Rabbi Mordechai Becher : No Matter How Far -The Eternal Jewish Neshama

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killed and thousands tens of thousands converted to Christianity some of them were actual Christians but many of them we do not know percentages but many of them were what we call a newsom meaning or crypto-jews they were Jews secretly and they kept Christianity on the surface to all effects and purposes they acted as Christians some of these families I mean most of these family lived in Spain for literally hundreds of years till 1492 Spain expelled all practicing Jews but the the UH Newsom state most of them 1497 they and many of them went to Portugal 4097 Portugal had a decree of expulsion and many Jews there became a Newsom crypto-jews so let's imagine what would happen 200 years later someone from 3091 until 1550 1600 s has been raised as a Christian the only schools he's been going to are Christian schools all of his skin off for Molina has been Christian his parents have to hide all of these cut what do they keep very very minimum very minute we don't know exactly we have evidence that one family kept this one family kept that we don't exactly know how much they get Tanis ester was kept because they saw Esther as one of the first crypto-jews one of the first hidden Jews so Tanis Esther some people avoided pork not so easy if you're at a meal meal with someone you avoid it immediately suspicion would be cast upon you they weren't even sure when to tell their children that they were actually juice when do you tell the children you tell them when they're too young they'll blurt it out on the playground etc and you'll be arrested by the Inquisition you wait too long the kids themselves will be committed and they'll inform on you to the Inquisition so when do you even tell them so imagine a scenario like that and then then keep doing that for 200 years anyone going to stay Jewish is it conceivable the answer is it's inconceivable but it actually happened at this time Jews who actually many of them who left the Iberian Peninsula when things would let up a bit 1600s etc 1516 and they went to Hamburg and Amsterdam and other places in Europe where Jews had relative freedom what did they do they join the Jewish community that's unbelievable all you know about Judaism all you know about the Torah is from learning in a Christian school which are not so sure if you're knowing Torah if that's what you did right all you keep of Yiddish guy is maybe avoiding pork possibly tan assess there maybe here and there I don't know what there were some who had Talent a form of Tamil we know that from benzion Netanyahu Benjamin Netanyahu's father who is a famous historian he wrote books on the Inquisition in fact one of the greatest acts of diplomacy of Benjamin Netanyahu was when he first time he met the Pope he gave the Pope his father's book about the Inquisition I love that that's like you know guy deserves credit just for that anyway so been CEO netanyahu actually in one of the transcripts of an interrogation of jews the maid who was not Jewish testified that they would be very careful to have a recipe every Saturday that consisted of a screw that would sit on the fire for 12 15 16 hours the earliest recipe we have for cholent ironically is from an inquisition interrogation you wouldn't imagine that the Yiddish coat would stay and yet it did these Jews many of it not all of them but there were many of the vector or any is miraculous but many returned to the Jewish community there was a French documentary called the last Jews about a village in Portugal of Jews unloose him who to this day they would get together once a week and recite schmeyer all together that's all they knew of Yiddish code that's it in fact for many many years they thought they were the last Jews hence the name of the documentary unbelievable it's that's unbelievable the that's one example sometimes it's even more tenuous if you can imagine - China Jews came there in we're not exactly sure but probably 11th 12th century and there was no anti-semitism and they had no Tommy - ha ha Meem they were very far away from any centers of you escape they assimilated they intermarried they assimilated their descendants are not politically Jewish they know that they're from these kaifeng Jews that's all they know they have souvenirs with yarmulkes made in kaifeng yeah so they're in you know clothing retails that there is some Jewish whatever many was so but they had this so what's amazing is one of them decided to go to Israel and study for a year at bar-ilan University he learned Hebrew I met him when I was there and 10 young - they're not Jews but 10 young - Jewish descendants decided to go to Israel and to be miss Gaia 10 of them is Gaia I mean how tenuous is the spark of Yiddish kite from Erik tea stroll to Persia and from Persia to - China and then Chi from China back to Israel that's that's mind-boggling it is mind-boggling there are Jews in India Iran going next week called the B'nai Israel the B'nai Israel the Rambam already writes about them in a true ver tu casa milà mil that he says the Jews in India don't even know Tyrus of itself they have no knowledge of Gomorrah Taurus about perdón in that tourist result he says all they know is smiley stroll and Bruce Miller and maybe Shabbos it's the Rambam rights and actually that is that's that's that's for years that was accurate the B'nai Israel but they didn't assimilate partially yes because of the caste system in India which we only marry into very specific groups and castes etc and so which was actually good but they had nothing no knowledge until in the eighty nineteenth century Jews from Cochin and Baghdad came and taught them Torah and Eunice Clayton and and they accepted it amazing amazing so this indeed is the pasa Kenya in Hosea the hey I'm miss Barbara nice royal Kahala yama shallow you madly is affair the jews the number of the jews will be like Benes will be like the sand of the sea