The Great Chase of Rodef Shalom - Rabbi Zecharya Wallerstein

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Mazama measurements Laramie in term as mayor Steven was semester of Islamic rain if the mental Moscow venom in Sevilla China Sh'ma same surah Switzer a shame tonight we have the covert have with us once again noted speaker Malabar Nava about Hari Wildstein speak on the topic of the great chase the while stream will be with us in more moments see he went he I mean always [Music] and this show that I'm looking for as the Mishnah we want to talk about our anti clean because today was his yard site okay here we are Hill elvish ahh my kid blue mayhem pillow I'm err happy meat um either Solarian you should be of the Toledo of of our an acquaintance yard site was today I am solemn you should love peace you should love peace will try to explain what that means we're right there so um you should run after peace oh yeah that's have reais you should love all of us chefs creations juve not jus human being should love all his creations when the carven la terre specifically beiieved what does it mean to love you eat what does it mean to love someone what does what does it mean Shaul i'm ray dave so um oh I am Xiao LAN the the and this is the objective of my whole speech tonight is not just making peace between people as we know that I want to claim rights or two people and they were fighting and he went to one and he said your friends told me he's not much feels so sorry about what he said about you and about the whole fight and he really wants to come and ask mercy uh but he doesn't know how to approach you he doesn't know how to say it but it's admonish bothering him then he would go to the other one he would say Oh your friend told me he wants to he wants mushy WA and he feels so bad doesn't hurt you and then each guy met each other in the street and he's like oh don't worry about it I'm unseen the other guys I'm less of you and he sort of made this up our on a claim okay so I'm not gonna go into tonight about making things up to make peace we know I could as well so it's a different drug show because people sometimes you know they said oh a white light to make show um so I'm gonna go and and I'm gonna do something I shouldn't and then I'm not gonna tell my wife what I did wrong because you're supposed to change the truth and I was I went somewhere I wasn't supposed to and I come home and I tell my wife that I was sitting in your Sheba learning what's wrong with that red Wollaston I did it for peace so it can be very Miskin toodle that like you know we know of course boss who did it but everybody know someone to to sorrow and sorrow said I don't believe I'm gonna have children my husband's too old and then of course both who went to Rome and said your wife said that she's too old it wasn't true I think I spoke about this maybe a year ago or two years ago but Shaw line is really a mess okay but then people after that they just started making up stories to make Shalom but you can't do something wrong and then make up a story to do it right that's not what happened over here so but you see what happened Bionic lion right he made up a story the guy never said he wants to be Muslim the other guy never said he wants to be masculine right so he made up this story to make peace that's fine you can't do something wrong and then I'm gonna lie about it because for peace but this is something very different okay so he used to do this no use against says that's right when he died twice whoa cries much longer than the crowd for my sure man no because he was the peacemaker between husband and wife and between friends and therefore players were loved him very very much okay now listen very carefully because this is really my point and this is very hard and this is very important for our generation Keisha Keisha Hoyer a double Adam if I renew a person shall Varvara that was doing availeth how you miss her very much he became a very close friend with the person in our various there's a crush on this we know how to solder in Russia right but I only did this for a reason so he was miserable with him whom Allah why punish the high vice and he didn't look down on him he gave him a smile and a warm smile by your I saw Artemis by ish and when he treated him in such a beautiful way the person that was doing their various became very embarrassed by man he will hire you they are Sadiq if this Sadiq would know my cell wrong what I'm doing , human traffic memento he would never even shake my hand he would never even talk to me so what our not coin was doing we call this something that's very new and it mama I can tell you as a Rebbe and an F enough that it works amazing it's something that came to be about five years ago and it's called positive criticism which isn't actually every speaker wants to use that word in one speech it's a couple of words that we like to use oxymorons a big word right because it's actually it's actually if it's criticism that it's not positive wrong this is the origination this bout to Nora this is the origination a positive criticism I did not sit well not me but I'm just saying that the person who's Masada with his Russia who's excited and worked on himself never criticizes the Russia he makes him uncomfortable because oh my gosh this rug right I went through a flanker Nevsky for broke I was there for my birthday I went a couple of weeks ago and yeah when you walk in there and you sit down and you shake rough times hand it's like I know what I did he would never shake my hands you think he doesn't know what you did he knows to you then you feel embarrassed it's an interesting thing you don't feel embarrassed to my Shem many many many years ago there was a very big saddling a very big mekomo is there with muscle philosophy I knew him very well he actually wrote the Khmer as he was so kadosh that that he wrote the commands for Baba sali baba sali didn't feel like a Riker mayor's he was so car noise that he used to write the commands he's a big sad think he was he was destroyed fit in Morocco but whatever he was very very big sounding and he had a class that when you walked in the room he emotion to everything you did it was mine it was crazy it was as scary as I I haven't have gotten very close to him because at that time I was like we call it an SI t I was a spook in training and I wanted to learn all about this this type of Kabbalistic world whatever it was but it didn't even look at your name he look at your name no tricks no nothing you walked into the room and and he knew everything and it was very scary I'll tell you a story that happened that might happen I saw a lot of stories I could tell you tonight but okay one story that happened with him so we're walking through the room and I had another person with me first I had a young guy with me he said this guy was a seven 16 year old kid and he walks in with me and he doesn't even let him get to the like you walk in the door and he says you shouldn't even come in in your house in the third drawer on the left side of your bed you have terrible magazines and filth and I'm standing like how does he know what's going on in this guy's draw whatever it is and this kid turned not why he turned green he mama she turned queen and he walked out of the room he was mama shaking and I was like because we don't realize