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Everyone heard. Only one person moved. === Series generously sponsored by Becky & Avi Katz and Family in memory of David Grossman z"l, Dovid ben Menachem Manis z"l, their beloved father and grandfather. === In this week's Parsha Perspectives class, Rabbi Efrem Goldberg explores why free will is not about information, inspiration, or belief, but about action. Hearing is easy. Movement is rare. And the difference between the two defines destiny. ➡️ Subscribe to @rabbiefremgoldberg for weekly Parsha Perspectives that explore Torah ideas through clarity, realism, and lived experience.
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and Bogota will welcome back to Parsha
Perspectives for today. We have the
privilege
of reading and learning Parshas Yisro
together. Every Parsha is the most
important Parsha of the Torah. Whatever
Parsha we're reading that week is the
most important Parsha in the Torah. But
arguably, many people think this is
Parshas Yisro, of course, contains the
Aseres Hadibros, the Decalogue. We stood
at the base of that mountain united and
as one and received that Torah, the most
seminal moment of all of human history,
and it's in this Parsha. And so,
whatever week something is in the Parsha
is the week that we live it, that we
experience it. And so, that seminal
event of of Kabbalas HaTorah is
happening for each and every one of us
one of us in our lives. It's a big
Parsha, page 394 in the ArtScroll
Chumash. But first, we express our
gratitude. Parsha Perspectives series is
generously sponsored by Becky and Avi
Katz and family in memory of David
Grossman, a learning shidduch for the
neshama of Becky's father, David ben
Nachman Munk. The shiur is also series
co-sponsored by
What happened to our co-sponsor from
Bnei Eli?
Our shiur is also sponsored today by
Harry Goldman in commemoration of the
yahrzeit of her husband, Hilton Goldman
ben Hillel ben Gershon, by Judith Rosen
in memory of her husband, Elimelech
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elsewhere. Partial source of page 394.
Vayishma Yisro
Moshe.
Yisro came to Moshe with the Israelite
nation
of Yisro Israel from Egypt. Yisro,
Midian, the father-in-law of Moshe heard
all that God had done for Moshe and the
Jewish people, that he took us out of
Egypt, that he took us out of Egypt.
Vayishma Yisro. Yisro heard. Rashi says
Mashmo Sham Uba. Rashi's paraphrasing
from the Gemara Zevachim. Mashmo Sham
Uba. What did he hear that made him get
up, stop what he was doing, and come?
Many people hear world events. They hear
appeals for help, and they just turn the
page. They just let it
go in one ear and out the others. And
some, Mashmoa Shama, they hear something
Uba and they show up and they care and
they give and they do and they come and
they participate. So, what made Yisro
Mashmoa Shama? Rashi quotes the Gemara
in Zevachim. Yitziat Mitzrayim or
Milchemet Amalek. The Gemara there
really has a third opinion, which is
maybe it was Yitziat Mitzrayim, maybe it
was Amalek, or maybe it was
Matan Torah. Maybe he heard about
Kabbalat Torah, which of course begs the
question, why then is it out of order?
Because in our parsha, Yisro arrives not
after the Torah is given, Yisro arrives
before. And if historically,
chronologically, Yisro really came
after, whenever the Torah
publishes, whenever the Torah organizes,
not chronologically, but thematically,
you have to ask yourself why. And that
is the question we've asked ourselves
and we've spoken about in the past. The
Yish Divrei Rashi, Mekor Divrei Gemara,
quotes from the Gemara
in Zevachim, they quote the entire
Gemara. But Rav Tanchum bar
and the truth is this requires
investigation. Mah Kushi Mashmoa Shama
Uba? Why does the Gemara, why does Rashi
paraphrase? What did Yisro hear that
made him come? Why is that a peculiar
question?
Cuz just keep reading the pasuk.
VaYishma Yisro, Yisro heard, what did he
hear? He heard Kol Asher Asah Elokim
l'Moshe u'l'Yisrael Amo. He heard
everything that God did for Moshe and
the Jewish people, Ki Hotzi Et Yisrael
MiMitzrayim, that he took us out of
Egypt. So, you're so curious, you're so
inquisitive, "Ooh, I wonder, what is
it?" He came, but I I wonder what drove
him. What do you mean "wonder what drove
him"? Just keep reading. It's in the
pasuk itself. What was the Gemara
asking? What was the Gemara asking?
K'vetch Mefarshim K'rama Makom Lishana
Mashmoa Shama Uba. U'vi Yoter Tamua, and
even more so, says Rav Druk, K'riat Yam
Suf u'Milchemet Amalek. So, Sarah says
"A name of a crow." The two options that
Rashi brings of what Yisro heard that
made him come
are in exact contradiction or
inconsistent with what the pasuk itself
gives as the reason. Pasuk itself gives
it the reason. Why did he come?
He told us so many times, he took us out
of Egypt. But those aren't the two
reasons Rashi suggests. The two reasons
Rashi suggests are either
splitting of the sea or
war with Amalek. So, why not just stick
with the partial shot? Why do you have
to get all creative? Why do you have to
guess? Why not just stick with the
possible? The possible tells us
explicitly, why do we have to guess? Oh,
it's not enough. We've joked through the
name third question.
What is so special about those two
things that those would be the catalyst
that would precipitate Yitro getting up,
buying a ticket, packing his bags,
taking a leave of absence from where he
is, and going to join the Jewish people,
maybe even to the point of converting.
There were all these other miracles.
There were the 10 plagues. There were
the other miracles that God did. There's
a big menu to choose from of which
miracles might have motivated Yitro.
Why, if we're not going to stick with
what's what it says in the possible,
we're going to come up with our own, why
come up specifically with those two, and
why not stick with what's in the
possible or come up with one of the
other great miracles that God did? And
lastly, number four, all for the price
of one.
Why are we mentioning at all the war
with Amalek? Here's what's peculiar
about Yitro being impressed with the
Jewish people in the war with Amalek.
Who won the war with Amalek?
I refer you back to the end of last
week's partial.
We didn't win that war. We weren't
triumphant and victorious. At best, the
war was a draw. We walked away. We
survived, but so did they. They didn't
disarm. They didn't disband. There was
no council that took over Amalek.
Amalek remained intact, in force,
continued to haunt us, and continued to
haunt us out of your misery. We didn't
defeat and we didn't destroy and we
didn't eliminate Amalek so what's so
impressive? What inspired Yisro to come
because he heard about the miracle of of
the war with Amalek.
The real question wasn't what did Yisro
hear? Because that the possuk tells us.
What did Yisro hear? He heard that God
took us out of Egypt. That's not the
question.
The whole question is
three letters long. The whole question
is the last word. Mashmu'a Shama?
U'va.
What did he hear that made him come?
See the world is watching the news and
the world reads some exposé about Israel
and the Mossad and what they
accomplished and achieved with the Beeb
operation, what they accomplished and
achieved with this operation, how they
were able to take out a pinpointed
strike, they knew our enemy was sleeping
in his bed in his apartment at this time
and a missile went right through a hole
in that wall, through that bed and and
they say, "Huh, that's amazing.
