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[Music] oops sorry everybody so welcome to practical spirituality here in Toral links in Lakewood New Jersey I'm here in Lakewood to run the POS seminar but I got this chance to come to Tor leaks which is apparently um is this set up for people who are not raised observant necessarily yeah and which is quite a quite an anomaly in the middle of L you know I can't imagine what it feels like I imagine it's a bit feels like a what's the right word for ominous to integrate into such a society you know but you good luck you know maybe maybe you're maybe you're supposed to use this as a stepping stone to make your way to and uh being in a community where more likeminded people are you know we got we got some pretty amazing communities in so feel right um anyway listen up guys the um what i' like to share with you is a class in cabalo but it's uh probably going to be the most practical understanding calistic and it will be of tremendous benefit for you to understand this uh this this material so we're going to be discussing two things that's it just two things and they're going to come in three packages one package or four packages one package is and which is often known as kindness know strictness flow and structure like structure and Order and Chaos order is going to be on the structure side chaos is going to be so it's one thing we're just discussing flow inst structure yeah sorry I said four it's going to be three packaged in three and the three are and flow in structure and Chaos in order got that okay very good now nothing happens in the world outside of those things everything happens with those things so for example uh unless you want to Star on my YouTube right now Reuben your hair is in flow structure mode right now your hair yeah your hair is in flowing mod I don't know the last time you cut your hair but you're it's in flow however your hair cut is structured because you have short in the back and long in the front so there's like some kind of structuring going on so that that's happening um you've chosen a more flow eyeglass style and you've chosen a more structure GL M's more float flow you got to know what you are before you buy glasses you know and I mean there's plenty of people around having an identity crisis so they're like worried about being so flow so they buy structured glasses are these are these slow structured glasses they're pretty stretchy yeah and um these things are happening everywhere they're happening in all the marketing of everything going on Italians are more flow or more structur well probably FL yeah look at the arc behind it you think this person was more structure or flow and look who built this building you think the architect of this building was Flor structure Big Time structure everything's hard angles the arm just looks like a like a doorway to a you know looks like a nice house with the door the doorway outside house doesn't look like AR play this year like they just skip the whole arish look you know the yeah this is a is a structure building but there where building very smart so like they put these hanging balls over there and we balls round flower structure round Asos to square yeah those are flow so what was the glass before you know we got these Glass Walls what was the glass before it um was put in mold when they first heated it up FL structure what was theu what was the mold was the structure to build these things everything is flown structure the uh the tongue I don't know you call it on the the door that's so funny did you just get shocked by that door yes happens a lot thinking that I I will be short are you from Panama yeah oh Cali thank I've been dealing with uh if someone wants to bring me down to Panama to run my my seminar but I I was when I heard Panama all I can think is surfing like I'm going serving and anyway um but those doors Clos and the lip or the tongue I don't know what you call it what do you call the piece that goes into the other side to to latch it I don't know the mechanism that's that's um flow and it locks into the hole on the other side which is structure you understand everything's FL stru there's nothing else out there than flow structure what's the gas pedal of your car flow structure the gas P flow yeah what's the brakes what the LAN the highway structure structure what's the highway FL hopefully maybe not the rush but uh with the highways and yeah highways flow you can't think of anything look at anything that's not fix and what's interesting is people are either floor structured there's people who are FL Pap structure so if you go to Bed Bath and Beyond is there still a store in America called bed bath you go to Bed Bath and Beyond they they actually I once was in a store like in Israel like bed back in beond and all of the all of the items you know how some of these stores that set up the escalator comes and you have to go around and you have there's a lot of like shoing on either side and then you go up again and then you got to go around again so anything that was every item had on it a design that was e either flow or structure and the and the the uh structure stuff was all on the left and the flow stuff was all on the right and and literally you would see howy you doing if you could sit directly across from me that would be the best spot for my YouTube channel then I'm talking also to you so so so what happens is at bed can you sit right there at Bed bom Beyond oh this is great hey can you sit right there please the first guys