Shamai & Hillel's Two Schools of Therapy | Likkutei Torah "Kaitzad Merakdin" #1

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Silva's the second pair at the beginning of the second chapter of mystic service service daph use I am an Aleph actually super stuff design I'm at base and then continues defense I mean I'm an Aleph known as Turner abundant Kate said miraculous narikala the mind Minh was sent under interesting circumstances it wasn't said like a Shabbos a youngin was set at a husana it was said that a wedding was placed in tisha her children because she assured him of course is the safer and Tanakh that describes very graphically and metaphorically the love between Hashem and the Jewish people employing the metaphor of the two lovers the DeeDee and the day leader the groom and the bride the young man and the young woman who have a very dramatic relationship throughout the eight chapters of Jaden this man was set at a fastener and the constant is actually well known in the history of Hassidim as - Lebanon asana which Lubben is a city in the Ukraine it's called the juban he loved him with a Z or in the industry would B's in Zion Shin vomit olive Bay's you'd known it's a little city in the Ukraine and the bhava Tanya made a with it lately it's like of our digit by digit is also in the Ukraine well time he lived in a city called Lee Adi some little Russian history Leigh Abby is in Belarus the journey from Belarus to Ukraine is a long journey barred achievers in the Ukraine the question is where the wedding would be this was a grandchild of the alter rebbe at the ballot Anya with the grandson of its of a digital time your son Rep Dave Baer who succeeded in he's known as the middle Loretta it was his child marrying a grandchild of the Medici so they decided to do the wedding midway between Lee Adi and Bartok Sethe was lovin so this was a Hassan and it happened actually in the month of civil topic of Samaha Zion which would be 1807 it was partially consciousness a topic of some exam 1807 now who heard there's gonna be a weekend the Shabbos today we call it a weekend they didn't probably call it a weekend they're gonna be a whole Shabbos with Olivia took about determine the ballot on you're marrying over the grandchildren a lot a lot of people came to the council there were no photographers for whatever reason I never saw pictures in the magazines but it was a fastener to remember so you had a whole Shabbos with the but but achiever you say Imam and the palate Anja the ballot on you then said many many discourses many my mahram over Shabbos Friday Shabbos some bizarre day sorry Shabbos I think Sunday also at one of the moments he said this by me that we're going to learn at that person and it was recorded it was written down by the people who heard the mine were like most of them are in look at the Toyota which was written down by his brother he had a brother who would transcribe his teachings or some of his children or grandchild some aesthetic or others or on five people who would write by him so this was the moment he said then in the year 1807 topic of Simon's and in the city of Schwab and during the Carson the Carson was on a Friday which was pretty customary they would do the house to hope on Friday and then the stood up the wedding would be Friday night the condition has to be before Shabbos holla logically but the stood there would be Friday night and they stood there the dancing whatever they would do I mean I don't know that them captive dancing they didn't but certainly the suitor was done Friday night so so let's begin he starts off with the gomorian mystic silver stone and Robin and Kate said miraculin Hikawa roshambo mmm calico Marcia he may sell aluminum carla navaja pseudonym so fascinating my focus in the Mara the governor asks the question and silver staff to Zion how do you dance in front of a caller meaning when we dance at a wedding in front of the caller what is it that we say how do we dance neshama says every bride should be praised kamaishi according to who she is in other words you have to write specific Grameen for every caller fit to use today's vocabulary have to bring out her unique virtues and qualities and characteristics and that's how you praise it they sell aluminum no I disagree generic a generic a gram for every bride in the world Colin namitha soda this is a beautiful and gracious column it's a car full of beauty and full of HESA full of charm full of kindness full of grace now then the in Kate's is my rabbit and for some reason deleted the view of a Shama I guess because I love to kid me Scylla so that's why most people don't know the view of a Shama they know Kate said my doctor Kate's America kala kalah Nova hasidim but really there's another view caller kamaishi and the camera continues the Gomora says that there was a debate between that base Shama I turned to my cell and says I have a question what if the kala is not beautiful and not gracious sometimes that can happen and the words of the Gemara I feel OC Garris flu so mom what if you're dealing with a person who's lame or blind at Toyota armour amid Varsha quarter-cup the Turner says you know let alone how could you lie so Bissell responds to me show me and says so let me ask you a question if somebody goes to the marketplace and buy something we shall lock off Mecca from in a shook and it's how you if they bring it home to you and they show it to you you think it's horrible but do you tell that to your wife do you tell your wife that it's the most horrible thing I've ever seen in my life or you say wow this is gorgeous you should kind of be ain't nobody gonna be enough that's really missiles us heavy on me you should kind of a enough I think there are sharp said it's only if she can't return it yeah if they could return it then you should say the truth but if they can't return it you say it's nice we can't Oh Marilla I want a dietitian other more ever symmetries a person's mind and mindset should be integrated with other people that's the end of the Gomorrah at first glance it's very difficult to understand if Shami has a good time you're allowed a lie just to be politically correct and Basilio's response is very strange what vasila seems to be saying is everybody lies all the time okay thank you so that makes it that makes it kosher toyota says invite record date but people do people go shopping they buy horrible shoes or higher dresses and you say it's beautiful it's stunning you look wonderful in this time you look horrible in this time but I'm not gonna tell it to you so people do it all the time so that a justification what space what's missiles response it's very difficult to understand missiles response you have to understand it both out I'll peep shot push it what he means this miss Sharma is right sorry to be Shama is right the loss is like Priscilla we say kalinovka soda so this has to be understood in this discourse the Mauretania Coderre it takes the miami castle and sees it really as being also a metaphor for the relationship between our Shem and the Jewish people and explains the two views in that relationship which then will allow us to extrapolate and see how it's reflected in shot as well but first he begins with discussing the deeper layer of this mind like every mind Macca's odd that could be understood on a level of job and can also be understood as a metaphysical reflection on issues relating to one's internal life even within themselves so that's gonna be the beginning of this discussion he may Carlo Helena's Colson off she the word kala means a bride but it also comes from the word that says in Salem Colson Avila consciousness based on meaning my soul yearns my soul ponds my soul craves so cowl is the person who yearns who craves who in either says the word elack's it you know it lasts it means left song that's a beautiful word and he translated lets it know this addition Eden masonry miss up laxative 'english aspires craves yearns Pines probably behind of cleaners close on that first years become literature samba sister all in every mid suits in every spark of every neshama of the Jewish people there is a sense of clothes on average less than average means a yearning of the soul we call L valid Ovid Buscemi's Burroughs a yearning to be included to be submerged to be niccolò and to be dug to be connected with our shell for a variation of an bituminous and this love is perpetual meaning the state of color on one time event in Kippur Rosh Hashanah special moment special occasions it always there it may be as well see unconscious but it's always present well commercial concept where the plastic puts it into Hill them we say it every morning capital la misma Chicago customized LeMond is America avoid below yi de lu - America covered so that he should sing to you sink to your glory and not be silent so this are her cottage says car de Rivoli shuffle the mine is America comfortably that means that the soul always sings it always calls out village something it's never quiet the amani lorry going it's never shot at it never shuffles in aramaic means it never relaxes its song but i feel the people say our area I'm a yards for every are very edge bump in Ava's ooh don't think that this is reserved for unique holy juice even those who seem to be of spiritual lower quality or a merits which was the classic term for a Jews ignorant and apathetic or ivory evaders even more than our moderates and I'm rx means he's a pathetic and ignorant I ever ate I mean somebody who may not be ignorant but he transgressed his sins yes ma'am penis others who don't think for a moment that they are not in a state of color every one of them has this love tart shun everyone I they don't live it they don't live it they don't even know it he says Ellis I ain't no more gas transfer from the pin is given they may not be experienced in their soul and a revealed away in other words it's unconscious this is very very fascinating I think I mentioned this at some point that at this time in 1807 the word unconscious or subconscious was not part of the vocabulary today people use it every other paragraph subconscious subconscious you hate me subconsciously you hate your mother subconsciously you hate everybody subconsciously you hate yourself subconsciously everything is subconscious if you don't see it it's subconscious but in in eighteen and I guess a lot of it is true there's a lot that subconscious that's why it's subconscious right but in 1807 it's very significant this was not part of the vocabulary what you knew about you knew about what you did it didn't exist so here we learn that there's a whole emotional life of a person that you may actually live a life that is contrary to this and you may say to yourself you are completely just connected to this because you don't know about this part of yourself the ballot Anya here gives us one of the seminal ideas of the teachings of the Baal Shem Tov and of his own teachings which were the teachers of the Baal Shem Tov elaborated that every single Jew no matter whom no matter when no matter what constantly has a very deep avatar and that never changes it stomach while you don't he never stops singing however one could be conscious of it and one could be completely unconscious of it and of course unconsciousness itself has so many different layers how unconscious it is or in other words how easy it is to access how easy it is to find eligible penis mock if more milah this is what's called a state of market model now we already looked in the previous man when we say Marcus Marcus doesn't mean surrounds literally Matt Guf means surrounds what he means Markov is like when he said save of Kalam and map it just means it's not experienced consciously in the individual identity of the person who has this energy that's what Mark of me though like when something surrounds you it's not in you here it may be in you but it's called Marcus because it's above you even though it's in you above you means it's not registered by your antenna's it's not detected by your state of self-awareness of self-consciousness it's not part of the equation of who you are if somebody would say who are you you would not put this into the list of your resume because you you do not identify this as you but via fog of the Eloi Cosima's Lacaze here again it costs the Gemara Massacre Magilla in the beginning of gimel even though he may not perceive and his muzzle perceives it what does muzzle mean muzzle doesn't mean Mazel like you have Mazel Mazel means the source of your soul which you may not be in touch with consciously because what we are in touch with our soul is only a certain restricted energy that trickles down into our conscious existence so Mazel is that which is Mazal it's the cause of the noisy love the trickle of the flow so the Mosel experience is this state of color so every Jew is in a state of color so what's the question our case that Moroccan live in hair color one of the great questions in life how do you bring out the unconscious to the conscious dancing in front of the kawah not you dance you know you do a good nice dance but dancing here actually means Cates has me wrapped in leaf in her collar actually the word rocked in as he says else was from the word my racket in Hilton Shabbos and I'm what my racket means me rock aid ah sifting sifting when you're dancing you're sifting what are you SIF ting you're trying to extricate you're trying to bring out when you sift you're trying to separate the oil from the soil is you're trying to separate the deep evel's or the dirt or the sediments from the from the edible parts so mere actin is how do you dance in front of the caller in other words how do you separate how do you sift out the inner collar that you have in you to bring it to the fore to bring it to the for Kate's of Moroccan Lavinia kala in front of the color that the color should be able to appear that's the question today Lloyd see Ava's ooh and Nicola may Helen Malaga lilius may and an optional cleaners Guillory to extricate this love which is called kala from concealment to revelation that it should shine in one soul in an expressive way house they saw Laura's allocates of miraculous narikala on this house I'll ask the question how do you dance in front of the caller it's a very big question I may be in a state of collar but I'm unaware of it I'm unconscious of it how does one bring forth a flow of inspiration how does one bring out into a revealed state their inner most connection that they already have with our chef doesn't have to be created it's all there