What Is Davening? - Likkutei Torah "Ki Bayom Hazeh" #3 - By Rabbi YY Jacobson

the yeshiva dotnet its page 50 on top it says after a panic bass Vahine a Clow Cola title mitzvah Sam Kim America's the claw of alterna mitzvos if you summarize it into clallam into major principles trends you can categorize it into three trends Yiddish kite all of tournaments which can be categorized or divided into three react three dynamics shame tyrunt's Finland stock there's the element of Yiddish kite that's sorry to represent this represented in my toga there's the element of filler and an element of stockin that's the claw of Cola Tarot mitzvahs the three paths three pathways of Yiddish kind essentially it's kid Atlantis a commissioner says in pre-k ovis shimon hatzadik teaches in the beginning of perikala for office Ashley should varam Euler my military normal avoid about Maha Sabha he says the world stands the universe stands on three things carried a verdict Melissa salt but there he speaks about the universe stands on it here he says the reason the oil um is I meant on it cuz that's the club of collateral mixers this is the these three elements sum up the three categories that encompass all of you this right and that is why the world stands on these things or the other way around it works both ways the world stands on these three things and therefore this is the cloud of Terror mitzvos key to feel uh he became a vital Sakura bonus if mothers are southern islands doctor don't get confused it says I thought he did not feel up she's avoid the what he means by avoid this remember shimon hatzadik was a crying god when the second place on McNish so when he spoke about a void what did he mean uh way that he meant a Vitus a car bonus what is a voice a car bonus cuz i'll say phyllis we say every morning on a sham of forums for say no let our lips substitute for the bulls for the cows village Bamako carbon is stick and fillers cannot get to meet and thicken up so the idea of the carbon is the essence of Fela pre Harbin or post Corbin but that's a void and Camilla Kassadin is the concept of stockin giving generosity whatever form of spark it takes on whether it's a long whether it's helping somebody the Rambam famously says in hill sis and his locus of knuckles are named that the greatest form of sadaqa is not helping the person who's destitute a person who's destined to go to destitution to lift them up to be able to provide them with a job so that they shouldn't need Bukka that's the greatest form of sadaqa which psychologically and emotionally also means that there's a form of stock because somebody's in the dumps somebody's lost and you slap them out that's obvious sadaqa but there's a much deeper form of Stockton when their end when they're about to end up there or they're going in that direction to help them not get there that's a much more subtle form of sadaqa because it doesn't look like you're doing it because you're helping them get a job sadaqa I'm giving the stalker here I'm not giving it stalker I'm helping the person help themselves but that's a much deeper form of help helping people help themselves is a much greater help for them than helping them because helping them turns them into recipients helping them help themselves turns them into creators co-creators in life which is essential to human dignity so that's why kamila Sodom and sadaqa are very interchangeable because Melissa saw them is actually the greatest form of stalker you assist them you lend them you're helping them rehabilitate their own ability to be able to stand on their own feet teach them to fish you feed him for a lifetime right yes you want to say it again give a person a fish you feed him for a day teach him to fish you feed him for a lifetime right there's an interesting halacha and that is when you give it's an interesting Allah honcho Canara and he'll sister dhaka when you give a poor man sadaqa you have to also give him a little more than he should be able to give taka you have to give him a little more that the poor man should be able to give taka there's the minimum she removes taka right in the city is the Gemara mob ambassador used to have the Cowboys but the Cowboys tucker so you give the only a little more money that he should be able to give stuck well sorry that's first glance it seems like a mockery instead of giving him the money to be able to give stuck and give them a really good stunt when its anyway not his money right so what do you have to give a direct yeah they say the my said there was a year who borrowed money from somebody and he didn't have and he lost the money would ever see borrowed from somebody else a cop on him and I say he went went on and on ok Mouse's and waivers and finally everybody was attacking him from all sides so he met there but people he said one of you guys deal with each other get me out of the picture what do you need the Omni you're giving him money to give stuck or to give this [ __ ] indirectly the shot of course is there's a very profound idea here's so doctors to be able to provide a person with his or her needs part of them the needs of a person is to be able to give if a person doesn't have the ability to give they lose their dignity even if they have all their needs part of the need is to be a human being to be B'Tselem elekid to be a human being means to be able to give so part of sadaqa is not only giving him money sous chef food you should have shoes you should have way to live etc but also the ability to be able to feel that he can give something even though that itself is a gift so that's the concept the melodrama explains the cons in the villas I saw them over stuck player - Malcolm I said that I heard from the ball on mice I was once traveling on an airplane to South Carolina for a lecture so who's sitting near me a man named Joseph - Luschka Joseph to Washington there's a famous author and so forth his ADA was a youth named herb Nissen - Lucien who lived in bara puch he was a bigger of he wrote a say for called Tyrus maíam he was one of the big experts in America and mcfist that was his ADA his father's name was deployment - Lucien who was an accountant so he was telling me about his family