who came in I wanted them to sit there for my YouTube channel you know so I'm like going like this the um in Bed Bath and Beyond they they know this stuff marketers know this stuff uh architecture people Architects uh interior designers they all know that everything breaks down to flowing structure and the and so when you so let's say you're in bed bathroom you get to the plates so got to buy plates for your new house so what they'll have is they'll have a set of plates they're round and embossed on those plates it'll be like a floral design or whatever and now what if a couples what you know often times you know the man's not going to bother his wife about which plates you know they let her choose the plates but let's just say it's a man who's interested in these things so if she's structured he's flow she's going to go for the Triangular salad plate you knowz they have another set where it's like a it's like a rectangular salad plate and a in a big big um you know me a triangular salad plate with a rectangular dinner plate and she's like I love this and the guy's looking at it like I'm going to have an anxiety attack if that shows up in our child I don't want to look at it and you get to the you get to the sheets and you have floral designs on some sheets and the other sheets are those white ones that you see in hotels with the pin stripes you know the white pin stripes hotel hotel sheets I once brought those home my wife and I don't do structure stuff and I I once like came back from one of my trips to America with new set of like high thread count you know cotton sheets and and um she looked at these Pinstripes she's like get these out of here you know but we have married kids so we have couple of my kids are structured my kids are flow so we we just gave them to them so it's important to know what you are you need to know if your flow is structured because couple things number one what do you do if your flow both your parents are structured which is not ideal by the way you don't want both parents the same thing you know it's like being raised by arth Vader so if you have both your parents structure then the kids growing up are going to be a mix you're always going to have a mix but what happens is the kids feel like something's wrong with them they always feel like something's wrong with them and then they do their best to like keep up with the can you push in a bit can you come in a bit that so kids wind up you know you're doing something's wrong with them and they spend their they spend their whole life behind the eightball Trum constantly trying to keep up with some kind of a structure expectation that's not it's not natural it's not normal it's not good it's it's a not a great are they ever at ease is is someone who's flow who's constantly trying to be a structure person are they ever at ease and someone who's who's structured and you know has to do with life because life OCC is only in flow right I mean we can try to Repose like the Sader starts now and we impose that you know that you should eat a certain diet you can impose all that stuff but life doesn't occur that way life occurs in flow that's where life URS and so if you're a structured person you could be are you going to be at ease when life starts throwing curve balls at you you know you're getting constant curveballs you're not going to be ease what's what's it called when you're not at ease stress aniet yeah it's [Music] disease cuz I think everyone wants to live a long life and you know deer take care of themselves till the day they die I've never seen one fat deer in lakeid I've never seen a fat deer in liid I've never seen a weak deer in liid I've never seen an old deer in liid meaning old meaning like being pushed around a wheelchair or something you understand that that we that the the ideal of the T the sa the shaning you you should we say that the end of M that you should be fresh in your old age fresh well how you going to be fresh in your old age the answer is that you're going to be at EAS tell me are you supposed to have a high um tolerance for stress or you supposed to have a low T forch which would you prefer high or low high that's what you think right I'll tell you the truth if you're hiring someone to work for you try to find someone who has a high tolerance for but you yourself low why because if you have a low tance for stress as soon as there's even a little stress you'll see it and you'll deal with it like oh there's this there's white noise coming into my house while why I don't know I oh I left the bathroom fan on and do I really have to have that buzzing cuz your central nervous system knows about the buzzing I don't know if you guys heard this room but I've been listening to it since I got in here listen and i' paid 10 bucks to get that thing turned off but I'm just going to let it keep going it's probably in the AC and it's not bad and you guys never even noticed it I noticed immediately second I walked in here there one I noticed the balance of the room and and which means that I'm not speaking normally right now I have to I'm speaking like a couple milliseconds slower in order to finish the echo so you guys will have a proper understanding what I'm saying so I had to adjust not at ease why am I adjusting my talk I have to and I'm also being very careful not to hit that that frequency which is a frequency that would cause noise cancellation which is how our headphones work now they they match the frequencies and knock it out and that's why certain people you can't