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Trust In Hashem - Rabbi Yakov Zev Smith
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18 Nissan 5786
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Recently I had two shylocks and I found
them a little
disturbing maybe depressing.
One was with someone
that had a a personal problem there was
a
another issue and someone told him don't
worry just happen just have to talk and
you'll see you'll guarantee you'll have
an answer there.
And he has to talk and he tells me and
he doesn't see any issue
how does he deal with that?
A similar I guess there was a
person had a very close relative was
sick and they told him you know what
just happen you'll happen you'll see
feel it always works don't worry you'll
happen you'll see issue.
And never the person didn't survive and
now he's confused disappointed.
And the truth is these type of questions
we hear unfortunately all too often.
And what's missing is a year side now we
talk about a year side
you could have the most beautiful
magnificent building
at a over 100 stories
but if it has a year side
it could last if there's no year side
nothing less.
But I like to try best I can
to try to give a year side
it's the foundation of the feeling
foundation of the talking is foundation
of living the life and I look at you yet
and we start with a feel that we should
be to give over the year side properly
but certainly it's something that's
the actual of life itself.
>> [clears throat]
>> The morning showers that find a base
tells a story it's almost
amusing
but the palace there's so much the mice
are to it but at first glance it doesn't
seem like a funny story.
It's up to you tomorrow
met you who that
and he saw the hobby
day day he saw that the grocery be who
that was in a very good mood.
He saw this as an unusual opportunity he
could ask him anything he wants.
This is the moment this is the kosher
so I'm asking you read the
and you could ask him anything you want
what did he ask him?
So we're going to discuss four of the
questions I guess we'll cover the fear
cash that he asked him.
>> [clears throat]
>> The answer to cash is probably thinking
white for a while and how do you juggle
the
and you do you
my time a camel suit show
good sir
did you ever notice that a camel has a
very short tail?
Why does a camel have a short tail?
Sounds funny must get to come what do
you care who cares whoever noticed
so you who that answered him call the
armor
don't you know because they eat thorns
>> [clears throat]
>> and if they have a long tail it's going
to get stuck with the thorns and they're
going to be
in pain.
Okay
let's wait for the next question
next question is a little more long
question not some why but it's sort of a
minor shiner
my time a tour good news say
you told me that a camel has a short
tail okay good but why does a cow have a
long tail?
So the answer is because he it lives in
a swamp
and a lot of flies
and how does the how does the the cow
get rid of the flies? So the tail the
tail is like a built in fly swatter if
you ever take notice in the mountains
you go you see the cows it's constantly
chasing away the flies
it's pillow play he's talking to you who
that call the armor
a camel's cow a camel's tail a cow's
tail what's the third question?
my time a corner the kim sir
the kicker now we touch today you know
we touch it as a as a grasshopper
probably it's our she says but let's use
grasshopper you ever notice the
grasshopper has on its head we used to
call them with kids antennas
but it's really
the way the actual touch is it's
like it's horn
why does a grasshopper have a very soft
antenna?
I'm it's pillow play you're talking
about an opportunity of a lifetime and
he's worried about the the antenna of a
grasshopper
the answer is because it lives
it with the willows
and if the antenna breaks
then the grasshopper becomes blind it
can't survive so it has to be soft so
even if it bangs into a willow into a
tree or something it won't break.
Pillow play
and what's the last cash is you hope the
last cash will be something of substance
that you allow me and the third cash is
do you ever notice that the chicken's
eyelid the lower one is bigger than the
top one why is that?
So you who that told him call the armor
because the mice are it lives in a place
where there's smoke and very
disturbing type of air
so the
eyelid is closed very tightly so it's
air tight and none of the smoke gets in.
I don't have to explain why this cash is
this is in
a short tail of a camel a long tail of a
cow the antenna of a locust and the
eyelids of a chicken that's the armor
so the my shark has a shot
I'll pay side
but I'm a person that you I want to tell
you what I think maybe it's the message
the mice are
from this tomorrow on a very practical
level
you know there are words that we live
our lives with the words
but talking my mean I mean I mean I mean
all you shall is the the the arm of a
moon especially the arm of a pace is the
arm of a moon of
and we use them sort of interchangeably
but what is a moon of mean and what is
the talking and what's the difference?
So they're a moon and a moon of the
talking pair of olive
he makes he says a year side
call the talk my man if you have to talk
and then you're my man
but the ain't call my man by talk and
I can stop
now what does he mean? So again on a
simple level
a moon of
is a concept a moon of is an attitude
a person knows he's a my man been my man
the version of fear of the world the
version created the world the version is
called you have TO GO GO ON and on with
the the army my man that we say the year
side of a moon of
it's pretty easy living in a family
living in a world of a moon of
to be a my man
be talking the my man is telling us
is living how long my side with the moon
of a moon of is my shark of good you
believe it you say it then you talk a
minute
but what happens if something goes
wrong?
What happens when it's not the way you
wanted?
Now the is are you living the
moon of that you have?
