Rabbi Moshe Weinberger: Start Fresh!

rule from my boyish Amy idea to retire Maestas plus some like to welcome everyone tonight to the final shear of this summer's shear Miri's become abhorrent all the men here in the main show the women upstairs and downstairs and everyone listening in on the phone system watching through the livestream I give a big extra care to mr. Mundy Pomerance for sponsoring tonight's year like you biggest Rakesh to mr. moto Faso posnick sponsoring tonight she has a source for simpler than is mr. Botha tonight we have the cover Davalos for mr. Weinberger's leader of of the goodest sure of Flatbush speak on the porn topic as as we think that if some was joined to a close but he's gonna speak in the topic of starting fresh I covered the corner of a Weinberg over tonight's Josh first of all on behalf of Claudia's drone I wasn't officially anointed to say it but we want to thank you can shoot at Tara when people come back at the end of the summer every way so how was your summer so if you were in the city like it was very depressing and you didn't really want to answer and you hope no one would ask you but he can sure they're brought some life life to the city of life of Tyra and all over well listening to by initials will help from that the ear good should continue and it's a void is like a dish to be my Tyra for many years to come a friend of mine was invited a number of weeks ago to speak in a hotel so the instant what topic would you like to speak about said he wants to speak about Elle they call them back the next day and they said now you know the people here on vacation they want to have a good time making up a lighter topic to talk about because if he doesn't talk about it like it'll go away I think that that stuff is wrong I think elves are very happy season if Pam was once walking and the airport and he started crying a very emotional and so much the rebbe why is so emotional and he says he sees families not even Jewish families he just sees families get him off the plane hugging each other happy to see each other and when he sees that love of family connecting it moves him so we come to a low I'm Neela dolly David ideally I am to my beloved I sham and I Seamus to us and suddenly we get that hunger that would be missing a whole year that's something to be very excited of that so we like to explain a little bit that disk evolving a subtle Simpson deeper simple that L brings us there's a lot of Russia Tavis for L some are famous some are not one of the less famous ones is brought down in the kitchen sugar Nara when someone kills somebody by accident I love is yester going to goes has to go to a city of the love iane and that protects him from the guy lied I'm from the relative of the one that he killed to kill him and the posix says ila kim eana leo Davis something looks on Oakland Hashem made this happen that you should kill someone be shy gay this something local Malcolm I will make you a place of refuge in our lives are your diverse aunty look are spells ello so L all is connected to re McNutt in Elio De Basanti Lala so one can understand this simply there's an e McClinton space and there's an emic what in time what is our sanctuary in time we don't we run during the calendar year to save ourselves from our own skin and from the eights of horror that runs after us on a constant basis you run to L like the rich ass runs to the army club to the city of love Liam to be saved we wait with bated breath for ello because that's our refuge but I think we can go a little deeper than that there's an unbelievable - Ganga Maili places in parishes vacanam since ours yeah of the moisture my she went ahead and he separated the three cities that whenever I they might she never went into her to show proper so he he put aside to three cities that was going to be cities of refuge something that's kind of Molly traces as you have the moisture Oz Yasha emotion and my should put aside the three cities of refuge he sang sheera he said he was worried what is this white sadly shaggy gonna do Hashem says that spilled blood will only be compensated with spilled blood so when he saw that there was a way out he sang Shira and my sisters I know what he felt like I also killed somebody and had a runaway no moisture sank Shira and then there's another boss asking about the cases and the next one says miserable Shemesh he says all right scam run to the east all murderers run to the east a dumb guy and kid mask allayed they ran to these all right Hashem much singing Shira still not pleasant to leave your family you live it you shall I am I Suraj skin and you have to go up to some city of Bolivia and if you're in the city of you have to move from one Street to the other that's a pleasant okay it's away Apple what's the Shira what is this song of Larry mclubbe it's another interesting about the Gemara says that my Wakan Tanka this baldwin says then they my ain't I'm and Chloe's show how Albury Sonny I'm kipper why don't we say how a Russian kipper what's with those Jews how come they don't say how and I share man says one second separate crimes information so him the books of life and death are open cuz you buckle the ice Chevelle key say then how did you sing how so what what am i local media why should you pay side when I'm maturing you see how she wasn't at the time you Sal sook is the NACE in the mid buddy Sal why should you say