hear them in SHO when they're doing leing or because there's some there not always but there might be a white noise there that matches him perfectly and so you just can't here and the um anyway you guys want a higher tolerance for stress or low tolerance answers are low because you can make adjustments to make sure you're not having any stress cuz a high someone who has a high tolerance Str he's already getting taken out by a solo by the time he realized he was stressed he didn't know he was stressed cuz his tolerance was so high so how do you do it so the answer is is that you celebrate what you are and you stretch to the other side celebrate and stretch everyone to say that celebrate and stretch go ahead Cate and stretch again celebrate and stretch Cate and stretch now say celebrate who you are Cate you are stretch to the other side Str to the other side and and that's the way we live our lives and then guess where you are if you're let's say you're a big structure guy and you stretch to flow where are you you're right here you're here you're living like balance like the r say like you're right in the middle and if you're a flow Meister sorry yeah flow meister and you stretch destruction right someone who's flow and doesn't stretch I think we have a name for him I think it's called a bum flow without stretching is a bum yeah he's in bed and someone who structur who doesn't stretch we call that I don't know pain in the neck I guess he's like a typ a personality you know not the guy you wanted a shot a St that's for sure you know people are a lot of fun at a kidish structured people maybe after a couple shots they become a little more enjoyable you know the so you understand you we all want to be right here but the way you get right here is by celebrating what God created you to be now this is happening at all times uh the sound you're hearing from my voice is coming through through a wave pattern it's a sign it's coming through my higher notes are coming at a faster frequency my lower notes coming in a slower frequency they're hitting your eardrum which is its own structure and the beating on the eardrum these very high velocities of the waves are flowing and structur what pedal makes your carb fast which pedal the gas P are the brakes what your pedal makes your car D fast get the answer is the brakes Rabbi what's your name over there rabik yesik would you ever touch your gas pedal if there weren't brakes you wouldn't get near that ped would you ride a bike without brakes you understand that things are changing today with the one pedal cars no way there's one pedal little braks goas oh like that yeah yeah yesterday I was driving a arivan and it was very interesting I had to teach a class 40 minutes away but the class started a half hour from then and I don't come late to anything so we were been stuck hasem like understands me it understands my commitments so when we got out of the place R we found a school bus pressed up against the driver's side door meaning he couldn't get in I was already in the passenger seat so so I said you know what I'll jump over so I jump over in the rivan I know rivan are fast and uh you know what R are it's electric four-wheel drive truck so he got in the passion SE we were on time we were on time I we just flew over here and what well we were coming from another town but we we got to lak on time that's the second time that's happened and the other time was a Tesla um but there I just said I'm draging I raced cars in my background I raced cars for seven years so I'm very good behind the car actually I I was teaching the possib seminar here in Lakewood and the way I got home was this street called North Lakewood Drive have you guys driven on a street called North Lakewood Drive but I mean like at like 75 80 M hour it's amazing Street late at night night so the seminar ended late at night each night so I was just it's a it's a race car track You' been on it oh yeah what kind of car you you don't have a car any of you guys got a cars I've driven on C oh so anyway they so in the final night of the seminar there were like four bck on the seminar they produced a sports card for the last night and they're like you keep talking about racing cars so can we race North likee and so I took them the I they had their faces like come this obviously this was late at night this was no other cars you can use both lanes so this is all there is guys all there is is flow in the structure how do you know really if you flow structure maybe you decided U how do you figure it out so there's different ways of testing it um one way is if you have a vacation if you have a vacation um let's say you're taking a summer vacation and you got a couple weeks three weeks so a structured person will schedule each day they got a whole day they can schedule the day whereas a flow person will just let God run the program like they just let it just take take it one day at a time and see what happens you know when my wife and I travel we land we find a place to stash our bags we don't choose an important place a hotel everything nothing we we figure out the only thing we figure out is where can we put our bags and and then we just somehow get to downtown or whatever the main square or wherever it is in the middle of Italy or you know Rome or or in England or France wherever we go uh we just take it from there stru we're Flo and we just Flo by the way it's not great to have the couple be the same you understand you it's like herb sh this late Friday afternoon and she's going