Rabbi YY Jacobson Farbrenging with Children #6: Stories, Riddles, Q & A

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Pesach Tufts in pay 5 780 in which we will practice for the first time in more than in first time in 3332 years what might Shiva Boehner told the Jewish people at the first pay side of history we're a family sate so easily passes by say at the Baker don't leave the door of your home until morning moisture told the Jews that the night of pace of they have to stay home and they have to stay every family together quarantined in their home eating their matzah and their mother and their carbon paste sucks together as a family there now letter leave their home and join another home and join another family and join a community Sagan and join a public say there no they have to stay home alone quarantine then the next day they experience it's yes but Shyam and I don't think of 3332 years that happened yes Jews 8 the current pace up in their group you didn't go to another group but the admonition of leaving your home and being quarantined this is something unique to this pace set so we're doing the first half of the Mitzvah let's hope and pray that we experience the second half and that is that as morning comes it's not just a morning of a new day and the morning of a new era and a morning of a new season of healing but also a morning of gula a morning of redemption just like the morning of that first pacer 3332 years ago when we were in mitzrayim children I am so happy that you're here with me today and with us all of us we just finished an hour and program in Yiddish we had just from one than 2,100 children joined us just from London and all other parts of the world Israel in America other parts of Europe and this was just a few moments ago you can watch it at the yeshiva dotnet and now we begin our English program you can text your messages eight four five seven seven seven forty seven forty seven eight four five seven seven seven forty seven forty seven and if you want to shout out if you want a shout out your name your last name your age the city where you're from you your brother's your sisters your family just text us that you want to shout out eight four five seven seven seven four seven four seven and blima there on the screen we will scroll your name so we are going to get right now to questions and answers that's what we're gonna do I'm going to start off right now and we're going to do 13 minutes 13 minutes of questions and answers I'm going to give every question a very limited amount of time because hundreds and hundreds of questions came in from you dear children and I want to get to them so that's why if you need more elaboration please email me rabbi why why at the yeshiva dotnet rabbi why why at the yeshiva dotnet if you're not satisfied with the answer because I really feel the need that we should move along so therefore with your permission I'm gonna do this very very very fast okay let's go to questions so many questions came in and you can text your questions eight four five seven seven seven forty seven forty seven question number one how can we feel this upcoming Pesach has been a haven and as being as Monty was saying when we were locked up at a home it actually feels like the opposite we're subjugated were enslaved what's a good tip to help us see it in the right perspective excellent question excellent this question is asked by the Maharal of Prague the morale says how can Jews celebrate to say there during times and golus when they were enslaved they were not free can they experience freedom and he explains that freedom doesn't always depend depends on your physical circumstances freedom is a state of the mind it's an attitude so I could be free to travel the whole world but inside I'm a slave and I could be in a home in a difficult situation but inside I'm free it oh it's all about perspective of course it's nice to be able to run around and travel and I know it's a hard time for all of us but it's about perspective when you realize that you are an ambassador of RM in this world and therefore you are a free soul nothing inhibits you and wherever you are you were placed there on a mission to bring light into that place that's how you develop a perspective of freedom how will I know that mashiac is here oh don't worry about it first of all it's gonna go out and all the whatsapp's immediately and even if you don't have what's up don't worry about it when Messiah comes we will all know that Messiah comes I guess the best way you're going to know is the world will feel as it really is one one with us M did the Sultan make the virus to get us to stop learning tyre and doing mitzvahs or is it a Shem that made the coronavirus the answer is the Sultan has no kayak there's only one master and creator in the world who orchestrates everything in the world from the biggest to the smallest detail and that is Hashem our people not doing beer how much this year and they're not doing a fire Sarla 12 years old Flatbush previous question was Hamill at 10 years old and well you have to find out from health professionals if there is any danger in going outside and making the fire then you should not do it you can throw the Comets out into the garbage as long as it's taken away before pacer ever faced us that should be taken away before midday you can even flush down comets in the toilet if you're allowed to make a fire in the area that's great but if not there's other ways that you could perfectly dispose of the Comets and it's not a problem at all you throw it into the garbage and the guard just taken out of your property and your good dove Adha Lavy Muncie how was rep Mendel's I had to smell the ear of mushiya Finn today and what can we do that we should also be so - the smell the ear of mushiya this is the quest this is the story that I set two programmes ago listen at Mendel Oh was a very very big Sadiq and he was in touch with his neshama but this is the point that every one of us has an Hashanah and every one of us could always connect ourselves to the mushiya energy to the gula energy and that is by me telling myself that I am right now one with Hashem and that's the truth and therefore I'm invincible I'm indestructible and I'm not gonna let the 8so heart make me believe that I'm a loser and I'm disconnected and I'm weak and I'm a victim and I'm incapable that's a cover-up of who I really am Who am I really am part of infinity I am the light of our Shem in this world why do we say next year in Jerusalem don't we want mushiya this year great question we mean mashiac should come right away so for next pace us we will do the whole say there in Yerushalayim can rabbi Jacobsen mentioned the name Zion Geshem and sorrow for Forsch leymah yes ahmein why did the Russian Jew need two witnesses that he was Jewish Miriam and Kyla Klein this is the story that I told them one of the children's programs you could watch all the previous programs we have already five in English and one in you dish on the Shiva that net the answer is because a lot of Jews who came from Russia they maybe their father was Jewish or they had a relative who was Jewish but they were not fully fully Jewish a logical is they wanted to establish that they're Jewish I'm a teenager I'm really enjoying these shows I'm watching the live children's program now I'm wondering if you could do something for teens absolutely Harlem Moyet pacer Monday night 10 o'clock p.m. we're going to have this session for teenagers teenagers not for children for teenagers and you can ask all your questions eight four five seven seven seven forty seven forty seven that's Monday night color Moyes pace at ten o'clock p.m. give us your email you can text us your email and we will put you on the list so you can get notices of all of our sheep or them before they happen [Music] sometimes things are really painful it seems insensitive to think what people are going through is for the good how do I find the balance between believing that I Shem is good and he has a perfect plan and being sensitive and being sensitive to other people's pain we say that I Sherman is always good and he has a plan and everything is good but people are suffering so much how do we balance the tool it's an excellent excellent question and the answer is it's a balance but both are true yes we believe that everything is good we believe that everything has purpose but in my feelings it's very very painful it hurts and both are true both are very true his meaning and purpose in every event but it may hurt so badly you know I remember I once had my finger by the door and a good friend of mine slammed the door he just wanted to close though he didn't realize my finger was there and my finger got stuck oh you did it hurt no he wasn't trying to hurt me but it killed and if I would say oh it's Bar soccer practice and it's wonderful and it feels great and there's meaning use meaning but it still hurts it still kills and you have to respect that we don't dance on Tisha but we don't say Oh Tish above I shouldn't destroy them based on Victor's it's good mushy who's gonna come we should dance on tisha buff no we're not at a dance on Tish above now - SHhhh above is a day of a fast at a Funeral we don't sing and dance at a house I know we dance why yes it all comes from Hashem and there's purpose and there's meaning in this goodness but it doesn't mean that there's no pain and the fact that Hashem did this means Hashem did something that's causing me or causing us a lot a lot of pain and that's also from our son and that OSA has meaning and purpose in it so there's no contradiction don't think that when you're feeling pain and sadness it means there's no emunah no part of that Mona is that this sadness and this pain is also something that Hashem orchestrated and there's meaning in it I don't have to run away from it this is a very very important question yes there are greats our victim who see everything as Hashem and therefore there's no pain involved but that's a very very special level are you allowed to watch your sugar into happening or a share there indefinitely well when you davon you should davon I mean if you're in the parts of da Vernon we allow to make a have sick maybe you could take a break but generally speaking it's better when you're diverting to divert but if it's parts of darvany like the beginning of nominee with the end of Dominique we allowed to take a break then if you need to you could listen to the shape but remember most of this year you can do a replay as well I dive in for someone who passed away I don't know her how will she thank me when Messiah comes if we don't know each other Lakewood New Jersey well first of all I'm not sure you need her to thank you you davon and that's an amazing thing but regardless if that's what you need don't worry about it because every time we dive in for somebody it has a tremendous positive impact on their soul even if we think our da Vernon