Understanding Mitzvot - Part 1 - Rebbetzin Raquel Kirszenbaum

so we finished with all these things now we understand what the purpose of Tarawa is the purpose of the world nothing when I raise this but you all get in her contact info okay great so now we said right that ties the condition of the world Jewish people chose to die everyone else sort of didn't choose but there were people that chose this is comfort comfort are the souls that do want to be part of the Jewish people but as a whole their nations are not what they said yes so God says welcome ok great so then right we said Jewish people chose what does it means to choose where was Abraham's life time like your ears listen to what your mouth is saying if something is true you have to do it no because you like it or not but rather because something is true right that's what it means to be a chosen people it means ambassadors of Gordon chosen means responsibility we're chosen because we chose really I could have taught two more classes about this but apparently all of you are deciding to leave anytime soon so I should get to the next topic great so the next question would be God so we're the chosen people that's beautiful what do you make our life so hard you know to be exact we have 630 meets world that are divided into thousands and thousands and thousands and thousands on minimis Road so that pretty much every single she's looking at me in a very traumatized way pretty much at every single second of your life you could be involved doing a mitzvah right actually there meets photon your basic necessities and other things that you would even have to do just because you have to like eating drinking sleeping right showering right but if you do them with awareness that you're doing a mitzvah they become its work so now we said Judaism is not a self gratifying religion it's pretty hard we're here to serve God right God is the center I'm trying to reach the center so my question is what do we have so many we talk why is I so hard couldn't just go make it a little bit easier right literally you have meat well for when you sleep or when you you know so what do we have so many me too so that's one question first of all let's understand what I'm advice so if you've been in a van enough and you talk to a seminary girl and you ask her what a mitzvah she'll tell you any nice thing I want you to do for me okay did you ever know that this is like the definition of people can you do a mitzvah can you bring me a cup no that's not a mitzvah is not included in the 613 commandments okay do not let don't tell me I didn't tell you do not let people brainwash you and take advantage of you calling it a mitzvah this is specifically when you go home your parents go isn't there a mitzvah to respect your parents you have to do everything I say I mean there is a mitzvah to respect your parents that doesn't mean you have to do everything they say you can't contradict them but we're not going to go into it because I'm not teaching you how to respect your parents now they are good at it but I've gotten so much better so if mom you ever see this the beauty of being recorded okay great so again most people think what Sumitra Mitzvah it's a good deed this is no true whatsoever okay the word Mitzvah is really translated as a commandment okay we have six hundred and thirteen of them but now what is a commandment okay the word Mitzvah comes from the word self self has two meanings now you really need to understand what I'm going to say right now because then I'm gonna give you some truth that you're not gonna like but I'm gonna teach it anyways because this is what I do that were me track ons were in the word Java Java has two meanings it's order commandment this is why we call it a Maitre or connection yeah say that no this it's a dick but no say that it's order of like one two three four five yeah Savitz order of commandment you shall be nice to your mother okay so now right this is very important by definition when someone tells you to do something do you want other where no by definition even when someone tells you to do something that you usually do because you want to do it the moment someone tells you do it now you don't want to why because you like doing whatever you want whenever you want you have a sense of autonomy independence you want to own your life which I'm not really gonna go into it but we spoke about this last time the more you think you do whatever you want and therefore you're free the more not free you are because you really enslave to your own self right but what do we know when someone commands you to do something you by definition do not wanna do you love watching TV your mom comes and says now you're gonna see that watch TV here were so Mathilde right the kid loved chocolate cake what happened when the lady says mrs. what's-her-name I forgot she's caring okay ask Trunchbull ah what happens when mrs. transferred says you have to eat chocolate cake who would want that I don't want right so now listen to what I'm it's like God gave you 613 commandments with millions and millions of ramifications by definition when God commands you to do something you don't want to work but you overcome the fact that you don't want to do it because you yearn for connection with God more than you yearn for connection with your own self you heard that this is very important let's go again what a mitzvah Mitzvah comes from I desire to connect to work how do I connect to God by being commanded into doing something I don't want to do it but God I love you more than I even love myself and therefore I let go of my own ego I let go of my own wants my own needs because I yearn for connection with you therefore let me make a bold statement right if the whole point of doing a mitzvah is developing a relationship with God and I'm gonna explain so don't go yet if I have no awareness that I'm doing a mitzvah when I'm doing a mitzvah is not a Mitzvah right because why by definition can i connect to someone that I don't know it's on the other side of the table no I can only develop a relationship what's the first step in developing