person and how do we see that because it's very interesting that we have many madras shin and many memory huzzah however when you look what what does the Tyra choose to emphasize when you have with each one of the others the terror talks about each one of the others in their own way and without rum what does it choose to emphasize when it talks about a bra right right so you have that and you also have right with Viera that he had darknesses are right that was the other component but the first component that we find is that a rum right that was in the making of a rum that a drum went out to greet idol worshippers they were pagans all right sometimes you think that they're Arabs they show them in these kids books right so you have a Kaffir and they're coming in and they worship you know Mohammed but it doesn't work that way these were people who are idea fighters are they were mamas idol worshippers and what did I Brom do for them that he brought them in and he washed them up and he gave them food and he gave them drinks and he did everything that he could just to help out these people and yes right we have in Cazale it doesn't even mention this in the tire it is unbelievable and the Commission doesn't mention this right it's America's L they used to have them you know benches are result and that was the whole point but what do we find that's accentuated is his care and compassion for others and that's how I brum became the first Jew and that's why the gamarra says that anybody who lacks these three traits it's araya that they're not from the children of a rama v know and what are they it's rahman him right they have to be merciful by john him be bashful and grime like I saw them have to be kind and that's how we know that somebody truly truly is ms era of rum that if you find that somebody cares and somebody's kind they're compassionate just because they're there for somebody else that they've nothing in it for themselves that's the key so when you want to look at the first character trait of becoming a Jewish leader what's the first first trait that you need is you have to cure for everybody else and it's not just the people who you're hired by and it's not just the people who you your direct constituents it's to every single person I think we all know Habad has made a big emphasis on this chabad but her one time told me he said that the hardest Mitzvah from rifts that he said of there ever was Val hostile or Africa micah is that you have to work on this every single day that to really truly care about somebody else and that is so hard but where do you find in any of the secular literature in any of the secular literature when it talks about leadership that it says that you have to truly care about each and every person because if that was truly litmus test to be a leader than none of these people who are in the running or who are in many leadership positions in the top firms or come to mind would ever have meet that test and you find Steve Jobs there in the news apples and the news again okay and I think there's such a classic example because it goes back to the DNA of Apple that wise Apple and the news because they refuse to help the FBI right to unlock this phone and who knows what the real story is knowing what the NSA knows they probably already have all the information it seems like the whole PR back and forth but who knows what the real story is regardless what's Apple saying what they're saying is that we don't truly care about everybody in the world we care about ourselves we care about our clients we don't want to lose our customers we know everybody knows that we used to give over everything to the NSA so now we're trying to pretend like we don't so you know let's do this but where does that come from what's the DNA so the DNA of Apple and I'm not an applica I don't know if anybody here isn't any apple stuff I'm very much not but my wife is so Apple okay Steve Jobs is one of the leading authorities in business right he was and if you read his biography there was an incredible biography put out and what was the big what was right who was really Steve Jobs if you really look at him this was a man who created a revolution in the world he used to say in marketing says we don't do so much market research why because the customers themselves don't know what we want we tell them what they want and that's what he created he created a feeling of inadequacy in the world because wherever you go you feel that if you don't buy this very expensive mac or ipad or iphone then you're a nobody and that's what he did that was his concept of leadership his concept was and that's why by the way everything is called what the i right it's the ipad the iphone the I this the I that why because that's all he was talking about right he was probably one of the greatest narcissist and you see the way he treated his own family and he treated the people and his company it was the most horrific horrific manner the stories are just mind-boggling the way he treated everybody but how does the world look at Apple they look at it that is the cutting edge this innovation is the future this is where we all have to be and when you look at the Jewish version of what it means to be a monic and what it means to build up our own Jewish leadership we see it's diametrically opposed to everything that's out there not everything by the way because we do find that the Kohen Gadol had to have certain character traits you have to be tall he had to be rich he had to have a certain level that people looked up to him so we do find it however for the people who the real man he game of Kali Israel who passed on the Tyra from generation to generation there was never that girl or mice to finding was one time asked by the New York Times how do you become the god allowed our how does this work that you become the greatest holic decider at least in America do you know what he said What did he say question like the answer I told somebody else and somebody else asked me a question correct sure mice just told them he says it just happens it's organic right this person asked this person ask this person and the next thing you know he becomes the big cuddle hot dog there's no elections there's no formal process and you see this energy stroll as well that when you look at the gutta hot dog right let's say rip i'm connie have ski all right how does it work that in order to have somebody like her prime Connie have ski in the world how does he become Rockland County have ski that you see I feel like sometimes the lift fish' Goodell them have become casita cerebas when you have all these literature that comes to everybody's house all the time we're showing this person gives a picture for this bracha for this thing or everybody's together it's the famous story that they say I know if it's from the Satmar