Howard shut him kipper those records to give him an answer yet but what was the question why should you say how all right shun him kipper let's go back to our rights half a second let's see what happened to him he went through the forest you weren't gonna chop down the tree okay so what chaplain would chapel by trade perhaps he goes and as he swings his hatchet the metal becomes detached from the woods and kills somebody else in the forest that's the case in the tire what did he do wrong what did he do wrong is he a klutz slow Mazel what's problem so I ventured to say I'll tell you what his problem is he didn't care enough about life to do the due diligence you have to do a lot of us have cars today with beautiful pictures of what we're backing into and still says check your surroundings you don't want to hurt anybody if you care enough about life then you don't do things that can endanger someone you take every precaution possible why didn't he check what was going on he check his hatchet why are you looking for people around life didn't mean that much then your life doesn't mean a lot to everyone there's a radio show a few years back : program they were discussing three questions question number one is there life after death people go up give the opinion there is life after that there's no life after that and the second question was if there's life if the death where do you think you're gonna go upstairs or downstairs okay Nathan Times does if opinion my Rebbe wants us to say over a fellow came to show and he clapped y'all of the other way and the other person said no y'all ever why your voice just what is this habit pinion yes and the third question was what do you like better old coke or new coke those are the three questions is there life after death where are you going Diet Coke a Coke Zero equally important questions that's cool life as a fellow in the hospital a boy 19 years old terrible car accident is not all types of machines and the doctors got together and they wanted to pull the plug was one from a doctor and he wanted to save the boy's life she said I want you to tell me he says to this room of doctors that were consulting what is your quality of life on one to ten ten being the highest no dr. so-and-so what do you say he's out there like this I'm divorced my kids don't have anything to do with me I'll call my quality of life for six turns around to the other person what's your quality of life seven five before he says let's go as this boy this Jewish boy let's go ask him what his quality of life is so they go over to this boy on the machines and they say mark tell me one to ten what's your quality of life he says Patton he says Dan I could be a ten he says I wake up in the morning I open my eyes I could breathe I could pray to my Creator I could say my darling that's a ten now so what's life like old coke my real disken had a sick lady used to go visit very ill and one time he went to her and she says it was before us your son he says give me a broth of a rebus yum I want to live a long life he has to why do you want to live a long life you suffering so much so she said as follows a whole week I'm dirty I'm in bed no one's attending to me then my sister comes once a week from Bnei Brak and she washes me up and I'm able to make abraha so for that once a week that I can make a brother I need a refill on and this person goes into the forest life doesn't mean much Tim you know all the things that we live for so let's say someone who's not religious he dies so people feel bad huh he never had a chance to go to a baseball game didn't have a chance to eat this you have a chance he doesn't need it right now but if a person is they eat and every second of life is a mitzvah and every second of life is connected with a Vista so life has value life is meaning and this fellow in the forest didn't understand see here's what we're gonna do we're gonna send them to the city of love iam my place you could've sent them said the man emerges true no no no we're not out to punish him what helped to give him a new lease on life we're out to give an opportunity to get it right you don't understand the value of life go live in a city Olivia they are not running after the mundane they're not into business transaction they're sitting I mean Ava - Emma all day imagine someone who walked into his Shiva for the first time in his life how taken aback he would be how he would be this spoil how we look at wonderment of people that have dedicated their whole lives not just to be under the spell of Iceni but to turn their backs on an entire world and in that city love him he's gonna learn a life's all about he gets a new lease of life my sure a beggar says that's something to sing about that's something to sing about meeting recently and they have her - I believe it was and one time he's walking the street in Russia and he'd have his papers with him and he was in a big sack on a soldier found and somehow he escaped and he felt bad because he felt he didn't capitalize on that new lease of life and then the terrible massacre of tough rape a test and covering on that fateful Shabbos he went and heated under the dead bodies of his friends and he was saved and spared and then he says that's a new lease on life I'm gonna make sure to take care of all your my cells you have no moisture Meister says I could his borrow will give someone a second chance