his father's as many years ago during the flight say he says his father was a very his a there was a bigger of his father said was a hard-working man who got up every day he was an accountant and he did it for like 60 years you know one of these people who keeps the same job doesn't look right doesn't look left supports his family honestly pays taxes anybody knows what that word means and just lives you know a fine decent innocent life one of his accounts one of his account that he dealt with was the Secretariat of the Lubavitch Arriba okay was an accountant he would do their accounting for them so I heard assume he said it was 1985 or 1986 his father had a stroke I was horrible he was the hospital was very serious it was a serious stroke he's sitting there in the hospital with his father there's a call a call in the room he tells me picks up the phone he says hello man introduces himself rabbi yehuda Krinsky who was one of who was one of the secretaries of the lubavitcher rebbe he says dear ABBA at the end of the month would sometimes go through the bills see what's going on he was looking at all the bills there ever and he calls her McClung she says there's a discrepancy here there's something off so currency says okay you nemesis why don't you call the Schlemmer timoshkin and ask him ask him so that's why I'm calling so Jota lachemann says I tell her because she I don't understand the Redman knows that my father had a stroke we notified right away we asked for broccoli he says everything he says I know that I've been knows I'm the one who told them I'm the one who told them or a few days ago he said so why didn't you tell their ever the man is a stroke picture with you find somebody else he's that wasn't gonna tell that to the Rebbe told me to call slim but to Lush can unpublish lemma publish he says the number forgot the edit so he said out he forgot he said to ask him why don't you ask your father so he went over to the bed he gave him the whole search bonus or whatever he brought it over I think it was one of the Brooklyn hospitals whatever he had the search bonus see they went out with his father and he said that the rapper was just going through the count he said there's a discrepancy here I never said a shwaineeeemmenuse sheeeee can he'll we'll let him figure it out he says my father I saw the light coming to his eyes and he starts looking and he said it was a very simple issue wasn't a complicated issue and he figured it out of my father told me he could barely speak he had a slur but he told me the answer and it was resolved he said in the beginning I was very very unimpressed with her ever to go to a stroke victim a patient and then I realized what happened he says my father worked every day of his life the emotional sense of hopelessness for the first time in his life he can get up he can't work he can't produce anything he would have gone into a depression as I saw it suddenly he felt useful suddenly he felt that what he's good at could be expressed could be maximized and then I realized at that moment that tremendous thoughtfulness and love that he had for my father to be able to think what he needs at that moment to be able to figure out the HERA to make him feel needed he said it transformed the future of his father it already gave him a new new lease on life and it was so simple he knew he'll be able to figure it out it was a very simple it was a discrepancy but it was it was not a complicated mistake so there are two types of stalker there's sadaqa you're needy I make you feel needy and I help you there are people who are very good at that they have good hearts they have good hearts but you have to feel needy there's a much deeper form of stalker and that is I make you feel that you don't need me that's real the Camila's I saw them and I might make you feel I'd make you feel you don't even need me I'm like okay it happened to be here you know what it's about you it's not about me in other do you give the person the ability to help themselves to rehabilitate themselves that's generally an elaboration of what their emblem says about these concepts so not as a winger naino so you have the three categories of Yiddish night turned out very that Melissa served him when he calls here turned it to Phil then stuck so it's Phyllis Khare bonus and Melissa's optimistic now when you speak about these three things and he says this is the cloud alternative are mitzvos that's not a small statement this is why we say as he says elsewhere Lak Avraham alakay it's hurtful acha acha which here there's a natural question there's no three gods there's one God I've raw meat sitting active at different gods they all worship the same God that was the whole idea of monotheism there's no God for India and one gods for China you have to say Baraka Tasha Lak Avraham V is not reactive same allocate the shot of course is that the way God is one but the way people experience Hashem and the way people connect to Hashem must work through their own soul through their own identity God is absolute infinity of rom identified he found his path passion through hasit from sadaqa through Moses under its hook through avoider through car Bonus Yaakov through the cafeteria so alakay Avram on the case Aquila k Yakov it was in the way they discovered their own relationship with us them the way they experienced Hashem in their life and it wasn't the same it's three experiences of Ilocos even though it's one our son and they couldn't rely on the other one usually when you have a father like of Rama V no you don't have to have your own God you rely on your father's gods you have a say that and a father like of rubbing its hook you see it all the time yes somebody who are you on my tata who are you my side my altas ID no no no no alakay have robbed you'd so didn't come and say my father already had a guard I don't need a god that happens very often people's fathers had a God they don't have their father had and they try to rely on it it's like living off your father's credit cards doesn't work that way alakay avro master Piell okay it's a kid's hook had to have his own God alakay Yakko if you can't say my Z then my father are inspired people you