that there's a sale there's a our eyes don't see our eyes the more you see in this world it says I'm a person of custom when he dies so he sees from one side of the world to the other the eyes actually constrict your ability to see because your neshama sees everything everybody's neshama in this room right now she's everybody else's neshama and it's very important that when a person gets Muslim we're gonna learn about it today when a person gets up to speak about something he better have conquered what he's speaking about because every neshama in this room knows exactly what's coming out of my soul what's true what's not true how do you know that if you ever read the stories about the D bucum and the times of the time before the time the people were very scared to walk into the room because the Dybbuk would say every of error that that person did how did the Dybbuk know what every what I very idea how does the person know because the neshamah sees everything that's going on a mission so if you think you could fool someone else's neshama you can't so if you get up if I were to get up here today and talk about washing ro and give you almost wrong washing Hara and I'm about washing Hara in the end even though you might walk out of here and say wow I want to share what a story whoa in the end you won't change in the end you won't change why because the water is brought down and many farm I've seen it in many sperm because the water that I'm feeding you that I'm giving you with polluted so unisom is getting polluted water because I do that I bury myself so again this is very important disclaimer this is a very important disclaimer so if I talk about loshon Hara and you walk out and you're like wow and then two days later you talk about Nora Oh Wallace team-taught flushing her secretly because I didn't change so that's not always the case but a person who speaks was mafia other Jews if he himself is Iran katana Nana Vera in the end they won't have a referral from what they're doing so Anna Shama you know your numbers know if I'm real or from that real you will not know but your neshama knows that and therefore it will affect you and therefore a lot of specifically music okay this is a very big subject that I deal with kids about go issue music right so what's so bad about going you should music what's so bad about go eat music I'm not talking about the rap stuff the garbage all days you know my days you know Simon and Garfunkel and we will allow to listen to them because they were Jews and also we figured you know she was you guys they're talking about the sound of silence it's a mission typically all boys there's nothing better than sh t car excuses the Beatles whatever all the different so what was the baby didn't I didn't understand what was so bad about it there was no curse words there was nothing talking about girls there's none of this stuff in there and everyone's screaming Christian music Christian music and television at that time was black and white it was Superman what was it it was nothing it was it was no one there was the Jackie Gleason with nothing there there was nothing there and there and my grabbe's telling me I believe this is so robotics and I'm watching The Little Rascals I'm Superman and the Three Stooges am I ready saying I bizarre throw out that witness or a box and who understood who understood that it we don't understand because the the the the neshamah for the eyes and through the ears of a person another huge effect on you buying the people who are creating that Hollywood is creating that they are Moose Haas right you're watching what they're creating is in effect on you I didn't I did not agree with the child growing up I did not agree I'm a musician I'm a drummer I did not agree with my rebellion who told me that this rock and roll that I was listening to which was very kosher that I had an effect on me so it was like one of the hardest things as a musician to give up was rock and roll music and today our kids like people I found my daughter she's listening to to go your she music today it's mama she's not normal what they're listening to it's not normal you should know you should not have to listen to it but in my high school your girls out walking around they're jumping up and down and they're listening to the stuff and they're these two earbuds so sometimes I'm like can I hear what you're listening to what are you listening to so they give you one ear but to put in your ear I use this guy kill you brother then kill your mother then go kill another am i and now you're coming to my class for a shear and he'll kiss you know it's not like what do you so today's stuff is mom astray if it's interesting I never saw it but I heard a rough once cut up there's as I ah I didn't see it I didn't really look for it that much but this is aria that says that when Adam was thrown out of Renee then of course well who asked him said to him you could have you can't take from the ASA time he can't think of an eight to announce but is you could take any other thing you want from Grenadian and he said I want music and that music actually came out of GaN Eden and that we see this I did see it so a Midrash Rama right so their music came out again had him because it ever comes out again Nathan right across the street is get hand him so the other music that I was listening to in that ear bud that's from Jahannam and there's nothing music from Jane I'm not gonna get into Jewish music the marches they're Russian that this and that I'm not for entering the Jewish music that's taking from the Glacial world I want to tell you something I want to tell you something very fascinating I spoke about this a few weeks ago I talk a lot about music because there are there are there are two big questions big questions that kids asked me one or the other one what do you think the number one question of our kids is what do you think the number one question all day long I have this question what's wrong with talking to a boy what's wrong with a girl talking to a boy show me ha ha show me and I walk around boy right so yeah why do you have to cover you here so we have insight there the whole thing that you uncovered of here is much more that you covered her here right we have our answers but there's one question nobody has an answer to is show me up where it says right so it says that you should have talked to Anisha in the end stifle your hand of it's a mission a mission that Allahu rabbi it's a mission listen that kids have a question have to have an answer so anyone here know anyone here ever see the halacha about a what's wrong with a boy talking to a girl there's a helluva and we teach you something fascinating tonight okay let me go to the music first and I'll show you the whole awesome Aloha isn't you say date Tyra the Rambam Parekh hey straight and clear and you need to know this because if they ever ask you I'm talking to a boy new what's the end of the road what's the big deal I'm talking to a girl what's the end of the road no we didn't do nothing we're not gonna do anything I'm texting texting I'm trying for not even though I never saw she lives in Argentina and I'm talking to her a rabbi what's wrong with that I'm gonna show you tonight you can have an answer well let me go back to the music for a moment so I'm not telling you I'm approach llama karl barth I'm