which will not counted not measurable not counted viable mahkum a CML ahem oh I am I am I am Allah hempen a yokai and in place of saying you are not my people Hashem will Saban Akal hey they are the children of the Living God how do we understand that but mahkum Shri OMA I see yeah I'm a lehem Loya me Atem instead of people saying you're not my people Hashem will Saban a calque I know they are my children and the gomorian kaduche in beautifully according to a mayor has a DRA Shahir the gomorian in commissioner mayor says Bangkok Bangkok whatever the Jews do Korean bonham they're always called children of a sham always and it says bonham and he brings the pasta can urea bond him sick limb Hamer they are foolish children and another posit bond in law Eamonn bum children without faith another posix aramara Ambani must kiss him evil evil seed Bonnie must kiss him corrupt children and then Hosea Bonet Cal hi so why the Gomorrah asked why do you have to bring for took him to prove one point the Gomorrah says very simple says this you might think that early if they're sick limb they're foolish as the morale explains they're doing sins by showing they ignorant they're fools this called children of us em they're still korban him but if they do them deliberately definitely not so Matt the POSIX says bun in law a moon bomb even if they don't have a Munna even if they're deliberate not just a matter of ignorance not just a matter of foolishness they don't believe they're still bonham and maybe you'll tell me yeah okay they don't believe but maybe they're not doing some serious a virus maybe there's knelt who knows if they're doing a fighter's aura idolatry maybe they're still not volume then that the next person comes and says Zahra Maryam Bonnie must kiss him even though they are doing evil and they are corrupt meaning even though they are devoted to idolatry avoid a surah they're still Bonham Bonham Hooda McCray they're still children now you might say okay they're still called children even after I clearly the person argument here is the loop right but you might say even right even after all this so no offense Elizabeth okay but even after this okay they're foolish they're still called children they don't have their muna they're still called children of a Shem they are worshipping our voices are there still cultural innovation but maybe they're not called bunny male learning they're not maybe they're not children per X salons bunny moralia they're not you know they're not definitely no they're not complete children maybe they're just like quasi a foster child a stepson etc so on that it says the higher bamako mocchi i'ma lay him low Yami Atem Jana and Bonet LK at Cal hi they are said they're still children so even in places where you might say as a result of their sins they're not children they're still the children of a sham bonham metalia amazing Gomorrah the Mahara in that Sophia's royal net so his role as the Maharajah book about exile to safer about exile the first person to write for him which were topical like a safer about exile a safer about Tyra a safer about this wasn't Mijares a very unique style so let's up his Royal literally means the Eternity of Claudius Rome also means the victory that's a book about Davos spat exile and in that book he says the following he says why is it that we're still called children even if we are ignorant even if we don't believe even if we worship idols and we're still considered burning moralia we're still 100 percent children of a sham so the moral explains in his classic style he says since Hakata zbor who is our Father he is the ELA the cause of that relationship we are the Ahlul we are the caused the effect of that relationship he says in as much all we can do is affect ourselves but I thought as Bohr who still our Father we can't affect the ELA the cause and so he says that's he's saying even if we write in muskegon we're still are shams children even if we do vacant legume rebar Vedas are completely devoted to avodah Zarah still essential Draenei because he says all of the floor is only in us but in as much as the e law the cause of that relationship is Nakata's borhu and we have not touched that cause we have not severed his relation because he still wants it we are therefore still bonham still children and he goes on sitebeam how high eats rum even when we follow our evil inclination IX ahora he says thank you aims amid Sadat's mum that's not something s essential this is like a second spar I think he's saying the the evil that we do is not the essence of who we are he says rock who devour me Craig it is a something which is a side a coincidence I happen stance is not my essence it's something which is not me Haven st. Ivy mid-south at some and therefore because we are good in and of intrinsically created good therefore he says to cuss me room in our semi Spiro there Nick Rubin a male therefore we are called excellent superb children 100% children of a chorus portable it's an amazing amazing idea and we find a number of case like that the the the the Rambam was confronted by a situation very famous a garis taemin that he wrote to the Jews of Yemen and who had been persecuted by Muslims there are many Jews who had converted to Islam under the threat of death and after the persecution was over not completely but mostly over there was also false messiah at the times of photo mushiya shakira etc there are many many issues they had the Rambam wrote a beautiful letter it's really it's saved lives and his letter the Yemenite Jews considered this to be the letter that saved them to the extent the Ramban writes in one of his letters ramban write writes one of his letters defending the Rambam that he says that in his time the Jews of Yemen used to mention the rumbling Kurdish that's a buffet icon of your make on in your days and in your life over hey Moran and Moshe and in the life of our master MA chère and so on and so forth we actually know from the Cairo Genizah that it was not uncommon