of that somebody was talking about the ceiling and lit then and was snagged a man who knows what and he said that there was one time this fellow had three daughters you're familiar with the story had three daughters and the first daughter ends up being with this person the person says look I only eat Flay shucks that's it fine so they were eating like us yeah he lived by the following one so he set up a table that was only Flay shak's just for this couple and then the next daughter gets married she married a guy who only eats milk Ock's fine you know the mill kicks and then there's this other person the third child gets married right they're vegetarians they have to eat separately and so you have therefore tables in the same house and never one day this fellow loses all his money and they're all leaving potatoes so he goes over to the first Sun melted all the sunlight says why don't you join us you're eating potato species yeah all of my potatoes are flashing he goes to the next one he says my potatoes are melting he says why can't we just sit together just with the potatoes at least you know I said that's what I think it's quoted from summer of I've heard it from others who said today all we have left is a potato so we're all together but that's just an aside so you see how does somebody like a prime of iron late or whoever else it is how do they become Gadelha how do people start reaching out to them it's an organic process because people recognized within them a certain authenticity it's not their charisma it's not necessarily all of these general character traits that we look for throughout the world in leadership it's because who they truly are and that they truly cry and they care for every member of claudius troll there's so many stories that I could share with you all share with you a few because we don't really have that much time but you look at in the past hundred years which names come to mind of leaders who made a revolution in Kali strong you would say the hobbit Scott right the hobbits time comes to mind automatically what did I of its time do what was his formal position even my you my grandfather learnt in rotten and what was his role in the community so it doesn't really seem like it was that much right right man he would he gave josh says he sold this farm right he wanted to make sure that he had an honest / NASA and he saw this farm that's what he did but what happened as a result is that people saw the authenticity they saw who the covets crime was and he became the amazing person but why did the cover time do what he did say wrote emission bruah wrote hobbits time right and many others farm and actually I'm i said that's one of his farm is one of the most widely quoted farm for the t of of Kiev is he talks all about why we have to do care venir o tis safer for soldiers Jews who are in the Russian army and he did he Imam which had call you all on his shoulder but what was it it's because he saw the need that he felt that the ma clay is that we have to care about Jana and that's why he had he the hobbits crime right it's a novel approach what he did but he writes us in the introduction to the safer covered sky him there's a novel thing that he decided that everybody has to learn about ho Kashmir solution even though it existed it was in my mario has always had never found it that it was all compiled together who else comes to mind who else made a revolution who else really cared about the world summer right so Sam Rob came to America okay and it's unbelievable I tell people all the time that if you look at the way the tyro world is built it defies any logic i do i'm doing a PhD now and my research is in jewish identity and one of the things that you look at and the research in the past 50 years and you read all of the sociologists and everybody else prediction for the tyra world they all felt that it was a dying anthony even been Gorean right when he was willing to make the deferment for the yeshiva bottom he said it's a couple people on the side nothing will come of them and it's just unbelievable how in the past 15 years the past 15 years which that's really where the big revolution happened it's very very recent where we've seen the shift so dramatic was the non from schools have gone down in the past 15 years by twenty percent and the firm worlds have quadrupled many times over there's a study that's put out every five years by the avi high foundation and they found when you look in lakewood alone they went for five thousand to fifteen thousand school children and it's growing every day 29 her and you have in so many communities and you look what summer of came to america and it made no sense to rebuild sam mayer in America makes no sense and if you ask anybody it made no sense none of this you look at rev on cutler he said we're going to reestablish tire in America I want them saw an incredible article contrasting what reverted in Europe to what he did here in America and it was so different his focus in America was on rebuilding Tyra in America and even though even though on a personal level he was very active in the volatile I'm gonna cut to my other causes but with the yeshiva his only focus was to revolt I row and that's what he did because he cured about yanam he cared about Claudia and I sham helped right so it's not as though he had this majestic business plan but I don't think that the punisher Rob had any big business plan but he just said I'm going to go and rebuilt IRA that's what he did and I think one of the greatest examples are given is there's a famous story with the trying to remember his name it was in severn it was the mask if I think in covering riffs are no see he got up to speak at a family gathering and they knew he was a sharp a mensch and he gets up there and they weren't so sure that it was the right venue Adams me and he says I want to tell you who was the greatest person who lived in the past hundred years no like maybe you should sit down right this isn't the right place you can never get everybody to agree he says not only that this person and I'm going to tell you this persons named you're all going to agree with me and this person didn't even wear a yarmulke hake how could this be yeah and he says this person was searched near and she created the vehicle movement it was unbelievable what was she she was a seamstress right and she got inspired by Talmud of reverse and because of that she decided to do something as a result because she saw the need and she cured so on a topless level I mean probably the greatest example one more and this is something that that I always find mind-boggling is your mayor Shapiro jermeir Shapiro that very young and he has two incredible accomplishments that everybody talks about aside from the fact that he was a brilliant he was a renaissance man his part of