This Is Not Mine, What Should I Do? - Rabbi Yaakov Zev Smith

this is not mine what should i do have the greatest hostess sponsoring this year called here you can share terror at davening 718-851-8651 saw someone walking without a coat i wanted to wish him zuma as a subtle way of giving a mustard you know you know accomodation so he must have read my mind and he says don't worry i came to shoot with a coat but someone took mine and left me his and i was told i can't wear his coat if he took my coat so that very much attracted my interest to learn the sugiya of this helpful caleb a question that comes up often someone took your coat someone took your mick for bag right before minkie about to start dabbing and that your hat is not there someone left his hat there we had a shot someone was running out to the bathroom right before the ila and he wanted to the someone took his talos and left their towels there could he wear someone else's talos so the common denominator we're not talking about hashaba salveda it's not a lost item we're not talking about a but you have someone's item what are you supposed to do with it can you use it temporarily you need a coat you need a talos vanilla you need a hat for minecraft so the truth is so far you're okay you didn't take his hairs but here's the point that's important if you take his hairpit and you use it even if you don't intend and steal to steal there is still a problem and that's the well-known bastard which means very simply if you take someone's item and use it without resource even if you don't steal it but using someone's item without resource gazelle said it's gazelle in other words we say i'm not stealing it i'm just borrowing it but ghazal said so and i had a friend of mine we both were growing up together and he said when it's he was something they say something and his father says that's not true goes no i'm not lying i'm joking so the boss says don't say you're joking say you're lying if you say you're joking so you don't feel bad if you say you're lying you know you feel bad because i was saying don't say it's that i'm just borrowing someone's haphaze say i'm stealing it because taking an item without restroos is geneva you know we we always hear that that expression janam's proof that someone else's money is sacred i just heard the other day some children playing pickup sticks the first remember you have to pick up the stick without moving the other ones and he got all excited because oh this is 11. the person looked down you're the celeb and he goes yeah but i've never done this take your own and don't touch someone else's that's pickup sticks but that's life the point is that in life we have to be careful with the enemies of pruta and the atmos is a lot to say but i have to make one point before we go to aloha maison imagine you get a frantic phone call someone says i need a second 15 second hurry okay no no so i'm driving out here in muncie now some suburban area i have 50 you're the chicken on my bus i lost control the bus is going over the cliff she goes no what's the shy look you only have 10 seconds left what's the shot if i make a quick left turn i will steer it onto someone's front yard and i'll damage three of his tulips what should i do so you're probably tempted to say you know just go over the cliff we don't need you but you know that you know this shiloh is a bearish apostolic and shmuel and i'm the fair shikamura the gemara bhava khamad of salman khamenei is david was fighting at war with eden against the politician and it was grave danger for claudius throw and mold dove it as a typo doesn't even sound right david had a taver he wanted water and he sent to soldiers to go and put their lives in danger to get water for him can't be so ghazal have a different reading of the psukim david had a taivor he had a shiloh his enemy were hiding in gadisham in high stacks of sauerim and if he burned to get the gadisham he would get rid of the polished him he would finish off his enemy but the problem is gedishin sell israel it belonged to someone else might be right instead of tulips it was gadisha but david had a shiloh can i damage the enemy's pruta to save my the life of myself and clay israel and the response believe it or not was us on a regular situation i feel uber you can't take someone's money to save your life now of course the mercado says you must save your life and the bus driver must drive over the tulips and if it's in a shuttle in in you have to destroy the sauerim so you have to do it i'm going to ask the shaolin the point is that you have no doubt about it you have to save your life even a yennem's money but you have to willing to pay you can't say i'm because if you have any time you're looking them up they discussed the havana of this in other words you can't say i want to be very from i'm not going to damage it please i'm going over the cliff that's ritika it's in theory someone's money is not nefesh but you have an option damage the item and pay for it ah you'll say wait a minute if this is true so we have a new york voyage some dish now we not only available but now gazelle is is is so that's a good question the gilian marshal and your idea cufflin zion quotes a thai scepter and you look in the xiaomi in the end of shemainishwatsum that seems to say anakonami ghazal in theory is also jarek valliavro now why do i keep on stressing theory because in practice you have to save lives even if it damages someone else's money but you have to do it on manassela shaolin you have to pay so then let me see you're not damaging someone else's property but what is most striking the whole thing seems so strange you mean in theory i have to not damage the tulips because it's not derek how do you understand that so i found something amazing that the his money even a penny it's like he stole his life and mara now this is not a muslim this is let's think if you damage his tulips you're taking his neshama his if he drives over the cliff he's taking his own life do you hear someone's proof is someone's life you want to save your life on the expense of his