Do you have the right to talk and
that you the same
that you say the version of fear of the
world is conducting my life and giving
me this difficulty or not giving me this
job or that or this health
or this house
or getting my child into your shiver and
all the problem that people have
throughout life.
You see we say it in half dollar it's a
person in your shiver after
the way after good
it's not just
a rhyme
but it's a choice in life.
When someone has a moon of he believes
in your arm
but now the question is did you take the
after good
and make that after good after good
after good did you have enough of a moon
of to know that the version created this
world with with the with the
my master Hashem and is watching me with
profits AND GIVE ME EXACTLY WHAT I NEED?
Then you are enjoying
the broach of I straight out of my
book
a person goes from day to
feeling that the person is watching me.
And when something is a little
challenging,
it's the same Tata. It's the same oil.
I was trying to touch
possibly he would say you know
used to be that a person has medicines
he took a spoonful of medicine it was
very bitter very unpleasant
but he needed it.
Then they made I guess the first capsule
that they put the medicine a bit of
medicine in a capsule
and you swallowed it and you didn't
taste the bitterness.
Today they even made the capsule taste
good.
So he said that's the talking.
He puts the the the difficulty in life
the challenge in life and he puts it in
a capsule of the talking
and he sees the same
in the difficulty like he's like
that we feel when we make a
and we think
MY
SECOND TIME HOLD KEY TIME.
I guess he sees the in the town car
which is the the most bitter part of the
of the matter he sees it's really time
and miss out from
kale.
I bet you have my second time you save a
vanu.
Now that there are different levels in
the talking and I want to what am I
going [clears throat] to
tell me he was very close to Pascal 11
Stein Pascal
11 Stein because I missed out about him
some people have a Mona in their
heart
in their cup I have Pascal what is in
the hand he was would say that he had a
Mona.
And yet the same of Pascal once said
when he was in his early 80s
he came to realization that he never had
a Mona properly but he's not going to
give up he's starting again.
And he started harvesting in a Mona but
talking.
Obviously it's a lifetime work
but if we could put it in my cell
I'd like to tell you what I think the
side of the talking is on a practical
level.
The bottom in his last days of iron had
stomach cancer very painful
Makhachev
and in the last days of his life and he
was suffering very
indescribable he sued him
and his devoted representatives saw that
and she said
don't worry it's going to be good.
So with her Byron's last breath he
protested and he said
nay nay nay and she said good
by the beginning with the hand.
This is a mission
that you have to have to learn and
and remember the rest of your life.
It's such a good Byron encapsulated the
whole of a Mona but talking in that
line.
She's saying good by the beginning with
the hand.
Byron was not living in denial he knew
his motive he knew his time was limited
but she's saying good by the beginning
with the hand.
That's probably
part of that statement is with the
going's words the
they used to go in
a simple question
what is the talking all about?
So he responded the said the in my
with a mighty to go alive to go alive
not she supposed to kill him.
The talking is
the relationship between a baby and the
mother.
And we be only there's so much
I mean there's so much practicality to
that.
You think about it
the most helpless hopeless creature
on planet Earth
is a baby a newborn.
You know some animals are born fully
developed.
Some are not but the baby
is the most undeveloped
existence in this world. A baby needs
everything and a baby can do absolutely
nothing but cry.
A baby is the essence of helplessness
and hopelessness.
And yet don't forget to go
you want to make a picture of serenity
of a new
you want to sell a product
you put a picture of a baby in a crib
because it's it's such a calming it's
such a relaxing scene.
A baby has these two opposites
it's helpless and hopeless and
it's the symbol
of total happiness.
But the baby doesn't know that it's
it's
and the mother's making a making a
the mother's going to the hospital with
her mother doesn't make a difference.
He cries and he gets service.
This is a lie in my
I found that there are issues I found
that there are problems I found that
there are challenges
but the baby symbolizes
that if if a person realizes that the
way the
explains that the loves a year more than
than a father loves a baby kid
then he lives with that car.
That being helpless and hopeless is not
a sphere to being the ultimate
happiness.
I was very happy I found lady after
heard the story of Byron in
a smooth talking.
He sums it all up okay in the talking
who
got my car.
And if I don't if it's if I I don't
deserve what I want I'll never get it.
And if I care if I do deserve it
then no matter what the statistics or
the prognosis or the predictions you
will succeed he won't survive it doesn't
make a difference. If you're in the hand
of
your success is guaranteed if that's
that's your shirt.
And the Byron and that's that half a
line he he kept the whole smooth to go
it's not totally in anything but oil.
It's just saying good by the beginning
with the hand.
But the emphasis is the most important
part of that that member
is because typically we live with the
American mentality that always has to be
they lived happily ever after that's the
end of the story.
Lida Lida
Byron didn't survive the Makhachev.
So it wasn't
a happy ending but it was exact ending
that was destined for Byron in his
lifetime.
And he had the ability to see that even
IF IT'S NOT GOING TO be a happy ending
it's the ending that
wants and there can't be anything
better.
>> [snorts]
>> This is the talking.