it just has to be fanned or revealed but it made me extremely conceal how does one do this ah this is a big box Lloyd kazuma-sama a missile they weren't just arguing about the new stuff that you say at a house enough on the dance floor if you say this too how do you say this to the coward they were arguing about to new sucks in life the to new service of the Damara to new success in life two completely different perspectives how you deal with this state of unconscious love in order to bring it out from the hell of a hug illa he's gonna first start with the of a shaman and then continue with the shitta of be civil which we will omit Josh I'm an explorer so Kate's adrenaline Hakala rashaam I says calico mercy he bacillus Escala navaja soda so now we come to one to discuss what is the spiritual meaning of this question how do you dance in front of the color every Jew is a column every Jew is a column means every Jewish soul is in a state of closer nefesh of yearning and planning to connect the truth to connect to God LMI the question is as his conscious or unconscious but even somebody who is completely alienated lahardee Zabala very he's a man of sins or ignoramus or apathetic or poussey eric of completely detached or alienated from spiritual sensitivity you would think they don't have this loves option they do have it even though it's unconscious the question is cakes on me wrapped in lifts Nacala how do you bring it out how do you bring down the state of kala this is the question so here there are two views by Charmaine be civil but Shama says I'm Ruby Shama Kamisha he but Shama says calico Masha he literally it means but Shama says you praise every bride according to her qualities Leo is B Shama Shama penis at virus Elena's pajamas childish is from giris Elena's Laura means discipline strength might L yumminess means higher giris what do we mean hiring Horus this verse dr. Anna's versus whereas Alanis her asanas means holy guevara higher means reflective of God's glory Hashem has different Midnight's me the success administered Gorobei Shamas school was rooted in medicine guru Vashem in other words the nature of their souls were rooted in the quality of world each soul is different talk about racism here we go again souls are different these souls that are rooted in the world of cussin souls ruled in the world of word it's not good or bad it's different test set sees the world from a certain prison from a certain vantage point Vora sees the world from a certain advantage one Shama usually in most of shots is mathema they civiles make up so it says that the soul of Hillel was rooted in the world of hasit and the meat of hasset the soul of Shama rooted in the middle or the Gemara says I'm a shaman vasila Moustakas a even a llevarlo derailleur compliant the halacha can be silly both are the words of the Living God and yet the how luck is like missing one second if both are the words of the Living God that means both are true but they're saying opposite things but Shammai says you do this miss Allah says you do this they're always arguing so how can both be words of Allah compile usually somebody who says two opinions and they're opposites you call that person not stable or not real what I mean Abel Valen every other came time they're arguing all the time and what he olds is true he olds is false what he oldest cost your heels is strafe when he holds his possum he hold his mutton Zakai high if everything they're arguing that Bashar may be still hundreds of microcosm nonetheless he say elevated Ibraheem high and why because truth itself has to be understood in context meaning in the world of good is the truth of hesed and there's a truth of glory they're both true for the soul of hesse and this is true for the solid world this is true this this meter has truth in its context does it mean there's nothing else not there's another view also there's another perspective also but it doesn't take away from the fact that this perspective has truth to it so generally beige on my shoulder is glorious all Yanis guru salinas means holy Guevara higher glory sublime for a divine glory alkane Icarus Shama and it's even the name the word shammai comes from the word Shuma you know what suma means remembering tomorrow suma show me the diny a assessment suma upshots in any dish why assessment that's what Shammai does is always assessing things assessment is a quality of cavora you're always assessing you're always defining you're always qualifying in your shovin Rosales like the camera says and say tell posit the shum dead with some darreth call her some earth myself the highness recycled rock of a coma who the Gemara miss have to say - speaks about somebody who is some earth herself he assesses estimates he qualifies his pathways so the passage says into Hill of which some dareth of a some Derrick our n-no be a Shelley Kim so the Gemara says it's a parsec into Hill and pay record on so the gomorrah says my thought and insight to call her some advice of some Derrick you have to be some you have to assess your pathways figure out we're going how you're going what's your destination the Highnesses show called Rock of Ethel ma who you cycle you way you assess your paths how and what shammai was particular Sharma was precise Shama was disciplined with himself and others Shama was extremely stringent this is neither seguirá me decide where is quit for with the said we're a challenges I mean this edward believes that you have to be worthy of what you get you earn you earn your revenue you earn your wage what you get is based on what you put in there's no free lunch Gloria is not cruel but very strict Bora is authentic Bora is harsh it could be very harsh some people are not a Calif Agora the Mora is very fear extremely fair everything is assessed meda connected meter and this was the mid of Shama this was his approach to the world there was an approach of discipline approach of severity of me dissident and an approach of strictness this is a pert is there an MS in that approach of course a lavell of the relic inclined is a very - very genuine path it's an authentic path I knew how does this affect us in our conversation but Shama has one salaphi Erica sir Mira Kathy I'm shocked a cacophonous comet ison efforts on an island in order to experience the kawah it's based on a survey raff based on how deeply the person will be committed to survey our seminar means abstaining from everything that is immoral and negative and undesirable that is how much they will be able to experience their love their state of Cowell the claisen efforts of Oh Milo the ability to be able to experience their relationship to God Mizell cowlick a moisture he that's what miss Sharma says how do you dance in front of the caller the Commerce Committee according to Shias Colima commotion er Liam amata mikono says scoffing mr. Mehra in bravi ma Cathy I'm Jacques pinners Gilly place I never been option how the commercially means based on how much the person will work on themselves to ascend to be over Mamata from a state which is lower by doing this kaffir sir made-up subduing the negative and going away from it whether it's not whether it's a lot or a little that will be determined the determining factor of how much revelation of the state of comma that will be in them how they're deep in the summers relationship with God will be expressed based on how much they are ready to challenge themselves to climb higher and higher that's how much they will experience from above so the more the caller will work on herself to go away from any type of wrath the more she will be able to experience the state of closer nefesh the state of yearning in the state of closest with Hashem the less will be less so Bashar my says Kate said my doctor lived in jacala every caller Kamisha he according to what she puts into it according to her avoid that every single Jew every wounded Acala exactly how much he will or she will elevate themselves and be oiler and do soon Meera and it's layer upon layer upon layer because this sir may die in a very coarse way and then there's more subtle you know the onion has many many layers and you peel one there's another one but the more layers the collar is ready to peel the more she will be able to experience that you will be able to experience the state of clothes on efforts the link with above which is the powerful intimate relationship between the Jew and God that's the view of a shaman they still has a different view I will be civil charlatan Osaka southern the civil is rooted in the world of hassle Kyla Calvert Sharma shallow yeah I'm Sharla fiallo he doesn't hold that Dom shafa is always commensurate with the how long i'm sokka means the flow from above how law means that ascent from below they shot my says I'm Shaka Luffy hawa quid pro quo as much as you climb up that's how much will come down to you I give to you as much as you demonstrate an openness to receive Ella Abba Dabba says be silly Hillary I'm shufflin Elmyra LaMotta first ought to be on shaka a flow from higher to lower the Year Osman Mela new palooka Lockheed Sonam shall I wash on him huh what the beginning of Perry gimble 96 Perry gimble the line starts LaMotta the beginning of a scheme on the weinstock's LaMotta Hillary I'm sure from Elmyra LaMotta first will be I'm shocked tamil malayalam at the year us Minmei LIHEAP blue-collar its own and /m hey mom and then automatically all the fit sign them all the external forces that are not divine will fall away behind no shot s a tow vehicle the Muslim era now c'est TOI festival says ought to proceed to sir my rock chemo admin I don't abdomen efficient because a little light will dispel lots of darkness so we be Shammai says first surveyed and then I say tithe which is actually the order in the pasta they still oath says you can't always wait for that let that say type proceed this sir mayor even though the person is filled with rock because the oil the light will dispel lots of darkness while cane nicker a hill oh that's why his name is Hillier Shama means assessment Hillel means a global Austin may heal a NATO ally Russia the word in English a halo of light a halo that's rooted in the Hebrew word he'll obey heal a NATO ally Russia the past success in india ferrah cough test the the the glow of the lamp the glow of the native the candle outer a liar on my head hello in other words is a glow a luminescence a brightness become hello Malaysian suave Hillel from holo praise behind why they shrunken bees burn in his villa such a man mainly evil aura by praising by contemplating the greatness of God and therefore the greatness of the soul which is part of God automatically there I will will fall away what is the muck like this and we have a fundamental argument and I by the sunshine two different approaches completely based on my says sir may das a tithe Carla Commission they civil says Cala Nava facility but Shama says the system has to be you first have to get rid of the dirt you have to get rid of the filth the more filth you get rid of the more light can come in the more positivity could come in you get rid of the darkness then you get it to the light that's the don't be Shama Carla Kamui he as much as the caller works on herself that's how much you'll be able to appreciate and experience the flow from above the relationship from the hustle I shall they say lo says no my order to hide them in a fashion don't wait till the darkness leaves but rather begin to flood your life with light I say there's so many stuff going on there's so many skeletons in the closet this ghosts and demons and so forth they still Allah says on the contrary you'll bring them light that itself will will expel the darkness my heart my country have a room filled with darkness and you light a candle and a little light expels lots of darkness that itself will cause the first shift to fall away and be mainly you don't have to wait till the collar is completely cleansed and refined that only based on how much she works every flow from above is commensurate with how much she works on herself you don't have to wait for that there's no need for that sometimes if you wait for that you may be waiting forever you have to immediately start now by Shama his argument is clear they some his argument is if you building a house and you did a construction they finish the house you don't bring in the couch the furniture and the beautiful paintings when it's still full of debris and rubble and dirt first you need a cleaning company and they clean everything and they make it spotless they get rid of all the dirt and all the filth and all the debris and all the garbage and all the rubble and then you're bringing your furniture you start bringing in your furniture and under the couch you have piles of garbage it's ridiculous but Shawn makes us clean up the mess clean up the mess now the system is clear the system is clear now you'll bring in positivity essentially this is a right way he's right mr. Sikora you don't put in there beautiful pieces of art the whole pile the whole the whole wool is dirty first do a good cleaning make it clean then you'll bring in the beautiful furniture sir made on then I say tight you want to experience the deep spiritual connection you first have to get rid of the toxicity there's so much toxicity or even dysfunctional or many stuff are there that's and Bashar might from a perspective of woods debris a little higher why because this is the ideal way to go you get rid of the bad and then you bring in the good face Hillel introduces the world of Hess's the world of has said looks at it and says yes in a perfect ideal situation that would be the case but Priscilla's time is as we will see for person waits for this they may wait to their entire life because there's always something to work on and sometimes you're waiting waiting till you clean yourself you don't have the energy that comes from positivity base illnesses flood your life with positivity bring in good stuff and when you bring in good stuff the more you bring it in that itself will banish will chase away the function that itself will do it it's brought brought in syphilis has sickness I think from the Upthegrove this was the argument in Yosef and Yaakov Fryman Menasha Joseph wanted Menasha should get the right hand the frame the left hand yak of cross the hands why Menasha was the oldest Menasha was first Joseph says he's the part he gets the first brother should be like this but nationalism on the actives yakov's right Manasseh was by yakov's right hand if Raymond left why