the Polish Sam the the Parliament and he built up an incredible yeshiva really the first of its kind in europe with the dorm and with you know it was just I've been there several times it was an incredible incredible building what he did one of the greatest stories that they say is the way he started with Duffy I me but is that how did he even come to this idea the idea is not the most brilliant idea right i'm sure many people have thought about it that you learn right everybody learns so I would be very surprised nobody ever thought of this or was never written about but he had the perseverance he decided that he's going to do what it takes to make this happen this story goes that he spoke with the covered sky and the covers crime told me to come to the co Gadelha and to come in a bit late my stories recorded there should put out a safer on entire in general and said they have the full story in there and he comes in because time stood up they see the crime stood up everybody else that up and then he comes to the front and he was speaking about this vision that all of collies throw wherever you go in the world everybody's learning the same Duff and it's it's incredible and but how did that come to fruition so the story goes that on Rosh Hashanah they weren't sure if it would really take off he said Russian it's going to happen and so the Guerra raba was saying good yomtov to everybody and up something gives a klop and he says we're starting Brockhurst a phase and yet everybody started tada at the same time I always thought it was just the roomier Shapiro but clearly the Kariba and love it's time had a big yard in it but what was it about them what was so unique about it is that they saw a need and they cured for Kali strong they said this is what we're going to do to build Chloe's room so what does it take we only have like three minutes left so what does it take to become a great Jewish leader so there are three levels of leadership the first level of leadership is personal leadership is to become a leader over yourself when schleimann Tamela was being pursued he said they became a leader over his staff his job that's it right you become a leader over yourself they quote from a result salons I've heard quoted from others right that his old life you tried to change the world and he tried to change his country is city right its community then he realized has to change himself and that's the first step because before we could go out to go make an incredible difference in all these examples that we gave these were all people who are ice Garbutt I mentioned that they worked on themselves that's who they were and that's the first level the first level is to make sure a that were been a BAS Tyra and be that were shine retirement sis and see that we're engaged in a process of personal growth right so be it and muster and I said this whatever it is that works for you but in a constant process of personal leadership and I feel that often times when you talk about what it means to be a leader so this first step is usually the one that gets overseen because if you don't have a foundation if the person themselves is not through and through tightly khabar I isn't a real person so then obviously whatever they're trying to do to the world isn't going to help there have been unfortunately in the past number of years there have been many scandals with people who call themselves rabbis or they're in clinical positions and you wonder for yourself how does this happen how is it possible that you could have every scandals too much and they always say that bar hegemony scandals pale in comparison to us out there in the world however it's a classic story of when dog bites man nobody talks man bite dog it's all over the news but unfortunately it happens too much there are many websites and blogs that are dedicated just to exposing the failings in the firm community and it's terrible but where does it come from we r do a lot of these failures come from and varnish there aren't that many but everyone is highlighted all over the media where does it come from and usually the root cause is because they never got to this first step of leadership they never were actively working on themselves is that they could have gotten into such a rut that they're busy whatever role they have right there busy running this organization doing this doing that baby originally they got in because they were morally shmeh but then over time they neglected this side of it that they weren't truly anymore a level one leader then what's the second level of a leader is that you mentioned earlier that you need followers right so the second level of a leader is to have an impact on your immediate surroundings not only your family your family is more included in level one but it's your community but it's you have many people who are asking him who make a difference in the world that's the second level which is to look beyond yourself is to try to see what could you do for the world and what's the third level the third level are those people who taka made an incredible revolution in the world right those are our snares to SAP Moreta the coven's time you have so many of them of people who really decided that they are going to do whatever it takes to try they didn't know where mayor Shapira never knew would take off clubs client didn't know his safer wouldn't just sit on the shelf get gathering dust he never knew so often times you see many of the people even in their generation like the rambam you look at their home call they were vilified in their generation but over time history proved that these people were lachemann and they talked and made a revolution so on a very practical level what does it take for us to rise to become a leader so the first step and the most important step is to set a goal for yourself there without real goals we will never get anywhere and this is one of the biggest biggest challenges that people have is that they don't have any personal goals and they should really be written goals to figure out where we want to go so if somebody doesn't have chavous in life they don't know what they want to do in terms of for their personal aveda then it's going to be very very hard for them to get there so you find obviously everybody has to be a shimmer tormentors whoever I spoke earlier about the idea of individuality is that the volume musters say that how does somebody find their own individual contribution to the world right everybody was created specially never eilam how good the DeMars say that everybody is high right how could everybody say mystery Leigh never island what does that mean that it's created for me which means that every single person anal called Amish English shot right that every single person has their moment they have their contribution they have the reason why they