have to find your own Allah Kim so that's why you say it three times and therefore you have here the claw of qualitative Emmet's so connect it give mold very mellow but these three things go one step deeper see the parallel to these three things the passage says positing a Shia also quoted at the end of prickly oven so he have an interesting thing the beginning of prickly offices are slice of our turmoil the moment the end of picky office is called massive Oracle is wonderful by la mala broilers Loida which he touched uncovered a latina shanna marvelous avoidy brosef it's art if a fascism so the beginning of pre Kiev is the end reflect each other brassey's show him a cassava deer mice burrow Soviets Ayrton Alpha system is not just three synonyms not just three adjectives to describe I created it I formed it and I also made it what's the difference you could have just said I created it I made it I formed it not it's three stages in the cosmos three stages in the developmental evolution of the cosmos ma shovin libera Mesa thought verbal articulation and then speak and then action brass of his penis my shava why she pin is brioche my mother shava is the initial glimmer of consciousness yes Maya it's not a development deboard takes the marsh over and gives it concrete form you have a thought and then you think how to say it how to ride it how to communicate it de Bourgh has to follow my Chava Dibble is the surah of the marsh oven so my father is the breeze and the creation the ash may I be negative fillers she avoided belief and that corresponds to which aspect of you disguised Fela why the Gomorrah says in the sector time isola of the book alla vodka a zoo he avoided she believed which is the void in the heart Zoot Fela Zurich Ivana the marsh of abuse to deliver all of the fill is about mahashiv ah that's the primary raison d'être filler it's about a mindset it's mindfulness it's thought that rusev the Libra which means the desire of the heart command me as Allah's cause all famous lease a fillable like Ivana kick of baloney some to feel it without mindfulness is a body that's lifeless you can have a corpse everything is there but there's nothing there it's dead I what do you mean what about de Bharat's Villa did a mitzvah that feeling should be but be bored MMSE says who actually a chimeric Ivana the function of verbal articulation of fillers only because Karl Mayer naka Vernon the voice the sound resonates and triggers a mindful state but the essence of Fela is not deboard hasn't that Phil is not words the essence of fillers qivana la Haine even mccormick of my pair bonds that's a relationship to Carmona's why avoid this a carbonyl so he said Rebecca Hammond Bhuvan abusive lubricant escape Azaria desire says the main avoid of car bonus was the qivana of the Cayenne we don't look at it that way we look at the carbon is you know what it looked like you ever one touch lock toys right so not a lot of come on over there not a lot of mindfulness there yeah but he says it says in Isaiah was totally only crying him could do it was all about the Bruce until that way there was nuts in our life that's why you see a political thing with car Bonus the thought of the Cayenne makes it a break sense diplomat nazar people what's the become a Cayenne is with a vessel and he's accepting the blood or he's walking to his behalf or he's frequently the blood and he has a thought what's the thought the thought is you know this is gonna be a good rib steak and we're having a barbecue for my mother's 70th birthday not tonight but tomorrow night I think I'm gonna save a piece of the rib steak for the barbecue the only problem is it's tomorrow night and tomorrow night is already after this man the whole carbon is possible it's all over this qualify as a modern is that but that's why because the whole union of carbon is and my Chava Russa deliver Alpina me is it's about elevating the animal soul and that that requires a lot of carbonic in iscap Isaiah so that's why the all-union of deboard is called my rock Ivana now here he's saying it in the ISIS of terrace on mister of Terry sausages it's interesting that this is reflected almost verbatim in the world of Harlock in the world of Nicola one of the most classic works on the Rambam is kedusha rabbinic I'm Olivia Lee Rambam which are the tradition of her prime some of a check of high in risk a prime of risk of high risk so his the opening of the safe for his first Stickle is on Rambo hookers he say the eternal his second tickle I believe is I ramble sista filler and the asks there a major question on their Amba and Rambam does to halakha sin hooks list Phil I think one is paid in doubt one is Peri cute the Rambam says that there are things that I'm active Fela without them it's not Fela one of the things that mom says is my ofte filler and with he says aim at Fela without of it's not Fela is qivana saleh the person has no cojones I lived those are his words it's not at Fela Astra Brian the same Rama must fill the deer and mom says a little later that if a person is now burning Tefila means minister and there are mother person is darvany and he doesn't have qivana so burkas avoid the first breath he has to repeat all the other brothers he should have cuff on that but if he didn't it's fine the Rambam himself said without cojones I leave ain't feelin so the Khayyam says venir the Trey Gavin one incubate Villa he says it's a risk avoid but it's really a very spiritual world he says the two types of covenant Finland one is the cavern of pure sham Ellis slack la nuova no key Hatano at the final Adam das stick Ivana what the words you're saying I'm a healer are its Philidor in Malaya but I from him P noise of off conduction anybody knows what that means P noise survived are only saying it for 45 years right how would you know what it means when you know what penis off - it means no noise doesn't mean holy ok you could use a think you could use a deal acidnam so what the corners of his angels are holy and the middle of the angels are not only only in the corners cuz the hats the corner of the hat ok stop this is just homework so this this dis pyramidal is of davon e come on smiley saw similar cannot