Searching For The Truth of Torah with Gorsky Kavkazi Jews Of New York

[Music] thank you for having me we just had an amazing Shure in uh Stan Island in Alla to be honest with you I was very surprised at the feedback the feedback that people had was amazing almost every single person in the sh took on himself almost every single person in the sh took on himself something to change to do something something to keep Shabbat some to late F and it's uh seeing hashem's work Mas in front of your eyes is something that you do daily when you do K when you tell is the truth and you wake them up now what's the difference between real kiru and fake kiru you'll find out tonight so this will also be for a to Leana but Sarah sah but Leana ra but sah an m benit also David benina for is for Roman Roman r r Roman all of you will find not only a perfect match but if you already have a match you find the match that's the best you find out that your match is already the best one you can possibly have oh and also now the goal of the sh is to show you one thing just one thing there going to be many many points we're going to go over I don't know what I'm going to say the good news is it's not up to me it's up to whatever wants to tell me to say to you it's called I'll say but there's one point that I know for sure the point is is that I want every single one of you to leave here knowing that tat m is a that the Torah that we have is 100% true why do I have this why why is that the main goal why shouldn't I say say uh maybe all of you stop keeping Shabbat maybe all of you whoever's not keeping Shabbat maybe all of you uh start uh protecting your Brit maybe everyone is going to start learning Tor why am I saying to know to is real why because if it's real only a crazy person is not going to do it if I told you listen and one hand I have a real diamond it's worth $100 million the other hand I have the exact same looking Diamond but it's worth 100 bucks called cubic zirconium looks exactly the same but one's worth 100 million one's worth $100 which one do you want do you think about it twice they look exactly the same though but you think about it twice which one you're going to pick you're in jewelry which one you pick $100 million why don't you pick the other one it's exactly the same it's not worth $100 million why because this one is real only a crazy person picks the one that's 100 bucks only a crazy person so the point is that once you know the Torah of mosu is 100% true you realize that to not follow it means you're crazy who wants to walk around to the world say I'm crazy I'm crazy who wants to be crazy even the crazy guy doesn't want to be crazy he doesn't know he's crazy though that's why he's crazy but nonetheless no one wants to be crazy why because you know if this is true I want to do it if this mamash came from hem I want to do it if there's a saf meaning if there's a doubt maybe he didn't say it maybe he did say it maybe maybe maybe then I have excuses if Hashem said listen you should keep Shabbat but he didn't tell us how then I could tell you listen the way I'm keeping Shabbat is by going to the casino I relax that's what I used to say before I did chuva I us say listen I'm not keeping Shabbat but I'm not working I know you're not supposed to work on Shabbat so I'm relaxing how do I relax I go play poker I go to the casino that was in my own warped demented mind that made sense why because the took over and told me that's okay how does the work I'll tell you how the works is something each one of us is born with already the minute you're born yet is inside you yet only comes meaning that by the time the shows up is already old he already has a lot of experience the only way you can beat the is with Tora the only way some for the Tora for the for the is anytime I mention or source that means it's one of these books there are many of them this specific book there's 73 different types so if I say something something I mention you one line out of a book so imagine what the rest of the book says the point being is is that he doesn't joke around he doesn't go for a little bit he goes for the whole Koopa he goes for the whole cash machine he goes for the whole safe he goes for your family he goes for your friends he goes for everything he but he doesn't start that way if someone is born into a religious family they're lucky enough to be born into a religious family he's not going to go to him and tell him listen why don't you stop violating Shabbat why because to that guy that's keeping mitv and his father keeps mitv and his mother keeps everybody keep Shabbat it's not in this world what is he going to do to him say listen okay you keep Shabbat okay you learn Torah okay you watching your breed good job but this bubble gum this bubble gum it doesn't have a kosher symbol on it doesn't have a kosher symbol on it do you really think Hashem really cares about bubblegum he has a whole world to run he runs sh just to understand what's inside this world is beyond the comprehension to imagine to understand what's outside of the world we don't understand anything about here you imagine to understand what's out there and he runs all of it your brain your brain has more wiring in it where if you took out all the wires you the whole brain is one big wire if you took out all the wiring of the whole brain you you could stretch it out from here all the way to the moon and back that's how much wiring your brain has doesn't matter if you're smart or not doesn't matter if you know Torah or not your brain has wires you go all the way to the Moon Hashem has to make sure that those wires work perfectly why if one little blood clot one tiny one not the whole thing just one tiny little blood thing decide you know what today I'm going to go to sleep today I'm not going to work I'm going to stop over here I'm gon to take a rest in the middle of the brain brain stops working the person can die in a matter of seconds one blood clot one not 500,000 one and the whole wiring one that same God that created the world make sure that that blood clot does not happen make sure that that cell does not rest so now if he cares enough about this little blood clot then obviously he cares about the bubble gum too and the problem with the bubblegum when it's not Kosher is that it uses a chemical called gelatin and gelatin if you want to do some research yourself you can look it up gelatin is made from the bones of animals usually the most common animal that's made that they make gelatin from is pig so that bubble gum that's so tasty and delicious you think that you're keeping kosher because you go to sh and you keep MIT and you go to and you learn and and you just say say listen yet says just look just bubble gum it's not a big deal it's bubble gum no bubble gum means you're actually eating you're eating pork that's the bubble gum yet doesn't come to you with something big he comes to you with the Little Nail what is it like one time there was a very rich guy and the rich guy he liked one thing all of us want what is he like like money he had 10 million he wanted 20 million when he got 20 million he wants 40 million so one day a little annoying guy shows up at his door he goes excuse me sir opens the door goes what do you want did some did My Chauffeur show you that uh the sign no strangers allowed he said no no no listen I told him that I'm uh I want to buy some real estate okay so go buy some real estate what do you want for my life no no I want to buy this house house is not for sale no no I don't want to buy the whole house I don't have money for the whole house I just want to buy enough space for my nail I have a nail it's a very important nail to me I want to buy this space you have a big house $10 million house there's more rooms than you can count they lost a few people in the rooms it's so big that lost and found Department in the house it's so big I just want a nail in the wall pick any place you want it's not for sales listen I'll pay you $10,000 just to give me a nail just to put the nail on the wall the guy likes so much money he's like this fool wants to give me $10,000 for a nail the house is so big I'm never going to notice this nail okay you're fool give me 10,000 no go go go pick your nail anywhere you want put the nail so the guy goes into the house he looks he looks he looks goes to the house okay I'm going to put it over here put the nail he puts the nail in the house and he walks away thank you very much the guy that's so rich thinks easy money look what kind of blessing Hashem sent me he thinks this is from Hashem the next day at midnight hello what do you it's midnight what do you want I want to put my hat on the nail my hat I finished using it today I want to put my hat on the nail is you couldn't come early no I couldn't come early I'm using the Hat how could I come early if I'm using the Hat now I don't need the Hat I want to put it on my nail listen you don't come at this time listen it's my nail I can't get to the nail without you opening the door okay okay no put the Hat on the nail the next day 2:00 in the morning what do you want my coat I don't need my I finish with my coat I want to put my coat on the on the nail bought himself a he bought himself not a headache a nightmare because the next day at 3:00 in the morning got worse now he wants the hat back and then the next day he wants the coat and he wants to put it back and the guy says no more we're going to bedin go to bedin I don't want to let you in at 2:00 in the morning they go to bedine the bedine says listen sir you sold the nail to the guy for $10,000 fair and square that's it it's his nail you have to open the door it doesn't matter when that's the deal after a month of dealing with this the rich guy says you know what take the whole house I can't deal with this anymore that's the the comes to you and he says I want just a little nail just a small sin just go with one girl one time that you're not allowed to go with just violate Shabbat one time not every Shabbat one Shabbat one tiny one just play with your phone for five minutes see who won the game won the game no Messi is playing or whoever's playing no one time check who won the game the score it's important to you one time you do this one time do this one time have this one time have that one sin but then he comes back because you gave him a space and he wants it again and again and again and again eventually a person gets so used to sinning he says you know what have the whole house and that rabai is how a person that used to be religious Falls to such a deep hole that he doesn't know how to get out of it because then he gets to a point where to get out of it he has to do something that most of us are not willing to do he has to admit he's wrong Shalom he said that when a person gets sick it's a mitvah in a Tora to go visit him it's R Shalom said that if you don't go visit someone that's sick you know someone that's sick you don't go visit him it's like you murdered him why maybe he needed some from you maybe he needed like someone to love him to someone to show that he cares and because you didn't show up he ended up dying because of it he lost hope so it's like you murdered him so it's a very big mitvah to go visit someone that's sick it's not just a nice thing to do we're not Americans a Mitzvah there's a very big difference between Mitzvah and nice to do nice thing to do means it's elective you could do it you don't do it you want to be nice do it you don't want to be nice don't do it mitvah means you have to do it it's an obligation so now a person gets sick and his friend he knows for 25 years forgot to go visit him a week passes two weeks Pass a month pass passes no one he didn't come he forgot and he finally remembers oh my friend is sick I didn't go visit him what am I going to do ah if I go right now he's already sick for a month he's in the hospital but if I go now he's going to ask me where you been for the last month friends for 25 years what kind of friend are you who wants to hear that so maybe he's going to get healthy he doesn't go another men another month passes the guy's still in the hospital he says listen I didn't go last month I didn't go second month he's still not out but now it's even worse now I didn't go visit him for two months he's definitely going to be upset at me who wants to be upset I'm dealing with my own headaches another month passes now I'm going to go visit him I haven't visited him in three months he probably hates me by now probably going to curse me out if I go but then I have to fulfill the Mitzvah I have to do this his battles in his head sad says the person gets to such a deep hole and is pride is so big that he doesn't want to admit that he's wrong that instead of going to visit his friend that's sick instead he starts praying that he dies he says hem I want him to die why if he dies I don't have to deal with the consequences I don't have to deal with the embarrassment that I didn't visit my friend for 25 years i' rather my friend die than deal with embarrassment when someone falls off the D they make a small sin that turns into a big sin they start with chewing gum and they become they start looking at pornographic movies on the internet the next thing you know they're married to a Goya or they're married to a they start going to one they have one drink with the guy the next thing you know they work for the bar they give a guy a ride the next know next thing you know they see the guy stealing say oh you know it's not a good thing next thing you know they become part of the job one small sin leads to another it says one leads to another one sin leads to another what's the reward for a mitvah another Mitzvah what's the reward for a sin another sin another sin that's the reward you made a sin we're going to give you an opportunity to make another sin this is why I never understood why is it that when somebody made a sin at the time of the bet mikdash you have to bring aan what does the cow have to do with it what' she do M she didn't she she didn't kill anybody you violated Shabbat by accident you uh did this you did you made the sin why is the cow's fault why you bringing why hasem is going to eat the cow he doesn't need to eat the cow he's eating cows now he's eating doves what does he need a cow what does he need a dove for what's theban for so there's two things we learn here number one we learn when they actually Slaughter the cow or Slaughter the chicken or whatever bird it is that's a kosher bird you have to see it why it's a reminder that in a reality for the sin that you made even if the sin is not obviously if it's on purpose there's no Coan they they kill you but if the sin is an accident sin is an accident you turn on the light on accident on Shabbat if you did it on purpose is death penalty there's no chuva in the days of the mikdash today there's chuv but in the days of days of the bet mikdash if you turn on the car on purpose death penalty if you did it by accident what's an accident you forgot a Shabbat or you forgot that you can't light you know turn on the car in Shabbat you forgot they said bring aan so why do I have to see it why do I have to see them slaughtering the cow because hasem is trying to tell you in reality it's supposed to be you that slaughtered that's the reality even though it's an accident Shabbat is so important to me even for the accident it's death penalty really what's the second thing we learned the second thing we learn why do we have to do thisan but we have to do right away because bringing to the mikdash was aah he said that since the reward for a sin is another sin before you make the other sin make a mitvah to break the chain bring the Corban to break the chain of sins before the next sins makes why because if you bring the Corban that's a Mitzvah if you do this mitvah it's going to be a mitvah that's a reward for you that's why you have to make a mitvah as soon as possible so whenever someone fails at something they violated Shabbat if they wasted seed they went where the girl they're not allowed to go with they ate non kosher whatever sin people make fortunately there's no end to sins people make all of us whatever sin you make don't listen to the Satan that pretends he only wants a nail go make a Mitzvah as soon as possible okay you made a sin okay you feel bad about it but to go make another sin is not going to help you go make a Mitzvah why it's going to break the chain it's going to break the chain now I'm sure that you guys have some questions I'm sure you guys have some questions that maybe you had your whole life maybe these questions you had your whole life I know that when I first started learning T I thought I had a few questions next thing I know I had 9 months worth of questions imagine how many questions that is how many questions can you think about in 5 minutes it's a lot of questions in 5 minutes imagine nine months worth of questions a lot of questions I didn't know I had that many questions I thought I had five six 10 minutes worth of questions an hour worth of questions a day worth of nine months worth that's a lot of questions which probably means that I asked the question that you have so why don't you ask me some questions try to give you some answers from go Ken okay I'll answer all the all the questions at the same time go next question I I'll I'll also say what the questions are too meaning he did cha after uh after then she then she didn't do CH got you okay next who else everybody else knows everything else okay I have this I'm trying to not goes and does other things and when you invite him into your house he goes and he breaks Shabbat in your house no like one time I went to my house came to and at home but not in front of you so you're asking should you should you continue inviting him if he continues to break Shabbat no I mean I don't mind inviting him but how do I [Music] bringer can you bring him here now can you can you bring him now can you bring him to the now I invited him but invite him again okay Co next question I'll answer all the questions the same time so go ahead no meaning what do you mean explain okay