was ineffective they passed away you should never think that way every da Vernon of every person for anybody has a tremendous impact sometimes on the person down here and sometimes on the soul of a person because a soul is eternal how do we know that mushy is gonna be really mushy when he comes somebody will say mushy obtain but how am I gonna know that it's him Gedaliah eight years old beautiful beautiful question to Dahlia the answer to your question is if you'll take a look you can ask you Tati to open up for you a Rambam mission attire he'll sis melaka the laws of Kings chapter 11 and there the Rama gives us the criteria and this seaman and assigns how we know that Messiah is ma she beautiful beautiful question thank you Wow such a such a nice question I love your questions Kendall Africa texture more eight four five seven seven seven four tea 747 we know mushy is coming why do people have to die for him to come I don't know who says they're dying from a shift to come I don't know that anybody has to die for mushy have to come every soul has its journey and we don't know when a soul is born and we don't know when a soul is taken we don't know exactly why the soul is taken why do girls have to say to hit them when they don't under stand it I think you should try to understand it - he'll it will be so much more meaningful today you have two limbs and English translations and Yiddish translations and more modern Hebrew translations listen the power of tell them is in the words of telling but if you can understand that it's so much so much more interesting and moving and meaningful I say to hell him and I have a translation orphan and it's so much more meaningful yes try to understand it - he'll I mean you know what when you're in a painful situation there's nothing like governor MELAS tehilim because he is life was a challenging life and he's really the voice of every human being who's who's in a painful situation or an enjoyer situation there's a reason that the hilum has sustained the Jewish people for so many so many generations I've been asking Hashem a lot for protection from the virus it gets me wondering why do we need protection Hashem controls everything asking are some the protectors from the virus sounds like the virus has a life of its own and it decides what to do based on its own nature and then we need protection from the virus don't we believe that our Shem runs the world excellent excellent question the answer to your question which I love is because the nature of the world is also hushed in it's not my cash M is in one place and then nature is something else from Hashem we have to choose between the two no Hashem created and continues to create nature so when the virus has a particular nature to do something that is a manifestation of how Hashem created the world and when a Shem tells us don't rely on miracles and I want you to protect yourself naturally like I want you to go to a doctor or I want you to take vitamins or I want you to have a good immune system or I want you to exercise this is not a contradiction to Hashem running the world on the contrary this is because a sham created nature and nature has a system and a sham wants us to respect that system and work within that system to observe the tire to do the mitzvahs to protect our health and to save lives and the two are never mutually exclusive just like when Esther had to go to achieve a wish they asked him to nullify the decree of hummin which happen Pesach or right before Pesach she did not say Oh a sham runs the world why am I going to have a wish no because a fresh radish was the king and I said wanted he should be the king and Hashem runs the world through kings of shams ones runs the world through politics through medicine through economics through nature that's how our son runs the world effect a hand in the glove why does Hashem let non-jews hurt Jews and blame the Jews and his anti-semitism in the world question from a ten year old this is a great great question I will ask you you're intelligent to go to the eve of that net and in the search type in anti-semitism we have a few good classes on it but just one point I'm going to tell you is for life to be meaningful Hashem gave people choice we're not robots we're not zombies we make choices and people have to make choices and they could sometimes make not good choices just like I could make not good choices now the fact is that the Jewish people represent holiness in the world they represent goodness in the world they represent Hashem in the world and people who are not ready to grow and realize that life is about challenging yourself of becoming a better person they naturally and very often hate the Jews because the Jews remind them of something deeper and holier in the world what do they say there's an expression nobody likes their alarm clocks you know nobody likes an alarm clock the Jewish people were chosen to be the alarm clock of the world and nobody likes and not everybody likes it do the white cells also protect us from the eight Sahara based on last week's class about the white cells yes the spiritual white cells protect us from the eight Sahara could you please give us the address of the boy last week two programs ago you said he's having a Bar Mitzvah and he lost his father and you spoke about having a Bar Mitzvah and Quarantine without your father excellent yes let me announce the address of the bar mitzvah boy who is an orphan and he's now having his Bar Mitzvah quarantined because he can't have the large rum Mitzvah he hoped for his name is ABBA Eliyahu and the addresses to eight to three Avenue I apartment be Brooklyn New York one one two one zero again ABBA Eliyahu to eight to three Evan I apartment be Brooklyn New York 1 1 2 1 0 that's 2 a 2 3 Avenue I apartment 3 Brooklyn New York 1 1 2 1 0 for his Bar Mitzvah you can all join the questions are coming in and if you want shout outs eight four five seven seven seven forty seven forty seven you can type in your name and we shall scroll your name Canella I'm seven years old how many years ago that pacer happened three thousand three hundred and thirty two years ago in the year two four four eight since creation now we're in the year five seven eighty since creation are we obligated to love every single Jew even a Russia Wow great question the magnet of ms rich told his holy student have male ecologist in every domain of the know Emily MELAS let me say it again dish Harris mailers was Miss öktem assisted at IKEA as obviously sir Leslie bobbin I Russia Goomer Piazza de comer Reb may left the maggot said do you hear what I heard in the yeshiva of heaven Alva C strong means to love a complete Russia like you love a complete Tzadik that's what the magician Maggie told her never let male on behalf Tulare Africa Martha there is showing him say the a drummer says in Sanhedrin refers to every single Jew every single Jew I have to love the famous ROM McRib moisture cordovero in a safer timer the voyage chapter 2 says this as well you should love every single Jew now sometimes as I'll tell us you also have to hate somebody because of a sin a terrible sin he did but that's only if you know for sure he did it willingly and he knew exactly what he was doing and he was malicious and you gave him ty sister you spoke to him about it and he understood what you said and he still doesn't want to regret it and then you can hate him but that's very very rare situations and even then even then the Tonya says in chapter 32 you still have to love him because of the neshamah and the goodness that's always in him how should I feel about my birthday and not have anybody buy my birthday party moysha my said gran maestria gran it's key turning eight years old on the 13th of Nissen tuesday the moisture we are celebrating right now your birthday happy birthday to my salon happy birthday to my summer happy birthday dear seven-year-old becoming 8 year old mashallah yah in my lad there some may have you know whose birthday you're gonna be like you know who uses birthday your birthday is gonna be like guess ah da Mari sure who is there to celebrate other Marion's birthday the answer is Hashem and the mission of thousands a son hadn't you know why our son created one person in the beginning the teachers that one person is the whole world mashallah that's what you're gonna remember at your birthday party this time you don't need the whole world at your birthday party you need you and I sham because your value is like the value of the whole world why do some special people who died this time not deserve to have a funeral a regular funeral not deserve to have a regular Tara regular cleansing the answer is we don't know this we don't know maybe their numbers don't need it Hashem knows exactly what every neshama needs remember that all of the 6 million Jews that who died in the Holocaust were not buried remember they were many of most of them were cremated I once heard from the lubavitcher rebbe whose birthday is today at Aleph Nissen Mazel Tov I once heard from the LaBarbera chair ever myself that the Jews who died and were killed in the Holocaust were like a carbon Isla you know with the uniqueness of a carbon I loved was the whole carbon went up in a flame to Hashem usually every carbon you put on them as bear fat but the rest is taken off and eaten by the Chi anima by the Jews of carbon Allah everything went up Tasha MC said those Jews their neshama and their bodies were a carbon Allah fashion so every union every life is unique every life is different whatever in a shaman needs in order for it to go to its place it's getting don't don't worry about it if the hwacha tells us that this is how we do it in this situation this is exactly what the neshamah needs and remember that the main l'viyah is not down here the main Levias and I love IMS and trust me that a lot of these greatness Lamas are having very big love is very very big great souls are coming to greet them coming to greet them and it breaks our heart but these souls are getting exactly what they need to get to be able to go back to their place in the times of the base on victors did they dive in or their work our bonus so they didn't davon in the first base of Mick - there was domine but everybody could just dive in the way they wanted with their own heart for a minute or for six hours already in the beginning of the second base I make there's two antique necessarily instituted the text of smiler Astra that they started to use three times a day during the second base on mikdash as the Rambam tells us in the beginning of Hills Hoist Fela why do we always hear bad news nobody is telling us good news the Eckstein family you're right you're right I don't know bad news travels very very fast we should be spreading much more good news so spread the news that we're here together this is good news we are will serve we're trying to help in the house but we don't have a lot to do oh come to my house we also