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Shavuot - 7 Steps for Success in Torah - Rabbi Daniel Glatstein
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Join Rabbi Daniel Glatstein as he delves into the significance of Shavuot and shares seven transformative steps for achieving success in Torah study. Whether you're a seasoned scholar or just beginning your journey, this insightful lecture offers practical guidance and spiritual inspiration. Discover how to deepen your connection with Torah and enrich your spiritual life. Don't miss this enlightening session! #Shavuot #Torah #RabbiDanielGlatstein #JewishLearning #SpiritualGrowth #TorahStudy
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Okay, first let me begin by saying you
know, please have rahamim on the Rav.
He's so busy running around to
elevate this Beit Midrash.
He only needs now $150,000
and then he could just sit and relax. So
if anybody before the start of the shiur
wants to give the the Rav nachas ruach,
now's your chance.
But it's a great
zechut to be here to see how the kehilla
has grown and flourished under the
leadership of the Rav. And we're
mevarech that b'ezrat Hashem then
it should be
titzrabeh hasafsalim. There should be
even more benches and more talmidim and
more shiurim. And this
Beit Midrash should continue to be
a great source of Torah for your
community and for the entire world.
So even though we have a lot in common,
let me tell you something different
about us. You see, for me, it's already
tomorrow.
And for you, it's today.
Cuz I just landed from New York. So now
for me, it's already
What uh what day is it already? For me,
it's
Tuesday.
For you, it's still Monday.
But uh even so, we're going to try to
bridge the gap. You know, Torah is
lamalam hazman.
I want to tell you something about the
Torah.
What the Torah is so delicious.
The Torah is so sweet.
You know, one of the favorite customs on
Shavuot is we have dairy on Shavuot. We
have chalav.
And there are many reasons given why we
have dairy products on Shavuot.
However, do you know what the earliest
reason mentioned why we have dairy on
Shavuot? It's mentioned in the Kol Bo.
Kol Bo writes, the Torah is so
delicious. It's so sweet. It's so
delectable.
It says in Shir Hashirim, "Devash
v'chalav tach l'shonech."
Honey and milk under the under your
tongue.
I once heard from Harav Avigdor Miller,
zich tzadik l'vracha, there are two very
sweet ta- tastes. There's a taste of
honey, there's a taste of milk, and the
combination of the two tastes is the
most delicious taste. "Devash v'chalav
tach l'shonech."
Amazingly, the Chasam Sofer writes,
you take the first letter of the Torah.
What's the first letter of the Torah?
Bet. What's the last letter of the
Torah?
Lamed. What are the middle letters of
the Torah? So, the Gemara in Kiddushin
says,
the vav of gachon and the ches, vav and
ches, and also darosh darash, shin
dalet. So, the first and last and middle
letters are bet,
vav, ches, shin, dalet, lamed. "Devash
v'chalav." Says Chasam Sofer, "The Torah
is through and through milk and honey.
It is so delicious. It is so sweet."
In fact, Chafetz Chaim writes, "Don't
try this at home."
Chafetz Chaim writes, you know, Torah is
compared to honey.
Did you know that honey is the most
powerful food that we have in this
world? It's so powerful that if you put
a piece of bread in the honey,
the bread will dissolve and turn into
honey.
You could try it. Not right now. Stay at
the shiur. After the shiur.
After the campaign.
First, you got to hit your goal. After
you hit your goal,
uh you take bread and you put it in the
honey, it will dissolve and become
honey.
Says the Chafetz Chaim even further, "If
you take a piece of meat and you put it
in the honey, it will dissolve and turn
into honey."
Even further, says Chafetz Chaim, "If
you take a piece of treif meat, a piece
of pig, and you put it in the honey,
the honey will dissolve the meat, it
will turn into honey, and you're allowed
to eat it, Halacha L'Maaseh, Chofetz
Chaim writes.
That's the power of the Torah.
You could have a guy,
he's a rotten guy, he's a bad guy, he's
angry, he's jealous, he's arrogant,
and he immerses himself in the Torah, in
the sweetness of the Torah, the honey of
the Torah, and the Torah will transform
him.
It will turn him into honey.
I want to share with you a very
interesting Gemara. There's a man by the
name of Rav Sheishes.
You know, Rav Sheishes reviewed his
learning every 30 days. He reviewed Kol
HaTorah Kulah.
At the end of the 30 days,
he climbed up to the top of a boat, and
he cried out,
Chadai Nafshai, Chadai Nafshai.
Rejoice, my soul. Rejoice, my soul.
L'chah Karai, I learned Torah for you.
L'chah Tanai, I learned Mishnah for you.
Meaning, be proud of yourself.
You made a big accomplishment. You have
a great achievement. You learned Torah.
You did it for yourself.
The Gemara asks, you're supposed to
learn Torah for yourself?
Is that the right way to learn Torah, to
learn for yourself?
Don't Chazal teach us that the Torah
upholds the whole world?
That literally when somebody learns
Torah, they hold up the whole world? You
know, we make a big mistake. We think
that
what protects the world is security,
defense force,
surveillance cameras. It's not true.