meaning to do CH oh if somebody doesn't do cha is it possible for them to go to gedan meaning yeah okay next Ken Bitcoin I actually have two videos about Bitcoin two short videos about Bitcoin yeah I have two two short videos about Bitcoin in so many words at the end of the show everyone's going to lose every penny they have at the end today everybody thinks they're going to become billionaires through it but at the end of the show they're all going to lose when that's going to happen I don't know I'm not a prophet where does that say what where does that say where does it say that okay so when it comes to when it comes to investing gambling not necessarily sometimes sometimes you have investing and sometimes you have gambling those are two different things gambling is when you have no idea what you're doing and you're pretty much just putting money into something hoping that it works meaning there's no real reason of why you don't know anything you don't really understand anything what you're putting your money into doesn't stand for anything but you're going to buy it with hopes that somebody else in the future is going to pay you more money for it that's gambling and the reason why is because in order for it to be classified as investing you have to understand what you're doing so if I told you listen you have $100,000 you have two options you could put $100,000 on black in the roulette in Las Vegas or you can put $100,000 into some business that you want to invest in you could understand in two seconds that Las Vegas is gambling and the uh business is investing it's also gambling you never know it's not the same no it's no there's no guarantee it's going to work it's not the same ging it's not it's not the same it's not the same level of risk but it's not it's also not gambling and the reason why is because if you invest into a business regardless of whether the business ends up working out or not you're still going to have something left usually you're going to have some inventory left you're going to have some uh you know different tools that you use left there's still going to be something left whereas if you put $100,000 into nothing into into some you know poker tournament or something then that's gambling and nothing is left at the end so it's yes there's risk in both cases but one is bigger than the other now when it comes to bitcoin people swear by it they believe in it like it's a new religion pretty much that this is going to be the new gold this is going to be the new dollar bill this is going to be the new thing why do they say this they don't say it because they really understand it they don't say it because they really believe in it they they say it because it already went up and they assume it's just going to continue but every bubble did the same thing every bubble went up before it blew up and as a matter of fact on the way down everything every time we had a crash in the market all of history the same things that went down ultimately 90% they doubled on the way down five times on the way down they doubled five times meaning the thing went from 100 to 20 then it doubled from 20 to 40 so everybody's like wow look at it it's doubled I'm it's going to go back to 100 next thing you know it just dropped again another 90% it's down to four four doubles again look it's eight W it's double it's probably going to go back to 100 no no then it's down again to one everything doubles a bunch of times on the way down but it that's what that's what makes people lose a lot of money and lose everything in the end why because they buy on the way down thinking it's going to eventually go up because it was there before people are buying into Bitcoin into all these bubbles because it went up not because they actually believe it's worth anything anyone that knows anything about investing and understands asset classes understands the monetary system understands investing in general knows that eventually this will be worth absolutely zero when only God knows it could be tomorrow it could be in 10 years from now it may go to a million before it goes to zero but don't pretend that if you're putting money into it it's investing it's not investing this is not just my words you could look at the biggest investors in the world whether it's Jamie Diamond from uh from um City Bank or it's Warren Buffett or it's a uh any any of the major investors in the world any of the major any all of them say listen even if we're going to put money into it it's a Gamble so that's that now why do I mention why am I giving you a little Sho about about investing because the Torah itself also talks about investing the Tora itself also teaches us about investing there are a couple of things I could tell you about investing people ask me about investing all the time let's see what the Torah says about investing SCH says that if you're going to invest if you're going to invest you have to make sure that you're going to split your asset into at least three different things at least three different things why if one doesn't work out and all your money is in that one you're finished you're finished two if one doesn't work out that's all you have and it's not that it failed but it's just not doing anything you can't do anything else you limited until it works out so so to invest everything into just one thing is not a good idea on another hand you have to invest into different asset classes so for example if you're invest into stocks into real estate into your business and also into Cash having some cash why having some cash is considered an investment it doesn't do anything having $100,000 in a bank today it's not really going to change value in a year from now if you have it in cash why is that still considered an investment why we learn this from yadik yadik not from me on Wall Street 16 years yadik how do we learn from yadik yadik got the position from par to be the visoy of Egypt meaning he was like the treasurer he was responsible for all the money and at the time when he became visoy Egypt was doing okay they had a few dollars they weren't number one in the world they were like okay they were fine but YF said listen we're going to have through prophecy so we're going to have seven years of good seven years of good business and then seven years of bad if I take advantage he toldo take advantage of the seven years of good and save all the money don't invest anything all the money save it save it save it save it save it because we're going to use that cash one day par says you have the idea you execute it and that's what he did all the money they made he saved saved saved saved all the food meaning saved saved saved saved then after seven years they saved a bunch and then times became bad when times became bad in the beginning nothing really changed people didn't make as much money but after a little while they ran out of the money they needed food they ran out of food say who has food yourik okay your listen you have food why should we die you have food listen you have uh you have uh cattle give me your cattle give me your cattle I'll give you food give me your real estate I'll give you food give me this I'll give you food eventually what ended up happening is the fact that he had so much reserves left doing nothing for seven years he was able to capitalize on everyone else's losses the way that the big investors in the world whether it be Carl icon or Warren Buffett or any of the big investors you guys may or may not know the way all of them made money is not through bull markets not when everything went up they made money by buying when everything collapsed to nothing they bought everything at that moment because they had a lot of cash and when it went up and all the suckers bought after it went up they said okay now I'm selling that's how you make money we learned this from the Torah this is not Wall Street this is Torah of course I used it a few times in my career but it wasn't because I knew Tora it was simply because that's what you learned from people that have experienced is a good right now no now the Market's a bubble right now the market already tripled in value in the last few years it already went up twice over went down now no it hasn't gone down it's still up much higher than it used to be uh so now the next question we have unless you guys have more questions I'll still answer all the all the questions you have more questions should we buy or sell buy or sell I'm saying you should sell but listen you're going to do what you want now there was a person that about 80 years ago said the following sentence it says without Shabbat there's no modern Israel there's no country of Israel is there's no civilized Israel there's no the connection the unity of Israel because Shabbat that's Israel you would think this was being told by some big Rabbi you would think this is being told by some big this is actually being told by one of the biggest Heretics in history when we say his name in t we say his name is why do we say it because went to the and learned a lot of T but one day he decided to let the in he started smoking cigarettes and soon he became addicted to cigarettes and he couldn't take it so he started smoking on Shabbat but initially he had some shame after a while he lost the shame too so when the rabbi caught him smoking on Shabbat with a couple of other students he asked one of the students why you smoking on Shabbat said oh I'm sorry for the I forgot it's Shabbat he asked the second student why why you smoking on Shabbat oh I'm sorry I forgot you're not allowed to smoke on Shabbat he asked bik why you smoking on Shabbat oh for I'm sorry I forgot to close the door forgot to close the door meaning this he wasn't allow he wasn't a liar but he was a k he was a heretic why he had desires he felt like doing it he wanted to do it he knew that he's not allowed but he still wanted to do it but initially he started with a small sin that became bigger and bigger and bigger and eventually became one of the mo worst Jews in history but still when someone told him in new modern Israel that they were expecting to start which didn't didn't start for another 15 years 1948 we're not going to have a religious State we're going to have a European State we're going to have a state where we're going to be just like the rest of the Europeans we're not going to allow Shabbat we're not going to allow all these things he said listen the real Jews they're never going to let it happen why shabbat is everything for them Shabbat is everything there's no there's no other thing that is significant as Shabbat in the entire Tah that's why in the Tora mentions it's 12 different times 12 different times that a Jew that's meaning that a Jew that violate Shabbat it says that he he experiences death upon death and is cut off from the nation so let's just run down what this actually means now you could only die once in this life so what is death upon death how do you die twice the Torah says one death is in this world either in the old days of the bet mikash andu they would actually literally kill the guy on the spot in the worst possible death penalty today there's no death penalty for Shabbat but what there is is that there's meaning the Heavenly death penalty AEM decides okay I originally gave you 90 years to live in this world 90 years you are now you don't want to do CH so you just cut yourself 10 years now you're going to live only 80 years continued 70 years continued 60 years continued you die like my cousin did last year on the second day of at 23 years old do you think he thought he was going to die at 23 do you think his father that has $100 million in the bank thought he was going to die at 23 do you think the $100 million is worth anything that his son is dead now at 23 when the Tora says K it's cor it's not a joke so first is death the first death second thing it says upon death what's the second death the second death means no but when you say to people that don't know Tor no it just seems like okay so you die nothing happens no next World okay so you finished this world you enjoy whatever you have in this world and then you that's it you finished there's nothing else it sound like there's nothing else no no doesn't mean nothing no if you really want to know the details of what no means watch the sh I made last two weeks ago about G that's what no means now there are seven parts to G each part gets worse than the other no means one of those places becomes the person's new home permanently not temporarily permanent it you want to know details you want to have a few nightmares to get some watch this but nonetheless it's a necessary sh for people to learn now what does it mean now we have death upon death what's the third thing third thing is cut off from the nation okay but you just died twice what are you being cut off from According to thear according to the Z according to the five books of Moses a commentary on it from Rashi from rambam and so on being cut off from the nation literally means that person is not considered Jewish based on Allah that person cannot be used as a witness in a Jewish ceremony that person cannot be used as someone that you rely on for Manan meaning if you have 10 people you want to go pray Manan you want to say kadish but if one of those people is a Shabbat you can't count them if there's one guy that's sleeping but he keep Shabbat and the other guy is Shabbat but he's awake you don't count him you count the one that's sleeping it's better he's sleeping but keep Shabbat then someone at some we violate Shabbat why because the one that's violating Shabbat in the eyes of hem is considered as if he's denying the creator meaning he's considered as if he's telling God hey by the way God I don't believe in you I don't believe you created the world why and also both PL mention it is in order for a person to understand the significance of Shabbat they must understand what it means to keep Shabbat if let's say for example I showed you a cup and I was full of diamonds and I show it to you I was like do you guys believe that I have diamonds here he say yeah I see it I see the diamonds it's in the cup but if I tell you listen I have 100 like these at home 100 cups full of diamonds at home you have reason to believe me why I showed you some evidence but if I don't have any evidence I don't have any evidence there's no Witnesses I tell you listen by the way at home I have 100 million dollar worth of diamonds if you don't believe in me you don't believe that I have it it's not such a big deal who am I if you believe that means you think I'm an honest person fine no big deal it's not the same with God when he's God it's a big deal if you believe him it's a big deal if you don't believe him he says I created the world in six days and I stopped creating on the seventh to give you a different day to give you something called Shabbat I didn't stop for me I don't need rest why you think I need sleep I stopped to give you the same feeling I had now since you're a human you can't feel like God but you can stop just like I stopped you stop you'll have a similar feeling of Theus of the you'll have a similar feeling I did this whole Shabbat just for you just for you I did it now you take this Priceless Diamond that I gave you and you throw it in my face and tell me I don't like it I don't like it that's it's very rude that's not a nice thing to do hasem says by doing that you're saying you don't really believe that I created the world in six days you don't really believe that I gave you a present you think that my present is something bad for you I'm taking it personally for that RAB he says that person is not considered a Jew anymore he's considered an idol worshipper why because the idol worshipper is doing the same exact thing the idol worshipper said listen God I don't believe in you I believe in this little statue I bought from Chinatown for $15 same thing in the eyes of hasem it's the same thing how do we know every single time in the Tor the five books of Moses every time it talks about shabat someone to violate Shabbat the very next verse talks about an idol worshipper next verse why because to hasem an idol worshipper and the same thing now to you if I tell you do you pray to any statues you can tell me Well you crazy it's crazy I pray the stat pray the statues I tell you some people say maybe yes maybe no I don't know do I have to say point is it's like okay yeah I violate Shabbat say wait listen the idol worshipper and the same thing the same thing goes with homosexuality in today's world of politically correct mentality people think that not only is it okay to be a homosexual even though it says in the Torah it's not allowed but you should celebrate it you're honest you should celebrate your gay pride they have parades for these people in the days of the Tor those parades would end in 5 minutes the reason why they'd kill all of them in 5 minutes that's in the days of the Torah unfortunately we don't have such aash but we do have a responsibility to bring them back to do Chua how do we get them back to do chuva by telling them the truth according to the Torah not only are you not allowed to do it but in the eyes of hasem maybe it's not disgusting to you to be with male and male and female and female maybe it's not disgusting to you maybe you're of a desire that's why you do it okay fine but according to Hashem and according to all normal people it's disgusting for a man to be with an animal every normal human being knows it's disgusting for a man or a woman to be with an animal if you don't think it's disgusting there's something wrong with you unfortunately 3 million people in the world 3 million people in the world are with animals on a regular basis today this is not something that's uh fart this is real this is reality 3 million people admit openly admit openly they're with animals this is the ones that admit who knows how many don't admit but everyone here said h ah it's disgusting everyone knows disgusting in the eyes of hem it's the same thing as homosexuality Idol worshiper bity no it's not quite the same why is it not quite the same because