to do that there are communities that would mention all the Rashi achievers and robe on him in Kaddish you think Kurdish is long now like you say anyway so but but the Yemenite Jews were very devoted around but the Rambam rights in Agera stamen one of the issues that he was discussing was there are a Bonham and communities who reduce who had converted to Islam they said no you cannot come back you are no longer Jewish you're an apostate you're a Muammar no and you are no longer welcome back because you're no longer Jewish that was one of the issues and the Rambam writes beautifully Zois heart oral or you malik meymaneh if had Mazzara Yakov little on this Torah not one descendant of Yakov will escape from it if wha-hoo the Lazaro the Lazare Azzaro not he not his children or his children's children you'd say or lawyers say whether he wants it or not hunan a Stockholm it's erm it's for every single Mitzvah he'll be punished for Loyola a lighter don't ever think that with CR cell there's commerce that when you do serious a virus that now exempts you from the light ones he says your arm then the VAT shriek up samus your oven bender that who cuts out of his thesis role he sinned and he caused the Jews to sin he says Nana's L shall be tell mitzvos suka he will also be punished for not sitting in the suit imagine coming to your of our benefit and saying listen you're not sitting in the circuit I mean he's all you've had avoided Zara he set up idols he prevented the Jews from coming to your shall I am I mean and you're telling him don't see this look unbelievable there's a story mentioned in in orifice famous in the city I Gras and that the grower was sitting in a some type of in the ins were generally owned by Jews and sitting with some Tom in him and I'm uh Maura comes in and RP chorus comes I know how he knew he was that because of t-shirt a pic iris and proudest I don't know what in any case he comes in and he asked the innkeeper he says for some wine for some liquor yoncé ruff says yeah give me a whiskey single malt I probably was vodka I'm pretty sure right so so the gras says to the innkeeper don't give it to him he won't make a broth the guy says are you kidding he says do you know the a virus that I do he says I'm gonna pick iris and the grocer's so what you haven't exempted yourself from the mitzvot Jeroboam of saying a broker before you drink he says you are expected to do every single Mitzvah in the Torah no matter what you have done until now according to the story he burst into tears and did toover on the spot this hasn't worked for me but never the less I guess you have to be the Gras right but but so so this is what happened Ramona Shapiro was once in a taxi with a friend of mine and I heard it from my friend the he's sitting in the back promotion sitting in the front seat and taxi driver as they're driving he says he says to remote he says if puddle if I my New York not falafel you know do you mind if I stop and get a falafel okay so he stops he jumps out meters still running he jumps out he gets a falafel he comes back you know so my friend is sitting in the back so he's driving a shift and he's eating a falafel I mean it's like right if his railey taxi drivers not give you a Munna nothing will help you so so anyway he's about to bite it Ramona Shapiro looks to him and he says bloomix a lot yeah Dame blue bra huh no washing no broker and the guy says agnolotti not religious so Ramona says asthma but so what he says is Rebbe aeneas Alvaro Avira thammarat I do some serious seems so remote says him as mass so what it means you cannot make a broth take oliveria the guy says a near car hit that colbus it on the hood I will take all my punishments in bulk sottano so Ramona Ramona looks him and he says hey there shout Tom and a beer Stuart can you know you're speaking idiocy right and the guy says Kent near there I know he made a broker he ate the falafel my friend told me rabbi cash that it was the quietest heaviest silence in a you know in a car journey he's ever had in his entire life right there was all you could hear as the motor and the guys eating falafels complete silence I don't know what happened to this taxi driver but it's the story of the Gras it's a similar story and that's what remoter saying asthma so what I once got into a taxi outside are you shiver in owendorf one of the Seven Dwarfs and we brother there are seven doors as mad as dr. Shiva key he lies I don't know why that is funny okay in any case so I get into the taxi taxi drivers apparently not religious and he wasn't wearing a yarmulke but that doesn't necessarily mean not religious okay so he's he looks mean he says Paulo medpor usually you learn here I said kid he says is oh she who's she how on earth would he even have any idea like what so I said Ramona Shapiro was in this Gomorrah she says he says big la la and each semester but because of him I keep shove us I keep shows I said take heed tell me he says okay he says I see him he had moved into a new building in a new apartment invite the gun Andropov roseola remember correctly and his daughter was sick and I needed a ground-floor apartment so so the taxi driver says that he's leaving for work he sees the new neighbor looks like a muscle bud an honorable man looked like an important person he sees he's late it seems to me it's about to rain he opens the door he says hi Rav Deaconess Nick Alcock i rabbi get in I'll give you a ride I'll give you a ride so remote adarama he gets in I did not hear this from OSHA I heard this from the taxi driver the taxi driver says he says like a Fiat I'm up there I took the key I'm about to put it into the ignition he says Ramona puts his hand on my hand and he says to me at alone of sireesha botkin you don't drive on Shabbat do you and the taxi driver said hey Tino service' but I did travel on Shabbat evolved histah cultivate a nerve lie a tea a holla get ken I looked into his eyes and I could not say yes I I felt it would just hurt him so I couldn't