out with her yoga M mat and you're going out with your mountain bike you're like who's making the chilling you're like understand it's better to have one person be flow and the other stret yeah you said that it's not good when both parents are the same you know you mentioned that you and your wife are both flow so how did you if you you had you mentioned he had structure kids right so how did that work in your family like with the structure kid did you left structure kids were running our house like they were running everything I how when they were younger like before when they were really little like seven eight they probably suffered who knows what they went through you know yeah cuz think about it we're part of a very very fir you know your sh me I integrated right into the your shomi community like gold Ro Str you know like the full your Shi Society by the way I'm not suggesting you try this at home and this was my own Mish gas I've been a left wi anti-war hardcore Progressive liberal protester during the golf war and when I got to Israel and I saw the poorest people I've ever met they were called your shies when I met these people I was like these are my peeps and I joined the poorest classic group in the world and I joined the and I moved into to the poorest neighborhood in all of Jerusalem it's it's this it's even more poor more poor it's a place called B you heard CRA was like a father to me bought me a car at one point yeah he was the G and I saw exactly the car I wanted the car I wanted was $4,000 and this guy it said for sale I said to the guy can I I want the car and he's like I'm on my way to sell it and I'm like like I mean are you committed to selling it to this guy he's like well I haven't met him yet but if you give me $4,000 it's yours I said stand right there ran R and I'm like I need $4,000 like gives me 4,000 ran and got the car and then I went to take care to give back the money after so anyway so that was uh that was my my own you understand I had my own guys that I was up to when I was becoming F I was coming straight out of being like anti- capitalist you know I would have been you know one of these I would have been one of these protesters at the you know free Palestine people that would have 100% been me I would but I would have been leading it I was the one interrupting classes with megaphones 500 people the mentality for a second which mentality that Progressive liberal no right why why somebody who's not affiliated and that who's Progressive and what is that you say you you identify with that in a way I was that say so exp what they're about yeah so um I can explain it if you want off topic but we'll we'll go there for a minute um the progressive liberal Community are the children of the of the children and grandchildren of the 1960s UHA and in the 1960s people had been taking uh mostly a psychedelic drug called LSD and we're not talking about psych therapy that's big today we're not talking we're talking about people running around the streets in in tiedye shirts and wearing beads and you understand it's not what you guys it's not what you guys are being raised with you know like with the second there this was total chaos in in America and the um but one of the side effects of of LSD or any secondo is openness openness no borders openness and now you should know openness is considered an amazing trade it's one of the five um the five big trades you I don't know if you know but Psychology was always made fun of it's only 100 years old and they always made fun of psychology because they you can't measure anything and it's like you're get out of our University you you're Jokers so the what they did was the psychological World created a system of measure and they made and there's something called the five traits five big traits so one of them is openness and closeness that's considered a personality trait but one of the interesting things about openness is you can't change it they never came up with a way to change however open you are growing up is how you open you will be growing like elderly like that's how you are that's your openness openness have to be an amazing tra it's a really great tra you know for example a CEO who runs a company has to have that trait why because it's competition and if he can't innovate his company's going to go under it you can't have not open CEO open is a very very good trade but it's got to be kept in check and it's got to be you know you got still have a brain in your head you know you can't have it so open that your brain falls out so it turns out that that generation was on can the only thing that science has ever found that actually changes the openness of a person it opens you more this is why for example in one class going back 25 years ago where it wasn't Millennials or genzies or genx it was it was you know the 1990s I asked my class 30 guys in my class at asan Tor I asked them um whom of you were ever on a psychedelic medicine and uh well those they didn't call it medicine then they called it drugs who have you were ons drugs and guess what 28 of 30 28 of 30 well is it no wonder that the B CH because you have to have a TR of openness to change your lifestyle that no openness no change of Lifestyle you'd never change your lifestyle no matter how much someone would prove Torah was true you couldn't even hear the proof because it would require a change of Lifestyle because that's your trade of openness meaning on a scale if that's your trade of openness you might become a b cha but if that's