someone that makes a sex crime meaning is homosexual or goes with a woman that's not his wife and she's nidah because obviously if she's not his wife and she cannot go to the Mikvah if she's somebody else's wife you have bigger problem even the point being is that someone that makes a sex crime unless it's going with someone that's somebody else's wife if it's just wasting SE accidentally or if it's homosexuality then the punishment for it if they didn't do Chua in this world is temporary meaning it's a long time it's a big punishment but it ends at some point but if someone goes with someone else's wife or someone Wast seed on purpose he likes to watch these disgusting movies he likes to watch the magazines he thinks it's not such a big deal to waste seed like 99% of males in the world today is doctor told him he should do it to relieve his anger and his stress he thinks it's healthy and he does it on a regular basis well that person you should know in the about G we have a special section about him it's called the seventh level the seventh level the Tora says it starts but it doesn't end why doesn't it end mashia comes the world ends but that place never ends why that's a person that denied the Creator on a regular basis regular basis not like sometimes by accident not like sometimes I had just one desire and that's it that's a person that is doing it on a regular basis that's a person that needs to do a lot of Chua it's possible everyone could do CH plenty of people that have done Chu for wasting seed plenty of people I've had several sh about it we had one in New York maybe two years ago and a lot of people have done Chua because it's very hard the rambam says it's the most difficult sin to overcome it's the biggest addiction but you could overcome it why if if you couldn't overcome it hm wouldn't give it to you but it is difficult no question about it but that's why the pricee for it is bigger you guys want to be rich materially you guys want to find Zim you want to find a wife want to find a good one not like uh one of these uh prostitutes I'm talking about real tadik not talking about one of these people you see on TV on the billboard I'm talking about it's going to give you holy kids not uh she's been with half the neighborhood talking about sadik you want someone sadik you want to have material wealth you want to be happy every time you have the desire to do it don't do it and say Hashem I'm not not doing because I don't want to I'm not doing it because you said not to in return give me a z so I don't have to anymore in return give me if you already have a wife give me give me so I don't have stress from the wife and everything so then we could be together without in stress because a wife is not like a man she's not an animal like us sometimes what happens the man wants to be together all the time the wife she has to be emotionally in a state of mind just to be happy a happy unhappy wife doesn't want to be with a husband does doesn't matter what he looks like how doesn't matter if she's not happy she doesn't want to look at him sometimes what's the biggest problem in most marriage is money money is a very very common problem so you say give me not because I want to buy 50 million houses because that's going to calm my wife down she's not going to worry about how we're going to pay for Yeshiva she's not going to worry about how we're going to pay for groceries and then we're going to be able to be together so the next time you have a desire try this guarantee it works you try it on a regular BAS not one time one time you're not going to get a wife one time is good job one time you're going to get Pat in the back you do it on a regular basis you go a month two months three months 6 months a year keep going however long it takes I promise you I promise you I promise you today you see it on camera I promise you today you're gonna find a zag every single one of these people that's on this list if he does this you'll have a zagon you don't do it you're gonna find one of these type of women why the in page two a be it talks about a person gets a wife or a woman gets a husband based on the based on their actions if he's a sadik he gets a woman that's modest if he's a r he gets a woman that's a prostitute an IM modest woman why what do one thing I have to do why can't it be a sadik and sadet righteous and righteous Wicked and wicked why is they righteous with modest and Wicked with immodest what do one thing I to do with the other so rash Shalom explains if he's righteous he'll get a modest woman why a modest woman because if she's modest she's much more likely to be righteous if he's wicked he's only going to get an emodest woman that wants to walk around and show the rest of the neighborhood what she looks like naked why that such a person why because if she's not modest it's impossible for her to be righteous meaning if she's not modest she's guaranteed guaranteed not righteous and the same woman that's not modest is not just not modest because of clothes of course clothes is extremely important but it's also Behavior so a woman that likes to flirt with guys a woman that likes to have 500 boyfriends you know she's not intimate with them but she's friends with 500 guys that's not modest AB say is not friends with 500 guys on top of it a does not curse a Ben doesn't doesn't curse either if her if our mouth is like a truck driver you should know that same out's going to curse your mother one day too the same wife the same woman that likes to use curse words because she thinks it's okay one day she's going to curse your mother why are you going to make her upset you're going to get into an argument and that's what happens modesty is not just clothing it's important it's critical it's the biggest thing but it's also Behavior same thing for the guy the guy that walks around like he's one of these runway models with clothes that the titer than his skin his skin is already suffering says why do I have K this kid can't wear normal jeans he can't wear noral pants he wears pants so diff so tight I can't breathe he's praying to hasem why is it so tight why does everybody need to know that you have an extra chubby on the side why Why does every why does everybody need to know that you have love handles why why why you have to waste such time modesty is for guys too modesty is for everyone you have to look a presentable human being don't look at the Ofna of the of the the fashion statements of the go number one it's not modest to look to look like them number two you're not allowed to wear the clothes of the go not alled to look like them I'm not saying that you have to wear black and white not saying you have to wear a hat I'm not saying you have to grow a beard but you have to look respectable even if respectable is just a sweatshirt and normal pants you don't have to look you have to wear a suit all the time just look respectable no one that's really serious going to look at this kid with the tight pants that's uh pretty much I can see what his skin color is through the pants he's respect no one's going to look like that no one you don't look like a Jew if mashia showed up right now would you wear that showed up right now right now showed up I'm here mashia are you comfortable with what you're wearing mashia said I could smell you you're comfortable what you wearing that's why I S I tell the women all the time all these women that like to wear wigs that are longer than the their skirts wig from here it goes all the way sweeps the floors they think it's m said if mashia shows up you're comfortable with that long wig no one in the world ever says yes why everybody knows it's wrong you replace hair with hair you don't have to be a genius to realize it's not allowed but we have desires so when a person is told this severity of the truth when they violate Shabbat there if they still violate Shabbat that means they just don't believe you why because now they know like I told you there's two reasons of why people make sins one they don't know they're ignorant they don't know the reality they don't know the punishment two they don't believe if you told them listen violate Shabbat you die without doing chuva you're finished it's Eternal Gom it's Eternal punishment you want to know details watch it's called Gom by your own ruven go watch three and a half hours of nice details what happens to people it's not a joke it's scary I tell you personally tell you person I don't I'm not such an emotional guy when I was studying for this year I've learned about the subject several times not the first time I've learned it many years ago it helped me do Chua but I'm telling you honestly I don't know if I said this on camera but I'll say it now maybe it's worthed when I was studying for this you I was crying studying for this you I was crying why cuz I know it's oal I know it's oal and it's worse than the worst you could ever imagine whatever you could imagine that's bad it's worse than that it's not a washing machine like some of these fake rabbis tell you guys there no washing machine there's no washing machine in Gom it's punishment you don't want to go there it's easy not to go there just do be a Jew keep Shabbat keep your breit do some basic things you don't have to become RAB AKA just do some basic things things be an honest person be a decent human being do what hasem says okay he says eat kosher eat kosher why do you have to eat non kosher what there's plenty of delicious kosher food it's plenty he says go with a go with a uh a Jewish woman go with a Jewish woman okay it's hard to find but if you tell hem listen Hashem I want to do what you say because you said it give me a good woman he says okay you have a condition watch your breit if you watch your breit I'm going to give you a good woman you don't watch your bre why am I going to give you a good woman why you're not a good guy why should I give some some guy that's why why should I torture her why should I punish her I gotta give you want a good woman I'm gonna give you a good watch your bre and so on and so forth when you tell people this severity of Truth the the honest truth if they still violate that just simply means you they don't believe believe for them we have a different sh it's called proofs Torah proofs we prove them that the Torah is real to different things scientific ways rational ways and so on and so forth we have many of them online so for the guy that violat Shabbat you have to tell him the truth what it means but you have to tell him in a third in a through a third party meaning not through you there's aah to tell people the truth it's called it's one of the 613 mitv you must rebuke your brother but there's also a Mitzvah not to rebuke is a Mitzvah to tell someone is a Mitzvah not to tell someone how do we know which one is which it's a Mitzvah to tell somebody the truth when you see him sinning you have to tell him but if you know for sure they're not going to listen you have to find a different way to do it you can't absolve yourself from sin and not do it you have to find a different way you have to be smart you have to be creative hasem gave you a brain to be creative okay I told him 500 times to keep Shabbat he's not listening he's not listening so you know 500 one time it's not going to change okay you know what Rabon CD here there you go what's on it doesn't matter just listen to what do you have to lose you don't like it throw it in the garbage he'll listen to you give him CDs he'll do chuva he listens to it he'll do chuva there's no question asked you cannot listen to to the sh and stay it's impossible it's impossible only way stay is if you don't believe it but if you keep listening you'll end up believing it why because there's many proofs in there there's many proofs in there also aside from the the rebuke there's many proofs scientific proofs so you have to sometimes fulfill the Mitzvah of telling you have sometimes to fulfill the Mitzvah of having someone else tell bring him to instead of telling the guy listen there's a five minutes before the sh tell the guy to sh a month in advance okay but it's in a month from now okay I just want to make sure you're going to come if you keep telling them every single day for a month come come come come come five minutes before the sh he doesn't want to come but he's going to feel like listen I've been telling him I'm going to come for 30 days already I'm not going to come now he's like then I'm going to have hear it for six months if he told me to come for 30 days if I don't come he'll tell me about it for six months I didn't come so might as well go he go out of guilt get him to come now when a person does chuva the rambam follows what thear says and he says that such a person is considered higher than a person that's always been righteous higher than a person that was born religious into a religious family his father's a rabbi his mother's a r his brother he has always been religious Someone Like You average me basic Joe nothing just start doing CH start learning T starts keeping Shabbat start fulfilling in the eyes of hem and GED is at a completely higher level bigger level than someone that's been righteous their whole life why because the person that's been righteous their whole life it became Al like their custom just like the custom in certain places in Africa in the Amazon over there is to walk around with underwear they feel comfortable about it they're not like ashamed if you go over there with your suit they tell them listen why you wearing underwear they tell you listen why you wearing suit you're not normal they're not normal you're not normal to them they're not normal to you if you go to India and you see that these people every time they see a cow cross the road everybody bows the cow crossed the road everybody starts bowing to the cow then they wait for the cow to go pee why they collect in bottles and drink it you think I'm joking they Sal it the supermarkets check I have I have pictures on my phone they sell urine of cows in the supermarkets every Indian household has this in their house I'm dead Ser I show you pictures I have people that b my main guy main manager of team hasem team bem is in India he showed me pictures he said in a house in every house they have this in the supermarket they have this in the house they some of them drink it some of it put it on the floor to clean the house once a month right the cow to them is Holy the cow to them is a God so he's they're proud of it they're not ashamed of it you guys obviously are smart you realize this is foolishness for them this is not foolishness they're proud of it so we tell these people in India that shave their head in order for you know for their God tell them listen you know they're selling your hair and they're putting wigs on uh on on on Jewish people's heads with your hair that's a that's that's idol worship they sell the hair he says I don't care they don't care sell the hair I gave it to my God who's your god it's some guy that this and that some God that they created in the head it's idol worship they don't want money for the hair they want idol worship they're proud of it they're not ashamed of idol worship that's a custom it's a custom for them it became part of their life significant the difference unless they work on themselves on a regular basis by learning even if they were born into a very religious family they could easily become like a robot a robot that keeps Shabbat a robot that lays a robot that keeps basic level MIT and unfortunately in that situation that robot is not as great as he can be so if a b chuva guy started doing Chua at 20 years old 25 years old 15 years old whatever he started doing chuva and he didn't become the biggest in the world but at least he's keeping MIT he's keeping the basic he says hm said I'm doing Hashem said no I'm not doing Hashem said yes I'm doing whatever hasem said I'm doing whatever I know I'm doing and I'm going to keep learning to do more in the eyes of Hashem that person is much greater why because he's not doing it from a custom he's doing it because hasem said so he's not like the guy from the Amazon and in the jungle in Africa he has a he knows what the other side of the street looks like he knows the he knows what he can do he knows what the other option is but he's saying no I'm doing what Hashem said even though it's hard for me not to eat this and not to do this and not to say this and not to say that I'm doing it because hm said so in the eyes of hem that person's a superhero that person gets all the if a person doesn't do cha the question was can such a person get GED anyway can a person that dies aat do get G can a person that does not do chuva get ganed can a person that goes against hem his whole life can he get ganen and the answer is no it's impossible and the reason why is because AEM has a signature it's called emit emit means truth now every time you say Amen say a blessing after do kadish you're each going to say Amen several times that every time you say Amen you know what amen means really amen is God the king reliable meaning whatever he says is Adit it's G to come true there's no other way no one else could ever change it if he said it it's going to happen hasem said you do MIT you get reward hasem said you do bad you get punishment how long's the punishment we have a that details the details meaning that if you finish the world without doing the mitv that you needed to do and you made the sins that you weren't allowed to do there's no way for for him to change it why he's it would he would have to change the truth you would have to become a liar he would have to become a liar in order for you to go to ganeden that's not going to happen it's just not going to happen he's not going to change the truth just for you because then he has to face all theik that ever Liv and sayem how come you made us keep Shabbat and not him how come you made us keep T and not him how come you made us do this and not him what he's better than all of us he's better than mosenu he's better than RAB AKA he's better than he's better than all these people no if he is why why is he better and no