Rabbi Manis Friedman: One Idea That Answers All The Questions!

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answers all the questions my college the corner of our Friedman for tonight Russia that's good so when you have a question and you get an answer either the answer is better than the question or the question is better than the answer depends but if every question has to have a separate answer the answer is not so convincing but when you have one Mahalo when you have one concept that explains many things that sounds like MS so tonight's idea is to find one concept that explains many things for example if we look at Jewish history other great nations came and disappeared and we're still here so of course you can say it's an S at the mad vacant by Shamu vacation and therefore hi I'm Cole Hawaii but what is the secret that's a historical question a more personal question what is the milah of a Nevis the Rambam says that in everything you have to be moderate but when it comes to Oliver's you have to be value arcade married there's no reasonable degree you have to be extremely shallow what is the Milo of this morning a hyena Martha's Dana Matt's at Kaena this is depressing what happened to Eve - amber simcha so what is the mailer what is the the benefit of this kind of Anubis be flat on Yom Kippur we keep saying more mah kisses kill endo and we keep head what are we like a column yo and and for this you want forgiveness if you're not worth anything why should you be forgiven we should do the opposite claim to be useful for something maybe you deserve to be forgiven a more psychological question what makes people depressed you get into a bad mood and you become heavy and you can't move and you can't answer a telephone what is that what is that what is the definition of death an interesting thing the meddler says via Kirov William a yankov Louis of iiquor of William a dove at Lamas if he translated literally it sounds like the day's die so the Methodist says how your man may seem the day's die the Gemara says yes it's a deacon ain't no mason tsadikim don't die the day's die what is this man a final question although there are many more why do we keep asking why do people bother asking what is the purpose of life why are we here if you've been somewhere in the same place for five thousand years what is the question why do we have that question why are we here we've always been here this is the place what's the question why are we here what is the question what is the purpose of life so when you ask for a purpose you're implying that the thing itself is not justified if it has a good purpose okay so what like life is not good enough it has to have a purpose something depressing about that also huh and then the loser chef a y'know the key manova Gyan o shahe Fionna gave us life vicki mundo and kept us in existence shouldn't Keemun will come before her Fionna or in Madani mela v the kyon shouldn't Khayyam come first first you have to be then you have a wife one answer to all the questions the answer is like this in creating the world the a broish they had to produce two things nothing existed because everything was created from nothing yes maíam so the first thing God created existence he made things exist that didn't exist and then he gave each thing a life so there's qiyam and there's Hayase what is the definition of Keele what does it mean that something exists it is this is what do you mean it is before you describe what it is and what it looks like and what it does the fact that it is what is that so the definition of existing of keo is that it takes up space its tyfa smoking a thing that doesn't take up space does not exist not not in this world what does it mean to take up space it doesn't allow another in the same space so one stone doesn't allow another stone in the same place a safer on the shelf doesn't allow another safer in the same space air doesn't allow other air into the same space this is true of everything fire occupies its space water occupies its space a stone occupies its space even a much over a thought in your head takes up space and that's why you can't have two thoughts at the same time an emotion takes up space the heart is full so everything exists by the same definition it's typhus mocking life does not take up space life means the effect that this existence causes around itself the contribution that it makes so fire exists by taking up space but it's life is that it gives light it gives warmth makes things come apart that's the life of fire water exists by taking up space but what is the life of water makes things grow keeps things cool makes things stick together so in existing everything is the same in life you have different when it comes to a human being we have existence and we have life we exist and we live but for the human being more than most other creatures existence not only means taking up space it also means using up resources because in order to exist there are conditions to exist you have to eat to exist you have to drink to exist you have to sleep to exist you need protection from the cold from the heart so existing is not only a little embarrassing because what do you do you take up space this is something to be proud of and what does it mean to take up space it's my chair it's my seat it's my place it's so childish kyon and heaven couldn't get along there wasn't enough space whose planet is this mine or yours it can't be both so besides being a little bit embarrassing and depressing existence is also a burden you have to eat you have to drink you have to have a place you have to have security you have to have a support system you need you need you need and then when you have everything you need what have you accomplished that tomorrow you'll need it all over again life on the other hand is the opposite life lifts you up wife carries you