That's fantastic. I wonder how they did
that.
What happened in the game last night?
What happened in the market yesterday?
What's the weather going to be? When is
it going to finally warm up? They just
keep turning the pages. Everybody else
heard and followed the news and you know
what they did? You know how it impacted
them? You know what they changed about
their life?
Gornisht. Nada. Nothing.
Yisro is the exception. And that is
characterized by that one word. Not
Mashmu'a Shama, what did he hear? In
fact, we sang in Az Yashir that the
whole world Yergazu, they all heard and
they all trembled. The whole world
heard, it was the headline, it was the
front page and that's not hard to
imagine that little tiny country smaller
than the state of New Jersey in the
Middle East called Israel dominates the
news every single day. There's a war of
Russia and Ukraine, you hear about it a
little bit, sometimes it's tucked a few
pages in. Israel, ceasefire that seems
to be holding and it's still dominating.
The Jews always dominate the news.
Mashma shama, you'll hear everything you
want to know and don't want to know,
true and false. But the Jews will always
dominate the news, not by choice. If we
can exit out, we easily and happily
would. But we dominate the news. The
question wasn't Mashma, what did he
hear? That the possuk says. Says Rav
Druck, the question was, "Uba, what made
him come?" Aisa shmua shama shmua she
shpia alav v'yoser. What impacted him
that he closed the newspaper, that he
turned off the internet, that he shut
off the news, packed his bag, bought a
ticket, and said, "I've got to check
this out for myself."
V'yoser m'vosher m'arich l'saper. K'sher
Yisro told Yisro kol ha'olam al matan
Torah, komach d'kochavim achas umrado
b'chasam. The whole world, the whole
world, idolaters, believers, they all
shook, they all trembled by the truth of
God and by this unprecedented and
unparalleled revelation of Sinai. They
all heard it, but nobody moved, nobody
came, nobody listened. Yisro's
impressive to us, and Yisro is worthy of
a parsha being named for him because
Yisro teaches us the mida, the quality,
the capacity of vayishma, of listening.
Not just listening
audibly, not just listening where you
heard, listening where you're
transformed. How many of us hear a
drasha, a shmuze, we go to a shiur. How
many of us read a book or listen to a
podcast. How many of us follow news or a
friend tells us an extraordinary story.
You find it fascinating. Maybe so much
so that we remember it or we repeat it,
but does it change us? Does it transform
us? Do we radically do something
different in our life?
Not just Mashma shama, but Yisro, like
the rest of the world, heard, but Uba,
what made him come? Now it's Kriat Yam
Suf b'chamas Amalek. Kriat Yam Suf az
niflu al pnei Edom, kolam niflu.
Everybody heard, but Yisro it Uba. And
what was it about Amalek? So says in
answer, I'll tell you mine. I'll tell
you mine.
It doesn't say
Amalek.
Are you happy there were many miracles?
Answer me this,
he said, Amalek was not changed by the
news. Did Amalek hear about the miracles
of Egypt?
Certainly. The whole world did.
Amalek, their intelligence division
branch,
Amalek certainly heard about the 10
plagues.
And did it make them rethink attacking
the Jewish people?
Absolutely not.
Amalek were unmoved, unchanged. They
didn't pivot. They remained on course to
be our enemy. And yes, sir, said that's
bizarre.
These miracles, this divine providence
and protection, there's something
special about these people. And here you
have Amalek, and
it's not the
Amalek, that didn't move him. There was
no victory. It was a draw at best. So
what moved him? Why did he come? Cuz he
had to check out
who are these people? Who is this Amalek
that would attack a people even after
God intervened in nature to perform
countless miracles on their behalf. But
I suggest a different answer. And my
answer I think is relevant for our time,
too.
After the show this morning, I have what
is increasingly filling up my schedule.
So much so, too much so,
but how can you say no? And that is we
have a base and forget it. We have a
rabbinical court for conversion. And
you'd think that after October 7th, and
you would think maybe after October 7th,
there was a listed a sympathy of the
world against the Jew. But after October
8th
or 9th, when instead of sympathy, it
didn't last long, anti-Semitism is on
the rise. Anti-Semitism is spreading and
is everywhere. Anti-Semitism is a real
danger and a threat. So, if you have the
luxury of not wearing the tag or label
Jew,
wouldn't you think that you wouldn't
want it?
And now, in my lifetime more than ever,
people are lining up and saying, "I want
to join this people.
I want to convert.
Let me in. Let me in." Sincere, genuine,
incredible, extraordinary people
who are ready to radically change and
transform their lives,
and they want to convert. And we have a
base in our regular meetings and our
sponsoring rabbis and our conversions.
Baruch Hashem, it's among the greatest
to be involved with.
And you look and you ask and you wonder.
One of the questions we ask when a
candidate is in the mikvah, do you
believe in God and the world to come and
reward and punishment and techiyas
hameisim and the whole list of questions
we ask, do you accept all mitzvahs,
observe what you know, what you don't
yet know, what's easy, what's hard,
de'oraisa, de'rabbanan, all the
questions that we ask. We say, "Are you
aware of are you familiar with the
concept called anti-Semitism? Do you
know that from this moment going forward
you are a full-fledged Jew?
And as far as anti-Semites are
concerned, you have a target on your
back. Do you still want to dunk?
It's not too late to walk out."
And 100% rate, they say, "I'm all in.
I'm all in."
What made it vivid years or decades ago,
I think and what's motivating so many of
these converts, they say the world is
obsessed with this Jewish people.
Why is the world obsessed with this
people?
And the most heinous, evil, wicked
people on Earth are the most obsessed
with this people, somehow threatened by
this people, and desperately focused on
eliminating this people,
I got to check out this people.
When the most evil, wicked people on
Earth are singularly focused on one
people, there's something special about
that people. That's our people.
When Israel fights a war not on seven
fronts, but on eight when you include
online,
when seven separate peoples,
and then the whole online world are all
targeting the Jewish people. There's
something special about the Jewish
people. So, maybe Yisro wasn't moved by
a victory over Amalek because there was
none. At best, we had a draw. What
motivated Yisro?
Why Amalek, these most evil people on
Earth, why are they so threatened and
bothered? Why are they so obsessed?
Why do they have such a different double
standard
when it comes to the Jew? I've got to
check out these people called the Jew.
It was true then with Yisro, and it's
true now with our geray tzedek, our
righteous converts, so many whom we're
privileged to know in our time. I want
to share three interpretations of the
Ach Pri Tzvu, the learning this season
of parsha perspectives, the Haligas Ha
Liska Rebbe Tzvi Hirsch, the Rebbe of
Ribshaila,
the Ach Pri Tzvu. Vayishma Yisro El
Midyan. And he says the following.
HaTorah Ramza Lanu, De Yachol Adam
Lehafoch Es Atzmo Mehepech Lehepech.
