The Life of a Ger with Rabbi Aaron Dovid Poston

[Music] okay good evening everybody we are in Parshat Valley a chef that would be chapter 37 in Genesis and we're going to start with verse 137 and it starts like this here we go look in the English Jacob settled in the land of his father's sojournings in the land of cannot now the word settled and so joinings are very significant because why because in Hebrew it says the a shade Yaakov Yaakov settled settled as a a statement of permanence whereas me GU ray all these in the in the place in the land where his father sojourned the word gear that's the root Magoo ray Aviv it's a language of wandering a gear is a stranger a gear is someone it's he's constantly on the move so to speak okay so the first thing that the clea cart points out is the inconsistency right were the lack of symmetry in the word VA shape and Magura between settling and moving about so he says hi Lamar it would have made sense we should have said the Yeshe Yaka Yaka settled the Erica Shiva taught Eve in the same land that his father settled settled settled consistency or via gar Yaakov there is no glory of Eve were it could have been consistent by saying that Yaakov sojourn he wandered about in the land that his father wandered about why is it stated that he settled in the land that his father wandered about so as we know there's a famous idea in Cazale that says that Yaakov thought he desired a yeshiva shock ever a permanent residence in this world he wanted Shalva he wanted peace and I want to tell you there is no peace for the righteous the righteous I'm not saying they're meant to suffer god forbid but life is about tests life is about tribulations life is about growth and we all know you know when you're growing adolescence it's a lot of either physical pain right you're growing your bones are growing here you're growing there's going to be a great to be tests not it's not gonna be so comfortable so this is one of the keys here this is actually one of the places that we learned it from the Yaakov we desired this and as he came to one TISS Hashem let's a brought about certain consequences that would not allow him to have that Chava to have that tranquility and Yosef his his loved son his favorite son was then sold into slavery and Klaus his father a tremendous amount of pain for the following 17 years but so far all we read was the clear cars pointing out the ink consistency desire for symmetry but it's not there and furthermore he says but Eretz Kannada Lama Lee why do I need to know that it's an arat scan on him this is where he makes the statement LOL efficient machine at goth i'll should be casually Yeshe bottom has a achieve a shock ever because there was this guilt there was a incurred guilt by Yaakov on his regarding his request to have a settlement in this world this world is not the real world and silly not the permanent world we have we believe in the world to come we believe in a world of the souls and this world that we call a coil check air it's a it's a world of illusions and and lies and it's only temporary okay so for him to what desire and want that that was a no-no and what did he want to be Liaquat oh shah ball amazi so on the fourth line leo taquito shot he wanted to be like a resident a permanent resident in this world in the same place beam coming Gori avi than the same in the very same place and his father was a wanderer now you're gonna ask what does that mean it's true it sucked never left the Land of Israel but he was still wandering from place to place he didn't build cities he had a tent and he moved from place to place but why was it so important for our prom and youth Scott to be a wanderer so I'll tell you outside a little bit and then we'll see it inside if you recall there was a promise I don't call it a curse as a promise by Hashem the to ia bruh ham at the Brisbane avatar iam at the Covenant between the parts and what did God say to rob that your children your seat will be strangers in a strange land for 400 years where are we ever strangers in a strange land for 400 years we were only in Egypt for 210 it is true that the 400 years that were counting of being strangers is from Isaac's birth from the very birth of Isaac till we left Egypt was exactly 400 years so the scene so there's a certain debt to pay I know that's a strange statement but we had a paid this four hundred years of being Wanderers there for Wow however I'm still alive after Isaac was born he also was a wanderer he remained a wanderer and Isaac was a wanderer and for most of the otto's life he was a wanderer but at some point if you has to be a a permanent resident that would remove that would like stop the counting of being a wanderer and it would have ramifications and consequences later on do you know when we left Egypt we were at the 49th level of impurity and that if we would have stayed one second longer we may never have been redeemed we would have been a lost cause so you can imagine if that the I guess you call it a timer there's a tick-tock timer going on from you Tops birth and if for seventeen-year whatever it plus another 37 years or whatever 36 years you just imagine the rest of jaco's life and would have been without counting in the Fondren who knows who knows if we ever would have left Egypt okay so now we have a little bit of background on where we're going with this going back keep all these laws so Cain his father Isaac never did such a thing Aloha Obama's there you know what how Isaac lived in this world he lived Kagera like a wanderer I know the word Gear has many meanings but the the main meaning means a stranger someone like you we talk about converts we're talking about someone who came from an outside society or an outside family and as now becomes a mirthless a naturalized citizen but in the same level as a naturalized citizen right that they become a full citizen a hundred