say yes he says on the other hand I couldn't say no I'm not a liar I'm not gonna say no I don't drive into out that's a lie he says I couldn't say yes I couldn't say no as it must correct as Makura he said miss Botti bought Auriga I made an oath at that moment in my head that I would no longer drive on Shabbat and I honestly answered him law and he'll honor say Abbess Shabbat no I do not drive on sugar and remoter said you fear sir wonderful let's go unbelievable now I would not recommend trying this at home you'll end up with the the keys in your ear or nostril or something right but you have to have a certain I get a certain presence and love and a recognition that he's Jewish and the deep down in that what he wants to do is serve a shame like the very famous halacha in the Rambam when a based in we know that a divorce a get which is forced upon someone against their will is not valid get movesets not gallant but if the based in has the right to tell you to divorce what if the bait so so how does that work and the basis letter force the person to to write the get they can beat him to within areas of his life they can whatever they can do pretty much what they want why is it not a coerced get the Rambam says in the beautiful language he says because he says deep down the guy wants to do what the Tyra wants him to do and if the basin says he has to do a divorce that's what the Torah wants him to do and that's what his innermost recesses of his neshama want to do he says the the beating is just there to get rid of the Yeats of horror and very very interesting and what is saying is the same there is this this myth sucks the spark the essence of a Jew which can never be erased and never is erased the Zohar and others call this and to this day I have a question about the Aramaic pronunciations if there's any Aramaic grammarians here you can help me out it says that there's something called that the kiss Dada fee you saw the moisture of life desire says that when we go to sleep it's like sleep is like a sixtieth of death as you probably know my roommates it was 2/3 but in general it's a sixtieth of death the Zohar says that that there's a that even so even though the person's like almost like appears me but there's a kiss to other fear so there's a there's a a I guess I am oyster of life that's still there right and that's the idea and and every Jew has that Bonham Bonet Kel hi the amazing the gomorian Sanhedrin very famous Gomorrah it says the regarding a con a con was the one who looted Yuriko Oyama theorem who transgressed the ban of looting of you recall that you're sure declared and there acordes bahu says Tata yes Royal Israel sinned and the Gomorrah says a murmur of ABBA bars after FOP Shikata you throw who even though he has sinned he's still his royal and as Russia puts it a day in shame could do shots on alayhim the name of the kedusha is still upon them so Aachen was the one where we learn this idea of cutting ropes what the Rambam says is well there's an amazing idea there's a I think I heard this rumor that reminds fall of a chick once said someone said you must show more about a certain Jew it was a quite fair because I mean you name it whatever you know the standard stuff right and some was in your master of Rome claim brisker said it's also to say that it's against the halacha no I said why he says because there are go any mu hold that a moomer is not socketable he's a moomer and up Icarus the coif alum who's denied the whole Torah so and he he dies does his wife and brother have to marry his widow and brother to marry so there are is a shifter in going him that they don't but the consensus of the restrain him and the halacha is that indeed newborn is still applicable here Mumma psychically you boom so that means even though he was a murmur he was a complete over as are the whole works etc nevertheless the Torah still says that his widow and the brother must marry why does the Torah say this the Torah says why the law you Mahesh my niece roll his name should not be a race from Israel sir who claim said if the Torah says if the ha'la'tha is that a moo-moo soccer player boom that a mama has to do you bum because the Torah is concerned that his name should not be erased from the Jewish people so how can you say you're much more hey it's a classic brisker Moussa right the halacha is lawyer Mahesh mommy is wrong end of story the Misha hokhmah points out we say kid is a prosecutor a camera Sonata Roy Betts Tatas muscle when you see the donkey of your friend of your hat your enemy crushed under its burden so says you must help him take the thing off the donkey now it's interesting later on in the Torah sorry this is in keysight's a Hamas Arava all right in and it says also a Ivica in mesh bottom it says or you've got that the donkey of your enemy he says interesting that the mesh and hokhmah says he says what changed in the middle he says that the rest of claro also did a virus we did the feta eagle he says he says so if nowaday now after the fact that we've all got a virus if you see someone else doing a nivara he says you're not allowed to hate him he says because you're in the same boat if you're at Sonic I said it go more you haven't got a virus so enough right etc that's fine if not he says casa limits Akamai so difficult to find someone like that but I'll go further in that kimono the Gomorra that's a very interesting passage person says you see the donkey of your enemy the one you hate crushed under its burden as oft as what we must help him now when you take the burden off the donkey you actually there are two mitzvahs involved here hey you are doing lesson to the Jew who owns the donkey by helping him with the bird number one number two you're alleviating Cibola shame you are alleviating the pain to the animal the donkey right is crushed onerous burden so you're living under pain now there's an other myths for which is to help someone to eat not to help someone load up the donkey now when you load up