have to be in the world they have their top kid so how do you find that so you find your personal matthias you find your the things that excite you that are obviously within the confines of Tyra and your Shania so you find those things then you say what could I do what are the needs in that realm that I can make a difference with but there are many people who realize that there are many people have tourists in their own life but that doesn't mean that they start organizations doesn't mean that they started game all right you go through any jamaka rectory and oftentimes the reason why people start the mouths because they themselves need a pacifier at night or her stroller or whatever else they need it right so they give it up there are many people who didn't need it right but oftentimes that's where it comes from is to figure out what do you personally what are you interested in and then you go from there to try to figure out how you can make a difference and that could be on a micro level that could be within your own family that could be within your media community me and then obviously it could be on a global level however probably the greatest thing that we need in order to have that global hot lava is obviously sea otter the schmeyer because there are many kumar's to talk about this but the only way the only way that will be successful is through incredible see after the shrine you have so many people who tried to have incredible hot soccer and they just failed and you look at many you Shiva's there some Russian Shiva who are brilliant tell me to come and they don't get any time with him then you have others who aren't necessarily such great tell me to come they could be overflowing with Tommy them and there have been certain you Shiva's that will remain nameless who rushes Shiva tried whatever they could to stop him from going there because they felt that they weren't getting the right me this from those you Shiva's but what happened but there's a certain see after the Shania that Hashem gave her soccer to certain people so obviously to become that level 3 liter that you'll change the world debt every level requires a lot to see after the schmeyer but that is an incredible incredible aspiration but you need a lot of felis and a lot of Seth that's when you look at ripon are weinberg who created asia tour he started ten different organizations and in every case there was a story but regardless it didn't work out for him at any of them until he created a chitarra and even at age there were many challenges along the way but he kept to it and he said I'll do whatever it takes nevaeh rucha lion Robbie raphson who created an avail you shall I am so he originally wanted to create a boy toshiba he put up signs of Bnei Brak for a boise shiva and a few girls showed up so that's how he created one of the greatest kira schools of modern day and that's where it comes from which is that you have to try but the main main nikuda and i'm going to end with this and then i'll tell you a quick story is that roof deck of Weinberg told the mechanic who asked him what are your greatest tips for canal and he said there's one tip and that tip is that you have to love them if the cure for every one of them and I'll make all the difference in the world that the only way to truly become a leader is to first really decide that I truly truly care for everybody right now I'm concerned and it's not coming because I have a need to be a leader Ivan need to be in a position of authority or of leadership it's coming because you really have that need for care and concern and aligned with the story that when rum kravitz from Detroit I'm from Detroit originally so when he was niftar with Isaac husband was mastered him he eulogized him and he said that by Saddam it says how mikasa an email from am I going to hide from a broom that which was which I'm going to do in this what you mentioned lamanna show you sava a spawn of F right and then what did he say la sighs Sadako Umi spot says what was the message that of rum was giving over for the future generations was lastly sudoku Misha and he said at the time of a prom this revised a husband this is what he was saying that at the time of a Brahma be knew there were other great people but of Rome was there to ensure that it continued on for the future right that what did he do that he went out to go find everybody and bring them back to chloe's job because he said I'm not going to leave it up to chance and I want to tell you that the one message that you should take out from this topic of what does it take to become a great leader is that you truly truly truly have to cure about every single person in Kali stroll but even beyond college so you have to as you look at the office and you see that they cared about every sheep and you look at some of the greatest stories with the dial on that they have and i saw i think replace of crimes on felt our you would feed the cats and you have so many others that they talk of Iraq mccall that they care about every single person and the greatest Michael I would say today that I think that's going on in the firm world the greatest mock law is that barukh hashem we've grown and borrow cash and there's incredible things going on but unfortunately the reason why institutions were created was to help the next person but often times it becomes about the institution in it of itself and people forget about the yakut I was going to conclude with that story but I'll conclude with this story is that earlier this year there was a girl who i was involved to get her to go to register all she was not for him and she went to seminary in RC strong and really was the wrong fit she never should have gone regardless she goes there and the school decided that they want to throw her out so what do they do so what do you do with the boss Easter all right who isn't the right fit for your school what do you do with her try to find another school what they did was is they put her into a taxi they sent her off to a hostile and they said good luck you're on your own and I called them up i said i don't understand you do you care about cloudy she'll do you care about every single person who cares if she's about your school or not right you won't have a school if you don't really care about each person bring her into your own house take care of her but don't ever ever allow a basi stroll or any member of causal just to go out onto the street it was so mind-boggling to me and what in afterwards they tried to make up for it but that's really the message the message is if we want to truly be a leader if we want to make a difference in the world the first thing that we have to work on and the thing that we have to continuously work on is our Ava's Israel thank you so much for coming and I believe that there's some other topics right now