It reminds you of the words of the
Hazenish and they say a Mona but talking
period base [snorts]
similar
and he writes very very clearly it's
good I can see it it's a little bit
says there's an old problem old mistake
that crept into the the hearts of many
Eden and they think the talking means
if I have the talking that I I'm going
to get my job going to find the whatever
it is you fill it in you get it.
So the Hazenish writes very
matter-of-factly
it's not true
because in the in his world unless
you're a Navi you can't know what's
going to be so you can't be guaranteed
who can give a guarantee.
So what is the talking mean and this is
the this is the side of the talking now
with
wrote that classic safe I want to be
talking I will
who are in one the belief should I make
a lot of them
there's no happen it just happened it
just this that fell apart this job
didn't work out this child is giving me
a
a run for my money and this is a fish.
There's no maker.
And the Hazenish
is a shamish
and then he continues when a person is
faced with a challenge
which the feet did not
it looks like there's no not much hope
he has to know one thing he has to go in
but statistics and prognosis and
predictions have no bearing in the
world.
And more specifically meet us the
talking
that a person has to have that
happiness.
And then when he does his list
he's the status is he's working with the
Islam.
Because the maybe sometimes needs a
little happiness a little extra
governing a little extra to talk a
little extra learning.
But the side of the talking
say maker by the
shamish I call my
is better.
The odds
in
have talking
in your talking and I wish you have a
sham she also like talking to you
tonight.
She me Mr.
If that's the talking
the form and
the whole day he come and he can go in
or go in
kosher.
So how could that be the talking is it's
going to work out if we see the king in
fact he's the world of the world.
So what then is the talking
the odds
a person has to have the talking that
he's in the right situation this is what
is for him this may be the sign to bring
out the best in him.
And this is
the type of the talking I do know there
might be a different sheet of
the talking is you have the talking is
going to work."
But all I could say is he buys a car, he
buys a car, it's a car.
I put this in my driveway for that.
You know, there's a
Styptic said what he heard me cut him in
the head and he said, "Nish." This is
printed in the car commission pay hey.
He said he was walking in Minsk
during the the First World War
and suddenly the the soldiers closed off
the street and they made random checks
for
ID paper. I didn't have the papers. And
he said he said if you didn't have it
they would shoot you on the spot.
And he had no paper whatsoever.
But he decided that he just finished the
errand.
And the washing is this close I learned
and I'm not worried and he walked right
by all the policemen and all the
soldiers and nothing happened to him.
So it gives the impression but talking
is don't worry.
But let's see.
Is that in every single situation?
He buys a car.
Because in this talking was
unparalleled. Because in this was in the
car of one of the talking.
But how could you tell a person have a
talking and don't worry?
You know, he tried every establishment
under the sun and nothing worked. So,
you know, like almost by default I have
a talking.
Tomorrow morning he wants to get a
shower. Is that a talking?
Is that a real talking?
But he buys a car. There's a car
and the car is really one of these days
my son talking.
So my brother said
my son is talking. That was going by
there and he heard the
car be here. He heard a terrible
distress, a terrible cry.
And he said, "Move the car nation and
there be a baby." There's a problem in
that city?
Not to my house. Guaranteed. Move the
car nation.
But what about the car in the parking
lot?
We should move the car. The year nothing
leave it to him. So the car is mine.
When someone is nothing leave it to him.
So the car is mine.
We should move the car. Don't worry.
Nothing can happen. Oh.
So right away we point to this car.
You see the car is mine.
If someone has a talking
look
we should move the car. The year uh
But then again, that's not the only car
in the car.
The guy in the spirit of the car is
The guy in says he didn't say nothing
happened to my house.
But the distress, the car is a car,
the helpless, hopeless feeling
that year
that doesn't come from my house. Because
I trained my family if something goes
wrong
we think that there's a car in the car.
I have a car but the car is mine.
We we don't lose ourselves. We're not
hopeless. We're not helpless.
So the guy in it has to be like that.
The machine comments that they can show
you I'm sorry. So how can you say the
talking is nothing's going to happen?
I'm not worried. That's not true.
So how can you say the car is mine?
You're here.
The Irish the same shot.
The car is a car.
And the car is a car.
The car is the same shot.
He says
I trained my my family that the car
things with
and there's no distress, there's no cry,
there's no hysterical reaction.
Because we know we're living with a car.
And there's another car in the car. The
guy in the second shot.
And the guy in says
the same it can't be that your car is a
car and nothing go wrong and nothing
goes wrong. Because there were people
that were greater than us that said the
car is mine.
So the guy in it was only him who uh
whose talking was 100%.
Every car is a car.
It was impeccable.
Such a talking could live with
him and he could be talking.
But so the guy in again the guy in was
also a big talking.
But
he says stop a person
we have to realize that the car in the
car uh didn't have the car that they
expected.
And we need a car
more than the name of the car nation.
The car is a car nation.
His car is a car.
You
one of his one of his nephews said they
once had to go to the car nation young
keeper.
He asked the car about the car
and he came to the to the car with the
car nation.
He's the car
of Muslim. But he felt he had to he had
to talk to him.