life who said that's correct this is a little bit about jennam's pruta and therefore we have a big problem can i wear his talos without research can i take his coat without rishis it's yenim's pruta it's showing ah you'll say wait a minute but talos is a mitzvah you're allowed to do a mix without resources people are much more mifunokim they're much more finicky they don't want you to use their talents they don't need your dandruff your lies your sweat and he says better if there's no other talus not to use someone else's talos that i'm without because people are mocked it now again you have to know the mathias of today but he's saying that it mitzvah doesn't justify taking something without rashus so now the shyly is what do i do i have no coat i have no towels i have no hat can i take it without russus so you might say wait a second i know whose coat this is he's a little floyd he's my good friend i am a hundred percent certain he would let me take the hat or palace without can i say that since i know he would give me rashos it's as if he gave me resource so that we all remember the first thing we learned in gemara there's a concept of years shalom that even though you're certainly with me ish unless there's an actual years you can't create a yiosh and twice this in bahamut base says the same is true regarding taking someone's haith actually the story was a few of mariam came to a bustany came to a paradise and they were the workers with paris and my zutra did not want to eat because he had no resources either by the bus would be overjoyed that could do the israel ate his paris but if he didn't give rashus bipol says twices yeah she like me that's like javier and the toy swiss and that's the sheet of the raw shadow it's a shri and the mordechai you can't eat someone's parents even if you're 100 certain that he would give you wishes unless he actually gave you rishus now i do know the shah in shin nunchas if karnal says lula de mista pina i would say differently but don't forget twice is the rash i got street mother i argue the shah himself says lu de mastapina from tris you see if cotton hay says allah is like choice is not like and if you have any doubt he would be so happy if he ate his payers you can't eat his parents unless he gave you rashoos is not considered vicious and the kittens quotes this verbatim so now we have somewhat of an issue how can i use his hat towels coat whatever it's a year she let me that's why happy years so what comes to mind is the following suggestion listen this i must i'm going over and using someone's hand he took my hat and left me his he took my coat and left me his i'm a victim why can't i use his coat in other words if someone took mine i'll take his so i must remind you nakama is not a heter it's an issa he took mine i could take his you know boo state but there's much more than that and there's a gemara above ambassador from involvement aleph this helpful a calendar came with if someone someone gave in his palace to be cleaned or his shoes to to fix or whatever it is and there was a mix-up someone took yours and you have his you allowed to use the item without resource bought the next the base of the base if someone went through and he put down the code in the back room together with 25 other black coats and of course his coat got mixed up then you can use someone else's coat for example what's the killer gray show say for base um and why is it different than base olive based mr so the kimora explains a very fine philip regularly zak twice this whenever someone took yours you can take his the regular is this half of calum you can't take his because you have no resource so shall i be that's gosling but a base of um you gave it into a repair shop or cleaners so we could assume that you gave the violin rashes to even sell the talus to make money for you because you need money so if you gave the violin was just to sell the phallus certainly someone else could use the towels without resource in other words as twice as stresses clearly the regular luck is the school for kalim is also to use someone else's hate it's it's a simple show islam he does but in the exceptional case of an uman where you gave him is just to sell it then the other person could use it and the members dig more even limits it further if you said here's your tallest then there's no head of uman a bunch of conditions you look at it but i could say this unequivocally the hecta of uman does not apply in our times when you're given a suit to the cleanest or a tallest or a suit to the shoemaker you don't give him resist to sell it if need be and that's why all the boys can cross the board say today in this half of calum any place is second he took my talos so he's the gosling so why can i take my towels back so the rav had your mind if you said that zak the rabb in the end of zela and he'll say let's see flamin misha is healthy you can use his apparently someone came to talk to the khazeen ish and he left he took the hazardous cane instead of taking his own so now the niche you know homebound he couldn't go without a cane to use someone else's cane so let him and listen this goddess now please be kind to me to allow me to use your cane because it got mixed up and i need a cane now i don't know about you but if someone would come to my house and i'll give them my time i would say not only you stole my time you stole my cane give it right back but he said please you know the cane got confused so the fitness of the story is not that the khazris didn't use the cane that's the befere shigemaru that's his household of caleb the way that looked at it with great void hebrews like you know it got confused but this is the aside if someone exchanged an item with someone else and you have the item left you can't use it if a fairy shikimar the only question is is there any thought to be mako again it's a freezing winter day you have no coat it's about to dive nearly you have no tales no hat i mean it goes these shadows happen all the time so we could this this is a challenging question because the starting point is a gemara and