are you crossing your ass so he tells you if you adopted bonier dotty I know vinash is a great boy but octopi cutting you down me man so what shot so one of the explanations and synthesis as follows Menasha means forgetfulness why did he name him in nasha nashe anniela kima's come on Molly must obey Sophie Joseph said God made me forget all my agony all my pain a new man what's a frien he Franny le Kim Barrett's on you from the word true pari he made me fruitful in the land of my poverty Menasha is you gotta forget you got to move away get on OSHA the sciatica that was removed it was misplaced minashi means you have to replace you have to move away you have to get rid of stuff you have to move them away or move yourself away one of the two that's Menasha what's a friar Fram is a Frannie alec in barracks on you frame is the positivity the positive energy according to the system of away this army I suppose it's avec Firstman Ashton in a flying there's no us a time without Samina imagine a person is on a daily exercise routine right but for breakfast they have cheesecake for lunch they have a pie of pizza and for dinner after the pizza does you know plus everything else or some potato chips in black and whites and then ice cream awesome but then in the morning they're going for exercise you're shooting yourself in the back if you series do it first you got to clean everything up you got to clean up the Texas City spiritually also psychologically also mentally also and then you could start bringing in the light without that isn't it so sometimes a person will sit in therapy for 10 years 20 years some people 40 50 60 years to clean up they'll analyze everything to get rid of all the issues all the dysfunction or the depression or the negativity all the envy all the hate old animosity or the annoyance and so on and so forth and that's and it's an important idea sir me rather not say Dave Menasha comes first Yaakov tells Yosef your daddy near that I know that Josh is a great kid well I'm off Eva cotton you get on my menu in other words if you're gonna want to create ultimately something that changes the world you're gonna have to be able to introduce us a time before some a time because if you're gonna wait for sure may not till you have a say time most people are gonna get stuck they will wait and wait and wait and wait and wait until the moment when you reach perfection and what's the moment you reach prevent there's no such a thing so it's always a journey so therefore base Hillel says Carla navaja Sudha the main kya has to come to a frame in other words begin with a say - if you can't always wait till sameera begin with doing the positive stuff bringing in good influence and then automatically that will help you with the battle with the fascia because my third eye for hi Patricia and that's why you active disagreed with Joseph and he gave the after the right hand to a frien they say it's really late that's really exciting I'll just finish with this myself they say I might say that the ballot on you went to study by the margin of Miss rich Reverend the student of them or something and he was going home he was going home she was in the coach so their baggage the magazine said his son his name is about Rama Malik they called them an angel it describes you what type of person he was he was like an angel about Rama mala they called them so the Mavs Rama mala came to escort the ballot on your home they were hallucis their father said the mother stuff looses pala Tonya told him Nicola and he taught him Kabbalah three hours and three hours used to change the pocket got some Isis anyway the my Rama mama came to escort him home so he sees him in the coach and the horses are there waiting to go and the wagon whatever it was a horse Iraq so there's three things he told them once he told them he said as follows but there's mice in the ferret biz oz a zone van an ice ferret but there's mice and the ferret be a zone this is an effect you have to whip the horses until they cease to be horses you have to whip the horses until there we're that their horses that's the two cleanest so the ball time he said oh he has to stay here it's a new Derrick and avoid that he got off and he stayed there for a while the first is his hapa whip the horses till they're not horses anymore the second is Escoffier whip the horses at least they know their horses but don't change them be aware of the horse scoffs Amazon but then he once told him he says far far Coppola stuff the ferret don't look at the horses you travel for the pharisee explain that it's a dare it can avoid that this is the Derrick everyone has horses in them horses here is a metaphor for the beast in you you could look at the beasts and get paralyzed by it but you have to travel I there's a horse involved okay there's a horse involved but you have to travel just far far quickness tough to ferret this you're gonna look and get involved and this you won't be you'll be paralyzed you have to be able to continue to travel even though there is resistance so the shamisen will have two different this an avoider /m how one could bring out one can dance in front of the cour meaning how one can bring the forth bring out actualize reveal the state of the color of the Jew meaning the inherent Ava's Hashem the inherent spiritual deep emotive relationship between God and a Jew which always exists as just maybe unconscious got two completely different approaches case interacting with NAT caller this shot by Sami says sir may Rob our say toy if you begin always with summary rap and then you do the toy in other words you dispelled you banish the darkness and then you could bring in the light and according to how much the caller works on herself to extricate herself from undesirable habits attitudes dispositions meters and so forth that is relative to relative to that will be the revelation from above the flow of spiritual energy that exists but has to be actualized and basil--oh has a different shift in the solution Sakawa navaja Sudha meaning by simul says on the contrary the satyr should proceed to Sameera because even though there's a lot of darkness the light ultimately will van darkness and this has to do with their very names and their very Souls sama means assessment everything is Chumash um evaluated Guevara his soul comes from the world of Gura which is a world of discipline of fairness of me this had in of strictness it's quit for quotes me the connect admitted and therefore as much as you put in that's what you're gonna get out and you're not gonna get anything until you do not put it in that's the of Shama where everything is assessed and everything is quarry or shank and hillo which means light i halo of light the glow of light baby boy nail a race shares the puss ik says in EF or Hillman with Russian howl today we're gonna say how old is our son or some of us at holla holla which is full of praise in other words you bring out the doula of a Hashem and the dual of a person who's connected to Asha and the mela older older falls away this is vis L this is the Prashad the line starts vis l marche me after on the routes the pasa considered most Rania's Arab Emirates are heavy Annie hemella Fedora draw me after you we shall run draw me in after you wish all wrong Huma Mottola my la violación Manila ma che Nemo Milo LaMotta Daisy Mae laughs I reckon ELISA first start with the Machine II pulled me in and therefore I will run don't wait till I run and then pull me in Marseille nihilist us pull me and drew me in Malayalam oughtta let the flow of revelation come and then I'll be inspired to rock gizelle Peters Colin Nava Hosoda that's the meaning of the words Colin Navajo su casa de who Lucien niffle in Hebrew grammar there's different ways of saying it casa de is an Eiffel meaning Keo doula me dr. Kim sir hosted by heceta Hussain metoya Shane Martin when you want to describe the person so you say aha stood in the masculine or a casita in the feminine but here we're not saying Cala Nava Hasidic Allen Omaha Sudha Sudha Bhima lappam Casa de with the Shura Kassadin with a Pyrrhic not casita who shame Hanifah what would mean say monday for that which gets affected not she is a Hasidic she is a Hosoda Venusian NASA's her soda somebody turns her into a Hosoda she receives grace she receives custard meaning I'd am chakras I said a lien on my Lola map the Leah's gilja Lucas you have to bring forth something and she becomes it's it's it's how she's affected by something Colin are Hasina would mean she is actively engaged in it cuz Sunnah means she becomes a custard as a result of a certain positive vibe that came in she's acted upon raised ah she's braced she is graced right she's grace why what is she graced he says because there was a tested alien a higher divine crescent that flawed mo milah from a higher space to a lower place Leo's gilja Lucas as I'm Amalia Paulo rap bacillus is and automatically there are you know let the chips for the chips fall away there are falls away we hear beginners guilty clothes I'm a Frenchman option and then the clothes I'm efforts the state of yearning of the soul will be revealed Leah's Colin off for her to become a beautiful collar Vishal I share bokura Sparta the lush and a kiss and a Jew in whom which in you I boast God says the scholarship Makka aspartic a Jew in which and you III brag i boast so to speak that's the concept of Colin Nabokov spoiler this happens as a result of the fact that she receives this flow of passeth so the Rebbe initial Odom says he slowly Sharon Bazaar s Polly Buffalo together as fulfill Asuma even if you're dealing with a person who spiritually may be lame or blind and the reason is the Khmer shovel mashra because in his presence shovel Marcia like we say in the PIAT and shovel Marcia for cotton regardless of the largest and the smallest are equal or as the passage says in E ie he just says the beginning of everything and you have to figure out the yet him said that depositors in so dr. Matt eaten like rubbish as amicus Allah insert activated to my mommy are clinical meaning it's not like your negativity really is an obstruction for him because there's nothing that separates it's not like you're so bad you're too bad for him to come in in Sabac termite in Tinley rubbish I'm at a solar because you're dealing here with an energy that is transcendent shovel marshal cotton regardles so therefore it's not like a person could say I'm too dirty for him to come in it's not like your dirt is going to ultimately stop it Rizzo Shoko so that's where the pus success oh the PO success in your shia palsy adalat is a on the peace saith the one who limps which is the he Garrett's P says will leap like a ram like an IO you've got to see in Muncie in the morning how our deer take leaps when they see your car coming so cliche and obvious Aussie dollar Kop sayeth so the bowel Tania's connecting you to this Gemara this Sharma is saying yes she's laying there's no ask you down the Kop say she's a coward nor MCUs under because if you'll just reveal that which is in her and you'll focus on the positive and you'll focus on the test Italian automatically the spiritual negativity will be absolved Ozzy dollar coyote safe by Marsha custard miss Emma did with our Moscow very Rasta clean which is a my remark d'azyr should cost of this is what the puzzle says until the present alien Bali might mm Allah says yes Italian a higher grace a higher kindness Bali image will not falter Shia Julia casada mama Lola Martin when the head comes forth mal milah from a higher place to a lower place Osman dr. Hajra automatically there will be that will that will be expelled will be moved away but how you koala and it will dissipate as though it never was Mejia penis have otaku of a Liberty us in Baltimore and the Alva love the combin Eckstein his heart like a peg like a peg that is like a peg that Baltimore that does not falter that doesn't move so base Hillel says on the contrary when you have the tested alien then value might then the it will will remain completely etched in a person and it will not be movable thank you the passage says here as follows yeah okay I thought so basically a Shia Navi is giving on a vow of the Guler so he's saying kospi a diam roughest but kyon crush list I made so you should be strong tell the people who are afraid to be strong not to be afraid your God is gonna come and help you us did piccata na na even in the eyes of the blind will open up the Oz nation to pass a sermon in the ears of the Deaf will also open up Asya Dalek coyopa saya and then and then the the people who are lame who are limping will leap like Ram so now she says he stalled who are now in a state of piston move a Hashem they're weak and they're lame so then they're going to become full of vigor and full of strength so it's basically a navarre of acid lovely that's literally shot Anya Shia so the Valentine is describing it in spiritual terms in spiritual terms the state of redemption begins internal Google begins internal Google of premise so that's the idea that this AMA says Kagera say suma so this Allah says if you bring out the columnar vaca Sunnah and you'll be mom sure the constant Elian then you will see that as you dalitai opposite my shankin after the parenthesis my sheikh of the divet ebay shah might sonically still assume a rock but somebody says you always need first term a table is there surely is but oculus and this of course could never be done ultimately in its ultimate perfection volcano I'm real commercially leaffilter Gators with summer and that's why from a shamans perspective he said every carl according to who she is that's what she's gonna get and when you're dealing with a vigorous Asuma you can't say color Navajo Souter there's so much wrong the dvd-based shaman advisor secretary sugars basilica a much accosted by table is partial tests being infested the MS Casanova he boorish the Cooley Molly London but I Felicia inertial Emma's and Shama coming as automatic solution abolishment there's a madness rabbit in relationships partial tests about an argument that ensued when Hashem wanted to create the world said when a sham wanted to create the world so the middle of Casa and the middle of M has gone into a major debate mid of has said said create the world because there'll be a lot of castle in the world people will do kind things the middle of MS said don't create the world because the whole world is based on shattered everything is false so therefore ms says there's no room for the creation because it's a lot classic says they'll be