The last couple parshios, we were very
focused on God hardening Pharaoh's
heart. God suspending his free will.
What it looks like when you have no
autonomy and when you have no choice.
And now, says the Ach Pri Tzvu, the
Liska Rebbe, now we are pivoting from a
storyline of a person who had no free
will
to an extraordinary example of what can
happen,
what possibility
are opened when we express our free
will.
Yisro went Mehepech Lehepech. Yisro
radically changed his life from one
extreme to the other. D'mitzvila Hayah
Kohen Midyan. Va'achar Kach Nasa Chosain
Moshe. He went from being the priest,
the high priest of idolatry, the leader
of an idolatry idolatrous religion. He
was this mega pastor of the world's
greatest mega church who had the largest
mega megaphone. And he just preached,
and he went from that
to becoming the father-in-law of Moshe.
V'gam Ki Yotzi Hashem Es Yisrael
Mimitzrayim, Tainu Sheyachol Kol Echad
La'asos martial arts
about here he have shoes looking at home
in the middle of the little Torah
that you should give all that up
walked away from that notoriety that
fame that fortune you should walk away
from that prominence and dominance
to start from the bottom to go into
hater and learn the olive base to don't
join the Jewish people in the desert and
start from the beginning of their story.
And why why is the introduction to a lot
of stuff he doesn't spell this out but
I'll expand so if indeed you should
logically comes after our Sinai why
would the Torah put it out of place why
would the Torah place you so as the
preface as the introduction to the Torah
and maybe it's for each and every one of
us to know that it is never too late if
we employ and engage our hero if we
express our
our autonomy
our conscious our free will
it's never too late to become who we are
meant to be it's never too late to start
with people started at 40 at 40 years
old he was a shepherd and ignorant
shepherd at 39
and at 40 he saw the water drip on the
rock and he realized something could
penetrate even his thick skull that's
the shallow
Makayla it's what people said about
himself
and he started to learn
from the beginning uncle
Schnauzer maker of a Targum we've been
promoting and learning that project
who's the Targum is Targum on close
on close was advanced how did uncle
start he was sent
to go convert and he walked out and he
kissed the mezuzah what's that he told
him what it is I want to learn I want to
learn uncle started where hater
kindergarten pre-k whatever you call it
you picture this grown-up sitting at one
of those little mini desks in one of
those mini chairs
when do I get to be the father I
probably didn't do that but
you can picture on close with all the
Shabbos and
but it's his week cuz the teacher
couldn't leave him out because everybody
has to get a chance even though Unkeless
is in advanced age and he's sitting with
all the little kids in the little chair
and Unkeless has a little tzitzis party
and Unkeless has the Chumash party and
Unkeless has the seder party
and Unkeless starts from the very
beginning and so does Yisro. Yisro is
Midian. Yisro is the mega pastor of a
mega church. Every everywhere home, he's
a household name.
And now he finds himself in the little
cheder with the little kinderlach with
the little children getting a little
pekel of candy. And Yisro, he has a
little cubby that he puts his little
backpack and he opens up his little
lunch and he starts from the start
starts again from the beginning.
And that image is so holy and so
beautiful and it's so inspiring and so
motivating and so empowering. It's not
too late. Start daf yomi,
Tanakh is making a big siyum. The daily
study of Tanakh is making a big siyum.
Soon a new cycle is starting. It's not
too late. Join. Rambam, the cycle of
Rambam just made a siyum.
South Florida which just had a beautiful
event for the siyum of Rambam. Just
started again. Take up. You could start
again. Doesn't matter what age, what
stage, where you are in life. Yisro says
the Parsha of Yisro, Yisro becomes the
incredible inspiration. Start again.
New, what are you starting? Tu Bishvat.
We're ready to blossom and bloom. We're
ready to grow and burst forth. We're
ready to wake up like those It was a
little warmer today. Could be the
iguanas are going to wake up. Not the
one in our parking lot. Unfortunately,
he's
never waking up. But the other ones,
these iguanas, you can wake up. It's not
too late to wake up. His heart is His
heart is So we go from Paro whose heart
is hardened, Paro whose heart is stone,
Paro who is fixed, he's finished, he's
done to Yisro who is the greatest
example of someone who so radically
changes his life. Why says the Parsha of
Yisro, the message to us is listen to
the messages, be inspired by them and
make a change from them. What are you
going to change? What are you going to
do differently? Then he continues the
next piece. He built him over all who
custom of Russia
the same question everybody asks. Why
are you asking
the passage itself says it?
It says what Moshe told Yisrael what
Yisrael heard rather. So, why do you
have to ask what did he hear?
Now, as much as I said that we have a
line out the door today to join the
Jewish people, the
tells us that
when Messiah will come and there'll be
this great revelation and there'll be
the resurrection and God's presence and
influence will be undeniable. We're
done. Sorry, base din is closed. We're
no longer accepting interviews,
candidates. We're no longer accepting
converts.
Why?
Because there's nothing special or
impressive about that point. Everybody
wants to join the Jewish people.
It's what we call in the world of sports
a fair-weather fan.
When you all of a sudden become a fan of
that team because they're in the Super
Bowl or they just won it.
You become a fan of that dynasty, it's
not impressive. It's when you stick with
them through their losing seasons.
That's when you're a real fan. When you
stick with the Jewish people when
everybody wants to kill us and destroy
us and eliminate us and lie about us and
you want to join us, come. Let's find
out more about you. We could welcome
you. We'd love to have you.
But when Messiah will come and everyone
want to join, sorry, we're closed.
The passage is coming to ask us.
That's what the Torah is telling us.
What time period in what time period was
Yisrael joining the Jewish people? Like
Messiah time or like a anti-Semitism on
the rise time?
So, you might say, well, the Jewish
people were at a high. 10 plagues,
splitting of a sea, giving the Torah at
Sinai. We're clearly God's people.
>> because he was so impressed by miracles.
There is no fetish. So, what was it that
drove him to made him come is not what's
in the possuk. But, what is suggested
separately says the second
interpretation that's where it comes to.
And lastly,
there's a big debate. What's more
important? To have the right beliefs?
Or even if your beliefs are not exactly
on track, on target, to live the right
actions. What's more important? Yediah
or Maiseh? So, some people mistakenly
believe and he references here in the
name of the Sifrei Chaim, Ha Yediah.
How do you become complete and whole?
What matters is Yediah. What matters is
what you know and what you feel. What
you do, that's a separate story.
The other philosophers, they're so
focused on philosophy and the truth
academically, conceptually,
philosophically, theologically, that's
what matters.
As long as you can contemplate and
philosophize and think and arrive at and
conclude, that's what matters.
But, that's not the Jewish approach.
Ha Maiseh. What matters most is the
world of action.
The famous Mishnah in Pirkei in Pirkei
Avos,
last week's parsha we're stuck between
the sea and the Egyptians and God says,
"What are you doing? Close the Sidor,
close the Tehillim, start walking."
Russia tables and MS.
Why are you crying out to me? Is an
acronym for the word MS, truth, MS.
