Rabbi Paysach Krohn | Anticipating Geulah: The Glorious Future and How to Get There | CHAZAQ

foreign [Music] thank you all for joining for this very special evening of physics and inspiration we're very honored to be um with with us tonight to have Rabbi Isaac Crone wrote around author and speaker with us tonight after the this year his safer will be available for sale come around he can do book signings for it um so thank you bye-bye Robert Crone for joining us this evening uh special thanks to uh the Nissan family for helping to put together this this sheer and dedication for the Louis spot of this katsia uh um special thanks to the National family uh yaakov and you know every year we put the this event together with them Kazakh and and the NewsNow family dedicating uh this event so we have up close to them for being a pillar in the community oh yeah thank them for all of their their work and uh dedication to Claudia Sorel um of course thank you to the show for uh tour Hillcrest uh tour Center of Hillcrest opening up the Shoal to allow us to partner with them and do these events throughout the year with khazak um you know Kazakh leave new events we were out in New York we've done events uh every every week multiple times a week we do all these different events and a lot of times they're dedicated by community members such as yourself if you're interested in dedicating a sheer to do in your show you can reach out to myself or Robbie after the the sheer will be out out front and we're happy to set up more Serum with you guys of course you know contact us on the serum but uh really our main focus is doing programming into the public schools to helping kids who are in public schools get Jewish Education throughout their school programs and of course they're especially dedicated division psty the public school team a division where over the last you know six seven years we've sent over 1300 kids from public school into yeshivas um there's so many more uh a lot of us know people uh in the community who have kids or a public school if you know them help them connect them to hazak versus them we can send many more kids and help them have uh Jewish upbringing education yeah and uh without further Ado uh raise the world here yet Knight of khazat with Rabbi KRON Sorry by all right because I've thrown up to give us all [Applause] it's a very special school step and invited by Robbie aboff once again to come to speak to all of you at hazak as you know as was just mentioned kazak is such a phenomenal organization not only for the urum that they give but as the gentleman just mentioned over 1300 children have been taken from public school to brought to yeshivasiakos and we know that when a child is saved it's not only this child but it's his children grandchildren and great-grandchildren so these 1300 really eventually could be thousands and that's why it's so important for all of us and all of us that'll be watching this presentation all over the world to support hazak for the great work tonight the national family has dedicated this year was the wonderful mother who passed away 12 years ago Lisa Rojas her daughter is here as well Hashem should help that the nashama of Lisa bracha should have an Aliyah and all the inspiration and all the good that comes from this year should be every single day when we dab in Shimon that's right and of course the men Darwin three times a day the women as often as they can we say a certain expression but the main word we don't say and that is we're hoping for mashiach but in chimonesre we say is The Offspring of your servant domain should come right away samach is like a plan like a blossom a flower so we don't say the word mashiach we call them a flower the blossom why is that and there's a wonderful safer if you could get it it's printed by Art scroll and it's called RAF Schwab on prayer RAV Schwab was a tremendous time of Hogan and a very original thinker and if you get that safer which of course is in English you will learn so much about the Finland so much about prayer that yoshima Nursery your darling will be completely different and he says about this expression he says if you plant a seed it doesn't grow overnight it takes a while for it to grow so it's a very slow process but eventually The Blossom and the flower grows and the same thing is with mashiach and he says mashiach is called a sprout because just like a seed that germinates in the ground the process of bidas mashiach is slow but steady but just like eventually the flower grows eventually mashiach is going to come but then he says something that is so amazing only he could think of this and he says like this every flower every seed that we plant if you want it to grow you wanted to nurture it needs water it needs rain and of course the farmer whoever planted it has to sprout water on it for sure what is the water that is making the flower or the blossom of mashiach grow where is that water when he says something so amazing he says just as one would water a plant so does develop a girl as a result of our tears of those who mourn seeing and your shalayan in other words we have to cry about that now many of us when we have prayed to monresera we cry by reflaino I know and I've told you this many times I carry with me a little index card and I've written down on here many many people men women and children that need a rufua even tonight there are two of the greatest people that we have on Claudia Israel rashford kamenetsky the Russia Philadelphia representation both of them need a tremendous Reformation they are both very sick and happens to be they're both in Philadelphia Hospitals now Russia never had a stroke the other day and Rob matazio was rushed today to the hospital so when we say their names and we dominate I know many of us will cry now at schmuck or later when you ask Hashem and you could even speak in English or in any language many times we'll cry whether we cry for a shirach a cry to have a child hire a criter that they should be shown by is so and even boracallino when we pray for pranosa many of us will be moved to tears but let's think about it did you ever