Rabbi Ya'aqob Menashe - The Aharon Hakohen In Us All

[Music] good evening ladies and gentlemen thank you all for coming down and it's wonderful to see so many people here you know I always say that it's a pleasure to have everybody here and I want you to know there's nothing more true than that to be able to give a or to be able to give over thoughts ideas concepts Torah and to have people who are eager to to hear and absorb that's what motivates the speaker the one giving the Shuar in this case that's what motivates me and I hope at the end of the day I will have been able to also motivate you and that's what it's all about it's a mutual motivation so thank you all very very much for being here I would like to take this opportunity to thank a few people is Robbie I already mentioned first of all I want to thank Colbert restaurants they're always so good to us and take such amazing good care of us has soccer balls to them and let's have a round of applause for them I think I'm hearing a slight feedback or something if somebody could just turn that sound down a touch just a smallest amount it would be wonderful all right I want to thank all the volunteers who put a lot of time and effort into making this evening possible or even here volunteering right now and as we heard Midrash Benicia is doing this in conjunction with huzzah we've done many many things together and it's a relationship that I've had that goes back to I can't tell you how many years ago and we're always very happy to be together and to do it and again I've got three microphones on me I feel like I'm running for some kind of public office and please vote for me and basically I want to thank all the the reasons for the microphones of course will be on our website which is non stop tora dot-com that's our video website it'll be on tour anytime and will also be on just a minutes with an S at the end comm at least portions of it so there's no excuse to not go back and go over everything you've heard so the title of the of the lecture today is the Aaronic Ohain a lama Shalom in us all Aaron the high priest ironic owain in us all and the subtitle is building peace among our people because as we know our Annika hand allow a Shalom when he was known for was many things he was one of the biggest people in Israel he was the the older brother what should have been on our Shalom he was right up there but he was known in addition to being the the coin God all the high priest and everything that goes with that he was known for making peace among people among the Jewish people you know when you start a lecture you would normally start at the beginning so since we're speaking about our own that go handle our Shalom I should start with the beginning of his life but you know I've never been known to do things the normal way as you probably know by now I'm gonna start with the end of his life what is the torah' tell us interestingly enough the Torah tells us not when it first tells us about our I'm not going on emotional on passing away but a little later if you party later it tells us that our own cocaine died at a specific time a specific day it is the only time that the Torah ever tells us the date that somebody passed away it's the only time he goes yeah but it's not true we know we have other dates we are in similar manner we know we know it died on the seventh of I got yes we do but the Torah doesn't tell us that specifically we have to learn it out from the commandment to yahushua from that we work back and figure out that moshe i've been on our shalom died on the seventh of my diet but in the case of our on that claim Aaron the high priest it says well yeah her on the coin in hora har that clinic her on the coin Halawa shalom went up to her haha appear shame a--they the word of Hakadosh Baruch who why llamo Shawn and he died there then lads bismuth hard by Emily said the new senators was time on the fortieth year of the children result coming out of Egypt because as we know for four years for our sins their sins been then he said like to go round and round and round in the desert so at the end of the fortieth year when they're about to go into sail he has to pass away and of course Moshe Rabbeinu will have to pass away and then it adds it says behold o shahe me she on the fifth month the fifth month we start the county of the months from nice on the fifth month is the month of AB they had the whole dish on the first of the month in other words ironic when the Torah tells us died on Rosh Hodesh going back a few precios it says when you collide a kilo ah ah her own and the whole congregation saw that her own a Cohen a llama Shalom passed away well you Kuwait aharon chelouche team young and they cried for hour on a coin 30 days which is the normal thing who did coal bathe this the entire congregation of Israel now there's of course the famous Rashi on this which tells us who is called baby said who is the entire congregation of Israel is ha Enoshima hot machine not just a man it's both the man and the women why Leticia ah ah her own road if Shalom because ironical head was Road if Shalom he chased after peace but you know what the word road if is an unusual word because the word road if has an implication of