Let me explain.
Because Matityahu is MS. When we live
with the world of action and the serious
nefesh and we just walk even though we
don't know what's going to happen and we
put one foot in front of the other
because Hashem is the MS. He is the
truth and we're living in his world of
truth and he interacts with us in truth.
And we demonstrate that faith. It's not
through moving our lips. It's not only
through the tfila of the sitter and the
tehillim, but it's in the world of
action. It's that mysterious nefesh that
is the MS. And that's what Yeshua does,
too.
The other philosophers would say, Yeshua
doesn't have to buy a ticket, pack his
bags and come. What does he have to do?
He has to lean back in his armchair,
smoke a pipe, philosophize and say,
"Ooh, I just heard I he split a sea.
Ooh, war with Amalek. Ooh, he gave a
Torah.
Uh based on my philosophical
calculations, based on my evaluating the
evidence, I philosophize that there is a
God of this world. Shine." That would be
enough.
But not for us.
We evaluate not only based on philosophy
conceptually academically. For us, what
matters is the world of ma'asim. That's
why it was the uba. He got up and he
came. He demonstrated a world of action.
Now he qualifies to be our people.
What did he hear?
What happened in Krias Yam Suf and
Machamas Amalek?
Only those two.
Not Yetzias Mitzrayim, not Matan Torah.
What happened in Krias Yam Suf?
What caused the sea to split?
Because we heard the Matateh Akali.
Nachshon ben Aminadav, we closed the
Seder, we closed the Talmud, and we
started walking. Yisro said, "Ooh,
that's interesting. It's not just about
philosophy, it's about action." What
happened in Machamas Amalek? We didn't
lie down passive victims, we fought
back. We picked up arms. Moshe
Rabbeinu's arms were lifted. Aaron and
Chur lifted his arms, we looked up to
heavens, we combined our Tefillah with
finding valiant fighters.
A world of action. What caused Yisro
Mashmo Shamao, but what made him come?
Meaning, what made him not only come to
philosophical conclusions, but also act?
What made him act? He saw what we did
both in the case of Krias Yam Suf and
Machamas Amalek, he saw the Matateh
Akali that we lived the Mesirus Nefesh,
that we didn't just wait and rely
passively on Hashem,
but Hishtadlus, we made an effort.
Action, Ma'aseh, and from that he
understood that we have to act. It
requires a world of Ma'aseh. This isn't
hard to see or understand.
It's the truth in all of our
relationships. Could you imagine? Spouse
says, "Would you mind taking out the
garbage?" "Ooh, let me philosophize
about how much I love you."
"I love you in ways you can't
understand. You don't even understand
what love is. We two halves of a whole,
and that love, it's so great, it's
beyond the word, and it hurts." Yeah,
could could you take the garbage out?
Love me less and take the garbage out.
Ribono shel Olam says, "Love me less
and Taryag Mitzvos. Don't wait to feel
it, don't wait to philosophize about it.
Do it."
Action. A world of action. Yisro saw and
understood that, and that's why he came.
And lastly, and then we'll start the
Parsha class, Yisro, the Rabbi Sacks, in
the great Rabbi Sacks Chumash, the new
Chumash, Parshas Yisro is divided to two
episodes, writes Rabbi Sacks. In the
first, Jewish people receive the first
system of governance developed by
leaders of thousands, hundreds, fifties,
and tens at the advice of Yisro, Moshe's
father-in-law, whose name the parsha
bears. In the second, it receives its
eternal constitution by way of a
covenant with God, making the entire
nation a kingdom of priests.
A brief summation of its key elements is
given by the voice of Hashem himself in
the form of the 10 Commandments. The
twin tablets with their 10 Commandments
are the enduring symbol of eternal law
under the sovereignty of Hashem. Both
episodes, Yisro and the revelation, have
one theme in common: delegation,
distribution, and democratization of
human leadership. Only God can rule
alone.
That's parshas Yisro. That's Yisro's
message to his son-in-law.
And that's the theme of parshas Yisro.
Only the Ribono shel Olam can rule
alone. For the rest of us, delegation,
distribution, democratization. School
leadership, school leadership,
governance of a country, of Klal
Yisrael.
Delegation, distribution,
democratization. There's an incredible
platform for business called EOS,
Entrepreneurial Operating System. Our
shul is adopting it. Six months.
Yesterday we had another one of our
quarterly meetings, eight hours
straight. It was incredible. Our
implementer, the great Steve Schwartz,
to whom we're incredibly grateful,
talented expert EOS implementer, and
much of EOS, I told him, is parshas
Yisro.
It has themes called delegate and
elevate. The idea of an organization
having core values. And here, when Yisro
succeeds in convincing Moshe you have to
delegate and elevate, he gives him a
description of how do you choose people.
You need to choose
what qualifies to
to be people. Anshei chayil, yirei
Elokim, anshei emes, sonei batza. Those
are the core values of the Jewish
people. People who live the core values,
exemplify not aspirationally but
already, those are the core values. All
the EOS, everything about the platform,
that's Klal Yisrael is going to run and
operate.
It's enough of Jewish organizations
acting heimish.
Our mission is too great.
Our responsibility too profound. The
difference we have to make so awesome
that we can't be hamish. It's
inexcusable. It should be intolerable.
We have to be professional. We have to
be excellent. We have to be organized.
We have to use the tools at our
disposal, EOS or others. I highly
recommend it. And that's where Yisro
comes in. Sometimes it takes the
outsider to see.
Yisro comes from the outside and he
says, "You're already so hamish?
You barely born of people. You just got
out of Mitzrayim. Yesterday you were
slave, and already you're operating so
hamish.
So last minute, notes on the back of a
napkin, no meetings, no notes, no
vision, no values, no goal, no vision,
no traction, no
nothing?
Yisro comes and he says here's Yisro is
the first implementer. Yisro comes in as
the EOS implementer and he teaches
scorecard, delegate and elevate, L10
meetings, teaches core values, teaches
all of these things, and we, the Jewish
people, since then
are different thanks to his input and
impact.
Now Moshe greets him. He goes out to
greet him. He shows great honor to his
father-in-law.
Beautiful relationship and a beautiful
example. There are a lot of halachas.
Not only of kibbud av v'em, but how that
relates to in-laws. And Moshe is one of
the examples we have several other in
the Torah. They're not all great.
Lavan father-in-law didn't exactly have
a great relationship with him.
Tried to kill him.
So, but Moshe and Yisro have a good one.
Vayisafer Moshe, Moshe tells his shver
kol asher asah Hashem lePharaoh,
everything Hashem did to Pharaoh
Mitzrayim, al odos Yisrael, all the
story of the Jewish people. Es kol
hatzla'ah asher metza'asam baderech
vayitzilem Hashem. And all the tzla'ah,
what's the word tzla'ah?
Open book test. What's the word tzla'ah?
You can look inside.
Travail. Travail's another word for all
the misery and challenges and all the
problems and all the hardship and
everything that they went through. So
what's that all about? Moshe is already
kvetching?