a relationship it's acknowledging there's someone to develop a relationship with right can I develop a relationship with so many if I don't know they exist no and therefore let's say this again in order for a mitzvah to be our mid son I'm gonna explain I have to have a where mamita so one more time God commands you to do something you don't want to do it but being that you want to connect go to God so much you overcome yourself you overcome your ego and therefore you connect with God right this is the way once therefore that means right there's a very famous saying in Hebrew right this is written in Bukavu it's a reformer Dada Agora according to the effort is that we weren't right this is like equation according to the effort is that we want some people say but it's so hard for me the harder it is for you the more of a relationship you're doing because when we spoke about now seven each man why did I said if I don't like cookies and I give them to you is that called giving now what is altima giving I want it for myself my Belgium waffle but I love you more than I love my Belgian waffle and therefore I'm able to share like any shares all of course but she doesn't like right right but what is the point the harder it is for me do I have to overcome myself so much more but therefore I am making a statement that I love you that much more that I want to connect them much more so sometimes people say oh but it's so hard for me you're so lucky your statement is that much greater because being that you have to overcome yourself so much more you are making a statement that that relationship matters to you much more right it is not hard to give when I don't really care about what I'm giving that's why I told you one time and let's repeat this phrase it's very important phrase that or that says right we know we have free will what is the ultimate choice of free will listen to it is to let go of your free will to go I say to God God Willy I love you so much whatever you want that's what I do because we said when you love someone right what makes you happy to make that someone that you love happy and really love it is measured like how much would I what would I be willing to let go for you because what did we say right how do I know what I really want you remember this there's something you tell me what you want what you really want and then there is do you really want it how do you know which one you want how do you know what's number one why would I be willing to let go for number one the more you're willing to let go for something the higher up on the scale on the on the priority order goes all right and therefore God commands you to do something I don't want to do it but God I want you and if it doesn't really matter if I want to do it or not the fact that I am commanded gives me that resistance that I wouldn't want to do it because I am a commander but I do it because I yearn for connection this is why Ryland make a statement that Dora says a person should never say I don't I don't like big right but rather a person should say I wouldn't eat pig but God doesn't let me you hear the difference I would it be I would wear shirts I wonder cuz I don't know good on them but right but God doesn't let me because really why don't we eat pig cuz God says you can't eat pig if God would like you surely Pig do you have to be big yes this is why by the way if you ever look into a Torah all of the people that were tested were always tested with that quality which was natural for them for example Yakko we know that Yakko was a man of truth where was his test go cheat and pretend yourself how could I be oh are you a truthful person because it managed from you because it's your nature or because I command you you hear that how am I gonna know when God asked you to know be truthful are you gonna do it yes why because I wasn't doing it just because he was emanating for me but because God said Xterra she was the most modest woman that ever existed you don't know Westar from a Gila tester Queen across Pharos whatever then there was the skin color as well she was speaking a wife right Esther Esther if I said in Ashkenazi make sense okay Esther no it's really a stain about best-selling okay so you know what happened with Queen Esther as Esther I started right now okay I'm like getting into my Ashkenazi guys there was this King color we know she was speaking a wife right so all of the wives lead a parade everyone came with their makeup their stuff whatever and I thought that Esther came without anything she just you know she was shy so she was like okay they'll pick me whatever and then suddenly what happened Mordecai said to Esther Mordecai or whatever you people call it right cause that's - I said gosh where oh she wants to kill the Jewish people because of her man you need to lose something go and present yourself to a king right obviously doesn't mean like go and present yourself to a king and like that you want to say something it means now you know like use your female enchantment okay now that Tyrell says I said when she will were here oil clothing okay get a hint on it and she seduced a hospital now imagine you're the most modest woman in the world and you have to go and seduce this guy you don't even like you have to do some stuff you know you have to have some tricks under the table right why did God do this to her because Esther are you modest because that's your nature how am I gonna know of you being modest because it's your nature because it's a mitzvah when I request you to break that Mitzvah would you do it yes because how do you know when a meteorite sumitra would you be willing to break that midwife God tells you to do so because in reality why do you keep them intra because God told you and if the me tries to break the mitzvot does the meter you understand is it coming from you or is it coming from God Abraham was the most kind person always fighting against sacrificing is some people's children whatever says God go and talk about your child by the way the whole Torah says you shouldn't do it but God says go on do it what do you mean God you learn in your trial