chasing after to in a sense maybe harm somebody or to chase somebody away and so it's interesting that the Torah uses this particular word he could have used another word to show that he ran or chased after peace I'm gonna come to that a little later so because our Allah Quran was one who chased after peace and he made peace between ballet marry ba people who were fighting with each other arguments and the like melaka between people and of course between each listo a man and his wife he was renowned for that for making peace between man and wife the associate era brings down calling the cholera bothy it says that well it says Corbett he said all the house of Israel on the congregation of Israel he says Rashi of course says the man and the woman he says but not only that even crying babies he says that so it was all all of Israel now we're taught hang on to cease we're taught that 80,000 males young males named Aharon went out behind his meetha meetha literally bet we don't didn't we don't use coffins when we're in a land like in America where you have to by law use coffins we use conference but normally I call it the meat table because there's no coffin so 80,000 AHA rogues went out behind him 80,000 are herranz who are these $80,000 owns they are the male children that were born when a Chanukah handmade piece they were going to divorce the paid parents were going to divorce a Hanako handmade piece and they stayed together and the next child that was born the baby boy they named her own 80,000 can you even begin to comprehend what that means 80,000 young children when there were 80,000 divorces or would have been any and he and he rectified the situation saved her marriage but wait a minute it's not 80,000 marriages some people had girls the best of my knowledge they didn't name them on our own today it's a different story but in those days they wouldn't do that not only that some of these people wanted to divorce they were past childbearing age he brought them together again there were no kids there so who knows how many marriages Aaronic away annul our Shalom saved we just know that there were 80,000 boys who were named a harem now he quotes a Cepheid Harry Dean that hazael tell us obviously to make peace with 80,000 couples maybe hundreds of thousands of couples I don't know it's gonna take out of his other duties and certainly out of his Torah learning there's no question about that the Zohar tells us that in gun aiding in the Garden of Eden in Xiamen there are also a Shabbat there are also houses of learning and it says that our on the coin since he was on him Shalom since he was someone who loved peace so much here's your Shiva it's called the method of rahimullah which means quite simply Ahava his yeshiva was called the Shiva of love for is called that's what it's called upstairs so now it says in ProCare both it says he little mayor here with me tell me - shall our own Hillel says be one of the students of our own otohime OHIP Shalom loves peace we're on there Shalom and chases after peace so when a person does what he's supposed to do in this world following our own at Cohan according to Zhou Ricardo's makes peace among people and he goes up to show mime he gets to study in the Shiva of her own Hut Cohan and since he is studying in the yeshiva of a Haruna Cohan because he made peace in this world he is called one of the students of our own Hawaiian it isn't a little baby oh our on that go ahead in addition to all this work that he was doing making peace if somebody did not read the Shamal he would teach them to read the Sherman if somebody didn't know how to pray he would teach them to pray he would help them to get into the Torah the path of the Torah the Torah learning and so on now let's understand you know how much time this takes out of your day to do this hour Annika I know very well that if he would lock himself away don't get involved with all these Jewish people need help left right and center lock himself away he could have reached unimaginable Heights could you imagine the heights that he already reached as our on the claim as I say he's one of the biggies could you imagine what he would have achieved if he just sat there by himself and did whatever it needed to well here whatever he needed to raise himself higher and higher would have been unbelievable where he would have what he would have gone but he never allowed himself to do that he stopped himself from doing that in order to take care of his people it says in Sarah Halasz been Yahoo yada one of the Safari move Thomas if a man I'll show him the holy banish hi unshut he tells the story he says a man at house and the house had a neighbor now the man who's often not there the man often went away for a period of time with his wife wasn't there and on one of these occasions when he wasn't there the neighbor decided he's going to do construction in his house his neighbor's not there he's gone away so what does this neighbor do not a good person he took many liberties he took stones he took wood from the walls of the neighbor's house and used it in his own construction he stole bricks whatever it is from the neighbor put them in his own house he leaned his house against his neighbor's house