the donkey not doing any favor to the donkey here the donkeys not saying oh that's fantastic right like it's a or whoo here we go so so no you're not getting care but you're still doing it I said to the other jury that's doing in the midst of helping the other drew now what happens the gomorrah says in Bava metzia like in this theoretical case it's not so theoretical could be I have leaf rake visonnaire later on you've got someone you like and you have the opportunity to unburden his donkey Doublemint and you have someone who you hate and you have the opportunity to help him load up his donkey whom should you give priest no access to my boy because I'm currently giving precedence or or just give whatever I'm not gonna go into that but the gamora says who to whom who should you help the gomorrah says you should help the guy you hate first why kadai luck oof seh try to overcome your evil inclination of hatred okay very nice very nice the problem is twice this points out that the gomorian saath him says who is this person that you hate and then are you allowed to hate a fellow Jew no so how how could the Torah refer to this guy as sonica the one you hate I mean if you are illicitly illegally sinfully hating a fellow Jew you're probably not going to listen to this anyway so who is this hated person who is it the government's Aachen says very simple it's someone who you witnessed doing a serious Avera and you rebuked him according to many restrain him any rejected it and so such a person your ladder hate no one else is allowed to because they don't know that he did this and I'm only one witness so I can't do anything but I know that this guy did some serious stuff and hence hate him so that's the gomorrha system sake so who are we talking about who is the hated person one whom you are allowed to hate and according to one shooter you're obligated to so twice this ask an obvious question so why is it like office it's raw where is the overcoming of the eight Sahara its there is that you're doing the right thing right why am I supposed to hate him what am I supposed to help him first to overcome my evil inclination in which I hate him I'm allowed to hate him according to the government sock him he is someone you're allowed to hate so is a question clear if the question is not clear you want right questions clear okay so twice must answer very very top of enigmatic answer is not not clear at all they say the following Cavin Susanoo if you hate this guy young cavero so no sir he'll hate you as well deceived combined upon him upon him came loafer adam Lada as water reflects your face so the other person can reflect what's in your hearts so he'll feel the hatred and he'll in turn hate you ruobai in me toy car lid a sinner Gomorrah as a result of this they will come to complete hatred the Shia fear say yet sir and then it's possible to speak about overcoming your evil inclination so we have apparently according to Toys R Us there is a hatred which is okay and there is complete hatred sinner Gomorrah which is not okay that that seems to be the deduction we would make now if he refuses to help this guy he only helps his friend than the we'll fill that hatred he'll come to hate him and then I will hate him with a sinner Gomorrah complete hatred and that's unacceptable and that's why I have to help him to overcome that complete hatred so complete hatred unacceptable some hatred okay right well how do we understand this ptosis so much LaRussa and I asked her Moshe Shapiro's and he pointed us to a Tania parrot Lama base the Tania says the boy he says this is cotton poisonous we also asked rooftop sportsman and he said the same thing three guys from OSHA and roof dog right shopping choices they both pointed us to the Tonya Pierre atlanta-based the Tonya says the following he quotes the Mishnah in Pierre habis famous Mishnah with the Mishna says heavy metal metal shower on you should be a student of iron Reaver Sabri us love people and I have shown rate of solemn love police pursue peace imsr brios love people on the caravan Latoya bring them close to Torah so the Tonya points out that that Bri ice if you translate the word brios literally what does it mean creatures breo's not with an outlook brios right but he'll creatures so you should love creatures and bring them close to Tyrell if you call someone a creature is that a compliment I mean technically creature means a created being brios are at something which is never so it's not an insult but it is right now is alright because what I'm saying is the only positive thing you can say about this person is what I mean they're created cRIO by Oh shame I mean that right on the resume all that says is created by God nothing else right and you say that's not what's more you'd get him picky it's not enough he's created by a shame that surely that any 21 yeah so his Everest should be enough right so so so what does it mean so the Tonya says the following he's what it means is even someone who's on such a low level that the only positive thing you can say regarding him is but he was created by a sham I have a sub Rios this left to love him Wilma Caravan Latoya and bring him close to Tyra amazing Duke but the tan he goes on to say he says you know what gala Makarova met slot but even those people have a chroma people you know well they're closed here they're not completely moist virus or something like that they're not completely out of the pale right and you who come and you rebuke them though I saw who Marvo no say em and they did not repent of their sin i rebuked them I did talk haha they stay wigs they said yeah go go jump in the lake birth he says mitzvah lists nice um so there there's a mitzvah of hatred Mitzvah of I'm gong came but he's supposed to love them too that's sinner Gomorrah means there's no love even those people that I'm allowed to I would I reject I rebuked him we'll see soon than that anyway Liholiho that's not so but even though someone who have rebuked him and he rejected