bless no one argues so i'd like to suggest the following if it got exchanged the muscle i got someone else to certainly clean this and someone else got mine no there's no there's no troublemaker two innocent victims then don't use it but let's see the case of the coach someone took my coat i'm going to call i'm not going to call him a gunner because he's an iceberg he's a troublemaker but he left without a coat why can i use his coat i the gemara says this half of caleb is awesome maybe it's means either gemara's talking to the ganith or troublemaker you took his coat on me after shaka's you're about to go to minha say oh he's not my coat can i wear his coat no don't touch his coat maybe that's what the worm is talking ornish means when there are two victims the cleanest made a mistake so i have his shirt he has my shirt so we can use it but i'm the victim he took my coat i have no other coat maybe it's mutter and i found in the emma's safe and christmas with kuflam now again the bank road is safer but these are horus that people added i mean it's supposed to be you know reliable but if narayan gives xavier but he's they they quote that was that it's a banker that was asked someone took my hat or my palace so since ilam and the other person exceeded a ghanaiaf i could take his talus as tashluman for geneva that's a bank of rights now it's very brief i imagine abraham kev understood the more like i explained the murder is talking about two victims or the ghana himself can use it further but with pandava yank of held if you're a victim and the troublemaker took your talus and you have no other towers you could use his now this is what it says there but i must tell you first of all the rav such a bethesda the abuse didn't hold to that but what to me and the whole premise to call the other person again if is not posted the magnify even lost gazella simenzagan writes if someone took an item by mistake he doesn't have a dinner of geneva ganeth is bemazed now what's the nafcamina i'll tell you bravozdan khalidvov has a shadow that that that is pretty common i took your item by mistake okay and then i lost it uh no i lost it it was an iron is someone took it out of my head stole that of my house i took her out of mistake and someone took it inis so dr vozner if you hold gannith bishoy gig has a dinner of again if i'm have to pay for ointment if i'm not going if then put them and reverse the quotes this mach mia frying that gun is not considered god vishai is not considered a ganeth and i'm potter for the item that was nana's so the whole premise to call the the the troublemaker aganif is not posted but rabbi said there is an extremely important you say that's mohammed maison so let's try to clarify this once and for all the end of our semen after saying that nascar for caleb is asking nakamura he writes matter of factly the minig in the comments that there's so many a big multitude of people coming and people change min olim el yoinem the boots sometimes stable and yeah this people changed the over the boots that they wore no one is makbid you allowed to use the other ones they aimed a new place gather and you you exchange your boots you allowed to use the other person's boots now they are earlier in pesach listen to this the end of tough nun tests apparently in those days they many people baked matzos at the same time in one matzo oven and sometimes it happened that i might get his matzah and he gets mine dr takes someone else's matzah because it's an um that people don't mind you take his i take yours as long as you end up with matzo so you're talking about mats that there's a dinner matsukazu and assumed if it gets confused you could use his so we see that although the gemara says this khao for caleb is awesome but for some reason today there's no issa because no one minds now the only question is what is the arkhan shokhan talking about is this a general cloud that any item that is exchanged today you're allowed to use it and keep it because no one minds what changed sometimes did it come over what's more logical is talking about items that are identical i'll give you a few examples we could relate to you went to shu and you put your totes uh large rubbers there must be half a million totes large in brooklyn alone right they all look the same unless you have very holy rubbers but they're all the same or the shayna coat large coat or or things that they're all the a totes umbrella they're all the same so even if it's not mine but it's all the same i saw the sherman son of malacha in kruppe base tazai and says if you swap umbrellas no one minds it's all the same umbrellas but he's saying talos and coat and hat and everything who i don't i don't see it in the arch but okay discuss someone that changed that that his cause was was exchanged with someone else's clothes and he says it's time it's in our times and loved africa boots even coats any item because no one minds if their items are exchanged discussed someone swapped hats and he quotes so bottled but i could just say what ramosha and the bravoza understood now i wonder out loud what changed are we less bigger tad in times of the gemara are we less than mufunakam times of the gemara so i first thought maybe the key word is miss miss asvim when you come to a place that is a big mall to the people so people are more generous things get confused but it's not true because the gemara speaks about base bass avail and bass mister that was also a place of rob and miss aston so i don't know but i think next time you go to akasana and you have tempe by the table make a survey how many people don't mind if someone wears your coat your hat your talos i don't know if that's the matias the min says if most people don't mind but you mind then someone can use your item without resource so i could only say the following the arkhashohan at least where moisture and reverse understood seem to have a sweeping header bismarck there nobody minds now if that's true you have a hetero but again is that true in the midsize but there seems to be a more practical hat than this negaya in many many