shimon thought right what's in solemn would have made him a national law says they random you need a piercer MELAS if you don't you yah darling besides others you have to say again just like Schmo if he didn't have come on the certain so concerned things you have to have cavern of pure shambles he says that's one did ii qivana the album is talking about is not parish Camillus it's a different cover what is it it's the mindful awareness that I'm actually talking Tasha I'm in a conversation I'm not even talking it's the mindful awareness that I'm in a state where I'm standing in front of my creator and I'm conversing I'm come animal I'm in a relationship says the prayin without that you're not missing a detail of Fela you're not even missing a Tanai of Fela it's not like a tonight Villa to quote him there's no death of Atilla what do we mean there's no thefts of filler there's no concept of domine what is Dominic what's the definition of the word Dominic saying words that's not having it that's saying words what is Dominic darling is the mindful state the conscious state that you're in a relay that's the essence of Fela now laughs enemy atonement the mindful stayed that right now you're in a different zone you're in a different space you're going in and to a deeper zone into your soul into your souls relationship with God he said that's not a bizarre condition and Phil tonight in filler that is the definition of without that what makes its filler so standing for 32 minutes and just doing the whole set of all paths from from the Broca's until after veena malik i know cuz you don't realize that it's not written on Yom Kippur so you go through the whole thing even if you deliciously I'm saying even I miss you and all the trees are tears of Kalam ayat because you know the hosted about Pam so he may say every word and if he has a good view shall me Hvar ah be true you could do it in the 12 and a half minutes ms its don't do it Fela why it's words of Dominique know if I train a parrot to say words you're gonna say it's Fela that's not feel the heft soft fill is there's a relationship that's all about come on a solid it's all about cojones Elena that's already not a tonight feeling that isn't Fela then there's not tonight finish a Millis that's together so you see here now today is saying about the time you're saying I guess the Buddha says that's just to be money to the qivana so therefore the eczema could of to fill is always much over its intent it's the inner state of where you are where your mind is at the moment behind no Satya cover now say oh my shaft I do cabassa now this is not easy that his covenant is my shovel should be double it should be cleaved it should be connected it should be one with God how do you even do that you take glue you take scotch tape how do you make your qivana you're my shovel drew kibosh am one nobody teaches this how do you take your mouse over you make it look about them you take crazy glue your Cavanaugh's drew kibosh that many explains see cover cover cover nuts in my pajamas nanny's saying words it's not doing something it's an all about an inner state of where your mind is where your consciousness that means the person has to be able to tell himself right now what's the greatest obstacle to this covering us in my shaft evoke emotion what do you think is the greatest obstacle to this what would you say you go first knock the person and service Aras ego and perhaps second to summit ok distractions of course and perhaps the greatest obstacle I would think especially today's day is that the person thinks he's not Duffek Basha so what am I gonna fool myself I'm not I'm completely separated in fact I don't even know what it is I don't even know what you're talking about what do I have with this so the first step in everything of cover not say my crafted book about shame is that the person should stop thinking the exact opposite that is not novel Basha in other words the person has to be able to allow himself to be able to tell himself that right now he's capable of an experience of complete intimacy Drake this means intimacy complete oneness with God that's me me this guy who last night I know who he is from last night from yesterday from a day ago from 20 years ago besides what everybody told him about himself this guy right now is capable of having two acres by Shem and his Kevon and his mother and it's all an internal experience that means that I'm capable right now that there's nothing else going on in my life besides the fact that I'm completely one with God that is the truth of Who I am right now at this moment I while you're doing it they're going to be thoughts coming into you and save em and I stopped with the harsh I gets right who you fooling you know who you are when it's due so the person so that thought itself you have to tell that thought up a welcome welcome but that thought doesn't define or take away or destroy and obliterate a deeper truth and that is this moment is it makes a youth once came to the house of Allah Blin and he said that he has my Shabbos artist during da the night when he dove in she has alien thoughts so the highs of the Blin said no that's not the problem the problem is by you that fill is a much officer you have thoughts the deafening is daily and thought say the domine gets yeah like they have a show that uh sir what is it Asad Abu Bashar sucks filler they have a sign ah sir please follow Bashar Assad a bore you're not supposed mm when you talk the Dominick is not my shoppers are my shop Assad is already on my Draya Michele bazzara means you're in a relationship be thousand Inc and suddenly boom a scud missile comes into your mind that's a much officer the whole dominating is of myself so Tsonga Haven Sonny has my Chavez Aras the Dominica Zara the my Chavez so this already is idea that he could say say to himself that there is a component of his eye that's capable of complete mindful oneness with God with ain't safe with infinity now when other much others come in he has the ability to be able to put those much others in context and not allow them to undermine the fact that it doesn't take away from his reality being in complete oneness and not allowing