fastened the same is true Solomon said the commander says also got into an argument said that said create the world cuz people give us a doctor Shah Baba said don't create the world because this is just the world of conflict everyone finds there's no peace so the Gemara the matter says what did I shall do he took me the CMS his Schlick Allah or its he threw it on the ground so now there was no Ms complaining anyone he created the world that's why it says Atmos merited schmuck in other words immerses in the air literally it's in the air there has to grow from the earth because I some threw it away leritz and now there's no there's no there's no there's no contender yeah and that's why he created the world because this me there wasn't wasn't opposing the kid was not with the samus necessarily there could be an element but emesis to Faris opportunity ms is something else so but such a mess but you are right because series is connecting the two that the Derby Sharma is like Medusa Emma's and the off base it was like me the successors so Bashar my says Ally Bari the Gomorrah says in a driven by sham I said no your cloud them sirloin every submission ever they civil says my flesh and every submission it because basically facet says create the work of the full of Carson even though it's not Emma's marché Kimba Shama says don't create the world because it's shatter so here to become is telling basil--oh what you're doing is not ms and they say well is doing something about the tested color navajo student and this is an argument soba Shama has a truth to him Sharma is up is the parameter of truth ma shangkun vasila focuses on castle what's the nature of the argument here so this explains to us a little bit more the nature of the argument and if you'll realize the the terminology keeps on using his I'm shocked come on Milo D'Amato versus halal Mottola Milo they SH are my demands it should be how long will my Allah my Allah going up from lower to higher and based on that we'll be down shudder know my dilemma that he still says no start with down shockable myeloma maka that's why ha Sudha she is graced she is she she has the Tessa that comes she's a niffle she's affected by a hazard caused his I'm shocked among my dilemma and then they'll be a woman motto by which those two words my LaMotta versus men my starting allah tala myeloma my Lola motto so you have an intersect the circle with a Sukkah Omata love my love my love the motto but while a tiny uses these terms constantly in spirituality when it comes to avoid assertion what's the concept of these two terms the myeloid map to here refers to in a person himself the state of Milan the state of Martha to clarify it you have the Marshall by Tomica similar mellitus everybody knows about Hanukkah the Gomorrah says him assess the Shabbos in the second painting everybody knows that be how monthly candles do you say you're like my husband minima hot didn't you go up so Schama you go each night of different candles so be shaman says you start with eight when you go down eight seven six five four three two one bacillus is not good you go up tomorrow says what's the month like this time with the best Shama connected you understand us in the time at the Basilica NIDA governments the shaman looks at the things that are still ahead of you the first night of Hanukkah I have eight days in potencial I only have one night in actuality but I have the days if I look at the days that are coming in I have nine eight so I do eight the second night I have only seven days coming hey Scylla says you focus on the days that left already so therefore only on the eighth night you have eight nights you like eight candles a seven night you like seven first night you liked one etcetera how lockers like this simple not my wish I don't think America gives on a second reason para haha I so cuz she went down this is my locker - Raymond didn't know different as far as the camera gives him a set the shop what's the Havanna young - Nasia money so how good for shine white AK they still also know there's gonna be eight nights of Hanukkah this summer also knows that an actual is only one night of Hanukkah whenever the camera says he says this and he says that hug offer it's not like the others vada is completely removed from the first purse he also understands young on my yards know that there has to be that's why there's always a deeper layer there has to be some logic and that gopher why Bashar my focus like my son why they still focusing on my notes I'll go for shine but here look later we have a clarity in this Union - because it has to do with a general question in life and this is a big question of life do you focus on the mater or do you focus on the milah if you want to be perfectly idealistic you focus on the motto base in law says you're being idealistic you're being truthful but you're not being kind and the two are not necessarily the same thing they civil wasn't a politically correct spineless person who believed in just saying the right thing to everybody that's not the argument you know when you read it that surface it miss Sharma is the real man I mean I'm not gonna patronize and flatter people but I don't believe what I'm saying Dominika nama the shaker is everybody is the greatest guy right you're awesome you're unbelievable you're the best thing I ever met unbelievable the most beautiful car like a shock every shot him how her mama has stood the Cullen of a condom yeah I told him I saw once was a guy shot can set him up for a date so he meets the caller and after a while you know the shot that comes in it's one of these circles when they do it fast so the fact that comes in and he will know so the buffer whispers says you know your mama chakra your wife it's one of mine you said she's tall she's short she's smart stupid shopkin says you don't have to whisper she's deaf too okay so he's probably not repeat this joke at home unless you change it from the other way around then it's gonna work she's not a novel hostile to find the right thing to say it don't lie don't lie that's the pastor's and bacillus us come on everybody doesn't it's a much deeper my likeness face that's why he brings deposit in your Shire Asya dollar coyopa say they still owe in a way it's a different type of MS it's not only an MS of the surface it's an MS on a deeper level you have to focus not on the Matta you have to focus on the Milo I'll bring it out to feed to you from a voice from the optigrill in all of these Silver's one of the big there between from your sewer hatch love Opta up there's a city in Poland he's very near the boss Hunter and measure Bush here's a safer called I of Easter on the up turn off says this on the pasta car Zeno Hashem and by the various of smarts in riffey listen heavens and I'll speak listen earth to me to what I'm going to say now remember this is motions last speech she's been speaking for 40 years this is the last speech food or maybe the day for the last few days before his petit on Zion under house II know it's the last partial so imagine a rabbi even a regular rabbi has been at a pulpit for 40 years literally 50 years 60 years and he's given me the last speech to the euler everybody comes to say goodbye everybody is there man women shows everybody is there Optimates out of my own color and he opens up the speech and he says listen my heavens listen earth what happened to the people almost after 40 years everything I gave up on you what are you talking to the heavens talk to the people so I opted off says the moisture was giving a device for history how you have to speak to people and it brings a gomorian harness fascinating Mr Loomis's of Curtis tough test there was a big debate between every sherbert samanya and the sages of Athens 60 sages of Athens and Greece sabe the bay Asuna to know these are the greatest Greek philosophers of the time it's almost a blot of debates between a be sure that alanya one man against sixty coming of Greek of Greece and the fascinating thing in the Gemara today there's a whole debate is in riddles there's no debate about actual ideas it's all riddles and strange riddles it looks childlike so the Marshall wrote a whole Tibor in the back of the Gomorrah whole section to explain it the morale has a whole thing the film had gone as a safer short little safe explaining that piece of them are in the metaphor you just lady has Italy cooked in my Ron hazard Oh everyone I mean from a lot of the daily so tried to explain that blunders of charts have different perspectives that explain one of the fascinating debates is just to bring out our own debate they ask to be show become a night to disprove told to disprove Judaism when a chick dies in the egg withers the solely from a chick dies in the end wiggins the neshama go out from the egg the seal so there and this is trying to disprove Judaism from the Quran says the same way that the soul got in Donnie wins that's the whole the whole Amin and a half like that this was up they asked him how do you preserve salt it's urban decay so he says you use the amniotic sack of a mule so they say a mule doesn't reproduce she says and salt doesn't decay activism one of the questions they ask him is as follows the guy comes to a town he's looking for a cow uh looking for a girl and he takes the best he goes out with the best the best and she says no I'm not interested is he gonna go to another is gonna go and look for somebody even better course not because if she rejected him obviously he has to look for somebody of a lesser calibre that's the end so be sure but come on you says if a fake person takes a nail a peg and he knocks it into the wall and it doesn't go in do you go lower no you could also go higher why because maybe down here it's it's rock and up there you'll get the deal penetrate he wins the debate what's the what's the smother so the marshal says that they were saying that you always go for the best girl and if she says no you don't go - better because she's for sure gonna say no right if that if the first girl doesn't wanna be like you were schlemazel like you you think a better girl is gonna want you gotta go you gotta compromise yeah you gotta go for Less so the marsh Russell's what they were saying is who did God offer the Toyota first to the nations of the world and they said no you think he's gonna go to somebody better I said go to somebody worse the first girl rejected God they said you're not for us I'm sure he's gonna go for somebody lower in other words the Jews are lower that was their time that's the Marshalls perspective lobster dogs perspective is different he says as follows and this is the protoss inertia model he said some of you speak to somebody and you can't get to them they're not they're not getting affected you put the nail and the nail doesn't go in it's not that there's too much resistance this is you know the problem is problem is not that you put it in the problem is not that you put it in too high the problem is you put it in too long you have to lift up the nail too much higher place and they'll go straight in he said the problem is when you speak to people you're speaking to a lower place in them and because you're speaking to a lower place and then they resist you because over there they have a lot of resistance when you speak to somebody you have to go to the highest point you have to speak to their purest most idealistic space was over there they have no resist on lower levels there's toxicity they become defensive they can't listen to you but every person has an akuna of MS of purity that's very very deep but we don't speak to it because first of all we don't see it we don't believe in it or we don't trust it but if you speak to that place in people over there it'll go right in so Marsha Levine was talking to the Jewish people forever and he says whenever you speak to people house in Oaxaca Mayan speak to the heaven and every person every person is heaven and earth earth is your murky part your earthly part your lowly part every person has that we're engaged and we're in meshed with a lot of issues everyone has issues and problems and struggles and demons and skeletons and darkness if you don't believe me look in the mirror or speak to your therapist will explain it to you every person also has heaven heaven is idealism selflessness what he pulls their clothes on nefesh of assertion every person has that it's always there the question is what's conscious what's unconscious what do you know about what you don't know about what leads you life what doesn't lead you like so now when I speak to you which part of you do I speak so merchant's the house in you are Somalian always speak to the heaven in people and then we searched my heart's already trickle down must lie or Kazi a Liberty trickle down or a trickle down to the earth always do that oh we speak to the Shimon Peter that's the Milan a person or the matter and a person Milan a person is the higher space in a person Matt and a person is the lower space in a person based Shammai right at the surface says sir made of us a toy there's a lot of wrong this is a lot of now you have to address the ground there's no way of fixing a person if you don't address the route you have to address it and you have to get rid of it and you have to uproot it and you have to eliminate it and then and then the heaven can flow then the my looking flow but you always have to begin with getting rid of the darkness base hello takes a different approach completely but it also starts with the myelin look for the milah and identify it and bring that out I the whole person's life is one big mess right there's a tremendous mess going on I'm not ignoring it I'm not ignoring what I'm doing is I'm gonna bring in so much light I'm gonna bring in so much light even though it's full of darkness that ultimately the husha will will will move will move away so therefore by Hanukkah you have the same argument the first night of Hanukkah what do you have the first night of Hanukkah you have you have it's still the beginning of Hanukkah so therefore base base base Shammai says you always have to eliminate the ocean since you have to eliminate the treasure so the first night of Chanukah when you're just starting you need eight candles you need eight candles to eliminate all the darkness the second night it's already much weaker the darkness because you're focusing on the side shut now you need seven candles the last night you already have very little closer one candle can do it base shammai has a different I'm sorry Silla has different