So he tapped him.
No response.
He realized the car is a car nation. And
he pushed him a little bit. No response.
He moved him physically. No response.
And he shook him.
Also the car as if you landed from from
the car nation. He like landed like this
10 minutes after he started.
And he [clears throat] says
"What is it?"
And he asked the car nation.
The car nation I need to feel the car
nation is is the car nation car.
But you look at his life.
He was sick all year never had children.
His wife was very ill.
So how was the car nation?
How would you explain that car nation?
You know the car is
car nation had the real talking.
So a car is a car.
The car is a car nation car car.
If I could add
there's a car
in the car nation again one of these
days in practical a car nation car.
The car says that there was a car in the
car nation.
Lived in a terrible terrible poverty. So
so much so they had nothing to eat and
he ate a peel that was was not not
healthy.
And the car says he cannot die. His
left.
And he came back.
Came back to life. They asked him you
know in the middle of your
I don't know what car it is a car
but he was smiling. So what was going
on?
So he goes I I was I passed away.
And he turned to the car and said the
car is mine.
He said
I must say it's time for my car.
But you know my car can't bear the that
I'm living through. I can't bear it.
So the car responded only I love the car
nation
the
the car nation.
Do you want me to turn over the whole
world for you?
I can't help you.
What's that?
The car is on the car nation car.
Every creature and can't give his his
labeling is a beloved car car
a few more dollars.
So the car and he said the car and
answer all the car that we have which is
not really car.
The car is page 99.
There are some people that their car in
life is to learn
or to work or whatever it is.
But the car is to learn
or work or do the car.
Whatever it may be.
Occasionally they have they have the car
they get bored, they get sick.
So they should have a car and they could
have a car car.
They have a better car.
But then they're the car in life is
to learn or to work.
But there are some people that their car
is to learn the car nation. That's their
car. That's the car
THAT'S THE CAR.
THAT'S THE REASON OF CREATION.
And that's built into their whole fiber
learning the car
nation or the car nation car.
So the car is saying my entire nation
you don't understand.
Your car is not like your cousin or your
friend to learn the car and you're
having a car.
YOUR CAR IS THE
THE CAR NATION OF CAR NATION CAR.
THAT'S YOUR CAR.
AND WE DON'T WANT TO CHANGE car that the
car is harder than changing car.
So I should turn over the whole world
just just to to ruin your car. nation?
Did the car nation car car was to be the
Muslim car nation said that. He was the
car of car nation of the world.
But on a more practical level
I was once so to speak spend with
parents. Wonderful wonderful parents
that had severely disabled children.
It was it was the one of the greatest
car in my life to see people
that were Jewish heroes dealing with
children that that are such a such a
struggle but they did it with such
to see the car nation.
I was walking the hall I remember like
yesterday
and I saw
a couple coming that had a bunch of
children and I heard
and the father was pushing a three wheel
stroller and I heard it was a a severely
disabled adult older than all the other
siblings.
And I just I don't know what to say.
But they were way ahead of me.
They said, "Look, this is our car."
Pointed to the children.
And they pointed to the big child and
said, "And this is our car nation."
They understood what life is all about.
This is this is our car.
Raising children is a car. But this is a
car.
THIS THEY WERE THE MODERN DAY
CAR NATION THAT THAT WAS THEIR CAR
NATION CAR.
SO YOU COULD HAVE A CAR AND HAVE A CAR
AND HAVE A CAR BUT you want the car to
turn over the world for you?
And each person has his little three
wheel stroller in life.
And he keeps on having a car and it
doesn't go away.
So you know you have to do every day
have a car for it and never stop because
I feel the car car car car car car.
But when the car is over and you see the
problem That's my schlichus. Until
further notice, I'm going to daven again
for Mincha and Maariv and never give up.
You know, I I wonder what the Sifri
Finkel got another and out of there the
same all of of of of yesurim.
How do you How did march on and build a
a malchus of Torah that's unprecedented
in golus?
Because he realized that that was his
tachlis.
To work with the greatest mesirus nefesh
and the greatest yesurim and he davened
every day a refuah sheleimah I'm
b'emunah sheleimah.
But after he finished and he still saw
the most difficult nisayon, he marched
on. This is not my nacha, this is my
schlichus.
And then when you have siyata d'Shmaya,
you could build the greatest empire with
the greatest yesurim.
You know, there's an expression tracht
gut
b'tzain gut.
When he died he's not muchrach b'ezrat
Baruch Hashem tracht gut.
But you know what I would say?
Tracht gut un tzi shein gut b'al ach
b'einem gut tzu hand. It doesn't have to
change to be shein gut. TRACHT GUT TZI
SHEIN GUT B'AL ACH B'EINEM gut tzu hand.
You think about what it means the Borei
Olam and us. I want to give you a little
bit of an insight.
The more in chulin d'av zayin Rebbi says
ein an oichev etz b'oy milamata
elem k'machrizin alav.
A stub of a finger.
You think it's a
big deal, right? Maybe.
