Tisha B'Av: From Destruction to Salvation through Unity - Rabbi Fischel Schachter

[Music] so the story goes that antral wrote child who was from the richest people in the world although people say if he would have been a Malamud it would have been a Rabi would have been even more rich because he would have gotten the tips on Konica but basically he wasn't the wealthiest people that ever lived on the world the kings and queens said maybe one day we'll have as much money as Rabanne shell had Rabanne shil was also a very big vault sadaqa many people lined up so the story goes like this that was getting out of hand so they made at econo they said whoever comes to ask for it sadaqa from real anshel he has he has one word the get is request that no long speeches you have to get it all into one word so one little pile assure you the law yet from poland says I'm gonna go borrows money from his friends and he travels to the Bancho and they let him in he said you know about the Newton kana right he says yes I know about the new taka nah it's not a problem and he comes in and watch out says them no so he says give my rock he says what Gemara who Gamera what do you want well what is Gemara he says rosetta vote so what's the rush details good Morgana Bantul good morning revanche oh this is great now what he didn't come all the way from Poland to tell me good morning so remember you have one word no problem give Maura just watch Gamora what Gemara he says gimel made love Rabanne chill i have three girls okay so what do you want for me that you have three girls he goes Gamora what's the Gemara he says get mom or in revanche I'll give money please yes okay cute is that it he gives him something he says what do you have to say before you leave he says Gamora this is one camera now he says get Mehra Bantul give a little more please revanche he says I heard from Yaakov Galinsky says everything is in the camera everything's just have to know how to how to put it together I remember when I was teaching so one of the things that I'm very not good at is Duke Duke and one of the things that are even worse in his spelling and we got a we had today we have an age where Milan dim everything is a sheets you know we teach with sheets he used to teach with our mouths with her heart today we teach with sheets okay told us about civics taught and III will give these homework sheets and my spelling was off and to my luck one of them of their parents in my school in my class it was a Duke Duke teacher and he went to complain to the many he'll complain to the principal this and have one of your obeying gives out the homework sheets look at this this is not good this can't go on like this what's going to be over here they told me be careful what your spelling is that you can't be careful with your spelling because how are you careful with your spelling if you know how to spell the word you spell it right if you don't know how to spell the word so you don't know your spelling it wrong it says how do you be careful with your spelling and suddenly I had an idea at the bottom of my sheet I wrote and you also get an extra two points for every spelling mistake that you find just circle it as if to say I'm training them to find these spelling mistakes and therefore they're gonna circle and get an extra two points so to accomplish two things first of all this boy whose father was the Duke Duke teacher he cheated his father circled all the things for him so I learned some spelling a second of all I took my handicap I took my problem and I turned it into Baraka there's going to be a time that these nine days are going to be converted to braja they're going to be converted to simcha in general it is brought down in this very micro shame that for every amount of pain or sorrow that a person experiences down here on this world assuming that he is not what is called boy be silly zooming that he takes it in stride to the best that's humanly possible because we are human beings that is converted to bracha that is converted to simcha and a person who has no pain or no challenge down here in this world he really has nothing to come to me alumni I met with because there's nothing to convert to Baraka it's like digging a foundation for a building when they dug the World Trade Center the police the first World Trade Center all of us Allah they dug so deep they got to bedrock you know the deeper you dig the higher the building and the more challenge the person is down here in this world and the more that waits for him in the alumni Ahmet if you will notice in parishes pimpest we have all the carbonyl staff that is the afternoon carbon is about carbon about carbon e young to carbon that is added on Yom Tov between each of the young intervene there is a sama-sama represents a break between two partial between Shavuot and Rosh Hashanah there isn't a summer between short and our Shoshana there is a paid app a represents much more of a half stick much more of a breakup of a stop between two partial and the answer is the cottage bar who left the seam over there because between schwate rosh hashanah there eventually will come another young tip tisha Bob will be converted to young so a Shem put in a break so that you could later separate it and put in the UM tip that's going to come but the days of Tish above that are afterwards but right now we're still building the foundation and the more we understand the depth of the foundation then