not pro Slovak al-abbas I did not know him I didn't know what he did wrong I don't know what he did right but I think something I do know I always had a kasha there was no one in Jewish music as bigger kala what do I mean that every shop is from Chrysler that's all I hear the sabaidee Rosh Hashanah Yom Kippur when the guys are sitting in the bungalow colonies and they really want to get really really spiritual it's all colobus unless the shore austere kolobok right there is no one bigger on what you shut up you'll Kippur look ID kedusha smear ice no one bigger ever in Jewish music that it's mannish michaiah but much calmer kolobok they're right but he did this wrong you did that wrong whatever I'm not judging everything Shania I'm not here to say he did something wrong or not but lamai so what's the secret what's the secret that a man made up all these beautiful Lagoon in and that in the most cottage dick a day of the year in the most cottage dicker places they're singing his restaurant AM Kippur and lhasa devi thousands of jewish people are singing lullaby he and his kedusha in shoes all over the world and then they even have Kalibak millions i give a breakfast dish lucky one day to be sweaty minions but all other guys have left out and I'd be angry at me but seriously Muslim and David minions whatever when I get into trouble it's a friend of mine so I heard from one of the men actually that was in his choir on the west side that he called his choir together and he said to them if you want to be in my choir you are never allowed to listen to a non-jewish song and that Carlebach said to them in my life I have never listened to the Beatles or to any Gallo song ever and this boy was a boy that time asked him why not and his answer was I want my knee goon him to be in the initial world eylem and if there's a drop of the glacier music that's going to affect me when I write my music it'll never have legs it'll never exist he never ever listens it to go Asian music and if you listen to his Negro name you realize there's just nothing guys about it it's totally heart sing again I'm not telling you sure you shouldn't listen but you listen to his music when I sit there in the in the bundle colony these guys are singing by Anik Chavez or my lava mouth car it's not normal these things have an effect on us music has an effect on us because you're neshama if it came from granadan and how do we know this you can't bring a car but in the base I made gosh without the Linnaean striking up the band without them singing what what do we need we'll see you to make something does I mean though I'm a client I'm in the holiest place I mean the holiest place bringing four bunnies - I said I need a dice standing there the whole band a bunch of guys singing if anything that's disturbing me and the terror is that it's so spiritual that in the base huh mediation and welcome I'm English at the holiest time when you're bringing kanban noise the levere have to say sheer and every single day we sing or we say the sheer shall join and not only that it brings down in the madness that caught my cook it's brought down a carb I cook that he and Alden idiom could not get into this without music playing in the background the only one that could get in the vias without music playing in the background is my Charbonneau so music has Leclaire to take you spiritually in the clean holy way in the bass hamikdash in the vias to the highest level so if it can take you to the highest level house for Shalom if you're listening to the wrong music you can take you to the lowest level and Here I am in my high school with a bunch of girls that aren't from that I've gone through terrible abuse that have been on the street and I gotta talk to them about music and they don't want to hear anything about Jewish music so I'm going to tell you what I did first of all it was a very big topic this goes back about 20 years maybe a little bit more that was that lived in your salon in a one-room apartment it's a very big mequivalent big decide that you were shall me and every much the Shabbos made a malama malcolm and at this one level mauka he lit a hundred and twenty six candles was unbelievable and the guides premier used to pile in he used to make a real big lava mauka used to pile in because it went around that if you go to his Milano mauka three times have a Kazakh and you and you want to get married that year you'll get married so of course it was packed I walked into this room because again I was studying trying to study a little bit what's going on but how Paulo and all these makuu ball and so I went to him on a muttsy Shabbos and his face was the Elio and other was in the room with marshmallow Malcolm italiano I looked at this man's face it was glowing he had nothing he had a kitchen a bedroom and one room in one room he had nothing and all these candles and it's a hundred and fifty degrees there and I'm just looking at him and I'm like I'm an amazement so I went over to him and I said does the rug that was the rub mind if I would come tomorrow morning just to talk to you no problem I come the next day he's sitting and learning he has a cassette tape next to him and it's playing I don't know like a choir para fake wired that time whatever it was and he's learning and there's music behind him and I sit down and finally he sees me and he stops learning he turns off the tape I said that doesn't disturb you he said when you learn and you have music behind you that medium takes your learning onto a higher level I saw after that written in the reason I written in many places that when you learn to IRA and you sing it and you sing the Machine eyes and you sing the Gemara it's on a way different level the Schmo that you'll be able to keep it the level of the learning he says but face you have to sing you're learning and there are many guys and you see every man when I was um I was just saying they disturbed me right when they were singing but but they were singing and they were on an unbelievable level so the music and singing it's it's it's an Hashanah thing so how am I going to teaches to a bunch of girls who are living in the Rock and Roll world so I did an experiment I walked out of that room that's when I stopped listening to guys she music when I saw him learning with that music I understood that if that's the medium to take you to a higher place even though the glacier music I was listening to didn't have bad words in it it was it was written by gamma was written from a entertainment world which is which is sad I mean after I stopped listening to great music I started understanding learning and Tyra and and this stuff stuff that I never understood before so you don't have you don't realize that you're in a fish store smelling from fish till you walk out you know all the guys that stop smoking huh my clothing smells everything smells I have a friend that just stopped smoking all his clothing he changed got rid of because they quit it as much he took it to the cleaners they couldn't get the smoke smell high for 30 years it didn't bother you he spoke from smog I was calling you stink from smoke didn't bother you the time says he was in the smoke once you walk out of the smoke it's like everything smells so once I step out of Russian music I realized what an effect it had on me but when I was in it what's the big deal huge