that much of it to destroy everything and saying that the debeikis is gone very many people have a difficulty even believing and accepting that this is capable this is possible but it's this is the truth when a person goes into that state of mind there is intimacy with God so he says Leo's America veil of use bargain to become a chariot for him what does mean a chariot it's an interesting expression on our cover my covers today you would use a car example then they didn't have cars that sorry it's a wagon a horse what's supposed to be a chariot in love his Baraka it's a vehicle it's a very very interesting word it's comes from the Medes are other seining I'm air cover let's premiere cover there's no mid seus you come into your car and your could you put on the motor the car asks you know where do you want to go right or ways let's do ways way that's what do you want to go so you tell ways I want to go to the Manhattan so way says you know I'm in the mood of Borough Park we're going to borrow park unless your mom must have a good ways lucky ways well the car says when I go into Manhattan we're going to Miami yeah unless you have an out too drunk to then the car might say we're not going anywhere we're staying here loyal and thought that may happen but if it's a functional car subject you tell the car I have to go the car deep since the car says yes know why the identity of the car is it's just here as a vehicle now then they didn't have a car that a horse horse priding is a very very it's a very profound experience why the horse takes you to places you could never go and yet if you have a relationship with your horse the entire identity of the great horse is to take you where you want to go it's gonna take you to a place where you can't go can run like the horse and you don't have the strength of the horse but the identity of the horse is the wars again depends on the mood of the horas depends if you know how to deal with your horse but the horse and certainly the wagon which is a diamond its entire identity is I want to be a vehicle for use he says that's what's Feliz Tefila means that the person realizes not only that he's won his entire identity essentially is like he said in the beginning of the mine with the neshamah is a helical akame mouth so therefore I am your vehicle in this world I am an expression of you in this world it's not two separate things it's like you and the horse become completely one this is um recover it's not you don't start fighting with your horse your says we're going here no we're going here we're going there it's like one you know the great horseback riders their relationship with the horse was legendary they had this deep deep kinship with their horse cuz the horse identified its entire life as a vehicle for this person to take the person to places we can go in a way that's what the person is telling us shell I know that this world is a messy place this cause I'm the ferret I'm gonna be the one I'm the one so it's almost a very year it's a very deep idea that the neshamah is part of God and God so to speak separates a vehicle a piece of himself and he sends that piece of himself into a very dark place and he empowers it to go to places where Hashem himself is not going to be revealed because he trusts that the person will be able to transform that place so Fela the person redefines himself as a mere cover what summer cover a complete channel a complete sherry a complete vehicle which represents how much duvet cuz there is there's complete oneness there's no real conflict between us it's not like there's two agendas in my deepest core I am the ain't safe my entire identity is a channel for the inside that's the qivana psywave of its feel enough for this you have to have a lot of serenity to be able to get through you know all the emotional rubble and to go to that space but that's the truest definition of man and in that truest definition of man there's always empowerment there's no insecurity when you come out from the state of America v not an insecure person why because the busines brister's are feds when you're your own fans then you can get very insecure slow social of them Khamis it's a whole different experience if I'm a mare covered to you so then the world belongs to me because I'm part of you so if the world belongs to you the world belongs to me and it's not egotistical it's very humble this is where absolute empowerment and absolute humility converge into one the more humility the more empowerment the more empowerment and more humility because America that's the qivana so ladies describing of Tefila live a limiter now sure it's a Anila gem use berners-lee aschler dr. ups and exit of a life after love of shirisha mayan shallowly he parted me in who they were to see his birth not to separate from his oneness and his unity now these are important words you'll haven't a lot of Spartan will say don't become separated from the RIBA initial level from Hashem here he says shall I leap I read me who they've asked to see his birth he doesn't say lonely he parted me me me men who may I could his Baraka mashup it's a very famous expression don't get separated from my shop he says don't get separated from my shams unity you know the difference why did is it don't get separated don't get separated from his unity from his oneness it's a difference from one extreme to another extreme and it's important to understand this because this is a very common expression and look at the Toyota Turner and literally pardon me who they've asked this is one when you say don't get separated from Hashem what do you what does it sound like what is it something as possible number one that it's possible a number two it's two separate things God is here God is Bashar Miami mouth I mama or it's Vita Haas and you saying don't get separated don't get separate first of all you could get separated second of all it's two things and therefore I'm telling you not to get separated but then you ask yourself I want to be separated I want to be I don't want to be called dependent what does your therapist tell you you have your own needs your own identity any boundaries I can't live my whole life for somebody else I looked