percent Jewish but they have a background they have the fact that they were not brought up in a Jewish culture perhaps or or they were neither with the their mother was not Jewish okay so it means a stranger Oh Raya not on the moon as a iraq means a visitor who's just spending the night that's how we should be looking at the world that's why we should be jealous of converts because converts actually are cognizant of the fact that this is you know this is short-lived and it's not permanent if we only I had a friend he was diagnosed with cancer about ten years ago and they gave him six months to live I'm gonna tell you he's still going strong and he's probably outlive all of us but when he was first diagnosed I actually said to him something very courageous what do you say to somebody who tells you there six months to live I said to me you're very lucky most people on the planet Earth think they're gonna live forever there's just a little disillusioned deluded themselves and but you know the truth you know that you're you're not gonna live forever and and you know what he did he took all this money and he took a cruise around the world and Baro Hashem his son has money and it's taking careful that's my beard nine amperes but he lives life like it's to its fullest he really knows how to live I'm kind of I'm not to say I'm jealous but I it's it's a good character trait to understand you're not going to live forever and to take advantage and he became a very much a changed person so can you imagine living life like a guerre like a guest who comes to spend the night if you sure I'm gonna Sparkle God says to him looked in chapter 26 verse 3 that would be the first on the source sheet god says gore bharat results that's like command sojourn in the land I will be with you he's telling him to Gore Gore as and gears and be a wanderer in this land so it's mentions Rush and gore he's secure lush and gore y ki raat saw sham shallow you like Asia's Shiva Keva bulma's that because the most important lesson one should learn do not seek to be a permanent resident in this world key a llamar okay this is a little tricky so one shouldn't say should look at his collection core don't think that the reason Gore was mentioned the future I built upon DARPA are at slow low don't think that he was actually living in a land that wasn't really his because it really was Mahadev art snickering Ikra care as we do know the word guerre means that someone's living in a foreign land right that's not there as you do if you call the care that's why it says arts Kenai it really is Israel but ode to Eretz how you talk to shop in the land of Canaan music also was a toe shop he shall know he because it really was his drew let's say through inheritance was promised Abraham and even ha Brown if you look in chapter 23 verse 4 when he's buying when Abraham is purchasing the burial plot of the Marisa Michaela from the locals he says Garret o shahe no theme us him a stranger and the resident I am with you i he used both languages the truth is he's a gear but he's also a tow job in jutsu if you want to say that I was only a care so that that's what it means but II blow it let him in a did but if you want to say that I'm also not a care I'm a tough shot then I have the right to take it because the lands mine but he didn't he paid because he was again in came can get such high Atocha merits cannot then this is that thought process if that's not the case that just like his father was a toe shop so to you attack was a toe chef can you Russa he low because it's gonna come to him through inheritance Mauser Sharmila - there's Marku so then we go back to that point we said earlier in Genesis 26 3 where it was a command God says Gerber RS you must be a err revive that shot gimr sold amazi I'm looking because he wanted him to have the status of the gear to be of this mindset shallow your vocational yeshiva show shava and feeling very low even in your own land even while you're living and heiresses your area even though you have it mm who even though um ID number even though that's blue and not arms don't think of this world and especially this land as a permanent place it ain't right don't request to have Shalva peace even in your own land I mean peace I don't mean national peace we're talking about personal growth and trials Keem can be a dr bade I arrived the rather you're like a renter who's just renting okay and that means you have the freedom to go and rent okay the Yaakov la llamada me men who la Sol cane I would not say this about Jacob but the clea car is bringing it from the Gemara so the Camorra the stages mentioned the Yaakov did not learn this lesson okay Jaco failed to totally comprehend this lesson but a Shem to carrots okay he did not end up living a life of shahe in during those years that his son was missing it says the Yaakov the llama me Manila so cane he didn't learn to do such a thing and now the next few words are gonna be very important when discussing them how came cuffs all of Rob's Usha Yosef therefore pounced upon him jumped upon him sprang upon him or quickly came upon him the anger of Joseph now why is it called anger and why the call of Joseph what does it have to do with Joseph okay so that's a very enigmatic we're gonna have to go deep into what these words mean okay debar affair alternatively shekharan and my labrum it was already said to Olive in chapter 15 verse 13 key Gary yeah as a red-hot diraja he said time you shall surely know that your seed your progeny your children will be strangers in a strange land okay the gum Jakob eh love hey let the free us close em also Jakob has part of this 400 years that needs to be paid off as I mentioned if it's not paid off it's gonna just be extended okay in other words the clock is ticking from Isaac's birth and if at any time there's a permanent residence then this promise won't take place in 400 years