the greater the building so we refer to these days summer Scottish I've until tisha bhav as the nine days what does the nine days mean means different things for different people some people are very excited it's their chance to make exotic cheese eggplant suppers fish dinners all kinds of things pizza galore a lot of people like Milotic but clearly that was not the intent the mini collage Renee's him not to eat meat the entire the nine days not the fish dinner how does that story go the waiter comes in he says I was fired for no reason for no reason you probably said something negative about the establishment he said absolutely not a man came in he asked for fish so I brought out fish he says really you have this type of fish he says of course we have this type of fish last week you had it all so he says this same fish has been here for six weeks already what are you talking about I had somebody want I once asked someone to pay me up pay me something that he owed me he said his min Hogg is he doesn't pay Havarti in the nine days doesn't pay up money in the nine days because it's a sim card to pay you know everyone interprets things according to according to what's good for them so let us try let us try to interpret the nine days properly let us try to interpret it in such a way that indeed the foundations that we are building that is the we're digging a foundation that is going to lay the groundwork for the building that is going to follow interpret us we had a principle was a very very special person it's one of the greats I'll meet him of sure I go five woman to love that his name was that Nathanael Quinn Zahra Santa Claus Rafa Misano lived 90s very special person walked straight with a smile on his face he had a level of bits aha he had a level of a muna that under normal circumstances I don't think most of us have I remember as a boy I was maybe 16 years old we were walking from Borough Park to Kensington to a Shalom sucker Friday night and the locals bombarded us with bottles and two-by-fours and everybody ran off in different directions and ruff Quinn who then was in the 70s or he kept walking he says at night I put my hand on when I leave my house I put my hand on the mezuzah I say a Shemesh murakami Cara Maria snapchat ha he says I'm not scared not scared of beams and we all ran off which was a very big wrong in our part we left the old man alone but you know when you see a 2x4 coming your way it's hard to think rationally and he kept walking and nothing hit him that's how he lived so fast forward he's now in over 90 years old walks erect straight smile and he comes somebody drives him the driver told me the story to the nursing home here a local nursing home in this area to visit someone is visiting never saw old broken man in the 70s he's in his 90s and he's talks to his Mikasa cami comes outside the driver says it's cold outside he says to have Quinn please stay here in the lobby a little bit and I'm gonna go get the car and he's standing there mind you a ninety-year-old person that's late at night in a nursing home and in comes the security guard he says to the ref Quinn what are you doing there go back to your room he says no I'm not I'm not a patient here right right right right he starts granting him a pulling it meanwhile the driver comes this is what are you doing that's the principal and Turner with us anyway man he's on the phone the security guard who's missing a patient whatever this rate that old Adi apologized so they started walking toward the car Seraph Quinn said I need a moment need a moment to think let me sit down a second they said did the guard hurt you he says no no it didn't hurt me just give me a moment he says oh I got it there was a smile on his face so this year his name was a small detail he was driving and he said to him well what what's the smile they said in my life I learned for my rebellion something happens to you which could be somewhat let's say a little bit unpleasant so what do I do I make it husband on fsy ashamed industry every challenge a life is to make us better people every situation in life that bogs us down it's only to make us better the greater the challenge the grete we can rise I said why did this happen to me why did he grab me why did he start pulling me like this and I said to myself it must be a shame is upset that I am NOT going around enough the big enough smile on my face ninety years old the Sham gave me life I should walk around with a bigger Simchat Italian if I had a bigger simcha hi I'm on my face he would have not thought that I'm a patient over here so therefore I have to make myself a better person imagine we were all we had this mindset instead of screaming at your wife at your husband how dare you say that I dare you accuse me stop I'm right I'm wrong how do I become a better person imagine how much more solemn bias there would be on this world how much more simcha higham and sorry for those annual of pizza I think if more of us acted that way and you will be able to eat steak this year even on Toshiba which could still happen by now let's try to understand what does the word availa sneak a novel nah c'mon Alex lon the translation of the word of a loss is morning what is morning in the Torah we find in parshas maquettes that the brothers came to buy bread and all of a sudden they come into Walmart and here comes the CEO of Walmart the king the Mishnah lamella comets are on him and he says spies