my old life for other people right a lot of people experienced as strong as my whole life for other people enough and religion makes them crazy because for them religion is the ultimate living your life for somebody else whoever that somebody else is sometimes it's a community sometimes it's de rigueur sometimes it's on them by you sometimes it's knock us four decide the deltas and all the way back to to the tradition of slavery at other mauritian before the hatch but here we saying something I'll slowly parted me who they wanted to say is Bora meaning the state of reality is oneness that oneness includes you you're part of oneness that's who you want it's not God's versus me you know what do they have Roe vs. Wade right God versus me the question is who's gonna win so it's Fela is kill yourself not to be separated from them surely pardon me it who does the state of reality is oneness there's no two separate things ain't safe is one you're part of that oneness and therefore you also can't really I hate it if everything is one you can't be separated you could think you're separated you can experience yourself a separation that's why he puts in those words it's me who day back to see his birth now you could've asked us they're not at the same thing you know that right what seemed to be who they enough to say who do use your hit a seducer is effort wasn't of your than that hurt your kids when you say yeah it was a bend your head mean what the been your hit me the only one what's been a cut your manhood young Cheney number one yuck it is only one after this number one who divas do say is two states of consciousness yet who there is the way the breath is in the mouth before it came out there's only one after this studies after the breath came out is already a whole world here you have to understand Hashem occurred even in the state the fragmentation there's still one us there's the state of you know who this the state of effort you could this is a singular reality there's no room for separation you can't say oh you have a few kids who's gonna get the Euro sure been your head no there's no few kids yeah when you have got some 13 children the question is what's gonna happen after what type of much like us who's gonna be this who's gonna be that so you now you have to create effort axis you have to create activists because this fragmentation that's the who they reduce its to states of consciousness but at least I could do sir so lonely Park Martin Buser means you can't get separated it means you're not separated it means it's not two separate things so the consciousness of Dominic is that he doesn't want to separate from the state of oneness in which he is or she is essentially part of the aims of that's the truest definition of self and that's all about March ova that's all about Cavanaugh's Haleiwa it's all an internal state of conscious cuz physically but Villa he's still in this world after the Philly is going to work or whatever he's doing after it's filling but it's an inner qivana of how you see yourself and how you see yourself that's how you define who put your reality is four lines from the top of of first yeah so he's describing the Yiddish kite operates in three trends Toyota available as a sudden Melissa Sodom is tired I've I just feel a pirate feelin Stockland and they correspond to the three concepts of Bourassa if it's active assistive my Java libera my sir Fela is associated with Marsh avec Ivana's Haleiwa Rutzen Oliver who said the Libre like the car bonus it's all about the person's Kevon and not to be separated from his unity not to be detached from his unity he says shall only parted me who they have to see his borders I they sir may reverse a toy and that's really the concept of sir may reverse a toy all of sir Mariana same type is really not to be separated from his unity that's the whole definition so he say sir may I stay away from negativity I say type do good but basically includes all over the tiger mitzvahs what is the essence behind it now you don't want to be detached from your true state of oneness a mid server in other words it's not stunt in this is vital finish I mentioned that you could ever to say you know they don't be separated don't be separated from the unity in other words it's not you're not dealing with two separate things and you're not even dealing with a possibility of real separation so now we adds vitamin it's not like why do you do the Mitzvah I saw you do it why don't you do that Veda you don't do it the word of Veda doesn't really mean sin the word of Veda is like in my sector Shabbos you have my verdad Alma's purchaser laughing right how Vora what does it mean - pass - pass - pass the ball what are you passing what's that Veda what are you passing you pal you're taking yourself out my very mission so your solutions around we're taking yourself out from your unity with infinity that's what on our various that's what on our various from the word Lahav you like Marva right Marvin you pass a ball from it should say Yahoo to yourself or my the Dalai Lama's British a rabbit Aveda you go out what do you go out you go out of a state of oneness separateness one is from yourself because you're part of that oneness a mitzvah is an opportunity to align yourself with that oneness all mitzvos are essentially to live that one is to breathe that oneness to experience that one is it so when the Turner speaks about it says if you do the mitzvahs you'll be blessed if you don't do the mitzvahs you'll do that Vedas you'll be cursed right the corral for some backup so very often the way we understand it is God has a cotton candy in one hand an electric sword in another hand if you do what I want I'll throw cotton candy on you if you don't do what I want I'll throw a grenade and remember I'm stronger I'm stronger I know you go to the gym I know you're a muscular fellow I know you know martial arts but I'm bigger and stronger I'm gonna win Kyle of a kind Lynette something so that's a very very primitive representation of Judaism it's a very primitive representation and it's very hard to be in love to have a real relationship with it at the end of the day it's a very like the definition of God