putting a lot of pressure and doing damage he put a bathroom in a place where the drain caused even further damage you know the kind of neighbor you pray you'll never have when the neighbor came home the original house owner came home he saw the theft he saw everything missing from his house and he saw the damage and you can imagine that happens you get upset and he got upset quite rightly he got upset and he says to his wife and his wife is in shock he says I'm going straight to the main theme' there's gonna be a husband now we're gonna call this guy to the big Dean and he's gonna pay she says I agree with you this is really terrible it's shocking while we're away that he would do such a thing so the man goes off to the big Dean he rushes out he gets to the door stops turns around goes back home his wife said what happened he said nothing I changed my mind you didn't go to the bait deed he didn't cultivate Li she said no she said why you see what happened and you were so upset what's the matter why didn't you go he says I'll tell you I was on the way there and I passed a funeral he said you know the funeral was it was this guy give me a filthy rich individual rich and famous he gave to charity his name was on hospitals his name was every word he said this man for the past four years has been building a palace a palatial mansion that he hasn't yet set foot in by the way that's not uncommon you hear the story many times I remember jump all Getty jr. of Getty wealth fame lived in England and he was an American and he had a huge mansion with tons of land in California he never got to see it there was another guy was reading about the other day by the name of Stefan Mandel if anyone heard of him he was from Romania and he devised a method to beat the lottery and he beat the lottery in Romania in America and somewhere else I forget I don't remember three places maybe I got the places wrong maybe Israel maybe somewhere else I don't remember three places but when I say that he beat the system he won the jackpot 14 times they tried to take him to court thing but he did nothing illegal in the end they had to change the system the lotteries and no longer the same they had to change the whole system so it could not happen again not only won the lottery the jackpot but he went only the subsequent prizes that a lot of second prizes and third prizes and fourth for prizes but now he had to run away I don't know what happened I don't know the whole story had to run away he's not living in at all he's got this palatial mansion that they built he says I've never set foot in it so it's not an uncommon thing so he said this man this extremely wealthy individual has built this huge I was building this huge palace and now he's died he hasn't hasn't lived in it he hasn't set foot in it he says and you know where he's going he's going to live in a plot of land that's a foot and a half wide and six foot long he said if that's the case why am i at this time of my life going to get in a long protracted fight and argument about something that's not even mine now we get into arguments with people we forget what the world is about I'm not saying there aren't times where someone does something wrong and maybe you can rectify it but I think we forget what the world is all about we think we're much more important than we are I'm going to talk about that and we think we're gonna be here forever the sad news is that probably neither of those is correct I'm saying probably to be nice tomorrow zoton speaks about Berkut Connie the priestly blessing and the blessing on the course of Birkat Hamazon of course the Priestly Blessing became the final Braja is the braja of Shalom because it's three Bravo to do with your money and your your protection and peace the last word because my name is Shalom peace it says the Gemara of Ceuta in Nicosia Braja labor if you should not give the the cup of blessing and brick at Amazon for someone to say a blessing a lovely table iron except to someone who is literally a good eye means the opposite of envious somebody who is giving somebody who is generous this is only such a person who is a giving generous person who who could cares about other people should be given that cup of baccata Mazzone in been a yahoo been yada yes why is that why is it that cosmic Adama Saul should only be be given to someone who's a table iron was a good eye he quotes his work Adair is a Leo who where he says that the joints of the hand the knuckles of a hand if you count them there are 14 you have three on the four fingers 12 and 2 on the thumb you've got 14 he says this is for the 15 and I'm not losing my mind the 14 are for the 15 words in the Berkut colony in the Priestly Blessing the Baha Shemesh maratha and so on if you count is 15 words so now we have a problem because we want to make it 15 so what do we do huzzah instituted the kosher braja hazael instituted a rap is a blessed memory instituted the Cobra Hadi the cup of blessing that the Mubarak the one was saying the bra how we'll hold in his hand why is this important this is the 15th word of the cut Connie there are 4 fingers in the hand and the cup the cup is now the 15th but what is the cup the cup is a Kelly it is a vessel and is