effect so what I do I search other girls this is what we're gonna do just a true true story I said we're gonna we're gonna bring in a big boom box bring me your worst rapper the worst nya that stands it with a million change in gold teeth and he looks like he wants to kill everybody in the world bring me your you know your ice tea or 50 cent that fitty cent Jews we don't work for 50 cents it doesn't it's not a lot of thing and they they brought their worst rap music and this big boom box I said okay we're gonna play this for the class but you're gonna close your eyes and you're gonna have a piece of paper and the minute the song finishes I want you to open your eyes and write what you saw with your eyes closed okay so we put up this music I was like whoa screaming scream they like to get screamed at sweet if I raise my voice at them graboid what are you raising your voice at this guy yelling screaming the top is one no problem okay we finish the music stops open your eyes write that what you saw I'm standing in front of the safe tire you open all right coitus I'll tell you exactly what they said despair darkness savagery murder every dark word depression every dark adjective that exists was written on those papers okay now we're gonna play mama Russell so I did we played by Morocco now if they have to sit through it their eyes closed I said the minute you open your eyes tell me what you saw hope light one girl wrote I felt like a seagull floating over the ocean every adjective that you know it's positive hope help unbelievable stuff I said look at you two papers when your eyes are closed and you're thinking and you're listening to the music every time you listen to that music that is what's going through your brain now you had a chance to write it down do you understand that if continuously continuously this is going through your brain you don't realize because your eyes are not closing you're not concentrating and every single day all you hear what's going through your vein ah mr. sparrow yes oh you're here all day because the major close your eyes and you write something down that's what you hear and you listen to it listen to it you think that doesn't have a subconscious effect cuz your music a part of your soul I said if you listen to mom Oracle and it's hope Olson you're a seagull I mean you're a seagull floating over the ocean the effect that it has on you you don't realize when you listen to positive music where the Duster is selling we listen to negative music what it does to ISM and how they get to this whole subject because our souls are very connected to what's going on in the physical world but because your physical you're disconnected so the big tsadikim home the more they're disconnected from this world the more they see so my whole philosophy was totally disconnected we had here what's called the third eye he wasn't even in this world so when he's not in this world what world was he and he was in the spirit when you walk in doesn't see a physical so this guy walks in with me and he starts screams a true story you start screaming at this other this guy that walked in with me take the chicks out of here I'm looking we should deal with some chicks in our car we got there screaming don't come near me don't come near me take her out of here I like and my this guy that's with me he's like wah wah what's going on I stopped what was going on so he's very shaken he would and he would let him in who would let this guy I said to him did you ever do it have a row with the shiksa he goes yeah a few times all right he sees her not you and if you learn anything Cibola the chicks it's a creeper a cleaver what's a cleaver is the peel on the orange right the peel stays on the orange so this guy ran so that he admit that wasn't make for there who runs to the mikveh and he goes to the mick for three hundred and ten times he goes down three hundred ten times if you can figure out the if you can figure out the de montreuil can figure out the kamati I'm not gonna tell you think bad we figure out think about you what's 310 he goes down 310 times he comes back up he comes back up his mama's shaking you think you think I got rid of her I'm like no so he walks back in and he yells at him and says don't you come in here with her am i how did he see her and I said to the Rob I said so you have to help him he said Negra do chuhwa and jump into the mix before you Cheever so if you think that your soul and is we're gonna talk about this now that your that your soul is not seen so I said to him you're so scared of going to my Slough so he sees what you did you know what you did why don't you do truth I sent about my wolf I said you can stand in front of beds then right that's what they said about this shot then when it came to yo say didn't stand in front of I couldn't swallow who you know what you did you need him to tell you what you did you have to do chuhwa how our claim was on such a level it was such a panic that he saw right through you just like left i him he saw right through you and what imagine you did Schumer because I've been friends such an unbelievable person he sees right through me since what I did did he criticize any money I want to claim no he raised himself to a level that a person felt bad how can I be close to such as I think I'm such a bond of a row I have to do to if I have to come to that level a guy's twerking in shul you gonna get up and criticize him and yell at him you think it's going to help it's not gonna help but you're gonna sit there and you're gonna dive in you're gonna have qivana and when he goes up to the Taira and he gets in alia you're gonna overdo it says it was one of the nicest brussels i ever heard wah I was one of the nicest brothers I ever heard I'll be down for the almond that was beautiful he's gonna go when we say I'm a height how could it be by the only people think the shame people think I'm vomiting beautiful people think I'm good I'm when the sky became I said if he only knew it's an unbelievable tightness Mishnah becoming what's the animal and carving the Taira everybody thinks it's technology my generation it's like your kid you do whatever is wrong yeah yeah I'm gonna do it help him do it taking them to the worst place in the world in the next world that's not what you're supposed to do and miss yourself what you're supposed to do what shall I'm what the ladies have Brielle's wouldn't mean to love your child what does it mean to love another person you think I'll let them do whatever they want you're gonna go buy them the things that they shouldn't have you think that's what that's all of us have Brio says the Mishnah that's not all us embryos wants or even said wheels but Calvin Latoya stopped giving them things that are no good for them you love them you want to be show them to them bring them closer cuz world with carving Latoya be an example such an example that that child will said my father such a Sadiq how can I do this and he loves me he's taking me places and he talks to me and if such a lowlife I gotta be such a lowlife with such a father Wow positive criticism positive criticism means when a parent tells a child you're amazing he has to be amazed you can't make up stories the toughest girl I ever dealt with in my life without a Tish above night I never met a girl so angry she had so many piercings but would