it will take place in like two hundred seventeen years but it's still the clock is ticking as a stranger for 400 years well you follow what I'm saying do I hear a yes okay but who boohoo BK xuxa bishop shava the malcolm McCrory office and yet he requested a permanent resident or residents of peace and tranquility in place of in the same place a place of where his father so join Commission Noah Yitzhak hip he'll hug a rose it's when yet shock was born that's when the wandering began and guess what both Abram and Isaac they both schreeten their lives like Gary Robbie it sucks how you mock Zeke eNOS oxmonkey Gary they held themselves they kept themselves in the status of nomads and nomadic life moving around how you nothing they were wandering in the to to mean and moving about me Marcela masa from one to the next well Connie not last Sunday the Karen they did not purchase fields and vineyards of course they bought would call a burial place but that's you don't set up residence in a burial place while you're still alive but coal asuka dalish I'll aim the hey Rahul they did this all in order to pay off quickly to make sure the taught the clock kept ticking for the whole for the obligation of will be said earlier in Genesis 15:13 that your seed will surely be strangers now that all works well with what we're saying especially when you think about a son a sovereign outside the family and ASA did not take he sold his birthright he was not interested in being part of this 400 years of wandering as the clear card points out fish La Mesa when it came to ASA Chehalis lo Eretz El Arish you know where he went he went to his own land shop your car Mart it works that well we look at the verse we're not there yet namely Gaelic the Matata shell Barrett says Oh basically he was saying I don't care about the land it I don't care about the birthright I'm not interested in spirituality right Eretz Israel is all about the spirit the Roth the the life with God I'm not interested he said the love the 3s club and I'm certainly not interested in paying off any kind of debt as Rashi medicine mentions at the end of partial R 3 schlock that's la mid Volvo did I bring it there sure if I could a depression okay I don't think I can I have it here I can look it up what did I give what an esop do he took his wives his sons and his daughters and all the people whose households which we'll talk about later that's not the important point here and his cattle and all his animals and all his property she took everything everything he acquired in the land of Cana and he went where somewhere else he went to another land the Gaelic hilarious he went to his own land he wasn't interested okay uh-huh yeah Kuh what about Yaakov hi-yah Barrett's Kanaan Jakob was in the land of Kanade Veronica Bell Kalin he was interested in receiving the metonic Taarabt the gift of the birth rights the low road so the Shaolin called to gear ye observe huh I think we're talking about a sod that yourself was not interested in paying off the debt that your seat will be a stranger okay or actually know what we're talking about yeah cough sorry so Yaakov himself at this point even though he wanted to receive he did he wanted to receive the Madonna the gift but there was a he wasn't clear wasn't clear to him he wasn't so interested in paying off his debt of being a wanderer he wanted shower he wanted peace and tranquility therefore up came cuffs Allah rods new show Yosef therefore pounced upon him or sprang up upon him again with disgust this point what does it mean the anger of Yosef that's why it says Eretz cannot because the evil about Lamia kamishirasawa Nusa that if if it would have been I'm sorry if it had not sorry if it had not negated the the the settlement from Yaakov of a peaceful settlement lo how you Yami Malu only mildly miss Ferrara marshana then those years of shalva pure Cody would never have been added or let's say included in the 400 years and then the last four words high admit a shock a sloth wrath the redemption the salvation the end been pushed off by necessity because you needed to have as God promised 400 years of wandering okay okay verse 2 a little dose Yaakov Yosef very strange I'm healing do you know there's obviously more words to verse but that's how its read these are the Chronicles of Jacob Joseph common at the age of 17 years was a shepherd with his brothers by the flock but he was a youth with the sons of bilko and the sons of Zilpah his father's wives and Joseph would bring evil reports about them to their father so right away it says these are the Chronicles of Jacob a little doe ciacco and it doesn't mention what is it failing to mention don't you think it should have mentioned the 12 sides why is it only mentioned Jacob so if that didn't bother you until now it should bother you as of right now sure hire Yosef dog Billy Jakob it Kokoro Tov you know why Joseph was his favorite son and Yosef was similar to Jacob in every aspect the dog Nikhil Ohio Yosef Iker toko Tov it's as if it's making it similar as if Joseph was his prime progeny the midges their Savior and the measures which we just quoted about Yaakov the being similar in all appearances his reasoning likeness Shirazi Yaakov latoque hey mashallah he made at aviv cole a yamaha lalu the Yaakov runnin he needed to fix what happened Yaakov himself did not honor his father um can we discuss this for 22 years when he was away he did not his own father read this again she rots in Yaakov Latakia Masha Loki babe at Aviv he wanted to fix the fact that he didn't honor his own father all those years I'll came to Yasha Baris McGorry Aviv that's why he considered to be a a settler in the land where his father dwelt the hush of keeping saying you to God Gama hvar he thought this would fix would happen in the past in other words that was good motivation he wanted to let settle in the land where his father was a