don't like to learn and we don't like to help in the house any solution be creative maybe play musical chairs maybe musical chairs maybe do a project maybe sing and dance together maybe do exercise together I have a great idea to do a workout together maybe you can go outside together if it's allowed by the health professionals but try to be creative do new things maybe make a concert maybe make a play maybe draw a beautiful painting maybe organize the pictures in your house maybe we decorate your house I don't know be creative for those who eat good rocks on Pesach they eat it a whole pacer those who don't eat the Brooks have a minute eat in a traditional pace of why if they're afraid that the water is going to come on the matzo and a part of the flower was unbaked and it's gonna become from it's why are they doing I'm a credential pacer there is still a risk and you know let each vomits I'm a tarantula pacer lazy schneir halbridge Tom Chicago wonderful question the answer is the ballot Anja writes that because the last day of Pesach is only rabbinic because midday rice is only seven days so therefore the last day which is only rabbinic cause biblically allowed comets so they allowed you to add in the joy of young tip and make made laugh and make matzo brei and make a good kugel to add to the simplest of another reason that's given is that we wanted to emphasize the unity of the Jewish people and show that even the Jews who eat abrupt we shouldn't god forbid think that they're actually eating hummus so in order to emphasize the unity of the Jewish people that is so important that we're ready to eat get buckets on the last day of pay summer those have two reasons there are other reasons what why is it that on Shabbos we say over Shane you stuff on on weekdays we only say estaba and Shabbos we say over se estaba excellent West Hartford Connecticut and the answer is because every day your Starbucks is not directly connected to the previous statement the previous statement we're singing what the Jews did and sang when the c.split hashimites of an answer all and then when we're finished we say you stopped a simcha but Shabbos right before you stop by we say knishmas and we finish off uh chicane I've asked all hired surah in La Jolla in La Jolla Lucia by Allah for Allah how about a flower little callous alcohol divination is precision because that is the duty of every single creature to thank assembly say initial us a non of my speaking soul right after this was a over hey and thus and therefore establish applaud mal que no cuz it's a direct sequence and continuation to what we were saying be for is it true that machines will come it's gonna be too late to do true though we can only do children now listen you can do children with machine comes but then it's gonna be easy because godliness is gonna be revealed now it's harder that's why it says that what machine comes we're gonna miss the days of godless because of this special work and effort that it required how do the white blood cells kill the virus what do they have and the ants aged six ask your mommy and maybe she could show you one educational video to explain it to you more will our house go there to throw a machinist comes the Gemara says in the sexist Magilla page 29 that all the shoals outside of a register all are going to be reestablished in Yerushalayim connected to the base i macness where mushiya's comes the marsh explains it is your house social today every house is becoming a shul so I think all of our homes will be transported and you could still take your dolly and your bed give your bed this was Richardson Texas the hidings fells why do we have to eat murder don't we have enough bitterness my name is minutia I'm ten years old who has to eat murder great answer and the act great question answer is you know the year that they left Mitzrayim they also ate murder why did they eat murder they were in mitts rally and they suffered the most why did they have to eat murder and the answer is Hashem was telling them that it's important to feel pain over the Exile but it's important that that pain doesn't take over your whole life so he gave them a symbol and he said here eat murder eat the bitterness digest it cry it feel fill it but then it's time to move on to the sandwich and it's time to move on to life reclaiming and the meal and the benching and so forth so in life we eat more we respect the pain we feel the pain the pain is very very real but we don't allow our sadness to take over our whole life that we can't laugh anymore we can't enjoy and we can't move on so that's why they eat more and that's why we still eat more let's go to the riddles my dearest dearest ty you either laugh dear children I am so happy here Wow Wow I thought I'm getting rid of questions but I see another 34 questions just came in eight four five seven seven seven four seven four seven eight four five seven seven seven 47 47 if you want a shout out if you want a shout out you could text two eight four five seven seven seven four seven four seven your name first name last name age city and you will see on the screen here on the yeshiva dotnet scrolling let me go to the riddles before I go to the rules I'm going to announce that tonight on the yeshiva that net we're going to have a big lecture for children and for adults in English for Jews and non-jews whoever wants all over the world all over the world titled turning fear into empowerment a time of pain and tears and hope this is going to be tonight nine o'clock New York time on the vennett a lecture for all you're all invited to join me let's go to the riddles we got beautiful beautiful answers to the two questions last time we asked a question about cap gaya and we asked the question about what's gonna be your personal it's us with Ryan this year and a lot of you got got it right a lot of you got it right and if you have your address yo you're gonna get something bleem at there give us a few weeks and a few dope didn't send your address and you here you got the answer right please resend the answer with your address with your name and with your address okay beautiful beautiful minimum here we go I'm answering now I'm giving answers to the riddles of last program answer to riddle one by pacer I've rambled Berkowitz the fact that I Shem in this story seems to be on the wrong side column shows us a lesson Hashem is part of every story and every happening in this world whether it looks good or whether it looks bad whether it looks right or whether it looks wrong as in Habakkuk M has a reason and it's in charge of everything nothing happens without him even a little story about a goat the inner EMS said that the BA from are the high of gear lever from Mordecai of guerre said that we look at our history it looks confusing and it doesn't make sense or mushiya comes the mayor be Amanda we will see that everything had a reason Hashem has a plan and therefore we cannot question him and that's why the end of the table God D it seems like Hashem is doing the wrong thing to teach us to teach us that even when it looks like the wrong thing Hashem is still involved and part of gula is knowing that even if we can't always understand it Wow Pesach Thank You pace-it and your name is Pesach okay SD tells us st stern 7 years old how is she gonna celebrate DTS betrayin this year s t says I will work very hard not to fight with my sister and brother and not fall into the trap viii Sahara let's hear a round of applause for st Stern Zev Zukerman Zev Ackerman even if the cat was guilty for eating the goat the other nations the dog doesn't have a right to eat the cat so really they're all guilty the goat is not guilty the cat is guilty but the dog didn't eat the cat because the door cares for the Sheep the dog ate the cat because the door is sometimes cruel nice I'm going to work this young ets miss Ryan not being in a bad mood zabi a round of applause for zemi okay because neck says because when a goat and a cat are fighting the dog is not supposed to mix in this year I'm gonna work on I want the goal should stop so I'm gonna have in mind by Vanessa that we should be able to go out of goes beautiful beautiful ok the next answer for the riddle comes with a story nebulous inane shits moves to another town because he had a dispute with Ruby Arkham Emden one date of Uranus and over here is people debating who's right so he asks them your question of cab gadya they didn't know an answer so he says when the cat and the goat have a fight what right does the dog have to mix in and they all understood they should not mix in the dog that has no right to mix in and that's why the dog is guilty what is my personal mitzrayim my everyday habits and the fact that I have to be in control I'm gonna try to overcome it I'm gonna use current events as an example to learn and improve I'm gonna realize that my habits can be changed and most important only Hashem is in control great beautiful the cat and the goat were fighting nobody told the dog to mix in and because nobody told the dog to mix in he is guilty and this thick as innocence and the fire is guilty and the water is innocent and acts as guilty in the show so does innocent oh my office is guilty and Hashem is innocent f ryan Silverberg wants to answer the question last week somebody said they're so sad that their great grandfather passed away from Corona put a picture in your room and you look at him whatever you want this is Russell Luba Adler age nine answer to the first riddle the dog should have not mixed in my teacher told us to us many years ago answer to the second question I would like to be more happy with my wonderful Latin life that is what I'm gonna do this year for you seeis mitzrayim beautiful a lot of boys and girls answer these questions on cat Gaggia very very beautifully more or less this same answer same answer you have to be a dog in order to mix into somebody else's fight so the dog is not innocent from mixing in the dog is guilty because it was none of his business of Remi very very good I'm looking through a lot of answers around 40 children sent in answers to the riddles beautiful ok wow wow wow thank you thank you thank you Kindle ah my father what the goat was innocent the goat was guilty for going out he wasn't supposed to go out ok very similar answers by many many of the children thank you thank you very much how am I gonna experience Pesach one of the children says Davari says I get mad at my younger siblings I scream at them this place is I'm gonna try to control myself next one Menachem says first grade I catch all the time this pace us I want to try to stop kvetching this face that I want to try to stop kvetching ok great so now let's do our new question and the new question is gonna come with a story and the story I'll tell you where the story comes from the story comes from Reb Aaron Hyneman and if Aaron Hyneman came from a city called in Lithuania and he wrote memories from his childhood