one's going to be better than those people so there is no way to do chuva there is no way to get ganed without chuva and last but not least when a person makes mitvah and they have to understand that the this is cabala a little bit we're not going to go too extensively into it but nonetheless you should know the gets his power from both the sins and the mitv the sins and the mitzvot why the mitzvot give is like the fuel for the world are like the fuel for the world create soldiers for him more Creations to do his work now every time a person makes a sin different levels of sins obviously create different level of soldiers for the Satan but sometimes a person can make something that seems like a small sin but it's huge so for example somebody learns T they come to T and they think it's uh T is good they sit two hours they learned toah for two hours sh was good everybody's getting a little bit everybody's doing I gotta do tomorrow I gotta keep Shabbat I gotta keep I gotta do this I gotta do that everybody's doing something but then in the middle he starts distracting people he starts saying jokes he starts doing different things that are distracting everyone and all of a sudden instead of paying attention to to the they start paying attention to him now his entire mitvah became food for the Satan it became one big sin why it's better off you didn't come to this because at least everybody will pay attention so yes the Satan doesi from if you mess them up if you mess up the mitvah if someone learns for two hours and say you know what I regret for learning two hours I was probably better off going to a game you just ruined your entire MIT and just moments before a person dies you need to remember this this is something you're going to have to remember I can't remind you all the time there something you have to remember after 120 all of us are going to go to all of us are going to go somewhere hopefully it's all ganen but there's one trick that the Satan wants to come and he begs you to say you regret doing the mitv you regret doing it just give me your mitv no come on I'll give you good things for it I'll give you this I give he tries to negotiate with you moments before you die moments meaning that a person has a test even the moments before he dies that even if he was a sadik his entire life if he doesn't remember what I'm saying right now you can forget it you make that ruin his entire life and when it comes down to modesty as your last question then you can ask more modesty in this generation is a very very difficult Mitzvah that's why the reward is so big but an immodest woman cannot get GED even if she's very nice even if she gives a million dollars a day and even if all of our sons are sadik even if our husband is the even all the things if she herself is not modest she cannot get the reason why is because according to our sages more than a majority meaning more than 60% or more than 51% of the obligation of a woman is Modesty more than 50% of the reward for a woman is for modesty what does this mean y all went to school at some point in your life in school in America usually in I remember when I used to go to school many years ago 65 was passing if you got 65 in a test you passed the test if you got 64 it's only 1 Point different you failed so it didn't matter whether you got 64 or 52 or 12 you failed 65 you pass is it the same still still the same 70 and something most professional licenses so 65 you pass 70 in some cases the point being is this the point being is when a woman fulfills all the mitv she learns whatever she needs to learn she keeps whatever she keeps she wants to keep but modesty she doesn't want to keep so even if she gets a perfect grade in everything else and the passing grade is 65 she can't pass why because the Mitzvah of modesty is 40% of the test meaning that even if she's perfect with everything else she got 60 she still can't pass the test 10% modest that's 90% immodest the point is is that if you look at the Torah if you look at the Tora the reason why it's very important for a person to understand that the t is AIT is because there's no two versions of the truth it's either 100% true or 100% a lie so you're going to say to me what if it's 99% truth 99% truth is 100% a lie 99% truth is 100% a lie in the Torah in anything in life do 99% truth 99% truth is 100% a lie how so someone tells you listen I want to marry you my name Steve and the guy's name is Steve my uh profession I'm a jeweler profession is a jeweler I have black hair black hair I like uh golfing likes golfing I learn Torah here and there and all these different character traits yeah and you verify everything is good so far you had 100 facts 99% of them are true he says he has money you checked he has money in the bank he says he has black hair he has black hair he says he goes to Sho he say he goes to Sho he says he's a diamond guy you find he's a diamond guy he says his parents are this and this you find out his parents are this and this 99 different things in a right this woman is so excited to get marri to this guy Steve she's like this is amazing right before right before she's there the parents say Hey listen Sarah come over here I need to talk to you what we have to tell you something about Steve what we have to tell you something you may not know what do you mean I know 99 things there's one thing you don't know what could be such a big deal about Steve Steve is not really Steve Steve is really Veronica Steve is really a woman that's acting like a man 99% truth is 100% a lie one little thing ruin the whole thing if you have a bottle of water you guys are very generous you got me a big bottle of water bottle of water I told you listen this bottle of water came from the mountains amazing it's a greatest water in the world but just 1% of the water is poison who wants to drink 1% only 99% it's pure 99% it's pure though no one wants to drink why 1% is poison everyone knows that 1% is poison ruins the whole thing same thing with lies that's why the Tora says only Mitzvah in the entire T says to stay away from it everything else it says don't do it there's one Mitzvah in the entire Torah it says stay away from it not only don't do it run away from it what is it from a thing of Lies run away it's so Bo it's so bad it's poison lies are poison lying people people that have compulsive lies run away from them you can't trust them with anything you cannot be around Liars why once they lie on something small eventually they lie about something big so I answered all of the questions let's see if you have any more go Shabbat is so significant actually you know what ask more questions go more questions I want to drink some water there's no poison in it huh okay next go ahead I don't know if this is like this is go the topic anyway topics you can ask you mentioned about um about the weight being a good things you don't know there's that go right but like I like I was explaining to one of my friend um my friend basically said it's you know 20 20 years ago that might have been the case but you know XYZ wor it it's good but I'm like but if if 60 years ago was okay but we're talking years ago talk about it now where's the proof about like if somebody's like saying that business not true okay so next okay next you guys must have some questions out you got aot to talk about ask questions ask this this the opportunity I'll go I'll go as long as you want to go you want to go till the morning I have a flight at 1:00 in the afternoon I'll go till 1:00 in the afternoon whatever you want you finish well go finish I go get some sleep whatever you want he a question go go he hasn't asked any questions I want to hear your questions okay would I be friends with a drinks what does that mean a jinkx oh with somebody that has bad luck bad luck person bad luck person okay next how [Music] prot ah it's good okay Y come on let's answer the question you have almost 10 questions yeah let's go yeah we'll learn some things okay says that 99% of people 99% of people die from only one% of people die from a natural death if we thought about it ourselves we think it's the opposite 99% die natural 1% die from says no why people have people naturally if they're not anim if they don't make themselves Kim if they don't make themselves holy their natural tendency is to be jealous of other people so maybe today you're not jealous of your friend but that's probably because he doesn't have anything you want it's not because you're not a jealous person so if let's say for example you want to get a certain wife and you don't have it and he got it you could easily become jealous for the first time in your life if you want a certain business and you don't have it and he got it for the first time his dad gave it to him or he got it or whatever way even though you've never been jealous with him for 20 years you've been friends you've never been jealous all of a sudden now you became jealous now sometimes that jealousy turns into to envy and it gets to a point where not on purpose sometimes it's on purpose but sometimes it's not on purpose but it makes you suffer a little bit to see him benefit with the new wife the new husband with the business with the car that suffering is creating a say why is he suffering let's check why is he suffering they check oh he's suffering because Steve got a new car Steve deserve a new car let's see let's see Steve's let's see Steve's accounting you know what he's right Steve doesn't deserve a car let's ruin his car Steve made a sin yesterday he wasted seed let's take off his tires let's break his window you bring to the person through your jealousy so much so that 99% of people die from it it's a horrible thing only way you can protect yourself from It Is by making yourself a holy person learning doing there's different in where you say I am one of the descendants of yadik who is above and beyond and you do a certain thing with your hands and this is something that could help you with but in reality you don't know when a is coming in reality even that can sometimes not be enough why because sometimes comes from the last place you ever thought what's the last place you ever thought I'll give you two one of them is yourself exactly sometime you say look at me my suit's $2,000 my car is 500,000 my house is this this I'm doing so good all of a sudden you think you're doing good you just give yourself that good fortune that you're blessing yourself with you just reminded in sh whoa whoa yeah he does have all those things why why does he have all those things he just did this he just did this he just did this you bring yourself exactly obviously they know but you mention it it sounds different so obviously you know a lot of the things that I said but when you hear it again it's more meaningful I'll give you an example I had a today worth a million dollars today I was praying and I always ask myself you knowes today ises you start doing the you bless the moon the new moon the blessing of the new moon I never got it to be honest I never got it why there's certain parts of the blessing you have to repeat the same thing seven times or three times what hasem doesn't know after the first time you can't tell me you guys didn't ask the same question I'm the only guy in the world that asked why does I have to say the same thing seven times I said it once he knows if it's a new blessing okay fine I'll do a new but it's the same thing seven times maybe it says you know a uh certain part certain words seven times you have to do seven times why seven times why three times why have to make certain verses One Time's enough so I learned today I was praying it was something I was focusing on in the prayer to was the end of the prayer I was focusing on something I was focusing on so much I just decided to repeat the same thing over and over again over and over I said again again again even though it was only said once but I just repeat it over and over again I had the I said that's why first time I said it I got used to it second time I said it said oo third time I said it said wow by the fourth fifth sixth seventh time said wow this really means something hasem tells you to repeat thees prayer to certain verses because the first time you're just used to it you remember it by heart the second time maybe by the third time you should know this is something special so every single one of these blessings is significant but sometimes you repeat them in order to make sure you know that you feel that it's significant not just know there the good things and bad things that we do it's known in sh it's known in sh but your leaves your body every single day and goes up to Sham when you go to sleep and it signs off on everything you did it says yeah he stole he this he this he looked at the girls he this he did oh he did a Mitzvah he gives to somebody or this and this okay so we have accounting he made five mitv 500 okay sign off soul the soul has to sign off what do you think they don't know what you did or you think they don't know of course they know what's going to happen is after 120 show up to sh at the of sh they said listen you made all these sins says prove it it's a court of law you need evidence oh you signed you signed right here you made 500 of OD versus five five mitv you signed here 500 every every day you signed off how about 5050 we do 50/50 the point is the point is is to do as many MIT as possible to not even give yourself enough time to make all everyone sins to some extent everyone sins there's a where it says that there's no such thing as a righteous person doesn't sin you make sins the goal is to make bigger mitv than sins the sins we're going to make the sins but make sure it's small sins the mitv make sure it's big mitv that's the key that's why you want to that's the safe zone so listen you're going to do some you do some but make sure that the a are small small a I can't tell you small a start saying okay I'm gonna start doing this all the time so I'm going to tell you something some people think that shaving with a razor shaving with a razor is a small a a small a why just shaving big deal just shaving but to says somebody that shaves with a razor it's like he ate the blood of a of a pig five times can I ask you a question okay okay back in the day oh so back in the day they always had the ability to shave but in general shaving did not necessarily become a part of society until the last couple of hundred years most people had beards because a beard was a sign of Honor a beard was a sign of beard was sign of somebody he was somebody so shaving wasn't necessarily a part of our of most people's cultures even though some places in the world just some people don't grow beards they have baby faces you go to certain parts of Europe they don't grow beards they don't have hair didn't have a beard why didn't have any facial hair that was his jeans most people that are Safari that come from the Western World from from uh from different parts of uh of the Middle East we have extra we have extra but some people in different parts of the world they don't have anything fine but the point is as far as for those that want to shave there's always been ways to do it if you didn't want a long beard you could always cut it with scissors in all ages they've had scissors just different technology obviously but nonetheless when a person shaves with a razor and not a kosher machine say it's like he made five different sins it's like he ate Pig five times but this somebody says okay so I did it one time what's the big deal what's the big deal of Shaving if someone shaves with a razor on a regular basis not just one time every time every time he shaves you're not allowed to have him as aan you're not allowed to count him as a part of a minan he's considered the same thing as someone that's a why why why is it such a big deal why this is it's not my rule don't get mad at me why is it such a bad rule why why is it such a horrible horrible thing razor big deal Hashem cares about the razor cut has nothing to do with cutting yourself even if you don't cut yourself you have a perfect shave why the answer is and I'll answer your question the answer is is since making certain sins like stealing it's a one-time thing you went you robbed the bank you got whatever you got finished you're going to go probably get a job or something start a business if someone made an accident they drove on Shabbat but then the next day they did chuva okay they made a sin it's a onetime thing shaving is not a one-time thing for an average man you have to shave at least once every two days at least once every two days some of us in from the Middle East it's every other day at least some people it's every five minutes who knows the point is is that shaving is part of your life if you want to have a groomed beard or you want you want to have a baby face it's part of your life you have to do it every couple days which means that someone that chames with a raise it decides I'm GNA sin against the against the Tor on a regular basis he decides from now on I'm a sinner he decides to be an active sinner it's not like a uh it's sometimes I sin by accident I wasted seed by accident you know was in a dream or it was with this girl or was it this and it was an accident I'm not going to do it again no no no someone that shaves with a razor on a regular basis on a regular basis knowing that it's not allowed obviously if he doesn't know it's not allowed it's a different story knowing that it's not allowed and still does it can't count them foran why he decid I'm going against the on a regular basis this is the same case with the woman that's not modest a woman that knows that in Tor you have to be modest both as a man and as a woman and decides I'm going to keep the entire Torah except modesty keep Shabbat keep keep this keep this I'm just not going to be modest you cannot counter as part of am you cannot have GED why she decides I'm going to sin on a regular basis meaning she's making the conditions for God instead of following the conditions of God this cannot be you cannot act like God so when it comes to shabbat Shabbat is going to help