that's something to sing about when the converse is sunny I'm Kippur State and pulse it until them I mean you've wrought to how welcome a nation is going to be created that's gonna sing the praises of a ship which nation which the nation a new nation the world was always making new nations it's going on Chloe's show cloudy stroke comes recession a Yom Kippur or misspelled them the nice and Bria kedusha they become a new person and that's I'm never wrote the whole car that's something to sing about so that my love him say my ain't no a Mahalalel Burroughs Hashanah Yom Kippur how could you not say hallo when you get a second lease on life Chavez Kurata repentance is to feel bad to promise not to do it but a chemise birth says something else he says I'm willing to make you a new person and the Rambam says that that's one of the dark yet sugar you should change your name if you could change your name change your name if your name is Joe Cuenco Yosef he aim is Joseph Queen and Reb Yosef if there's a brace of course of a rabbi that's not but the concept is that you becoming chuva is not just there to get forgiveness to give you a fresh start on life and that's something sing about who wouldn't like a new lease in life I guess my bottom I teach boys between the ages of 15 and 17 I'm sitting on this big chair and they're behind desks and I can go out take a drink whenever I want and they can't I said wants to switch with me anybody want to switch to me I'll be 16 again I'll be a good boy and you you you'll be surprised and tell everybody what to do and scream and punish I'll be 16 no one ever took me up on the offer I wish someone take me up on the offer but it wouldn't make a difference okay so we can't go back to being 16 but we could be 20 30 40 50 or 60 or 80 or 90 with everything we know and start over again now Sabrina Hadassah that's something sing about it a secret it's not a secret there's a story about the right calf from the grace to be showing them and the recalc was on his ship and it was on a time and a storm broke out on the ship and they were dampening down be nothing was helping finally morning came and as-sunnah wasn't ROI for the Mitzvah he said take his - blow chef and they blew Schaffer and the storm abated and fine so what was his secret eat blue Schaffer What did he say four do the Shaffer has the power the Shaffer is the Shaffer of psi Mason the round members as a chauffeur is there to wake us up when a person sleeping it's one sixtieth of death and the Schaffer wakes him up this Schaefer is the call of psi Mason the shaper says you can't do it this shape is says we're gonna start all over again the Schaefer says let's go back to Iceni and with witness says a tremendous thought he says it's interesting we serve a shame with blowing on Rosh Hashanah you know what that represents Rosh Hashanah was the day man was created how was man created has some blue in his nostrils the blow of the Schaefer brings back the valley past the app of mishmash I am unbelievable we're blowing Schaefer was celebrating the creation of man so of course man can be recreated on Rosh Hashanah who doesn't want to start no so to recap - pshh - he blew Schaefer and he had psi Mason they were granted a new lease on life and somewhere in the hospital and the doctors told him there was no hope and he got better would he not celebrate Aniela died even idly we've been so separated from the remaining show them that we don't know what's happening to us and now we can come back that's something to celebrate you know what the cash is so good what's the answer some they might even roam ha well why not tremendous now I understand the question this thick South's life is not my own diction my life assurance like why don't they say how well in the life so the answer is sifrit I'm C freemason listen to the answer the only time you say how well is on an ace that happens to the whole claudius room if an ace only happens to a part of Claudius row you don't say how not everyone gets rejuvenated not everyone comes rajesh on yom kippur and gets that new life it's only the people who strive for it only the people who prepare for it so therefore separate times because otherwise doesn't say see free Misha area who will live Misha hummus who'll die it says those who are alive and those who are dead some of us are dead the whole year the dead but the Sun that come alive but since it's not gold Claudius row you don't say hallo yes there are those that come alive there are those that prepare there are those that get the producer then those that become a new person that become abusive to become I go and I go to leprechaun gala new neshama they get through a scarlet be care B but since some don't if we can say how unbelievable but now the question comes what do we need to get a new life what holds us back the first thing that holds us back is some of us don't want in life we're very happy with the life we have as a fellow as a Maskull he came to Cleveland came to tells and he called rebellion mayor block because he knew him from tells and he totally amazed in Cleveland where a man says well if you clean what you're coming to the Shiva he says I'll tell ya I lived my life one way the whole time I really don't want to change and I'm scared if I come to Eve I'm gonna change and if we didn't come to the Shema story I read about a boy went off the Darryl as we call it he had