the rebuke and he still does the Avera and he's doing it intentionally and repeatedly and I'm a ladder idea says I have to love him as well stay hmmm s they're both true cinemates and harush of ahem hatred of the evil in them the Ahava mitsubishi no sort of had a news shivoham' and love because of the good aspect which is hidden within them shown it suits ala coushatta so from the spark of godliness in them how much higher nuff some hollow kiss which sustains their godly soul so what is choice of saying the toast is saying this if I don't help this guy that I'm only displaying hatred without love and that's Synod Gomorrah and so therefore the Torah says Yeats Axio c8 sir is overcome your evil inclination have low life as well so yes the gomorian Sock'em says the guy is a Rasha he's an evil person he says doesn't mean I'm a ladder hates every aspect of him total hatred I have to love the good within him I have to hate the bad but love the good it's an amazing thing and I should point out Liholiho the cousin ish sites this Moran Willow Glen says that that a person is really only called a Rocha if they have been rebuked they've had toy caca they've been rebuked and they rejected it if they've never been rebuked they're not that the name Rocha evil doesn't apply covets fame brings it in a safer called mugginess at over at the end of harvest acid but he adds one more thing he says nowadays we don't know how to do talk offer okay that's very interesting now let's let's put let's do the math you can only consider this person a Russia evil after he's bad appropriate title Oh throw puke nowadays we don't know how to do your boot properly so therefore is there anyone who you would look at as post toy caca no cousin it says what it means is the only Tony consider some poster Kaka if a base didn't said look enough effort has been expended on this person we now consider him a Rajah until the point where there's a SUP based in that he's had all the effort right he's been to gateways him to project inspire into Asia taurah and taurah Samantha - muffins Lama and sister pills and etc etc and to discovery near it any any Rick Hillman and he read over gottlieben he write a zero sector has any kind of moisture right etc and he still doing a virus well okay the guys are Roger but he says we cannot have the arrogance to say what do you mean I gave him toe Kaka and he's still Russia he's still doing their own thing well you think you're tough is so awesome that a goal do instant River when they said when they hear I mean as the gomorian he says an Aryan Gomorrah says no one really knows how to do to hawk because I say hey there's a little bit of a splinter in your teeth he says oh yeah there's a 2x4 right between your eyes that's the gomorrah says right so that means that we really don't have propria doesn't mean that we're exempt from taco we still have to do it but but it means having tried I can now not I cannot pass can that this guy is hopeless that this guy is a life Sisler that this guy is absolutely that's over why because he never heard good to her who knows maybe if you'll meet the right person maybe it will go to the right Shearer maybe you forget into the correct taxi he will change you never know so it's very difficult to have that suck there's a very and you never know what will what will affect the person never know what will affect person there is a story and I verified the details of this this guy Dave who he's now a rabbi by the way works for Asia Torah so Dave had been to Asia Torah in the summer summer program and he liked the idea so he didn't become from but he liked the idea of Shabbos he felt that was an attractive of content so he went back to the states and he started to try to keep Shabbos but he had a hard time because he was not living in an area where there was a religious community his parents were to say the least unenthusiastic and he didn't really have any support whatsoever so he had he tried for a few weeks had a hard time so one night Friday night Shabbos night he's sitting there he looks up and he says I got a sparkle he didn't say cause he said God he said if I don't get a sign from you that you want me to keep shoving I'm not doing it I can't it's too hard so he says so nothing happens so he looks up and he says I'm giving you till midnight no let her do this by the way so but he did at midnight nothing happens he says 15-minute extension 12:15 a.m. burnished nothing happens so he picks up the remote he says that's it no more Shabbos turns on the television now it happened to be tuned to Dave Letterman Show an American comedian Dave Letterman was interviewing another American comedian by the name of Tom Hanks I've actually seen the clip of this interview Tom Hanks had just come back from Israel and Dave Letterman asked Tom Hanks so Tom how is Israel's is great do you like the food as they're fantastic people great he said you pick up any Hebrew Tom Hanks said well yeah it's Friday night tonight in Israel we say in Israel they say now this is 1215 Dave puts on the television Tom Hanks looks in the camera and says shabbat shalom Dave Dave looks up Dave Letterman Dave he says okay I am convinced turns off television shouldn't have done but okay and he became so you can never know well that's the nit sauce the spark right it wasn't talker it was Tom Hanks Saints about salon to Dave Letterman for heaven's sakes there's a guy in Toronto good friend of mine told me this going to run to whose parents sad again the Yiddish kite he was uninterested my parents going crazy all right anyway so but his parents managed to slap him to their minion one Shabbos morning bucha state they knew they said look we only have nine we need you we need okay fine let's he comes but yet he read through the govern he actually he was a poetic type guy and he was attracted by he felt that the to heal him a beautiful which they are he felt that the filler was very nice he liked there was a Carla bath time he like this he liked the