situations let's say my code was taken and i don't know whereabouts there's only one code there then i understand i can't take his coat and use it forever but maybe just to get home to use it once and again i'm 100 certain that the troublemaker took my coat does not want me to walk home in 11 below zero the windchill factor during the winter or i should have been muslim i'd have an eel without a talis so it's an umura that the real owner would let me use the item at least once if you need someone safer and you're a hundred and ten percent certain and not just 110 percent certain that he lets you use it you're allowed to use without resource because you know this person would let now this is shocking because we said earlier the rav says that even if you have a very very close friendship you would be so happy if he ate your parents it's awesome and here the rap says if you know it's he lets you it's muta so i saw a beautiful stickle in imran yakov on the rafts and he says the khilak is obvious the case of the rav the first case tastes in hot bays was talking about eating someone's parents without that's not using that's consuming so even though you're certain he would let but that's a pretty steep use it's not being returned but to use it once and there's no laws there's no half sid so the person would definitely let you allow to use it without riskus and he proves it from the third rav and he'll see explains because the karen kyamus but he goes a step further he says let's let's let's put this in perspective someone took my talus and left me his or my code left me his they're about to dive in the elo or have to go home in a freezing cold winter it's an um hundred and ten percent that the biolum wants me to use it so it's therefore he says you can rely on the rav you could use it without rishis or better yet it's you do have rashus it's an um and he says i'll tell you more so but listen to this even if it's not a hundred percent certain but then again the gemara said the um you're allowed to use without because since he gave us just to sell it probably he gave us just someone else to use it there there the russian of the rush is shema parrot says when something is looks good you could be makeup no this case he took your code he's a troublemaker i'm a victim so what he's saying is when i'm the victim and i'm only using it once it's a shoyo badass beerus i also found the he also adds at the end plus you could throw on the arkhan that today is different but la mais if he's stuck without a coat there is a header to walk home with someone else's coat of course you have to bring it back as soon as you can because otherwise the person will come back not find his coat i'm going to start a vicious cycle he says the difference between masking or writes very longish but he has the same your said if someone took your thing there's definitely not just a mosque in but a right sir and you're allowed to use it without rishis the puchacha in quest of akudoshima simon a little more mahmeer you see he's not making like the shogun and he says but if it's a shasta and you know the pylon would want no you could use it but he throws in a line now what's he referring to this is an incredible gamora in broadcast of hayama bays where the gemara says that rafuna suffered a loss and they told me you know why you suffered a loss that his wine became vinegar because he didn't pay his worker he goes i didn't pay my worker the workers cheated me they should pay me and of course i didn't pay them so they told him you're right but boss again rash explained if you do something that looks like an ava it has an effect it wasn't geneva he was doing what's right so the bachachi even though he's making me din but he's skeptical because doing a my second ava leaves a scar it leaves a a bad effect in the my parents if cotton hey listen to this with the based on your xiaomi paskins you allowed to use a double mood without resources you want to take a tissue out of someone's box without resist mark yourself to take something without resource you might go further that's a that's a form of boss gone for genoise so i definitely feel that if you could avoid taking someone's item without research about but if there's no other choice we have either the or khashoggis that it's like on that people don't mind bismarck we have the this new header of the rav that using it once aimed by kiloi and hopefully we won't have the effect of boston vaganoif but then there's another cloud which i believe is the midsole of farsim because again i think everybody has a problem they found an aveda or they got something they don't know what to do with it it's really three years two years what do i do with it so here we come to an extremely important usa because here's the question let's say i was at sadduk someone took my coat i didn't touch his coat i left his coat there i hope that he's going to come and exchange it no this happened in tough shin pay pay i left my coat there now it's winter tough simply alef his code is still sitting there and called the anointer what should i do now if he didn't come in within a year then the chance and either he's a floyd doesn't realize or doesn't know where to retrace his tracks but i'm not getting back my coat what should i do so pasta is the same allah it's awesome so here we come to again you say that mama could save a lot of money from eden we know the first thing we learned to ask that if you have an evader that no one claimed which is both this man the going say it in the torah hold on to it okay the question is you know in the olden days people didn't lose items so so quickly and if it did they looked for the items today we live in a very affluent society you don't look for it you lose it i know personally of a camp director he said i have a garage full of evaders in camp to rent a different garage he puts up signs that no one comes yeah ask any person that says it has a moist a mikvah you're going to have to have a warehouse and the embassy they say the briskerow when he moved from brisk to the shalom he brought all the robbers that people