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Mothers and fathers, but but I've seen
it I've seen it more with with mothers,
but I'll say it to both, of course,
should trust their intuition, their gut
instincts. Sometimes, I've just heard
too many stories and been involved in
too many cases where a mother or father
just has this feeling like something
just doesn't feel right. And maybe it's
like, "Wait, we're about to do the next
part of the Haggadah, you know, Eliyahu
is here, he'll wait." Eliyahu will wait
for you to just go spot-check your
children in the bedroom because you have
a feeling that it just something doesn't
feel right. Listen to those feelings.
Again, not to be obsessive, but every
once in a while, it could be as much as,
you know, every 20-30 minutes, you're
just doing a little check in here and
there to see how everyone's doing. You
mentioned something very important. We
keep talking about abuse abuse, but
let's also remember that very often
there's experimentation. It could even
be the same age.
So, that's a very important thing as
well that, you know, very often we
overlook where it might not even be
coming from a quote-unquote bad place,
but again, these are environments that
things like this can happen. Well, thank
you thank you so thank you so much for
pointing that out because I was taking
it for granted that, you know, where
it's it's not all the same category.
It's a great point. And so many of the
cases start with kids experimenting with
each other.
>> It's not a bad practice for parents to
to have like a code word, mean which
means I'm feeling uncomfortable.
You know, to tell your children that if
you use this word,
you know, if you use this whatever word
you make up, that's a sign that I'm not
feeling safe right now. Can you give us
an example of one of those? Say
something. Use a word that means that
I'm just not feeling uncomfortable
because there's people around. And the
person that's been bothering them or
getting in their space might be sitting
at the table.
You know, and it and it and it I'm
saying you you play time. Make make a
word. Make a word that the children
should know that if they tell you that
you'll automatically step in and and,
you know, take them aside.
I will stand
for you.
We can face the world together.
If we raise our voice and make the
choice to learn to live again.
I will [music] stand for you
when you need me more than ever.
We will face the truth [music]
and find a new way through.
We will stand for you.