Yeah, how was the flight? I who I was
sitting next to, the seat I got, what
time we took off, how cold it was, the
turbulence it was, they stopped giving
individual bottles of water, if you ask
for water now they pour it in a cup but
the cup on your tray is going to spill.
It was miserable, the Wi-Fi didn't work
and the other thing
Okay, but you got here, you're here,
you're safe, you're good. Moshe is kol
atzla'a, that's what he's focused on.
The Ibn Ezra writes to Hakatan Sura
Shilah Adam La'asav Lo La'agidah Ba'atam
Sh'Yotzi'u Mitzrayim B'Yom B'Yom
Mikulam Itzilanu Hashem. The Ibn Ezra
says no, Moshe wasn't a kvetcher and he
wasn't a complainer. Moshe wasn't
sharing all of it to highlight the
negative of the challenges along the
way. Why did Moshe do it? Because he was
setting it up as the miracle of Hashem.
Would you believe
we were hungry and thirsty? Hashem made
a miracle. He brought us water and he
gave us manna. Would you believe they
were chasing us and they wanted to kill
us?
Hashem made a miracle. He split the sea
and we walked right through. Would you
believe that even when we were out and
we were free and we thought we had
smooth sailing from here, this nation
rose against us, Amalek, they tried to
destroy us and Hashem let us survive, we
walked away. Moshe, says the Ibn Ezra,
wasn't kol atzla'a, was not hearing all
the travails because they were kvetchers
and complainers and miserable and
fabizna, we suffer from the missing tile
syndrome. No, it's the opposite. Let me
tell you about all the things that could
have gone wrong and did go wrong and yet
despite that
look here I am and look how amazing
Hashem is.
The Medrash Yisha, and I'm reading from
the Megillas Yosef Saraskin,
tzla'a tes lamed vav shanim sh'nish'abdu
Mitzrayim
The word tzla'a is a reference to the
tough lamed aleph, the 436 years in
Egypt. In the Perush Rashi to this
pasuk, Rashi says Moshe didn't show levo
l'kabel ha'Torah.
Why is Moshe telling a story to Hashem?
Why is Moshe? This is come let's have a
come let's sit and catch up. Let me tell
you. Why is it means elaborate? I want
to tell you a story. Let me tell you the
story. Why? So Rashi says he was trying
to draw him close to Torah.
There were two more here to leave the
carbon of the Torah. There are parts of
the Torah. That's going to make him want
to join the Jewish people?
It was difficult. We didn't have air
conditioning. We were hungry. We were
tired. We were playing. We were
miserable. We were encouraged. That's
going to make him want to join the
Jewish people? That's going to make him
want to embrace this thing called Torah?
He
writes to make it yourself. That a
person's nature is
A person
elevates what's precious and comes with
difficulty.
May God to be okay.
He elaborates on the language here and
he says the following idea.
If
you want to understand the miracle of
the victory over a miracle, you need to
understand the fear that we faced
beforehand.
They talk about the 6-day war.
That there were graves that were dug all
over Israel. Cemeteries were prepared.
The graves were prepared. Freezers were
prepared. They thought it would be a
slaughter.
It only adds to the miracle after when
you know the level of fear and fright
before.
In
order to appreciate the miracle of the
month falling, you have to understand
you have to understand just how hungry
they were, how desperate they were, how
afraid they were where they were going
to find food. You have to leave the
carbon of the Torah. You have to
come to the over my chain motion
machine. When you describe the level of
fear, the level of the fright, the level
of helplessness and helplessness, and
yet Hashem was there reaching every
time. He answered the call. They not
only came out the other side, they came
out stronger and greater. That only adds
to Yisro's love and affection, his
connection, his desire to come close.
The milk the about to report to the
the Yisro came here to convert. It's not
so clear.
The text never tells us explicitly did
Yisro convert, not convert? Did he come
and stay? Did he come and visit and
leave?
We know
that Moshe tried to convince him to
stay.
But it never tells us whether he stayed
or not.
So, but the quotes the
says Yisro converted. And the says
cuz she is a
she is a Geyer. We ask the candidate,
why are you here? What brings you here?
Why do you want to convert?
Don't you know we're hated, we're
despised, we're repulsed, we're stepped
on, we're spit on, we're targeted?
Moshe been to his leave Yisro and ask
the Giyaro for the last of the samples
called the law. Making Yisro's last
suggestion is this is a precedent for
our practice that when someone comes to
convert, the first thing we try to do is
talk him out of it.
We say be a Noahide. Believe in God and
observe the seven Noahide laws and don't
risk your life.
Don't wear the label Jew and don't put a
target on your back.
We try to talk him out of it. And if he
wants to come nonetheless, if she wants
to join nonetheless, with open arms. And
we with great admiration and awe.
But first we say, are you sure? It's
very tough. Do you know the cost of two
tuition? Do you know the cost of kosher
food? Do you know the cost of making
Pesach?
Are you sure? Are you sure you want
this?
You know the anti-Semitism? You're going
to go places, you're going to be worried
whether you can wear your yarmulke or
not. Are you sure? You know what we've
been through the last 2,000 years? You
know what been to the last 3 years. Are
you sure?
When they want to know anyway, we say,
"We love you. We welcome you. We're in
awe of you."
And where do we see that from? Says the
Maggid Yosef, from Moshe's treatment of
Yisro.
Relatively new safer by my cousin in in
Lakewood.
Rabbi Aryeh Gans, and he quotes here by
Saper Moshe, he quotes from the safer as
9 the Torah.
The Zayda of the Maggid Yosef.
The normal course of things, when
someone has great success,
they talk about themselves, their
success.
I saved them. I had this idea. Then we
got through it. Then we put this
And especially before whom do they do
that?
Their mother-in-law and father-in-law.
People tend to show off to the in-laws
because they want to prove your daughter
made a good choice.
I'm not the loser you thought I was.
I I didn't amount to nothing. I amounted
to something, and let me prove it to
you. Let me tell you all about it. Let
me tell you all about it.
When other people are telling the story,
then they they don't give the credit. We
take the credit for ourselves when we're
trying to advance ourselves.
And here you have the humblest of all
people, Moshe Rabbeinu,
talking to his father-in-law.
killing Moshe Yisro.
And here the Torah has to tell us
that
when it says Yisro arrived, Moshe told
him
by Yishmael Yisro, he heard everything
that God did to who?
To Moshe and the Jewish people.
He didn't hear that from Moshe.
He didn't hear that from Moshe cuz Moshe
doesn't show off. What does he hear from
Moshe?
Everything God did to Paro and
Mitzrayim.
>> Moshe is so humble, so modest. He
doesn't talk about himself at all. He
doesn't try to prove anything to his
in-laws at all. He only talks about the
Jewish people and everything that
happened was in their merit. And this is
another example of the incredible
humility of Moshe Rabbeinu.
Yisro hears it all and he turns to Moshe
and he says, "Baruch Hashem."