We don't believe that.
What upholds the world is limo Torah.
Wherever the Torah is learned, there's
safety and security. When the Torah is
in danger,
then
the Jewish people and the world is in
danger. The Torah is the security of the
world. The Gamara even says, "El maleh
Torah lo nit kaymu shamayim va'aretz."
Rav Chaim Volozhin are taught, the
reason why God created time zones
is because this way 24 hours a day
there's always somebody learning. So,
when we're learning now, in Israel they
get to rest a little bit. And then when
we go to sleep, in Israel they wake up
to learn. The reason why God created
time zones is so that there's Torah
being learned 24 hours a day. If there
would be a moment in time that the Torah
was not learned, the world could not
exist. Chasam Sofer says that's why we
have two different days of Purim.
You ever wonder why are there two Why do
some Jews keep Purim on the 14th and
some on the 15th?
He says because since if there would be
a moment of time that nobody was
learning Torah, the world couldn't
exist.
So, on Purim most people, you know,
they're busy doing whatever. They're
giving the shalach manot. They're
wearing the costumes. They're drinking.
They're not learning Torah. If all of
Israel would would observe Purim on the
same day, the world couldn't exist. So,
we have to stagger the Purim.
The Chasam Sofer says.
So, the Gamara asks, "Why did Rav Shashe
say that he's learning Torah for
himself? He's learning Torah to uphold
the whole world."
So, the Gamara gives a very unusual
answer.
The Gamara says, "Mei ikara."
Anybody know the translation of the word
mei ikara?
Mei ikara.
Mei ikara. Usually the word mei ikara
means at first.
Usually the word me'ikara means at
first.
Ki avid inish, when a person does it and
he learns, adat denafshai avid, he
learns for himself.
So, the Gemara is giving a very
difficult answer. That in the beginning
when you start to learn Torah, you
should start to learn for yourself.
What, Rav Sheishet was a beginner?
Rav Sheishet was gadol hador. Why would
Rav Sheishet be learning for himself?
What does the Gemara mean in the
beginning when you learn, you should
learn for yourself? I understand maybe
if for a beginner, Rav Sheishet wasn't a
beginner.
So, this gentleman is saying something
very important.
There's an amazing Vilna Gaon. The Vilna
Gaon
reveals a bombshell.
We're used to understanding, you know,
when we talk about the Torah, we talk
about the Luchot, we have mitzvot bein
adam lamakom and mitzvot bein adam
lachaveiro.
Mitzvahs between you and God, let's say
tefillah,
and mitzvahs between you and another
man, bein adam lachaveiro, let's say
gemilut chassadim.
Likewise, we have aveirot bein adam
lamakom, let's say avodah zarah,
idolatry. We have mitzvot bein adam We
have aveirot bein adam lachaveiro,
retzicha, murder.
Comes Vilna Gaon
and the Gra says, there's a third
category of mitzvot.
There's something called bein adam
laatzmo,
between man and himself.
And there are aveirot bein adam laatzmo.
For example, what? Says the Vilna Gaon,
giluy arayot,
lewd behavior, promiscuous behavior,
illicit behavior.
You're destroying your own soul. You're
destroying yourself, like it says in
Mishlei, noef ish chasar lev. You're
corrupting your soul. You're You're
your soul.
It's not interpersonal. It's not between
you and God. You're destroying yourself,
says Vilna Gaon, Talmud Torah. It's not
you and God.
It's not you and man.
It's you and yourself.
What does that mean?
What does it mean that Talmud Torah is
ben Adam atsmo?
What does it mean Talmud Torah is ben
Adam atsmo?
The meaning is like this.
God created you, my friend.
With how much ability?
This much?
Your ability is infinite. It's endless.
You're created in the image of God.
You have a chelek eloka mimal in you.
You have a piece of the divine in you.
You could
be anything. You could accomplish
anything. Your ability is infinite.
Okay, so then why am I a nobody still?
You know why? Cuz you got to bring out
the greatness that lays dormant within
you.
How do I access
the potential that lay dormant in my
soul?
Talmud Torah. By learning Torah, it's
between you and yourself. In order to
be, in order to maximize, in order to
access, in order to tap into the endless
greatness that lies within you, you need
a key.
Learning Torah
accesses the infinite greatness that's
within you. Limud Torah, it's not
between you and God.
It's between you and yourself.
It's about where you're going to be in
this world. How high are you going to
climb? How great are you going to
become?
That's what it means Talmud Torah is Ben
Adam
l'atzmo.
I come from a planet called New York.
And you think he's coming from New York,
he has big hidushim.
I have no hidushim for you.
Tonight, we're going to learn simple,
basic things
that you all know
and that will revolutionize the way you
approach Talmud Torah, but I'm not going
to tell you anything new.
You're going to walk away, I knew
everything this guy said.
But you're going to say, I never
realized that before.
Today, we're going to talk about the
keys to be successful in Talmud Torah.
Now, we start off
with a very big misconception. We think
Torah is like a subject. So, if we're
going to be successful,
then
we figure however you'd be successful in
geometry, mathematics,
geography,
biology, that's how we'll be successful
in Talmud Torah. Probably, it's the same
ingredients. So, if you're smart and
you're dedicated, you'll be successful.