you shouldn't do it fine but he thought that I was written by me and now I decide to write something I mean he didn't decide to write something else but I tell you once I do you have to do it yes because what is at the end of the day your choice what I'm choosing is to the will of God does it matters right if I can't not get understand not understand that we love God no my choice is to do the will of God even when the will of God looks different from what I thought was the will of God you understand that so now what person says you shouldn't say I would big I would eat big but God does not let me and if you want I'm starving and there's nothing to eat except for big and you might be very happy okay and you eat that pig you're doing a mitzvah because the Torah says you cannot die out of starving I mean there's something to eat you're obligated to break them into an area to it and if you're in the middle of Shabbat and someone is dying or whatever you need to call you know someone you have to do it and breaking Shabbat in that moment it's actually doing a meat wrap and if you're going to our wedding and the bride is horrible okay the have you ever seen a horrible bride not so many and she asked you how do I look and you tell her you look beautiful you're not lying you're doing a mitzvah because there's a mix of making a break happy and her wedding day you understand this this is how it goes so now let's go into a next point what did we say if I'm doing a mitzvah without awareness that I'm doing a mitzvah is not really a mitzvah now it could be making me into a better person because obviously there are some it's vote that are just gonna make you into a better person if you speak the truth is that a bit try not to write yes if I'm a person that always speaks the truth am I getting into being a better person of course I am if I did if I returned lost objects is that turning me into a better person yes but if I don't do it with the awareness it is a mitzvah it's thermometer and whenever I say these people go crazy you know cause like it could be you kept me it's what all of your life without having really don't me drop but that reality is let's say I have money in the bank with this Kostas condom but I do not know I have money in the back do I know I am do I have money in the bank no you understand if you do a mitzvah without knowing intermittent are you relating to someone no you still did the meter I still have the money but I technically don't have the money you understand that's the way it works right now obviously there are some it's world that you cannot do without knowing their meter at Shabbat nor whatever just decided I'm gonna keep Shabbat right okay board the greater your awareness like doing something because it's a mitzvah the greater the mitra is therefore that means right the divine only do something because it's logical because I like it because I agree with it my meat is not that big because let's say I keep caution because I think it's healthy right Who am I connecting to myself I am the center of my world am i connecting to God there's not even going in the picture right I don't even realize there's go let's say I keep you know let's say the fashion now is maxi skirts everyone has maxi skirts to it take advantage of the fact you could wear them they're not made for people like me the point is okay you go and what's fashion now maxi skirt so you go you buy a few are you wearing a skirt yes are you dressing modestly yes are you keeping from you no you don't even know what to notice how could you be keeping something if you don't even know what it is you know what happens if I'm dressing modestly because maxi skirts are in fashion right let's say by the way I do people do it yes when maxi skirts are not gonna be on fashion am I gonna wear them anymore no so was I ever really 10 or what did we set last time when a baby gives little steps the whole point of those little steps is to get to work but if I only gave baby steps I mean obviously my case I don't even have awareness I'm doing the baby steps right but I didn't get to walk where there are points for the baby steps no if I wear skirts because I like them right without having awareness I'm doing it because God says I should do it does that means I'm gonna wear skirts from a whole life am i relating to God am i doing it because he's right am i doing it because I like you understand it if I keep kosher because it's healthy and logic will I keep all of the other mitzvahs when I don't think they're healthy and logic no and on the end of the range that or I it's truth and a try is perfect it comes from God and therefore everything in it is truth I'm perfect now it might be I don't agree with it it might be I don't like it but my no to swimmin in anyways I never it's okay you understand now obviously there are many things that you're so dictates to you and you know for them to be right but again I cannot relate to someone if I don't know that that someone else and therefore if all of my life I've returned those two objects and if I went to a cashier and I gave back money I could be a nice person I could be mother Teresa I am a very good person right but I'll show you this in one moment but my question is right did that allow me to connect to God no because it emanated from myself it didn't emanate from God and I'm gonna tell you something very big and using great so let me tell you one of the 613 commandments one of the sticks on an thirty commandment is quote you should safeguard my Torah next one you should not deviate from the rabbi's either to the right or to the left wait wait wait wait wait wait you should safeguard my Torah yeah does that means that rabbis need two things to in order to protect the Torah whenever they see that someone could fall on that yes therefore if you're doing what a rabbi said you should be doing not a Brahmin there's ways it's the majority lots of things right then am I actually keeping the Torah if your mom goes out with your dad and she says your older brother is in charge do you have to listen to your older brother by listening to your older brother