Baruch Hashem.
Like a good convert, came out of the
mikvah. Baruch Hashem. Baruch Hashem.
He
saved you from Egypt, saved you from
Pharaoh. Who saved you?
Who saved you? This expression Baruch
Hashem very interesting. The
quintessential Jewish expression.
When you ask someone how you are, Baruch
Hashem.
Quintessential Jewish expression of
thanks, gratitude, and acknowledgement
is Baruch Hashem.
Thank you Hashem, praise you Hashem.
Praise to be the Lord. Baruch Hashem.
Baruch Hashem. So Reb Nachman of Breslov
writes in his holy book Likkutei Moharan
that he would travel around the little
towns and villages of Eastern Europe
asking Jews how they were. However poor
or troubled they were, invariably they
would reply,
"Baruch Hashem." It was an instinctive
expression of faith.
And every Jew knew it. Baruch Hashem
didn't mean,
"I'm healthy, I'm well, I'm prosperous,
and I'm rich."
Baruch Hashem meant, "However I am,
thank you Hashem."
They might have lacked the learning of
the great Talmudic scholar or the wealth
of the successful, but did they believe
that they had much to thank Hashem for?
And they did so.
When asked what he was doing and why,
the Baal Shem Tov would reply by quoting
the passuk,
"But you are the holy one enthroned on
the Jewish people's praises." The passuk
can tell them, "Every time a Jew says
Baruch Hashem, he or she is helping to
make a throne for the Shechinah."
Every time we say Baruch Hashem and we
invoke Hashem's name in a conversation,
we are building the throne for the
divine.
Now, interestingly, three people in the
Torah use this expression.
All of them
all of them
are non-Jews.
Three people use the expression Baruch
Hashem. Good trivia question if you do
parsha questions at the Shabbos table.
Three use the expression Baruch Hashem,
all of them are non-Jews. People outside
the Abrahamic covenant. The first
Noah.
Baruch Hashem. The God of Shem. The
second is Abraham's servant, Eliezer,
who Abraham sends to find a wife for
Yitzchak.
Who blessed Hashem, God of Abraham, who
has not withheld his kindness and
faithfulness from my master. And the
third is Yisro. Here you do not need to
be Jewish to have a sense of reverence
for the creator or to recognize the
history of his hand in miraculous
events. Hashem is universal. Therefore,
humanity created in his image is
universal. This is an essential
reminder. The great problems humanity
faces are global, while our most
effective political agendas are are at
most national. We need to find a way of
combining our universal humanity with
our cultural and religious
particularity. No one demonstrates this
better than Yisro. His wise advice comes
as it were from the outside. Gives
Jewish people first system of
governance. The religion of Israel is
not the religion of everyone, but the
God of Israel is the God of everyone.
You do not have to be Jewish to be good,
wise, or beloved of Hashem. And you see
that from the three people who taught us
the quintessential Jewish expression
Baruch Hashem come from three non-Jews,
the only people in the Torah who use
that expression of Baruch Hashem.
Parshas Yisro Perek Yisro Yisro comes
and now he plays the role of a good
father-in-law. He offers some
unsolicited advice. And he says, I'm I
can make these jokes now cuz I'm a
father-in-law. So,
Vayomer Yisro el Moshe, "Lo tov hadavar
asher ata oseh." This is not good what
you're doing. You're exhausted. You're
wiping yourself out. You're trying to be
a hero in taking care of it all
yourself, and you can't possibly You
can't possibly be accessible, available,
and take care of everyone. You need to
in the EOS system called delegate and
elevate. You're going to have to learn
to delegate. How do you know whom you
can trust to delegate to? How do you
build a team?
So, you have to have core values. And
then the Torah tells us, Yisro tells
him, "These are your core values."
Those are your core values. There's a
scorecard to determine whether these
people will qualify in your core values.
You have to know is it right person
right seat. How do you know if it's
right person right seat? Because it's
alafim, sarei me'ot, sarei chamishim,
sarei asarot. There are different
levels. There's a hierarchy. Different
roles for people to play and you have to
determine do you have right person right
seat? It's all EOS. It's right there in
the psukim. It's right there undeniably
in the psukim. So, the first thing Yisro
says is lo tov. What you're doing in
your system, you're going to fail. And
there are many people who lead
institutions, Jewish, non-for-profit or
for-profit, where they think they're
having success, but it's a fraction of
the success they could have if they go
from figuring out on their own and being
hamish to listening to Yisro and EOS and
adapting and implementing these
platforms. So, he uses the word lo tov.
Where else do you see the word lo tov?
It's one of the place
One of the place in the Torah where the
expression lo tov is used. So, again, I
refer you to Rabbi Sacks. Moshe must
learn to delegate and share the burden
of leadership. Interestingly, the
sentence, "What you are doing is lo
tov." is one of only two places in the
Torah where not good occurs. The other,
"Lo tov yosa Adam l'vado." It is not
good for man to be alone. This is the
introduction to when
Hashem is going to extract Chava from
Adam, split them in two, and introduce
us to the institution of marriage. We
cannot live alone and we cannot lead
alone.
You hear Rabbi Sacks?
What the Torah is telling us, these are
the only two times in the Torah that
words lo tov are used, it's not good, is
because the Torah is telling us, God is
telling us, you cannot live alone and
you cannot lead alone.
That is one of the axioms of biblical
anthropology.
The Hebrew word for life, chaim, is in
the plural, as if to signify life is
essentially shared.
There is no life if it's not shared.
Life has to be with another, in
friendship, with a neighbor, with
Clausel, in marriage, in leadership. Lo
tov, you cannot live alone, and you
cannot lead alone. That's why the word
lo tov lo tov
and lo tov
the only two times the words lo tov are
used to teach us you cannot live alone
and you cannot lead alone. The Torah
tells us
Hashem gives us a charge. We're getting
ready now. We arrive at our Sinai, we're
in Parshat Yitro.
In the third month since we left we
arrive in Midbar Sinai.
The tagline and the motto of our shul,
of our community, our BRS community
that we value diversity, not
divisiveness. And we celebrate unity,
not uniformity.
We want unity, not uniformity.
Many communities want uniformity. One
minyan, one nusach, one mode of dress,
one expectation. We don't want
uniformity. We had Yanam Shabbas morning
at BRS.
And we want unity among the
minyanim.
You can't have unity without diversity.
If you don't have diversity, you don't
have unity. What do you have?
Uniformity. In order to have unity, you
have to have diversity.
So at Har Sinai, we had all the
diversity in the world.
You had Ashkenaz and Sefard and Nusach
Sefard and Edot Hamizrach, Persians and
Moroccans and Teimanim. You had it all.
You had everybody. The Ashkama and the
Netz minyan and the teen minyan and the
outreach minyan and even the people who
fly through the davening minyan, no
drasha, and get right to the kiddush.
You had everybody.
I don't know if they have JFKs at Har
Sinai.
Could you come to Har Sinai just for the
kiddush?
I don't know.