some issues he left you Shiva he met up with the wrong crowd and was having a great time one day he found out that a friend of his as you know Michael he's dying of cancer so he davon for him and he'd Ivan that he prayed and he cried and didn't help exactly by the lava a satyr by the funeral of his friend and he looked into the grave and he said he's not taking anything with them not a smartphone not his fancy socks and his cool leather jacket not his car and he's varying this I rare he was very awakened and he went out to stroll he went these shivani became easy Vermont came back a few years later for marriage too strong and he met his friends and his friends with the exact same they hadn't changed at all in iota he couldn't believe it he said you bite a funeral just like me what's the difference the difference is that he always had the spark in him he really wanted to go back he just couldn't do it but when he sat there the spark became a fire but if a person lost the spark he's not interested you could talk to him you could show him he could live through traumatic experiences and I'll be the same so the first thing is do we want to become a different person do we want to and a person should have a Shifa first you have a desire to become great you know they used to be a young because a drink called v8 some of you still it's kosher today I don't know if it was kosher growing up it's like a tomato juice so there was an advertisement for the ate this fellow drank a soda or something else and then he bags himself on the heads I I could have had a v-8 how many people go through life clapping him on head I could have I would have I could have when we were playing balls kids if we had a question we did a do-over I love that a do-over like a do-over it's fine uninteresting measures says like this today my she come they come myesha's face look like the face of the Sun Yeshua's face can a Livanos like the moon on music am sure there's a kingdom said the elders in Yeshua's time said I'll I say Busha oily AIESEC Lima one embarrassment this is now simply we understand this fellows they handled he liked my sure day know whose face was like the sun now they have leader like you sure whose face on like lavona their barriers but they have such a leader that's the simple shot I went to a kind of illusion that says he says I'll be muscle it was a city of people who are as lazy as you can imagine work was poisoned to them they also were extremely poor because they didn't work this fat will drove in with the huge limousine and enter Raj he comes into the city and says who would like to come work for me work work one nice is listen poverty-stricken there's no way to live I'll come work for you fine he comes and works comes back three months later he's not driving he's driving a Toyota his dress nicely comes out everyone runs away just as where is everyone so while we're embarrassed from you misunderstand that other fellows much richer than I am weren't you why weren't you embarrassed from him he earns them he inherited his money from his grandpa and his great grandpa we couldn't have been like him but you we could have all been like we could have all gone to work like you so you were embarrassed for they might see you can't be my shrah Bain is the son what's the Levana what's the moon a reflection of the Sun if you hang around the Sun you could become a reflection they were embarrassed that they didn't take advantage of the situation so a person is very satisfied sometimes with a little in brokenness but not satisfied little and - miss if a person says well that's my nature I'm a satisfied fellow so why are you working so hard why trying to make this big fortune just like you're not so interested say I'm okay I dive in three times a day I learn a little bit I'm a good boy I don't need more I don't want more so how come it everything else you want more so I believe the answer is because one thing you think is more important than the other that's the answer the whiz - Eve farm where's the ambition where's the drive to become great laughing it's too late that's the second prod you think you can't that's a different issue but first you have to want first you have to dream you have to have a car line you have to have the ISIS dream they're gonna become a mela you'll become an hour that's the first thing we have to want to want to come close to share you want to be able to share we have to appreciate what it means to be an evidence gem we have to stand the richness of life in every chef but then we have to believe we can do it and that's already inner step most people locked into the concept that they can't they can't and that I saw very obsession pink is the other day he says the borders are not bcourses that's his lunch it borders are not because what do you think that anything you do in life doesn't need sight to this man you think there's anything in life that you do that doesn't mean Hashem to help you so you think that if you want to become great and you make that first step you don't think I am can make you reintroduce ah you don't think you could be that new person my rabbir of GiftA used to always say over from him simcha Cecil Marshall that there was a king and this King said anybody who can climb this ladder gets half my kingdom and my daughter but the ladder was on a funny funny angle and after three four steps who ever climbed it became