you recover and do chuva for all of your sin not some of your sins all of them to such an extent that that the and also you guys probably have y over here if you look at the first part there three books of yakut English Hebrew the first part in the beginning in the beginning of the first book first five six seven pages it says all different Gul of Shabbat it says Shabbat is so big even if you Shalom were ID Idol worshipper at some point you went to a church and prayed to JC fenny you went to Buddha you went to India like a lot of uh Israeli soldiers go to India and they don't know the difference Idols no Idols they just start they think it's good thing to go and to India it says Shabbat if you keep Shabbat it'll even fix that sin it'll even fix your that's how big Shabbat is so Shabbat is definitely a helper for Chua now you had a question is it relevant should I continue with the answers I answer usually I answer the questions if you just keep let me talk it's but it's good you keep asking questions I want to answer what you guys want to know electric razors you should go to kosher razors or kosher I'm sorry kosher shavers.com koshers shavers.com and it'll show you the AL in regards to kosher Shavers and it'll tell you exactly which one to buy that's kosher or how to make the one that you already have kosher no what I'm trying to say is the thing on the back on the back of the thing is it kosher or not Kosher can't use right you have to use you have to use a kosher also there's certain spots of your face you are allowed to use a razor there's certain spots of your face you are allowed to use a razor there are certain spots you're not allowed to use it's over here over here over here over here but your mustache for example you're allowed to shave with a razor here to to groom it you're allowed here to groom it you're allowed but again you have to be careful with these things so you don't cut yourself and create different problems for your life in general you could do everything you want to do as far as you're grooming without a razor you could do it with the shaver that they uh use for haircuts with one of those buzzers even to groom your beard if you want to groom your beard to make it look straight and so on it's fine no problem but you can do it without you don't need a razor for that you don't need a razor you can do it with something else I grew my beard also I don't use a razor it's just not worth it it's not worth the headache or this or that it's just not worth it now can your can your do something for your cha okay okay he's part of the s so both of them not only both of us are sinners the barber is a worse sinner than the guy that's getting it because he's helping him sin and someone that helps another person's sin is considered bigger than the sinner I'm not asking no no no I'm not saying that you're bar I'm just saying whoever helps another person sin is bigger than the sinner so how about if this is his career this is his job change career or change the way you do things say I don't use razors anymore I use different things or use creams yes you can use something else if it's listen I have I have a lot of different people that I've met over the years some decent people some bad people at some point I met a guy that is I don't know whether it was during the time I knew him or during the after before whatever it was he had a different profession he was a sniper now since his job at the Marines was finished said you know I can use this skill but no one else is going to pay me as good as the ma so his skill was to kill people is he allowed to do it not allowed to do it even though it's a skill now to do it against God so how about he's doing for a kill go oh to kill to kill oh to uh to uh to shave to shave to shave to shave the uh shave other non-jews he's allowed to shave non-jews because Jews non-jews are not obligated by it but if it's a Jew he's he's not allowed that's the problem that's the problem that's the problem he has to make sure right in reality being a barber is not the greatest job in the world it's not the greatest job it's a very difficult job I know a lot of Jews especially in certain sect within Judaism that's the job that is but that's a very difficult job now you had a question you want me to continue saying oh Kaka okay soak can it help certain sins the answer is yes but only certain types of now a lot of people ask me how can I fix certain sins that I made in the past okay I did chuva I did Chua I start keeping Shabbat okay I did Chua not wasting seed anymore but the reality is that you still did it for 20 years so in sh somebody shows up and say listen good job you kept Shabbat for 70 years but for five years you didn't keep for 10 years you didn't keep so you have a deficit in your account you have to pay for that what do you mean I kept Shabbat no no you kept Shabbat for most of your life you did CH 20 years old you did chat kept Shabbat you live 90 years few years you didn't keep Shabbat you have to pay for that what do you mean how how why do I have to there's a deficit there's a missing part of the bank account the Shabbat bank account is missing so how can I fix it I can't go back in the future can't go back in the past how could I fix it same thing goes with somebody that wasted seed somebody wasted seed he went with girls he's not allowed to go with he did things he's not allowed to do he goes up to sh and say listen 20 years old you stopped making the sins but since the time you understood what it means 13 years old or whatever it is until the age of 20 how many times you did it some of these kids they don't go a day without doing it once or twice they don't know it's a sin even because the yes don't even teach this yes don't even teach this so they show up to sh and they say listen you have H seven years missing seven years you made a sin seven years every single day you killed a hundred million you know how many that is each time somebody ejaculates it's 100 million to 300 million seeds meaning 100 million to 300 million were created by that irrelevant those 100 to 300 million potentials what Hashem picked is his problem what actually existed is a different story that's a big problem why after a week it's a civilization after a month it's the whole world after seven years it's several planets what am I going to do for seven years here's the answer I'm going to give you an answer it's worth a million dollars you have a deficit in Shabbat you have a deficit in wasting seed there's a few years you you were making a sin before you did chuva you have multiple options with your everybody has to give everybody has to give M everybody has to be generous and so on and so forth soaka you're giving anyway unless you're one of these people that's so cheap that you don't want to go to the bathroom so you don't have to buy another sandwich but if you're a normal person and you give money to people that need and so on you have a choice what to give Thea money for you give takaka money to I don't know buy your friend some donuts at the at the Shi Tora okay so they're going to buy some donuts it's good good for you no one's going to help you in gedan because you bought them a donut but but if you use your stock of money to help other people stop sinning to help other people do chuva for that specific sin meaning you arrange 50 of your friends to about wasting seed the whole sh is about wasting seed you get 50 of your friends to come one of them not all 50 one does chuba one of them stops every single time he would have wasted seed goes into your account and makes up for it every single time he doesn't do it it's as if you didn't do it so now instead of having a deficit of seven years of sinning you go up to sh and you have a surplus you have extra years of extra mitv why because he didn't stop sinning for only seven years he didn't stop sinning for seven years and his kids are not sinning and his kids kids are not sinning all because you same thing with Shabbat you go up to shabbat and say listen you kept Shabbat for seven years good for you but you're five years missing you get a guy to come to sh at the end of sh he says listen hm's not kidding about Shabbat it's not a joke to hem it's a covenant it's a deal I'm gonna start keeping Shabbat you brought 500 people to only one guy listened one guy is going to keep Shabbat every single time he keeps Shabbat it goes to his account and to your account so now you kept Shabbat for 70 years and he kept Shabbat for 7even years he has seven years of Shabbat you have 140 years of Shabbat why because you have his Shabbat and your Shabbat that's how you use your taka money to help your chuva that's to use your charity money to to do chuva now when it comes down to the wigs yes go ahead so so there's different there's different levels there's different levels of MIT so for example there's something called says that two things are going to save us at the time of the mashah one is T two is so Tora means you have to follow what T says T says keep Shabbat you keep Shabbat T says don't was seed you don't waste seed T says don't gamble you don't gamble T says be honest you have to be honest and so on and so forth whatever Tor says you have to do like it or not is irrelevant you have to do it now now people confused why because they think that which means kindness overabundance of kindness is the same so if I take let's say for example I bring a Kala bread to somebody who doesn't have kala it's considered it's kindness It's above and beyond what I'm obligated to do so it's nice it's a good Mitzvah it is a good Mitzvah you should do it but it's not as rewarding as a different level of kindness Shalom said that the the baseless hatred that we had that caused the whole bet mdash to be destroyed 2,000 years ago still exists today why does it exist today most people think oh it's because the Safari doesn't like the ashkanazi the ashkanazi doesn't like the Safari this one doesn't like that one no that's not what we're talking about says that the biggest in the world is when one Jew sees another Jew sinning and doesn't say anything why because he has an opportunity to make the biggest in the world the biggest mitv in the world how tell him listen brother sister listen Shabbat you're not allowed to drive on Shabbat this you're not allowed to do this you tell them the truth come to I'll show you what to do I'll tell you what to do bring the guy to do cha why that's that's that's the biggest level of why because now okay you gave one guy bread get aah the guy has bread and he made aah from the bread but it ends at that point you donated a okay seph let's say it's the only seph in the you spend $100,000 on a seph t okay so they're going to use a seph three times a week on Monday on Thursday and on Shabbat on the average you have three times a week you have a mitvah for the fine it's goodah but it's only three a week but you have a guy that did start keeping Shabbat married a kosher woman a woman married a kosher guy every second of their life is a Mitzvah they're always doing mitv every one of those mitv goes to your account now what would you invest in kalal bread that saves his body for I don't know five minutes or something something that's going to save his forever giv bread is good but it's a five minute yeah well you can ask and then you can ask hold on go ahead okay set up why is wearing so important so I'm going to answer the question that question I'm going to connection connect it to the wigs also now is three questions here if someone says that 50 years ago 100 years ago wigs were allowed why they not allowed now first and foremost you should know wigs were never allowed they were never allowed even in the days of the gar almost 2,000 years ago they were always forbidden and whoever wanted to wear a wig didn't wear it for beauty the main the main sin of wearing a wig is because it improves the looks of a woman it improves the looks of a woman and an old woman wearing young hair does not look good why because she's not supposed to get the attention of Steven Carlos from the supermarket that's an obvious thing but anyone that wanted to wear a wig because they were missing hair either they had really thin hair or they had bald spots or they had sickness of some kind they were allowed to wear wig as long as long as the wig was covered with a or a hat so why would you wear a hat or on top of a wig why even bother the reason is if you ever had the experience of seeing someone that had having cancer they cover their hair they don't they go bold they cover their hair anyway why do they cover their hair because it's uncomfortable to show people your bald head it's not something that most people are comfortable with but many of these women wear wigs why do they wear wigs even under this because if she's just wearing a without her hair you can tell she's still bald even though it's covered You Can Tell She's bald but if she's wearing a wig under the MIT under the scarf there's that cushion which makes it look like she's not really bold so in the old days it was allowed to wear the wig only if it was covered by a hat so the wigs of today or what people wear today of just wearing the wig and nothing else that's it's been a for over 400 years it's been a debate about it but no one ever agreed to say that the wigs of today are allowed no one in the history even the laichi that says that wigs are allowed he never said that the wigs of today are allowed why because the wigs of today that are real hair which is most of the wigs in the market they all come from India most of them come from India and India does it as a form of idol worship people shave their head in order to give their hair to idols and there's a whole tractate in the called the entire talks about how you're not allowed to benefit from idol worship in any shape way or form you cannot benefit from it meaning if let's say for example you have a beautiful tree beautiful tree I mean this tree is worth a million dollars some of these trees I used to have a client he was in a tree business I mean some of these trees he told me are worth of Fortune you have a tree it's worth a million dollars some guy decides to start worshiping your tree he worships your tree you find out as after he's been worshiping it for a little while he worshiped the tree what do you have to do you have to burn the tree you have to destroy the tree why you cannot benefit from idol worship yeah you're going to lose money it doesn't make a difference why did when do we see this happen in the Torah Yeshua Bon when Yeshua benon that took command after to stop can you get him to stop you can't tell that person to stoping your oh yeah I'm giving you a very very uh very simplistic example it's not really that because he's actually worshiping at something that's not his the point is is that if it was his and then you wanted to buy it and you found out that he worshiped before you bought it point is you have to destroy it but this happened in the Tora when Yeshua Bon came to is was called can at the time and hasem said the first Mitzvah you have to fulfill is you have to burn all of the as trees what the trees do how do they sin says no the trees themselves didn't sin it's the people that lived here before you they used to worship the trees okay so it's they're crazy they worship trees fine let us at least cut the trees down make paper out of it or let us make tables out of it or let us build houses out of it let us use it for something good Shem says no you're not allowed to benefit out of you only thing you can do with them is you must destroy them so once a wig comes from a source of you're not allowed to benefit from it in any way shape or form so even though somebody could say yes but 50 years ago yes 50 years ago the few handful of Pim that said it's allowed to wear wig weren't referring to the wigs of today they were referring to wigs that were not coming from they were referring to wigs that were coming from simple people that were selling it one by one it was not like today that's a huge 10 billion dollar industry it was a few people here and there so no one in the history of has ever said that is allowed no one it's just there's no rule no rules like that now if a woman says to you listen I'm going to I want to marry you you're a wonderful guy but there's one condition you have to permit for me to wear a wig you have to cancel this you have to cancel this why why you have to cancel the why you have to cancel the because in order for you to say yes you can wear a wig you're saying two things one 127 Pim meaning the biggest rabbis in all of is's history all the way from today of Shalom to raash Shalom from a few years before all the way to Yan the times of the where they said that his Torah was so holy that one time in he started putting commentary on the Torah a but call came from sham and said who gave the secrets of sh to man answered says I did but it wasn't for my honor or for my father's honor but for your honor hasem and you know what's in my heart and I want to continue giving commentary on the rest of the tanak the B sh says enough what you put enough you're not allowed this is what we're talking about we're not talking about a local Rabbi we're talking about someone that Hades we're talking about someone that's spoke to the B not somebody simple he said it's not allowed so to go and say I'm going to allow my wife to wear a wig you're inessence saying that this guy that spoke to Hashem pretty much is wrong I'm going to go against him too that is craziness second thing when you tell your wife that listen I know it's not allowed based on all the evidence that we have we cannot prove that the wig is coming from a kosher place it's impossible to prove it why because every wig is not a single head it's not like one woman shaves a head it goes into another woman's head it's not like that every wig is made up of three heads three women had to shave their head for it so even if two women shaved it for whatever I don't know reason they shaved for they sold the hair and one woman from a not even one woman one hair one hair out of 100,000 hairs came from you