The Bris Hashem's love for a Yid is so
profound and so deep that a Yid should
never suffer the inconvenience of
stubbing his finger. So they ASKED THE
REBBE, SO WHY DID IT HAPPEN? Where's the
Ribono shel Olam Rachaman?
Rebbi says part of Hashgacha Protis.
Let's see how you react. Do you talk
like a ch'as v'shalom or say Ribono
shel Olam I'm going to make a fast with
my side.
Someone just told me
that he was going with the Ribnitzer
Rebbe
and the Rebbe fell.
So and the Rebbe didn't get up. So he
says, should I call Hatzalah? He goes,
no, no, I'm okay.
So he said, Rebbe, why don't you get up?
He said, I have to first know why I fell
down to get up.
He saw the Borei Olam is falling down.
So you can't just get up.
First the Bris Hashem SENT ME A MESSAGE.
WHAT'S HASHEM telling me?
The Gemara says in in Arachin tes ayin
with beis a heicha tachas yesurim fil
hoish yadayim kisu kisu lito shlosh
shlosh take out three coins. But all of
the yadayim he took out two.
So he has to nebach put his hand back in
his pocket to take another coin.
To us this is like, you know,
what's the kasha?
But it's a big kasha because Avraham
Avinu Avraham Avinu AVRAHAM AVINU AVINU
AVINU AVINU AVINU. And why should a Yid
much zich?
There's Hashgacha in that.
Or the Gemara in Avodah Zarah daf nun
hey yesurim mashbin ois ois ois ois
teilchu ela b'yom ploni
v'lo es tzel b'yom ploni
from the same ploni.
Yesurim machlis Our precision is
unbelievable. The exact moment and it
comes and it goes and they therefore is
all tachas Hashgacha me'eis Hashem
Yisbarach.
A Yid has to daven.
But the end of the day
you finish Shacharis till Mincha, this
is my schlichus.
A person once told us he was
a woman came to speak to him. She had
advanced stage of an illness.
And she asked should she daven for a
refuah?
Rebbi says, why not?
So she had all the tzimtzum of an Ish
Kesher.
I believe in emunah sheleimah this is
the best for me because the Bris Hashem
gave it to me.
So why should I get involved with the
Bris Hashem's decision? If you want me
to have a machla, let me let me have the
machla.
When I think about it I I'm brought to
tears.
There was an Ish Kesher with such good
verstand.
Tracht gut tzi shein gut b'al ach
b'einem GUT TZU HAND. HOW COULD THEY
COME THAT SHE wouldn't understand why to
daven?
But I have bitachon b'Hashem chesed
yisaiveinu. It's so much of a good of a
gutzkait for her that she wouldn't
daven.
Now of course it was a mistake because
that's why the machla comes sometimes to
bring out a Yid's davening. And ch'af
ilu cherev chadah munachas al
al al yishuv rachamim.
But the hergesh
ich b'einem gut tzu hand tzu gomlei
imadi.
You know, it's interesting we say in
Rosh Hashanah this.
One of the days we say about the Bris
Hashem should protect every part of the
briah from its specific sakanah. Adamah
me'eirer
migozem chita
michodov
and then it comes to a human being.
So just like eirer is the worst thing
for adamah, what's the a Yid's biggest
klalah?
So you look you'll see nefesh
me'behalah.
It's not a machla, it's not a lack of a
job, it's not a lack of a shidduch.
It's when a person feels hopeless and
helpless. He is panicky. He feels He
feels neglected.
The greatest klalah is nefesh
me'behalah.
And the very opposite of that is
bitachon b'Hashem chesed yisaiveinu.
Every stub of the finger
every time every inconvenience every
machla has exactly the amount of time
that has to last.
And Rebbi Yonah Emeli this is the kol
haloli alma that Rebbi Yehudah was
telling
all of us.
Yid taira.
Did you forget for a moment the most
exquisite intricate Hashgacha Protis?
Did you ever realize that a gamal has a
short tail? Do you ever realize that a
cow has a long tail? Do you ever realize
that a chicken's bottom eyelid is bigger
than the top one?
Did you ever realize that the the
grasshopper's
carrots and antenna is soft? But you
know who realizes it? It's Borei Olam.
And the Bris HASHEM IS SO FOCUSED ON
EVERY PART OF THE briah even a cow's
tail and a gamal's tail and the antenna
of a grasshopper and the eyelid of a
chicken is done with Hashgacha Protis.
And how about you? How about the yetzer
she'b'chirah? How about THE BANIM ATEM
HASHEM ELOKEICHEM? Do you think it's out
of control? You think the Bris Hashem
overlooked your problem?
Shein gut b'al ach b'einem gut tzu hand.
And lo yifateach.
A person has tremendous koachus to
overcome any nisayon.
But you know what the problem is?
When he convinces himself I could do a
lot. But the way it is now, this is this
is I can't deal with it. I have to wait
till chavi K'MADREGA AD YA'AVOR ZAM.
It's I can't deal with this now. I'll
daven and go away and then I'm going to
worry about it.
But that's not that's not practical.