wanderer and that's why he was BK slate shape of shava that's why he really requested to dwell in a peaceful way in a tranquil way and right away out king cuffs Allah brought show yo safe right away the the jumped upon the pounced upon did sprang upon him the anger of Yosef why we call it anger if you're supposed to speak about it the cognate Ornish he's actually receiving the punishment God AHA jung eum's shibuya all beaten the hoop odd maybe no shoe ecards re that his own son would enrich me 'but measure for measure his own son would end up not honoring him this is like nose he didn't honor his father 4x many years so came upon they're calling it the anger of Yosef the it was actually an Odin a punishment that he received for the days from the time for the years that his own father was not honored meaning hidden honor his father and therefore it was his prime progeny who's going to suffer can miss feride young MA according to the same numbers he got built in the who God me but know that gaku will not be on it by his son who's the e Curatolo shallow so in other words just like Yaakov himself was deprived what's the word prime the progeny of Yitzhak so to Yosef was a prime progeny of Yaakov that's why it says these are the generations or deeds of Yakko you'll say okay now we really talk about this anger a little bit why is it called the anger of what's why why is it called culture jumping and why is it called anger and why is it related to Yosef ooh ma sha bar and just like it says cuts all Abraxas Rios off' that's the measures to measure says that jumped upon him or sprang upon him the anger of yo safe so Mau Russian consul what exactly is this language of cuffed what does that mean jump hey Lamar it could have said it should have said though the other inertia yosef came upon him the concepts the the ideas relating to Yosef wouldn't that have made more sense what is qotsa it's a strange language and Mao Russian rugs ooh what's the language of anger doing here the lovely face her rug is Leo safe Nollywood was added doing here but what anger how is it related to Yosef in any way why are we attributing it and putting a label of the anger to Yosef so the clear car begins to explain hakuro they lie mom are busy you know why it's called throgs social Yosef anger of Joseph because we're talking about the sin of Joseph Joseph also sinned if Joseph hadn't sinned those things would have happened to him either but what we're going to come away with was Joseph sin wasn't that bad to be punished and even Yakko Sid was dead that bad to be punished but the combination of both made for the perfect solution a shampoo here goes little heed when someone sins they angered God that's what it means so if we're saying that what is why we call and get the anger of Yosef it means the sin of Yosef because when you sin you anger God then that you Havey the bottom ah ha ha he brought an evil reports right we'd read that in the verse verse two he in the fact that he brought an evil report on his brothers egg curry maje hem Avadi what was the evil report he went back it was true right rushing her happens to be true he went back and told his father that the other brothers are calling the other you know some of the brothers sons of slaves their slaves themselves just to give you an idea what we're talking about here could be a rubdown leia had six sons reuben Shimon lady Yehuda you saw Frances ruling now Zilpah she had two sons she was a maid servant is she a wife we'll see in a second but she's a maid servant and the Bilhah okay so Zilpah had gad and ashur Bilhah had dan enough not enough Cully and of course Rachel who's one of the mothers had Yosef and Benjamin okay so and the the sons of Leah were making fun of the sons of the two hand maidens and Yosef was bringing back the report to the father that the other brothers and Leia are not speaking so nicely about you know to and about they're making fun of the other brothers now who does that also affect it also affects the father it's an honor to the father that the children thought fight that especially when you're talking about things like this about his wives which okay we'll have to talk about that okay we'll talk Manik is just quickly that the verse does call them his ship halt there are definitely concubines and and maid servants on the other hand at first we just read just keep in mind we'll read it again but it says they were making fun of the sons of Bilhah and Zilpah his father's wives here this verse the cloth his wives other places are not called his wives so the reason why he was so concerned to bring the evil report Stilton even before it was because he was currently concern about the honor of his father okay let's talk about that a little bit later and I try I did no taint Leviton imperio say so Yosef brought back the evil report about the brothers speaking about the other brothers in a negative fashion as if they were slaves so look at psalms 105 verse 17 this says he sent two men before you Joseph was sold as a slave who had the demco Yosef Joseph was sold as a slave measured from measure he was using this idea that his look he was even though it was true but it was negative report and so the brothers were making fun of the other brothers but he was bringing that back to his father so as a result he was sold as a slave if that's the case I feel hi jakob neva cage lay shade shava what should be the question we should be asking if that's the case what does it have to do with Yaakov asking fur fur on tranquilly there should have been a punishment for your safe but come become high organism rule of all Yosef nevertheless this punishment it was certainly fitting to come upon Yosef whether or not his father Yaakov was searching for tranquillity gelasio said Ben Shabazz reshawna who you are okay now this is interesting we all know Judaism that once a girl turns 12 and avoid turns 13 they're