left by his father and he was he harsh i know guys this i saw the stipe like i do besides he had a box of pens on his desk and if people came to me couldn't hear he had to write you a critter and he left the pens on the table and he didn't want to keep it so he had a is there what do you do if you have a not a box of pens you have a warehouse of munah so there's a pleiadeke aside which is based on the gemara the gemara says which i know you're not going to believe but the gemara says in bhavansiya every item you find that that does not belong to you have to keep it until you know becomes except fill in if you find someone's villain you can wear it right away i belong someone else it becomes that i that you found might villain sure you'll give him the money ah he wants his villains now it's filling they're all the same no one cares might feel in your film just give me the money i'll buy a new parrot villain and that's the way the mahabharata passkins is if you find my coat i want my coat i don't want your coat but filling they're all identical to minecraft so the assigned endeavor is if you find an item that someone lost and you are certain he doesn't care if you give him back the same item a new item or the the money i the value then you could keep it a cleaning lady left her jewelry by a bala bus and fled whatever the reason was another boss had an item that wasn't his shots up how much the jewelry was worth write it down in a place you'll have it for the rest of your life if the massage ever comes back to claim it you'll give her the value of the jewelry to use it that's because the person wants back his item but jewelry they'll give back the money and they'll buy new jewelry it's all the same safe is learning is only when the item is irreplaceable i'll give you an example you find someone's uh uh his sentimental value with pictures or whatever it is a a trophy or razer award you can't replace them but most items today are replaceable that today is a different world almost all items are replaceable so what does that mean that means like follows when you have a moon first you have to put up a sign the states they want the item if no one comes in call vane oina so shuts up how much the value is worth you found a phrase a coat it has this cinnamon and that simmon it's approximately this amount of dollars and be generous because probably no one's gonna come don't worry write it down someplace not on a piece of scrap paper it's gonna be in the garbage but write it on somebody that you're going to save and gimmel tough says write it in the first page of messages because that you won't lose you won't throw out and you know where to look for it he doesn't say bump and see if that was my dick rather because he wasn't broken i think bubba c is a better idea but what's the shot if someone comes he'll get back the full value now once you did that the item is yours you can either use it sell it or throw it out it's up to you because this is the what i call the monach alternative he's getting back his item the value without a copaida now if you want to keep the item my first suggestion is write your name in it if we all write our names and the items these things won't happen promise you don't write your name so step one is write your name in it then you could use it so this is what i call the moon alternative that basically an item that's not yours you're allowed to use it sell it or throw it out so my mailer if then you come back the next winter the code is still there so treat it like an evader and take the coat mouselove it's your coat write your name in it if the bile never comes out i have your coat no problem i shot stuff here's the money buy a new one there is a different hectare regarding a a permanent swap a change and this i saw the pisces in perigdality rmm hey explains that if you left it there long enough that the biolum realized he made exchange and he was me ish then you allowed to keep it because it's a mutual agreement that if he has your coat and you have his coat and you don't know each other's identity so right now you have two gun oven you have easy as yours so that's not a very good business to be in if there's an umura that you will both want to legitimize your actions so you're making your call to him he's marking his code to you and shalom all israel is he the two gun of him or two so after the the time that he detect that he has yours so now you have a very scary situation two shows shilling with goslin you let each other use it it says i what about is but that's only when there's an aveda is available you took it by mistake now that as if you're swapping it's like and the mahira overrides the surah sally are they and he proves this very conclusively from our gemara that the gemara says you're allowed to assume that the that he gave it to the to the cleaners to sell it if it was a case of uman this case is much more sensible that people don't want to remain a ghana if they want to swap so his discussion is if you could assume the person will he made a mistake you're allowed to to keep it forever and the um is if you have yours i have and i if you have mine i have yours and we will never cross tracks again we keep each others and shalom our israel he does add which is a little problematic but if the items are so identical that you could assume the other person didn't notice that he exchanged it then there's no um that's the shell of slamming that that's a yes so the truth is in that case i would guess if they're so identical then you might have to because if it's two exact items so who cares talking i don't care we both have the same totes large rubbers or totes umbrella so who cares but this is very relieving the fact is that people don't mind after a while because there's no other choice he has my coat and i have visco what am i going to do now i saw it in the safe and maestro also such a child you have someone's called for the longest time she goes if you want to be from take the code give it to a friend of yours as the matano gemura so the friend has no issa of israeli are they he'll give it back