If a person thinks that
he's missing the aleph of bitachon.
He's realized he forgot that gam ki
eilach even the gates of MAVET LO YIRA
KI ATI IMADI.
He forgot there was an Ish Kesher that
was living in gates OF MAVET STARING THE
MALACH hamavet in the FACE BUT KI ATI
IMADI.
A person has it all figured out.
I wanted to start a new seder and and I
got a chavrusah and it didn't work out.
So
you know, he even quoted he flashed the
einas hamana patrei EINAS ASUR D'AVAH
PATUR.
He he be He wanted to get his child into
yeshiva. He wanted to get into a certain
yeshiva. You know, the list goes on and
on and on. A better job, a better wife,
a better health and all of a sudden this
health problem came along and
I can't do it.
But the aleph of bitachon is this is
exactly where you're supposed to be.
Everything of your life is nachas and
this is tachlis, this is schlichus.
And everything is the same Hashgacha
like we saw in the Gemara in the most un
unbelievable ways how the chicken's
eyelid is bigger to protect the chicken.
And the truth is many times
you look in retrospect it wasn't what
you thought. It was It was an atzalah
not a tzara.
Remember I once asked Rebbi Yankel
Kamenetzky went to visit him in Sukkah
Beis Sukis
and we asked him, you know, the Gemara
Gemara says it, the Shulchan Aruch says
it and you can be moichel someone.
But people didn't know what to do. How
could I be moichel? It's It's not miliv
shalem.
So he
This is his tremendous pikus. I'll tell
you a story and you see what you
you'll find from the story.
He said, I had a big family. He lived in
the in the Litah and he had no
parnassah. In those days in Europe there
were no programs and they and food they
had nothing to eat.
And he heard of a certain stellar
rabbonus and he applied and he did and
he was almost taken.
Taken for the job.
Someone in the last minute that wanted
to get his
cousin into the the the that stellah he
told me he
gave the lashon hara for me. I don't
know what he said and I lost the job.
And I felt broken. First of all he told
me had no parnassah, had nowhere to go
and I was better than the other person.
And pushit he was so desperate that he
did what he never did in his life. He
didn't listen to one of his great
rabbeim and he came to America. He came
himself
and he found a position and then he
brought his family back.
But it was the
It was the most unbelievable thing that
ever happened in his life because he did
what he wasn't supposed to do. He didn't
listen to daas Torah but he felt the
grois nefesh.
And then he paused and he says, "You
should listen. My gantz zich
my
my 34 my 34 grandchildren
and they told me this is the way he
spoke and when I got to 50 or I didn't
know I stopped counting
was all I done getting lashon hara.
Because l'maiseh
that other person got the job and he
became one of the 6 million kedoshim.
And I was in America
and I raised my family.
Now this is a beautiful story.
And sometimes he's to see this type of
happy ending.
But that's not the limitation of it.
We have very very limited vision.
What we think is the worst thing could
be our
could be once in my
is a tragedy.
Or sometimes the struggle is what brings
the next level of
that you only
because you struggled with the sign.
But we don't have to figure out
plans.
I call
the is a rock.
>> [clears throat]
>> Try
to shine good I've been a good to end.
One of the most inspiring stories about
a person that did
so much he was larger than life in so
many ways.
His son
asked him once when he barely could
move. He couldn't move. And this is a
person that not long ago
was was working 16 hours a day. He was
in a tremendous physical to do the
impossible.
And he said you always smiling how do
you do it?
He went from 16 hours to
almost he couldn't move.
So he said and it wasn't easy to say
these words without having to talk at
the time.
He said I live my life on a sham yachnu.
I sham so.
For most of my life it was I sham so. I
went here I went there I started this I
did
But now the wants me
yachnu.
Try good to shine good been a good to
end.
And that's the truth
that when someone has this attitude
then the then the
has a different so.
We know we have to work
to make
we pass we smile.
But
that a person makes a
at the expense of
this.
It's not your world. It's not the world
of
it's the world of
that part of it is WE HAVE TO GO TO HER.
I MEAN someone that that doesn't with me
and because he has to make a meeting and
is missing priorities. Because the is
the most important meeting for your
meeting.
If someone doesn't have enough time to
learn because he's busy with
this something wrong with his
priorities. Had it been a world out of
control you could say I'm doing
this is more so.
But it's
a man.
You know
The
writes in first
peric yimmel. I am not a book I'm not
even a
in
but I've never seen a
even similar to this.
He says
how you must got in call by oil on. If
all the real
at soifer.
If you take all the people born from
beginning till the end the
yachad must have been
I lost her guard ached.
The
master
cuts off light. If the entire world all
the since
until the end would try to give someone
an extra penny of his
but gone is the whole thing.
I like my
I have my
call the
Elion.
is called cool like I sham.
And so some to make a
I have to do this
it's not
my
at the stickle.
It's handling.
I
that's going to work.
And then a person knows when he could
work in when he doesn't work in wait.
Because this
on every
that's I am.
But when someone's living with with that
attitude his
is something that that that that makes
sense.