actually treated as adults in the community meaning that if they commit a crime they're held accountable they steal they have to pay it back and if they got caught they have to pay double and if they murder somebody capital crime capital punishment doesn't matter that he's a I don't know what you call it now in the secular world that we live in you're only an adult when you turn 18 correct but no he's considered an adult in this world once they turn 12 or 13 but there is a secret ready for this Hashem loves us he knows that what adolescence is he created us so when it comes to a Bar Mitzvah Bat Mitzvah until the age of twenty they're not accountable for the sins they do in heaven yet they're accountable what they do here but a sham overlooks all their sins because they're trying to find themselves right there maybe experimenting I don't know I'm not really rebellious but I don't know what words to use but they're definitely what's the word they're developing you know and God knows that so basically he's only 17 years old louia bar on sheena died the baked-in Shalom Allah he wasn't in the category being punished yet from the heavenly Court but if he shouldn't a beaut the rods know the center show Yosef gamma should because Yaakov lay shape is shava therefore there's a connection God Himself connected what we call the anger in the sin of Yosef also from the fact that Yaakov himself requested to live in peace in other words this rabbi might guess it gave a great class the other day on the the exactitude of God's judgment and what kind of Keshe Bono's what kind and we're talking about people can affect other people that connect other other people affect other people down the line and only God knows the exact punishment or reward for anything that happens we should really try our best to stay away from judging of course someone who's totally evil we don't want to associate with but we have no idea what other good things they did in their lives or anything it's not for us to judge we don't know we don't even come close have an imagination of what someone's punishment would be only Hashem to create the world knows every and you can just match how many atoms and molecules that are in this universe and he knows every one of them you know I mean like and and so what is your action going to do that's gonna have a positive effect or negative effects with the death you know on someone else down the line whether or not you get reward or punishment for it you never know but anyway Hashem do to connect these two alkane meat hair Hashem that's why God went and cooked qotsa macaques it means to jump to move forward that's why God quickly he did it quickly thusly Yeltsin barnosky in codons mono he made Joseph obligated in the punishment before his time in other words normally you waiting God would have waited till he was 20 but Hashem made it happen earlier Zen Russian cuffs Allah that's when the Madras needs when it says it was it came upon him they jumped upon and it came quickly okay coke pizza every time the word cleats are you ever see truth favorite they're jumping on their beds or trampoline or just standing there we clump pizzas like mom is like up up the Baloch you know stop already I think that too much sugar so every time feats is used it teaches about da Varsha rui Leveaux I'll call pani something that's supposed to happen who may hair love o cousins mother but it happens quicker then it's known in its appointed time catheter Shimla havi Ornish got himself desired to bring this punishment on Yosef words time Canaan Lovato yeshiva toshiaki oath in order to negate the Shalva the tranquility the yahoo himself desired if i hahaha garment it's only the combination of the two kiona show Yosef LaVon because the punishment that was supposed to come on Yosef alone was Lily I speak it wasn't enough it should he shouldn't even punish kela higher bar annachi because he was not yet in the category of being punished in heaven you she was she a kilowatt also the request of Yaakov alone to be a to live in this world track Willie low yeah I speak Lobby buffers the under shell yourself shallow caught that would not have been enough had Yosef not seen okay so Rashi brings a very important analogy to a pearl that fell amongst the sand and of course what when you're looking for when you're looking for a pearl that falls into the sand you take a sifter and you get rid of all the pebbles and then the sand but you're only looking you're only interested in the pearl and this is him she'll may say sopla Hall the analogy shows that a sob is like the sand Liu Bei Yaakov L a marble eat whereas the Jewish people are compared to the pearl how Derek shamisen could leave the Kaaba as mentioned in the metric over here it says a sob is Shh Natasha's high/low we know that a soft had six children and now if you look in I think it's Genesis 36 6 right when I when I mentioned earlier all the people of his household in Hebrew it says called nefesh shows look in that's plural so he had six and they were considered robbing like many widely sheep Letitia ideal illa hugs her bein because they worshipped many gods that's why the saw they're called six souls not sick six six souls because they weren't unified and they all worship the different God but Yaakov is called seventy Sol's did I bring that verse that would be number eight X's 1 verse 5 these are the sons of Yakko over 70 souls look in Hebrew she be method they were 70 but it's in singular language they were 70 what 70 soul it just think why why the Jewish people called nefesh Leticia evening Allah al Assad because they only serve one God unified came out calm the shona that's the end of the measures meet such a Modi mellows our Bay because the sons of a South serve many different gods came with soy BAM Tommy la Riva that's why they're constantly fighting I mean they none bajas cometh cos they don't have one