Shnayim Yomi - Bereshit - Sheni - #2

[Music] how does a great marriage look well the concept of marriage we're introduced to in sheni Ines because Hashem tells the Tor tells us more in this Aliyah about how Man was created and Hashem put him in ganeden and all of the rivers that were in ganeden and then Hashem said I need to give for a I need to find for men a mate I need to find for man a match it's not good for man to be alone so the first idea is that it's a blessing to have company it's a blessing to have someone that you could spend your life with but Hashem then says I'm gonna make him a helping mate that's opposite him and the g famously says that if you Merit your wife helps you and if you don't Merit your wife is against you what does that mean so I want heard froma fantastic concept no matter what your spouse is going to be cono that means a spouse is always there and challenging her husband that's just the way most marriages are the question is what is she challenging you for is she challenging you because she wants to bring you down or is she challenging you to bring you up as means you're going to be connect you're going to you're going to be and you're going to play Devil's Advocate I'm going to say yes you might say no you might say I might say this and you're going to question what I said that's just the way marriages are but how are you to opposite what are you using that strength for are you using it to lift me up Abraham is and yob all of them had wives that in certain points challenged them but they challenge them to lift them up you and your wife if you have a proper marriage and a healthy marriage yes you have some connected all you have some that you're that you you have some agreements and disagreements that's part of the beauty because when it's done the right way that becomes your essit that's what helps you and that's what lifts you [Music] up