And if you don't have the intellectual
capacity,
then forget it.
And what we're going to learn tonight is
that the ingredients needed to be
successful in Talmud Torah
are
fundamentally and dramatically different
than being successful in any other
subject. See, when it comes to any other
subject, math, you need to study the
material, you need to have the
intellectual ability, you need to focus,
and if you're smart, you'll get it, and
if you're not, you won't get it, and
there's nothing you can do about it.
Talmud Torah, the ingredients needed for
Talmud Torah
are completely different than any other
subject.
Look, I went to Yeshiva for many years.
I remember many, many students who are
brilliant
and they weren't so successful in Torah.
I know people who
they weren't that intellectually
sophisticated
and they became very great in Torah.
So, what we're going to learn is the
ingredients
needed to be successful in Torah
are supernatural.
Here's the first one. The possuk says
Also, you should pray. For this, you
should pray.
Now, that's interesting.
What do you mean for this you should
pray? Did you know you have to pray for
everything?
There's nothing in this world
that you don't pray for.
I remember when I was a kid, I asked
Harav Avigdor Miller
why
in the Birkat Hamazon
we say Harachaman
hu yishakeinu lemoed Hamashiach ulechei
haolam haba. God, please grant us the
world to come. What do Why do we pray
for that?
Do mitzvot, you'll get the world to
come. If you don't do mitzvot, you won't
get the world to come. Why would we pray
for the world to come? And he looked me
in the eye
and he said, "If you want it
you got to pray for it.
You can't have anything
unless you pray."
Even when you get in the car in the
morning, you have to pray the car should
turn on when you
All right, they don't have keys anymore.
When I
Now, when you press the button, the car
should turn on.
I'll tell you a story about my car, you
know.
We were We were packing up the car for
Pesach.
And we turned it on.
Okay, we turn on we turn on the car.
And then I went out to get more stuff to
bring into the car and I left my keys in
the bedroom.
But you know, once you start the car,
even if the keys are not in the car, it
will drive.
We then drove 2 hours later,
2 hours later, we got to where we were
going.
Where the keys?
Now, if we turn off the car,
we're going to have to figure out how to
get 2 hours back.
So, you want to hear a miracle that
happened?
2 weeks before, my son was cleaning the
car for Pesach.
I say, "Yudi, where are the car keys?"
He said, "I don't know what happened. I
think they like fell into a hole in the
car."
And we couldn't find them.
But when we got to the destination, when
I turned off the car, the car started
again.
So, that means the car the keys that
were lost 2 weeks before,
we knew they were in the car.
So, we searched and we searched and we
searched and we found them. We found
some chametz also, but we found the
keys.
Why am I telling you that? I have no
idea. I don't know, but
you got to pray for everything.
But yet, in Tehillim it says, "Al zo
yispalel kol chasid." Pray for this more
than anything else in this world, pray
for this. Friends, I want to ask you a
question. What do you pray for more than
anything else?
Any volunteers?
Zivug.
Hashem should send a zivug bekarov
mamash.
Parnassah, that's the right answer. I
know that's what everyone else is
thinking.
Most people they pray for a parnassah.
Kessef, money, livelihood,
bracha, parnassah,
mamon, Cash? Bitcoins?
Bracha and parnassa.
Followed by mamon, kesef, and parnassa.
After that, they pray for Torah.
If they even remember to. Says the
Gemara, more than anything else in this
world, you need to pray for Torah to be
successful in Torah.
Did you know that?
That more than anything else in this
world, you need to pray to be successful
in Torah. Say, what do I have to pray
for?
That I Hashem, I pray to you, I should
want to learn Torah. I should enjoy to
learn Torah. I should find the right
shiur, the right chavruta. I should be
able to focus. I should remember it. I
should enjoy it more than anything else.
That is the most important thing to pray
for.
In fact, the hour is late.
But you know, the Gemara legislates
that the Gemara tells us about Rabbi
Nechunya ben Hakana, when he would enter
the Beit Haknesset, he would offer a
special prayer. He would say,
Sh'lo yera davar takala al yadi. When he
would leave, he would say,
a special tfila, Modeh ani lifanecha
Hashem Elokai shesamta chelki im
yoshevei Beit Hamedrash. Do you say that
tfila?
Uh
many people don't say this tfila. It's
unclear why people are not saying this
tfila. If you open up any a random
Gemara, you have Gemaras here?
Where are the Gemaras?
In the ArtScroll Gemara, let's see.
Look, the Aitz Yosef Bahir Gemara, you
open it up right here. Y'hi ratzon, you
ever see this?
You're familiar with this? There's a
tfila.
The Rambam says, when the Rambam
codifies this Mishna, the Rambam writes,
"K'she yikaneis l'Beit Hamedrash,
machayev lomar." You have to say it.
The Shulchan Aruch says, when you enter
the Beis Hamidrash, you must say this
t'filah.
Many people don't say the t'filah.