cry about your saliva did you ever cry about the big son big dush not being here you know living pretty comfortably here regardless right so we don't think about it in such a way that we would cause tears to come to our eyes when we say a semant of it and maybe that's one of the problems the flower's not growing because we're not nurturing it with water and the tears so maybe we have to begin thinking a little bit more about mashiach and what we're missing by not having the base on mcdosh and not being in your dish and it has to affect us a little bit more as a matter of fact I'll tell you something interesting that he says he says what do we say in the Phila we say that we wait for your salvation again it doesn't say we're waiting for mashiach we're waiting for Hashem to sort of speak make up his mind that it's time to send mashiach there's one step before mashiach we have to act in a certain way then I was gonna say Okay Now's the Time now I'm gonna bring mashiach so we're not waiting for mashiach we're waiting for our chef so we gotta figure out what can we do so to speak to encourage Hashem if you could say that then Hashem should want to bring mashiach and I'll tell you something amazing the Gomorrah and Shabbos tells us that at the end of time when all of us every person nobody lives forever hopefully will all live to mashiach and then we will live forever but at the end of time after 120 years we're all gonna be judged by Hashem and we're gonna be asked certain questions now it's amazing I'll tell you some of the questions the first question the Gomorrah says is you honest in business I'm not gonna ask by a razor fans who's honest in business I'm afraid right but the point is think about it that's the first question that you're going to be asked were you honest in your financial dealings the second question is did you set aside time to learn China that means every day is supposed to set aside a time it's not like okay when I have time I'm gonna set alert no no there's got to be a specific time that you sat down this is the time for learning this is the time when I eat breakfast this is the time when I eat lunch this is not when I go to work and this is the time when I set aside for learning after set aside time now listen to the next one so interesting what the martial who is one of the greatest commentaries on the Gomorrah how we understand this the third question is did you get involved in the Mitzvah of poor River means having children so the martial is the question it should have said the Kamara should have said that they're going to be asgianto did you do the Mitzvah were you makayam de mitsua of having children it doesn't say that it says where you're involved in the Mitzvah and you know what he says you know what the gamara is really telling you that you're going to be asked did you read to him did you try to fix up somebody who's an orphan a yasam or yasima or somebody who doesn't have a network there are many many people that have wonderful families and have wonderful friends and they can register for them but there's some people that don't have family and friends that can read them should do him either because they're balachuba so the families are not in tune with what they want or for whatever reason they live in areas where those people are not ready we are going to be asked or soccer did you get involved in helping people build families by reading again we have to think about that when was the last time you read a should not to somebody that's a very important thing nobody wants to be alone no man wants to be alone the woman wants to be alone and they need our help you have to think about that and then the next question is Si Pisa reassure did you hope for the Salvation did you hope for Hashem to decide to bring mashiach so listen to those questions amazing were you financially honest did you set aside time for toga did you read Shido him and did you hope for mashiach when do we hope for mashiach I'll tell you something amazing if you look in your sidorim in the Parsha in the chapter what we say is we say these words for your salvation we hoped every day and then in the sparzador it says these words anybody know what the next two words are um that's when you hope for mashiach so in my sidhood I have that underlined because really those two words are what's happening with Yeshua were not originally in the chimonesre they were written on the bottom of the page as an instruction this is the time you got to think about mashiach and that's why later on if you look in the article center it's in the text but it's in parentheses and then most of Europe today it's not even a parenthesis anymore they made it part of the Shimon esri so when you're saying the words that's when you're hoping for mashiach and after 120 years when they ask you those four questions and others you'll be able to say Yeshua I thought about it when I was doubtingestra so now the question is what can we do we have to do something because we said we're asking Hashem for his salvation that he should so to speak make up his mind now he's gonna send me Shia what can we do so I want to give you some suggestions that every single one of us can do and we will see from the Gomorrah how this could really help bring mashiach if each one of us would do some of these things and think about it and do them every day now the gamara tells us in Sanhedrin said the was a prophet a navi and what happened was that he had many many miracles that happened to me was the king as well and Hashem gave him many many victories and as Shem wanted to make him mashiach because but then some of the Angels saw the malachan complained and they said who said so many Praises into him and he thank you so much and so often I hated my camera how are you gonna make this year he had so many salvations and victories and he didn't praise you enough so if he didn't praise you so how could you make a messiah so what do we see from this camera we see that part of bringing mashiach is only brought by somebody who is thankful who has when somebody is the nature of saying thank you then I'm giving praise to Hashem that's and that's