your trade of openness meaning little you're not and I was running those classes all those years and you could literally see it like whoever had a trade of openness was was interested in coming the next day whenever didn't was like they would give they would give their adjective for the most blowa away class that cars you you can't not become from after this class and they when you'd say what do you think of the class he would say interesting you just like interesting interesting how about Earth shattering why why you using the word interesting or he'll say informative inform informative newspapers are informative that class was not informative that class changes your life but the answer is your trade of openness what's your trade of openness so you open the can of worms but 1960s the people like entire high schools 6,000 Kids 2 miles later another High School 6,000 kids every 18-year-old in the city of every city of the US was on these things they had they blew through like if you meet someone who's done therapy these days cuz today it's in therapy these days people doing therapy how many sessions did they have three four these people were on this stuff like daily for years a whole generation and they gave birth to maybe even genetically changed kids maybe that I don't know that that's total Theory but maybe genetically changed kids in personality traits and uh but one thing's for sure is they raised them with no borders no edges [Music] no and it's meaning it's Pure Flow no structure which this class is about flowing structure it's about Pure Flow no structure and what's happening right now is it swung so far to the Flow side with till you know the D could the Democrats couldn't do anything right anymore and now it just went like over there and I just had a fearful thought that all the anti-Semitism that we've suffered since the War started all that anti-Semitism has always it's been easy for the fire to burn with the Wind of the liberal politics that were happening the last four years cuz two of the years or year and a half of the war has been under Biden and Harris and the whole like you know liberals running the show so it like it was like the LA fire with the 85 mph winds now Trump's in office have you noticed things got quieter not hearing so much antism but the problem is we know better you understand we know better um Rabbi do you think anti-Semitism cares who's in office what do you guys say an cares who's in office they care what's going on doesn't care just like we don't care you guys care is your yish Kai your commitments in your Torah changing based on who's in office it it's not linked at all L profile it's not linked at all there's no link to your yish kite and who's in office and the same thing there's no link to anti-Semitism who in office so I had this fearful thought that that there's going to be doubling down now meaning the cat's out of the bag my important date isn't October 7th my important date the one I think about the one I remember is October 8th October 8th was when the world came out and everyone showed their true colors all the anti-semites came rushing out it was like we know we have a m for this in Milla when the Jews were allowed to go get the amalekites yeah so so it was clear to the amalekites that hide you know get out you know just just disappear for a few days you know that's the day they were given so like get lost they didn't disappear they just came came in they don't care they're coming they're coming in and so I just realized that the whole quiet we're hearing it's just a quiet before the storm and I I mean I blessed myself to be wrong but and the reason I thought about this was right in front of my headquarters of the Paso which is in uh in Brooklyn I have a suite in the Brooklyn square a big business B I was looking at the protest the end first since Trump the first anti-israel protest in New York happened in bar Park and I look at the building in the background is where my Center I'm I'm running a whole kumit there by the way if you know if you guys have brookers I'm doing a whole kumit chilling to everything it's going to be beautiful clums it'ss tonight tonight tonight 9:00 Brooklyn Square sweet 4:27 s 427 anyway uh back to flown structure is [Music] um this will keep you in Balance so that you can live a balanced life it will um help you so much with schedule if you're a flow person you'll like stop being irresponsible because you know you know what kind of safeguards you need to keep in your structure and the structure people learn to breathe when life has takes its turns cuz life doesn't work in structure Life Works in flow you know they have a famous saying in yish I'll say in English though is that um God a man thinks God laughs so for flow people they laugh with God structured people cry and but when they realize that there's that you're either flow structure you can actually laugh with it your you're you start to understand the world around you I'm hoping that each one of you when you were finished here when meaning when you're finished with your day goes outside this building and starts noticing what's happening around you trees are growing what's that floor structure flow flow each house has a sidewalk with a grass tou the structure the grass is growing float but it's been cut winter keeps it cut it's not growing now it's asleep for the winter in structure and and few months from now the sun's going to be out and it's going to be turning all green again all those grasses but it's going to now we need