to you and then you could use it i thought that was a nice idea but then i served up and said he says don't he doesn't quote and he says don't do that aids of giving you someone else because then you're identifying yourself as a ghana that's giving you someone else you want to be a ghana so i'm not sure that's the great eight sir the best date is just to assume there's an umura is one more sadler huckle which is also a mitzvah goddard lefersen and that is did you ever wonder why one of the most commonly aired childs for any rav is ashabu salveda why do we have shoes and moistures and camps with a you know bursting closets and and warehouses of avedas so the terraces like i told you earlier today people don't look for evaders i invite you to come to camp on closing day after all the buses pulled out take a tour of the bunk houses you will see a cold boy of anything and everything left hefka the boys know it food clothing hats suit bags it's a package it looks like a variety store you could have anything you need there and everybody knows when you come if you leave this half people don't i once take a spoke here i told i studied in first year tell your children if they lose something you can they should look for it and everybody started laughing i said it's not a joke you know i lost my hat get me a new one sure no problem delivered now minsky absolutely kind of rock attack up it bothered him that people didn't have a sensitivity so he told the building manager give me all the hats and coats that have names that have become hefca and i'll take care of it and he decided to call every baker in and give him and the manal was beside himself this pastor is very able to do that but he was more of a mechanic and he wanted to give her you lost the hat it's your name in it why don't you look for it you know it's something that we need and you look at a moisture you look at yeshiva at the end of this man these these uh the eights are before some of these they they have you know each one is forty forty five dollars a few hundred if not thousands of dollars as far so what do you do you know do you have this does a camp menial have to rent a garage to make a moonah does he have to make a mural alternative and start selling it so good israel is all said there has to be an alternative that makes sense that's practical and that is very simply that a mice that puts up a sign that's that's right in front of him you walk into the mice that everybody sees any item that's left over 30 days becomes the hefka or the property of the monster they could word it in any way they want but it has to be that it's noticeable to anybody who enters and basically if after 30 days the item is left even though it has a name and a phone number it is considered hefka and the moisture could either sell it give it away include it in their itas farm or throw it out whatever is applicable but you can't over burden moist this without you know a mix for you're not gonna how many micro bags they have after a month now the emma says that works even buying this helpful if the the mice that has a policy after 30 days anything left is hafka so his coat that he left from last year winter is half good so you could take it in fact i saw and that's safe yesterday the surah yeshiva had a policy it becomes a siva and they took an item and they stamped it yeshiva property someone said it's my item has his phone number an address and the governor gave it back zombies you have the right to give it back it's not it's not the gabbas it's the yeshivas so this really this really depends on the yeshiva's or the moisture's understanding sometimes you see very happy if you take it back just don't leave it here but le meister this is the aza not only for avedis but also for exchanged items again let's say my coat was taken and he left his coat there a month ago so after a month the code is hafka so if the shul says take it i could take it now the only issue i had to have moisture in that suva he says that and i sort of the prescription at the end of steve dallas says this also but let's say if you let's say there's a chance that someone from outside came in only once from the back door and didn't see the sign so how could you keep the habits maybe the person didn't see the maidah so moisture says you're right if you didn't see them i don't it doesn't work but you don't have to be crushed that an outsider punk left left this this item and you could go on with the takana as mentioned the pisgah also wonders about that they maybe didn't see the sign but i must tell you today in the end of tough shin pay alex where it has become such a widespread takana everybody knows i'll give you a muscle someone left his uh is certain to clean his uh after the time that it says in the ticket if you left it it becomes uh you know ownerless so even though he didn't read the ticket too bad on you you come into a cleaners you gave it you got a ticket you don't want to read it so don't read it but that's the tonight if it's well known that every mice it has this ongoing takana that it's half day after 30 or 60 days whatever it is then even though you didn't see it it's understood you you don't have to see a sign don't uh write graffiti on the walls so don't litter you're our moist with your items and i thank it seems he says even if he didn't see a maid but if it's accepted universally that maesters have this takana then it will be muta even without a person actually seeing it it's like almost like like part of the agreement you come into the moisted with specific well-known conditions now the mice this is an important point to mention that if someone comes in and left it it becomes half cup so clearly you who you lost your coat a month ago and other coat is there if it's half cut you could take that as a replacement for your coat now i want to just add a few more points assorted silence about our sugiya we have this today quite often that people get someone else's mail now today because they're using a lot of computers so there's a code and very often you get someone else's mail so the truth is putting it