it doesn't make demands there are no conditions for life because life means what are you doing to make things better what contribution are you making how can you be helpful to the world around you by by being in existence soul emotion you give a dollar to sadaqa what is a dollar good for existing it can buy you some food you take a dollar that is good for your existence and you give it to somebody else who needs it to make their existence a little easier now you have life now you are alive Sadako Tatsu my mother's without that sadaqa you have no life you give sadaqa you're alive and the same is true with keyboard Ave aim keyboard alpha a means you do little tasks you carry their bags you serve them the food what is that you're making their existence a little easier by giving up some of your comfort so what happens copy their severe Keveza metha Lemann yah - yah metal then you are alive problem is that sometimes what is good for my existence what helps me exist is not so good for my life and what's good for my life is not so good for my existence for example getting married when you get married your existence is reduced to at least half if not more it's not your own space you can't eat whatever whatever every every part of your existence is affected by the marriage so why do you get married if it's devastating to your existence because in exchange you have a wife so I think in the tonneau amor in the zubur should say something about that it should say yeah so I play neba plainy been plainly agreed with play playing his bass playing is that together they're going to ruin each other his existence but have a life because we forget the guy gets married and three weeks later he's complaining that he feels a little bit cramped he needs a little more room he needs a little more freedom that he didn't realize what he was doing marriage means give up existence in exchange for life so whenever there is a conflict between existing and living naturally sensibly you give up the existence you don't compromise your life even at its you slow in 48 they came to the world and they said we need a place we have no place so they said you're right here's our place now they're saying why can't you share your space other people need space share everybody points to Israel why can't you compromise why can't you share a little bit why can't you have two states there's enough space see that was a mistake and it's his role is not the space it's not our existence it's our life if we had come to the world and said listen we have to our life our cradle our birthplace our incubator our life nobody would ask you to compromise your life but we called it a space no space you can share so you see we have to be careful to make the distinction between living another painful example a teenager all teenagers are frustrated and angry why about what so if you ask these angry teenagers who get away with everything and get whatever they want if they nerd you long enough what what could they possibly be angry about so if you ask them they'll tell you they're angry because their mother ruined their whole life my mother ruined my life my whole life again the same mistake your mother didn't ruin your life first of all you can't ruin life life means make a contribution how can you ruin that you can ruin existence existence can be pretty miserable or it can be wonderful but life can't be ruined like salt can't go bad so it's not true that your mother ruined your life can't ruin life and also it's not true that your mother ruined your life because you don't have a life you're a teenager you barely have an existence because what you call your space is not your space like the teenager who said I'm very angry my mother walked into my room without permission into your room but you pay rent or something it's not your room nothing you have is yours so even your existence is not yours which is by the way why you have to honor your parents by helping them in their existence because what did your parents give you your existence a life you have to make your own so now let's answer all the questions how is it that we're still here everybody else is gone from the ancient peoples because they wanted to exist that's what they wanted to guarantee permanent existence so they built big cities and then fortified and made big armies and gathered a lot of wealth in order to be able to exist indefinitely they don't exist they're gone what is our history before we came into edit see slow they shoulda been who gave us little heads-up don't get too comfortable because you're gonna get thrown out and you're gonna be scattered all over the world and you're gonna live in other people's countries and you'll go crazy from what's gonna be happening at night you won't know what's gonna be in the morning and in the morning you won't know what's gonna be at night your existence is gonna be terrible so what should we do the answer is live don't think about existence because you're not gonna have a great existence so be busy with life that's been our history if you want to sum up Jewish history in one sentence for all of our history we barely existed but we were very alive in fact the worse our existence became the more alive we became Kashi yeah no asa can you through in the worst times we created the biggest yeshivas and the best sucker system with the greatest hospitalities with all the good things that our life and what about our existence we barely existed even today which you know much our existence is much improved still if you ask in the United Nations does there exist a Jewish state doesn't exist but what are they complain about every day that we are the cause of all the problems and we don't even exist that's confusing why do we keep asking what is the purpose of life what's wrong with living what do you have to have a purpose why do you need to justify your life