lawnmowers and you know structure cut it down this is what's happening at all times and hashen what is hashen Flor structure what is got both both the is the sh soem hashem's neither flow nor structure what's the or ano that he created the world with flow is structure light what does light do it's structure it's flow FL 100% flow you shut a flashlight into the night it's goes out a laser beam it keeps going it keeps your laser beams flow in structure a flashlights just flow laser beam's got some kind of thing that keeps focusing it in on it itself but if it didn't not flow it wouldn't be going anywhere so what's a what's the or so what's the eternal light that God created the world with Flor structure nature flow and what are the oil that that filtered the light of the anel to create formica to create metal to create wool structure structure the are structure what is the sun FL structure simple guys it's light it's the biggest source of light in the world flow flow what is the ozone struction it's protecting us from the structure what is the ocean flow what's the seashore structure structure that's that's all there is there's never anything else and you got to understand that you're going to have a flow kid and a structure kid and a flow kid in the struction K you better take care of them better take care of them the flow kids can to need a little extra help around some of the details because details are structured and and the structur kids are going to need a little extra care when uh the plan that they were expecting Sunday morning got rained out you know they're going to need a little extra love CU you we're not going to be able to do what was scheduled and telling a structure person that you're not doing what was scheduled could be very painful for a child so you're but you're already ready for that and you already got a contingency for that kid yeah I would you recommend a more structural person to become more flow structured person to become more flow well he shouldn't become more flow but what he should do is he should stretch to flow he should say who he is don't don't adulterate what God me these we're talking about your Divine factory settings don't mess with that and how do you stretch like small Chang that could help you stretch to flow so so he would do um uh maybe get rid of his watch a little bit of the day um he would um he should do a certain kind of breath exercise whenever uh he gets anxious cuz his structure can get more anxious so when he gets anxious he does a fast inhale slow exhale which is through the nose the inhale and out the mouth um stomach chest like this everyone track stomach chest do it with you you should know about this cuz even if you're flow like if if you're late for a plane and you got to like get on your phone and like start doing stuff but your fingers are going like that you need to get your body to get out of emergency so how do you get your body out of emergency quick in and out stomach quick in stomach chest through your nose and then slow out through the M try ready sit up straight one two 3 faster it's faster follow the way I do go right after me you don't hold your breath you can already feel yourself like feel it start relaxing it's a body hack it it tricks the uh the chemicals in the brain uh meaning the ner nervous system to go from the parasympathetic to the sympathetic tricks your your body to go to chill and then you can dial the people you got to dial and let them know you're on your way to the plane and please don't close the flight and speak like an actual normal person um shame I'm just going to finish with shame shame shame because you guys say it twice twice every br br you might as well know what they mean so shame ofas [Music] flow and meaning God's like flow in the world into existence by sh and shame Shak sh is that it's enough stop yeah that's structur it's the name shakai that keeps our um keeps our Earth in orbit and in the solar system working the way it does with its direct distance from the Sun and like everything's working if if God would take the word shakai out of the creation the shind if he just like decided right now he's like you know what forget that name we don't need that name what would happen to no structure this this whole entire SP Planet would just spin to God knows where it would the whole system would disappear because all everything happened with science and and gravity and gravitational Pole from planets and orbits and is all coming is all only existing because of the shame shocking that's why it's on your doorpost when you leave your house it's cuz your house is order compared to the streets I you live in a f Community it's pretty order outside too but you know you leave your house in Williamsburg man chaos out there and so you know when you touch your the like take that structure of yish kite inside your house and touch that mus kiss your hand just go out into the world of distraction and Chaos careful with the structure of doing that you don't lose the flow of relationship with a in theas cuz there's a structure to D say that you should get to ding before his mon feeling so you have enough time to D before his mon feeling right but then throw the clock out get rid of the clock don't di into the clock now you're D now you're D no there no no CL you'll notice the c shs almost invariably will not put a clock in the m and lfish shs I have like five do but we're dominant CL everything's like cuz theic culture is uh flow leaning and the the yesha culture is structur and obviously