approach vassilis is the first night of Chanukah ms/ms I'm not gonna be in a situation where I could drink so much light and get rid of all the dark I don't have that color cuz if my orders for high profession there's too much darkness I can't have so much light it's too much I'm too messy but you could bring in a little light yeah one candle you can bring in you know what's gonna happen darkness will vanish vanish but mail it tomorrow night you'll already be able to bring them to canvas base shun my taka takes on the ocean right away takes on the ocean right away if we forget you come with all your bombs and you bomb it out you need it he still doesn't have that capacity he focuses on the earth it ain't only I only have a little bit now because I have a lot of flesh shook but find that and it could of heaven and bring it out this is try the bells are up such a mean and a half of Accession my and my shameeka bus for Shambhala care so much on the other custom Indian and a half of the sayha Shania you'll have somebody out cast we shown what's the shaman he says because say Hashem I am if every dude is a little shamayim left and he ended the haka because say there's a shame not a lot but say me show me a kibbutz car from the tip of heaven that's in caps after that catch on to that and make a big deal out of that turn that into a major focus I'll be my outdoor but I'll be doing for the question you liked one candle and the darkness decides tomorrow you'll be able to like cook the last night you'll already be able to light eight candles why were you able to live eight candles because so much culture will be banished to medical items so we have a two general views in inertia kapha and avoiders Hashem in life of a shaman basil--oh that I reflected in this McCoy kiss and Gomorrah how you dance in front of a caller the damar in my septic so is the beginning of the second paragraph to Zion and then you design designer matte beige you design Amidala flame Libra Shammai says every color is praised according to her individual virtues and qualities and you do not have a generic statement for every kala kalah Kamisha he in fact he accuses basil--oh who says that every kala is praised as a column Navajo Suda's beautiful and gracious to be a lie mid wash a courtier cook what if she is not how can you say this and therefore Bashar may completely disagrees and says calico Miriam be civil says no collar no waha Sudha Kahlan navaja soda and the argument the ballot Anya the altar ever in Lakota Toyota he sees this not only as a argument about a husana that a person attends with a Costin and a cow of course that's the shot of the argument but it's really reflective of a veldt unsound and welcome sama means harsh cough asylum a perspective on life and it goes back to the beginning of the spiritual it goes it should be traced back to the to the first type of to first relationship in existence the kostadin cowl of the house and Hashem in the color the Jew every nation is in a state of kala in a state of cloister nefesh which means a state of mix if of a gam Coulson a free like we're saying you did nefesh neither so - it's after the base of it huh love them says Apaches Vegas a niche safe from its after lebay Sevilla you crave you desire to go to your father's home loving is telling ya - so we say on Shabbos what do we say Vasek ya maraca Merkava Hassan al-banna vaca he's a common it's safe Nick safty Leroy's BC Ferries of Zephyr Laila come to Libya Hassan about assalam don't hide from me because this is what a Jew says Arab Shabbos or some say by Charlotte Sugar's mixed ethnic South to the base of Italy did nefesh was offered by rebel laws are a scary the author of safer and hurried him this is the contemporary of the base Joseph and their reason on the house jerk and their amok in the golden era of the Kabbalist since fast in the 1500s early 16th century so every Jews in the state of California favicon koltunov she so after Nick surfer comes the concept of cloyce by a hula wash them I'm the yearning to the pointing but it made me unconscious and maybe not revealed so this is the argument which AMA says how do you reveal it how do you bring it out kate says Moroccan Lavinia kala how are you me rocket how do you sift out the good from the bad the bad from the good how do you separate the two how do you bring out your Alva you look me as your inspiration inspiration is there you just may not be aware of it you may be unconscious of it it may be covered up may be eclipsed that maybe talk a lot of toxicity that doesn't allow you to feel it consciously so how do you do it but Sharma says it always is based on your avoid the caller chemistry he basically as much as they'll be sir Meera that's how much they'll be us a toy if you begin with the with Tamra and you work on it you weed out you weed out all of the toxicity in your system and the more you do that the more you'll be able to experience the flow from above the flow of inspiration and spirituality from above this hillo says you do not wait for that you do not start with the motto you focus on you focus on the milah you start nochmal Mottola Milo but Milo LaMotta you focus on the Milo in other words you focus on the good and you accentuate that which is positive and you bring forth that which is positive and you talk about that which is positive and you focus on that and then what happens is my Odessa herbaceous a little light expels a lot of darkness I once saw safar Sammis he asks a very interesting question I think it's in Paris not so he says in toda and parishes not in in in in English noise and Gomorrah in say the notion of you vomit service Nidoran nausea site to get in condition nasir comes before sight when you look in homage and partials not so it's the other way around first you have partial sight and then you have Paris nozzle and the Gemara even asks why why mine is Macar Paris knows it the parasite it actually brings it the Gemara says hyralius i typical kula the Mauryan beginning of mrs. to site or are you so to become cooler yours it acts women haihaya when somebody sees what happens when people have no moral boundaries they drink they get drunk they Rinna brie ate it when he sees a satyr because cooler he sees the tragedy of the satyr so a person realizes it's time to go into a a time to go into alcoholic anonymous your Xerox room and iin okay you do the arbor crisis and grape juice it's time to start doing your Arabic Isis and grape juice if you have an issue so it's first sight ER and then Nasser Rubino Hakodesh the Mishnah is did it the other way around you vomit service na dhanam na z and then sight why would he mama sh intentionally reverse the order the way it's in homer's terrific south to the waist area papa so this famous brings based on this vertical Miqo'te toyota that it's actually two drunken there is the ideal pristine way of Terror Shabak south and then there is the turret of our pathway which was of course introduced much later in Jewish history the ideal way is sight to represent Samira Naza represents us a type site is basically weeding out the promiscuity in a marriage the adult the suspicion of adultery in a marriage in other words it's weeding out the toxicity the immorality that may have literally penetrate and affected this marriage to the point of a secesh adultery at least - which is the whole reason the whole idea of Satan God acts as the marriage counselor who's going to determine and ascertain if there was innocence with his lack of innocence Nasser is not sir made on the contrary Nasser is nothing is wrong he adds in his life a whole new level of kedusha a whole new level of kaduche she doesn't get Tommy you will grow his hair will will not drink wine and so forth that's together of an Aussie she says entire this cloud to say that his first sight there and then Dawson you don't make yourself holy if he still got garbage first get rid of the dirt and then you'll bring a nice furniture Rob a NOAA Cutlass realize that if you're gonna wait for that if you're gonna wait for that a person may never get to the state of us say toys because first of two reasons one is entanglement and the second is the spear depression entanglement means when you're dealing with your eye you can get stuck to you work with it a lot and you can get entangled and enmeshed and there's always something else you're gonna discover and your whole life you may get just a meshed and entangled in figuring out how to get rid of it and therefore you can get stuck you have to have the right guidance and discipline that's number one number two may even be more important you focus on your eye you can start getting into a very negative you get a negative self-image and you give up on yourself and you never even get to the next stage so in an ideal world yes in the world of me the Sun governor which is very ideal the world of ms so to speak ms mr.ali body which always challenges people to the core it's that's how you do it you have to you have to be fully functional in order to be able to accentuate and bring out your kedusha because if not it's just there's too much too many infections you gotta you gotta get rid of them but miss hello had a different Basilio said no Colin or not Casa de casue de casue de hielo says and that's where I been this puts Nasser before Satan when I better cut this saw the matzo we understood that you have to be able to allow people to immediately focus on how much incredible positivity there is in their system and their soul in their psyche in their life and bring that out immediately and start with that and that itself that itself will be the impetus will create the momentum that will be diced as I said because oil is always those the culture that has to be I and it's really to shittest it's two different shifts in life once it a very interesting story from the Bahamas his name is rabbi manis Friedman he lives in st. Paul Minnesota he told me once that he has he had a school there for many years called base conifer for young women who from secular homes he wanted to come study he described one of the first schools of that nature in the early 70s or late 60s in Minnesota for many years I heard from him ones that there was a girl there okay and it was very hard for her to have relationships with people she was like narcissistic or very selfish very self oriented constantly and it came the age you know of shidduchim she wanted a day to get married but it was very very hard for her because she had this thing you know she's very very self-centered somebody once said that she stopped going on dates because the last date the guy was talking about himself for three hours and then finally after three hours he turns to his his friend and says it's enough me talking about myself no let's say what you have to say about me so this was her matzah and it was very difficult for her so he suggested to her I think this is the early seventies to go visit the Lubavitcher ever and ask him what to do so she's been to therapy for many many years psychologists psychiatrists therapists the works and she had a whole huge long report on her state that she had one of the psychologists write up all of her problems all of her reasons explaining the source of her narcissism so I heard this from him he says he took the girl and they went to New York and she went in for a private to audience with their ever and she gave him the report why would you never was a speed reader who was a very interesting reader he could read literally it's not a Goods me could read a page and around two or three seconds so a person I mean I saw this myself a person could give him 60 or 70 pages and he read it mama SH in a few minutes and that's what happened so he puts on his glasses he takes the report and he thought it was a bailout he did it I don't know was he read the letters like this was and he mastered it he got it he starts reading the report he goes through the whole report and he looks up at her and he says so what's the problem so she thought he was joking you know he didn't have time you know people you give somebody 80 pages right somebody comes to see me with 80 pages like you know a good tug right by my sabbatical in 10 years when I take a sabbatical I'll read it but I'll probably then I'll have better things to read so she thought he was just draw you know he's just being cordial she says what do you mean what's the problem you'll if you want to read it you have to read it he says I read it I read it I don't see the problem so she she was very upset it's ridiculous thing she comes in so professionally and he just dismisses the problem she says did you really read he says yeah I read you could test me on it I know what it says but I don't see the problem tell me what the problem is she says the problem is my mother is dis and my father is dis on my grandfather's dis on my grandmother's dis and because of that I'm like this and I never got this so therefore I'm this he says that's your mother and grandmother grandfather great-grandfather great-grandmother what's your problem well you saw because I didn't get this notice I became like this I have a voice I have this I can't look at other peoples I'm always paradigm a prat one she good again here you go again this is what history will have what's your problem she says my problem is that I am selfish she says so don't be selfish so again she thought they said okay let's be practical where you based on how did they serve the meals he says how do they see her smoke is born the girls go over they take a plate and then he says buy every meal and people are sitting go over to one table and ask all the people sitting at the table if they need anything from the smorgasbord somebody will say a napkin a plate the fork a knife a cup of this first to look at you a little strange but you do it and every meal three meals a day go to one table and go to the smorgasbord and give people he says that means you're not selfish we think about other people and you do things for other people then you won't be selfish anymore just I can't I can't I can't do this I never did this he says if you want you could you send yourself first I'm telling you be not selfish that was it so she came out this was very strange to her she went for years to therapy to figure out why she's a narcissist and here she comes to this big Rabb and all he can tell is to go to the smorgasbord and give people napkins fresh taste and that's gonna be the cure so have a freedman encouraged her to do it he told me encouraged her to do it he said let's see he knew how good