and slow and there he tells the following story and I'm telling you the story that he says it was once on the first day of Pesach the RAAF's lutsk was a Jew named abusive Dave Haleiwa salivate sick he's known as the bass Haleiwa later he became the Rev of brisk the robbed of risk reversal of a trick known as the bass la vie he was the father of the famous rock I'm salivating of higher brisket and it was the first day of Pesach in slits grammarian hymen says we finished Dominic Musa and I remembered of Yasha barrel of H at the base a lady went out of shul - Davin on his right side was a wealthy Jew by the name of Robin Youngman Abin and on his left side was another affluent Jew by the name of Zebulun Ostrovsky and the whole community was following our rubbish apostle of a chick and he had a Gaby an assistant who was walking in front of him also my Zeta and my father and me were walking behind the rub of Libya's reversal of a chick he was known to have a very sharp eye and a very sharp mind and as he was walking he saw that there was a young girl who had a kerchief on her head she was wrapped with a kerchief and she was coming to it towards him but then she went away and then she came back and then she ran away and he noticed that this young girl was like very hesitant so he understood that there's something happening here and he asked his assistant as much Amish to go to the girl and ask her if she needs something she should please feel comfortable to come over and indeed she came over to the brisk to the love of later the rub of brisk the base I'll leave it up your Chabert and she says you know I work in a house and the owner of the house the lady who runs the house dibala Tobias sent me to ask dear of Libya Chabert soloveitchik a very important question and the gab I brought her over to where W Chabert and very nicely he said my daughter my Takata Deville stuff is fraggin my daughter do you want to ask something and she says yes this is what I want to ask yes your ever the lady who is my boss who I work for told me that I should make laughs apace on the first day of pacer I guess they didn't have an issue there in the literature community and so they didn't have the Minich of gab Rockets not to eat aprox this is what they asked before and Chicago Bob the Brooks sure she said I should make connait law which means you take matzah and you grind it into small pieces so now you have like you know matzo flour and you mix it you cook it with water and you mix it with eggs and you make balls you make matzo balls right Kleber so she said I should make an idler from three eggs that's what she told me I made the canal on with four eggs that's what happened so I'm asking a question so the beauty vessel of a chick looks at her and says daughter my daughter tell the person who runs the house the ballast abayas that you should not eat these canal are today you should not eat these Canadian tomorrow come to me again before the meal cuz everybody was going home and ask the question again and she said okay thank you and she left and he said near there if you're sure bread there were two Jews Reb in Yemen and of Gatien were very wealthy and hot sugar people and he said that they started to laugh they had to contain themselves from laughing what type of weird question what a foolish question rebel Abbas her ballast abayas the woman in the house told it to make tonight last from three eggs and she made from four eggs so she decided to come to ask a question and they rough tells her she's not gonna eat it what is going on what is happening here like first of all white telling her not to eat it second of all while you answering this question and taking it seriously this is what they asked of Yasser veselov agent and I want you can the last to figure out what the RUF was thinking what the base lav was thinking why he gave her this answer that today they could not eat the kanay block and they should come tomorrow why would he do that and why did he take her question seriously what's wrong with using four eggs instead of three eggs I you to think what went through his mind what did he understand that the people around him did not understand okay and you know what because basics is coming I'm not gonna delay this for the next one we're gonna do the answer to this at the end of the program so if you have an answer to this question you still have some time to send in your answer eight four five seven seven seven four seven four seven eight four five seven seven seven four seven four seven and if you get the riddle right you give us your address you're gonna get a treat we're gonna give the answer at the end of this program bleah nether and you can text in your questions to H four five seven seven seven forty seven forty seven and if you want a shout out do you want to shout out first name last name you can again text your name to eight four five seven seven seven forty seven forty seven and now we go to story time I have a great great story a great great story for you but before I do the story kya Vega is celebrating her 11th birthday today and she can't have a big party so we're going to celebrate it right here with Kaia Vega Mazel Tov happy birthday - hiya happy birthday - hiya happy birthday eleventh birthday Kaia happy birthday Yoma letter some a off to you Oh Mazel Tov you're in good company we had other birthdays today and I know your Aleph initial is also the birthday of the Lubavitcher ever of blessed memory so my dearest friends I'm now gonna share with you an amazing story and this story is a very meaningful story because it happened to me it happened to me myself and I and I want to share it with you story happened quite a few years ago the year was tough sin noon Zion that would be 1997 1997 so this story happened 23 years ago I was a yeshiva boy I was an older yeshiva barker was a little while before I got married and I was asked a few weeks before Pesach if I could go conduct a community say there in the city of Kobe Japan that's far away I grew up in Brooklyn New York but I was asked to go do a seder in Kobe Kobe has a Jewish community beautiful beautiful show mama a gorgeous show but they didn't have a rabbi I didn't have anybody to run a say there for the community so they asked for you Shiva boys to come and help and I was given the opportunity and I was actually excited and I said yes and I went with a friend of mine Rabbi Moshe Lieberman who lives in Massachusetts today in Newton Massachusetts and we traveled together we brought all the food that we needed we brought matzo and we brought wine now we brought Giardia filter fish and we brought out a crucial piece of foods and we bought equipment to be able to cash her the kitchen in the shul and we spoke to the president of the show they were expecting I don't know 20 people 30 people 40 people we came a few days before Pesach we can't show that kitchen we got ready for pacer everything was great and we promoted the event how shocked were we when the night of pacer at sunset close to 200 Jews showed up in the shul of coab a for our public seder now most of these Jews were not religious they were not observant Jews they were secular Jews some were living in Japan for many years with all types of jobs some were tourists visiting Japan you know this is not Lakewood there was not Bora Park it was not Irish Ally Moore was not Muncie was not neighboring a brac this was Kolb a Jew Kobe Japan but it was an incredible Seder we ran this a there we sank together and we did the Haggadah and of course we drank the four cups of wine and we ate mats and we ate modern and we ate Korea and kids ask the four questions and I explained different parts of the Haggadah and it was really very moving and the reason it was so moving is because here were Jews who were very very far away from Judaism and just to watch them eat it up pun intended eat it up some of them eat the matzah little too early and the egg too early and and other stuff too early because they didn't realize how to say their works it's a long say there were 15 steps so but to watch them eat it up pun intended was really a fantastic and very moving experience anyway it came we had to get it we had to move because it was a big oil um and you know and you got to get it moving so we were going pretty fast and there were also young children in the crowd we didn't want them to fall asleep it came to shul sonorous to the meal and finally we could relax and sit back just enjoy the fish and enjoy the soup and enjoy the kitchen the kitchen enjoy the chicken and the crowd was sitting there and singing and enjoying and schmoozing and I felt in my heart that I have to give a message some very special message because throughout the throughout the say that I was just you know moving it on and is giving little insight but now I felt it's appropriate to give a meaningful and inspiring message to all of these Jews men and women and children who were gathered in coal Bay at the pace of the kassay there and I'm asking myself what what would be the right insight what would be the right story and then a story came into my mind it was a well known story and I decided that this is the place and this is a to share the story so I stood up I said good young to hack some a after everybody I want to share with you a story I said the story goes back to the 18th century to the city of Barda chav in Ukraine the great rabbi and spiritual leader and Hasidic master of partitive was a Jew named the whole ear oblivious to the copper ditches never the music of my dishes one Pesach morning was Dominic and you know the Seder of the Bard achiever was something out of this world well it's Ichabod ditches his love his passion his authenticity is M as the kite was incredible and the night of pacer who was something special and he was really feeling that the seder last night was special but then he had this feeling like this emotion almost like this feeling from shamayim from heaven that there was one Seder in bar dickship that was much greater than his Seder you know at the end of the say that we say near son the last of what those near to me neared sameen's people often feel guilty at the end of us say there was nothing it was stupid it was boring there especially this year right near its Amin's no it was great there was awesome I Shem loved it so they gave the bad achiever this message from heaven that there was one Jew Seder which was something special even greater and the City of Livia took of my dickship and this was to say there of Myesha leather water carrier moisture love the water carrier most surely used to bring water he would go to the river and the canal and he would draw draw water and deliver it to the homes this is before they had sinks in every single home and faucets in every single home and people would literally slap water from the well and from the river and bring it to townspeople to the people and they would pay him a little money he was very very poor