And there might be justification for not
saying it. The Aruch Hashulchan says,
"Nowadays, most people don't say the
t'filah."
And he justifies it. He says because
nowadays,
this t'filah is if you're going to
be paskening halacha
in the Beis Hamidrash. So, the people
learning in the Beis Hamidrash are not
paskening the halacha. And the rabbis
who are paskening the halacha, they're
doing it from their house. So, everybody
is patur. The rabbi is not in the Beis
Hamidrash, and those in the Beis
Hamidrash, they can't paskin. That's
what Aruch Hashulchan says.
Others say that the t- the t'filah of
Ahavah Rabbah takes the place of the
t'filah of Rav Nechunya ben Hakana.
So, there are various reasons why
perhaps we're not obligated to say this
t'filah.
The Chazon Ish still writes that if you
want to be successful in your learning,
you should be careful to say the
t'filah. I am not here this evening to
tell you
you should say this t'filah, you
shouldn't say that the t'filah. You'll
learn the topic, you'll learn the sugia,
you'll ask your rabbi whether you need
to say the t'filah, but I'm bringing one
thing to your attention.
A critical ingredient in being
successful in Torah is prayer.
If we're praying to God for health and
nachas from our children and parnassah,
and we forget, you know, we forget to
daven that Hashem should help us be
matzliach in Torah, we're omitting the
most important thing to daven for. You
could go to a shul, you could spend an
hour of shacharis, and you missed the
boat. You blew it.
The main thing you need to pray for,
sometimes we could totally forget to
pray for.
Can you imagine in mathematics you have
two guys
and
one guy is more successful. Why? Cuz he
prayed. What does prayer have to do with
mathematics?
Either you understand it or you don't
understand it.
But Torah is different than math. Torah
is the knowledge of Hashem. And if you
want your physical brain to have an
understanding and appreciation and
enjoyment for Hashem's Torah and
Hashem's wisdom, you must pray. It's a
key ingredient. It's a critical
ingredient.
Number two.
If you're a father,
you give your kids money?
Of course. What are fathers for?
So you give your kids money.
Which kid do you give the most money to?
The oldest?
Which kid gets the most money? The one
that behaves. The one that behaves None
of them behave.
Which kid are you going to give the most
money to?
The one that thanks you the most?
You're going to give the kid who's the
most responsible
the most money.
The kid that's going to lose the money,
he'll get 50 cents. The kid that you
know won't lose the money will get more
money, right? I I would say that's the
first
uh
determining factor The first determinant
of how much you give your children is
how responsible are they. Now, what does
it mean to be responsible for money?
Do they have a wallet?
A kid who doesn't have a wallet, what
are you going to give them?
A kid that has a wallet, you'll give
them more. A kid who has a wallet with
like a strap with a a snap on it, you'll
give even more. You know he's not losing
it.
God's our father.
He is ready to shower on us as much
wisdom as possible. He wants to shower
on us endless wisdom. The thing is, we
need a safe place to put it.
Does anybody know?
Where's the storehouse that we put
Torah?
Where's the wallet? What do we put Torah
in?
The Gamara teaches us there are six
orders of the Mishnah.
But Yirat Hashem, he otsara.
The fear of God is the storehouse.
The fear of Hashem is the storehouse.
Says Rav Chaim Volozhiner.
If the fear of God is the storehouse,
the more Yirat Shamayim you have, the
more you'll understand and enjoy and
appreciate
the Torah.
The more careful you are
what you eat,
what you say,
what you look at,
the more Yirat Shamayim you have,
the more secure your wallet is,
the more Torah God will give you.
If you know your kid is walking around
with his ATM card, you know, flipping it
up in the air, juggling it,
you're not putting anything in the
account.
If you know the kid you could be trusted
with the ATM card, you'll give him
you'll put some more money in the
account.
How secure is our account?
Imagine if you told a physicist, "You
know why you don't understand the theory
of relativity? Cuz you don't have Yirat
Shamayim."
Say you're out of your mind, you're
insane. What does fear of God have to do
with understanding physics? Physics is a
mathematical formula.
If I learn it and I study it, I'll
understand it.
Fear of God would be irrelevant to any
other subject. Why is fear of God a
critical ingredient when it comes to the
Torah? Because Torah is not a subject.
It's the wisdom of Hakadosh Baruchu.
And he's going to give it if he knows
that it's secure with you. So, if we
have we develop Yirat Shamayim, then
we're going we're securing our bank
account. God's going to He's waiting
there. Our father is waiting there to
send down big big donations.
When God's going to give Torah, he's not
giving $500.
He's not giving $10,000. He's ready to
to write you six-digit checks.
Maybe seven digits.
He wants to give you big donations.
God said, "I would give you a million
dollars, but I'm afraid you're going to
lose it."
Therefore, Rav Chaim Volozhin says,
"Before you start to learn Torah, so I
want to tell you a little secret. When
you open up the Gemara,
close it for a second. Actually, keep it
open cuz if you close it, you might not
never open it again.
Before you start to learn the first
thing is,
"Hashem, please help me understand your
Torah."