back in the mailbox is not going to help because it comes right back to you because the mail it reads the computer price code someone said he put it back in the mailbox four times and it came back his house four times so it's not yet wasting time so we have to be thankful to hashem that we have a mitsubishi veda it is an address then take take out time for a mitzvah their eyes call up the person and say rabbit i have you a male now here's a qriddish maybe people don't know but it's pashit there's no on you to find it to deliver the mail to the the person that lo that that that it's his mail you know i'm going to be a mailman the myth of servants of eight is to notify him that he lost it and that you have to notify him that you have it and he has to come and very often say ah throw it out this junk mail you say it's a bill yeah i don't have to throw it out pursue him but if he said throw it out throw it out if he doesn't come after you know x amount of time so then you talk a lot of throw it out but you have to at least notify him that you have it mahi says to you someone got a grocery delivery on his doorstep it was in a must been a small store no name on of the grocery a box like in a banana box they filled up the groceries and his address it was a mistake what do you do with it is going to bring mold so here we have besides the moon alternative we also have a tour and towards the end of rays says that paris there's no dinner sell it right away or better yet now in our terms use it right away write down i got a delivery approximately a hundred dollars if someone comes to my house claiming that delivery i will give them the money but you are saying what's more of an issue you went to the fruit store you bought a bag of fruits then you went to this farm store and you went home taking your fruit bag and you came home that it was someone else's bakery bag you have no idea whose it is you ran back to the store and your fruit is still there and you have now fruit of yours and his missingness what do you do with that bed mission is not yours to put it down is it's an apple because maybe he came back and so it wasn't there and does not and you took his item so now you're giving the storekeeper your headache so the only eights would be to put up a sign in the store that i have if you lost the bakery item on business day please call me then you have the shots of how much it's worth you could use the bakery goods and if someone claims it hopefully you'll give it back them but it's time to give it to the the owner of the store is an apple you picked it up you took it home i'm not al jazeera someone told me he found money in his pocket usually people take money from your pocket here someone put money what happened very positive and he achieved this around 250 black jackets in the coat room someone put money in his pocket but it really was someone else's packet so this has could be this is a first of all the mockum is a simmon and also if the money combination was a rare combination could be the minion is a simmon but at the end of the day this is a clear-cut case of mozamois you put up a sign right away money found in my pocket come and claim it if the person said i lost 127 dollars and there's a right combination fine if no one claims it so you're right then and you're sect above me i found on allah 127 my pocket and yeshiva so and so if someone ever claims it i will give back the money but i mentioned this in shiva friday and one of their band told me a marvel dica story he once found over a thousand dollars in lakewood yeshiva it was wrapped in a way that it was clearly a masoli and he put up a sign he would spend money from the fire submit and no one claimed it the maestro at forsheimer told him this is definitely a simmon of the amount of money and he still has the money but my stylist was that he told me he wrote a he wrote a note to himself and he put it in it together with his wife sksuba and he said he reminded me that you know just in case khalid doesn't live totally he wants his yarsham to realize there's a mitzvah he has someone else's money i mean the uh shamanian was outstanding of but this is the point you have someone else's money it's not a hefcabel you could make the munich alternative but it has to have a kim to it the banished high i'm not sure in what context but in tate say he said if someone took your code the maze it be married you'll either take his he writes to why did he take him and married because your cup is better than his so he left you so i don't know but he said if you know he took my marriage you could take his now that must be even though greater magnus parta that might be a a vias touch lumen of the geneva but that's berkshire very rare if not unprecedented very common a person left a item on a table or lost an item in an area and he comes back it looks like his but he has no simmon are you what do you do so if it's nervous so narvin is not a suffolk take it but i'm talking about it's not nerve and he has no tsi and he has no simin so the min has gitzi he left the towel in the mikvah and he came back a while later it looks like his but he can't swear in the court of law that it's his so he says the mocking is not a symmetry because everybody has mixed in the uh every towel is in the mikvah but he says a beautiful vert he says that from our tas with that now simmons he says if someone was in this khalef he's better off than an aveda why if you find an aveda you don't know whose it is but one thing i know it's not yours to keep it you have to be very sure you'll have to keep it here take it i left the towel in this mikvah i can't say this is mine maybe it's a scallop maybe not but the starting point is you are you had a towel exactly like this so the suffix is in your favor so he says basically keep the towel if no one came in the interim and could hope that it's yours and you don't have to worry the pisces and again in the end of perigdality is even more makel and he says even if it's a sophic maybe someone left it he says basically since the starting point it was your item you could keep