one way that we can begin bringing mashiach and I'll tell you something very interesting do you know the ones occurred to me that the word when we say Minister will you bow down misspelled men and all of you know that every letter in the Jewish alphabet is equal a certain amount all of his one bases two do you know how much Maiden the word widen equals 100. why a hundred I'll tell you why because you have to be grateful for a hundred percent of the things that you have not everybody has everything that they want that's what golus is all about nobody has everything but we have to begin thinking about what we do have those of us who have family those of us who have a good marriage those of us who have children those of us who have grandchildren those of us who have a business those of us who paid for their home there's so many things that we could find that we have most of the time we're looking at the stuff that we don't have and we're looking at what everybody else has but we don't think about what we have A lady called me up a while ago and she said to me Rabbi going could you give me hazel could you give me encouragement and I was thinking like what are my instant coffee I don't even know her right I'm just gonna so I said to her tell me like what's the problem so she started telling me she doesn't have a job her husband is not well she needs to looking for her daughter so I started asking her do you have anything good in life oh yeah I have wonderful children we own a house and we have a business so I said I'm gonna give you homework I want you to take an index card and I want you to write down all the good things that you have don't write down the bad things write down the good things and keep it in your see door and right before you come to that part of someone else stop take out the card and read it and then you say wait them and then you'll see that there's a lot to be grateful for even the fact that we have this community I mean think about your parents and grandparents could they ever in Russia or wherever they came from in touch gentle wherever could they ever have to had Achilles Like This of course not their children could they have gone to the schools that your children go to of course not so we live in a great neighborhood we live in a great time there's so many good things that we can do we have a stop to think about all the wonderful people from Heroes where do you find people like that wonderful people so we have to begin thinking of what we do have that's what made them is that's what the Malachi the Angels said so much good and he didn't say thank you so how are you going to bring mashiach if we don't say thank you now I want to tell you a very interesting Gamora it's a fascinating Gamora and the Gomorrah is and it tells us as follows that at the End of Time Hashem is going to make a big Sudan a big party and he's gonna write all the tadiqim of the world from history and at the end of this big party he's gonna say tabra okay you were the first Jew I want you to lead the benching and now is going to say oh not me Sasha says why not he said of course I had a son like Ishmael it was a Rashad terrible person I had a terrible son like that I can't so Hashem says okay you thought he would say me my father doesn't want to bench because he had this love so I can't bench so then okay Hashem says Okay Yahoo you because you got 12 kids and they were all Sunday Kim right so listen to what yapo says no no I can't bench because I did something that when I did it you were allowed to do it but once the Torah was given you are not allowed to do what I did I'm married two sisters they were both aligned at the same time I married so even though in the Torah you could have two wives but you can't have two wives the two sisters that are living at the same time so in a sense I violated the Torah then hashem's gonna say okay not Abram how about you you bench now to me this is the saddest of all motion Albano says I cannot leave the benching you know why because I was never an energy most of us here have been to Heritage all more than once and the ruby of Claudia Israel the greatest rebbe ever could not bench did not want to bench because he didn't go to Israel it was never in Israel so I want to tell you something very personal many many years ago was in Israel and I was there for Sukkot and Hashanah rava now some of you know that Ashana rabba there are over ten thousand people that come to the hotel to pray in the morning give a secret and I wanted to be one of the people that was going to be there so I came there the night before and I took a chair and I took my aunts go Hamish and I sat up against the wall what was it I was sitting right there because I knew I'm gonna be up all night anyway and the next morning I'll double give a signal with everybody else and there is an Indian the many many people what they do is they learn the whole homage they read from divade until vasota they read it the whole night of hashan rabba so of course I was gonna be there all night so I had my art scroll homish you know and I read it very slowly with the translation and everything and then I came to the parshan is the second Parsha in and over there means and I pleaded was begging he's begging Hashem please let me come into Israel and Hashem says no and I was reading those words and I began thinking I've been to Israel more than 15 times emotional brainu couldn't even get in there once I'll tell you the truth I started crying I couldn't stop crying I felt so bad for them you know here who am I I can beat Israel so many times and most of us have been there so many times and the greatest leader of all he could not be there so he said I can't I can't bench I can't lead the benching so Hashem said okay but how about Yeshua Yeshua you took the Jews into Israel right so how about you you you know he said not me why he said because the first Mitzvah the torah's to have children you're supposed to have a boy and a girl I only had girls it's not my fault so the first Mitzvah I couldn't I didn't fulfill so the first bit already I failed so I I can't I can't read the bedsheet he raises