The next says Rav Chaim Volozhin, "Spend
a moment, one moment,
think about Yirat Shamayim, the fear of
Hashem.
Do teshuvah.
Think about there's accountability in
this world. Think about that Hashem is
watching you. He knows what you say. He
knows what you think. He knows what you
do.
A little bit of your shamayim makes it.
Oh, Hashem says, "You got a wallet. This
guy has a wallet.
Let me write him a big check."
Yirat shamayim is the next big
ingredient in being successful in limud
Torah.
Next.
Ready for this?
Moshe kibel Torah
What's the next word? Misinai. Misinai.
What time is it for you?
For you, it's late. So, you're tired.
For me, I'm ready in I'm ready early in
the next morning.
Moshe kibel Torah Misinai. Moses
received the Torah from Sinai.
What? Sinai grew arms? The mountain grew
arms and handed Moshe the Torah? What
does it mean literally? Moshe kibel
Torah Misinai. It should say Moshe kibel
Torah Behar Sinai. Behar Sinai. Who said
that?
You're You're good. You had Wheaties
this morning for breakfast.
Moshe kibel Torah Behar Sinai, it should
say.
Says Tosafot.
The word The letter mem
can mean because of.
Moshe kibel Torah because of Sinai,
because of the lesson he learned from
Sinai. We know Sinai was the lowest of
all the mountains. Was the most humble
of all the mountains. And God chose
Sinai because of its humility, because
it had a low
It didn't want the limelight. It wasn't
looking for honor. So, God selected
Sinai to be the location of the giving
of the Torah because of its humility.
Moshe received the Torah because of the
lesson that he learned from Har Sinai.
But, let's explain.
Remember we said, "God is looking to
shower Torah
on us in great proportions.
But we need a wallet.
Here's the problem.
You know you have a container?
Imagine if we're like a cup.
The problem is God wants to pour into
us.
Our cup
if the walls of the cup are really thick
and the interior is very narrow,
there's not a lot of place to pour the
water in.
The thinner the walls,
the bigger the container.
Says Rabbeinu Yonah of Gerona,
the more humble someone is,
the thinner the walls of the container,
the more room there is to fill up with
Torah.
The more ego we have,
the more
we hold of ourself,
the more we stand up for our own kavod,
the more we can overlook insult,
the more
angry we get because people don't do
what we want,
the thicker the walls of our cup, the
less room there is for Torah.
I want to share with you the amazing
words of Rabbeinu Yonah of Gerona.
Look at number 22, the second paragraph.
Here's the topic.
Through humility, a person merits
everything.
Just like Moshe,
he was the master prophet.
He was praised only with his humility.
It's because of his humility.
If
we had someone today who was humble like
Moshe, he would have
also
been able to merit the Torah like Moshe
Rabbeinu.
Says the
It's like a clay. It's like a vessel.
The thinner the walls, the more room
there is to fill up.
The more humble someone is,
the more he could fill up with Torah.
Imagine if we said to a physicist,
"You know why you're not understanding
the law of relativity?
Cuz you're too arrogant."
So, what are you talking? You're
out of your mind.
What does humility have to do with
understanding physics?
And the answer is, you would be out of
your mind because it doesn't have
anything to do with understanding
physics.
But Torah is not physics.
The ingredients needed to be successful
in Torah are supernatural.
They're not regular ingredients.
Next, you ready for this?
In this generation, there's so much
Torah.
We have ArtScroll.
We have Mesifta Gemarot.
Any topic you want, you could get a
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we could translate it for you. You could
listen to Shiurim. So, why isn't anybody
Why isn't everybody like big talmidei
chachamim? Where are the Where are all
the big talmidei chachamim? Where'd they
go?
Torah is more accessible today than it
ever was.
In Pirkei Avot, it says, "Asei lecha
rav."
Make for yourself a rabbi.
Rabbeinu Yonah asks, "What do you mean
make for yourself a rabbi?
The board already made him a rabbi. They
already voted him in. What do I have to
do? What do you mean make him a rabbi?"
Says Rabbi Yona
a very important thing.
People learn People are not robots.
We're not computers.
If we were computers, then we would just
sit in front of a book and just read and
read and read and it would go into our
mind. We're not robots. We're not
computers. We're people and people are
influenced by relationships.
Because it's not enough for the Torah to
go into our brain. The Torah has to go
into our heart.
And for the Torah to go into your heart,
you have to have a connection with a
Talmud Chacham.
Connection means
you have to in your mind say, "This
rabbi,
I make him my rabbi.
Maybe I'm just as smart as he is.
Maybe I know just as much as as he he
knows. But I am making him my rabbi. So
when I hear words of Torah, I'm hearing
it from my rabbi.
And I have a relationship with my rabbi.
Do you walk your rabbi home Shabbat?
Or you walk home and he walks home?
No, you make it your business. You walk
him home.
You talk to him.
You sit next to him.
You have a relationship with him.
Every Jew has to have a relationship
with Talmidei Chachamim.
Because if you just learn from books,
then it becomes intellectual. So it just
stays in your head, but it doesn't
affect you.
It's not enough for the Torah to be in
your mind. It has to be in your heart.