dizzy one fellow says listen if the King said you could do it that means you can do it so he went up one step two step four steps as the world is spinning five steps eight steps and when he got to the tenth step a magnet came and pulled him up the next 90 steps that's what it means how could this bar who says who broke her toe back try him choose life choose to become a new person you can't do it all you can do is choose choose take the first step I want to tell you something which is I think remarkable the baser lady says as follows he says six days of the week coach mark created the world and the seventh ash-sham rested so the Magisters are very fascinating muscle he says like somebody who's fashioning something with a hammer and he lifts the hammer that's the six days of the week when the hammer comes down that Shabbes it's the muscle again lifting the hammers the six days of the week and the hammer comes down is Shabbos and we find also it says man I will Kim but yeah my V sounds like he did do something I'm chimes so what happened on Shabbos and in Shabbos daven e we talk about brie asylum but nothing really was created on Shabbos so here's what the base of Labor says base lav says that a coarse bunk made something new every day of the week Shabbos is a cottage bark or renewing the world every second the celebration of Shabbos is nothing new was created but what's happening on Shabbos is has sham renews the world every second every second is really a new creation taking place I was a child I lived in Brighton Beach you throw to Coney Island and for five cents you could see a movie there's no movie I'll tell you what it was there was a picture of a person let's say picking up the hand so there was let's see a hundred pictures each one a little higher you flip the dial and if you flipped it fast enough so you saw it look like a person picking up their hand sometimes it got stuck and nickels a nickel didn't do too much and then in the middle the person's hand stopped because because the whole thing was an optical illusion it was Joe fast that I didn't see that's what this world is this world is an optical illusion because there really should be no such thing as aging if a sham recreates the world every second that means if I'm here now it has nothing to do with the fact that I'm here a second before so I should always be whatever age I am and that's up to my shrub a nice herb and didn't need an optical illusion so I stayed same age look the same this great shape why should get old when you walked into the base I make this feel like I'm a Punnett was always hot why he's like up on him always act because the neatest life was real in the there was no obstacles in so life as it was why should he get called if it's recreated every second it could be a hat Shabbas claim is the celebration of a sham that renews the world every second what I thought that well not here in this second cuz we're a second before dr. bass lav that's why it's easy to do chuhwa cuz you really not the same person you were a second ago you really not and that's why we're on the Mauritian she's cryin and his kind says tell me what was your dinner he said we did children we made a compromise he said I'd come over miss Marsha we are Machado was initialized with children because that's what it's all about if chuhwa means we want to become a new person that we have to understand the possibility is there we can if you dream it you can there's two things you have to do them interaction or a kesef the combat meinem top epicenter you have to want it like you want money and you have to search like you search for a treasure you have to want and you have to work I don't know if somebody was sick with a very very severe disease and the doctor told him that what he has to do is have a certain diet and run two miles every day I think he would do it sir cars burgers is like this you have an L I want you to start fresh I want you to get to the point where you could begin life over again I want you to get to the point that all that veiwers think you did in the past not only i but that I'm wanting you and then I'm inciting you and that's I don't feel anymore my desires are different to cut that total brush is a great level but in some way in some way to be new and renewed what an opportunity okay so we established that we could become no we established after once and we established that we can and it's in the making and everyone understand they're out so where do we start where do we start where we start okay where we start rip it so Petersburg is a very interesting question the bits of once the nose follows when Prince doesn't Mitzvah he gets kedusha I shake it is Shonda Mitzvah try vulajin explains president Mitzvah he's surrounded by kedusha and that's his gonna do the show McGowan sinks into that kedusha every time you know midstream Akkad is yourself you elevate yourself you surround yourself with organ aid every time you're doing it there what happens the other way around Claire if we took account of mitzvahs against Taveras it does not make sense that a person should be pulled by his kratom how many myths is do you do in a day person wakes up he starts traveling my dolly Lido's dude I am ish man chillin sit says it's unbelievable and then it doesn't not doing the Mitzvah is not like doing a favor so if you think about it why doesn't the kedusha missus that we do protect