holding it is holding the wine and what was the 15th word that was missing when we had the 14 joints and knuckles of her hand was the word Shalom was the word Shalom so now this course Abraha represents peace represents Shalom and he says and that's how robbing a ashkenaz explain it says lo moussaka dodgeball whoo Kelly Maha zebra Holly said Allah has Shalom that the Holy One blessed be he didn't find any vessel for the Jewish people to hold the blessing except for Shalom peace peace is the vessel that holds the blessing for the Jewish people that's very important and we have to get that in our minds our blessing is only contained in a vessel called peace where is the way this blessing go if I would throw something at you throw you some money it's lost it goes on the floor it flies away whatever it is it has the governor receptacle blessings that come down from sham I have to go into a container and they say the Gemara tells us that it's only peace that is the vessel that can accept the blessing of the Jewish people so this Gomorrah is given out Oh scene is a very very powerful and important one and one that makes us realize hopefully makes us realize how important piece is and that is why the rabbi's say it is only a top iron it is only somebody who cares for the other person not someone who is a a sari not the kind of person who is it doesn't want to do for the other person wants to say for the other person because that person cannot make peace it is only a turbine who can make peace with other people and that is why he must be the one to hold a kosher Braja because this posture Baha is the Klimas Ibrahim this is the it is Shalom it is peace and it is the Kaylee it is the whatever Kaylee is in English there's so many different translations for it that holds blessing so he then comments that is how mr. Fineman Amish hello there are two kinds of hatred two kinds of hatred the opposite of pizza yes two kinds of hatred he says there's one that is for a reason meaning somebody hurt the other person harmed the other person did damage to the other person he did something that caused them pain sorrow loss whatever it is and for that reason this person hates that person he says you know what that's not such a bad one because that one there is the possibility of making peace somebody gets involved gets in the middle and says look you know you did this and maybe you just rectify it by that because the other person that one is kind of fixable he said but a much more difficult type is the second one he said that is the one that comes from envy jealousy person is assigned the opposite of it the other one that we were talking about the good eye this guy is jealous this guy is envious he's envious of the other person the other person's money the other person's position the other person's honor the other person's house the other person's car there are the person whatever it is he's envious he says that is very very difficult in fact close to impossible to rectify close to impossible to make peace and he says you'll only find this in people who are after glory people who are after honor he says these are the people who are envious of others and for whatever reason and usually really for no reason whatsoever he says a turbine will never fall into this category somebody who is gracious to other people will never fall in this category he will never be he will never hate another person because that other person has something whether it's honor whether it's money whatever it is he says and that's why it is appropriate to give this caution baraja this blessing which is the blessing of peace that comes in baka dawa zone from the burqa Kohanim it's appropriate to give it to a talk I'm a person who is good and not envious of the person because this person will never fall into that category and will never hate another person for no reason just because the other person has something so we see how important making pieces but we also see when you look around and we look at the people the rabbi's and others who have been successful at making peace you see just how great these people were and you see how modest they were you see how however great they might have been they were humble they weren't arrogant with it you know greatness comes to be before all kinds of reason sometimes you'll run away for it and it comes run away from it and it comes to you it chases after you but it doesn't mean you have to be arrogant with it it says in Benny we're dancin hey dream it says the following Oh him Shalom and Road if Shalom this is what I was referring to earlier what does it mean or him Shalom means loves peace road if shallow means chases after peace now we're using it in the positive sense it's chasing after because he loved it so much but really Road if it's somebody you want to keep away from he's chasing after you to harm you he's chasing you away so he says how do we understand this I know him Shalom loves it and tries to achieve it the road Dave is the opposite he hates it and tries to chase it away how do we how do we say that ironic go ahead with your hips shallow man Redemption ohm how do we make the two sit together how do we make peace between those two terms he says in order to make