mashallah mashallah grew up as an orphan he didn't have parents so you grew up in different people's homes and they had a very hard childhood nobody ever managed to teach him Hebrew he couldn't even read the a love base he couldn't read through forget understanding he couldn't even read the letters and he couldn't understand he couldn't read home as she couldn't read mathias he certainly couldn't read gomorrah shell hemara but he was a good person and he was a god-fearing person and he was a simple simple Jew I believe he took up a ditch of here's this he sends two of his students to ask Mozilla to come to him after Dominic knew they'd go and they find my Sheila and they say that by ditch of a Roth wants to see you he says no no no no no no no I'm not going I'm not going he asked that you should please come to see the Rev asked he has no choice and begrudgingly he goes and when he comes in the hillock about it she looks at him and he says mashallah tell me about your say there last night the moisture starts crying and he says here ABBA I'll never do it again I'll never do it again I learned my lesson Depa the body service says what did you do he says don't make me say it it was bad enough that I did it don't make me say it they took of my ditches in his warmth and his love gives this Jew my Sheila tender gaze and he says my Sheila don't worry I'm not gonna scream at you I'm not gonna chastise you just tell me everything about you say the last night and here my friends Kindle ah I told the people in Japan I said here I have to take a little break and tell you about my shallow Marsh Allah was a good man but he had one horrible horrible habit one terrible thing that nobody should ever do and that is he was an alcoholic he used to drink a lot of alcohol a lot of Marsh colicchio vodka he had a lot of pain and the way he dealt with his pain was he would drink and he would get like tipsy that's how he dealt with it by him was pour him a whole year he was a good man he meant well but every few weeks he was caught drinking and this was a terrible habit he had and this is how he ran away from all the pain in life sometimes people don't know how to deal with their pain in a healthy way and they find distractions these are called bad habits or addictions I can run to alcohol I can run to websites that can run to computer games I can run to gambling I can run to cigarettes it's all things that distract me and don't want me to deal with my pain and actually become a happier person so I just run away and that year before paces Mozilla was worried because pay sorry another drink you know let a drink Marsh gavotte the cabeza hits comets so what am I gonna what is he gonna do and why should decided that the night of Dicker's comets the night before seder he's gonna drink and drink and drink enough for the whole eight days of pacer and that's what he did he did a particular comments he checked the comments and then he started to drink and he drank a drink and then before it was the time the innominate comments he said one last lehayim to himself unfortunately and he gave the last drink and he was out cold that's what happened and he's telling this to the body shiver he says I slept the whole day in the evening my wife comes to my bed and says mashallah mashallah it's candle lighting time you have to go down with Minister you have to go down and come by my review tiff was so I'm gonna have this Aden and I tell my wife I'm too drunk wake me up in another hour I still can't get it together so she comes back in another hour in another hour I'm snoring and sleeping I'm having a hangover have a headache and she says mashallah mashallah they're already almost finished Domini it's a time for Seder and I say I can't get it together give me another hour she comes back in another hour and she's pleading with me and she says every home and by ditch of has a seder shame on you the only house that doesn't ever say that the Kindle are waiting there set up the table themselves and I'm thinking to myself what a horrible person I am what a horrible father what a horrible husband what a terrible terrible thing I've been doing just because I had a hard life why am i depriving my pink to my children what happened what happened to me why am I Pech awaiting this trauma and I feel so bad then I say you know it could be another half an hour and I promise I'll get it together and I have for now or later she comes back and she says the kids are still gonna fall asleep if it's not now it's never and I get out of bed and I come to the table and I look at my children and they're looking at me my wife is sitting my children are sitting we can hear the songs coming from the different windows from the different homes in bar dickship the Jews are celebrating the pace of a sailor I turned to my kinder luck and I say I had a hard childhood and I have a terrible habit that's inexcusable have no excuse and if drinking like this can cause me not to have a seder with my own children it means I really got lost in life and I am making a vow that I will never ever ever ever touch an ounce of alcohol in my life because I have lost control and I have no control over my life and that's it this habit is going to be broken I am going cold turkey I will not drink another drop of alcohol in my life but Kindle ah I'm not a very good father I'm not a very good husband I'm not a very good Jew but it's pace at night and you know I can't read the Haggadah I don't know how to read Hebrew and I don't understand everything about to say that I don't even know exactly what to do but let me tell you the story of tonight the way I understand it and Mozilla looks at his family and he says tyanna Kindle laughs my dear children Hashem created the world in six days and on the sixth day he created other men hava he told them not to eat from the tree of knowledge but they ate from the tree and since then everything went downhill and then came of Rama and Sarah and they began to fix the world and the world again became the beautiful place the godly place it was supposed to be but then the Jew ended up selling their brother and they ended up in Egypt and when they ended up in Egypt they were enslaved and they had a terrible terrible exile but you know what happened on this night of pace of the creator of the world came and he took every single drew who wanted to go out he took him and her out of miss Ryan and we gave us the trailer and we became a nation and we became a people and we started to fix the world again and every time we davon and we give sadaqa and we love somebody and we do something good and kind and we do a mitzvah we learned Tyra we fixed the world more and more and he says kid Allah we're now all we're also in gamez we're also in golden bard achieve we're in godless of the Ukraine but one thing I know I Shem took us out of that goal is from its rhyme he's gonna take us out of this goalless and my Schiller starts crying he looks at the budget Savannah he says I turned to the Rebbe initial element I said Hashem you took us out of midst Ryan I'm asking you a favor do it's a favor and take us out of this goals once and for all so we should have our own goal and a googler that's gonna last forever and I said Kindle ARS good the young pip and I'm telling you we're Shem is gonna take us out of this goal of speedily and then I drank the wine I ate the matzah I ate tomorrow I ate the sandwich I ate the egg I drank more wine and I fell asleep motionless crying I'm never gonna do this again and suddenly he looks at the padishah when the Medici was crying the way through my ditch if turns to his students and he says do you hear do you hear I wish that during my life I should be able once to communicate yiddish kite to my children with the same sincerity and honesty and authenticity and truthfulness and Emmas like marshal of the water carrier I wish I should be able to give pacer Hashem my Munna be talking player mitzvahs either session I was a failure I was his load to my children once in my lifetime as he did last night I mean to say the students I blessed that you should be able to speak to your children this way from the depth and the innocence of your hearts and he looked at moistu alam he gave him a big kiss and he said don't worry hashem loved you say there nitsa was the most beautiful beautiful beautiful seder in the world yes stop drinking but your say they have something special despite your mistakes and despite your flaws just your natural purity your real self your heart ah it came out and God loved it I'm watching the people in Japan who are listening to the story I see some tears in people's eyes but there's one woman a young woman sitting right against me I'm standing at the head table in the show and she's all the way on the other side sitting right parallel to me like this and she's bawling she's weeping she's weeping and honestly I thought that I said something that was insulting because I didn't understand why she's bawling weeping I just told the story of the repetitive maybe she had an alcoholic problem maybe it had to do with drinking maybe I said something that was disrespectful to somebody I didn't even know I thought maybe I have to go apologize to her but I just saw this woman who was bawling I didn't know why I continued and I said my dearest friends my dearest beloved friends here in Kobe Japan I know that so many of you felt that this is not the real real say there and I have to tell you I grew up in Brooklyn and every year I did pacer in my parents home at 5:08 Montgomery Street in Brooklyn and we followed the Haggadah meticulously step after step with everything had an explanation and an insight that we knew all the customs and all the laws and all the rituals and this year nothing like that happened you date this before this and you ate this is the wrong time and you drank this is the wrong time and a lot of it you didn't say you didn't understand but I want to tell you I have a feeling then in heaven this was most beautiful Seder I have a feeling about Hashem this was one of the most beloved this bar him in the world you know why cuz it was so honest it was so truthful it was so real it was so authentic yes it didn't follow the program but sometimes when you get used to the program you're just like a robot your heart is not there here your heart was there your presence were there you were curious you were open you were you your nashumba was here I'm just telling you my feeling that I want to thank you for the opportunity because this is a very different say than when I grew up with and I was having a little bit of a hard time but then I remembered the story and I said this is where it's at yes it's great to have a combination of both but you can't always have a combination of both this is something so valuable and I thank you for giving me the opportunity to be able to experience a Seder like I never did before something that reminded me of my Sheila the water carriers