advice it was because how much resistance there once whenever you're uncomfortable doing something it means it's touching something very deep even if it's small so she came home and to her credit she did it so first everybody looked at her like misciagna cuz she was the narcissist you know you know this denial so they were very suspicious but she was offering and she was giving people the food and what happened was after a week their energy towards her changed they saw her in a new way they treated her in a new way so she treated herself in a new way and she literally became a new person he said you know she a few months after she had a very good date she got married soon after she has a beautiful family now she lives in Brooklyn he said Michelle I'm on Brooklyn I remember so in many ways these are two different approaches now which approach is right there's the right approach to go in and find out why your narcissistic and try to weed it out that's sometimes very comprehensive very thorough and ideally that's the way to go the cistern is coming from somewhere so let's figure out what your father told you when you were seven years old what your mother told you when you were eight years old or two years old and three years old let's work on it for three years and then hopefully you'll become a mensch is that an approach of course it's a of a shaman and I believe that in modern psychology since Freud there have been different views and I mozzie there's different views whether focusing on behavior focusing on psychoanalysis yeah Freud you have Skinner you have a lot of different Malcolm you have the positive approach Zelig Minh and others but the point here is that the different that's ultimately I think could be traced back here and look at the turret to these two shooters but shamah says you got a deal with Iraq sir made a vow say to me Scylla says know instead of saying you're selfish and now finding out why start doing good for people and you know what happens what happens is there ever was intelligent enough to know that the 80 pages were not lies he understood but he understood that the key is that she should be able to live a functional life he he'll become another analyst and analyzer for another two years the key was to help her the key was not to be impressive or to explain the science of things that's not there wasn't his job stop was to help her be able to live a happy life so that's what be civil says don't start like this and says don't start with sight only have to start with Naza I do still a sight to in you there's still a sight in you you still are stick like we limp in Toys for Tots are stick-thin if there's a sight then yo so what are you doing you could make fun of yourself and make fun of yourself but go to the Milan go to the common Navajo so there you have to be able to tell yourself that you're a beautiful person and the main thing is to live like a beautiful person and you know what happens what happens is that earth itself is done to the flesh those are the two and an avoider soshim it works that way do you first focus on their outer you focus directly on the time and then what happens is you see us you dolly ki LP saya that the Chi garrisoned Asuma will start leaping and we'll start we'll start seeing so now the shine is this but shall I make Shama accuses by symbol of a lawyer very sharp he said that Toyota I'm gonna mid wash a quarter which is like m/s which says Ali bara don't create the world base hello what did bacillus a missile Oh said that oil M tada - lotta more ever see Marius the das of a person should be integrated with other people and therefore when somebody asks you if the shirt that they bought the suit that they bought the tie that they bought the shoes that they bought are they ugly or beautiful you should say they're beautiful even though you think they're ugly the way everybody learns the Gemara it's the way some people learn the Gemara is that be still is basically saying be politically correct and just say nice things to people even though you know it's not true and probably they know it's not true but just let's keep it you know PC and let's just say Colin of officer they're the most beautiful and talented collar that ever lived and Thomas says I'm not part of your game I don't flatter people I don't lie to people I tell them the way it is I'm not gonna come to a hassan and say oh this person is blind this person is lame I'm not gonna do that I'm not a rush I'm not cruel but I'm not gonna start saying and patronizing and flattering you know every red Chevy broker some has paid them for the Causton and the collar and then for the father's every father is the biggest ball tester who ever lived in Claudius wrong it was never a since I've Rama V know there was nobody as nice in him every mother is the greatest you know what if somebody is not sure what's the big deal the sheva brothers had to go that's the same sometimes really it's to a point of of meais I was once at a shovel brothers for a sharpest and I really wasn't used to with it every speaker was speaking about the parents of the Costin and the caller first of all it was just that beside the whenever they were saying fine ms or not does the need for it seemed very strange to me the need that this is what what it's for just like literally to you once a person dies Mela so they're dead so they don't have to hear it for us to sit through hours and everyone is going deeper into complementing the other person I don't know I felt it was very very primitive very petty but so patiently says I'm not part of this game but BAM is here we learn that they still doesn't believe you why they Silla has just taken a different approach let's call it a more nuanced approach so I'm gonna tell you something I once heard I was looking up I wanted to see the source well Babbage sir never once made a seal on the septa a Giga and he gave extraordinary see him it was Yard said of his father in the early 70s coughed up some Amidala and he said that if you look through shots but Shami and they still have a pattern that go through shafts and you see this pattern constantly in terms of an approach to approaches he gave many many examples I'm gonna give you a few just to appreciate it here in this context there's a microcosm a second he went through all the six Darin Dorian mode notion was in gosh I'm tired and he said there's really dozens of more but he just saying like six or seven there's my ficus in my sector bracha stuff in an olive what's the new cycle half dollar on on the fire but Rama says he says shabarimala h basil--oh says boy de manejo ish so the gomorrah says that what's the muck Lycus but Shammai says hardin no hurry it could be new it in a fire there's just one color what's the color of fire what would you say ah reddish okay so buried a border or a sham created the light of fire they said law says it's not true comma 2 V know how it could be Nora there's many colors a fire is red yellow orange blue black white or Hill mo right so that's why you say boy de morir a how H are you Ray how long does like Miss Silla what's shot this time I didn't know that in a fire there's a lot of colors so hadisha basil--oh a two-year-old knows it look at it what's chopped it's very difficult how could we shot me just say other no you cannot have explained as follows where's Misha misses her nose this many night a Cuban or the question is what's the brach according to pay Shama halakha looks at reality the way it appears like we say in Allah Allah Allah Dinah love machine of reyes a dying has to judge based on what he sees bashar my believes that halacha pays tribute to the reality that we perceive when a person is enjoying the fire there's a fire now we're sitting at a bonfire so I say I'm enjoying the blue the orange the yellow the white I'm enjoying the fire burn my rage vasila says no halakha always focuses on nuances of reality it seeks to appreciate the nuances of reality and that's how it defines reality always bisecting it and disintegrating it and dissecting it in the details and therefore the broth is buried a Mahesh he says the numerous as a massage the Shabbos that 2/3 Gentiles came to Shama right you know the story Shabbos was a diplomat gimel Shabbos chiapas a farmer a loved one Gentile comes to shaman says teach me the whole Tyler own leadership itself the other Gentiles says teach me the whole trader but I want to be a coin goggle the third gen doesn't stick to me the whole Toyota standing on one leg in every situation they summer takes his sticks and erase whether you're joking the whole trade on one leg with 30 seconds the whole Toyota and be silly well sits down with each of them and teaches them and at the end all three come together and they say you know Shama threw us away and he'll the broadest access confession ultimately they all converted what's what's the math Lycus the cloud now Allah says we don't accept gate him we don't try to persuade people to become converse when somebody comes and says I want to accept Judaism but not really I don't want tension about path I want to become a kind of I want it all in 30 seconds so be Shama is right he himself is saying that he's insincere but they still accept on the other hand you're gonna say that they were sincere because at the end we see they became real Gator so why did Shama reject them the answer is shall my viewed Helana in terms of being sensitive to the reality that you experience people come and they say a person comes teach me although Judaism standing on one leg in other words in 45 seconds I want to know everything about Toyota it's like somebody coming into your business and saying teach me everything about your company in 30 seconds then you're running this company for 25 years you have headaches about it every day every night he wants to know what in 30 seconds person comes in to a doctor to a medical school and says teach me everything there is to know about medicine in 45 seconds okay it's a mockery of the system teach me everything about science in 35 seconds teach me all of Judaism in front sector so religion of 4,000 years old more books written on it than any other system so what do you want soba Sharma says out this this demonstrates that it's not a real Garris base Hillel is very nuanced base illa looks at it differently he looks at it new ones he says what they're saying is not necessarily what they're experiencing they may not know what a kind god--all is they may not know what tarish about past they may not understand what Judaism is base Hillel is immediately sensitive to nuance because he's sensitive to nuance he saw in their words something else in my sector wholeness on my focus if you let her have chicken and and cheese on one table on one Tish stuff but Shammai says you put it on one table but you don't need it they still actually is master in this case like I live alone at hell you can't put cheese and end and and chicken eyes on one table why again but Shambo says I don't have a problem with chicken and and and she's on the table what's the issue he looks at it and he says it's not a problem problem is not to eat it what's the problem of having it on the table base Hillis is always nuanced he looks at things in terms of the cause and always in terms of the effect he always analyzes and trace it back to the sauce now that means Shambo doesn't know there's a cause and an effect but he says how long a views reality in a particular way so they still looks at it and says bringing it up at a table is stage one but there's a stage B there's a domino effect there may be a cause a result result this people are hungry people are addicted to people are not always have self-control if you put it on the table there's a charge somebody's gonna come to eat it take our Gemara Kate said miraculous now Collin that's divorce Rishabha is saying it's a lie they still the same two line no shot is as follows Bashar bhai says Russia top yawa it's not call another Hosoda how could you lie it's not coming over find the mindless of this caller halacha acknowledges reality as it appears that is the reality we pay tribute to in the world of Halawa base Hillel says no halacha focuses our nuanced think you came to somebody's wedding okay you don't think it's calling Navajo sir but one second does this cost and think she's beautiful what do you think of my son huh you think the cousin thinks she's beautiful he's marrying her yeah he thinks she's the greatest girl in the world at least we hope so at least let's hope he thinks offer let's not come to our wedding thinking he doesn't think so the Gemara says himself decided that this is so Ashima saying there's three things that have gained one is hey Michel baila a woman's pain is on her husband so one second you coming to somebody's wedding take off your glasses put off the cousin's glasses for 10 minutes take a look and say wow Karla Navasota why you don't see it well I want a guy to show other more everson obvious our partners Kaveri for our chat I deal in climate l'm claimed i doesn't only mean physical space it means existential space don't judge people till you're not in their space space doesn't only mean space i'm sitting in your chair space means your psyche your veldt on showering your way of looking at the world your disposition your character this force and Moustakas says on that mission villain mccoy myalgia and you're never gonna be in his space and then what happens it doesn't mean you become that person it just means you can appreciate life in a more nuanced way see things from another person's perspective in a relationship this is critical can you see things from another person's perspective or you can't some people just can't is how it is and this is our witness maybe somebody has a different heart the difference so they experience everything exactly different way not so easy for people face hillo says how locker embraces that reality so it's not a checker yes on one level it's a shaker on another level it's not a shaker from the customs perspective its column navaja Sudha hey Sam I says halacha doesn't go into these details from my perspective I love this a lot now talk about it spiritually as well you're looking at a person the person is locked up spiritually they somebody says I'm not gonna lie I'm not gonna lie we're dealing here with serious filth we're dealing here with serious toxicity we're going to identify it that's how we're gonna work but Sharma is right me this hardware he's right what's basically saying this is not saying to lie but civil is is advocating a