what what spies who are you they don't know what hit them and he grabs away one of their brothers and they're like they were totally not ready for this how did this happen maka what happened so one of the brothers say they say I'm Bella shame in Menasha a sure he knows Sora's right we saw it sora sora snaps rebus Hananiah elena he begged not to sell him and we sold them anyway it's very interesting that our high MacArthur says or so or I think one of them afar she homage say the brothers felt that they were supposed to sell Yosef they didn't regret it they just said that we should have had a kimono to him even if he was wrong but either way Avila shame them in acting so the world of shaming means what guilt right Sam Luba Gaza what is the word Alvo mean if you take a look in Rashi I believe today's Rushdie's yartsa okay said this last week who is the first one that learned hamish with Rashi anyone know they say Rocky's father the first one that learnt home is refreshed you know the Rashi wrote the Commish revealed great secret stick there was a great kabbalist Sampson Astra Paulo Sampson aster Paula was killed in the pogroms of 1648 16:4 attack the TAT you're a tough class and tough test Bogdan commits Kiros the pen the peasants up against the Jews in almost third of the Jews Jewish population at that time was destroyed and horrible horrible massacres 2/3 of cloudy so it's safe to say that resumption Astra Paula took upon himself a third another side he took upon herself another third if Samson said when he realized he was going to pass away because he had volunteered so he said he wants to reveal all of the great secrets that he knows of Torah so he wrote a a Peru SH they revealed all of the great secrets all of the great and then he had a dream they said you can't give it out these are great secrets you cannot give this out so what can I do they said you have to rewrite it and make it look more like a partial shot under homage and hide a little bit high the secrets so to speak so he rewrote it they said no still not good it's still too open you have to rewrite it again so he rewrote it again they said no still to open you have to rewrite it again so he rewrote it again and he kept rewriting it and rewriting it until they said ok now it's he enough it looks like a regular pollution on the Hamish and only great people will be able to discern and see the great secrets that you revealed over here and then he looked at it and said wait he sort of was word-for-word Peter Shashi on the Hamish that Rashi had also Rashi had also done so now you take a look in Rashi what is Rashi say on the words in in Paris Mackay its capital members parsec off Alf Avel ashamed enough oh it's our fault that's why this is happening to us that Yosef is accusing us of what he's accusing us what is the word Avel mean says Rashi from the targum the Cousteau what is the word cush the mean Christian means Ahmet then Matt is it's our fault what does that mean the Ahmet is it's our fault how do we understand that so in a deeper level what is the what is Rashi trying to say the Costa that the original reaction is this is a Mad King he's out of his mind what are you accusing me fake news what without spies we came to buy bread deeper than that they said he thinks were spies but this doesn't make any sense we came to buy bread and he's accusing us of being spies there's a reason that we have to go through this something is going on in our lives let's not lose track of it that's they were saying I will ashame Minotti because of this person starts yelling and screaming at us I could say that security guard I want him fired I want him fired how dare him say that or you can be a rough Quinn and say the fact that he yelled at me that's his issue why did God put me in this situation that he yelled at me let me think I can make myself a better person and that's what the Schwartz was said if we're experiencing this kind of a situation never mind whether he's normal is not he's a Democrat he's Republican he is the range is not deranged screaming he's not screaming stop stop it's irrelevant why are we going through this let's not lose track let's try to understand it let's try to understand why this is happening to us now please just make it a little involved and I'll do my best to explain it afterwards the past hook says I will ashame them and after new it's our fault because we sold you us if we have no Nachman it on him alkane bah Elena had sada hazard therefore this surah came upon us Rashi points out on the word ba which means therefore it came the Trop meaning the musical connotation is under the base when you Raschi does this several times in hamish when you have the word baja to come it's either ba or ba now I don't want I know Duke Duke is not our favorite the grammar is not our favorite I'm not grandma's not my favorite topic either trust me I used to give a speech someplace whenever I finish finished someone came over started correcting my grammar every day was like he made a like caramel she used to call me every 90 drove me nuts this person it was mannish Micah para for this day and one day called he said today I found no mistakes Baruch Hashem not like yesterday that you said this and two days ago you said that three days ago I said I'm much better off with a mistake you know then they only get it don't get has not a shear of the entire time so this person that kept coming over to me he's making correcting