again the same mistake the question is misguided the question is not what's the purpose of life the question is what is the purpose of existing I take up space and I use up resources can you tell me what justifies that that has to have a purpose otherwise it's too embarrassing so the question is what is the purpose of existence that's a good question it's a question we have to ask what is our task list why are we here it's a good question so the question is why do we exist the answer is for life life is not the question life is the answer now we understand what you moody means what does it mean on Evo's what does it mean shift loose it doesn't mean your life is worthless ha special Shaka's in Coover my sensation by Elham Haase is better than anything that a Lamarr ball can give so we never humble life existing you feel proud that you exist please humble it it's embarrassing and it's depressing what is depression to exist is a little bit depressing just by nature if you worry about your existence if you're committed to your own existence if you fight for more existence the existence becomes a heavier and eventually your own existence is too heavy you can't move you can't get up it's become too heavy too much of a burden so what does it tell you toss a hash like a la sham you have huh stop worrying about your existence because the a bridge that takes care of it anyway there's nothing you can do about it get busy living and the existence will take care of itself like a doctor in the time of a plague everybody gets sick he doesn't get sick how come he has ups a secret to keep himself healthy while everybody else is getting sick and not only doesn't he get sick he doesn't get tired he doesn't bother eating he doesn't bother sleeping Superman what is that when you're so alive when your so needed when your contribution is so obvious and so necessary the existence you'll eat later so you'll sleep less it doesn't matter all of a sudden the more alive you are the less you need to invest in your existence so when we say Melek ivic ayam chef a y'know Vicky's mother in the order of creation team comes first but in the order of importance first have a life then your tiem is justified so what is a nervous and nervous means I don't feel justified taking up space I don't feel justified using up resources a person does something useful his important is he's having a great effect he's he's accomplishing great things that justifies his existence so the Rambam says that that's not that's not good maid MA I'd have a schwa Lua even when you are accomplishing a lot why are you suddenly proud of your existence so even if you have justification don't don't get arrogant about existing that's silly so no matter how much you accomplished a person who is truly an unloved no matter how much he accomplishes he doesn't feel justified taking up space using up resources but you never undermine life life is not what's humble existence is humble now we'll understand what death means life can't die I mean that's that's like a an obvious reality and truth life can't die death can't live there are two mutually exclusive realities so what does it mean somebody was alive and then his life ended life life doesn't end life can't end what is alive is alive so what does it mean when a person dies it means his existence ended doesn't take up space doesn't use up resources and what about the life the life lives the only thing is if you don't have an existence then where is your life not here there change-of-address but life does not end life does not die so everything you accomplished everything you did both the good and the end are not so good continues your relationships your your your experiences your knowledge your feelings they all continue to exist but they're not here because to be here you have to have an existence so what does it mean how Yama Mason your time in in in space occupying space so if in practical terms somebody came to a lab it's an aesthetic I think and he complained that wherever he goes he said yudish wherever he goes in the basement is threatened enough me wherever I go people are stepping on me he meant emotionally so that some aesthetic said you spread yourself over the whole base method edge so wherever anybody steps it's on you you're taking up too much space don't spread yourself all over the base message like a person walks into a crowded room and he's absolutely sure that everybody's talking about him either he likes it or he or he doesn't like it but he's sure everybody's talking about him what is the problem taking up too much space you're everywhere so everyone is talking about you got a humble it don't take up so much space you're just gonna get depressed so what does it mean when a husband and wife say we're very happily married we love each other but so difficult getting along we love each other we don't like each other what is that they don't like each other because they're making each other's existence uncomfortable which is unavoidable in marriage so what is the solution stop fighting over existence give it away you only get depressed so existence is meant to be shared not kept there are people today who are worth a hundred billion dollars I know he lost 19 billion in last week but he didn't notice his worth a hundred billion dollars can anyone who has that much money really believe by any stretch of the imagination that the hundred billion dollars is for him it's not possible you don't have to be at Sadiq you don't have to be a genius to figure out that no one needs a hundred billion dollars nobody if you live a thousand years you don't need that much money so it's obvious that it's your money but it was never meant for you it can't be that it was meant for you that helps us understand other things in life you have knowledge you have information it's all meant for you you have energy you have