peace sometimes you have to run after it to chase it away huh okay that's needed a situation you know how we're told that our Kohan on our Shalom worked right if there was a maloca did go to one party and say no you don't know the other party is so sorry it wishes it hadn't happened he wants to make up to you a man and wife same thing go the husband and say you don't know this that the other and he goes to wife your husband is almost crying over the fact that he said those things you know that's it and he made peace with them but let's look at the situation all right you have two guys Reuben and Shem on their fighting they used to be friends they got into a fight they gotta fight who knows what about Matt it was a bad fight they're all upset with each other and let's say I will not go ahead with getting involved then he would go and say to Reuben no you don't know how bad and she won't feel the man and he's so sorry was it okay if roommate accepts it all well all well and good but what if as often happens other people get involved what you're listening to him he's just trying to figure for you to make peace yeah you're right that guys are no good keep away from it because people love my okay you know how much people love it they love to see somebody fighting with someone else don't listen to her means that you you saw what he did to you gonna forget and they remind him and they stir them up and they get him all agitated everything he's not going to listen to him he's not gonna listen to him he says no under no circumstances am I gonna make me stop talking to me in such a case the OHIP shuttle he says the one who loves peace must not've shuttle he must chase it away how does he do that he goes to Reuben and he says to Reuben these people who have come to you and are saying this I know good you want to keep away from that he makes the vision he causes mahaki between Ruby and all these friends who will not allow Ruben to make peace with shim ohn as a matter of fact not only is that permitted it's a mess what to do so just as the euro sham he tells us that we're allowed to speak Lashon Hara about somebody who causes Moroccan another example of this let's take a similar case okay's again Ruben is Shimoda fighting used to be friends people come up to Reuben and say you know shim ohn said these terrible things about you listen if somebody comes up to you and says that shim all it used to be a friend is saying all these bad things about you you're gonna be upset quite rightly so fish if it hurts him and harms him so he's so mad right now that were all right go ahead allow a Shalom to come we're here to come to him now and say anything positive he'll say stop it I'm really angry you're only saying that to try and make peace but it's not true so initially what must you do what must are not going I'll our shall them do we must go to them and say you know what you're right it's not nice I can't believe that he would do such a thing you're absolutely right to hate him yeah absolutely right not to talk to him you're absolutely right don't talk to him such a thing such behavior it's it's terrible you've got to fight for your right stand up for your rights your reputation in other words you're chasing peace away but eventually Reubens gonna calm down happens happens we've all done it even if you'll want to stay angry forever you calm down and then when he comes down he starts thinking to himself this is this alright go ahead it's my friend he really is on my side he's he he understands my situation completely so you know what at that point he can go to him and say you know what you're right but can I make a suggestion we should really look into whether shamone really said those things and the circumstances under which he said it because maybe we'll find which often happens it's not the way other people reported it people like to exaggerate people like to say things that really aggravate the person and get them all riled up and angry I don't know why it gives him a certain satisfaction so when he said so let's really find out at that point peace becomes so much easier and in that way you see poor him Shalom and Road if Shalom appear to be opposites but really they work hand in hand not being in this like we said the coast of Baja you can only really make peace if you're not an envious person that's why the coast of Baja which is for Shalom should go to you if you're not an envious person is as I was saying something that you see in people who are very very important and very great who make peace that they are the opposite of envious that they run away from from honor even though it comes to them and to the extent that they they do things in humility that we don't even know about you know the great people in the great Rob I mean do so many good deeds and we know nothing about but I want to tell you a story this is a famous story it's a well known story but people ask me about it regularly and I don't know why I think I know why they asked me regularly but I want to tell you the story again it's well known to many people and it's really fascinating in new shall I am there used to be a hum a rabbit by the name of haha abram others he had originally come from Holub Aleppo and a very