music he was not so bad so you know after that he decided that he wouldn't keep Shabbos he's not gonna become religious but do you know who got a source of it for him that'll be going to saucer morning he says that's it for me that'll be perfect I'll go to saucer this morning so anyway a couple of weeks like he was going to saw service morning for him that was Shabbos and the rest of the time to do what he did so I'm Friday night he's running through the stations on the television and he accidentally clicked on on Canadian Public Television which no person in their right mind would ever intentionally watch Canadian pub seldom you'd have you you'd have to be a Canadian and be a complete nerd right I mean that the height of both anyway so he accidentally clicks on Canadian public television right and what he sees the mum capture Reber I don't know if you've ever seen this but in the Spielberg film archive there is a movie of the monk capture ever his granddaughter's husana his daughters Kasana it's an amazing scene now the monk capture ever agreed to have it filmed by the american film crew if he could give a message to the Jews of America without it being edited and they said yeah okay and he said in that case fine you can film it so he stands up on the carriage and I've seen this as well he stands up again and there's obviously spoken Yiddish with the subtitles in English so that this guy in Canada could understand and the more capture every says I want to tell my brothers and sisters in America that if you want to be a Jew you've got to keep Shabbos and keeping Shabbos it's not enough just to go to shul Shabbos morning the guy sitting there says okay the Hmong culture in the 1930s was speaking to a guy in Toronto in the 1990s and told him to keep Shabbos and he did unbelievable that's that's toy hawker but that's not the type of toughie that you that we're going to be able to do right we are not exempt we have to do it anyway and sometimes it can come from just weird sources I just met a guy recently who's from and he told me he says you know he says one of the chain turning points in my life is I was at your house I lived in Toronto for four years and doing orsa math stuff there and the guy came to our house for Shabbos and my son schmuely at the time was I think three probably around three and we're sitting at the table service and this guy says look he says rabbi says I like you appreciate spirituality but I want to find my own way I want to find my I don't really want to be you know used use Judaism and its techniques I want to find my own way so my son truly who was three looks at him and he says if you want to climb a mountain you need the correct equipment parently my wife had read of a book about mountain climbing that morning and he remembered the line he's got an interesting mind and he said it to the guy and the guy looks in he says yeah it's a good point that's a good point and he started he started coming to our educational minyan it was unbelievable so how caught us boy who watches our Zahra as as the RAM mum put it zero Avraham ain't no color the seed of Avraham will never ever be erased and you can never escape from Yiddish Kate and for us we have to look at that good part in the person the of knocking a breslav an amazing statement in this is in Lakota Morin in toleration pay basis one of the my good friend rabbi rillette II who's speaking here tomorrow night who's an expert in wrestle of thought told me this is probably the most important paragraph in Lakota okay so anyway so he says the following he says sorrowful are doing this Colorado on the cuffs horse you have to judge every person favorably what does it mean judge a person favorably see he understeers get a little bit of a different understanding the way we normally think of it I feel mr. Raja gum or even someone who's completely evil so it's left a face the limp sober a sort of A's on that table you have to find a little bit of good in that we have to look into that person and see if you can find anything good whatsoever in that person and symbol isomer at that in that small area ain't no roster he's not bad he says and every Jew has some area of their life of their emotion of their thought of their philosophy of their activities etc which is good everyone oh you days ashramites about my top and when you find that little bit of good in that person the danoi saw the cuffs loose and you judge him based on that good are you days they're male or sober ms the cuffs cause you're able to elevate him really to to merit and to score so the young whole L'Arche avoid be chuhwa and then you can return him intrude chuva he says you have to believe that the person has got within them some good everyone does I was driving with a rabbi we do it it we did a Chabot on in Florida together as many years ago and before there were gps's we had printed I picked him up I rented a car Putin up in another terminal the airport I had a map printed out of where we're supposed to go I clearly made two very stupid mistakes in terms of the directions and we end up in a neighborhood where it was not safe to say the least and he looks at me and he says tell me something does your mother love you now there's no doubt in my mind he was fulfilling what we're enough regrets have said he was finding the one part of good in me that I indeed was loved by my mother a layer song right and he is right but when you find the good within that person and he says then you can really return then you can you have to see the good in them like the time you said as well as the and the Gro said and and all of them that you still believe a mitzvos so you tell me in latias math so what to say message from all of them and he says by the way the hain't Sarika Adam limps or Gumba out smaller of Nachman says you've got to find that in yourself as well you only really do true ver and change you got to look at yourself and find the good in yourself as well the one area don't look at yourself as lost you