you have compassion you have love yet it's all meant for you you have love in order to love yourself this doesn't make sense that's like a guy who owns a hundred billion dollars and he keeps it under the mattress what are you doing with the money nothing it's my money so yeah but what are you doing with it it's mine I'm keeping it yes I hate it it's not meant to be under your mattress do something with it the same way you have love and you love yourself this is senseless your love is not for you even though it's yours your life is not for you it's your life but it's not for you it's to give life to make life so we come to a simple conclusion Annie Lane the racy l-lois ambitious claim I was created which means I exist only to serve my creator that used to sound like a very religious idea or your very Froome your very spiritual Lane the race yellowish Amish as cleany wow you must be ultra-orthodox no it's simply a fact of life if you don't think that you were created to serve your creator then you're already a little depressed and that's why if do smbus simcha is not a is not an instruction or a demand it's a promise if the less Hashem you'll be the simpler not if the ascension you're already depressed if you're not focused on life you're focused on your existence you're already miserable either too arrogant or too depressed you're miserable so the stay the the statement has two parts to it and Neely liver AC el aula Shama Shalini it sounds like this I from my part line the racy leave me alone this stuff don't create me what I need to hang around over here and take up space and eat and drink I don't need this Ella so why am I here Oh Lashon mrs. Kenney okay that's exciting so it boils down to this you have a choice to make either you're going to live and be needy because that's your existence or you're going to live because you're needed this is what it comes down to you have the option to be devoted to satisfying your needs or you're devoted to satisfying what you are needed for who needs you and for what that is a much happier much healthier attitude in life because it is life what I'm needed for is life what I need is only existence so if if I could satisfy all my needs which I can't another mess for hats if I was a builder so I can't really satisfy my needs but even if I could I have accomplished nothing I ate yesterday I'm eating today I'm gonna eat tomorrow and then and then that's it what does it mean I don't need as far as I'm concerned Annie Lane of lazy when you think about it the difference between Taylor and psychology a fundamental difference psychology says you have needs and if you don't satisfy those needs are going to be depressed you're gonna be suppressed they're gonna be oppressed you got you're gonna be in trouble so we have to dig deep and find out what you really need and what's frustrating you and you have to fill fulfill that need then you'll be healthy what is it Taylor say the Taylor says balcarcel happen later of course look at them they would know coracle had a high while coracle got a mess what is that the tail is not trying to depress you I try to tell not trying to tell you that you you're you're you're stuck bow cough cough means it's not your need you don't need to be conceived you don't need to be born you don't need to live you don't need to die you don't need anything psychology doesn't look deep enough it doesn't go to the human being it's stuck on events and things you need more love you need more more confidence you need more validation no I don't the fact that I need validation is a burden I don't need that I don't need what I need better to say is get better so a person says I need to eat you need to eat first of all we need to stop eating more more likely but even the need to eat that's your need you want this you want to have an existence that cannot go on unless you eat every three hours this is a handicap in other words whose idea is it that a human being should not be able to go without food without water and without sleep we're handicapped I didn't ask for this that's what it means bow colorful cotton Atawhai you don't want to have to eat you don't want to have to depend on people you know you don't want any of this but you have to have it because that's how you were created so really who needs who needs me to eat not me for some reason the a brush that decided that a human being should need to eat it's his plan not mine I was talking to a woman who was anorexic you know anorexic she was a firm girl but had this problem had gone to a lot of therapy was more or less under control was not life-threatening but still it was hard for her to eat so we sat down to talk and she starts saying eating is so it's it's distasteful I said I know it's disgusting it's animalistic it's marble its mother worms and gun and below and I just went on and on about how disgusting eating is she says you're worse than me I said but that's the fact well I'm not making up things is the fact so you have to ask yourself why would the a brush that do something to something like this to a human being it's so humiliating you know why they have scarecrows on the farms because human beings and rabbits are in competition over the same food so if the if you don't scare off the rabbits they're gonna eat your food so look what you're doing you're competing with animals over an animal behavior and the question is who's gonna get the food first this is so embarrassing and when fishing would a guide he says the fish go here because in the dead of it I said well you outsmarted a fish and you're proud of it so why did they burst to do this to us it's humiliating but what are you gonna do you swallow your pride and you eat something her problem went away all the time that people kept telling her no it's not disgusting it's not as as beautiful you make a breath that you make not convincing