fine and very knowledgeable haha somehow a manuscript Xavier came into his possession and he was looking at it and he found it to be amazing amazing amazing value it was the one who wrote it who wrote it with erudition he was obviously very scholarly he knew the Torah inside out the toilet either have eroded in the towers at the tips of his fingers and it was the whole aspect of Torah not just one he knew that I had a hard shot he knew the soul the Kabbalah everything you mean everything was in here there were and there were no questions on all kinds of topics all kinds of topics and he answered them beautifully and in detail and he's looking at it he says obviously this is a very very great harm nobody else could write a work or work like this he's got to be a very great harm with amazing knowledge now here's the rub obviously a great haha obviously huge knowledge with all the different aspects of Tyrannus fingertips but who was he he's looking he sees the name of the work his Torah lachemann which means Torah for its own sake and then he finds that the order author of the of the work is a ha ha by the name of your hostel Callie the hostel Callie never heard of him a rabbi of such magnitude of such knowledge and he never heard of them so he goes out and he asks whoever you ask anywhere in the world nobody's heard of this ha ha me hysterically this was very very troubling to hum Abraham others troubling deeply saw is one day he was reading he was reading other works of course it was really a famous book of respond sir she wrote they're both wrapped a Alim by ha ha Yosef hyeme the holy banish hi Mohammed said ìiím brought many works we call them the many faced on one of his works but it's actually one of the smaller works but great magnitude but smaller in size ruf valley ms multiple volumes so he's reading this work repair name of Ahom yusuf hyeme and I was Shalom the holy banished high and low and behold haha missive hyeme quotes ha ha ha scared golly Wow dynamite if the holy banished hi and by the way he quotes him in other places stories and here and there and everywhere you'll see me quotes he quotes Sifl cynical or tarnish ma this particular safer that we're talking about written by a honey house good company so he says Wow the British highest quoting him for you me that would be amazing startling but he was a haha bigger than I won't say you and me certainly bigger than me and he's looking at it and he's looking at it and he says to himself he has scale is the same guy Maitreya as you're safe Carly is the same damata as high in the Haskell Kathleen is the same in gematria as Yosef hanging the Benesch hi there brilliant mind to see that right away so now he had no doubt in his mind because the way was written the subject matter how it was handled the the erudition and scholarship everything and this Camacho there was no doubt in his mind that this book had been written by hundreds of high in diminish high but with another name because he didn't want people to know so he went to haha mr. frame had a tan need a very big ha ha ha ha with your Hasan who he told to run away something happen in Baghdad to Eris aside and he became the robbed of parati safe the old paratha is safe in Russia on iron he went to him and he said look at the safer what can you tell me he says I don't know don't know anything about it I can't tell you so how am i Brahma I just said I'm gonna write a letter telepharmacy fame he writes a letter to the British I asked him several questions on halakhah several questions and then the last question is who is the author of Tora Mishima now I don't know how long it took for mail to travel in those days and how quickly it came how quickly didn't come eventually he got a response ha ha miss if I'm the only vanish hi answered him in detail answered every question everything you needed to know and I can imagine that you know with his knowledge he gave all kinds of background and information he answered all his questions that is except one the last one who is the author of Torah dyzma at that point you know hama brahma this is mindil our Shalom there was no more doubt it could only have been written by humus if I aim because of what had happened the fact that he didn't even say I don't know he ignored the question the fact that the style of writing the content the kamacho of his name there was no more any doubt in his mind in truth I want to tell you they did a little more scientific research if you like the handwriting of Torah lachemann is that of the vanish hi why did he do that what is the name tryla schmuck mean Torah for its own sake not to have any other not to have any glory for the sake of Torah Muhammad said I am was the one who did so much for people they went to him with every kind of problems it was so great I think if they had a little finger bleep that would go to him and he loved everybody and you can see from his holophone people say strict you see how he goes out of his way bends over backwards then if people do something to justify what they did and why they do it I want to tell you another story of another Hakam who I considered to have been one of the greatest post scheme of our time and he was so humbled that he never made a noise