my mistakes I told someone is driving me crazy suppose you know what go over to him and tell he should teach you did Luke teach you did say when over time is this way he'll feel good about himself and just the opposite you'll become like his town it'll stop bothering I said that's a great idea but no but time I said can you please teach me Dig Dug he says not dig dog big dog said forget it but the truth is that there is a difference in deep dog alkane Baha or Baba if the stress is on the base or the stress is on the ALF Rashi points out on this path look time of the days it doesn't say alkane bah Oh Elena at Sara's eyes it says alkane bar Elena had cirrhosis the future Hitler Fisher who balagia Nava it is a lotion of past Shekar ba in other words if it would say bah ah it would mean it is coming if it was it says ba with the stress on the base it mean that it came why is that so important the brothers are saying I've AIDS is our full that's why we have this what does that mean it came what is rashly trying to say it came as it's nothing new as a result of what happened now it's very hard to run our lives this way to figure out exactly when something goes wrong what we have to fix we don't have look like eightish but I think it comes Barker wants us more just to try to be better than getting it right Robert Victor Miller is a famous story he's walking and someone stopped and says I want to start learning him I doubt should I learn camera Rashi and Kosovo's or just camera he said no learn just come on he started to walk and he tripped and he almost fell you're okay and he turned around that's all I know go back that man he said with ptosis that's the understood what he had now the trick in life is that when something happens nothing just happened my wallet oh no right you're backing up you're backing up into a parking place you're in a rush and you hear that sound of crunch as the person's head like behind you goes couldn't crash into a dumpster had to be into someone's car and you're saying why me why me stop right there instead of saying why me in the illusion of a Tyner why do you do this to me God I don't have problems is that okay why let me understand why this happened for sure it was a cop era for sure a champ always gives the cop around the easiest way thank you hm let me try to understand what was happening and then there's something deeper in this and I speak the little children I'd like to use this muscle parable but you should know we're all little bit of a child imagine a little boy goes to sleep right a little in the imagination of little children there's a tap on his window knock-knock kid looks out the window there's a mile up there hi hi grown-ups would get scared he says come on in the mall of says they sent me from Somalia to give you something and he gives them a bunch of index cards thank you thank you what's this I want to tell you that tomorrow is going to be a very special day your life it's going to be a day that's going to be a great building block for your future thank you what's a building one it's good good but in order to get up there you're gonna have to go through these things okay let me see what am I gonna have to go through you're gonna wake up in the morning you're not allowed to die in water you're Nega lots of water's gonna be then you're gonna step into it it's going to spill and splash on your brother he is going to scream at you you're gonna start running around your wet sacs are gonna be splashing all over the place your mother's gonna come in she's gonna go Bianca what are you doing you're gonna come downstairs you're gonna see there's no milk left for your cereal instead you're gonna pour orange juice and even that your mother's gonna say go upstairs put away your shoes by the time you come down it's going to be soggy you're going to get onto the bus each one is different card and another boy is gonna be sitting in your seat you're gonna say please leave my seat leave me alone please leave my seat this is my seat I sit here every day and he's gonna call out to the bus monitor he's bothering me pesky you again go sit in the back of the bus me you're gonna go to the back of bus you're gonna sit down on a bag of potato chips plotz is gonna fly all over the place the owner the potatoes when it comes gonna start yelling at you he has the whole thing down back and these are the things you're gonna go through and then it's gonna be a good day right if you pass all these miss you're not it's gonna be a special day for you for your future great all of a sudden the kid wakes up the next Columbo was the dream and he wakes up in the morning he's so excited he wants to tell his mother about the mouse but he forgot about it because as he jumped out of bed he steps into the water ah ah supposed to happen right he starts running it splashes of his brother Joe starts yelling at him on schedule he starts running his socks are all wet they're splashing all over the place is about what are you doing yeah that's maybe a little louder I think the mouth said a little bit louder a little more emotion what are you doing oh that's better okay got it now we're on schedule okay and he comes down there's no milk and there's oranges and again seungyoun he gets onto the bus and monitor says to him excuse me move you're supposed to scream whoa oh that's better and he sits down on the ten ships breaks and the kid is so happy and looking at this getting you