have had a magnet I would never got rid of her she was pierced she was tattooed she hated a shape she hated everybody and I think I've said this story here and then you know how to get her because I didn't know I know how to talk to such a person I never dealt with such a person and she cursed her shin in front of me with a four-letter word and she cursed every rabbi she cursed every Jew I never met someone so angry she was 14 years old a little kids screaming oh my god with a guy in the street I wanna knock his head off but dare you talk to me like that just get screaming at me like I should help me I don't know what to say to her and I should help me and I looked at this girl in front of all her friends and I said you're amazing she said don't give me any of that blank I'm like no you're amazing let me tell you why she tell me why rabbi I said I came here tonight was Tish above night it's gotta be 15 years ago was Tish above that at 12 o'clock I went to Judas place where for kids who were on drugs who were now coming off drugs and they're all leaning in because this girl is challenging the rabbi and if she wins they're all gone and I look at her and I'm like no you're amazing why am i amazing I'm like because I came here tonight to prove to you that there's a God and you already know it because you've been cursing him all night I told her good what are you saying I'm saying you didn't get up here and curse Martians were people from Neptune because you know there aren't any you are cursing God so you know what you know there's a house shame you just don't like them okay you're not the first one I've ever liked him you actually hate him hate and love very close they say you believe in kids don't believe in I said you should give this year tonight done walking out a 4:30 in the morning she turned to me she goes rabbi I'd like to ask you a favor all right sure I want to be a sub Russa I said I don't think so not a SaLuSa but if you want to learn together and to make a long story short today she's she's more firm than I am she's married to this cedar she gained her to throw who bakes for dots the mat says she's got four kids and she's immoral you know it's a thrill and she gave me muscle the last time I met her and while Steen a guy like you a Rebbe like you she calls me Rebbe says Rebbe a person like you how could you go back to schmutz Lawrence she's very big Aaron too strong how did you go to schmutz let's hug you not living in our kadesha you'd be so much smarter don't you know the ear makes you smart I'm like a bee you're pushing it so I told her that she was amazing instead of telling her you look at you I told her she was amazing now she had to live up to it so you give a person a compliment right when you focus on the good of your child you focus on the good of your wife wife focus on all your women update you focus on the good of your husband right then when you tell them you're amazing that you go out every night to learn then even if he comes to share at nine he doesn't learn he's talking to his friend Orson's gonna say you know what my wife we have to have to start learning you know my wife really thinks I learned and she's so proud of me how could I not learn how could we sit her all night and just talk and go out and it's called positive criticism it's amazing human being himself could become positive criticism our and I claim just walked around and he shook someone's hand the guys like oh my gosh I was shaking my hand if he knew what I do I'm meeting a mission it's not red walls day I'm reading you a mission okay and then he says he will hire you day outside exam I sell rum that I'm doing how you miss Ron take me Mandy he would stay away from me when we tried Cutler your husband would though that forces him to turn to the good okay that's the mission pure chaos now for the all the ones that asked you about what's wrong with a boy talking to a girl okay listen to this he'll kiss you stayed there tire up should write this down Perik Hey and he says the following Miche and nos on a navy sure somebody who looks at a woman Mahalo and it becomes lovesick but not all of us he's mommy dying I got a hammer but I'm a - and they're bringing all the big doctors and the right from say the doctors say aim low refer there's nothing that's going to heal him I should talk about why I'm not gonna translate their word but you all know what that means until he's with her so the doctors checked him out this guy is really so sick she's gonna die unless he's boil her doctor am i Hamas he should die but I'll tip a light and he shouldn't be boiler okay you all might think Amaro you all know this come on it's not a new tomorrow because what is it everybody its keel arias the married woman you had me boiled her to bad school at Royce one of the three things you have two dies Galerius you finish says the rabbi about tavolo he can't be boy aha I feel ooh hi sir New York even is she single what's he doing wrong send it to the mikveh and everything will be colorful it's not you that Roy yes she's a she's single never be with a man even if she's saying oh let him die what are you talking about how can you let him die smack you Leroy yes it's not one of the three you can't you can't let someone die unless it's one of the three let me dick around mom ladies listen to what the round I'm thought of you know listen carefully I feel ooh maybe dick I feel oh no this is Tess and I have read this and they have nothing to say I feel the DA be emo he said okay okay okay she's single let me talk to her I'm not gonna be boiled I'm not gonna touch her I just want to talk to her my hurry again there from behind the mahisha okay if you let me do that I won't die I'll get better so what do I want to do I want to talk to a girl who's single I'm not gonna touch her and I wanted the heat son and I'm going to talk to you through the mijita what's wrong with that so the Rambam in my ear in law the cough we do not allow him to do this he on us let him die whoa you'll rule without the email my flirt on together do not let him speak to her from the other side of the Meseta does anyone here understand this let him die the guy wants you to talk to a girl on the other side of him a heats up not to touch her he doesn't even see her he doesn't see her he just wants to talk to her says her Rama let him die why this is what I want the ladies to hear why why are we gonna let this guy die why don't we just let him talk to her it's not you arias by a long shot the Rambam ladies listen carefully so I could his bottle Fuu what he feels about his daughters she'll owe you hey be nice you swirl heckler the Jewish girls are not heifer you want to go talk to some girl because you're gonna die this is not this is not what we do with our girls the Jewish girls are not Hasker the young boy but varam eylül if rates by riots and talking and letting them talk with the Meseta soon in the future won't be there soon they won't be talking they'll be doing other things says the Rambam we're gonna let him die because our girls are not out there to play around we're ready to protect our girls we're not gonna help them talk to boys we're not gonna buy them the iPhone we're not gonna bring the boy into our house to be with our daughters better to let him die you can get up survive but Wallace teen how could you say that you're so there's