the definition of Mitzvahs definition of Taylor so just these words widely parted matter this is whether they serve a novice a type is teaching something a little different not different but deeper and that is it would be like telling somebody you have this in this blood type you have this in this type of body if you're going to eat these foods it's going to be negative for you why to be negative for you not because I'm trying to punish you but why because simply it's a betrayal of your system person is going to eat cotton for breakfast and captain for launch captain is a wonderful thing but not to eat you're gonna vomit and if you can eat foods that are alien to your system they'd betray your blood type you're a physical chemistry the makeup of your body you're gonna feel sick you're gonna feel depressed you're gonna feel heavy like everybody knows the different foods a cow not only could live on grass and cows thrives on grass the horse finishes its journey and you give it the grass and it dances it's put them on some test data for the horse and the sheep and the goat now you'll give the person the same diet the same menu it's not gonna work he's gonna throw up why the reason is it's a different makeup of a body so is that called a punishment it's basically when the TARDIS says the Mitzvah you'll get this the veil you'll get this this through the Mitzvah you're becoming aligned with your reality which is oneness within safe through the availa you're detaching yourself from your own reality whenever you detach yourself from your own reality whenever you betray your own reality ultimately you're finding your own inner system if you're fighting your own illness in your system so then this consequences to that emotionally physically certainly spiritually and sometimes you don't see it physically but spiritually there is a sensitivity of the soul so therefore he says by daven inc it's all about the Cavanaugh's olive the mindful state that a person goes into that place of oneness of the vagus of intimacy with a scythe and therefore he said the find himself as a mere cover as a vehicle as a channel for that oneness without the separateness what does that mean that he doesn't want to separate from the unity how is it an express itself during the day in surah marij vas a tithe sermon rava say tithe are the cautious components a person has to do in order to be able to maintain oneness with one the haineko Discovery Center after as a yo-yo love Hashem as a yo-yo elevator Shamanov such beautiful words when you subdue the other side in you you can experience the light of God on your self so it's not about breaking as much as it is about inviting and an opportunity to be able to experience earlier Hashem an option again to use the physical metaphor your nutritionist will tell you you can eat what you want but don't expect that your body will be functioning even 50% of its capabilities because you're betraying it you're giving it what it does not need you're giving it to poisonous elements you're giving it poisonous elements it's gonna become frustrated it's going to become paralyzed it's gonna become weak that's what it is so you'll say but I want it so that the choice a person has to make between instinct and inner value but kada scarfy cetera when you subdue in yourself the situations and it's an opportunity to be able to experience buried our shaman option the light of our shame on a person saw well Dover's I think that children understand is much better than adults I think children are much more in tuned with these things than adults adults it's a problem they don't even believe me when I say they don't believe it's a candy right but I think children are very very sensitive to this they get it right away children understand infinity they understand ain't safe we think children don't understand children are brilliant you think they break into your computer and iPhone because they're not brilliant even little children they're typhus things that we don't think they grasp and we couldn't convey to children this we could speak to children about infinity ain't safe we could speak to children about the fact that everything is one for real that they're part of the oneness and we have an opportunity to always be connected to that one us or to betray ourselves and detach ourselves of that oneness I think children are extremely sensitive to this and they get it immediately we create this is part of it we bill ready believe that our children are not interested so we say if yet we'll give you potato chips and what's the reward the reward is usually poisonous foods it's another interesting thing when you're growing up you're trying to go out of these foods so what do we do for two year olds and three years old you do it we're going to give you what's the scar the scar is we're gonna stuff your body with a mystery okay you don't want broccoli I'll sign the barley kernel okay I'm not here to change the whole system but but but it's a very important idea we assume we assume like the Christians we assume people are guilty original sin yeah we assume you're guilty how am I gonna get you to do something good black and whites cotton candy Slurpees it's the other way around it's the other way around really if you cannot don't assume separateness assume oneness assume that there's unity a person wants to be one with one the child wants to be one yes we all have here to Horace so you have incentives you have prizes but that's not the essence of it I don't know how you were raised you'll have other Marisha Madison and we have to fix the sin but the point is to fix and align the reality with your true reality the sin is not your true reality that's a horrible mistake you know that that's a mistake that's a mistake how much we're not guilty till proven innocent it's innocent even after proven guilty it's innocent even after proven guilty there's always a wholesomeness there but it's a mistake that a person comes in and they have to prove themselves look at a person he essentially you're bad you're evil you're a mock reviewer you want to destroy everything and if you prove yourself to be a saint we'll accept you as such it's a mistake I wonder if I