Seder in Bar dickship in the late 1700s of the early 1800s and I said good young TIFF and I sat down and when they say there ended this woman who was sitting against me and we pink walks over to me and she sits down I was so curious to know why she was crying so much why she was sobbing and she shares with me the following experience and I'm not gonna give all the details there but you're going to get the general picture and she tells me that she grew up in a Jewish home in New York a secular home it was not a home that was very Jewish they didn't practise a lot of Judaism but it was a Jewish home at a very young age because of different reasons and circumstances she left New York and she went very very far away and she ended up in Japan for many many years remote from Judaism and the Jewish people in a Jewish community and this year she saw it advertised that is gonna be a Seder in the Schulich obey but she said to herself I haven't done a say there in 20 years I'm not gonna change it now what do I go to uh say therefore I'm not really part of this I left it years ago but she says a friend of mine told me you know I want to go it seems interesting come with me and she pushes left me and she persuaded me to go and that's where I came to the Seder did you were nice you were good you were smart you were wise you were funny I made a lot of jokes I told a lot of stories but I still didn't know why I was there I didn't feel connected she said then you got up and you told the story and I want to tell you something I had an old grandmother who lived with us in our house and she did not know a lot but she used to tell me constantly you should know that you are the tenth generation of one of the holiest Jews of his day who my grandmother said his name was Reb wavy it's Huck of Berdichev your mother is ninth generation and your tenth generation I'm eighth generation you're a tenth generation and I asked my grandmother who is gonna believe me it's a good prediction but you keep on talking about she says I don't know but I know that he was a very very holy man and he's your grandfather and you're always connected to him and remember his name that's what I knew about my Jewish heritage she says and tonight I come here and you share the story about what I believe you'd suck of my ditches said about this Jew I don't know who you were talking to besides me but I know my grandfather was talking to me through you he was telling me about me my journey and my connection that is never interrupted and my relationship that is never destroyed and my flame that has never extinguished and she said to me rabbi Jacobsen I want to thank you for being the messenger of my grandfather oblivion took of our ditches to bring me back home now it was my turn to shed a tear and I lifted up my eyes and I thank Tosh em for the opportunity to be in Japan that pacer I learned from this so so much number one children wherever you are you're on a mission and you never know how you can change lives yes even when you laughed up in your home or when your remote in Kobe Japan I learned from this that sometimes we accomplish things that we never would imagine we could accomplish as long as you realize you're Ashley of a sham you're a messenger of a sham miracles happen through you and you could never expect or anticipate I learned from this that wherever you go you have to plant seeds of love and goodness and kindness and healing and redemption and trees will grow beyond your knowledge I also learned from this that a sham puts us in the right place in the right time to fulfill the mission we have to fulfill each and every one of us nobody is exempt from this and nobody is excluded from this but I also learned maybe the main lesson and that is a seder doesn't have to look anyway to make it special the most important thing is that it's real it's natural you just accept who you are and you bring it all into the story it doesn't have to look a certain way you don't have to feel a certain way the house doesn't have to be a certain way yeah you got to get rid of the comments but besides that we always think ours Dharam have to be special and this year it's gonna be a boring stupid lousy say there there's no such a thing it's all about your attitude just show up show up with your soul show up with your natural self with all of your emotions bring it all to the table bring it all to the story and how it develops it develops it's fine don't get frustrated and I say this also to the mothers and the fathers cut yourself slack this year God wants you to have a happy pizza a relaxed pacer a liberated pacer there's enough stress there's enough excite it is enough drama from Corona we don't need new pace of drama just be be present and whatever you're feeling whatever comes up it's exactly what's supposed to come up make space for it and remember it's part of the story it's all part of the story of ETS miss Ryan because if there's no myth sir I am there's no UTSA miss Ryan so if you're feeling miss Ryan if you're feeling like bad stuff great now you have what to leave if there's no mid strand there's no ucsf it's fine so don't get afraid and frustrated and stressed out by anything to celebrate your pace so you're gonna have an amazing pace in your home I know it I love you so much and I bless you so much I know it's gonna be an amazing incredible pacer and now we are going to dedicate the last section of our program to questions questions questions questions questions questions questions questions questions bum bum bum bum bum bum bum okay eight four five seven seven seven four seven four seven if the germ is so small the coronavirus how do people know about it the answer is because in the late 1800s we developed incredible microscopes that allowed us to see things that we cannot see with our naked eye hashem puts special-needs children in this world why he starts them off on the wrong foot he gives them the exact opposite of a head start in life they have disabilities they have all these special needs their life is filled with paying humiliation he gives the family a big dose of stress and worry and tant pain why did he put all these handicapped children in the world or autistic children or other disabled children or special children some of them lie around and can't do anything I read a lot of articles that they are greatness hummus fine but as it's fair to give the families such a challenge I reached out to a lot of people for an answer would you have an answer wow you kids ask good questions I'm gonna tell you one thing I don't know if I can call it a night I'm gonna tell you one thing every soul has a special special mission these souls are beautiful beautiful Souls and they're not humiliated and it's not that God gave them the opposite of a head start and just sends them down here to suffer no God sends them down here to teach all of us about love to teach us about humanity to choose just about kindness to teach us about not judging people to teach us about being humble these children tell us and say you know you're not gonna be able to celebrate the regular milestones birthday by Mitzvah option is pass Mitzvah graduation and wedding should sometimes you're not gonna be able to celebrate this you're not gonna have the regular Nahas from me I'm doing grading yeshiva the principal call valedictorian base Yakko valedictorian base roll call valedictorian but I see an valedictorian bass riff come out with the story and shelah MS brewery anim you're not gonna have that but you're gonna see a soul that is so special and you're gonna give them unconditional love just like they give you unconditional love you're gonna learn that we're all imperfect and we have to forgive ourselves and each others for our imperfection so these souls have a very very special and beautiful mission is it hard yeah it's hard is it stressful a lot of it is stressful but sometimes when we realize what the purpose is it could take away a lot of the suffering because sometimes we have expectations what life is supposed to look like and when it doesn't fit into those expectations we fall apart but if a person can open themselves up and say maybe the way I understood my life was wrong maybe my mission in this world is different maybe my mission is to give love to this child that's my mission so then instead of stress it could become a source of blessing and joy it still may be very hard but the perspective can change my tenure I'm crying I can't see my Zetas and Bubba's for pacer they tell me that I Shem is good he does everything for the good cause everything is good why don't we dive in that it should change if if people are sick and it's supposed to be because our Shem wants it so it's good so why are we Dominic excellent question the answer is it's good but it's not revealed good and we're Dominique were revealed good the fact that our Shems goodness is sometimes so concealed that itself means that we're in a broken world why can't our Shems goodness be revealed so weird a burning that iions goodness should be revealed we should be able to appreciate like we say in the ELA it's ours our tithe la nuit if that it should be toi one who we should feel feel feel the good it's very very good question I am 11 years old and live in Yerushalayim my little sister I love dearly I try to do the best things for and help her she never says thank you appreciates it makes me very upset because the lack of appreciation wow maybe in a very calm moment you can talk to your sister about it and ask her and tell her you know would mean so much to me if you express appreciation but it could be also that something is bothering your sister and it's so hard for it express appreciation maybe you can have a conversation with your mother or your father or both of them and maybe they can help your sister find ways in which she could find more appreciation but I want you to know my dear Allah sir your name is Allah sir from you ash lime I want you to know that whenever you help somebody it's a very very special thing even if they don't express appreciation so you're not only doing it to get appreciation you're also doing such a beautiful and special thing but yes you should we should try to work and help out the situation with appreciation can you speak about this I can't handle the guilt of making pacer when I could be helping Klaus all by saying tell them my entire life my entire life is making pacer now but that's not fear so many people are in desperate trouble I have guilt and much more than guilt if we are Claudius rather than one person synthesis everybody's similar and one person's pain shatters the world I depend on my inner sanctuary and I trust in a Shem we're completely one inner Shem why isn't sincerity able to change the world and how can I make Pesach and the answer my dearest friends is my dearest friend is of course we are part of Claudia strong and of course you should say tell him and of course we should say tell them