it someone got assert from the cleaners and knows it's not his shirt how does he know because that initials on this on the cuff and it's not his so he went back to the cleaners and the cleaner says oh i'm sorry i don't have your shirt so give me back that one because i no no i'm not giving back my shirt on this shirt until i get back my shirt so the queen said what do you mean but this is not your shirt so he was mahaven to a trim of sardisian and semen shin you test he writes mom and shout out about the girisha cleaners which is yiddish people and he says he says i don't have to bring a riot to this but if if someone took yours and you have someone else's you can say i'm not giving it back until i got mine he says you can't keep a shirt as a hostage if if he doesn't have yours but you have his give him back his what so charge the cleaners but you can't keep someone else's shirt as leverage because you're missing yours so that's possible if someone's shirts were exchanged he has to give it back it's not his what's with his shirt charge the cleaners say capital till him but you can't keep someone else's shirt he has his initials on the shirt the only shyla is if the myself the cleaner says listen i don't have your shirt but i have shirts here that are laying here for months so that tack is a real hefka it belongs to the cleaners he wants to give it to you as a montana and you take it as payment because into hate if the agreement is that that it's a half cup then you could take it what was beautiful to me is the question is someone had a shirt that he knows wasn't his and he left it there but he didn't want to take it he left it there for a while after yius he decided to use it so ah after yours you could say you could definitely keep it after years why not frank says his cotton base on the tag what do you mean after yes you could keep it is very simply when israel is a ganaf or is a might save them here it was given to him the wrong shirt he's not a ganaf or a mighty vader what is he a scholar there's no dinner versus and that's why the task says if something is khalif a good idea leave it there if let's say your coat was taken and his code is there don't take it or if you took it keep it where it is wait for years wait for 30 day half compare period and then you could take the other person's tallest or cold whatever it is because that would be a din of there's no dinosaur day what's really ashwara shyla is you ran out for a moment right before the ila you put your towels down you want it came out of the bathroom and your towels is not there someone's house is there you can't go into the show please give me back my talos because they're about to start neela what do you do so worse yet this is a talish which is now you're not even became the mitzvah so the emma says it's very embarrassing to dive in if you're a great grandfather and you're diving without a talisman elap something looks very modern you're not gonna have much carvanha so we have a few stunts we make we have the arch that today is motta we have a branch of head if you're a victim it's motta the buchacha that is that using it temporarily he says to use it temporarily is okay but the mice i think it's even more than that because let's realize if you don't use his talus so that he's using your talos beginner so you're being mazaka and other he with geneva mama's buying the ela the average is upon him so why don't you just make a better agreement that we're murdering each other so that might be a good sad to say that we're murdering each other and we both could use the other person's talents but i just want to add the arkhashohan that i mentioned earlier in her situation says that people are mocked but you shouldn't use that house without resource so maybe taos is worse than a regular veda more so the third the command and simultaneous writes emphatically people are mocked but today that they don't want others to use their talus even though the times of the shocking today is different and this is your base sim and zion says why do we have the midst of talis because was very nisir in geneva so what kind of punim you steal for a talis so the khashoggi is better than without a talus right i know i understand so i'm just telling you if you could quickly get a school's talus so then you have a talus she'll call you can make a bracha on it because it's a new bracket it's a new new mice latifa if it's still early enough to take the adams is a suffolk but la maison better than than tamiya tales we have enough to be saying switching hats ravvozna says even though again people are mocked bit about hats but again reverse is makel and michael miyanimani if someone i had this child in the camp in ishiba they made a laundry and they looked to someone else's clothing in in their laundry and someone else's sack so if people don't look for suits and hats they're not looking for sacks so what i told them is that the shiva has to have a policy put everything in the lost and found and even though in the vehicle that's that's reckless you can't hang up a watch and this is the school's bulletin board because then a person will take it you're not you're it's a shovel's a vader putting in a book and they lost and found but the chance of people looking for shirts or for socks is below zero so that's rashti that would be okay the last point i want to mention is which i think isn't a good idea we should institute this as well a shul any malcolm siburi should have an exchange policy basically if you put coats in the coat room or anything in this shoe you see whatever it is and it's exchanged allow the person to use it until you could re-change what you took i'll say who am i to make this takana it's an old takana the mission is the sukadaf [Applause] and that would solve problems and i'll tell you heart of the press this past thursday night and over a fact [Applause] took place and after the chupa the color said this is not my ring she picked out the kadusa ring she fitted it and this doesn't fit after the cuppa so they called up the 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