it is disgusting but anyway they're basically McClay Assisi has asked me this is not my plan so what are you gonna do the image they created you like this so don't be so arrogant accept the humble condition and eat something see now what does it mean to eat l'chaim shamayim you eat with shame shall my ambitious miser while you're eating you're thinking I'm eating it only in order to have to Davi yeah keep thinking your mind is thinking that and your body is eating like an animal what does it mean with shame shamayim with shame shamayim means very simply this is not my idea eating drinking sleep this is not my idea now what am I gonna do at the a Brewster wants that a human being should eat that Monessen okay then so it's not like it's not like you can eat Li Shan Hsiung I am or not Li Shan Shan I am the only way to eat this will change Amaya because it's not your plan this is not this is not your vision of life this is the average this plan so whether you're thinking it or not thinking it in fact you're eating with Shan Shan I I stopped a guy in the street and I say would you like to put on through him he says thank you very much but I don't need this I said good so let's put him on he says no no I really don't need this I said I know I know if you needed it I wouldn't talk to you about it because if you needed it it would just be part of your existence I'm trying to help you with life your existence take care of yourself so if you needed it it would only be part of your existence I need this I need that for what to exist life means you are needed the a bridge that is waiting for you to put on filling you don't have five minutes to give a bridge that what he needs so we have to become good at doing things we don't need that's called the shame Shamai it's an interesting story we have a program in based on a base sauna in Minnesota it's for women who need to catch up on their Jewish learning in Jewish practice women come from all over the world since 1971 so we've had 25,000 women they come for two weeks three weeks a month whatever time they have free back in the 70s a woman came from India actually she was from she was from Brooklyn but she was spending time in India practicing over there Buddhism she came to the program because she had a Buddhist boyfriend who was very Buddhist he was he was a fundamental fundamentalist Buddhist a lumen they wanted to get married but he had a problem how can he marry her when he is religious and she's not so she said excuse me but I'm not becoming a Buddhist he said man whatever you want but Froome so if I'll be a Froome Buddhist and you'll be a from Jew then we can get married so she thought that was a great idea so she came to Minnesota to become a Froome Jew so that she can marry a from Buddhist the second day that she was there it dawned on her that this was not a good not a good arrangement and I find her crying outside and on the lawn I walk over I said what's the matter she says I can't marry him I said are you talking about so she tells me the whole story and here's her problem she can't marry him there's nothing to talk about but he's so nice and he's so sweet and he's so kind how is she gonna break it to him she doesn't want to hurt him so I thought you know I can be a hero here I said you want me to talk to him he's an Indian I think it looks like it's not about to happen I said you want me to talk to him she said you'll talk nice I said I'll talk nice nothing against her she's okay and I thought good solve the problem she comes back to me 40 minutes later she says he'll be here he's coming to talk to you anyway after long as he shows up Friday afternoon Who am I gonna put him he came with a little knapsack I has doesn't have a penny garnished he ends up spending Shabbos in my house so we're sitting Friday night Shabbos day and I'm trying to show him how different Yiddish kite is from Louisville here's understand there's one god there's one creator it's all the same what's the difference I tried to come up with things that we do that would shock him so I said you know ed of Yom Kippur we swing a chicken over our heads he says wow really you loved it anything I came up without ooh am I getting anywhere it's already Friday afternoon Shabbos afternoon and and he still doesn't understand it's all the same spiritual is spiritual finally around show issue this time he says sigh I don't understand you have your holy man we have our holy men what's the problem so I said you know that's really interesting you have holy men and we have holy men and yet every morning when my holy man gets up God waits for him to put on tefillin but when your holy man gets up God is not asking him to put onto him he says oh I guess it won't work and he went back to India so what finally convinced him that it's not a sugar what we are needed for you do this we do this come on it's all the same but when it came down to wait a minute the a broish that doesn't need your holy man to put onto that hick that that was so what are we needed for that's really the question so now head of head of Rosh Hashanah we have to come with an attitude not I'm gonna dive on the whole day Rosh Hashanah I'm gonna hear the Chafin and I'm going to ask the a broish that to give me what I need that's not that's not the way we're supposed to be thinking what is Rosh Hashanah Rosh Hashanah the a brush that says tomley honey - I'm telling you what I need from you coronate me as your king so what do we do on Rosh Hashanah think about how needy we are Hospital we think about what we are needed for that's life the fraeno the high end not like iam cuz vain will be safe at her high in what is high am what I'm needed for so last year I have regrets I spent so much time thinking about what I needed this year I make a haka lotta this year I'm available to you I'm here to serve you I will not waste my time on