but when we when each of us prepares for Pesach the way we're supposed to prepare for Pesach we are also helping Claudius you're all yes you should take time every day to darvon and davon sincerely you should take time every day to call people and offer help to as many people as you can this is very very important and I mentioned already a few times to the children and adults everyone should make a call a few calls a day to people who are lonely to people down the block to relatives to friends to people who are not friends to old friends and be there for them very important but when we prepare for pacer we're also helping the Jewish people it's like in a body every limb is part of the whole body but every limb has also its function so when I do my own avoid what I have to do through that I also help then entire limb you really don't have to feel guilty generally guilt comes from the ate Sahara from the ate saw time comes ideas of how to correct things whenever there's guilt it usually comes from the yeats air Hara eight four five seven seven seven four seven four seven okay we have we have forty seven forty forty six questions that just came in so it's now 519 we are going to spend the next few minutes till approximately five thirty five with answering questions and then we are going to go to answering our riddle and then we are going to say goodbye to each other so you can get back to your Davin in and get back to your learning and go to dinner and clean the house four paces and call people and be there for people and help people and celebrate your life how you can come visit me over there okay so let's go through here questions my children want to know I'm gonna give every question a brief answer and if you want more elaboration you can email me rabbi why why at value Sheva that net I'm was gonna remind everybody tonight nine o'clock p.m. we have a beautiful live lecture for people around the world minor o'clock p.m. on the yeshiva dotnet PhD ye Shi VA dotnet nine o'clock tonight Monday how am I at Pesach ten o'clock p.m. we have a session for teenagers not for children teenagers who can ask all their questions eight four five seven seven seven four seven four seven that's next Monday in a week column is at ten o'clock p.m. okay and there's gonna be a lot of more exciting stuff coming they will be all on our website the yeshiva that net over there everything is featured including all the old classes we have already seven children's programs do you know today was the sixth one in English and we did one in Yiddish you can watch all of them okay question number one my children want to know when life will go back to normal I don't know I don't know but it could be a while I don't know listen we hope for the best but we don't know nobody knows I D Williamsburg eleven years old I am so disturbed by everything that's happening my great great aunt whom I loved so much passed away last night lots of other people in the community passed away I know so many who still need a recovery life feels horrible I don't like what's happening besides the time off from school which I hate how am I supposed to feel how do I get rid of all these heavy feelings that are weighing me down how can I feel her sense presence when I'm feeling this way wow I D 11 years old Williamsburg I wish I had an easy answer for you I D this is a very hard time we all have heavy feelings it's very normal it's very normal I want you to close your eyes with me and we're gonna do a little meditation ID just a very short meditation to be able to help with the heavy feelings okay take a deep breath breathe in and hold it for a few seconds and then breathe out ari you could do this yourself too and when you do this try to relax give space for the heavy feelings it is very sad you loved your great great aunt you can't see you you can't talk to her you know that her neshama is alive but you want to be with her you want to be able to see her and so many of us lost people and this is very very hard and you're allowed to cry and you're allowed to be sad and you're a lot of grieve and you're a lot of feel heavy feelings because it's very very hard and breathe in and breathe out and respect those feelings but I want you also to know that even when you have those heavy feelings you can tell yourself that it's a very hard time we don't understand how Shems ways but we know that we're in his hands every moment and everything is with a purpose and we're fighting a war together and we're gonna get through this and it's important to know that this is the time when the true inner uid will come out in a time of war you know when soldiers are fighting a war and they watch their friends dying they can do one of two things they could just run away or they could say now I need courage now I need strength now I need resolve we are all in this together and I want you to have courage and I want you to have strength to know that what your great great Island wants from you more than anything else is that you should continue to smile then you should continue to love and you will continue her life through your own beautiful life yes it's not gonna be an easy pacer for any of us it's not gonna be an easy pacer for any of us but we have to remember two things we're always together in this we are united and that we're in our Shems hands he's loving us and he's guiding us and we're doing the best we can hello rabbi Bnei Brak welcome I'm a big fan you said last week that this year is the first time you and your family are staying home for Pesach how are your preparations going well my wife is at sudeikis god bless her and I'm sitting here and speaking to you and she's working but I'm still gonna get to work why do we say leshawna baba schleimann out leshawna's a bearish Eliab why can't they go to my grandmother's house for this dadam isn't it lil shimmerin when we say leshawna hobo we mean that mushiya is gonna come now and next year will automatically be in Yerushalayim it is little shimmer rim but they'll shimmer it means it's a special night for protection but whenever there's a situation that's called Isaiah meaning there's a danger in the streets then even on the ocean Maryam you have to stay home well Simran doesn't mean that I could be reckless for example I could run in front of a truck the night of paces well woman is a truck coming I'll run in front of the truck I'll say well sure Morgan that's not how it works now there's a truck coming the virus travels faster than a truck and God forbid if I mingle with people I could bring it to my bubbie I can bring it to my Zadie and endanger their lives you spoke in one of your classes they don't feel like giving speeches cuz a lot of people are suffering I want to tell you that I beg you not to stop my father has an ongoing disease he's homebound most of the time he only leaves his house for doctor's appointments your classes what kept him going for a while and even more now please don't stop don't think that the time is not right a Shem has given you the power to inspire now is needed more than ever thank you for the previous lectures thank you thank you thank you that's beautiful and please give my blessings and love to your father lady it's fuc five years old where is Hashem hiding Hashem is hiding right here in my house and in your house and we have to reveal it we have to bring in light into this situation I said we're going out of mitzrayim this year but we aren't admits Ryan Menachem H 7 do is physical mitzvah I am and there is emotional mitzrayim right if I'm a slave to a bad habit I'm in an emotional mess Ryan my house is very hectic I am the oldest I have a big family my mother needs my help how can I work on myself to help with simcha it's very overwhelming very very good I'll tell you you in the morning you need to take a little time for yourself maybe take a walk maybe do some exercise maybe do some jumping jacks maybe do some dancing maybe give a little run maybe just do something for yourself make a puzzle writer drawing davin learn listen to a she or do something for yourself so that you could be in a wholesome space and then you'll be able to help with much more simpler and if you feel that the pressure is very very heavy go take a break and take a little breath a little bit and take a nap or read a book and do some fun things also maybe if you like puzzles or you like to draw you like to call friends you could maybe Skype with your friends would also be a very very good idea if we are literally part of our ship why can't we perform miracles of Remi Rosenberg eight years old that's such a beautiful question the truth is that there were a lot of savvy como could perform miracles because they were really really in touch with the fact that their power as Hashem is power and they don't have their own power so I think the more somebody is really connected to that the more they can go beyond nature but the truth is every one of us can perform miracles you know what the greatest miracle you can perform us the greatest miracle you can perform is to realize that how you want to live is your choice your nature your habits your past your history and even being locked up in the house don't force you to live any certain way you can choose the way you want to live and you're not held down that's one of the greatest miracles you and I can perform because we are part of our shell in the last few months I feel less connected I don't know if it's because I'm accepting everything the way it is or because I became spiritually numb I pray and I learn with pleasure but I feel like there's less chemistry than in the past Daniil okay go with the wave go with the wave it's fine I really want to wake up early to be able to dive in and have a regular day but I can't well you have to go to sleep early if you wake go to sleep late you won't be able to go to sleep early maybe ask your mother or a professional if you can take a little melatonin or something else to help you go to sleep maybe you need calming music go to sleep early and you'll wake up early and then you'll have a much better day it's important to keep a schedule during these days our father passed away last week because of Corona we would like some tips on how to preserve a relationship with a relationship with him thank you well first of all I'm so so sorry hamachi menachem ask him a search are availa team yerushalayim it's very very important to realize that this is such a difficult time but here are a few things number one give sadaqa I guess you're still the middle of the Shiva right you're still the middle of the Shiva you still the middle of the Shiva I don't know if you're middle of the Shiva but to give sadaqa every day and your father's honor would be a tremendous thing there's a few places in the world where they could say Kaddish because they're quarantine together if you could rent somebody to say Kaddish for your father would be a very good thing if you're after Shiva learn Mathias