don't know which one it is the whole thing has to be burned so now so now to say that that's okay you're in essence tell in Your Wife by the way honey if you bring a statue to the house it's also okay cuz you like your Buddha statue bring it if you bring your uh your missionary Christian friend to the house also that's also okay meaning you're telling your wife it's okay to go against God on a regular basis because you don't like the Mitzvah now what do you say about the kosher certification of wigs now when you have meat today if you go to the butcher tomorrow you'll see that there's different there's this place there's that there's different for the meat there's different for different foods of kosher many many different companies see like every week There's a new company that's a new M unlike that market of food in the wig world there's only one M there's only one company that says we kosher wigs unfortunately that company Isa why theya because the guy that runs it his name isah means it's it's not valid it's not valid it's not reliable why is it not reliable because the guy that runs it his name is gross Rabbi gross his behavior is also gross why when rash Shalom came out with information 14 years ago and said that all of the wigs that come from real hair are not reliable you cannot use them they're coming from a rabbi gross is quoted saying even if they come from a it still doesn't matter like he doesn't agree that you can't use it even though the entire Torah goes against what he says so now he's the same guy that has the Kosh organization what is this like it's like a guy that eats th eats pigs eats uh bunnies eats all the things that are not Kosher but use him as your mash for your meat he doesn't believe in kosher you're going to have him as the mash he's not reliable so even if there was such a way to kosher the wigs it can't be from him there really is no way because he doesn't believe in kosher he doesn't believe in koshering the wigs it's purely business it's 100% business and that's been proven time and time again so when it comes down to a wig when it comes down to that issue it's a very very big deal even though there are many Many religious Jews that are making this mistake that's the problem that's the a of this generation now the overall we learned from which in that section there's a talks about a wayward woman meaning a woman that's suspected of cheating on a husband now this woman was very friendly with some men that are not our husband and her husband told her listen I don't want you to be friends with these guys and she didn't listen instead of listening to what he said she went into a closed room with some guy that's not a husband and there was witnesses that she was in a closed room they don't know what she did they don't know what she did in the closed room but they know she was in a closed room meaning she suspected of cheating on her husband they would take her to the bet mikdash to the Temple of of and they would tell her listen did you cheat on your husband she says no listen you cheat on your husband they tried to intimidate to tell the truth did you cheat did you cheat did you cheat in the beginning is just talking to her in an aggressive way and the reason why is because if she admits she cheated then all they do is they divorce her from her husband she's not allowed to be with her husband she's not allowed to be with the man she cheated on her husband with and she goes away but if she doesn't admit and they catch her lying she dies so we don't want to kill you just admit and that's it go away we divorce that's it whatever you cause yourself enough problems but they keep trying to get the answer out of her because they don't want to kill her and she keeps denying it and they try to intimidate her by making her walk around the entire bet mikdash she gets tired maybe she gets tired both physically and emotionally she'll start saying the truth if that doesn't work they do other things to try to get her to admit eventually they say the last step is they take off a they take off the that was covering our hair why because that's the biggest and most embarrassing thing you can do to a married woman show her hair to the rest of the world why because thear says the hair of a woman is considered the same thing as her nakedness I'm Ain someone that understands understands what I mean by nakedness a woman's hair is her beauty a woman's hair is no different than her for those who don't don't understand her private parts it's only allowed to a husband that's her beauty so now they say showing her hair is like showing her naked so now after that she still doesn't admit they give her the water the holy water of the bet mikdash if she really cheated she dies on the spot from the water if she didn't she gets a blessing but now Shalom said something extraordinary but this entire thing that I just described to you this entire M of what happened she went to a closed room she was suspected of cheating they tried to get her to admit she was intimidated at the end they took off her and showed her hair and then she drank the water the whole thing now in the Tor there are several women that they talk about raish there's many women in the Tor they talk about them a little bit all of these women when they talk about them the mid itself it always talks about how modest they were how modest they were how they covered themselves how you because she was so modest and had she not only got blessing she got the blessing of having as a son all of has to be purified with all the give blessings Maru prophet of all prophets he's even bigger than the mashiah on top of it Miram Miram was a prophet and the mashiah comes from her from the seed of Miram page 11 so amazing family why because she was modest she had so the women of the Torah amazing things are talked about them and each one it talks about how modest they were so sh Shalom said there only one woman there's only one woman where it talks about how she wasn't modest there's only one woman that talks about her hair the the woman that's suspected of cheating why does everybody said want to be the W look like and represent the woman that's suspected of cheating why don't you be like s why don't you try to emulate why don't you try to emulate why are you trying to emulate the why do you want to be like the that's the serious question that every woman needs to ask herself when she's wearing a wig because when she's wearing a wig she looks like the Wayward woman she looks at the she's showing her hair you're not supposed to show your hair why do you want to look like her what if a woman is a hair style she does hair for does hair for religious girls the wigs for religious girls you mean wigs yeah I do I watch it's a problem and the problem is I shouldn't do it anymore no you should not do it anymore and the reason why is because you become a partner to the sin okay and and and if I do um a lady I do her hair but she doesn't cover her hair she just she doesn't want to cover her hair if it's her hair you want to fix her hair that's in essence it's allowed right if she the fact that she's not covering her hair is our own her own problem she's not fulfilling a Mitzvah she's making a sin by by actually having a hair that way but at least she's not uh putting something that's 100% forbidden and you're not a partner to it because in essence even if she did Cover hair she still want to do her hair once in a while so the fact that she's not covering hair is not really your business but someone that's wearing a wig you know for sure she's going to show the wig she know for sure that she's showing the wig so that's a serious problem for for women that are in that business I understand it's a business I understand people make money out of it and we don't want am is to lose money but the reality is that if you believe that God is the god of Israel is the only god of the world and there's no other God then you also believe that hashm is the one that provides youa and if you do something for hem where you give up on something that's not allowed in order to do something that's allowed Hashem will not only give you blessing or for that it'll give you blessing for other things that you want to do same thing like the people that are doing CH for wasting seed or for modesty or for Shabbat or other things when you're doing something purely because God said so you're not going to do this business purely because God said so not because you're not good all of a sudden not because you don't feel like it but because God said it's not allowed that my friends is the highest level of and that is something that can help people do extraordinary things next three important questions have to do the same thing real scenario married woman Nots it he doesn't know he find out later it's and she doesn't want to change doesn't want to change can't div her okay and also he does ofs she get all the good many parents getting older they want to see something now she she doesn't mean any harm she doesn't understand she and she wants to wear a and she says she'll so there's a very big there's a very big that is a rabbi but he's also before a rabbi even he was an engineer and I forget his name but anyone that wants to double check with me after I get home I could show you I could send you his video and he has a machine that he built that can show you your aura your aura is like a representation of the state of your soul your level of Holiness your level of sins and so on and so forth It's like a rainbow around you someone that's a pure person has a certain color of Aura someone that's a impure person has a certain color a different color for example if someone is very pure you usually the the color of their Aura is going to be purplish if they're really holy white normal stand of color is usually around yellow but someone that has a lot of sins with no chuva he has different shades of blood black and really really dark colors this is scientific it's not Torah yet AA is something that everyone understands is a really it's a reality of life it's not something that's a conspiracy of some kind so this engineer when he did Chua he decided that you know what let me see people's Aura and see how MIT affect the aura so he said when somebody I took a picture of them with this special lens with the Special Machine their Aura was yellow standard they fine then I told him go do go wash your hands with a before you eat bread or whatever it was they did that you let the diamond already it improved the status of the aura why they made a Mitzvah had improved it the shade got better it looked purplish or whatever it was then he told the guy listen why don't you do this mitah don't do anything again we're back to standard yellow put onine the guy put onine wow became purplish beautiful looks like a sadik he actually had put on a talit simple talit he became White like a perfect angel amazing you can see this all in video I wanted to see okay maybe there's something into the physicality of things the the the nature of it of what it is maybe if I put a that's P that's not a allowed not forbidden fine because the uh the scroll inside it is either missing or it's not a kosher scroll so let me put a a non kosher on his head let's see if that changes maybe he still has the same pure picture he put a non kosher feeling on a person and all of a sudden he sees that not only did the person not improve from yellow to let's say purple but actually deteriorated from yellow to a much much lower level like this person is a huge sinner the status of his soul dropped drastically feeling themselves were the same except the scroll inside was different obviously we see this is not has nothing to do with uh you know this world this is Supernatural he said I want to see what happens with wigs and K he put K scarf on a woman for a woman it's like she's putting onine that's kosher a woman that covers head with a hat or with a versus not it's like a guy that put on kosher a woman that put on a wig he said it's like putting a a nonos she's worse off than when she was not wearing anything at all this is scientific you have a problem go to him so now to say to a woman listen you it's okay for you to wear it now maybe lady you do ch if you haven't gotten married yet why get yourself into a sick bed why get yourself into a sick bed you have to understand that the only one that determines whether you get married or not is God not you and not your parents to say listen I want to do I want to get married but if your marriage is going to be to a person that's going to sin against hm on a regular basis because she doesn't want to keep Shabbat but you want to make your parents happy doesn't make a difference you can't make them if she doesn't want to keep she doesn't want to keep you're not allowed to marry her now when it comes to wigs when it comes to this is issue the problem is that it's always connected to kabad in many ways because kabad holds by what the rebi said even though they themselves misunderstand what the rebi said now I'm going to give you a proof that's going to blow your brains away to prove that the rebbi didn't say what he said to prove that kabad themselves of today is not following what the rbbi said you don't have to look at the books you want to look at the books go look at the books enjoy you'll find exactly what I'm saying anyway but you can prove it from the rebi himself how who's the number one fan of the rebi number one fan of all time okay anyone married here no one everybody single all of you will get married okay you're married okay normally in a healthy marriage who's the number one fan of the husband the wife the wife normally who also a number one fan of a of a person their mother in your mother's eyes you're an angel even if you're a murderer you're Angel but still an angel the point is your mom loves you unconditionally your mom is definitely not going to go against you daa your wife is definitely not going to to go against you daa so I asked if the number one fan of the rebi is his mother who wasik if the number one fan is his wife who was also let's see what they did in last week's sh you could watch it right now live on uh on online I brought pictures every single available picture available on these two women what did they wear they wear wigs no they we they wor hats or they meaning a scarf a head scarf of some kind meaning they did not wear wigs so how can we say that the rebbi said oh no where wig where wig no he didn't say it he didn't that's not what he preferred he even wrote he have letters from the re have letters letters from the Rabbi says that he preferred he preferred the over over the over the wigs he didn't make he didn't say outright I never saw that he said outright that wigs are not a forbidden I haven't seen that yet but when it came to to to the preference he says when a woman covers her hair with a hat or scarf she has extra blessing so the point is is to say that you're listen you're going to find a woman from kabad and she's going to follow kabad that's already going against schom and the reason why is because the woman has to take on the MIM of the husband not the husband of the of the woman not the husband of the wife if a woman is ashkanazi and the husband is spartic the woman as soon as they get married is now spartic she's not she's not she's not allowed to continue her ashkanazi Customs she cannot eat rice on PES because she's askanazi she's now what a husband is why because once a husband and a wife are together they become one not two separate teams there's no two separate rooms there's no two separate bank accounts there's no two separate vacations that's only in a secular goish world and is we're together we're together we become one we become a unit we're not uh we're not like the uh the rest of the world that the husband goes on vacation with his friends the wife goes on vacation on her friends and 5 years later they have a kid but it's neither one knows whose baby it is Masia maybe so the key is to understand is that we cannot start making sins and and hope that one day want to do chuva don't go into a sick bed if the person let me answer the second question if the person only found out that wigs are not allowed after the fact they're already married they have kids obviously we don't say go get a divorce just like for examp for example if a person did chuva after they got married they have kids and his wife doesn't want to do chuva we don't say go and divorce your wife there's a very famous story of one of the biggest MIM in the world which means is a rabbi that helped many many others do chuva before he help became a rabbi that helped people do Chua he was the number one movie star producer in Israel his name is uror and uror still one of the biggest rabbis in the world as far as kiru and so on he was very very famous as far as making movies they invited him to Hollywood which for an Israeli to be invited to Hollywood is it's like being invited to be a king in a different country he rejected it why did he reject it he started doing chuva he realized that everything he was living was a lie he started doing chuva serious serious chuva but he was married already with kids and his wife which was a scholar in university did not want to do Chua she was not interested she was actually anti Torah she hated it she refused to go to the mikve now if a wife does not go to the mikve you forbidden to be with her not only you're forbidden to be with her you're forbidden to even hold her hand a woman that does not go to the mik to the husband to her husband she's considered 100% forbidden you're not allowed to touch her hand forget about being with her intimately and so on if she doesn't go to the mik you cannot be together in any way shape or form you can't eat from the same plate you can't drink from the same cup to everyone else she's normal to a husband she's forbidden why a certain time of the month you're allowed to be together a certain time of month you're not allowed to be together why because Hashem wants to teach us that everything good has to be within reason has to be with with moderation says if you found honey