what I need but I am gonna be completely devoted to what I am needed for and that's the meaning of Haneen II he mainly means you have something for me to do that's good news cuz I have nothing to do I was born against my will I live against my will I don't need any of this so if you have a purpose for me I would love to hear it and then that will become my entire devotion that will become my entire purpose now I'm gonna be fully alive the posix says they'll show us a sham be matzah Kaoru be a Seiko leave when as he behemot say when is he college when is God close that we can call on him the month of Elul Alta double explained in very graphic example what does it mean he's close they brush that is Mel of Malcolm Lawton you can't get to a king anytime you want but in the month of L o the King comes out to the field MELAS by soda and he becomes available you can go over you can approach him you don't have to be wearing special clothes you're in the middle of your workday you're out in the field working and yet he's available that's the meaning that on the month in the month of Elul de beste discoveries his closer he's available there was a teacher in Minneapolis a real talented teacher and he wanted to explain L to his talmidim he takes out his cell phone and he calls the White House called the White House and he said I'd like to talk to the president and of course they gave him a whole list of requirements you can only do it under these conditions on at this time first tell me what you want I'll pass it on oh he says you see but when the King comes out into the field he makes himself available to everybody and now you can approach him so then the question is like this what is the rush at a verse of our a new ad ad with a deal e which is different than the month of where they delete Vanilli I'm sorry not to listen in the month of Nissen it's bedi leave our new life the month of Tishrei and the hana in ello is Anil a lady and then lady Li what is the difference pacer we were in mem test shaadi tumor we were the lowest level of of unholiness but he came layer yadaim olive a lawyer add a side of a layer - Lea he betrayed a of the odds may came to take us out of medallion so that was day D Li he came to us and then we followed him left there - I by Midway but in the month of Tishrei God says you want me to be your king coronate me it's your move so it has to be a Neela day thee I reach out to Hashem and then he responds and becomes my king so the question now was this if the king is coming out to the field then he's initiating then how is it Aniela daddy it sounds like they Deary hazzah this explains the kiemce comes out to the field because he knows that the people in the field want to come to the palace but they're afraid they don't feel qualified they don't feel entitled so they would love to come to the palace but look how I'm dressed look how I look how I spend my days I work in the fields huh what business do I have going to the palace but knowing that the Jew wants knowing that he wishes he could that makes the King come out to the field so who's starting the relationship Aniela daddy and that's why he comes out to the field when we choose life rather than existence everything works and that's what Shabbos means what melaka you're not allowed to do on Shabbos Miletus machetes if you're doing a useless task all day long that's not Mahalo Shabbos but you do a tiny little act that is constructive and productive the star vanished what is the meaning Shh a comm tablet six days of the week make your existence better work on your existence make yourself comfortable make yourself secure make yourself rich but every seventh day stop with the existence lies up whatever you have is fine you don't have is also fine your existence is ok call malacca haesu you you're done with your existence today think only about what you are needed for today devote to life not to existing and that's what it means when we say well I am well we say well Hylian we don't mean I don't want to die you're not dying from a drink you say well I am it means they broish that told us of bahar Iturbide Higham meaning make life more important than your existence so now I'm saying well I am I'm saying I would rather have a life than an existence when do you say what I am when you're excited about life there's a Hassan there there's a similar a yump if you're excited about life you say lehayim loves up with the existence but if you're not excited about life and you drink because you're unhappy that's that's a disaster then then you're just destroying yourself so we should all have axial facilitator hi in safer half I am the man Holly Kim Hyon the theme for a Jew even when it's not Shabbos our whole history is that we understand being needed rather than being needy when it comes this month when it comes out of Rosh Hashanah the the emphasis is even stronger and clearer don't ask for what you need ask for what you're needed that's how you start a new year what you need you can ask any time and they be sure should give us what we need and our existence should be wonderful but we shouldn't be proud of it we should be proud of our lives Ohio by the way that's what it means I'm you soil that's it that describes I'm useful yes because everybody wants qiyam but I'm your soil not keel hi shame the agency retired my sis Boston let's give a big extra character of a freedman inspiring Josh oh I can finish the character up I'm isil's sponsoring tonight's cheerleader this must all visit of Yaakov are you bear mode let's see La Vie over so majestic tonight the Boise I could keep the high in the qiam by sponsoring a shear and by putting an ad in the journal finisher times dinner next week to help biggie sure Sarah continue bringing these inspiring serum to the community and to eating worldwide 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