agreement they can't even be in agreement meet Sadri boy had datos because of the many different religious streams they animus Osteen with Sabri they're not unified they know they're not bad things you know why it's like just call like the sand on the beach there Shane Tameka Buell is that the sand does not connect it's not connected either individual grains that are just sitting there together of all you stray all but when it comes to the Jewish people meet such a female is hard because they're all serving one God how shall the metallic main am at peace or maybe I shams peace is dwelling amongst them and acting as an intermediary her Ahab Camargo leo Haru Ziva hoods they're like pearls are strong when you have pros they're strong I mean today I guess it's smart to make knots in between them so if it got broken they would all they would not fly over the place but the way you normally string pearls is their touch each other they're all much string and the pearls are all touching each other should do Kim's MZ they're actually clinging to each other are you there who'd she Macabre they're all clinging to each other through the one string that connected them as it says this is in Song of Songs chapter 4 verse 3 to hoot shaadi sit to tie it but it's very hard to translate because one could say means where I do it your lips are like a scarlet thread but the it's interpreted as the sincerity of your lips then we're going to get into the psyche of blush and Hara okay sift ate that art the tourism Hammarby Michelle of Biola it's the lips of religion sifted dots the wise lips and the Torah increases peace in the world so that's what it means here ensures from the songs like a hoot like a thread that is strung together with pearls okay I think that's quite beautiful analogy and now we're going to talk about the lesson a little bit okay so now we're on the very end of verse to VR video safe as devata raha l IV hands that Joseph would bring evil reports about them to his father so let's get a little bit of background well a lot of things in Hebrew gonna be counterintuitive like sunset and sunrise the word yet say means that the Sun is actually coming out you'll say and when it's settling with sunset its how above it's coming so you would think this is around here to become decree Roma to the Russian have aa at Sahadeva we don't normally find the word haha ah here's to the Ave he would bring when it comes to Lashon Hara what normal wouldn't word we normally find team Russian Jota to come out I thought pshh and I'm run before she even though the rabbi's explain solution hooks are Shia Madiba shall shake it when the word Xhosa is used it's usually used when we're talking about the kind of Western Sahara which is not true so we're not going to call us now we're gonna call mosey shan-rock mozi shame rap that means you brought out a total life life is liable it's none of its true fake news see Russian Hara is not necessarily thinking news it's just bad character to speak about it and it could bring damage and it's forbidden so if you look at miss lang that'll be chapter 10 verse 18 remotes a debuff hook's seal the one who brings out slander he's the fool okay promote sediba cuckoo seal and also in numbers 13 verse 32 when the Jewish people spoke Russian Hara about the Land of Israel they spread an evil report about the land the yokes eat OD bata RS they spoke evil speech about the land but our verse says V Ave it's not mode C so that we have to why the Russian have aa psyche the double shoot Ahmet that's because when that word is used Joseph would bring about evil reports to his father but it was true it doesn't make it right but it was true become a coat ain't harush it minuchin don't worry it's not we're not being so critical now about the language but rather we're gonna speak about the word about x team and the calm are the fact that it says if he brought evil reports about death diba tom the reports were about them what do we hear from that SHM Amina shahe diba me yes it ela he ha him that the report was actually about the brothers - um hey uh Bali Bhima as if we're saying that the brothers there were the ones that were speaking loshon Hara he was reporting them speaking less Hara okay that's what it means and who was he telling it to Ella VM to bear father it should have said to his father right he's the one speaking he spoke to his father but it says he spoke to their father so that's one question and a statement but he has another LaJolla later on it says well I think we read that no verse 35 I'm sorry chapter 35 verse 22 so Ruth they went and slept were laid with Bill huh his father's concubine first of all I want to tell you something he didn't sleep with her you know it says it but we have it we know what it means and we'll talk about it but he switched the beds he switched the beds when he shouldn't had no reason and no involvement in his father father's love affair with his mother or his mother said his father's concubine but it says polenka shall be the net verse his father's concubines so in that verse chapter 35 verse 22 the the maidservant is called a maid servants called a concubine but here in our verse which we just read who know our Esben a new husband a supa Nechayev Eve he was a youth with the sons of Bilhah and the sons of Zilpah his father's wives you notice I mentioned that earlier who are these women are they considered wives are they are they considered and servants members the the children of these maid servants were being made fun of by the children of land so LLL evade line with absent certainty shkolu Hakeem bnei akiva urusai you resultantly banana choise liquor OSI Malta the blog she was Ruffalo's that the this is to prove the Brothers of Leia right that the brothers who were the children of land they were shaming they were making fun of the children of the maid servants calling their mother basically concubines