What A Mother Gives Never Disappears—It Only Waits For The Right Moment To Emerge.

This video is for you. Dear mother whose son is a teenager and you're losing your mind, you look at him and say, "So what will become of this child?" You know that during adolescence, there's a stage called a moratorium. It's a stage where they put everything aside. They're simply taking a break from the world. They are now, so to [music] speak, preparing themselves for the life to come. And you look and say, "But he doesn't go to school. He doesn't get up. He's not doing anything with his life. What will become of this child? What will become of him? what you gave [music] him. Every child speaks his mother's language and all the [music] good that you gave him is going to come out of him in a little while. I did a very interesting experiment with a group of mothers who were very dejected [music] about their children wondering what would become of them. I asked everyone to lower their heads for then there were women who were born religious and women who were returnees to the faith. And for the returnees it was very [music] important to hide that they were they were dressed exactly like the nebra women who were in the room with them. No one ever heard from them that [music] they were returnees to the faith. Everyone lowered their heads. And then I gave them a concept from the life I came from, the Haridi life. [music] Something kind of schmaltzy from a Shabbat morning after the kdush. And it was a [music] kind of special taste of something we used to eat back then. And then all the women who came from homes like mine raised their heads and said, "Wow, it's been so long since [music] we've eaten that." That's their mother's language. Lower your heads again. And then [music] I said one word. And for those who don't know, that's the opening theme of a TV show from days gone [music] by. Those who were returnees to the faith raised their heads and started to hum. That's the rest of the [music] tune from the show's opening. Be quiet, I told them. Lower your heads so no one would know your returnees to the faith. Suddenly, they didn't care anymore. That's their mother's language. When we want to know what will happen with our children, it's what we gave them. [music] That's the mother's language they will speak when they reset, get through adolescence, and begin their real lives.