his hand he says I'm gonna what are you talking about Dora Miller had three sons that were a Cheyenne I don't know absolutely I'm gone and two out of three wanted to kill him imagine that they were terrible people so how would the world can he batch in front of all these are deacon and I'll tell you what I think the answer is because so Robbie you're going M2 when I had problems I had so wrote we are gone and I had worry that's what found me listen what he says I called to Hashem I cried out dashem but you know what he also said so when I had the cup of Salvation when I had the victory when I got the I got the job I got the raise I got the house the same intensity when it was good like I haven't when it was bad all of us when things are bad or we come to show and we pray we say dilemma we do with what we do everything but what happens when everything is good you forget you don't Daven with the same intensity but Dominic said no sorry you're gonna enter over Shameless or anybody who could never when it's good the way he diamonds that when it's bit or he could he could lead the bench and that's why governor was able to lead the benching so I want to tell you a great story that we can learn such a great lesson there's a wonderful wonderful personality Israel today his name is he told me the story himself now shortly after he got married his father-in-law became very sick and he was rushed to the hospital and he saw in the hospital that his father-in-law really wasn't being taken care of anybody who is in a hospital needs an advocate needs somebody to go to the nurses for them to help them and we know that was one of the terrible terrible problems in covet nobody was able to have it uh an advocate in the hospital people died alone so lonely because they couldn't even have family members there so he decided he's gonna start an organization and today it's one of the greatest organizations in Israel it's called azer with ceiling thousands and thousands of people take advantage of asymmetian they get medication if they get advice on doctors they have the biggest bone marrow transplant directory in the world anything any medical thing that a person needs call is and they'll try to help you and hananya is the head of this organization so he told me like this a couple years ago somebody from Europe pulled him up a Walker died and he said kananya I want you to know I heard of your organization you do great work I want to come to Israel I want to meet you and I want to give you a nice donation for your organization says I'd love to meet you but I'll tell you what don't come during business hours because the office is always crowded why don't you come five six o'clock when the office closed and then me and you will be able to sit in Muslim will talk it's a great idea the guy comes to Israel he comes to the office six o'clock and him are talking having a great conversation and it gives them a very very nice donation after he gives him the donation hananya says to them listen you know you live in Europe you don't have a chance to come to pray at the hotel often let's go David Myers at the Crystal it's so beautiful to dab in there at night the truth is all of us who have died there at night now there's nothing like it in the world to Daven at night with the love you see the pleasant everybody darling it's amazing so sure enough they get into a kit and they go down to the Kaiser now they're walking in the plaza they're coming down towards the wall the walls let's say 20 30 feet away and Kanani is walking with this wealthy guy and suddenly they see a guy who's spraying his hands are out and he's crying and they can't make out what he's saying because they're far away but they see this guy praying like the world's coming to an end so they just stop and they just watch him and hananya turns to this wealthy guy he said you ever see a guy praying like that we gotta help him he said what do you mean he says look I have azamity that's an organization that can help anybody with any medical problem so let's go over to him and if he needs any medical help Wars family needs some medical assistance I'll take care of it but if it needs money are you willing to take care of him are you willing to help him so the wealthy guide says if you're ready to do what you could do I'll do what I could do fine now they wait another five minutes and the guy settles down the guy who's praying and they go over to him and they go over to him and they say love you good evening how you doing he said Hashem everything's wonderful he said no no tell us really how you doing you've been praying like the world's coming to an end there's something wrong he says no no no I'm telling you everything's wonderful he said look Hernan just said let me tell you who I am and let me tell you who this man is we've been watching you dubbing for the last 20 minutes we see that there's something going on so if there's any medical problem that you have I am willing to help you with Ace of attorney and if there's a financial problem my friend here from Europe he'll help you out and the guy says you guys got it all wrong he says what do you mean he says everything is wonderful this is wonderful so why were you praying like that listen to what the guy said he said last night my wife and I were married off our youngest child we have nine kids we're married off now all the children tonight I came to say thank you Tashan imagine that that's how he was done that's how he was crying to say thank you do we ever cry when we say thank you I'm grateful and we go on with life but when things are bad we don't stop praying right so we shouldn't stop praying I don't see anybody here on a ventilator or in a respirator what was the last time you thanked Hashem that you could breathe or that you could see that you could walk we take everything for granted that's not how we're supposed to bring this off and I'll tell you something amazing you know how we could start having alcohol I'll give you a great idea I would never ever ask anybody to do anything that I don't know myself it's not right for a speaker to get up and ask people to do things that he