There's a phenomenon in our time that's
called JFK.
A lot of shuls are suffering from it.
JFK are the people who come just for
kiddush.
Not for davening, they show up just for
kiddush. JFK.
Many of my colleagues, rabbis and shul
suffer. So, did Har Sinai have like a
kiddush club?
This is taking too long.
Between Anochi and and you know, they
say, "Who wants to step out and have a
lechaim?" Was there a kiddush club at
Har Sinai? I think not. Was there JFK,
the people who showed up not for Har
Sinai Kabbalas Torah? They came in time
for the kiddush.
The kiddush that followed. I don't know.
We didn't have diversity. I mean, we had
diversity, but we had the ultimate
unity. Vayichan sham Yisrael. Rashi
says, "K'isha echad b'leiv echad." We
studied this last week when we talked
about how the Egyptians had "leiv echad
k'isha echad."
And why was it the reverse?
When the Egyptians pursued us once again
in this last week's parsha, Rashi said,
according to Chazal, "leiv echad k'isha
echad." Now, here are "k'isha echad leiv
echad." We explained that last week.
But, it brings us up to pasuk vav. Top
of page 402.
"V'atem tiliyu mamleches kohanim v'goy
kadosh. Eileh hadvarim asher t'daber el
b'nei Yisrael."
You should be a kingdom of
kohanim
and a kadosh, and a holy holy
nation. What does it mean to be a
kingdom of priests and a holy nation?
What does that mean?
This is our mission statement. This is
what it's all about.
What are priests? What role do priests
play within a people?
They're the role models. They're the
examples. They're the ritual leaders.
What priests are to a people, the Jewish
people are to the world.
We're a mamleches kohanim.
What the kohanim are to Klal Yisrael,
they serve in the Beis Hamikdash, they
do the avodah, they and Levi are the
teachers of Torah. We are the kohanim of
the world. You can't sit and sign up for
that. You can't say, "Leave me alone.
I'm a businessman. I'm a ba'al habayis.
I'm a ba'al habayis. I'm a ba'al
habayis. I do my thing. Where I didn't
I'm not in I'm not in outreach. I'm not
in kiruv.
I'm I'm an ambassador of Torah. What do
you I leave me alone. No. You're part of
the mamlacht Kohanim and that's the
charge even before Kabbalat Torah. Even
before Hashem gave us that Torah, he
said to us, here's what you're meant to
do with it. Wherever you go and everyone
you interact with, in business, gym, the
supermarket and in life, you are the
mamlacht Kohanim. You are the Kohanim of
the world. That's part of why they hate
us. Part of the source of anti-Semitism
is we are the conscience of the world.
We're meant to be the role models and
examples and the teachers of the world
and that's also chazal.
Because where does the word Sinai come
from? Sinai. MiSinai. From Sinai so they
hated us in Sinai. Anti-Semitism is
MiSinai. They've hated us ever since
Sinai, ever since we got this charge to
be the mamlacht Kohanim.
Often in school in a class,
it's the members of the honor society
who get bullied and picked on.
What did they do wrong? Because they get
good grades?
They deserve to be bullied and picked
on. Nobody deserves it. Certainly not
the best behaved, certainly not those
making the greatest grades. Why? Why is
it that often often the bullies are
bullying the people who are in the honor
society or in best example or making the
greatest grade? Because they're the
consciousness. They're making them feel
bad or ashamed or guilt.
And that's part There is no singular
explanation, but part of an explanation
of the anti-Semitism in the world is
that's the role that we're playing
towards others. And that's why Rabbi
Sacks writes here that we have a mission
statement.
Most are defined in terms of language,
geography, political structure, long
association. Jews became a nation by
adopting a task, by a covenant with
Hashem. Absent that, it's hard to say
what it is to be a Jew. What does it
mean to be a mamlacht Kohanim?
Priesthood fell to Aaron and his sons.
Priesthood is not even not seen by the
Torah as a distinctively Jewish
phenomenon. Yisro is a
Kohen Midian. Ibn Ezra and Ramban
interpret the word to mean servants. A
priest is a servant of Hashem.
Rav Saadia Gaon, Rashi, Rashbam
understand it means princes. We're the
princes of the people.
Says Rabbi Sacks, I want to suggest a
different interpretation by looking at
the wider context against which the
biblical narrative was set. The earliest
writing system involved the usual number
of
hieroglyphic or pictographic symbols.
The result was that in each society
where there was writing, there was a
literate elite, a knowledge class, often
involving in administration. Only the
few had access to knowledge and so to
power. The invention of the alphabet
reduced the number of symbols needed to
learn to less than 30. We cannot give a
precise date for the first alphabet,
somewhere between 1800 and 2000 BCE, but
unlike alphabetical scripts, the
alphabet seems to have been invented
only once. All the hundreds of scripts
are direct or indirect descendants of
the Proto-Semitic writing from Sinai
desert. Was it divine providence that
led to this invention exactly the right
time and place to be used by the Jewish
people for the holiest of purposes,
namely recording the divine word, or was
it this new development that allowed the
Jewish people to develop the
consciousness, the high level of
abstraction essential to monotheism? Was
that made possible by literacy that
allowed them to decipher the word of the
one and only God?
Functionally, a priest in the ancient
world was the one who could read and
write. A kingdom of priests therefore is
a nation of universal literacy.
Rabbi Sacks suggests that maybe
Mamlakhet Kohanim means
in the ancient world it was only the
elite who were literate. We, literacy is
not a luxury.
We are the people of the book.
Literacy is not a luxury. We are the
people of the book.
Mamlakhet Kohanim is a nation of
universal literacy, and he elaborates on
this idea very beautifully here. It's
for Shmuel Shmuel Berenbaum. We haven't
even got to I've got a thousand more
things to get to. It's another thousand
more minutes to get to them.
He has a different suggestion of what it
means.
A Mamlakhet Kohanim. Rashi quotes Sarim.
We were princes. Kimada Samar, Ubnei
David Kohanim Hayu, the children of
David were Kohanim. They were officers.
They were parliamentarians. They were
Sarim.
As Shmuel Berenbaum Ketzef Shakhokh Ba
You know, they say like Israel is a
country with 9 million prime ministers.
That's the old joke. Israel is a country
with 9 million prime ministers. So,
we're a people with
millions of members of parliament.
We're all sar, everybody's a sar.
Everybody's a cabinet member.
Who who who are we ruling over?
A me yes sarim.
Take an army, yes sar betzavah.
You only become
become a lieutenant. I don't I'm going
to reveal my ignorance right now.
I don't know the hierarchy, but you grow
the higher levels
in the army
means that you are responsible for more
and more soldiers.
You're an officer, you're a lieutenant,
you're brigadier, you're a general,
whatever all the ranks are. You climb in
rank, the more people that you
outrank and that you dictate
orders to.
But if everybody is a general, then
there are no generals.
So, what does it mean?
The Rashi teaches, mamlacht cohanim
means a nation of sarim.
We're all generals.