so he didn't make a noise like others and many people didn't even realize they heard of him but they didn't realize his greatness the people the people in the business what I'll call it the other post scheme all knew about him I knew how great he was you know how great he is many people know but I'm speaking about Mara Mordechai Rio our Shalom and here's another person by the way I suspected he's done the same thing he you know was kind of descended directly from the baby shine and he followed him and I suspect there's a safer that came out few volumes it's not known who the author is just my reading is that it's him but I don't know so I'm not mentioning any names but he was also someone who's extremely humble like I was saying never made a noise about anything and he was the youngest died young evarin Lee in the Land of Israel that's how great he was and his knowledge but he was always making peace between people and between men and wife there's stories about him they would come to the big Dean when he was the day on the bait Dean before he became the chief rabbi of Israel they would come to him and there would be cases where he would tell the secretary of the bay Dean after he met with the husband and wife put the file away so what do you mean it's still open it's it's not and he would make peace that's what he was that's what he was good at and that's what he was known for and and that's what I I find remarkable about him but in I'll be him surely say there's a story that a lady tells this lady got married a little while before the time that she's talking about when she was single she used to go to a rabbi it was a mokuba a caballus I don't know anything about him all I tell you is you know you got to be careful there are some real mickou believe but there are a lot of phonies I'm sorry to say a lot of phonies she used to go to a MicroBot when she got married she tells her husband I want to go with you to this mokuba because I think very highly of him our respect him and so on he was from a different background he was from a I guess he is Shiva they didn't really went into mokuba Lima and the like and he didn't want to go so I guess they got into a little bit I just called a discussion back and forth they both agreed that they would go and speak to her mom or the high in Yahoo and our Shalom because everybody respected him across the spectrum so they went to see him and the wife started telling the story that she wants to go to this rabbi she used to go to this rabbi he doesn't want to go Ramona Thalia well Shalom is listening to this and he says he turns to the husband and he says you know what I understand you there are a lot of rabbis who want really rabbis he said however excuse me he says however I know this one it turns to the wife is this is it this particular one this lives in this area said yes he says I know this one it's okay you can go too but he understood the situation I don't know I'm not gonna mention any rabbis not relevant he understood the situation he saw the wife wanted to go and the husband didn't want to go and he knew how to navigate the waters he said to the wife you can go to him now what he tells you you have to do you have to do you but not your husband this is on the other hand if you all come to me they both came to him they were both happy with him what I say you both have to do she said it was amazing to hear the way he handled this and the way as I say he navigated the waters because first of all he heard both their points of view secondly he was still giving honor to others and he knew how to create Shalom bite peace among the husband and wife he says in that short time he showed them how it could be done and it was the only solution that would have worked for them and he came up with it and she said from that moment on she no longer felt any need to go to that of the rabbi so it was just it was an amazing amazing story in my mind of how when you have the right wisdom and understanding and it's not about you you're about the other person you're a Tobias that you're able to make peace among people all right we know that pin Haas who alia who right pin Haas is a Leo and those who gave pin has his beneficial of his covenant of peace why because as we know pin Haas did something to make peace between the Jewish people not others Varro who by killing Cosby is Emily so God gives him his eternal covenant of peace because he was zealous for God interestingly one of the reasons for the covenant of peace beneficial on that god says is because it was done through basically killing two people and God didn't want that to be one of the big dogs one of the attributes so therefore he counteracted that with peace because that's what we want and of course even though it was done for God's name it was the right thing to do today we're absolutely forbidden from doing anything of the sort but God didn't even want it just to remain at that and gave him my a covenant of peace but the other reason for giving him the covenants of visas because I can say he made peace God was mad at the children of Israel with his action with his action pin Haas made peace with Hakadosh Baruch so now I'm better many people have the custom of the fifth course the