are you listening to go to your mom yes same thing you understand now when it arises you should not deviate from the rabbi's here to a rider to Alec because in this we have no ability to know exactly I mean it's obviously in the Torah but when I have a question how do I know what God wants God is not going to reveal to me and give me the answer you understand right but what happens god we have something going on Mona come in God's eyes in this world if you want to call it that way is the rabbi's and therefore when I'm doing what the rabbi said I'm really doing what God says because they're representing God in this world you understand why because obviously they studied the most or the closest to what God is you understand and when I'm doing what the rabbi said even though it is from the rabbis I'm really doing what God is saying the only difference is I say Shabbat and I have to break Shabbat there would be a difference whether I break it from the Torah from the prophets how do I break it but at the end of the day everything that I approach it like that you know by the way it says you shouldn't deviate from the rabbi's to a writer to a left so Rashi the main commander in the Torah says even if the rabbi's tell you you're right is your left on your left is your right you you have to do what they say so all of that up I was like really that's crazy like imagine you believe in something and their eyes tell you exactly the opposite you have to what they said this is why it doesn't take you shouldn't deviate shouldn't deviate to a rider to a left even if they take you right is your left your left your right you have to what they said so how could you accept this but then one day I understood you know by the way did you ever notice also that rabbis don't agree with each other Ashkenazi in donee kidney attempt essa as Fareed doesn't he kidney attempt a sac they died when I was dating I wouldn't date an Ashkenazi I'm not joking just because he wouldn't he try some better and then I was like wait it's just a week of your life you know you have potatoes but like really I wanted to i okay now I am Ashkenazi sorry potatoes you people it's so much potatoes okay I get started for us Freddie now how could it be that for someone something it's completely right for someone something is gonna be me wrong yes so then I am there Stuart there was this cake in facebook the other day what's all this cake it's a big lesson on shallow bite how to have peace with your husband and wife right the wife wanted a white wedding cake the husband wanted a wedding cake that was from Superman how do you call these people Superman and Batman there's a name for them superheroes whatever no but they're it's like okay super comics the point is that designer made a white cake that then open up a little layer was like a curtain and then you heart papa okay so if you look at it from this side is it white if you look at it from this that is it Batman if this person says is Batman is this person it's like you crazies white in this race assesses white is this person like you crazy Batman can both of them work together yes you see Judah is right everything works because what did I tell you last time you rise to meet the circle I could come from any point of the circle to a center on each always okay right but what is the point the rabbi's are there to protect the center when we make choices many times it's because I want to be I said I just don't like it I don't agree with it it's not comfortable for me that's the difference you know it's right when you're looking to protect that or when you're looking through that or a better what I'm looking to like do my life better you know then obviously there's a little problem I move the center you understand right so as I think so having said by all right I do want to add this really I think you said it but I'm gonna do it now because you guys are here lots of people say oh but what do I need Gord in order to live a good life you know lots of people tell me but I'm a good person you ever heard this okay you need to know this because you're always gonna get someone that's usually Jewish that tells you I don't need to be religious I'm a good person you ever heard this okay you're not in Israel they have this thing called an eld belief about you in the heart you know so a lot of people put all of the pressure in the heart so this is not good you could get a heart attack no okay but a lot of people say this so my question is can you really be a good person without God why do I need God to command every single area of my life okay so let's say I didn't do a mitzvah what I can't be a good person because I don't have meat what what Mother Teresa she was a very good person yes very good when they had a lady Medina she didn't know like Mother Teresa okay I don't know why but they were no friends she was his mother that is a good price yes was she religious did she ever keep a mitzvah no so why do i do meatwad in order to be a good person why do I need like if I know when it's wrong to steal do this to us still being a good person I don't need God yes it is a valid thing so now let me really ask you a question and think about this can you be an ultimate good person without Torah yes or no ultimate meaning the best you could ever be best buy can you ever be glad kosher without Torah yes or no no how do we understand this and I'm gonna give you something big think about this it is written in the Torah this is an ethics of our fathers without amend their credits in Torah if you don't have good values you cannot have torah meaning you have to have morals and like good qualities before you even get to her remember the story of Rabbi Akiva he didn't even eat Arab or his wife was able to like sacrifice everything for him why would you do it he was an ignorant and after Isis because she saw potential because he had good qualities good qualities are like the container in order to have Torah you need to have good qualities you don't have good qualities Torah doesn't go into a container it's as if your container has holes and therefore everything goes out this is why