doesn't do himself but I'll tell you do you know what you could say thank you dashem in every single time that you go to the bathroom and we say ashiyotsa you know we have a heart a spleen a colon a whole Orchestra is going in on the body do we ever thank Hashem for everything that's working in the body and again let's listen to what Ralph Schwab writes in that safer Russia he says when we think about when we count up contemplate the miraculous workings of the human body the trachea the esophagus that the windpipe and the food pipe and the digestive system and the respiratory system and the circulatory system every single time I go to the doctor I take a look at the chart I can't believe that's going on in my head that's going on in my eye and my ears and my stomach and you can't believe if you see with the drawings that they have you can't believe that's in your body it's amazing I once heard Rabbi tat saying a tremendous wart the word either does anybody know what e ver means in Hebrew blind right now is there another word that you could make with those letters iron vovresh what word can you make with those letters or what does that mean skin no or with an all of his light or I involve rage is scared why is skin and blind the same word the same letters you know why because the skin blinds you to what's going on in the body if you will be able to see what's going on in somebody else's body you would faint at what's going on all the blood that's being filtered and everything that's going on and you know what occurred to me there's another word for skin in the English language anybody know what that word is begins with an H let's see if we can figure it out go ahead somebody hide isn't hide being skin also isn't that amazing the heart again the skin is the same thing like water or fever it's amazing because the skin is hiding everything that's going on in the body so when do we say thank you I'll tell you what to say thank you ashiyatza and what I would suggest to everybody and what I try to do stand in one place when you say what's up don't be texting don't be getting dressed don't be diapering the baby don't be getting in the car stand in one place how long does it take nine seconds the most now there are many many places where they have much on a little chart or a little poster I saw myself rap single the Manchester receiver and a little guard it would take it out and it read it off a card and there are many many people today that have these little ashiota cards stand in one place that's one way that we begin saying thank you dashem for everything that's going on in our body as a matter of fact if you know how she answered by heart that many of you certainly do the Villa going in his safer it's called the sidure he writes something so amazing he says this is the only bracha that out of all the heart that we make that we say golivia do all the snake is your chair of honor the highest in the world we don't say it by shofar we don't say it by Hanukkah we don't say it by matzah by Suka when you go to the bathroom it's almost embarrassing that we've been talking about this topic in the holiest place in the broker and that you know what he says to show you that even from way up in the highest place of caducea Hashem takes care of our daily functions of our mundane functions so tonight tonight when a person goes to the bathroom stop and say Ashley stand in one place that's one way to begin saying thank you besides saying thank you of course when we say Maiden and I'll tell you another thing another place where you could say thank you and probably the men more than the women because the men watch and eat bread more than the women because they're always at diets but the point is when you bench you say this what does that mean rain is Grace blessed is kindness is Mercy what are you saying when you bench you know what I'll tell you when you say when you look at Food think about this when you're benching you're thanking Hashem Maine I believe is the Christy appearance of food Sun food looks beautiful looks great a steak looks great to some people to some people say she looks great not to me but you know some people love it I was in a restaurant in Miami somebody took me out I just spoke there I never in my life so so many colors of sushi like 16 rainbows it's unbelievable okay people like it so good fun but it's beautiful that's the thing that's the grace of food the appearance actually I'm gonna make it that we all need white vitamin bills the second thing you have said the kind is the taste is there anything better than chocolate ice cream all right a watermelon on a cold day or seven up you know when you're sweating yeah I mean this great tasting Foods that's I said and what's that that's the nutritional value of food so we dominate we don't even know where we said it but stop and think Hashem give us all kinds of foods okay I can't eat Persian Foods or Morocco Foods well you know I was in the Moroccan Community uh they gave me fish I I don't know where I thought I'd be you know I can't eat that stuff whatever I'm not a spicy guy you know I mean I may be a spicy guy but I don't want spices I don't like spicy foods you know but you know some people love it so everybody's got the taste of food the appearance of food and the nutritional value so that's all we have to be grateful for so tonight let's try to be a little bit more conscious when people do us favors to say thank you to say thank you to say thank you and thank you especially especially when you're dancing and you're saying and you're saying thank you and I'll see you outside let's go to the second thing there's something else that's very very important tells us that even though that in the second base amigdash there were many many people who did mitzvot but yet why was it destroyed because of sin asrino because people didn't get along with each other and they hated each other for no reason and the thing that we have to remember tonight more than anything else we're all brothers and sisters no matter where we come from beard no beard snowed no snow big hat little hat big yamaka little yamaka we're all in it together