find the area where you are good he says once you find that area where you good he says then it can grow from that to something which is very beautiful very eternal and the Gomora says in famous mission ensign Hedren which says that it says talks about Claudius role yes Colliers relation credit well mother every Jew as a portion of the world to come and then Italy tells those who have lost their portion a loss Salem Salem Harbor these are those who have no portion the Gomorrah goes on however later and says Doris a resume I see how uranium Coulomb bio oil M Harbor the door say resume ice those who expounded on rashim ice means faint inscriptions said all of them come to Island Harbor what does that mean sort of Sadek of Lublin he says the following door Sara Shirley's may says even sometimes when something departs from somewhere it leaves a a ricer a trace that's the word a trace it leaves a trace forensic right there's always going to be any interactions going to leave a trace a little bit of hair a little bit of skin little fingerprint that's it he says he says so even someone who's a fighter a sinner even someone who looks like the kedusha has left them door Chaitra shoe mice those who could see even the slightest hint they said no no no no it's still enough for them to return into the door so assume eyes that's how he puts it are you de-ice and catania stulka search I could do sir I've only caught Malcolm perishable nish are the the trace the sign mean that you know when you write on had you look at the and you rip off the top page underneath on the next page you can see a little bit the marks that the pen made on that pad that's the rationale you know and and closer all has that and and the ROM hull points out by the way he says we also have we have a physical component which will never be destroyed for which our more can reconstruct Pierce amazing the NCM hollows he says but we also have that rationale that Kista that here so the moisture of life their remnant the trace that's what our same will rebuild the neshamah sfrom the ROM Kyle points out by the way the same is true with enclosure off the coil he says is that somehow lose of Claudius role from which will be rebuilt the base on me - and he says the shin er which is still at the K cell has not left is the regime oh the trace elements of that condition that was once in the base army - which are similar build everything very beautiful analogy that like in the human so also the sheer coma of Claudius role in the Khosla marathi and by the way it's not by coincidence that we learned this from our con a con safer seder hey on the coal boss says that the first paragraph of Elaine hall was written by Yahshua and the Seder hyeyeon says that the second paragraph was written by Archon who signed his name in the first three letters first three words owl Cain the cover therefore we have hope I am tough none alkane out we have hope so what shut remotion Pierrot said because very simple from a con we learned that FOP Shikata you sir all who even though he is sinned as he is roll what better alkane the cover could there be we have hope we can have hope because our son taught us no matter how serious the Avera no matter how even a Curtis ball was saying you sinned but you're a Jew alkane the cover and the curve we know the word can't tick for that hope alkane the cover from the word curve tikva is used to also mean in the safer Yahshua tikva sir Shani that when rock of ties a thread of red to the windows so that when the Jews vade they'll save her in the family in her house that that's tikva so the word tick voters road to the word carved which means a thread or us or a string or a line Lucas Tikva is the hope that connects me to wear it to my destiny connects me to where I am there's a beautiful fort I heard in the name of Cassidy sure I do not remember who it was who actually says that that is when when you lose a loss when you lose something even though it's not in your possession even though it's not under your control if you haven't given up on it you've still got a tick for a hope that you'll get it back so you're connected to it by a line a curve of hope like it connects you to the object if I find our going to give back to you but if I find the object in the circumstance in which there is no hope that you'll get it back in which case you've given up hope you dropped it Grand Central Station five o'clock Monday on the platform most likely you Sh you've given up hope and therefore that line the coat the hope that connects you to the object has been severed it's been cut I can tell z-- us the line that connects us to our cottage bar who is never cut never severed that curve is still curved and is still therefore we slept tikva and therefore alkane and therefore in the car vilasa hashem volcano that i said we have hope that once again you'll restore all of Claudius role to our pristine state where we should be to our situation of B'nai quelque the sons of Hashem Vinay Mallya beautiful excellent children of a Shem which is were all coral is which our obligation is to reach out to all of those Jews to reach out to each other and no matter where they are to understand alkane the cover they're still connected they're still Jewish Shane could do shots on a lake M Binet Cal Kai and alibi that a college bar who will show us that in front of our eyes they Tennessee Elvis at the sugar Coliseum Baraka Mia her VI main army Jamie a cashier at aramis's possum at your big Esther care to have about half an inspiring Russia the Versailles to sponsor one of the sheer have the Great's close call a Grecian retire seven one eight eight five one eight six five one email tapes enter each even at town we're like your biggest requests to mister missus dovey Nierenberg for exclusively sponsoring tonight's year CDs available shortly roof on Anya van Akashi milliseconds both lose our case this is chella figure he belonged or missus janii Milano's office announced its go yeah go terribly yonder