Because the word saying I'm going to
give it to you but you have to make your
this. BUT IT HAS TO BE KOSHER AND GLAD
YOU'RE SURE AS WELL.
I give another muscle. Again are you
good or not?
But
you have to wait.
So some writes that
the comma is
need wash.
That's that's the name of a person a
person DNA a person wants to get even.
How do how do kill the commas I sham?
The commas are very in the act.
And only a can be expected not take the
comma.
So you're wondering so why do not tell
you secret?
But not only secret
you can't even hold in your heart. But
not even I'll wipe off the no we have
to wait.
So
I miss
ration of this.
How do give us a lot of the comma if
it's impossible?
So
you call my create you
who see us the a lot of us I call you.
This
on everything on a chicken's eyelid and
camel's tail AND YOUR NEFESH.
ONLY OTHER
YOU LIKE BUILT YOUR SIGN.
I'll change the
you should take a
or you have to.
A person will give him nefesh.
Yeah you know I have a nice of go move.
I sham is goes all over.
I sham to link me menu. He who ain't
see bus I see.
Those four words are the difference
between I see I see
to LIVING I HAVE
WHO AIN'T I SEE BUS I SEE. If the entire
world would get together to try to give
you a sign back with nefesh that you
don't DESERVE IT WOULD NEVER HELP. IT'S
THE SAME
YOU HAVE TO PRACTICE.
SO WHAT DO YOU WANT from him?
Look in the mirror and say okay you know
I fell down why did I fall?
Is the island?
But this is the
THIS IS PRACTICAL TALKING.
I WANT TO GIVE A MUSCLE. Imagine I have
a few driving down Ocean Parkway.
Late at night early in the morning and
they're a little afraid
they start speeding. So one to the other
you know you better be careful.
They
pictures they're going to give you a
ticket. I don't [clears throat] believe
in that. But I'm telling you look man.
The
he speeds home.
Gets home
he checks the mail every day because he
does believe it happened. And one day
second day a week goes by you know
ticket. I knew the whole thing is a
farce.
The next day he sees the mailman coming
and has a stack of mail. On the top you
could see it in big letters strictly
confidential. You know what that means
they're worried about your covid.
And he realizes that he got a ticket and
now a week of frustration just burst
forth.
And he starts to beat up the mailman.
So he says why are you beating ME UP?
WHAT DO YOU MEAN WHY DID YOU GIVE ME A
TICKET?
I DIDN'T GIVE YOU A TICKET WHAT ARE YOU
TALKING ABOUT?
The mailman?
Who ain't I see I see right?
And this is the world.
Ain't it my boy?
Put your hand in your pocket. The comes
EVERYTHING IS WITH PRACTICE.
THAT'S HOW LONG
THAT'S THE ANTIDOTE TO
AND
THAT COULD BRING IT TO BE HALF
COME
ON.
BECAUSE you know why? Because behind all
of that is I sham.
I'm right there nothing's happening
without my I am so. And no one could do
that to you if you don't deserve it.
Remember once about number of years ago
but in the camp that I said to be in a
ninth grader I don't know how old he was
but he wasn't more than than 16 for
sure.
I ask you a I said fine what's the sign?
He says give me nefesh okay.
How how should I react?
So I don't know this I was thinking you
know you want to beat him up you want to
tell them an aisle. I guess what are
your choices? I want to see where he's
driving at.
He says well I could stop them but then
I thought why should I stop them?
If they give me nefesh
then obviously
I deserve it.
So if I have a I shouldn't really react.
I should be I am possible I am a Shiva.
Let me think about them where did you
get such children from?
It's a 15 year old boy that probably
never saw the but HE UNDERSTOOD THE AND
THE PRACTICALITY OF THE MARK. Who ain't
I see I see. It's as simple as that.
I don't know what it looks like.
And I I must make another point that we
live in a very competitive world.
Everybody wants to get their child into
this
into into this school into this camp and
get this
and there's so many people out to get
the same thing.
And what's wrong with the gives a person
impression that
your competitors
that your enemies are trying to do WHAT
YOU WOULD TAKE WHAT you have. And by
there's no such thing. No one takes a
of mine.
But a person has to have that
that's real. And means he knows he knows
he knows and then when he heard someone
else got into the
he can't look at the other fellow.
Who ain't I see I see.
They have an answer famous answer.
He wonders how do you tell a person I
might. His neighbor has three cars and
he has a big fancy home and this doesn't
have
a home.
So he He it such a moon, and with such
talking.
But his point, he says the famous
martial about someone does not what he
can get. But listen how he concludes.
But I don't have.
Like explained, you can't get it what's
not yours.
And therefore, he says I'll came.
The talking to feel does not mean we
guarantee to get what we want.
Because sometimes that's not our desire.
Or sometimes like they told you earlier,
the worst thing we beget that what you
thought was good. You know the
has a special filler.
When a person dies with
if I ask you something that's not really
good for me.
Just ignore it.
One of the
first time
a person thinks he needs something and
that's also.
Sometimes we forget what it means
struggling on a black tomorrow.