more nuanced deeper look and saying you're right but we're gonna choose to focus on that which may be unconscious at the moment person may not have access to it that's what we're gonna do we're gonna be focusing on the unconscious or anything on the Navajo soother and by focusing on it you help it come out and when you help but come out ultimately it will prove to be right one day it will pack up in our hustle this is the general to our stuff is Abishai man this somebody asked the question why is it the result brings it's a well-known idea that lost at love way the halacha is gonna be like with Shama not like this earlier today the gomorrah says that her love has generally like whistled to the point that the gomorrah says bashar made their mark and they still elena Mishnah meaning wish on my instead of a civil that's not it's not even a have I mean it's completely messiahs view was completely rejected in most situations law said love affair ketika theologically Shama now we understand it because in the time us and lover when the hit sinus and the pious will reflect each other so then the halacha could be like Bashar my now that the societies in the pen Emmaus often don't match each other that lockers like vasila in other words when you say that they say hero is very nuanced in Halawa so when you're dancing in front of a caller sohba Shama says if she's a fig heiress or a sumo if she's lame or blind you can't say column over the suit they symbol says put on the glasses of the costume and look at it from a more nuanced perspective and then you can understand that since the cousin believes he's a carnival hustle done so you can also say color Navajo pseudo so even though you may not experience it from your vantage point but you're coming to somebody's wedding you should try to see reality from their vantage point and therefore you could say column Navajo soda and the same is true with all the other markeson of a civil versus by Shama where he maintains a more nuanced view that has to be maintained when the outside and the inside don't mirror each other so therefore if you're going to go only according to the outside only according to first impressions you may completely lose the premise of the person but in a time when the external and the internal mirror each other and reflect each other then the halacha could be completely like base trauma there's no need for there to be the luck likely civil because vanilla Lloyd Hashem the previous will come out into the Cassini's the same is true with what we explaining here the difference of glory undressing me taught me this Agora which demands that you get rid of the robbed before you go in to us a toy so again my awesome Lavoie in an ideal world that will be the the situation to go but Hillel who says you have to start with guess it you have to start with good even though this whole sure because if you start with bad you may never get out of it you may get them tangled in it and he's stuck in it and it may you know it may turn you into may get you so to speak down and melancholy and depressed and so forth so therefore ignore somewhat of the fire can start with type and let the toy you bandage the culture that again is somewhat of a compromise and we make an hour old because there is so much mixtures and you don't want a person to get stuck in the skeletons and the negativity and so forth but in an ideal world of losted love are you safe a character laughs it could be Shama because Gauri will lure will will work just want somebody asked that I wanted above Arden that this limousine is another interesting like Lakeland to me shaman vasila in in my sector a a bi cinema shnayerson atheists ran in the beginning of the my sector it's a very interesting Mike locus shammai says that Colvin notion Diane Shaitaan and Hillel says the picadillo pedophilia memory which means as follows sama holds that a woman who experiences her blood cycle so she sees that she's a need um so basically any let's say she touches a carbon after let's say she touches Truman she touches bread she touches bread on the counter that's true MA it was baked by her husband who's a Cayenne or baked by her right so it becomes Tom a from when she sees the blog because she's now a leader so she's gonna go to the mikveh what about let's say she touched the collar in the morning that's the color eight o'clock in the morning and then nine o'clock she sees that the flow began is that Khalid coming so Bashar me says no once she saw that's what it becomes Tommy once she knows that she saw before that's all fine she touched something last night yesterday it's fine I could say maybe it started sometimes it can happen a person doesn't know right away it's time Hilma says not she's me Tommy all the tyrants that she touched from the time that she did the last particle digger in other words if she was boy dick herself yesterday in the morning and she didn't see it but till then it's fun but from after that time then the last time become vicar it's Thomas that's the of Bissell they miss Octavius that's a very interesting Mike of Shammai says shaman Hillel themselves Sharma says : Oishi and iron Shaitan and Hillel says the people of Peter Phillips with Amara says tomorrow you need the right in the beginning of Midland ask the question what's the smaller Sharma says Hamid I shall discuss the issue of Augustus thyroid medicine a person has a task aspire the super person is tired on assume a person is bleeding mainly you have now a Suffolk eight o'clock in the morning is the caller Tommy or not I say she started 9 o'clock we know she's not she knows she's not fine but before then I go back to the COS up hello says no no no no when do you say something has a Kazakh and you assume status flow hey for the less Linnaeus in me goofy if there's no natural process with that changes but here it's a natural part of the biological process that a certain time every month there is a change there's a menstrual cycle he says good for cos øz it's not something super imposed on her suddenly this is something that's part of the natural process of Mahlon you don't say go back to the kazakh what's the kazakh what's the kazakh the kazakh is that till then she's sorry but but but that changes without a natural process what's the what's the what's the IO signals that it's a natural process but there's not a natural process and and Bissell also knows that it's not always Shammai understands that but he says that halakhah embraces something the way it appears the way it appears or it doesn't appear before somebody's eyes so therefore dire shite though this man of two minutes when she sees actually the blood in actuality not earlier there's no proof because there's no proof clearly there was no rehear there was no scene so therefore you go back for the kazakh and you say listen here I know this tumor here I don't know this two-month since I don't know this tumor and at some point obviously a person is tired so shall my realizing them pillow says you never only rely on your eyesight on Anil Reyes what you see whether physically or conceptually you always have to be nuanced you have to investigate the details you have to investigate the circumstances so he says the fact that she saw now is a Masuda it's a result because there's something in the body this array is a big offer it's an Indian TV by delayed by the woman that's how I Shan created the biology of the bottle so therefore you cannot just say there's a s castara there's an assumption of Tana so therefore Miss Suffolk it becomes Tommen so again here again they both know both reality but he said that how luck will have killer focuses on this enemy so this explains why the US had lovely the halacha is like we sha made because lost in love it is a world where the outer and the inner don't have dissonance and when the outer and the inner match with each other so then you say Dhaka Dhaka hallo cookie base chime I would love it now we say law that could be civil beautiful wasn't this awesomeness I saw once in patches Mauritius Rashi brings bodacious Barilla Kim accession Miley Cyrus later it says Ava told us such a my environs Bahama sighs hashem elokenu hashem i but in my separation is only similar kim is mentioned only at the end after 30 cookin you have suddenly the name youhave off okay so what's the reason for this so the gomorrah salsa de madrid says nothing on the medicines in a she quotes everybody knows the killer alabama cava livery asylum it Assad in Russia a know the miss Khayyam different my minister ahkna initially a shams plan was to create the world with mid US had in the attribute of judgment which is family Kim voracious bara elokim he saw the product will not endure nobody will survive so he said you know we have to put in another ingredient say he mixed into the cholent minister Assam him so back the end it says but um I saw Hashem I like him should do with us around everybody knows this it actually brings it that's the the contrast between the names and the Kim in the beginning very this far summer since the question is brought from before also it's a obvious question I understand a person builds a company an organization a movement show a house with a certain plant ask any woman or any men who built a house and once you anywhere else you have a plan have a vision and then when the contractor is already in middle of it you take a look as anyone this is not gonna work back to square one which is why most Jewish construction sites continue for decades and sometimes for centuries got it anything you built you have a plan you say you know what not a good idea it's not gonna land it doesn't look good I'm not gonna make money so you change the plan that's the sauce I'm mr. Qaeda Hashem knew what's gonna happen so he decided to create the world with me this I did then ride the office I didn't realize a mile in the sky what did he think what a pillared is gonna be in the sky what was the other minute so we'll discuss mashaallah my tolerance is that that can be if he's God he's God if he's not God God so what happened that's number one this is number two says bodacious bara Ellicott doesn't say very anxious Rob's a live relic in a rut sell the Kim live right bodacious elder Kim created as I'll say all over much Java to created the minister did Roche Milam escapes of course question number two answers question on the one that it snapshots he created there look at someone all of my trouble development is sudden and then he created it well he didn't create a draw Shane are the misc I'm when before or after says bodacious butter looking so this was a massage as a very interesting answer he says this is not an issue of a mistake versus is not a mistake this is the plan and the reason this is the plan is because he wanted that by a person there should be also the same plan there's the Alabama Shover of everything and then there is the actual izing of it meaning as follows when you go ahead and you plan something you plan to do something you plan to create something all of them are shoving the way you plan it is that it should be absolutely impeccable and flawless you plan to build a house you plan to build a company you plan to build a family plan to get married land to build whatever it is you want to build small or large we always plan it with meet us have did me the sudden means we wanted to be perfectly eyes got it should be impeccable it should be flawless it should be it should clop in an excellent fashion without any mistakes without any errors that's the all of them are Chava we dream of a situation that is the most perfected there are at some point you see a no Ilima Scalia if in my medicine acumen if a person retains that standard they will always destroy themselves huh why because there's no such a world there's no such a thing there's nothing that's perfect everything has problems everything has flaws everything has challenges you could plan the greatest wedding in the world the most beautiful myths are in the world what's the first thing when you come home the caterer put the fork on the right side instead of the left side the napkin was the wrong color the cup was and this he didn't have enough chicken he didn't never know this you always find what's missing know which one was missing that's the fact there's a famous expression of huzzah the man who says my era the chemists color should a savvy native mind dr. Manish toi've Zamalek ayam my leads am Elohim Ava's my - Ramon the possum that's really toys my toy is the angel of life toys my eye which means infinitely good my butt call my dad look it's my mother's what's the Molokai mothers - one said find him shot he says toy if the fact that you want things to be good that's my love lion that's the angel of life time I eat if you need things to be perfect now you're giving yourself a death sentence this is my love for mothers perfection is the enemy of progress people who wait for perfection will kill every dream and nip it in the bud and a person who cannot live without perfection this is a person who's sentencing themselves to a life of death in the sense that they could never be happy they can never be content they could never have simcha so kind because there's always something missing no life is not something no life is perfect so a main little toy you've not only the need for toys mags at Malachi Mama's first of all it kills the person because you're always feeling guilty you're always feeling that your life is horrible and also it kills the product there's people who will not do anything until it's I remember I wrote my first article many many years ago I have my weekly SSN left by email so I was quite young and let's put it this way I didn't get the best English education in terms of writing in terms of school let's put it that way so I wrote my first article so somebody sought somebody close to me sort I sent it out and they said you're not embarrassed you're not embarrassed to send out such garbage right so if I would have listened to them if I would have listened now they didn't mean it to discard it was just like an instinctive emotion of there's the word wasn't garbage is just it's embarrassing I think that were even better it's embarrassing this mistake that mistake so I grew up in the house of letters and words my father was a journalist his whole life so I wasn't planning on stopping so I said I'll find an editor to send it so I found an editor to fix it up I made a lot of mistakes in grammar and diction and so forth but if I would have listened to their advice it would have been wouldn't have