we have to love each other avastrino and the gamana is telling us that because Jews could not get along with each other and we see today how so many people good Jews to get along with their family but they don't get along with business partners they don't get along with people in the show terrible we have to have Ava srino and I want to tell you what does it mean to have out of Cinema you know what the common denominator is going to be of all these stories I'm going to tell you don't think about yourself first think about other people now watch this beautiful little story that happened in a spotted Jewel in Israel in this show the rabbi would get up very early in the morning and he would come to the synagogue at 6 30 and he would learn Torah for three quarters of an hour with 15 people and at 7 15 they began to pray they began to doubt it now there was one man a 60 person who he didn't understand learning that well but he had a very big hakara that means he had a recognition for the people who did come to learn and the rabbi so he would come very early in the morning and he made coffee and tea for all the people who were learning now again a whole chart now everybody wanted something different this guy wants coffee with milk this guy wants 99 milk this guy wants black coffee this guy wants decaffeinated coffee and this guy wants coffee with sugar but he had the list then Funk to home with the tea this guy's from England so he wants thin milk and this guy wants herbal tea and this guy wants tea wood split no what else blood though so everybody had something and this guy had the chart and it would fill out the chart and bring in the tray but he gave everybody a half a cup half a cup of tea half a cup of coffee and people would say repeat you're being so nice so why don't you give us a up he says look the kitchen's right there you need more just call me I'll bring it in he would not give more than a half a cup that's it they couldn't change him but every day he was there and he brought the stuff one day he wakes up he's not feeling so well so it goes into his son's room he said listen I'm not feeling so well do you mind going to the synagogue I'm bringing the coffee and tea you know I have a whole chart and you'll bring it into them they said okay I'll go for you no problem so the kid comes and he fills out everything and he's just about ready to walk into the door into the show to bring the thing coffee and he tells his father he said hey Abba I thought you don't feel well I don't but I forgot to tell you something they said would you forget to tell me half a cup he said you're joking right what do you mean a half a cup no they don't give anybody more than a half a cup he said don't they want to up he said of course they want to up but don't give it to them only and have a cup to everybody he said why he said I'll tell you but don't tell anybody they said you see they're two old men in the synagogue their hands Shake terribly if I would give everybody a full cup when they would pick up the cup and spill all over the place all over the gamada all over their clothes all over everybody else it would be so embarrassing like this I give them a half a cup everybody has a half a cup they get shake from today until tomorrow nothing's gonna happen and if I gave everybody a full cup and give them a half a cup they would also feel bad so like this I give everybody a half a cup who thinks like that that's only somebody who's not thinking about himself because everybody's criticizing him every day but he's not going to tell anybody because he doesn't want to make those two people feel bad that's really what it's all about now I want to tell you what I believe is one of the greatest stories ever and I know that some people do know the story so I'm just gonna ask by a race of hands if most of you know it then I won't tell it but does anybody know that story that I wrote in this book I love this story so much I made it the first story in the book it is the one of the greatest ever it's a story about the family who went to eat in a restaurant in Netanya anybody know that story how many people know the story okay so do you mind if what she's raising two hands I should tell it anyway okay listen to this you gotta fasten your seatbelts it's unbelievable there's this family in hanoff a father and a mother and seven kids very tight family and every year they go on vacation and their parents are so organized they write out an itinerary itinerary means like a whole list of where the family is gonna go and they tell the kids don't forget don't ask that we should go any other places because this is what we can afford and don't forget no restaurants and no eateries Mommy is making all the sandwiches and all the snacks but no restaurants and those stores because everything is so expensive especially in the summer so of course they had to rent the van because you know they don't have a car and they go the first day and they start going north they're going to go to Terraria and to the kinerat they're gonna go on a boat ride on the Genera then Jeeping in Terraria and when you go from her North and you go north so they stop the Netanya the Tanya is on the water it's gorgeous and they got out a lot of picnic tables there the mother brings out all the lunches and snacks and the kids are ready when they finish so the father says okay guys everybody in the car because we've got a very long trip to Terraria everybody gets in the car except seven-year-old zevy and the father says Debbie you don't want to get in the car he says Abba I gotta use the bathroom you said it's a long trip to Trey I'm not gonna make it he said there's no bathrooms here there's only picnic tables here it says Albert you said it's a long trip I'm not going to make it up there so then the father looks and the distance he believes he sees a restaurant she says okay everybody let's get in the car I think there's a restaurant up there sure enough there's a restaurant everybody stays in the car and he takes out his seven-year-old boy and now he knew very well that these restaurant owners they hate when you use the facilities and