And to get it into your heart, you have
to have a relationship with a Talmud
Chacham.
And you have to seek it out. Don't say
no, the Rabbi will call me, he knows my
number.
And if he doesn't call me,
No, it's your responsibility.
You make sure walk him to the shul, walk
him home from the shul, call him up,
bother him. If he tells you to bug off,
then find a different Rabbi.
Asilah Charav, it's so important to have
a connection with a Talmid Chacham.
It will take the Torah that you learn,
it will bring it from the heart into
your from your head into your heart.
Next, you know Rabbi Meir, we have a
very nice safe on Rabbi Meir. Last time
we were here we had it in Lashon Kodesh,
now we have it in English. Rabbi Meir's
wife was Bruriah, very interesting lady.
Tough cookie.
She came into the Beit Midrash
and she sees a guy learning, but he
wasn't saying the words, he was just
thinking it.
She kicked him. I don't know, maybe she
was wearing high heels.
She kicked him.
Said, "What are you doing? You're not
saying the words." She says to him,
"Arucha B'chol Evarim
If the Torah is arranged with all 248
limbs, it will be preserved, otherwise
it won't be preserved."
Like the Gemara says Rabbi Elazar, he
learned quietly for 3 years, he forgot
his learning.
In order to remember your learning, you
need to say the words.
You have to say the words.
Not like this.
No. Me Eimahtai Konesh Maba
Arvei Me Shasha Kohanim Nichnasim Did
you know Shulchan Aruch Harav paskins?
If you just learn the Torah and you
don't say the words,
you don't get a mitzvah.
Reb Zalman disagrees. He says
that's a big chiddush. You can't say you
don't get a mitzvah.
Because the Shulchan Aruch Harav says,
"Well, if you don't get a mitzvah, so
then at a shiur, only I'm getting the
mitzvah. And what are you doing?"
So, the Shulchan Aruch Harav said, "No,
you're also because just like by kriat
megillah,
shomea
koneh. If you listen, it's like you said
it."
So, when you learn with a chavruta, the
Shulchan Aruch Harav says, he says it,
you listen, and it's like you said it.
Reb Zalman disagrees with that.
He says that's not how it works. The way
Torah is learnt, sometimes he says it,
sometimes the next guy says it. He
disagrees with this chiddush that if you
don't say it, you don't get the mitzvah.
But one thing is for sure,
if you want to be successful in
learning, you want to remember your
learning,
you need to say the words.
You know, the Shulchan Aruch writes, and
as a halacha, look at number 26, kol
hamashmia kolo bishat talmudo mitkayem
beyado.
You want to hear something interesting?
Maharsha explains,
why does the Gemara say that when you
say the words,
it's like your whole body is learning?
He says something very interesting. When
you say the words,
it creates vibrations.
So, when you're saying the words,
technically, your hands are vibrating,
your arms are vibrating, your your legs
are vib- All 248 limbs are learning.
They're vibra- The whole body is
shaking. You'll you won't forget it.
Otherwise, you just sit there
uh
and you're like half in a comatose
state. It's not going to not.
Doesn't do anything.
It does something.
But if you want to be successful,
you need to say the words.
The Gemara even says there are 48 ways
to acquire Torah. One of them is Ari
Khat Sifatai'im.
You enunciate the words. Imagine you
told Einstein, you know,
if when you're learning relativity, you
would say out loud,
"E = mc²", you'll understand it better.
See, you need a therapist.
There's no subject that you have to say
the words.
The capital of New York is Albany. The
capital of California is
Where?
Really?
And what's LA?
Yeah, exactly. Okay.
Does it matter any other subject if you
say the words?
By Torah, it matters.
The ingredients are supernatural.
It's different than any other
discipline.
Number six.
Friends, if I came here right now
and I told you I have
the winning lottery numbers.
And there were 50 numbers.
Would you just say there, "Okay, tell
me. Tell me what they are."
No.
What would you do?
You'd write it down.
I'm pretty sure And what if you didn't
have a pen on you?
Would you be embarrassed to ask the guy
next to you for a pen?
No, I don't think so.
And if the guy next to you, would you be
lazy and you there's a store downstairs,
would you go buy a pen for for 30 cents?
Yeah.
So, what's more valuable?
The winning lottery numbers or or Torah?
Says the Gemara, "Shamati Shehayu Omrim
Ashrei Me Sheba Lakhan VeTalmudoh
Beyado."
Fortunate is someone who comes upstairs
and his learning is in his hand.
Says the Marsha, learning in his hand. I
want to read to you these words. Look at
number 34. Says the Marsha,
The
main learning that will make an
impression on you who
is the learning that comes from writing.
You want your learning to have an effect
on you?
Write it down.
If you just want to like sit at a share
and whatever and then go home.
So then just listen.
You want the learning to get into your
heart? You want it to make an impression
on you?
You want it to change you? You want it
to elevate you? You want it to transform
you? You write it down.
Next.
Okay, the most and now I'm going to tell
you a personal thing.
The most important thing you could do
to elevate your learning
is not to bring a phone into Bayit
Knesset.
