True Kindness - Rabbi Moshe Meir Weiss

when you learn tour it has to change your life and I'm going to share with you a thought now that will define for us the aim of the entire Torah there are certain threads that run through the entire Tyler so that if you know ahead of time you know that every parish in you should be on the lookout for those threads so let me give you an example of a thread that runs through the entire tower in example says the rambam in hillcrest Hanukkah shkola Tyra coolin it no losses Shaolin boy the whole Tyra was made to make peace in the world chinami draka darkanian its ways our ways of sweetness the homeless eraser shot all its paths are peace so that means in every passionate aura if you know how to look you could see the pursuit of peace the mission statement of Yiddish guide to embrace you okay that's not what I want to talk to you about I'm talking about something else is a mad wish in the beginning of the tiger it's a very interesting manage the Madras says that the tyra starts and ends with an act of kindness it starts with an act of kindness as it says that hashem clothed ottoman hava with a cust nuts or with a special tunic of leather and it ends with an act of kindness my egg / i say by guy that much a sham buried my sharabi no one hardly so the camara says inside todavia dollar the tourist starts an act of kindness and ends with an act of kindness to tell you that the old toy is kindness that's why it says tarascus said polishing starts and ends with an active kind very nice does anything bother you about this matters it should you should be jumping at me says the tyra starts with an act of kindness that hashem dressed alderman come is that the first kindness of the time wasn't the creation of heaven and earth a kindness was the creation of the sun in the moon aquinas was in the creation of all kinds of delicious fruit a kindness and then she'll say rabbi weiss you don't understand why does yes sir Sir did we start out that I'm a sham took you out of Egypt why does he say I am ashamed i created the world because nobody saw that so nobody saw these creations but they saw that they were dressed that's not a good answer because before he gave him clothes he gave autumn khabar very beautiful woman he gave khabidam that was a kindness but now forget about the wife the clothing what does that mean it's a big Cashin big cash I always had discussion I never found an answer to this year this year I found that two great siddiqui mastication and they both gave the same answer rava Rome grid's n ski and Rob Simba's easel of kelm they both asked this question and they both gave the same as you know the answer they gave it's really interesting they both they both asked the question both reply from gradinsky and ribs sibuk azizul asked the question and they both gave the same ends was the answer they gave they said that this was the first kindness that I sham did for other mahavir after they sent you know it says in the Ujima medio Sharaku I show my sham caricom listen on what's the meaning I shamash am eyes it's a sham twice I sham before a person sins and I sham after a person since even after a person since I sham as a common Hashem discuss it even if we're not good and if you think about it that's what happened with my shure beta 2 at the end of the table at the end of the turret says by yet Barroso by guy they buried him in the valley and it says why was my shrub in Bari why didn't go into hurts is wrong young Liam anthem be locked ishe me because you didn't sanctify me when you hit the rock instead of speaking to rock whatever the sin was my sure I bet it was punished he couldn't go into its jaw but even when punishing him he did him the kindness of bearing Moshe himself a sham buried himself sham buried him himself even when he's no good Hashem does kindness but wait the most is an astounding fourth Tyra starts with a kindness after sinning eggs with a kindness after sitting to tell you that that's the whole thing that's the whole tour route to be nice to people even when they're not nice yeah yeah you know I tell people is very important we're living in america america is very pervasive there's a reason why it's called the melting part of america america wants to have an impact on you it wants that you should be through and through an American but we're not Americans we have gratitude to America tomorrow she'll has said we have gratitude to America but that's a bit we should be Americans America is a mess marriage is destroyed in America America what does it have drugs teenage pregnancies suicides spousal beating you know what happens if the local team loses the local team loses the hospital's on Sunday night our phone would battered women husband get drunk they're so upset they come home and they beat their wives and put them I know from emergency room doctors America we should never think like an American now an American always expects things to be equitable and if they're not equitable and the what's in it for me is not there so then I'm out of here I'm at in a marriage and I put the old man or the old woman in a nursing home it has to be equitable the idea of constantly being good to a person even when they're not good that's a toy rushkoff it's not an easy hash cough but that's a Tory rushkoff now my friend says that all the mauritian demonstrated this after his wife poisoned him and the children that's what she did she poisoned him in the children and brought death to all of mankind what did he call her what would you go come here me sola come over come over here mashka so come over here meal skype come over here kill kill kill you killed you're a girl code Wow he called her how the ankle high the mother of all could you imagine he was setting the tone it's it it's a remarkable thing he was setting the tone of being nice even when the person is not nice to you that's that's a remarkable thing you know I remember hearing from her Miller I remember hearing Reb Miller's say that a good husband a good wife never interrupts what they're expected to do never interrupts the good wife goes to the mick for no matter what she makes the meals no matter what the good husband he parries the bills no matter what he comes home to his family no matter what because we are people that understand that we're nice even when it's not deserved you show you an interesting thing that rough Carolyn steam says says is an oxymoron the word gimme Lascar Sodom is paradoxical jameelah's means to giving kind like it says kammula hey chivalrous a bahama he got his deserts so give jameelah's means to get what you deserve casada means to be kind so give me the sky Sodom is a contradiction so he explains but that's the way I Shem is when he's giving out the Gimme lowes he does it with Hesed he doesn't give us what we deserve he's kind to us and that's what we're supposed to emulate what does it say about the Asia Scalia after the first stanza which is the most important thing in marriage but Akbar laid by law deixa scale her husband could count on her he knows when the chips are down he can count them that's a very big thing most people aren't that way most people when the chips are down they become ugly Fairweather friends abound but when the chips get that good chips are down people get ugly but not the Asian sky but uh parlez ballot neisha sky oh he knows that he could count them now why is that look at the next line because de Mille a suit toy the Laura she returns good but never bad call you make I yeah you want to know why some men if they get sick they can't count on their wives because when they get sick they get cranky when they get sick they get irritable and the wife reacts in kind so then she's no help at all but the aces style is good my last time she only returns good Laura call you Micah yeah that's the kind of woman that butta male by their husband key counter