your uh go fight with the round um I didn't write it Hill says you say date I robbed a losses of the foundation of who we are our girls are not out there to be talking to boys or hanging out with boys and we're definitely not going to help them do that that's for sure we're gonna do whatever we can to stop it that's how I cut his girl who looks at the bass she's wrong and cry you stroll will protect them will let the guy die before we let him talk to her so now with the grandma once again Perik hey capital says I'm sorry capital test that's the level of who we are and that's the level of our girls and that's how we have to look at a bossy straw and I'm not doing any advertising I just came down after I was a little bit late from the ranch in Bethel rebuff Hashem we opened up a place for Jewish girls and every time I opened that refrigerator and it's full of golden Flo milk and all the kosher food and I opened the freezer and it's on my chicken and everything I have been in Utah and all the other places and I have opened the refrigerator they brought a little kosher meat they got from New York and there's shrimp and there's Lobster and there's positive feet and and and and we have seated girls there and they're eating saucer traif they're eating bacon the eggs in the morning and and it was like do you understand how the tiger looks at a bossy strong will let a guy die before I let him talk to her threw him a seat sir you understand how sensitive cuz bar who is about his children about his daughters so when a kid comes to me and says so what's so bad about talking to a girl I'm like went to the Rambam it's you're better dead better you die then you talk to a girl what are you talking about rabbi Mike it's go learn let's go learn it say I didn't write it but it's not because of him everybody here should listen it's it's not because of him it's because of her it's not because of him that was scared he's gonna do a nivara no they're not you're not after a girls that have you don't happen to govern I'm Elif you understand what happens in velvet on melon melon I'm Ella with the fight when he had the whole fight with the giant regalia's so goalie is only injured goalie is girl just went down with a with a rock in his head but he wasn't dead he only injured him so governor Mel had to chop his head off the problem was a goalie is his sword was locked and his sword carrier had the key and he went to the store carrier and he said to him if you give me the key and you become again I will allow you to marry any Jewish girl that you want that's the deal she got to give me the key you know that was anyone anyone you know who that was who was a SOI carrier nobody knows who the SOI carrier was okay we'll keep it to the end of the story then so he said you got a deal you got a deal so he gave me the key and he open it up and he took the sword he chopped his head off but Sheva was mm lfz book that was his e-book but shovel was his eBook why he loses he hood cuz the the the guy with the key that was about Chevis responsible the one that mm L sent to war and the whole thing that no one else says into hilum or what he did and what he did wrong and he needs to par and I should forgive him and it's inside later but that whole thing happened because I could as well so the measure says the manager says why did it happen you made Hester my girls you told this guy that I'll show you the members mother says you told this guy he could have any girl in Christ well who are you so you made him Africa so you're zipping he's gonna get the ferry sham a Jewish you you said you can have any girl who you it's princess you made my girl my girls have skirt you're gonna lose yours if ik to him and then we know what happened the whole story Jewish girls are not half girl we need to protect them now let them go talk and get by them the iPhones and buy them all the stuff and buy them the jeans and buy all this garbage and this whole this whole therapeutic movement of of you should help them do a various helped them do have a was gonna this guy's gonna die we're gonna let him die understand you have to protect our girls going to end the cover yeah sure cover your char explains the mission that we just learned the mission is telling us something unbelievable you want your children to behave and you want your children to be caught you have to be so colorize that they're gonna say III I'm ashamed of what I'm doing because my father he said you really such a really good guy and he loves me how could how could I fool him like this he loves me so much how can I shake his hand you have to be so cottage that the guy in school is like why is he my friend he sees me talking and sure and he still and he's looking though it to me since my Chavez from I like him and I'm shaking his hand and I'm like so ashamed to a point where it's gonna stop doing wrong they wanted to live up that they could go to our and I claim and feel good about checking his hands it's a level they work on yourself the the muster you give someone is the example that you said stop talking it's not being okay of people by talking be more fierce by people by setting an example I don't want to talk about myself but just tell you a story that happened with me no I did so I'm a big hockey fan a big Ranger favored many many years ago now not any fan 12 just not worth it but how's the big range of fans the range of Rangers were not in the Stanley Cup forever we're waiting and we're waiting for these guys spending all these money's going to this games that we get to the playoffs and lose get to the playoffs and lose and then one year they get into the Stanley Cup Finals we're gonna get the cop people are not range of fans think I'm crazy but range of fans was like this was sheer the Rangers I don't know which one we'll see we thought we said like this where she asked wait until after the Stanley Cup because you're never gonna get another chance to win if you come then we never got to cop so you know it's like the Yankees in the World Series like us on Yom Kippur do like we want you but just let they're in the World Series like well let's let's finish okay so anyway so I went so it was a very big game and I rate a hockey game starts at 7 o'clock so this guy that I invited to the game I had two tickets crazy game create it with I to on the ice tickets I don't know what they were worth I got them through a business guy it was like $5,000 apiece you couldn get into that game you could not get into that game I invited this guy to come with me Oh from guy but never went to show doesn't go to show doesn't go to mean you mean is that important and it's like a quarter through seven and we leave Flatbush and I stopped by Landau's that time Lando's had the tree growing in it you know that it's time in the middle of the middle of Landau's right so it was a very interesting show but anyway I stopped by Landau see what are you doing what are you doing oh my god I gotta go to seven o'clock minion you crazy to keemstar yourself calm this is the game I know but I don't miss minion for anything crazy yeah you can sit in the car you don't want to go I'm wanting to miss anyway so you might as well come down we went to mr. fritz left at 7:20 we're gonna get to the game we missed the whole first period he was freaking out on the way there I can't believe you you're such a