been a good choice because if you're waiting for toys my age you will not do anything ever I was once starving in a show in the old city of yours shall I mean that someone said that Sheol in the old city yeah they're in there Ivan so rabbi had inch signs of thousands there away I didn't have any snow shop this morning so was his birthday I think so after Domini I went over to say Mazel Tov so somebody came over tomb there's somebody closer to his age and said so on your birthday you're probably making a husband a nephesh she said yes she said did you make any big mistakes in your life what are the big mistake you know I guess it's an interesting question to ask somebody in sure one of the biggest mistakes you made in your life so he looked up and he said I made a lot a lot of mistakes in my life but the biggest mistake I made in my life the biggest mistakes I made in my life are the things I did not try doing because I was afraid to make a mistake those were the biggest mistakes in other words things that you did then you made a mistake that's the biggest mistakes mistake is that which you you would have done but you didn't do because you were afraid making mistakes so toy you've my ID if that's the expectation it's Monica mother said this one is on the other hand when you start off you definitely have to start off administered in but Sheila all over my show me the reminders letter was telling every person you create something with Alec in you create something with the highest standard possible always you want it to be absolutely wonderful but then you have to know reality there's no such a thing the world of idealism and the world of reality in our world they don't perfectly match they can't perfectly match because there's too many obstacles in the way everything gets stuck at some point to have a seamless flow between the world of ideals and the world of reality there's always a give and take so leaf in my minutes are a few ma'am you have to be able to have compassion compassion on yourself compassion on the people around you compassion on the state of reality sober nature's brother Lu Kim he does it because that's by us to the all of them are trouble every person is with the Sun did but then shifted from my Minister Ackerman in my shove it in and then in Raqqa Manila polish rush I know Ellen mask I am nothing could be nothing will exist if this is your standard you'll destroy everything you'll destroy illa billahil cabochon even now okay that we already have a gomorian Bates to the Gomorrah says in Bateson we just learnt it earlier fewer feel when we the two weeks ago the beginning of the second perk of Bates of the Gomorrah says doctors I thought it was a very interesting Mike likes to be shaman Basilica shammai the Gemara says used to go Sunday and he would see in the marketplace a nice piece of meat and he would say still covered Shabbos Monday he would see a nicer piece of meat so you'd say oh this is the covered Shabbos and he would eat up the first one and then the whole week he would eat up the earlier one when he found the new one with covered Shabbos so basically call yama by your eyes on the comic shoppers everything was only the covered shop is because everything he was wrong just for Shabbos LMI I want this for Shabbos I gotta eat up that one they said we'll have a different to the Morrises Derek how fair is how so like what Baruch Hashem join me on today there's a nice piece of meat it's for today Monday is for Monday Friday I'll prepare for Shabbos if you know especially a view that's what the camera says what's this far as someone like us it's not a stomach full stomach like this some so for rights and Gomorrah over there and others right the malbim rights a different different different spawn some clickers in life but shammai says all of life is preparing the covered Shabbos the Yogesh Akula Shabbos it's all the covered Shabbos in other words that was his standard of life and basil--oh said bar Akash Mei Mei it's also good my Cosima sector suka if you eat in a Sukkah but shall honorees but take a bias right your head than most of your bodies in this soup we have a tiny sucker so you can't fit a table you know these little suckers they you put it up you can't put the table there so you have your chair the sucker your body in this sucker but the table is in the house and you take the food like this are you allowed to or not so Bassam I says no the shorter nose has to be in the sukkah and basil--oh says no it's fine no should we do baby Suki we shall carnauba Tobias Suki represents suka represents dearest RI suka represents you know su cos David Roth money ah c'mon asuka's double deny fellows you're in the embrace of you in the embrace of the reminder shillelagh so therefore I saw Andrew boy and Johanna it's all batata bias it's all young should call a Shabbos they still has a different Mahalo so you're right be Sharma is meters ha Guevara and it's admit a sucker for his perspective is extremely idealistic and because it's extremely idealistic so I'm gonna complicate summer after live Mikawa he says the same thing you do not bring in beautiful furniture of the house is not completely clean you have to weed out all the thorns in your system all the skeletons got to go out of the closet all the demons got it removed from the psyche all the ghosts have to be eliminated and nipped in the bud and then you'll be able to bring out the glorious majestic ruffini's that exists in a person this is with the Sun in its middle Sakura it's very idealistic it's very it seeks ultimate truth it seeks real perfection and it seeks real avoider what does basil--oh say they symbolize he says his mythos how fast and he says you got to focus on the light you have to focus on the halo I'm the helo Milosz in halo you got to be able to say hallo you have to be able immediately to start praising you have to bring out immediately the godless of a person and the godless of hashem and the two are connected and that it's even though you know that there's a lot of other stuff going on and you could focus on that but don't focus on that tune in immediately and accentuate the positive the noble the holy the majestic the good the purposeful and the sacred and that's what that should be your primary focus according to be so low and the mainly they'll be my earth will be those elevations and Africa focus on the oil and therefore what are you dance in front of the caller you say caller number four sugar will focus on the beauty of the caller even though there may be other stuff he gave us a summa no no but there's an element that's beautiful was an element that sacred casue de bring out that the facet Elio in that that that flows in there like you said custard the verses consider and that itself will help bring out the state the state of color whereby Shama says no higuera so Sumer you got a deal with Sid Midrash I can't earhook you can't lie and be civil says that even in this situation you have to focus on you should focus on the calendar because Sudha that itself will will bring out the will bring out the positive in you that answer your question probably not ah what that what what do you mean you don't remind me I remember I've spoken a lot since then so if you remember yeah yeah yeah how summer hi sir Rasmus Johnny saying not to try and get to know in other words it's a labelled delicate criminal he's focusing he demanded a much higher he demanded a mid submitter sack Evora he was speaking the perspective of medicine hora which demands a much deeper element of perfection and doesn't see another path as worthwhile something that should be sanctified and embraced when bacillus says take a look at the hasana Mesilla he says he Gary says to me you can say this bacillus says no say carnival Hosoda you know it's a you talk about a Jew and Hashem says always a sham is the cousin and the Jew is the cour so sometimes you look at a Jew and you see that the Jews say Gary say something spiritually I'm talking about laying blind blind in the sense of no vision lame no stature no full spiritual they're not erect you know Zico fulfil let's figure it they're limping they're limping there's a spiritual weakness or sumer there's a lack of vision so Bassam I says Carla kimochi you gotta call a spade a spade you gotta call a spade a spade but vicodins look we don't lie we don't flatter we don't patronize this is a theory say sum up find the mileage you want to talk about the my let's talk about the Milos that's what miss Sharma is telling us talking about the Nisshin that's the point you see Assyria in the mind we look at the third that America hyah everything is shawn microsoft schumer everything is evaluated everything is measured huh so you have to meet that harris iserlohn it's a whole different mood of the Moriscos to the media it's a different power so the mailer you look at the way this drew behaves carla Kamisha he and that's how you respond to him what does base he'll say basil--oh is looking at the light in other words he's shining the light on to everything and to every person to be able to discover that which maybe doesn't meet the eye to be able to discover a more nuanced perspective so he says one second take a look a step deeper pala KS mecca's Mina shook the rebind assha Lila purchased this Jew he purchased a new he chose this Jew he chose him and I've seen activists ratana McCallum and Bhanumati Omar some allocation so therefore the fact that I don't see it the fact that the cost and Hashem chose this Jew as the caller means it's a common Navasota I believe Sonia superficially you look at a person and you say ah where's the beauty where's the depth wisdom Majesty so bacillus asylum teh dietician of the moon Revis in my briefs if you'll be integrated with another person if you'll understand in a co anus of another person if you understand the circumstances of their life if you'll understand their background if you'll understand everything they go through then you'll be able to look at them and say Colin of a sudden but if you don't have that perspective you just look at them you say what this is a blind Jew this is Elaine Drew so this Hiller says go a step deeper don't think about yourself think about God God is crazy over this Jew you're not okay so maybe put on the remaining items glasses maybe look at it from a different perspective go a little deeper and then you'll see it's not because he's not even he's not my Eve he's not naive the costume the guy who comes to the costume is not naive according to me shaman is that lying he's just more nuanced he's taking a light a healer hello a light and he's shining it then when you shine it you see life is multi-dimensional life is complex life is nuanced people go through a lot of journeys and experiences but Hashem shows him if I chose this column this column must be beautiful and extraordinary and amazing even if my taste I'm having issues okay fine so I cannot see it from every year I cannot see it from every angle can see summary perspective so give all the Kivar to be civil sometimes you look at a person you look at a child a teenager a person of a young man a young woman no difference age and you see something that may be negative so you say this person is either lame spiritually or blind spiritually and I can't have a contact with this person so what's a civil say I'll pop it on my Ray you don't look at something only with Ain a busser with eyes of flesh if Hashem shows him look of Mecca I'm in a sugar Shan shows this Jew it's a caller Navajo Sudha don't detach don't disengage you have to be able to look a little little deeper and by shamim I'm uh can be silly Lane and missionary you have to be able to see the penis then in a world when the previous will be revealed then I love it could be shot my pocket in a world who are similar when the penis will be revealed in the fraternity then I love to give each time I why because the external will reveal the internal once the external reveals the internal then there's no conflict there's no distinction between the two so then compare that could be a mother to be shaman and refer to Marvin Menards now we say a lavell ethereal can find yl availa debris looking higher because we have to know the of a shaman even though the halacha we said welcome to me so long that's fine this song they didn't put in the shift of a shaman they just put in color Navajo so there you have to know the of based on water you have to know the don't be shy my because first of all a person has to be honest with themselves second of all there's certain times that you have to have the of bhishan a person can't always focus only on the good sometimes you have to challenge the negative and you have to tackle it if not it's - you have to neutralize the bomb it's too sometimes too toxic so sometimes it's an an element an element like neshama so that's why we say able valid every little Kim Hyon even though I love it could be similar I'm not sure that this symbol is not idealistically Shama is idealistic I think a more nuanced way of saying it is that they Shammai his meters have been and MIT submitters have been you always look at what's wrong and it's admitted suggesting you look at what's right it's not that they still is not idealistic he's also idealistic but he gets there and I did he gets there different he gets different there was a professor Abraham Joshua Heschel interesting man she has a safer cold Cusk books brilliant books so well the difference in the baal shem tov and the cuts forever was as follows but all shem tov and every bad saw the good in the can every good is sort of bad so the boss something where everything was bad he found the good the cuts whoever it was good he found it bad you found it still selfish it still cuts cannabis said that the eight sahara comes into a jewel even right when he dies what's there what does the eights our hottest say right before you die in the last breath cuts others then what does the it's a harder to tell you at your last breath it's a harder says there's people around you don't just die stop by with a nice smile you see wrong generations they'll talk about house ad died you know you said smile and he got he says so that's the eight sahara instead he wanted to show that and every idealism there's narcissism so that's the could the fish on myself they're both idea listening he focuses on this c4 and they're both right both right this class is brought to you by the achieve Annette please help us continue the classes make even a small contribution at triple w dot they ueshiba net / donate