out of you what are you so happy about it says no it's all going according to schedule so now and what if I told you this Marshalls brought that about in that when these things happen and as we get older they happen in different ways was all part of the schedule let me not blow it because today is a very special day for me whatever ACMA's nephesh whatever difficulties we face it's never easy not easy for me not easy for anyone but if we close our eyes and we say this is nothing new it's not by chance it didn't happen by random there was an index card I just didn't get it I got a big book before I was born and it was broken up into different pages he has to be law changes things but I've told an elementary level things are following the GPS route it's the way it's supposed to be it makes life a lot easier so somebody once came to rabbi Twersky and said what should I do there's a big psychiatrist he said I am he writes this in his book this story says I'm a crazy football fan I love the Jets and my wife is a football Widow and she made a decision she told me either it's the Jets or me and I want to tell her who I picked what should i do I can't III Sunday afternoon to watch my team and I scream and I yell and when they drop a ball they fumble as it intersects me I go crazy I what should I do why can't she tell us what said I want you to do okay he says I don't want you to watch the game live I want you to watch it recorded and I know what's gonna happen it's nothing it's that you'd understand it's not hell watching football games work says no that's what I want you to do I want you to record the game and I want you to hide yourself from any information put away your smartphone no sports information do not listen to any radio listen to call neva Sarita an idea they do not have a good sports section you won't find out if the Jets won or not no nothing and Stan then watch the game so you're gonna be just as excited cuz you don't know who won or lost she tries it he says you know I watched the game but I wasn't screaming I wasn't yelling I wasn't going what now you pass I don't they mr. field go do that I was just watching but this interesting is it's not like I knew what the outcome of the game was so why weren't you so excited why wasn't your blood pressure like going through the roof so the answer because I knew that would ever happen happened already so I could scream do this do that no next time pass no next time run the different formation all right change the linebackers I know what I'm talking about I could think let me correct it in the future but this frustration there as if I could control it from sitting up one of my television screens I'm now if I dang hard enough they're gonna play better know what happened to ready now imagine in our lives if we said whatever is supposed to happen to us is already written our job is to leave live the script so of course we still have to face the ups and downs of course it's not easy but you understand how much we would much more be emotionally at peace with it how much easier it would be for us how much more Manuka Henare fish we would have and therefore when the SWAT team were faced with the impossible the impossible how are we gonna survive this is accusing us of the worst thing of being a spy him it's Ryan will never come out alive we have an old father at all much younger I'm starving longer the trillion questions are no answers so they said a Ville a shame them not know it's our fault Asher in Essaouira snapshot this grandma Elena and because of that but hat sarah has eyes this is nothing new whatever happened happened whatever is written R it is written already and therefore we will be able to deal with this crisis and that is the meaning of availeth shall Omaha Melek says in michl a table like a cell base of Oh better go to a mourners house than to go to a basa mishter because he want tragedies to take place faster so what happens when a person goes to a mourners house he says you know what no one lives forever that's it no one beat the system yet people say there are two things you can't beat death and taxes but we all know only one is really true unfortunately there are those that try to get away with things although it is wrong and it is Shalaka ha ha ha and there is a film Russia and it 99.9% does not work but death no one got away with no one even he ramela saw that lived for a thousand years no one gets away with it so think don't you think that your life is here you're here for a different purpose that the troubles that you are having is digging a foundation for something that is greater the purpose of availeth is not to depress us the purpose of availa is that moment that rough Quinn sat down and said why did this happen to me how do I change my life I have to go around with a smile it's not an excuse that I'm 90 years old that is the purpose of events the area Kaplan in his book encounters writes a very profound thought imagine the fetus in his mother's womb the fetus has a mouth but the mouth is totally sealed and the fetus is thinking why and won't in the world that Hashem created his mouth for me he doesn't eat through his mouth he eats through a pipe that goes into his navel why don't you in his mouth why do I doesn't have teeth yet but I guess the the the roots of the teeth something the body hands feet what what do I need it for I'm in this pool I'm going round round crazy who designed me but the second he's