range of fan so you wouldn't miss medical you could have died by the kreisel you know I said you don't understand I don't care what it is if there's a billion dollars I mean I don't miss minion you don't have I don't miss minion so we'll come we'll see the last two periods he could not he could not understand that somebody was willing to MIT to miss 20 minutes of a hockey game of the hockey game you couldn't understand it okay so I went to mints I came back went to Meyer is fine that's about I don't know whoever the range of fan I don't remember what year that is it's got to be 15 years in war this guy when did they win the Cup 1994 so how many years are we now we're at 17 okay so this is having 23 years ago this guy is he hit tonight I'll see if he's here tonight this guy has not missed minion in 23 years he said from the next morning chakras until today not only that he's in business he flies backwards to California because of the hours to make mentally he says Sofia I have not missed a minion in 23 years I think if I'm was sir and it's a word to him I said if I'm here mother he said I knew that you're a nut crazy meshugana Ranger fan you will really miss the first period from minute ah is it Zach Zach Zach I said if it's if someone like you it's so such a fan who's not such a from you know like uh you were willing to mr. ng game because I never knew that there could be such a thing so he has not miss Murphy he's like a crazy guy and he's finishing she she's through the admission cuz he learns right now but whatever it is I did I give a muster that I tell him anything that I tell him you wrong for never going to million I just went to minion and I showed him that how important is to me and that's that's positive criticism he saw how important it was to me and therefore if your kids see how important minion is to you if your kids see how important house Seamus to you so many of us we talk about learning a minion and everything but we never talk about a Shem so they're like what does that have to do with anything I know the kymaro know about Pat where's that chemin de Gomorrah yeah once while they mention her from a plastic I know I buy I know Rob oh who's that Shem I once gave a with the people that were very modern and I kept saying on a Kurdish bottleful when I finished someone that came over to me the lady kog said who is that I never saw that written anywhere because doesn't say coach books when you wins so so they have no idea so you need to set an example you need to say we want to thank gosh and go out by the door in the morning so you look how beautifully as I could see I could hear I could touch I could feel occur tomorrow we'll talk of shemish and let them hear it talked about Hashem talk about a sham you know you know I feel so guilty I'm disconnected to Hashem my parents are so connected they're always talking about a sham set the example on a level source saying on a level that that all you of us have real recovering with time and you really love someone if you really love someone I don't care all the therapies all these things that people are following okay it has no basis in the toy room it's a mission the mission says if you love someone Makana mataira you love someone or even at bri ice what does it mean to love someone meant to buy him a bicycle or a movie or television or a pair of pants or drugs or cigarettes oil or give them snaps that's now loving someone who make a military he says hello this sam i like s you love someone pretty young close to the tyro bring them to a sham bring it again Aidan don't take it to your head on don't help them do things that are wrong help them do things that a write submission it's not me than me talking it's a Mishnah it's a missioner about our and I KN whose your tie was today whose reish lakish of the nine days why is it Redis of the nine days were going into the nine days there was sin us enum it was free hatred suck the Mishnah if you love someone the opposite of sinners Phenom bring them close to God bring them closer to the Torah by setting them an example two more minutes hava Yasha like to read you cover Yasha just a little part of it and para que and this is what he says he continues on our mission er my hostel or a hooker Michael all my rabid signals acquaintance LeBrock law said cargo the betrayer the English law Alvaro sir there's no more love I am coming tonight anti all these people that say that loving your child is giving them whatever they want I didn't see that in the cover you sure I'm not seen in any safer but I want to tell you what it means to love your child a Maccabi AIESEC is Sharia Adam Doval Mugu noble optimist well when someone sees another Jew doing something wrong shall I say either head full of on that he's doing Anna Vera sheets Oracle healthy kalasa you have to tell him he's doing something wrong keen dismiss and she is wrong and curing the bookings emwazi because all of us in this room and every jew of souls are tied one into another a lot close should tell us the other me today are the person who knows what the other what other people are doing Shobana initialize the other Mouseketeers neshama my go if he knows what happens to a person after he dies he knows where the neshamah is going sorrowful a dealer cavero he needs to tell his friend about it lulaia yada yes the cavero may through him his friend will change the yah saved a kaha Russia and he'll leave the bad way and he talks about the neshamah of people that don't that never rest I'm not even going to I'm not here to scare anyone but I want to go down all the way down talks about their resolve that he's sorting to shove us in the trees in class or whatever it is and he and he brought them back but he says the following Shayla Hannah Chalmers the nationís that are lost in the next world how you your final hours i sympathy little Tommy if you davon for them you're able to bring them into Canadian shots avec miss follow the qivana because it's how the diamonds with Kawana as she was like a little Maltese Tatas kiss a cowboy well I want to get to the main point we either we see should tell is God who - it's a deacon and shudders hundred dollars then when it's a deacon davon how it helps these new summers that I pushed out of GaN Eden the a look I give me last I said God on is a there is no you give people poor people you go you do you got asylum you you help camps in law you you do all these good things doctor cover your char actually their Wiesel a look like a meal as I said goddamn easier there's no bigger giving us guy said why because the next world is the real world and if you save someone physically on this world I saw the desire on Pascha Struma and this lawyer says if someone is dying I showed this to someone with a big box a doctor who said it's impossible and the Shia says that if someone is dying he has no food you either gonna give him food or you're gonna take a child that's off the derrick and bring him back to our sham as he says take him from the dark King and bring it back to the sheena let the person dies out the reason why because the pawnee who's going to die is going to go to the next world he's gonna go to gain a then but the russia chefs child who's gonna end up and get hannover end up hospital i'm not even in your head are cuz girl who has to watch his child suffer his neshama that he sent down to