you don't buy anything but what's he gonna do okay that's this so it goes inside and the waitress is waiting by the door and she says to him can I help you he says Men Please Please excuse me we're not coming to buy anything but my son has to use the bathroom we have a very long trip to Terraria do you mind if he uses the facilities she looks around the whole rest she said okay make it quick fine the kid goes to the back does what he has to do and he's coming out now he's in the middle of the restaurant about to walk out and his father greets him and they're almost at a door until Rossi the waiter who has a terrible temper sees them and he runs over to them and he says who gave you permission to come in here all you guys are the same you just come in here you know you you don't buy anything you just use the facilities who gave you permission to come in here and this father is watching that the waitress who gave him permission is standing on the side as she's fainting because if he says that she let him in this guy is crazy he's gonna fire her so listen to what he does on the spot he says waiter you're yelling for no reason he says what do you mean he says we're all coming in here to eat he says who's coming in he says I got a white film we got seven kids we're all coming in here team we said oh I'm so sorry I thought you were just taking advantage don't be sorry just at the tables how many all together he says nine brings two tables together and the little boy runs out to his mother and says Abba said we gotta come into the restaurant she said I don't believe you we never go to a restaurant no Abba said we gotta come in they all come in these kids they never saw food like that they never saw prices like that they never thought menu like that and their mouths are dropping open and the mother says everybody can have one dish and one drink just okay they eat and just when they're finishing they noticed by the kitchen there's like a lot of activity going on there six waiters and each one is carrying cake in one hand with sparklers and ice cream in the other hand and they're marching towards the table and the father stands up he says wait a second there's a mistake here we didn't order dessert and the owner of the restaurant comes home with them and says young man sit down I want to tell you something he says you see when you guys sat down to eat that waitress she came into the kitchen and she was crying I said that why are you crying she said I just saw somebody do something for me in my life nobody ever did anything like that to me I said what happened he said you see that fan look that's out there the father mother seven kid they were not coming to buy anything but when they saw I was gonna get in trouble because I let them in so the boy could use the bathroom he ported all his kids he's spending a fortune just so you shouldn't have to say that I let him in and I would get in trouble I never had anybody do anything like that for me and she burst into tears again so when we heard that for special people we got to do something special that's why we're giving you this dessert the kids finished a dessert and then the guy says the father says to the waiter okay we need a bill say give them a bill and on the bill it says if he ever come back here again it's 50 off so the father says he had no but I want to pay for today how much do I owe for today so listen to this the owner of the restaurant comes over and says we have a policy in this restaurant we only charge people we don't judge malahan we don't judge angels imagine that we don't charge angels that's how great we can all become that's how we can do has it when we're not thinking about ourselves we're thinking about other people that's what amaz Israel is all about that's what avastrino is all about now I want to show you something to me this is the greatest thing that I ever heard foreign he was very close to his parents he would go visit his mother every single day when he finished darling before he went from shul to the cola where he learned he would stop off by his mother sometimes they would just talk sometimes he gave she gave breakfast or whatever every day now when she passed away he stopped coming and a few days after the shiver his father the stapler going it was the godladder at the time I also used to enjoy when you come and that behind his mouth dropped up but he couldn't believe it he figured his mother you know mother likes that she moves with the kids but the father he's the good luck daughter he also wants she was with them yeah father also likes to talk with the son where the dogs they were Terror or anything so you know what the son-in-law told me about beautiful kaladeski told me for the next morning for the next 12 years rapayim didn't miss a day that he didn't go to see his father and every single day for the next 12 years until his father died now I want to show you something that you will never forget once said this and this whole story is in this thing that I'm going to show you in a second we all know the story in the Torah when Yitzhak was about to die and he wanted to give ASAP the bracha yaakov came got the brah but then he comes ASA and the project tells us that ASA brought food to his father now look at this and I'm gonna hold it up so you can see it on the camera and everybody take a look he brought food to his father now what look at the word closely has anybody noticed something interesting you're a smart guy what do you see here what do you see something it yeah what that's right you can read it from points and backwards isn't that amazing who knows what are those words called in English a palindrome right Mom Bob radar race car Aviva all these numbers yishai all those words so listen to what raphaim said why is to his father why is it a palindrome he said you know why because the way you treat your parents that's how your children are gonna treat you how do you like that the way you treat your parents that's how your children I'm gonna treat you so if anybody here wants to know why they have nasty kids I'll tell ya look in the mirror you might find the answer That's What It Is by