Rabbi Yoel Roth - Talking Makes Connection

good morning I good morning old boys booty Hashem we have to be very thankful to Hashem that we have this here that we we are micariff to the rabble the rabbit teachers away how to be close to Hashem that was a story by the river rabbit traveled with a Bala gula in their day they don't they didn't have cars they have a horse and buggy with a Bala gula drivers in the middle of the way the Bala goolies says to the river that really sorry that I have to go out from the regular way that everybody travels in this because there's traffic I'm going out from this way I'm taking a new way on the in the trees and Oh in the woods but this there's no way this goes back to the old way you understand my english mind is not so good like a nowadays and there's traffic is drivers did sit in the traffic for hours the other side there's drivers they they know the whole area what take a detour they go out from the regular way take a new way but after this all traffic this way comes back takes you back to the old way so the Bala guru says for the river I'm really sorry that I had - go away from this regular way I have to take a detour detour because there's traffic or the rebel got excited and the rebel says this is what I'm doing they always say the breasts lives a new way it's not the regular way it's not a simple way whatever says I got all of the way the regular way but this new way but I'm taking you or my talmidim this brings you back to the old way before the rabbit comes what was the way to be led to be italic the person want to be close to Hashem what do you have to do we have to fast let's say what a person want to get back to Hashem I want to do Cheever I want to do toover but I have to do the all stories from the old subdeacon in the holy holy tsadikim they fast they fast the whole week from Shabbos little Shabbos they I say make a CD from Google Shay like you know what yeah they didn't snow basically cold water in the middle and from the winter they suffer a lot to be close to Hashem so the rebel says I'm I'm making a new way we are finished with this all the way from tonight you have to fast the zigu firm you have to sleep on the on the floor this old masters all stories what you what you what we hear from the altar Deacon I have a no way for you he's bothered this his body this what's me despite this talk to a sham in your language a new language let's say you your languages English dr. shamon English my languages yiddish have to talk to chamois dish other person comes from other place talks spanish talk to Shannon Spanish your languages it's not a different ones to languages Hashem understand every language all language repairs to start talking to Hashem and his language he got very close to Russian this is the way a person could get close to let's say husband the wife for example husband about how a husband and the wife got connected guts connect themselves with talking the days where they they are upset on each other they don't talk they live in the same house she makes everything for the the food in the laundry and he goes work he pays the bills but when they are in a fight that's the only thing that stops talking they don't talk yes let's say a child with the Kindle didn't a child his parents a child a butcher no both of us a child above her so you're not talking with your parents you are broidy's on them you are upset on them everything goes on normally like before you live in the same house you see by the same table but you're not talking you're not talking a friend dimension is that a person the side didn't see something goes on because oh I see they walk together and in the same car together oh I think you are I want to click with your father I think you are in fine with you father I see you going with the father your father drives you yeah but we are not talking you're not talking I'm the same car in the same house and I'm helping him schlepping something but I'm not talking to him when I apologize but what let's change we are talking we are talking so the same thing a much more how the person connected to Hashem how's the present connected to God that ever says in the key time around there are people there learning the governing but they are like in a dream they're like the slab roof sleeps is 70 years from outside it looked like like a like a great person like a roof like a receiver like I'm a Gucci like but he's not connected to Hashem how I use how you say like this you know character shame he doesn't see latency do all the mitzvahs yes but he's not talking it's like like husband and wife sitting at the same table she cooks he brings the money like a child and parents we go in the same car we are we are together but we're not talking we are now upset we are you know if sizes yeah there's many times on the wife for three three weeks for a whole dish they're not talking but nobody the neighbors nobody realized that something goes on it it looks like wow there are very special they have shalom bias but the husband and the wife they know we are not talking we are not connected the same thing person 70 years he learns he doesn't he do mitzvahs he comes he he's like a special special heat but he's not talking Tasha there's a story that there was a couple living in three family house to to to two families in the wife told further for the husband that look that the other the other family had upstairs they're so special and they they go they go out two times a week they go out to to chill together in Utah