many times you see religious people that are not very good people because they could be storing a lot of Torah but there's nothing to contain it and therefore it just goes outside it doesn't remain right by the way I always like to say and this is very important don't George Torah by Jews we don't always represent that order you know even that religious Jews we're not keeping we're not perfect because we're religious don't judge Torah by Jews if we would be behaving in the Torah way believe me that way the work would be perfect but no because I look religious that already means I'm perfect and the difference is I'm trying to protect myself which maybe other people are not but I'm for sure not not perfect you know for sure right but now what does it take if you don't have good values you can't have to remain Directorate in Turin right but then it says quote Valley main Torah and their appearance but if you don't have Torah you cannot have good values you hear this if you don't have good values you can have Torah but if you don't have to really you can't have good values apparently they're interconnected interdependent you can't have one without the other one now why does it work like that so I always say we all have a definition of what's good and what's not usually it according to our society our house where we come from right and we have a moral compass but this compass is not always in tune with reality how many things did you guys say five years ago you would never do and five years later you did all of them how many things lots of things and by the way when you said you would never do it you were like that's completely wrong I'm guaranteed when you did them you found a million reasons why wasn't that so wrong could be because everyone does it are you dream you better you know whatever but is this the way it is does everyone have that moral compass but it changes with age it changes with you know knowledge of life whatever you want to call it you know one time I'm not discussing whether you could do it or not but one time I was like giving a speech to a like 18 years old so I don't know how we got into it so I was discussing something and I said like what do you guys think of abortion I'm not discussing whether you could do it or not there's space for both in the Torah but I'm not discussing this so they said no I would never abort that's completely wrong you know they came from like a religious Society so then I'm like playing with them whatever 20 minutes later I'm like telling them a story and then I said but she was 14 and she got pregnant what was she supposed to they all said she should have aborted I'm like what did you just tell me 20 minutes ago you shouldn't do it I know you're saying you should and they're like I mean but like I'm 18 she's 14 how could you do it I'm like oh so abortion is very wrong unless you need to do it my way this one however one lives their lives something is very wrong unless I sort of need it you know it never becomes right let's give you an example does everyone thinks killing is bad yes right Hitler made killing into not something something not into not only something allowed something good pretty much a mitzvah you show kill you know he made this into a mitzvah right now you could say Oh cause Hitler was evil that's not true the Germans you ever saw the Nuremberg trials the movie okay if you haven't seen this you should all of that 11 12 they were 12 but one of them committed suicide 10 11 one of them committed to a site when they were all asked why did you do what you did and if you find yourself guilty no I follow instructions this is what each one did after they were shown that they killed thousands and thousands of people how could it be it's very important because you could take every premise in the life and reduce there you know I like rationalize it until not only is it allowed it's a mitzvah right could be another example you know let's take our graffiti killing is bad right you know that Walmart publishes every single year a list of how many people do they think will be damaged or dead after the holiday season by being trampled ok I'm not joking I think last year they did or two years ago they did 2500 you know cuz you people have Black Friday I'm it's like after you're being thankful for everything you have you should kill other people okay whatever I'm not making joke about it but there was this guy one year I don't remember when he was he went into Walmart you know unlike the queue people it's a Jumanji Stampeder last year a woman one of the next box she like not joking she stabbed three people in order to get the Xbox in say she went to jail she still got the Xbox because apparently if you pay for it is yours okay questions about this okay now if you would have asked this woman before she had a criminal record probably no but I want the Xbox on therefore it's okay it's okay to kill its stealing bad yes or no you ever go to the Eminem stories if you take the Eminem's without paying for them that's cause you know like American Airlines not joking saved I think a million dollars maybe a billion I don't remember by taking out one olive from each plate of food in first class so believe me when you're taking those M&Ms and you're not paying for them you're stealing okay you ever go to a supermarket and you take grapes and the grapes and grapes how much grapes people without paying you ever go to a doctor and you get there late yes or no you know that's called stealing the next patient you stole from their time you ever go to a supermarket and you put your carrot and then you go shopping that's called stealing you're stealing people's time by a way there is this famous movie called Robin Hood or cartoon or whatever you want right roaming who was a thief right he's considered a hero okay in this case I guess it's a little different because the guy stole from everyone else okay whatever but still what he did was through stealing yes or no one time I was talking to someone in Panama and she was like poor robbing who steals from the rich to a poor I'm looking at her and I'm like wait so if you're stealing