born he says ah now he knows why needs a mouth and now he knows why he needs hands and now he knows why he needs feet and he prays for it at every given moment this elderly gentleman goes to a doctor he says my right foot hurts he says listen you're 96 years old it's entitled to hurt he says to the doctor you how come my left foot is just as old how come that doesn't hurt don't blame it on the age treating it ok so when the child is born suddenly it makes sense them things I made absolutely no sense why he has a mouth why he has hands why yes feet so in this phase of life that we are in now as well there are things taking place in our life that we say why why is ashamed doing this to us why do I have to go through this challenge why do I have to go through this with a partner why why do I have to go through this with a spouse well I don't have to go through this with my children why why why in my business as soon as I get it straight someone else steals my secret zamir's why and the answer is just like the baby the fetus doesn't know why he has hands you don't know why you're in this particular situation the inion of availeth is not to be Messire us it's a bhima classic us the indian of a valence is to say yes we're not going to live forever that means there are things going on in my life now that has been prepared for a next world rough shock once came to visit sambal if it just lost the father and the mother and a child in a terrible accident and he explained that when he was in Europe the Russians came by and asked if you want citizenship or not and many of the yeshiva bokram said no and after that they were arrested and sent off to Siberia and the other ones laughed fools why did you say no you don't know the Russian mentality when they asked you you have to say yes they'll never survive Siberia and then he didn't but many did but those that stayed back and weren't sent off to Siberia none of them survived because they were burnt in Auschwitz so we don't know what's good or what's not good and a child got up and he began to scream at your son he said but you lived you live to survive Siberia so it made sense was worth living how do you explain that how do you explain the empty table by the Shabbos table where the father's not there dr. Murad's lon so shocked said to him we were in Siberia we didn't think there's gonna be another life afterwards so it must be that there's another life after this life it's a lot easier said than done the idea of a valence is to remind us that life is a window Avvo is a lotion of availeth Alva Kushner it's a reality check there's a reason that things happen it had to happen this way and the truth is at the end of the day as much as we think we're in control of our lives were not once heard what does it mean to change and nifflas libris we say by a baby just like the baby goes into bris can't even answer Torah local Parliament Oh No 8 day year old baby ever made a decision in terms of his own breasts it never happened should we serve locks or wipes ish the baby never hiked up and said why fish never happened the baby never said that's the mohel you're using no no no no who's gonna be my son dick no not him now what are you doing never happened the baby doesn't seem to have much of a choice I never saw an 88 year old baby this is the same set your harness lubricity you think you have a choice who you're gonna marry if you think you have a choice later on in life they have the same choice the baby yes but ever supposed to happen is going to have the same static honest lebra's cash the funniest the tireless open an awesome time so we don't have a choice what do we what what is our choice our choice is the way we accept things that we say as we face difficulties in our life you say a college bar who I want to come out of this being a better person it hurts I'm in pain it's hard for me to understand why you're doing this all of those are very valid feelings like a child has an Alec feelings and cries to his mother I had a discussion friend of mine today a baby that cries cries hard enough will get the piece of chocolate I say really a baby that's allergic to chocolate will he get the piece of chocolate no the mother is eventually gonna find something else to appease the childhood I said when when right there and then she has to find it there has to be the right time at the right place but during that time period the child can't understand why the mother is so cruel time is the most precious commodity that we have in this world a billion dollars can't buy another split second of life and life is a window of opportunity and the greatest opportunity is facing challenges and saying I cutters borrow who it is so hard for me to believe that this is Raqqa me because it is such Deen please help me do the right thing please help me lay the foundation and understand that a building is going to be built on this there's a famous Marshal Dennis theis s of a king that promised someone you have an hour of my Treasury room you could fill all your pockets and the King says yea yea what did I do so he sends him in he creates this big beautiful play and there's this unbelievable music and he walks in he's watching the play he's watching the music and something tells him don't waste time you everybody was so enamored by it he was so taken in vital a sudden the bell rang the hour is up can I even grab one diamond too late he says the cut is vertical they want us