We are all generals over
If we're all generals, who are the
soldiers?
We're all generals over ourselves.
See, the general is the one who makes
and executes the plans. The general is
the one who gives orders and holds
accountable.
Sar ha'alim einam machshavim klum. They
just listen to the officer's orders. Kol
Yisrael are tzarich l'hiyot k'mo sarim.
So, we all need to see ourselves as a
sar. We all have responsibility,
accountability. We all order ourselves.
We all have to fall in line with
ourselves, and each of us is an officer.
Each of us is a general, not over
others. What it means to be part of the
Kohanim is to learn to regulate
ourselves, to have sovereignty over
ourselves, to live with a discipline.
So, that's yet another Rabbi Saks quoted
many Rishonim, offered his own
interpretation, and I'll tell you one
more here from the from the Tiferes
Shmuel, that what does it mean to be a
sar? What does it mean to be a member of
the Kohanim? Sar is sovereign, to have
rule over ourselves, and to be on a top
of ourselves, and to have chiddush. Say
Hakol Bederech Sekhakh. So, we're up to
Seder Shemot it's two, so excited when
they come together, but we don't have
time for that.
Um
Oh, man.
Perek Yitro pasuk tet zayin.
We're coming to Har Sinai. We didn't get
to Har Sinai.
On the third day when it was morning
there was thunder and lightning and a
heavy cloud on the mountain, the sound
of the shofar was powerful, and the
entire people that was in the camp
shuddered. We have a minhag that we
learn from this pasuk. Anyone know what
minhag?
We emulate something from this pasuk.
Not everybody has the minhag. Not
everybody has it.
There's a minhag that comes from this
pasuk.
Again, my cousin and his adiya Torah of
Ganz quotes it.
The Tashbetz,
who was a student of the Maharal of
Rothenburg,
the Tashbetz
When parents walk with a candle, their
son and daughter down the aisle to the
chuppah,
it's because the chuppah represents
Kabbalas haTorah u'Matan Torah Har
Sinai,
and walking with the candles
commemorates the light the lights, the
lightning, the light show, the kolos
u'brakim u'lapidim that took place at
Matan Torah. The Matas Moshe kasav,
"HaTam she'kolel ish lo ner b'yado, ki
l'isha yesh lo reshunim b'eis evarim." A
woman has 252
limbs. Well, a man
has 248. Together, they are 400 they are
500. Twice the word "ner".
And therefore, the father and the mother
each carry a candle. The two candles
together, ner * 2 is 500, which is ish
v'isha, this union that's about to take
place.
Ner * 2 also is pru u'rvu.
The mother and father when they're
walking their children down the aisle,
all they're thinking about is how long
will it take till we have grandchildren?
Because that will make this whole cost
of the wedding worth it.
If these two under the chuppah will give
us grandchildren. So, that's the kavana.
Each holds a candle, the father and the
mother of each of the brachosson and the
kallah. Twice ner is pru u'rvu.
Tosafos in Sanhedrin writes,
The chosson and kallah the gabbai bris
milah they would light a candle and show
for a bris. The Ran also writes in his
chiddushim that they would, he quotes
here at the end,
that Rav Ovadia says this is not a
Sefardi minhag.
And it was never their minhag and
therefore, we don't do that minhag. But,
it's very interesting that most of the
halachos
of the chuppah are derived from where?
Our parsha.
Kabbalas Torah. The Tashbetz quotes many
of these references
that the chuppah is over the head just
like
Har Sinai was held overhead kafah al hem
har k'gigis. So, many of the laws of the
wedding and of the chuppah are derived
from Har Sinai including this one for
those who do have the minhag, not
everybody does, of walking down with
with candles.
Um
Mhm.
I'll do one more.
Paragraph passage Gimel.
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Don't make yourself a carved image.
Don't make yourself a pesel K'chol
T'munah. Don't make yourself. Rabbi
Abraham, Rabbi Dr. Abraham J. Twerski
asks Zatzal. He asks, one word is extra
there.
What word is extra?
L'cha.
The Shvirger. On the money.
Parsha of the Shvirger of the Shvirger
Shvirger. On the money. The word L'cha
is extra. Extra. Why do I have the word
L'cha? The possuk could have simply
said, Lo Sasa Pesel. Don't make a graven
image. Don't make an idol. What's the
word L'cha? What's the word L'cha?
Moreover, says Reb Twerski
B'chlal, why does the Torah need to
prohibit this?
Have you seen anyone bow down to an idol
recently?
You see anyone worshipping stone or the
sun or the moon? It's irrational.
Why would someone build something with
their own hands and then bow to it and
think it has a power?
Totally irrational. Totally doesn't make
any sense whatsoever. Says Rav Tworksi,
he says human beings by nature want to
be free.
We want to have that feeling that we can
do whatever we want. Nobody controls us,
no one dictates to us, no one holds us
accountable. We can do whatever we want.
In order to achieve this goal, we create
an idol not to worship the idol, but the
idol is an extension of us.
The idol is our creation. What are we
really worshipping?
Ourselves. When you create something, we
can dictate to it whatever we want.
Every form of a Buddha Zara ultimately
and essentially is self-worship. It's
not really the worship of the other. By
delegating or designating it as an idol,
you, the designator, are really
worshipping yourself.
And that's why the Torah says,
lo saseh l'cha pesel.
Don't turn yourself into an idol. Don't
worship yourself. Idol worship is gone,
but self-worship is alive and well.
People are worshipping themselves, their
ego, their arrogance. This is a chapter
in my book. You can pre-order. It's
going to be coming out this fall. It's
all about ego versus elocus. There's
only two ways to live life, and they
make the entire difference in the kind
of life that we live.
I just saw, this is going to go in the
book, a Harvard study.
56% of the people polled were asked, in
the 30 days prior to the taking this
poll, did they find meaning or purpose
in their life?
And 56% said no.
No meaning or purpose in their life.
They were living the same day over and
over again, waking up, going to work,
getting through the day, and going to
sleep with no meaning or purpose. And
the correlation between the mental
health challenges, the increased anxiety
with those who had no meaning or purpose
in life.
It's screaming at us.
Screaming at us.
Ego or elocus.
Ego, if you're living a life of ego
without meaning and purpose and mission
for another,
it's a life of misery.
And when you live a life of Elokus,
what's my mission? What's my purpose?
Why am I here? What am I meant to do?
Who am I meant to be? It's a life of
joy, peace, and serenity, and meaning
and purpose and happiness.
There you go, a little preview to the
book. So, it says Rav Twerski, "That's
lo sa'aseh l'cha pesel."
In this question of ego versus Elokus,
lo sa'aseh l'cha, don't turn yourself
into an idol. Don't worship your
happiness. Don't worship your
perspective and interpretation of the
world. Don't worship that you have to
micromanage others. Don't worship that
you have to always be right. Don't
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programming, your prompt in the AI.
Don't worship yourself. Lo sa'aseh l'cha
pesel. Don't turn yourself into the
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