and maid servants if you're calling the the children slaves that Bonet in Kiribati Joseph Levada was only Joseph he was misshapen a bill to the tapa he befriended the children the sons of the maid servants in other words I don't know what to say because these are all tsadikim but he let's say he was he reached out he was doing damage and he knew that they probably felt inferior and he was trying to make them feel better Chiara shebna shabi mama Sh that's why it says in our earth that they were the wives they were actual lies of Yaakov now me Tom says he'll sell Ruth Ain the bill cobbs this is the reason that yeah that Ruth ain't ended up doing what he did by switching the beds that was the way of shaming her the crushing sheet the legacy only considered replenish a concubine and not Yaakov wife which was wrong I'll came build value to her that's why he switched the beds he did not sleep with his father's wife because that's forbidden from the Torah okay so in chapter 35 verse 22 and it came to pass when Israel dwelt in the land that ruling went and he lay with Bill Haas father's concubine and Israel heard and the continuation of that sabers the sons of Jacob were 12 and Rashi says here the rabbi's interpreted it comes to teach us that all of them were equal old that were righteous Ruthie did not sin he certainly did not sit in the way that most people interpret it okay so now after find my place here we are we can Ryan breath here we have a clear-cut proof shikko been a happy note hey yo sediba Albany shrug kozlak Rotem avoiding that all of the children of layer they brought forth they spread lies about the the children of the maidservants calling them slaves that's why it says the Ave Yosef SD bottom ROM that what Yosef would bring evil reports about them to his father Oh Todd Deborah it's that evil report show C F of it's the evil report that the brothers were speaking evil about the children of the maidservants and he brought them to his father and shut this truth their father who's their father the father of been named bill hon Bonita and Silva meaning the children of the maidservants the Ohio Amla who Schlick voted BM right he should if they would have been more concerned about their own father to call him all these leborgne of Avadi how can you how can you consider any honor to your father when you're calling his children just sons of slaves the hush of Kiev ahem yet bah elbow nub and to actually consider the shame and embarrassment that you're making on your own father so that's what he was bringing to his own father the report about the children about the other brothers ok this is getting very interesting in verse 18 not really skipping but we're you need to go to verse 18 in our chapter and it says 'but Aaron you crave a layette right this is Yosef is coming towards them and they saw him from afar when he had not yet approached he had not yet approached them the yet not hello Otto Mohammed oh and yet they conspired against him to kill him okay Joseph is coming towards them Kirito aha meet O'Meara hoped are you day Saints this verse is telling us they intended they wanted to kill him from a distance with an arrow how else right back then they didn't have what they had but I'm assuming they didn't have guns like we have today where our missiles you could shoot so at a distance how is it you want to kill somebody with an arrow how made meets Patera he cross a lot they wanted to kill him before he approach and so measure for measure and me to connect it me de Guiche a lock the hemp gates LaShawn oh how mamie's ask Mira Hulk as a countermeasure as a you know they also said they wanted they conspired to kill him as a result he sent arrows of his tongue to kill them even from a distance he how cane rod Sagami mamita Mira Hulk I need a cutscene so too they wanted to kill him from a distance through the arrows as it says if you look at chapter 49 of Genesis chapter 23 49 they heap better this is about Jacob they heap bitterness upon it and became quarrelsome yes archers despised him what does that mean violence et they called this because their tongues were like arrows the targum because however enders it has an expression similar to and the half was meaning those who had to share the inheritance with him his brothers oculus interpreters interpret those who would take care but the first part of this Rashi is interesting for us ok where are we Buhler him a half Sharat - - law books et they were his late his brothers and they wanted to send into him these arrows a puppy Chicago who see fairly Russian Jara even though also he spoke about that mush in Hara nevertheless look at the next verse we just looked at that would be forty chapter 49 verse 24 but his bow his bow was strongly established in his arms Brit that's the first part the test chef the eight on costo Yaakov actually held himself back keep Derick key who Derek cash no because when you when you have an arrow you pull back the net Hebei time and you you use your intent with a lot of strength but said that group in mishpokhe he was attempting to do justice share a mood to love my Russian Hara I may have my focus did you know this to do more brings it down it's actually permissible to speak loshon Hara it's not even rush in Hara once it's in this category it mean it's not enough forbidden nature about people who bring and make fights if there's this guy or whatever it is and all they do all day longer Yenta and talk about people in such negative fashion you're allowed to warn people it's amidst the to warn people to stay away and don't divulge any personal information to this person okay so it was not necessary that wrong of his key Lou McClellan's mission zilla's lube of Nashville Oz and it was really the brothers that started the math locus the fact that they were degrading the children of the the main sir we're gonna go live it further and the measure Springs