The Key to a Lasting Marriage: Love or Respect? @TheShmuz #LoveAndRespect #MarriageTips #hidabroot

Before love, it's respect. See, listen to what the Rambam says. He has to he has to honor his wife. Respect his wife more than himself and love her as he does himself. It's respect first, love second. I mentioned the story, but I want to repeat it. I was a tal of the and the rashiva and rebbit didn't have children and the tidim of the yeshiva were very much a part of the house and we were there regularly and I spent I can't tell you hours and hours and hours in the sal's house and we got to see a marriage upfront and personal if I would tell you the single greatest tamida of the rashiva was the rabbiten by far I cannot tell you the honor with which she treated her husband everything was as rashiva as ltoa She never I never once in all the years never once heard her call the rasha by anything but the third person the rashisha and at a certain stage late in life even the rebbitson used to ask us I don't want you to see the rash when he eats your rebi should be like a malikim to you there was nobody I knew who treated the rashiva with that kind of honor