from rich people in order to give to poor people then it's okay she's like well yes poor people to leave I'm like wait so you're rich and poor can I steal from you so she says no and I'm like why not cheap like cuz you know me am i okay we're not friends anymore can I still know when does it become right by the way this is a hero do we have all of this thing yes so what happens listen to is you can take any premise in the world and change it according to your needs by definition right have you ever met someone that doesn't consider themselves a good person not talking about someone with self-esteem if you like someone do you consider yourself a good person most people say yes by a way let me ask a question if you would put it into his room mother Teresa I'm Hitler okay both of them and you ask them do you consider yourself a good person who would say with much more prying Hitler mother Teresa Hitler isn't that interesting because what is good who's defining what's good and good what's not who's doing that I'm defining it I am defining when you live a good life yes your definition of what it means to be good it's coming from yourself right it's coming from whatever you learned in your life but it's dictated by yourself by definition if good is dictated by you it's always subjective it's always biased it is good for you know an hour maybe and they do it to like blow himself up they make streets on the name of people that you know blew themselves up and kill people they consider them heroes are they wrong right for them this is good okay for everyone has a different definition of good does that make sense and therefore by definition this is what a Torah saying if I want to be ultimately good my definition of good needs to come from somewhere objective because that would be the only way of dictating what is really right and not what it sounds good to me by definition there is only one objective truth that's good because do all of us gain from whatever choice and decision and understanding we have in life of course we do this is why your moral compass is changing you understand because you're changing and you need to make it look good because none of us want to be bad people we all want to be good people so what am I gonna do I'll still do something that looked at me as being bad but I just made it look good you know that's why by the way we call it rationalizing you know what is rationalizing rational lies but you're still lying to yourself you're not listening to what your mouth is saying you're doing something else you're not in tune you understand and therefore let's go back to it what does that saw that says you cannot have Torah if you don't have good values but you can not have good thoughts without Torah because the only way of really being good is having objective truth that dictates to you what good is and therefore coming back to everything I've been saying right was the whole point of a mitzvah all of them it's why every single Mitzvah and I'll talk about this more tomorrow is done like this I could study anything I want about the Mitzvah that's in order to make myself do it happily and inspiring or whatever but when it comes to why am i doing the Mitzvah why am i doing it cause God said oh nothing else matters it doesn't matter you like it if you think it's Rajic nothing why am i doing it because God said oh because the whole point is when I allow some of my self to get in the middle of my action then I'm gonna lose at the end of the day because I'm gonna allow myself to be able to make the choices based on what I like based on what I want and myself the center you have to train yourself to always do the actions just because God said so that's the only way you could guarantee that you really making the right thing because it's not emanating from you you're not biased it's emanating from God you understand and by the way if you see this whenever we seen that you know there was a there's a famous part in the Quran then I'll finish with this that Abraham goes down with Sarah to our email not so much King Saudi manic was gonna sleep with Sarah you remember the story i REM said she was the sister so he was gonna sleep with her so a sham sent like a plague and Abimelech got hurt by this plague so the next day of him Alexei sever Hammonds are playing okay there were no plane Barack or they were playing other things okay whatever and I'm email access to our ham why did you lie to me saying she was your sister when she's really you're right don't you know that in this country zombie hey like that we don't do like you know taking people's wives because what what used to be people would kill the husband in order to stay with the right savvy Malik says don't you see don't you know that we don't behave like this some Abraham said it's only because I saw there was no God in this place so Rashi says what does it mean only because I saw there was no go I mean something huge it says I saw you have rules but there is one little only you don't have and that's called rule go and you know what happens when there's no God there's no rules is that true when there's no god there's no rules you have rules when you change the route you know rabbi fan the beat brings a story in order to like put this point he says that it was in Germany was Kristallnacht you know the night of the broken glasses whatever you want to call this so there was a Jewish family that their house was on fire what do you do when your house is on fire you call the fire people yes you call them fire people okay he called a fire they call the fire people so they said we have a fire you need to put it up so the fire people said we're not allowed so they said what are you talking about isn't your job to like put out fire and they said we're not allowed to put out fire of Jewish people when there's no God rules are not everyone does whatever they want swiping a vertex pray for the welfare of the government there should be only one king when you have more than one people to each other alive great submits VII and I want to do it I do it because I connect we'll continue with this tomorrow great