eat within with moderation why if you don't you'll end up throwing up anything that's really really good you have too much of it eventually you're going to not want it that's why these celebrities have a new wife every month so even to be intimate with your wife you're allowed but there's a certain time in a place certain time in a place it's within reason half the month yes half the month no approximately so now's wife did not want to go to the mik so now he cannot be with her not only for half the month the whole month he can never be with her this continued on for a while what's a while five years five years he can't be with his own life was she no one but herself she was she said listen you don't want to be with me as I am I'm not going to be with you he came to his and he says for listen my wife does not want to do CH she doesn't want to go to mik I can't be with my wife this is actually one of the conditions where the bed when you tell them your wife does not want to go to the mik it says you are allowed to get divorced if you tell the M if you tell the bed listen my wife doesn't want to keep Shabbat they don't give you a get says if that's the only problem wait for her to do Chua tell my wife doesn't want to keep kosher wait for her to do Chua my wife doesn't want to do this doesn't want to do that wait for her to do cha but if you tell my wife is not willing to go to the mik they say okay now you get divorced why that's the entire marriage without being intimate at some point or another there's no marriage there's no marriage you have to be it's just it's just the the man needs it just the reality we have to exercise our love not just talk about it this is a this is a part of our physicality just the reality of life it's not a it's not a bu to talk about it it's real Torah talks about the to that does that to do not just for procreation you're actually also supposed to enjoy it too there's a way to enjoy it in a kosher way there a kosher way to enjoy intimacy it's a time and a place but nonetheless she has to be pure and the man obviously needs to know when and how and who and what can't do it in broad daylight you can't do it in front of mirrors you have to do it in a certain modest way we're not animals and we're also not these people that make movies kosher people does things in a Kosher Way with modesty but nonetheless doesn't mean you can't enjoy it so now the wife of U did not want to go to the mik cannot be with his wife he goes to his Rabbi he says Rabbi this is one of the conditions this is one of the conditions to get a get I mean I don't want to divorce my wife I love her I have kids this that the other thing but what am I going to do he says listen you're right but let's just try one thing one last thing and then if she doesn't do cha they divorced okay what do we do he says take the ramban book take one of the books of the ramban pick whatever you want take it read it on the kitchen table once in a while whenever you feel like you read it and always leave don't ever put it back in the Shelf just leave it on the table for what just do what I say just do know what to talking about just leave the book on the table okay this what he does once twice three times a month two month one day he comes back home and his wife says okay I'm going to go to the mik what what you say yeah yeah I'm going to go to that mik you want me to go where where is it tell me where it is what do I need to do this guy how they this happen how could this be he doesn't ask any questions a woman wants to go to mikve I've been waiting five years I'm going to ask questions why who cares why go to mik little by little he starts seeing she's doing CH doesn't know how who what when one day he asked a question goes listen I have to ask you why he says listen every day I saw you open this book and close this book open this book and close this book and open this book and close the book and then put it back on a kitchen table I always wonder what is he reading so much what's so interesting about this book I'm a scholar in a university I'm smart I know this what's he so happy about with his book so one day you weren't there the book was on the kitchen table I opened the book and she's a scholar she's not a fool she says I read a whole page of what the rambam says and I understood absolutely nothing but I knew that what he's saying is very important and I know that he's far far smarter than I can ever be and I need to know what he says if there's such people representing your Torah that you pray to and and learn and so on if there's such smart people representing it I need to know why and I continued reading and little by little I realized ah this is a big deal this is true he says today she's a much bigger than he is why sometimes people need to know the truth in different ways so if a person has a wife and he discovers that she's doing something that's wrong or he starts doing chuva after they got married they have kids already we don't say just go get a divorce and start something new all of a sudden abandon a woman with kids and so on in the middle no we don't say that there's certain things that you have to work through there's certain things that you can't work through the point being is that the ideal situation is to always try to help them do chuva even if it's going to take some time as long as there's progress as long as there's some progress as long as she's not anti Torah where she's one of these people that she's GNA smoke a cigarette in your face on Shabbat da to go against you if it's such a person then your problem is not is not the cigarette the problem is that you had schom bite problems before the before the ch because every normal person every normal woman every normal man even if they don't want to do Chua they're not going to be empty why because they love you and if it's important to you even if they don't like it they're still going to do it or at the very least not go against it not because they agree with it but because they love you so if they're going against it that means they don't care about you so why are you married to them anyway you understand so you have to understand that is a is the one that puts couples together if all of you are looking for a you're gonna get married you're gonna have kids that are you're gonna have a whether you're looking for a husband that's or you're looking for a wife that's you have to understand all of these blessings are only coming from Hashem only coming from Hashem now I'm going to tell you a story to finish it off it's getting late and the battery is dying also I'm going to tell you no we can continue if you really want to so now I'll tell you something I'll tell you something what it means to be is the same is the same rash that I talked about that discovered that the wigs of today are coming from idol worship one time some of his students found a bunch of papers where there was a very serious answer about Al about one of the laws in the Tora very serious explanation explaining was something beautiful it's like something out of this world to write the answer of why something is allowed of why something is not allowed it's not simply yes no when they write an answer when theim write an answer they give you all the different corners of why it's allowed and why it wouldn't be allowed and so on and so forth so real answer can be books not just yes or no could be a few pages could be a few paragraphs could literally be books so one of the Tom saw that there's a beautiful answer in but there's no name on it in so they brought it to the is this yours meaning whoever put wrote this beautiful answer not only a he put a lot of effort into it he had to name 500 sources you know 5 sources is it's not just 500 books it's thousands of books because you have to know all the things not to do so now whoever put time and effort into it at the very least you they would probably want somebody to know hey I wrote this book signed so and so they found it but there's no name they say is this yours and he says something legendary that shows what really is what fear of hem really is what being a is what man of Truth really means he says listen if it's good if you read it and it's good and it's true publicize it doesn't need my name who cares if it's not true it's garbage anyway who cares who wrote it meaning even if I'm the one the biggest Rabbi in the world raash even if I'm the one that wrote something that's not true who cares you can't listen to me anyway it's not true even if I'm the biggest Rabbi in the world if I tell you to do something against God you cannot listen to me why cuz he's God not me just because somebody said it doesn't mean you have to do it you have to find out what did God say what did God say what's his opinion if his opinion agrees if he doesn't you can't do it doesn't make a difference who the rabbi is doesn't make a difference if it's Lich or it's this one or it's that one it doesn't make a difference if it's wrong it's wrong if it's wrong it's wrong you can't do it we do mitvah because God said so not because we feel like it and now last but not least when it comes to the keeper when it comes to the last part of K of covering your head for a woman it's a sign of modesty but it's also a sign of meaning that she understand that God is watching like she's putting a roof over her head even when there's no roof there's a that's covering her hair meaning she always knows there's something above her hasem is above her same thing goes for a man a man wears a keepa not because the Torah says to wear a keeper the rabbi said to wear keeper why to remind yourself that God's above you there's a roof above you God's above you and really the real the real for example the r the and all of those their keeper used to be even their keeper used to cover the entire head they said listen if you want to really represent have a big keeper not like today where the keeper is like a size of a quarter a real keeper that's the real keep but if you have a keeper at least you know you're you're going to be okay hopefully it's bigger than a quarter as the bigger it is the better the point being is that it's important not because necessarily you're obligated to wear it because of the Torah you're obligated to wear it because you're telling people I believe in a Torah and I follow it I'm a Jew exactly I'm a Jew and you're proud of being a Jew you're not embarrassed of being a Jew like some people are embarrassed to be a Jew they wear a keepa to the B and they take it off after they wear they wear a keepa to the holidays but as soon as the holiday is over they take it off I have a question yeah somebody get into jail and put a in jail is it okay yes you have freedom of religion in this country you have freedom of religion in America it's not a sin it's not a sin to wear no to wear Keeper in jail no maybe maybe the crime that he made is not necessarily against the Torah for example there's something called insider trading insider trading means that you bought something based on information that the company provided you and before they provided the public and you made money off of it according to the Torah this is 100% allowed it's allowed why if let's say for example I wanted to sell you a business business or I want to sell a business and before I put it into the market somebody told you listen your own is trying to sell a business if you go right now you'll get it at a discount what's wrong with that what's wrong with that I don't have to deal with the headaches for me I don't have to deal with the headaches you benefited you saved a few dollars because of it what's the problem but according to the stupid US government it's forbidden how forbidden if you benefit out of something called insider trading you can go to jail for 25 to 30 years worse than a murderer so if that guy went to jail because he did insider trading okay it's it's not good we're not uh applauding him for doing it and going against the government but we can't say he's a rash can't say he's a wicked person so even if he wears a keeper there's no problem with it and even again even if he committed murder even if he committed murder which is forbidden by the law of the land and the Torah he's still a Jew he did chuva he said I'm sorry he's still a Jew so for him to wear a keie in jail is not a problem at all he should wear keeper you should wear a keeper because people especially criminals especially criminals especially people from the underworld respect men of religion they respect men of religion the people that they hate usually are molesters and rapers those people usually get tortured in jail go ahead can I ask a question he went to deal for something for tax for tax evasion yeah well I mean that's well no he he he got it was like a kangaroo it started with tax evasion and then it went into employment issues okay no what's the question itself you have you have you have a rightous person that was basically like the whole the whole case was like garbage okay he didn't get released he got he got right he got right so the whole thing with Trump what's the question he still still a right what's the question what's the question we don't have to go over the whole case cuz doesn't make a difference what's the question itself he it says in the Torah that you're supposed to pay your taxes technically but if it shows up that that the judge and the prosecutor were in on then technically the case is right but since we're living in you're asking about respecting the law of the land yes no and so that's what you're asking in so many words I'm saying if there's if there's collusion between can prosecute on Judge which there was in this case so here's the thing this is the reason why Jews in general if let's say two Jews have a problem for example I was at the bed yesterday because two of my students converted to Judaism and uh to convert to Judaism you has to go to the bed they both decided to become Jews they were they were born go after learning Tor and learning about the truth of the Torah they not only wanted to be Jews they wanted to be holy Jews they follow the whole and yesterday did the last step of becoming Jews you go you you asked questions in front of the bedin which is three judges three rabbis after that if the man has already done a bre then they usually do something called which is to uh generate some small amount of blood out of that area of the body then after that they go into the mikve they do a blessing they are Jews they get from and they become Jews and according to the r it says that that person becomes has a of a baby meaning he's considered zero years old that day that's his new birthday even if he's 50 he's zero years old and say that the Satan was given a significant power he was given prisoners prison he was given prisoners who are these prisoners big special that could change the world that could change the world and he has them as prisoners who are they the converts the righteous converts meaning every time there's a serious righteous convert that converts to Judaism he was actually a prisoner of the Satan himself his whole life could have been for 5,000 years could have been for 5,000 years a prison of the Satan G after G after G why how do we know this the most significant people of is many of them have come from converts Ruth which the mashia comes from R and so on and so forth many many righteous converts many righteous converts were like the leaders of including all the P you have in your Tora isos and so on and so forth so this person decided to be a Jew now I was in a bed it was a very very successful day but after that I saw that there was a case somebody came to the bed for a different reason there was a case a business case one guy did business with another guy and the contractor didn't do what he was supposed to do the other guy sued him and so on and so forth and they came to the bed they came to these rabbis Hey listen he did this he did this show me the evidence show me the evidence and they ruled in favor of the defendant actually in this case now a Jew that has a problem with another Jew when it comes to money issues all other issues is obligated to do everything they possibly can to go to a bed you're not allowed to go to a regular Court to sue another Jew why because the regular Court of the land is not going to follow the Torah it's not going to follow the torat so you're only allow to go to a regular court if you have no choice meaning if you invite them to the bed and they don't go because the bedin is not the law of the land so don't technically have to listen or you went to a bed and you won and he still doesn't want to pay he doesn't want to listen to the rabbis then you have to go to a regular Court you have no choice but if you have a choice you have to go to a bed so this is something that people need to understand when it comes down to the bed this is not just a uh this is a very significant part of our tah so to make sure that each and every single one of our issues whether it be business issues family issues this issue and that issue it always says make yourself a rabbi sometime the rabbi is the local Rabbi that gets you to come to sometimes your Rabbi is the rabbi that's going to give you give you Le you wake up a little bit you start doing CH and get yourself in a much better position than you are today sometimes your Rabbi is the bed because you need it because somebody cheated you somebody was dishonest so you go to him and say listen he was dishonest Rabbi okay fine to Tor to Tor we use the Torah as our guide book as our guide book what you do what you do what you do what you do right but the reality is is that in today's world the regular court system the secular court system rules the land so when you have the you're obligated to follow the regular regular rules regardless you're not allowed to openly go against it meaning if the government says that you have to pay taxes you have to pay taxes you're not allow to just go against the government just because you feel like it if the government says you have to drive 65 mil hour you have to drive 65 mil hour that's what it says in the Torah