Period.
Not off. Don't keep it off. Cuz you're
going to turn it on.
It's a joke. You say it's on vibrate?
Vibrate? You And during the shear was on
vibrate, you already felt it 75 times in
the last 2 minutes.
Why is it important not to bring it in?
And it's very simple.
It's going to save your life by the way.
It's going to make your life much
happier.
The Gemara tells us about Rabbi Akiva.
Rabbi Akiva was a ignoramus.
Rabbi Akiva was an ignoramus and he went
to learn Torah for 12 years.
And he came back, he had 12,000
students.
And he overhears somebody telling his
wife, "Yeah, your husband abandoned you
for 12 years. He doesn't even know
what's going on in the house.
And Rabbi Akiva's wife said, "Really? If
he would listen to me, he would go back
and study another 12 years." Rabbi Akiva
made an about-face. He didn't even say
hello to his wife. He didn't go inside.
He didn't say shalom aleichem. He didn't
say mazel tov on our kids' bar mitzvah
that I missed. He didn't say thank you
for doing carpool for last 12 years. He
turned around and he went back to the
shul to the beit midrash for 12 years
without saying a word to his wife. Asks
Rav Chaim Shmulevitz, "Why didn't Rabbi
Akiva come and say
thank you.
Thank you.
Thanks for manning the fort for 12
years.
Why didn't he stop and say, 'I really
appreciate Here's a bouquet of flowers.
Here's a box of chocolate. I'll see you
in 12 years.'
Say something."
Says Rav Chaim Shmulevitz, "If Rabbi
Akiva would have gone inside the house
and spoke to his wife, then he would
have learned for 12 years
with an interruption?
And another 12 years.
But now that he didn't go inside, he
learned for 24 consecutive years.
And when it comes to Torah,
one of the critical ingredients is that
it should be uninterrupted. I I call it
it's like charging your phone.
You ever You ever have your phone on
like zero?
And you have like one of these lousy
chargers?
And you charge it for 10 minutes and you
come back,
it's on 1%.
And you charge it for an hour,
it's on 13%.
But if you keep it in
for 2 hours and it's like it gets heated
up, you know, it gets going, it gets
going, you come back, it's 78%. You
could use the phone again.
Same thing with the Torah.
If you're going to learn and you're
going to check your phone and you're
going to learn and you're going to check
your phone and you're going to learn and
you're going to check your phone. You
learn for 10 seconds, and 20 seconds,
and 30 seconds. And every time the
neshama gets warmed up,
it cools down again.
You need to learn uninterrupted.
If you only have 5 minutes, make it 5
uninterrupted minutes. You can learn for
10 minutes, make it 10 uninterrupted
minutes. You can learn for an hour, make
it an hour.
Don't let the stupid phone destroy your
avodat Hashem.
For tefillah and for Torah.
Simple.
If you want the Torah to have an impact
on your soul, it has to be
the real thing.
People wonder, you know, I'm learning so
much Torah, why isn't it changing me?
You need to immerse yourself. You got to
be focused at it.
Do yourself the biggest favor in the
world. In our Beit Knesset, you can't
bring in the phone. Period. It can't
come in. We have a We have a
a locker outside.
There's a stipulation. Nobody can enter
the Beit Knesset with a phone. Period.
Under any condition.
Otherwise, what are you doing in here?
You know, it's like, you know, the the
false prophets.
The Elijah says to the false prophets,
"Whose team are you on? You're on my
team?
So, you're with me.
You're against God?
You come in with the phone Who's Pal,
whose team are you on?
You're with the program, you're not with
the program.
In the Beit Knesset,
you're loyal to God.
It's God's house.
Otherwise, what are you doing?
You want to sit on the phone? Stay in
bed and go like that for an hour.
Liberate yourself.
Free yourself. You're eved Kenaani, not
even eved Ivri.
The best thing you'll ever do.
Best decision you ever made.
Torah
has to be uninterrupted.
Whether it's 1 minute, 5 minutes, or an
hour. Whatever time you got, make it
real.
I'm going to tell you
one more. One more ingredient.
You know, the Gemara talks about
reviewing your learning.
Remember this Gemara? Aino domeh mi
sheshona pirko
me'ah pa'amim l'mi sheshona pirko me'ah
v'achas.
There's no comparison between a guy who
reviews a hundred times
and a hundred and one times.
You ever wonder about that? What do you
mean there's no comparison? I would say
they're pretty similar.
I think they're very similar.
Imagine, you know,
you have two guys, they're learning uh
geography.
You say there's no comparison between
one guy who reviewed it a hundred times
and one guy reviewed a hundred and one
times. You know, the Vilna Gaon has an
amazing chiddush. You ready for this?
He says,
okay, when you learn something, you
learned it once.
When I review it,
okay?
The second time, how many more times did
I just learn it?
So, what do you mean? Once. No.
Twice.
How?
I reviewed it, and when I review it, I
remember
the first time I learned it.
Do you understand what I'm saying? When
you review something, you're learning it
now, and you're remembering the first
time you learned it. So, you just did it
two more times.