your favor of it that said is with your parents as well not only with your neighbor or your second cousin or your co-worker the way you treat your parents that's how your kids are going to treat you and that's part of obviously soil talking to your parents in a nice vakovic way which I'm sure you do I can see all right I want to tell you one more thing and then we'll review Emeline with a great story there's one more thing that I think is very important the pursuit tells us in yeshiya aleph am will be redeemed with Justice Means those who will return will return in this house of that stalker that they give so I want to say something I believe that most people maybe not the people of this role but most people don't really give the amount of stucca that they are supposed to give what really what you have to do is you have to give 10 after expenses of whatever you earned after expenses and many people feel oh don't worry I give so much charity but you know something if you go to a rabbi that you trust that has to be somebody that you trust and show them what you make and let him figure out how much charity you're really supposed to give how much Miser you're really supposed to give you'll see that you're falling short many people not everybody and that's something that you know what the gamara says he could actually test Hashem you could test me so you become wealthy you want to become wealthy here's the answer make sure that you give a tenth the way you're supposed to give foreign so again I'm not accusing Anybody Everybody knows what they have to give and why if they don't know go to a robe that you could trust and that you feel comfortable with and they'll tell you how much you're supposed to give and you'll be amazed you'll be amazed and one of the first places you should give your stuck off of course is the hazak because you're not only supporting as we said the lectures you're supporting future Generations especially those kids that they're taking out of public school so let's review everything and then we'll end with a great thought let's remember is a sprout it's a blossom it takes a long time but we have to water it how do we water it with our tears we have to stop thinking how much we miss here online how much we miss the base on migdush we're going to be asked certain questions where you're honest in business did you set aside time for learning to those who don't have a network and again did you hope for mashiach how do we do it the first way is saying thank you remember we have so much good in this world everybody has problems that's what golus is everybody's going through stuff I have a different in Los Angeles who has a little card that he gives out to everybody and it says every person you meet is going through something you know nothing about think about that every person you meet is going through something you know nothing about we don't really know what's going on by the person who's sitting next to us we think we know but you really don't know there's a lot of stuff going on but still we have to be there for each other and we have to think about the good that we do have and thank Hashem that's why maidim is equal 100 let's be careful when we say ashiota stand in one place let us think the beauty of food the taste of food and the nutritional value of foods let's remember like that man who gave only half a cup of course your teeth so those people wouldn't be embarrassed like those people the guy who gave he wouldn't charge that wonderful family because they only charge people they don't charge angels all the time tells us that two things that we have to do every day every day we should do a hasid and Perry could base and say and every day we should learn something you know we're Counting sphera we have to not only count the days we have to make Every Day Count how do you make everyday count if you could go to sleep tonight and try to do this think what did I do for some other Jew today what did I do for you this time today what did I do as far as learning Torah today and if you could answer those questions in a positive way you made that day count very very important and finally let us be careful with the Stuttgart that we give you'll see you'll become wealthy give a tent according to the way your love tells you and you'll see the good morning says you'll be okay with that I just want to end with this beautiful story there was his name was and he was once in a motel overnight and the next morning he went over to the owner and he said you know Johanna like a big tall clot that shined every hour that's a very holy Cloud where'd you get that he said what do you mean that's a holy clock it's a clock like any other clock he said no no let me explain something to you he said you know when I'm in a motel and I hear a clock like that every hour when it Chimes I feel terrible because I feel it's one hour closer to my death but this past night every night every hour that it shined I was so happy because I felt it's one hour closer to mashiach no clock ever made me feel like that that must have been owned by a great Sonic and sure enough the owner found out that where he got it from was from a super family that had bought it from a Sadiq who had given it to his children and they became poor so they sold it it was the Horizon that was his clock but the truth is every hour that goes by is an hour closer to our death but it's also an hour closer to meshiach and that has to be our attitude we have to be so happy we're getting closer to mashiach every hour it's getting closer to mashiach and we could do something about it we can have a course at toys we could have obviously strong we could give the proper mounted stalker let's do it and next year is going to be the billionaire Oma in front of 10 000 people and hazaka is going to be there and we're gonna add this Gathering confusion because we're gonna do all the good stuff and did I hear oh my oh my gosh I Heard a Voice from above okay they said amen okay it means it's gonna happen I said this morning when I got this thank you for inviting me thank you for listening if you want to buy the book [Applause] thank you