it says in the Torah why because that's the law of the land and not allowed to go against the law of the land in the name of the Torah because Tor says you have to respect the law of the land unless the law of the land goes against the Torah meaning if the law of the land wherever land you live in whatever wherever you live in if you don't like if you don't like the land you live in go somewhere else but there's an exception what's the exception if the law of the land for example if America decides that you have to be an idol worshipper to live here you want to live here you have to be an idol worshipper that law goes against the Torah you're not allowed to follow it you're not allowed to follow it even though it's a law of the land all the uh there's a new rule in America that prostitution is legal you're not allowed to follow this law even though it's their law it goes against the Torah it goes against the Torah even though gambling is legal in certain parts of America America it's legal you're still not allowed to gamble why it's against the Torah so just because the law of the land is the law of the land doesn't mean you automatically follow it just because it's not doesn't mean you automatically don't follow the point is that that's why you need to learn toah you need to know what to do what not to do what to do what not to do and always double check with your Rabbi yeah this wig is a real problem it woman wig and or in my opinion or whose opinion no my opinion is irrelevant if I'm telling you my opinion I'm going to tell you what Hashem says meaning my opinion meaning you want to know what I say you want to know what other rabbis say other rabbis say what they believe they believe that the wigs are Kosher therefore they're going to tell you why you even telling them to take off the wig but when it comes down to idol worship and I'm telling you that I did for profession my living for almost 20 years I was an expert research on Wall Street I researched Industries markets companies and so on and so forth businesses that's what I did for a living so I know a little bit about research and I did research on the wigs and based on everything that I looked at it's impossible for there to be such a thing as a kosher wig impossible it's impossible for there to be a kosher week impossible why because there's no no way for you to track the source there's no way for you to track the source and since the majority of the source comes from idol worship no wig is reliable so if you're asking me based on based on the information that we have and believe in our hands that since it's impossible to have a kosha wig a wig that's if there was going to be such a thing as a kosher wig then it would be a wig that obviously is not connected to idolatry it's impossible to know that for sure for me to tell you that it's okay for someone to wear something that's possibly idol worship is crazy which means it's better off for not to wear anything who says he doesn't get any because most rabbis believes the wigs are okay anyway you have to you have to ask the people that say wigs are not allowed you have to look at the books of RA you have to look at the books of RA mutapi you have to look at the books of the uh of the Babas Sali you have to look at the books of the people that say it's not allow which is most of the P not some local Rabbi look at the books look at the actual books not local rabbis not even me go look at the books look what the books actually say about it what they say about wigs forget about speaking to rabbis look at the books the books not the people that have yet I'm talking about the books what they wrote in books what they say in books not allowed not allowed even with without it's not allowed wigs are not allowed in any way shape or form it's not allow nonsense his mother and his wife I know what they say I know I know this I've been dealing with for a few years this is not the first time I heard this his mother and his wife both wore of hat or a scarf if he really believe that the wig is that much better why AR they wear wigs why AR they wear wigs if there was that much better wouldn't his wife wear wear a wig wouldn't his mother wear a wig if it was so much better huh but it's a husband you're not going to go against your husband she lived in America most of her life she didn't live in Russia the grandmother the grandmother lived in America lived in America most of our life you didn't live in Russia most of her life either way the point is you're not going to you're not going to do something that's daa against your son when your son is the uh so important regardless of that again if you're sapharic there's no such thing as holding by kabad regardless if you are looking for the truth there's no way that you could follow any of these issues when it comes to wigs but either way either way either way when it comes down to the Torah itself you have to double check everything if Shalom somebody got a pain on their side and a doctor said listen I see something in your blood maybe you have something immediately you're going to go double check with 50 people immediately you're going to go double check with this doctor that doctor that doctor do you're not going to take his word for it you're going to double check with 500 different opinions if you can why you don't like the answer why it's your body so how come with your body you going to check with 500 people to double check to double check but with your no he said it therefore it's okay one opinion takes care of her makes her laugh provides her what she needs is nice to her is kind to her she's not going to want to wear wig and the reason why is because the only reason any woman in the world any woman no exceptions only reason any woman in the world wears any of these pretty wigs to make them look like just came off the runway show is not because of a husband has nothing to do with a husband only woman any any reason any woman will wears a wig is because she wants everyone else to look at her which by default by default by default means it's a sin why she wants other people's attention it's not a modest thing she can say what she wants to say until next year that just means she's a liar too that's all it means that she's a liar too to say that she's wearing the wig because of her husband means she's simply a liar because she's not with her husband all day she's not with her husband all day okay so let's say when you're with me wear the wig when you're not with me wear the no no no I'm going to wear the wig the whole time why you wearing the wig the whole time if you're not with me all day she wants to feel good okay so that's also husband wants look good yes do CH her HBS okay so no one says she has to look like an ugly person why does everybody think that is ugly also I know a lot of women that shave their head like they do L sill yeah they take off and then they put a wig yeah and they they cover why because they said it's itches and it's how can a husband be attractive to the woman with no hair that's part of their custom first of all so it's the same thing that if you look at videos from the Discovery Channel uh of let's say people of the Amazon people of different places in the world that live in a jungle somewhere these people have different Customs they put these earrings that make holes in their ears and make him Flappy or they put these necklaces that make their legs extra long and their husbands love it why cuz it's acceptable upon them same thing with the customs of the Jews some things some parts of the Jewish Nation have certain Customs it's it's beauty is the be eye of the holder now when it comes down to a woman let me show you exactly why every single woman in the world that wants to look good wants to look good is not doing it for a husband and I don't mean she wants she needs to look ugly I don't mean that but I mean she wants to make sure that she looks like the go she has her hair out with it's wig or non wig is irrelevant she wants to have sex clothing on and so on and so forth it could be one of those things it could be all of them it's all the same thing how do we know this for sure if the woman was instead if if the woman let's say for example she went on a one of these kosher cruises and the kosher Cruise stopped at an island they visited an island and they left and they left her there meaning there's nothing there other than monkeys giraffes maybe some elephants there's nothing our next door neighbor a monkey the other one's a gorilla and so on and all she has is a suitcase her suitcase has the mini dresses and the tank tops and this and that or it has the sweatpants and a sweatshirt what is she wearing every day is she wearing a sweatshirt and the sweatpants that covers her entire body and is not really attractive or is she wearing the mini skirts in the high heels why she wants to look good Ah that's the point if there's no one there then I don't care if I look good the question is why do you need anyone else other than your husband to think you look good if you want other people to make to know that you look good that means you're making a sin of IM modesty you want other men to look at you you're a prostitute you're not a wife want it for herself as it for herself we just proved it it's not we just proved it for not she's not a wife she was she has five husbands Carlos Steve and and Wilbur from the supermarket also husbands also why does she want why does she want other men to look at her different people different things it could take anywhere from 6 months to 600 years depends on how ious the people are some people these specific people this specific people uh the ones that my students do or just in general again it all depends all depends on how serious that person is how smart that person is how they are ready to commit so converting to Judaism no converting in Judaism requires two things it requires number one to understand the basics of what it means to be a Jew that you have to learn T they have to fulfill the mitv you have to keep Shabbat you have to be modest and so on basic level of mitv and you have to do them you have to be able to do them meaning you cannot do them if you live on an island by yourself like this woman that was left with the cruise you have to be a Jew in a Jewish Community meaning they most of them have to move to Jewish Community most of them have to buy kosher clothes and and Modesto and so on and so forth so you have to be able to know and do yes before getting the before getting to the final step of the conversion they have to be able to they can keep 99% of Shabbat right but if you learn Shabbat if you learn the laws of Shabbat then you know how to keep Shabbat if you don't learn Shabbat then you're definitely violating Shabbat so that's why it's very important to learn to not how to keep it no not necessarily if you commit if you committed if you're committed and you pray to hm to help you learn if you're committed you learn every day a little bit every day a little bit you learn Alat every day you take the you learn every every day a couple of within a couple of years you're going to know everything you need to know about Shabbat everything you need to know it's not a lifetime and don't don't cut yourself short you guys are smart you guys can do a lot more than you can imagine especially since if you really really want it Hashem can open up your brain and make sure you know everything you need to know just got to try yeah conversion no once if the original conversion if the original conversion is legitimate meaning they converted for the right reasons then they're considered 100% a Jew that's actually considered higher than you and me they're actually considered higher than you and me they just then just then being then they're being punished as a Jew that's AEL yeah that's even worse so they were better off staying as a don't do that they better I mean either way they're punished but as a Jew they're punished much worse what if if you're non-jew then you then you're obligated to learn and know the seven laws of Noah if you're a non-jew but if you're a Jew that's not your option huh no you get a reward you get but it's not the same level it's not the same level it's like for example it's like comparing the seven laws of Noah that someone gets ganeden it's like they get let's say this world and a Jew that keeps the mitv gets the entire universe times a million so yes it's good you have the whole world you're rich but then the other one is it's no comparison so that's the difference it's good but it's not the same yeah know know a guy then gotri he after started we scar right right no we SK poor guy yeah so he he said like if somebody say he starts became a heretic openly no go ahead so I was thinking like is there Mercy in sh on such a person huh are you asking if there's Mercy in sh for somebody like that or you asking if Mercy uh yeah he's still alive so he's still being given time to do chuva for all the sins that he's making but if he doesn't do chuva then there is no mercy such a p such a person will go and be punished permanently and he starts promoting yeah he's considered a mean and he considered somebody is considered somebody that is trying to get other people to uh to go against hem which makes him worse worse than an idol worshipper such a person you're not allowed to be within six feet of him you're not even allowed to stand next to him such a person now a me is somebody that we actually are obligated every single day to pray for them to die more nicely every day you do am open your every day every day you have amid you do it three times a day there's a section of your where you're actually asking hem to destroy the me the people that are getting Jews away from him you're asking hm to destroy them what's destroy kill them why cuz they're destroying they're destroying your brothers and sisters even if he this mean is a Jew he's killing other people it's better he die than them it's better he die than 10 of them not un you're not allowed to be not allowed to be says there are certain people that even if they come to you asking you I want to do chuva you're not allowed to help them if he's a real mean it's rare to find a real there's a lot of people that are aim that are just Heretics and just want to sin very few people are real meim who's a real mean missionaries missionaries that come from churches they want people to leave Judaism and so on or such people that M are such atheists they have a real strategy of how to get people away from Judaism such people get the worst punishment there is why these people M destroying they're destroying you're not even allowed to help them you're not to stand six feet next to them you're not all to invite them into your house house not to talk to them nothing you have they come to you you have to run away so this is serious serious it's not it's not a small deal it's a big deal very big deal to be a mean you have to be psychotic but unfortunately it happens now why does such bad things happen to someone that used to be a good person that's what happens in sh hasm decides to give you a test he doesn't owe you anything the fact that you're alive is already a miracle the fact that you're alive is already a miracle why I'm sure everybody here including myself has made at least one sin the Torah says death penalty but you're still alive you're still alive so the fact that you're alive is a miracle he doesn't owe you anything he's God not you you can't tell hem listen give me money what does he owe you money well you lent the money he didn't pay you back hey hasm give me a wife what he owes you a wife hey hasm give me a husband why do he owes you a husband he doesn't owe you anything he's God he's the king you can't he's the KY you can't tell him nothing all you got to say is thank you hhm yeah but I have thank you whatever you have you have say thank you at the end of it says a person must must say thank you to hem both for good and for bad why because in the end really loves you and even what you think is bad is good for you one example is my own personal story whoever doesn't know it when I was going through the suffering of seven years of Health prises and fighting for my life and losing money and losing friends and losing this and losing that when I was in the fire I didn't really think it was that good today I know it's the best thing that ever happened to me now sh over here in the second row he witnessed it so it's not like some story that no one is Witnesses he's right there ask him what happened he saw me he's one of the guys that helped me deal with some of my pain he tried to help me in every way he can some people with decent people trying to help other people ran away the point is it's all true it's not some madeup story when I was in it ask him how many times did I ask people to kill me kill me my must kill me I didn't want to deal with it was in pain pain you guys don't even imagine what's the biggest pain you had you broke a finger what's the biggest pain you had you had a little stomach ache talk about pain that if you take a dagger you cut up somebody over and over again and it's as if it's connected to electricity that's what I had for seven years that's pain I know what pain means I know what suffering is I'm telling you what I had best thing that ever happened to me why if it didn't happen I would have never done chuva if it didn't happen I would have never had a chance of going to ganeden if it didn't happen I would have never ever had a chance to knowing how great Hashem really is so yes I went through some suffering that was my test that happened didn't happen your friend mcin he was given a test he failed you have to try again you're still alive you're still alive that means there still more work to do you can still do chuva the fact that you're still alive is still a miracle use it for something don't take it for granted next question I think it was an amazing time with you guys I enjoyed it I hope that I answered all of your questions we arrange more sh together get this place packed and get H's name bigger and bigger amen amen [Music] [Applause] [Music]