fifth cup that fifth cup is for Aliyah hanabi what is the reason for that fifth cup the reason is because low Massa Hakadosh Baruch who Kaley mozzie brothel Israel except God didn't find any vessel to make the blessings come to the Jewish people except a Shalom the peace so this last cause the cause of Eliyahu is for peace you know peace is the key word for the Jewish people and you know we say it day in and day out but do we realize what we're saying when as I mentioned we have the booklet carne do we really focus on the fact that we're being blessed with peace when we finished the book on Amazon with the cost the peace in our hand the word Shalom in our hand do we understand that we're ending the oseh sholom with the word Shalom oh say Shalom Roma the one who makes in his abode upstairs making peace we're asking him to bless the Jewish people with peace we said that also salami when we finish the Amina shallow Bravo America when love shawl ashame the hope that hope us that hope asuka ends a shame old Lhamo attained Hashemi a very finish the bustle for me if I'm all but shallow exactly that God is constantly blessing us with peace and that is what we have to run after there are 613 miss worth did I surprise you did I wake you up there are 613 miss wall can you any of you here do 613 miss walls no thank you she said yes I have been a lot of trouble it's impossible why because some are only for colony I'm not economy says some condom can't do some this one catches some yeah there's no way the only way the with Jewish people and recommend is to do 613 was not the only way with the Jewish people can do is 613 miss worth is easy if you take everybody's miss worth together and pull them together pull them together you did 22 I did one you did 4,000 whatever it is you get to a total of 613 but where do we hold those 613 miss well it has to be in this famous kimi maha sigma ha ha this vessel that holds that holds blessing and what is that blessing what is that toy what is that Kaylee what is that that utensil that vessel Shalom peace in other words the only way that we can achieve 613 verse worth is if there is peace among all Jews and my chefs not here right so clearly we haven't achieved it clearly there's no peace among all Jews so we got to start working on that because if you have a vessel that's broken because this one is fighting with this one or these three are making peace here but those two are fighting you got cracks in it fill up a vessel that's got holes and cracks everything falls out bracha falls out bracha falls out peace is everything for the Jewish people we've got to understand and that's what we have to do I want to say the sweetest words that you gotta hear tonight I'm gonna end with this don't you like those words I know it remember The Sweeney go away so long Rob they obey authority huh in La MaMa show there is an abundance of peace an abundance of peace to those who love your torah and have no stumbling block if we truly follow the paths of the torah their hair that they know the holy see both a huh thank you I'm so glad you're here because I keep forgetting the words you know that you're helping me out everything about the Torah is peace so when we think we're studying Torah and we get into fights with our neighbors we're not following the Torah that's what we have to understand I'm the only way there can be there can be peace among the Jewish people is if we do that do it from the bottom of our hearts stop worrying about how great we are and how we are with jealous of our neighbors and just understand that we have to care for each other because all the greatest people in the world care for cared for other people and not themselves they're a shame but we could care for themselves but the rest of the world is a shame have no peace have no peace at all there's no peace for the wicked it only comes to the righteous peace only comes to the the righteous Hashemi about it it's a mall but Shalom don't forget that God blesses us with peace so if we will do the right thing and and have peace amongst each other make peace with each other do the work of a harmonica handle our Shalom a blessed memory then we can be sure that finally others will say you know what they have the Kaylie it is not broken I'm going to pour the broth a skinny a piece and for that reason we will soon witness the coming of Messiah Kaena may come to have their menu attend us so in Amara main thank you so much does anyone have any questions yes oh you're not gonna be hard on me are you David not when you go out by like that this come summer be similar and there's different reasons but basically pretty much everybody agrees that there are 613 the question is which are the 613 we generally go with the 613 of the Rambam but there is a slight difference of opinion as to what the 613 are but it's based on B similarly in the Gemara okay that was a good question yes sir yeah but I mean theoretically we could have come up with another figure but that's the accepted figure any other questions everybody's at peace with everything we said all right god bless y'all thank y'all so much for coming we will be doing our be thin about seven minutes and 97 seconds in that corner over [Music] you [Music]