there's these Unique Individuals who are exactly both the own structure there's Unique Individuals like that one F 500 they're they're the ones who create or institutions organizations Rosas they're uh they create uh businesses every business run by a person right email perfect but what happens is he may die or may sell the company and who are they going to have run it now cuz they're one in a million so who are we going to have running a a flow guy or a structure guy take a stru guy you know what he does he runs it into the ground both you you need a guy who's both maybe if they couldn't find anyone they could H have two people who are each and they meet like they sit in the same office facing each other but you see them running to the ground do you know how many Tor institutions I know that died with just this way like they just they just lost their spark lost their spark cuz they always put the structure guide in charge this includes schools everything you Hospital you name Place gets run under ground by a structure clear so um and just to give you uh um got those two names that's cool but the the name we use in BRS is elano Elo structure ELO it's eloim it's plural it's like the flow of the light of hasem Hashem and ELO El right this whole world is made of elus understand this is the wall in this suit is elus the whole world's made of that's when we say there's only a you were shown to know who is he who is he he's what's filling the plurality why it's plural he's he's what fills the world there's nothing but a that's all there is any questions how does structure person and laziness go together stru too lzy keep a schedule MH so a lazy guy in structure is just dealing with an inner negative belief of something like schl it's a much deeper thing it's he's got an inner negative belief of schlamazel or loser not good enough or not as good as or some negative belief and so that's winning the negative belief he has is beating him and so his survival strategy because every negative belief that person grows up with people every human being has like 20 to 30 negative beliefs about himself and so every negative belief you have comes with a personality move that's either fight or fly and so a lazy structure because it sounds like a sounds like a contradiction if be structure you should be like on it but the negative beliefs of a person and their survival strategies Trump flowing structure Trump understand like when you have a belief about yourself that wins over any other SS so the uh that's what I do my whole seminar is based on how do you first of all expose inner negative beliefs then automatically you're going to see how you covered up with your flight and flight and so a guy staying in bed is flight and so that's what we do the Poss you is just exposing that stuff till you call your bluff that your whole personality is really just compensating negative beliefs and then you you call your block put the cards on the table [Music] go not there anymore and then you see the guy gets something and goes to work I've been driving around lquid and I keep seeing signs with like names of the real estate agent and pictures of them sometimes and they're my you know I've been working Lakewood now I've been running my Center here for I don't know how long but they're my people and they're killing it and some of them couldn't get out of bed when they came in to the P whe they they just they they they they identified it they nailed it they saw it and turned out the guy was a structure guy and he he's just great in structure and by the way the real estate people are Flo ones who are Brokers are flow and ones who are buyers and Brokers they buying land and meaning they're leveraging Banks everything what do you think it's FL structure stru those guys are Str and the ones who have big companies where a lot of people working for them are those individuals right in the center and they can build bigger because they're managerial types so they'd rather have other have the flow people showing the places structure people running all the deals for the buying and the selling and say this is all there is in the physical world personalities and spirituality and you need it what what should the flow person do if he going too much to the flow too much to the flow yeah like that's where I don't know if you here when we were saying celebrating and stretch but he's got a stretch he's not stretching appropriately to structure everyone's got to build muscles for this for the stret so for example I'm a flow to the extreme meaning if you guys wrote the word flow like f l w here I'm the tip of the W on the other side you understand on on a chart especially if you were to let it go over there my nature is extremely I've met a few people's extreme floes they usually live under um Highway overpasses you should know when I meet them I actually go in and sit I'll go in his tent whatever just to be with someone who's like me just to that's cool you we generally are attracted to people that we're like and that's who I am that's me and I love doing it too because if I had never found you this kind if I had never grown if I'd never worked I was raising a mansion in LA you know like like crazy situation where I never ever ever had to buckle down I'm looking at me when I'm talking to those guys but I have learned to stretch and be right [Music] here blessings guys it's a pleasure please click on all the appropriate buttons subscribe make sure it's my Chann Channel when you subscribe we have you to blessing [Music]