us from doing affairs we have Sarge kaduche in our life with such good people we try so hard everyone here is here because they want to hear every Tyra and come every night three times a week in the summer managed condition so what's wrong why doesn't the power of our mitzvahs supersede the type of our there's this is CIL's question we should not back any desire doing that favor we should know full of kedusha so he answers like this depends how you do a mitzvah it depends how you do if you do the Mitzvah with tremendous Islamists tremendous desire tremendous rots a tremendous occasion that Mitzvah makes that impression on you if you the Mitzvah to last i order with every dig looking how long that mitzvahs McCadden but if you do the myths for robotic and you not Mack put on the details of the Mitzvah the Mitzvah doesn't do for you what a mitzvah could do for you but it comes with doing a live a row and you do the other with such a tremendous appetite and tremendous desire for that and every time you do their failure you manage to do it in the way that is every detail then they are various power of to misread in the para condition the way to fight that is to take us out of robot mode and put in the words sort to everything we do thought says what are we in this world for Allah Masha Allah mama they're walking through the streets of Shanghai Shanghai in the summer it's boiling hot Kratz was walking the street with the Talmud I think those River way backs and the Chinese are sleeping on the floor outside she turns around her blade said would you do that says no he's I'm gonna tell you why he said some very just he said the Chinese this is their City and they feel they own the street so they can lay down asleep on the street you're a stranger guest you're running away from so you wouldn't do it so then of Catskill said a person on this world has to feel like he's a guest and this certain things you just don't do you ask of us at valium your attitude to life is to be where a guest you know in the summer I'm in a summer camp and t-shirts are very in people like they're things written on their t-shirts my grandma went to Florida and I got this t-shirt that's a long one the best t-shirt best t-shirt of yet said just visiting just the planet just great just when you think about life like that that every Mitzvah becomes so much more important and then you do the Mitzvah with that patient with that friend and in order to get a fresh start you got to start being fresh I'm saying again you normally get a first time they got him stop being fresh we're stayin over tried to bribe why do you want to live that's life I guess of crying that's Messiah Brooks Lima Frye fells screen LaRocca once it once called a boy over and said no he's written gracious she says okay tell me a parsec and precious so if I make a mistake in the plastic he's gonna correct me but somehow the bus success by if he came on came to live by Emily seven keikain about Yama's they said mice he says no guts go said that's not the way to say the puss how do you say it by taking on a clapped by yamasaki star baby abba life has to be rich why don't we want to live this rich life where every second we could think and do a myths and turn our lives in to connecting with my initial pitch you myself can think about right the shaver hitch you myself and make them come online make it new come on it feel like it's the first time in your life you put on tefillin put on those sits is like it's the first time thank your back and see the pictures today I walked into sheer first daddy Sheila I love it and as new Kumar's cracks me open it great crack the notebooks are clean in a few days and they'll be blanks tell there'll be stars pictures of the Rebbe on the paper whatever but in the meantime it's new so new you know they have that sense of a sensational years coming new with a face chic with a brand with a desire with the chance to start over it doesn't matter if you got a zero last year a hundred last year it's a new beginning we need to live like that we need to live like that now all we need to like Irish on Yom Kippur gallicantu bashad also why not we get carried away but if we understood pitch you might say we could become that new person that a Kurdish bar who wants us to be Tyree iddyn we hope and pray that this ll will be that refuge in time that we're looking for a refuge in time where Kurdish Berg is us that new life because that's what we want and we begin the March now with almost half ll Guan the chuva Brazos leads to the dark H over which is a MIDI from person we want it we could do it and yet the shame I'll give it to us thank you very much shame you usually tell them Isis person like your biggest require Trevor Weinberger fat inspiring Russia I play say even though the summer may seem to be drawing to a close and this is the last year the summer program but evening shirt I will be starting fresh we already started fresh this Sunday vehicles have Smith resuming his Sunday morning I'll office year installing a shul forty 609 16th Avenue starting at ten o'clock every Sunday morning throughout the year very popular and informative al office year ten to eleven every Sunday morning forty 609 16th Avenue you can listen in on the phone as well and seven one eight nine oh six six four hundred four live and seven one eight nine oh six 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