every day for your father's neshama learn your father's and give sadaqa for your father's neshama and that way you're gonna have a tremendous relationship with your father forever what does it mean to be the Simca and not to be wild and frivolous last week's children's program last Thursday program number 5 I addressed that at length please go to that program because I addressed it at length 855 777-1727 EXT our ladies and girls allowed to bring the basket of bickerin vara Leah Cohen v Manchester I believe yes even the ones that are because they didn't why do children ask the four questions well we know all the answers already excellent question excellent I'm gonna ask you a favor dove at age 13 go to the yeshiva that met Pesach Seder section value should be the basics a dissection and you'll see a few serum lectures that I gave on this one of them is called the four questions are really the four answers okay and other ones about the four questions and I think your questions will be answered about the four questions I feel guilty that I'm so worried about camp closing because of corona when people are dying you don't have to feel guilty it's normal you loved camp and you wanted to go to camp you're a human being yes people are dying and it's horrible but you're sad about camp don't feel guilty it's called a human being a human being if you would tell me if you're telling me that you're doing the wrong thing if you're telling me that you're doing the wrong thing or another what somebody needs your help and because you're thinking about camp you're not helping them okay but you're not doing anything wrong you're feeling horrible that you're not gonna go to camp this year first of all we don't know maybe you're gonna go to camp but these are normal human emotions somebody says that they want to donate every single letter that's left in a cemetery that's being written how do I go about that Hannah you could send me an email rabbi why why at the yeshiva dot net okay how can it be an at his nephew is an a knuckle of the Medici wherever his name is lady it's has been such a sudden unfortunately not from his grandfather must be in a lot of pain listen our job is to bring together every single Jew and to be makar of every Jew that we can to either strike you know sometimes people grow up in homes it's not their fault how they are because that's how they grow up we are very very sad because our grandmother is sitting Shiva alone in her house for her brother what can we do that we can't go and see her try to call her as often as possible write her a letter that could be sent to her send her messages tell her that you're gonna be learning machine iose her for her brother giving sadaqa for her brother and just call her you could face time with her you could zoom with her use other technology the whole family should call her if she if she wants that if she appreciates it unless she wants to unless she wants to be left alone but I assume she doesn't want to so just reach out take a rotation you do it every morning every night try to call her twice again I think that will make her feel feel much better let's get to the answer let's get to the answer oh wow a lot of answers came in okay guys we're going to the answer for their riddle about the Busey bear celibate chick she was worried about three eggs because she knew something was wrong so he told her to keep it for the next day because he realized that obviously something was wrong financially okay she was stealing he thought she was stealing the answer is she shouldn't get embarrassed why would she be embarrassed I'm not understanding these answers it was a problem of stealing she wanted her to tell her master that she stole she stole a fourth egg so if she stole why did she come to him the Roth wanted to be nice and kind and take the lady's questions seriously to make her feel important but then why did he tell her that they can't eat it she wanted this should be Shalom he wanted Shalom bias with the husband but how would that make Salah bias because if your Chabert was the only one who understood that every child matters so he made the child feel special great but he told her that they can't eat it they can't eat the Canadian he answered her because he wanted her to know that when she has a serious question she'll come back to him yeah but why did he tell her not to eat the cañedo he didn't want her to feel bad he didn't want to embarrass her all good but he told him that he'd the Cannella he wanted her to feel comfortable asking questions good but he said you know that he'd the canal I pay people answers around 30 answers most of them are the same the blue eggs had a blood spot so he would ask his wife to cook more Canales then he was snitch and switch them with the ones that the girl cooked she didn't say they had a blood stuff you see she was told to take three and then after she took four perhaps the reason is that the owner of the house would be happy to eat it and would think that it was some sort of a logic ruling instead of embarrassing the cook and taking away from symphysis yom tov so he said don't eat the kanay that for one day so the owner of the house would be happy to eat it and would think that it was some sort of a logical ruling instead of embarrassing the cook and taking away simcha some tough in order to make bitl you need an odd amount for majority three eggs are better than four also on the first day we shouldn't eat extra matzah to keep our appetite for the Seder so you told it to come back the next day the chosen ish used to not eat two eggs together because zoo guys and four eggs should also be a problem maybe the fourth egg changes the measurements and it's too much liquid so it's not good for the canal on maybe the second night will be a different answer maybe it's zoo guys but we have four cups on Pesach so we're not worried about zoo guys as de cámara says upcycled ok beautiful beautiful answers thank you for trying now let me tell you what really happened when the wealthy Jews started to laugh and say that what are you doing what are you answering her he looked and he said to them you don't understand when a girl comes with a question you have to listen well her boss told her what to go make Nadler from 3 eggs she said I made four eggs what happened what happened so the base I lady said I understood what happened what happened was this girl was scared she kept on coming and leaving coming and leaving she was petrified she was intimidated she maybe never came to me to ask a question she saw all these people around me so I knew that I have to listen extra careful to what she say her boss told her to make cañedo from three eggs but she went to make it from four eggs and then I realized why if she had three eggs why would she get a fourth egg and the answer of course is because she realized that three eggs is not gonna be enough for the amount of matzah Mel that's there you need more eggs so she needed a fourth leg but the problem is her boss only gave her three eggs and she didn't have a fourth egg so what did she do she went to the chicken coop they act chickens and the Jews had chickens he may have even know whether they had chickens people have some of my neighbors here Muncie have chickens chickens lay eggs every single day so she went to the chicken coop and she got a fourth egg and she took the fourth egg and she smashed the egg and she mixed it up with the other eggs and the matzo meal in order to make balls to make matzo balls plate lock and then I realized her question Bates's Chanelle the be empty this was an egg that was born it was hatched by the chicken on Yom Tov and we know what's the halacha in misse-x the bait sir and intial Samaras Hillis jumped up what's that Walker an egg that's born that's boar that's hatched on yontiff yeah now let it you have to wait till the next day or till the next night to eat if you now let it if it's Yom Tov that came after Shabbos if young TIFF is on Sunday or Shabbos that came after Yom TIFF yup that was on Friday there may not tire Ian even a regular octave let's say yom tov is on a thursday you're now allowed to eat the egg that was no the beautif this is considered something that's moxa it was born on yom tov you not let eat it now you're gonna say but the egg was mixed up with the other eggs and a lot of other things so probably it's bottle it's nullified that's probably or maybe even a ratio of one to sixty but even if yes there's a principle and our laws are called dove our chalet mightier in a night bottle something that's gonna be muttered tomorrow there's no din bitl because you could leave it till tomorrow and you're not losing anything so you can eat it tomorrow since tomorrow it's not it's gonna be fine only the first day of Yom TIFF when the egg was born are you now let it eat it but tomorrow it's gonna be much it's not like something that's tray it's just look to today so therefore the base la visa tell her not to eat the connected a why because it has an egg that was now the beautif but tomorrow come back to me tomorrow come back to me and we are going to talk about it he understood that because of her shame she was afraid to say exactly what happened but when he listened to her question he understood what happened this was a beta should know the BLT tie you to kinder wash I love you so so much I bless you to have a beautiful young TIFF inspiring meaningful relaxing happy joyous and healthy stay healthy I know it's not a pesos but we expect it it's not an easy pacer but we are all united in spirit with love and with unity and with faith and with trust we know that there's a plan that's much bigger than us and much larger than us let's keep it together keep a positive attitude be strong let your beautiful neshama come out in the deepest way and if there's moments that are hard it's fine don't worry take a deep breath and respect it and together we should dance into a beautiful pace of Hashem should send a complete recovery to all those who need it and Hashem should give comfort and strength to all those who experienced recently such terrible terrible loss loss and Hashem should protect all of the Jewish people and all over the world and all good people in Eretz is strong in America in Europe and in all of the countries of the world I know you're listening in Australia night is raw South Africa and so many other places South America protect all of you stay healthy stay quarantined and may we be so sure that our ready for this basis we should dance together with machines at Kano BMAC of the carbon pacer in the base I'm English Ashley she with machetes Kano been here abiam a new may it be now mama sh our main King he rots on a good'n young turf a caution and a fray listen when a gizumon Pesach pleased you could come on the yeshiva that net to watch replays to watch previous programs to see the schedule for the future programs stay well stay healthy my love and my blessings are Goodin young turf