you don't take me out you have to go out there husband what what he didn't know where to go when he didn't know where where you wait to go spend time out from the house so is it what's what's wrong - to spend time here what's what's wrong - to be to chill in him in the home the house no I'm watching they go out to time you know the story they go out two times a week you have to come come I gonna show you in the window look look there they go on the car so dress a dress nice so the husband says look maybe maybe go ask her as the neighbor where's where they go maybe we could go spend time but she she was shy to go step around the noses Isis know to be nosy it's not a it's not a it's not so nice to ask you thread your you follow me but she kept a schmooze me this lady so I want to also go way going the this oh I don't know you have problems he has we going to times a week for help you're going to times a week for for marriage counseling so she says oh it's good but from outside he can't people says wow he he got married specials but and he's gonna get Rosanna God how you say it in English how he keep passing a gap does it mention no I say it yeah especially you know didn't know nothing what's going on between its maybe they don't talk in your out loud outside they make they make huh the image it's like wow they are very special so that ever says the same thing there's people they live 70 years they'll aiming it's very scary slamming governing doing mitzvot special special but this is like a dream this is like they sleep for 70 years because they don't talk to us sham they don't have shy cos this is the math to know and that ever says I'm there's an old way or old highway and I some saggy from Gil douche a lick you have to fast you have to do hard things you have to suffer you have to talk to you you your touching your body your dessert yours yourself that ever says I have in a way it's bothered this anyway no highway there's a there's an old old old way with bumps with glimmered holes into Mary danger the girl and there's no way beautiful new pavement it you could speed there without a bump without suffering without shaking this is the rebus way is bothered this you want to be connected to a sham you want to be close to Hashem start talking to a sham this makes you happy you asked me before I start the sheet I should talk how a person should be happy if a person is connected if a person talks to a sham every day everything he bothers him simple say say nothing a formal way it's not like you have to let's say shackles minute Amara you have to say this mr. hat fella the answer came a second owner says this is the Nisa Attila every year every Jew has to say chakras minute amount of every day and there are mom says knows his trailer what is the missus s event relative mrs. s event Phil is a person should talk to a shame on his language what bothers him and what is thankful for shame but the hunter can I said only seizes the it's gonna be a long alone goolies the people are gonna forget from trailer so they make they make this roof chocolates Milkha Madoff to save the pair's you are in the mood in are in the mood you have to pay you have what to pray you don't have to pray you have to do this this holds you near to a shame what the real real real fill is a person talks a shame in his language my language is English I think I'm a sham help me help me financially admitted to find a shade I have a shed the hair that they have helped me I I should have some values help me I should have knock this for my kids I have a problem with this child ever problem with this she was with I wish to you see the you car turn off the turn on the music and my song opens your heart such musing with Hashem it's the best thing this makes a person happy this makes the present closed ocean it's like it's like like I said emotional Shalom bias there not many times not talking she got upset you caught you come home a little bit late and she scream at you and you got upset why you scream I use you treating me like like like this I want what you feel you can't talk nicely and he she waits she waits the husband should apologize in the husband wait I have to apologize leave me alone if you can apologize I give you one more chance in there in day from outside nobody knows that now it's on guitaring intense now they yeah they have to you have to live you have to make nobody should help me no nobody should know the kids the family going to be father to you to your shred father-in-law but nobody knows that now we are not connected we are not talking same thing as viola hidden with people that doing everything mitzvahs math sometimes mother am not using with Hashem this is the rebus new way that no highway detour they take exit out from this all old old highway this old expressway this for from holes and in bumps take the new way from his father this this gonna make you close to a share you're listening Yossi no because here in America United States it's summer there's no school yeah summers no school so what do you have to do August July August vacation vacation from what vacation so if you take a job somewhere even I'm gonna be in sheer summer but you have to be connected to Hashem summer also there's not actually there is not a different summer or during the winter every day I have to put film every day I have to go down on chakras Miramar and all day what bothers me or I'm anything what goes on we have to talk to a chef chef should help we should live with this you're gonna have a good