When you review it the third time,
you know how many more times you just
did it?
I learned it now.
Six I'm remembering the second time.
I'm remembering the second time's
remembering the first time and
remembering the first time. You did it
four more times.
And the fourth time you did it,
it might be six or eight more times.
By the time you get up to 100
and 101, the difference between them
is over a billion times different.
I know don't matter me. So, review is
key when it comes to uh Torah.
If you go to a sheer, you go to Rabbi
sheer,
right after the sheer,
you put yourself in the corner and
review the sheer.
And then the next morning,
before the tfila, before the sheer, you
review again.
Uh you're a giant.
You're Superman.
You're a hero.
The whole world is standing on you. You
review something?
You know what that's going to do to you?
It's going to change your life.
But you say to yourself, you know,
I'm going to review something 101 times?
How's it possible to review something
101 times?
I'll share with you a a an amazing
thing.
You know, the Gamara tells us the story
of Rabbi Chiya.
Rabbi Chiya would say,
"Don't mess with me.
If the Torah was ever forgotten, I would
restore the Torah very simply. I would
take five kids.
I would teach each one Khamish one of
the Khamisha Khamishay Torah.
I would take six kids. I would teach
each one one of the Shishay Sidray
Mishna.
And then I would say, 'Okay, you
Bereishit guy, you teach them Bereishit.
Shemot guy, you teach everyone Shemot.
Vayikra, you teach uh Itzra'im, you
teach everyone Zraim.
And this way the Torah would never be
forgotten.
So the Maharsha asks, why did he have to
do it this way? Why didn't he just teach
all of these students Bereishit, Shemot,
Vayikra, Bamidbar, Devarim. Why did he
have to teach each one one and then have
them give it over?
Says the Maharsha,
the highest level of limud Torah
is teaching it.
The highest level of limud Torah is
teaching.
In fact, the Steipler Gaon once said
that if you prepare something
and you organize it
and you teach it,
it's the equivalent of learning it 50
times.
So you say, "I'm not a teacher.
I'm not a rabbi." You are.
You hear a good dvar Torah?
You have a Shabbos table?
You prepare it.
You're going to write it down
and you're going to say it to your
family.
They are listening, they're not
listening, they're they're going like
this. No, you're going to teach it.
You know what that's going to do to you?
You're not just a lomid, you're melamed.
You don't have to be a rabbi. You don't
have to be a rosh yeshiva.
Every Jew, you say in the tefillah,
Avinu Av Harachaman, hamerachem, rachaim
aleinu, vetain belibenu lehavin
ulehaskil, lishmoa, lilmod,
ulelamed.
Not only the rabbi says ulelamed, every
Jew has to be ulelamed.
Find somebody,
hold him hostage. Say, "You want to hear
a good dvar Torah?" He's not going to
say no. He He doesn't want to hear it.
He's going to think, "No, I I I Yeah,
but I have to go No, no, no. You just
listen to listen this. Tie him up
and tell him the whole of our Torah for
an hour. You put him on the chair, you
tie him up.
He's going like this, you tie his hands.
He's asleep, pour water on him.
Find somebody.
You teach him Torah.
You go to a sheer, go get a havuta, and
then teach it to him. Find somebody.
Your wife, your son,
your grandmother, your aunt.
Somebody.
Make a tape. Record yourself. Send it to
somebody. He's not going to listen, it
doesn't matter.
Find a way to teach Torah.
That's the highest level of Torah.
These are supernatural ingredients that
will give a person success in limud
Torah.
We're learning a big hidush. More than
anything else that you pray for in this
world, you need to pray to be successful
in limud Torah.
We learned very important ingredients.
Tefillah.
Yirat Shamayim.
Anavah.
Humility.
Ase lecha rav.
You have to have a rebbe. You have to
have a relationship with talmid chacham.
You need to say the words.
You need to write down.
It has to be consecutive.
The phone, you know that thing that
people people put on the side of their
belt?
You see that doorway?
Doesn't doesn't cross in. That doorway,
there's a shomer over there. The mezuzah
mezuzah says, "Leave it out. Leave it
out."
Ruchniyut has to be consecutive.
Retzifut.
You want to charge your batteries?
Everybody knows a cell phone, if you
charge it for a minute and you unplug
it, you charge it a minute, nah.
You're going to have you're going to be
on 10% and then after 5 minutes, your
phone's going to die.
You want to recharge your batteries?
It has to be consecutive.
And fi- figure out a way
to be not only a little maid,
to be a male maid.
Teach your children, teach your family,
teach your cousin, teach your friend,
teach somebody.
Nobody wants to listen, talk to
yourself. You're walking down the
street, talk to yourself. Say over the
Torah, say over the Torah.
A person learns for themself.
Besides the fact that by learning Torah
you uphold the whole world, you elevate
yourself. It's Adam small. It helps
bring out the divine greatness that lays
dormant in every single one of us.
In the merit of us coming together
tonight before
we hope, we pray that
should shower all of us with Torah, with
Shamayim, with all the vote and that's
good. We should be okay.
Thank
you very much.
Thank you guys for coming.