to sleep through our lives we don't realize what a window of opportunity this world is the value of a penny fort sadaqa a dollar for sadaqa the value of one time not looking at something that you ought not to look at the value of one time taking a deep breath and saying it cutters borrow cool it is so painful what I'm going through please help me believe in you I want I don't want I don't want to lose my immune on you we don't know what that value is down here it is so hush off that is something wants to do everything within our power to distract us from it and that is a veil of kernel of roughly learned in a verdict the verdict was a very special place the out of anavar that had this cheetah is gonna teach people not to be scared of the world and with Emunah you can have everything and their stories there are legends they would they would teaching someone to go into a drug store and ask for a piece of bread they were asking their laughs at the drug store what he asked him so later when he knocked on a door of a shot of a house is a give me your child I want to take him to a hydrant even those days in Europe they'll laugh at you when you'll be used to laughing at you so they said go into a drug store and ask for a hammer they would laugh at you so now they can knock on the door you have to worry about them laughing at you there's up such a mattress the Rebbe akiva the first day we went to learn a loaf bass and kids laughed at him 40 year old person because even finit those little seats and he gets in he can't even get out of it he came back because I'm so embarrassed little five-year-old kids are laughing at it let me go of my promise that I'll do this she said on one condition you get on a donkey and you load yourself with cover yourself with it with carrots like a carrot tree and ride around town then he did it the kids were going crazy they laughing at him throwing things at him he comes back why did you do this to me because every single kid is laughing their heads off Emmy so now you can go back to the faith they're laughing at you anyway so that was the sheet of Navarra dick they say that they would Minh and has been his biggest fear and they said you were gonna break that fear that's at the altitude of I knew the war was coming he wanted to be Paris Tommy so they said that there was someone that we had unbelievable fear of cemeteries 3 o'clock in the morning had to go into a cemetery 3 o'clock in the morning he walk into a cemetery he's shivering away shivering away he walks a little further you know the story the man is walking through the cemetery someone taps in the back he screams us what are you screaming sure he sees another person come let's go together he says so what he says when I was alive I was also like so scared like it so now this person walks is if I'm the verdict he walks into a righty scared of cemeteries he walks into a cemetery middle of the night then they say no you have two more you have to walk into the you have to walk into the place where the dead bodies are it's his hands are shivering and he walks and there's a dead body covered with a sheet and he goes ok I'm not scared a note Nevada I'm not scared I'm not scared all of a sudden the dead body gets up and this guy jumps out the window and runs for his life there that was a different avantika boy that was scared of dying his job was to lay covered by a sheet unfortunately the two met so they got a little bit there were certain Yakov Galinsky said Danny that he he was told 3 o'clock in the morning to go into the mikvah where they titled the dead bodies the 3 o'clock in the morning he went into the mixer with a title the dead bodies and he got into the water and he felt something grab his feet he says he shot out over there you think the guinness book of world of records knows who did the 100-yard dash the quickest he says he flew back into the sea of a dove underneath the bench he was scared and bumps into someone else under the bench and he goes what what are you doing here he says you know I was in the Makaha and someone came in in the middle oh that was you he says ok now we got it so father said they were in a verdict they were like arrested in a certain place and there was a man after learning the shaft is Marcus it took away all think I'm out Morrison now and so the the people started sending them cheese and they wrapped the cheese in a page of Gemara they got 48 pieces of cheese each wrapped in a different DAF and they put together the death so that we know exactly it's the cheese or the camera what we're doing everything is in the camera so there's a man who went to visit the Great's type regarding style of crime can he ask his father was the greatest going of his time almost maybe and he said something to him and when he lay told him where he comes from a certain town and it was amazing the Stifel guy got up and ran after him and said please do me a favor send regards to Yitzhak stone that he lives in your town very unstable wasn't this social butterfly he came back to see it's looks totally says his old man he said this diaper sends her regards tell me what was this all about he says I was an avowed to get talented and crazy in the time of war people was lying in their houses literally dying of fear we were walking through the streets trying to build a fight and we did and I came to a certain town in Russia and I knocked on the door and the people are crying and screaming the plasters