this world because well who has to watch that Shaba suffer do you understand since isaiah the pain of the sheena when it watches its children suffering ahead i'm or has to show them the copic hella even worse the we'll come to the next world who got again hey then this is not the world and someone who gives to dr. tiny him said to me that wall scene it's impossible good friend of mine and I took out Pasha Juma and I'll show to anyone wants to see it very clear if you have a choice should ever have such a choice you come you need to save that courage both with child the biggest Camille asked I said yes it's nice to give me vodka Zoila it's nice that you're giving food for Pesach it's all very nice but it's for what 70 years 80 years that's it but if you take it a shot as someone who's off the derrick and you bring him on the derrick it's forever he says Isaiah you bring the King back his child from the dark King coz borrow who walks around shamaya and says this person saved my child he gives you the keys to every says to the doors that I'm running gets it in Yaakov don't have who says if you really love someone you really love a child you really love a Jew don't let him go to your hanim don't help him go to your head um save him Rothstein how could I save him I don't even know him I definitely can't go over and talk to him dr. Kawa your show does it feel and you say this feline has Eve a no Hirata no finesse ha ha Shem alakina will okay ever say no she texted a tearoom attackers he said whoever daesil that she was plenty been plainness get their name well however marmots rest and anyone who does our various you who Paschal above them change their heart last sacred chant o believers o lame he admits of truth Allah college table if you can't talk to them there's a tree land have a know that feeling after say little - he brings down that when you say that talking or doubts if you know this person who's off to Dara have their name in mine and before you say the brothel brought our Champlain in a - saying my should man ready Shaban whatever her name whatever his measurement lay up because well who give him the dice to see you and to find you and to change Martha Tosh my Nana das so if you don't have the clef to talk to someone and you don't have the quest to set an example we all have the clay out to dominate our walk and he ends and he says abraca we should talk about all have this brothel I'll K therefore his guru his guru wake up wake up hi my brothers for AI and my friends last circle effort the effort kefir Jota Chewbacca tano to a small Trouville who the High boys the mice employ them bhatia through also become on a diamond with qivana be a spark of a rub find out your name and daven for your friend lasses chuva what's a season but Siddiqui miss robin was discussing about how the culinary gallery um says it's going to be like the sand that holds back the young shame a marquetry game the llamado these mccottry game that are against us and i don't have the time I started with late and it's very late he brings what happened in Eric's he swirl he talks about all the stuff that happened they were just happening at Heathrow and everything that were going through cancer and all the stuff that we're going through and he brings down over here oh god that's mamas the the the heat shine in this he trained him the more are various and everything else there's more power that they have and he said they're like waves in the ocean and what holds back the waves in the ocean Kleiss was could pick a call hey young not we all think it's all young that like billions and billions of us they're not there's eight million of us it doesn't seem like the broccoli came true right we're not like a Hawaii um the Moslems I could call a um no he says because holy Nome is not about a number because whole hyeyeon they should be like call young they should be the beach that holds back the ocean and holds back we should be the beach the whole a young that holds back the ocean from taking over the world that's what the caller young means and that chaos comes from bringing high school culture so if the missionary on a claim on his yard sector the Mishnah if you want to show you love McCarville mataira then bring them close to the tower and don't ever give up don't ever give up everyone don't ever give up on a kid don't ever give up on a marriage don't ever give up don't ever give up because you don't know we are like you know it says it's very interesting I went to Alaska and there a lot of I like to learn about I love the love animals and things like that but there's a zoya that I saw about the ocean and I talked to my growth about it all the time this area says that the waves why don't we have waves waves go to oceans waves waves I think it's at every six seconds over eight seconds there's another wave this is why their waves so zyre says because since the beginning of the world was all water than I should have separated so the water wants to go back to the way it was before or creation so the waves and sometimes you see angry waves right they're coming to take over the earth and every wave has a mala so the wave that comes to take over the earth he hits the beach right and then he gets pushed back you can stand by the ocean you could see it go to CJ right it's pushed back now mala of that wave tells the next wave that's coming in forget about it I was just there there's a beach are there happening so the durga says so then why does that next wave come so he says the mala called the wave coming in says is nobody desire says just because you didn't make it doesn't mean I can't and this happens every six seconds of the Brio just because you can't doesn't mean I can't wave three that's wave after wave mala mala mala what are you wasting your time there's a beach we're not going anywhere so what you didn't make it means I can make it all night long all day one all day what we call year millions and millions of my loss I'm saying just because you can't make it you got pushback doesn't mean I can't make it all of us can make it every Jew can make it with a hot young set an example if you really love someone set an example they will change because of you show them you love with positive criticism tell them how special they are and how valuable they are and they could and and find the good point that they could do anything this is the nine days we need to bring mushiya we need to bring Jews in not out that have rainy I was a little boy I don't know seven years eve I was maybe seven my father used to go there at six well he got up and he said something I didn't know what he said I asked my father and my father said when he said King Betsy recorders borrow whole-brain mushiya can best three year inventors I'm it's not gonna get better I show you got to bring him now because by the time you bring him there may be nothing left so you got to bring him now and we have the class to bring so what's the real Alice Kingdom against the nine days against the whole destruction base-emitter the Ava's feed them bigger than anything else bigger than any cassette bigger than anything that a human being can do is to bring Hashem his children back from the dark King maybe all these I start to see that happen think che me assure uttermost as possible I could give a big 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