down that they regarding that verse Patera McGraw a lamb before he had not yet approached them should see soon bo s clubbing they directed like you know you sick a dog they know they SiC the dogs on it they directed the dogs to attack the time of shelled of are the reason for the matter is the feesh economaidd pub while watching hara they considered him a danger they considered him to be one who speaks Russian are a multi shame rawa Shannara like a master speaker of the evil table as the rabbi sangamore up sucking cold hummus off a Russian Hara anyone who speaks Russian Hara Roy Ashley Carla clapping it's fitting to send them to the dogs look in Exodus chapter 23 verse 1 lo T Sushma sha Shan Shan Michelle you're not supposed to accept a false report now look also in Exodus 22 3 30 it says like Ella to the dogs - with who I sleep with ohto so what are we looking at here so you're not supposed to accept the false report fine and then we said in Exodus 20 verse 30 so you should throw it to the dogs what are we talking about here does the Jewish people very holy and this trace meet but what is it about the dogs look we're gonna skip to Exodus 11 verse 7 when the Jewish people left ours left Erik's Kanade what happened the dogs did not bark ah listen to this even though we say everyone who is speaking loshon Hara Chicago miss ovulation Hara ah who could Kelly I'm in the yard look let schoolish annoying even he is like a dog he's like he's acting like a dog who's barking and growling with his lip with his mouth therefore when Israel when the Jewish people left Egypt you know what happened Shalom a ham loshon Hara one of the merits one of the reasons we were we merited to leave Egypt is because we did not speak Russian heart about each other and what happens when we left with Albany Israel oh yes garage Kelly a pleasure now and to all the children to visit Iran that one dog barked no Wilden I really it says when and it's tongue I don't know what it means when it's tongue but I know the Hebrew is talking about barking is that what it means the dog wet suits Italians okay anyway so the dogs didn't bark so we weren't found out just like we didn't speak Russian hara then what was the russian har that was some most concerning the truth is that when we conspired busting us conspire god said you were going to leave with great wealth and eleven months before we left it was already told us during the ninth plague you will take out great wealth with you you're gonna go during the plague of darkness and ask your neighbors for their wealth we already knew this eleven months in advance and nobody told the secret the Jews kept a secret that's what it means that we kept we didn't speak loshon hora we didn't turn anyone in we didn't rat we didn't give up the the strategy so anyway this was me to connect it me that this was measured from measure this is what it means when they said nail so dope Tana so remember he met garbage well he met the Gabrielle meta dich which we say is the is an angel and he wanted to know where they were and he says there would verse are we looking at oh it's number nineteen on the source sheet in Genesis the man said they have traveled away from here heard them saying let's go to dome time so you also went after them found in dota but look at the Hebrew Nilsa Dodona right let us go to a place it's literally a place caught dota sera she owned that verse says they traveled away but really he was not super easy they traveled from here means they left the unification of brotherhood obviously they had bad feelings towards yo se but let's go to this place called dota 2 seek its in Hebrew Neill thought that taught like let's find legal pretext for which they would want to put it to death it's true that it's a name of a place but it's a play of words they were looking for something to kill him I'll theatre assure your uncle Ashley clubbing called miss Parton the soccer legend are they were thinking that this kid the 17 year old kid is guilty of watching Hara and therefore let's sing that set SiC the dogs on him because that's what the Torah commands us when someone is not commands us but that's what the tur prescribes according to the Torah there's a prescription sending the dogs when anyone that speaks Russian Hara you shall reap some stations with hot sheets about clubbing that's why they trained or SiC the dogs on them she your flu be men who a vermin a high remember one of the things that he said they he spoke loshon Hara is that they're eating a limb from a live animal which even according to the been named North was forbidden so this was before the tar was given question is were they held in account for the 613 or were they held only for the seventh the questions arise what exactly were they eating some say well you know when a Jew checks an animal okay a juice what is an animal properly and you're still moving according to Jewish law we can cut off a piece and actually you know eat it but according to the the main off according to the seven Noahide laws as long as an animal still moving it's forbidden therefore it's more strict that sense another opinion is that if you notice that a cow is pregnant if you slaughter that cow and then remove the fetus remove the viable child and it lives that child with calf does not need to be slaughtered at all and it could be their eating that as a vermin a high but according to Jewish tradition that's not a problem because it's considered slaughter okay Mashal Imam Australia Asia I flew a vermin a high in other words why did they SiC the dogs on him because he taught mush and hard about them eating a vermin if I will they really were not the something is not possible with Tara McCarville and Erica here we'll continue this discussion bizarre audition next year would wish everyone not just a shabbat shalom but a most beautiful and lightning uplifting Chanukah shabbat shalom [Music]