falling bombs of all that come give us your children were taking them to pay they said well we could die any minute so you could die here also we were trained one of the boys that they gave us his name was yack royal and that was the style that boy went to Phaedra says that was me right do you understand that there's a moment in our life that what we could do magic I'm can I ask you all right oh all because of this boy that knocked on the door there overcame fear in our lives that is a vow shame them and a slew of all is a mess there's a deeper MS that is deeper than what we understand and it's all planned out from before it is cush to it is a mess and that is the real meaning of the availeth stop stop stop with the stake stop with the barbeque you're not going to be here forever life is a window of opportunity think what do you have to fix if we all fix what we had to then the basin mikdash would be built and there will not be any need for metal detectors he found this Tyler there's a deeper meaning there's a meaning of finding ourselves today a year told me a story that for many years as a buckler he worked in the Savarin store in South Fallsburg the way it was I know it feel that way used to walk through the swarm store to get to the grocery in the back the back was like a big thing and you that's how I was set up because I guess the farms - owner wanted when you come out of the ghost you should comment to this farm store and I got people with access from route 42 you go through this farm store so all kinds of people came in it for the one that was managing the store was obviously frustrated so this man walks in you know short pants white hair Hawaiian shirt and he goes says to him well and real go Tiana Yiddish okay Lucy was for koi what are you selling here from uh Shem siddharta see the rib who uses this anymore what's your problem yeah where was a Shem you don't know what I went through where was he my father my grandfather my brother's my sisters well uses this answering system for three years he came by who buys this the third year he came by he says you know there's a reason this for most are still in business people are buying you so he said to him you know for three years he asking me this question mr. stone so I want to ask you something who was your father anyway who was your grandfather anyway there was such naive people what are you so worried they were killed you close your face don't use anything against my father my grandfather my father was a great Drive people that moreover came to ask and Shallotte my grandfather was a great Rebbe people from all over came to ask us a lot yeah but is so naive they read about the Spanish Inquisition they read about the massive the pogroms in Russia and the massacres of time why did they stay rubbing infamy why weren't they as smart as you to say no one needs heart he was like trying something he says did they sell to fill in over here he says yes there's a software the bag that I sell to unit he walks through the back he takes out a wad of cash he says I was saving up to buy a boat loose in the winter Florida I want to buy Chile and he says he put on the tool in and he started to cry like a little baby I said the last time he put on tefillin was in Europe the days the Nazis came into his down there is a moment we can't judge anybody cannot judge anyone but there was a moment that we can have such an effect on someone else and you know you know then what the whole purpose of the swarm stories it doesn't explain why the Spanish Inquisition happened it doesn't explain my world war to happen there's no one no way - it doesn't explain why three people were killed on Friday night on this world it's impossible to explain but it does explain that the building as much as this is so impossible to understand the start of it will be even greater I'll say one last thing the son of the rabbit of Mel I think today was his yard sir examines the velocity of the desk they say when he came up the Shanaya whatever like everyone else there was a din there was a challenge to him and my walk and I'm bringing in his mitzvos and a woman comes with a long beam and the beam was so long could the man I was bringing into this room a being that was you know 8 by 8 you know I mean 30 feet long it doesn't fit through the door what are you doing if she brings it in what's this said this woman she had a fire and she was living on the street so other people donated wood from around town they should rebuild her house she got a cobble on that's willing to build it but you have to get the wood she couldn't get anyone to get the wood sir ever laws are he so no one is doing it people were scared to go out to it the Jews had accused it the government accused the Jews Gentiles they started the fire he went out and started dragging toward himself to this woman's house so the couple on can keep his word and built her a shelter those one being that was a name being was so he couldn't get anyone to bring it he put it he took him in for three hours dragged it in the freezing cold long long beam and collapsed as he put it down in front of her it was a great Sadiq beyond imagination but a Somalian what stood that long beam when that long beam is in your way just remember this is what you're going to stand on to build your house that's going to last forever house that is the prelude Buscemi's work in the house of ayakashi which we built in the head of him [Music]