BECAUSE MY FRIEND IS SUCH A LONG I'M
STRUGGLING. BUT IF HE WOULD KNOW THE
FROM STRUGGLING ON THE BASICS, HE WOULD
NEVER GIVE UP THAT TREASURE. Because he
knows that this is the better of the
choices. Because he's NOT THE NOT
HE'S
THE THAT HE'S DOING IS GIVING THE NO ONE
ELSE COULD DO.
But it all starts with that talking.
That I was given a difficulty in
learning, a difficulty in
in Shalom bias, and the list goes on.
This is my message. This is my message.
>> [clears throat]
>> You know, you
besides the the
but you
to meet him as I'll tell us.
It's worse than this.
Again, if you would think about who was
the
of a moon in our world. The nation.
But who was the of a moon?
So let me read you a from the nation in
Garris. He was in the ballot.
He wrote to someone.
About why he said a certain fact which
people felt. Was controversial.
And he said, what could I do?
In the Bible, and family of that I have.
Gives me a certain
to say
you have to accept what I wrote.
But I got you notice, he wasn't trying
to speak about his his room. As this was
an MS.
In a letter earlier in the
May
have this. The golf
actually mean right.
Since I'm a child, he was about the
whole Martian in the limit. The whole
moment every word of third I'm to learn
who I love you so much. I have to
overcome you so much.
So you're wondering.
How this person with you so much like
the voice in the time from the divine in
his younger years.
I don't know
why that was not well. He's not well.
Never had children.
So there's a black
and this is in the Garris olive olive
similar olive.
He doesn't just fall on the floor. HE
WANTS TO KNOW WHY DID I FALL ON the
floor?
He realizes that the tactic.
The tactic the tactic tactic of this.
It's not you so much.
It's strengthening the bond and you like
to write. It's making that living with
more AND MORE
THAT'S
THAT'S GOOD. THIS IS SHOWING GOOD BEING
GOOD TO HAND.
I mean I can't mean.
We say
I like you so so so MUCH
ETC.
WE SAY MEANS I CAN'T put it in words.
I'm just going TO SAY IT, BUT IT KEEPS
ON GOING. And that's THE MOST HAS FOR
US.
And I was thinking look at the different
gems.
In
look at the different gems in the of a
sham.
When we take the
by sham the moon.
In the worst matter if you've been a
good to hand.
Even if there's no happy ending.
There's never a.
Problem of what to do in the list. It
gives us that that
the talking that there's no
there's no there's no worry.
The
the
the learning has different meanings. The
struggles have a different meaning.
The
spot.
And that's probably why the Michelle
says in the Allah Allah.
So you
have there
so much pain.
I shall go I shall go
back.
And that's what
the talking is.
You wake up in the morning and you
realize that the most important of the
day is so also culture P.
But today I have this. I hope it'll be
better for I never stop having for
better.
But for today, this is my script.
I wish you
good said one said
biggest of all.
Is he doesn't believe that
in the
show also
and it has so much meaning.
A person thinks he's not exactly where
he wants to be and I can't function
because I'm missing that.
Can't function.
When someone realizes. That what he's
missing is
that the moon is right.
It's making a stick of
myself THAT I KNOW THAT EVERYTHING IS
AND THIS IS NOT MY THIS IS MY MESSAGE.
When he has that strength that a moon
that
the moon that becomes
talking.
Nothing will phase him.
Our problems that we don't have the the
true
to know the
is everything is good.
I'll leave you with a beautiful story.
Everyone has
was once going with his children and
dropped his watch his wrist watch.
He picked it up and looked at it.
Waited and realized that it broke
because it wasn't working.
So he told his children okay.
I'll bring it at the fix.
So now buy a new watch does not let me
first try to fix it. Okay. So they
decided to go try to fix it.
So he went into the watch repairman.
And he looks at it and he says I'm going
to put in a new battery.
So
he goes I don't understand you. It was
working perfectly. I dropped it the next
second IT IT BROKE. WHY DO YOU THINK
IT'S A BATTERY? You're wasting your
time.
He says you know what? It's my business.
Let me do what I want. Fine.
Puts the battery in and starts to work.
So
was flabbergasted. He goes I I have to
understand this. What's up?
He goes you don't understand. This is my
business. Let me explain something.
A battery that's weak. Will work still.
But when it falls down and it's a weak
battery, it's going to break.
So
was in the statement. He goes that's the
way to hire.
WHEN A YEAR'S BATTERY IS WEAK, when a
year's is weak, when a year's is weak
and he falls down, he could fall apart.
But when HE HAS A STRONG BATTERY,
nothing phases him.
I bet YOU I SHALL HAVE
IT DOESN'T HURT WHEN HE FALLS DOWN
BECAUSE THE IS PICKING HIM UP.
The greatest
a year has.
Is
the way to make that
is the and the that work together.
That give us the understanding that
everything that happens with
you.
And we should help we should be
to see the of
a sham
of
The next sheet is in two minutes.
All the great in the whole year.
You will tell you there.
>> [clears throat]