once saw a story that was a it was a teacher who came into a there was a classroom in a particular public school in New York and there was one class every teacher quit like after a few weeks it was just no one you know the class of I don't know the right name for them but nobody could have a scuffle with them it was known once survived the week one survived three weeks one survived this purgatory what yeah yeah at some point everybody quit so they always had to get new teachers anyway it was one year a teacher came in and the principal walks a few days after and takes a look sits quiet in the classroom the class was doing amazingly well amazingly well it was incredible they figured out a very interesting thing basically these were kids quite with a low IQ with a lot of issues you know learning issues and challenges etc whatever all the issues every teacher had coming to the principal the principal would give a list yeah and had oh so they all these evaluations on the kids near the name Ricky they had a number yeah and the number demonstrated in terms of IQ and other things where the child was holding they asked this teacher when you got this list what did you see the numbers she said she thought the numbers were the booths everyone had a locker everyone had a locker that was the number that was one number then there was I'm sorry for Kate they had the numbers it was very very high numbers so she she is it happened to with lockers she assumed it was IQ she went into the class and she looked at them differently she looked at them differently she had a major house Lanka that has a tremendous impact on people people feel exactly what you're experiencing from them when a child feels that you look at him or her as lowly they will live up to that expectation when they feel that you see them in a much higher light they will live up to that expectation our other once told me that parents came to him and said that their child is a Ghana if he's 11 years old and he steals he picked pockets he steals and the father was crying and the mother left for a few minutes yet to tend to her needs so the Rose was sitting there with the farmer so the father said I didn't want to say it in front of my wife but when this kid was three years old from shendu's Arkansas I already predicted I already said he's gonna be a Ghana vanna Gosselin and a terrorist and ambush cuz I saw it when he was three already so there are thousands I don't understand why you're crying so janaka's he lived up to your expectations beautiful it was you're right so in other words what I see in the child is what he's going to see in himself if I see in him a piece of guilt he'll see it in himself if I see in him a piece of a knife I'll be able to see it in himself but it's not about words this is about an internal experience what you see in others is what they could see in themselves you can't expect your child to see in themselves something that his Rebbe his father his mother is a that his Baba and God doesn't see so that's why I think that children actually picked this up instantaneously through words and much more than words through nonverbal communication through verbal communication and not very nice but far you don't have to be afraid of telling your children the deepest truths they know it anyway they know it anyway you don't have to dumb down ain't safe for children you could dump down on the iPhone for kids is good you don't have to dumb down on infinity for kids they get it mamas they'll look at you because they're not sure that you get it the look that they give you is because they don't know if you know what you're talking about but they know exactly what you're talking about the way they internalize things is not like how adults internalize things they take it in they know exactly what you're talking about and you'll hear it from them seven eight years later and you'll see they know what they're talking about while Dover's their tecnobrega Shoshana essentially this all starts with business a shark our meaning what do we start saying Baraka Taschen la que nous melech ha'olam what Jean wall the Broca's yeah he started off barakaatuh Shambala que toma la hi mom how nice and my Seth Lepik a living in mountainous utam he says before you talk about the concept of the brother first you talk about their very words but you can't work at are similar came to Malibu that are similar so how do we touch it we're thanking us and blessed are You God our God the king of the world it is a little strange to keep it's like chorus marketer shaman if you're really talking to me yeah so you say blessed are You rabbi Jacobsen for you this blessed are you just say what you want to say say one start on how nice am I settle the character again and again and again it's like almost like a scratched CD para quitarle another fella you know the guys who go to the almonds for breakfast of Sasha [Music] what's what's happening so it needs his Boyd Ernest you have to understand what it means he says as a key autumn of action we're asking for something she you Martinez Avaya Lahav Asylum Asst chalet you've sucky use of the key human Valois Tahlequah my locket ever ask us for some a shambolic aphasia is law the natural tendency of fire is that it doesn't want to stay down goes back you need a whip to hold it down you need logs to hold it down hashem elokenu choice law the Saaremaa morris god creating the world is loud work at the mouth coolest ability to surpass nations it's not befitting it's like the king as we learned to has his golden infinite gold and silver and he's talking about and investing in energy and collecting the mud we look at all the worlds but all of the world's essentially it doesn't express the divine and because it doesn't capture that there are certain vests divine energy in that is a hidden tether hellaciously starlit she says you're asking Bora haha brother is not thanks brother comes to the word I'm shocked Rachel drawing down barakaatuh Shambala came to Mel asylum the LEAs penis Alec a no he should be allocated with federal McInerney Abbott a lamellar penis and McCarville of his brothers actually karush my Elena to Alec a no commercial co savelic a of rum sha Shan Shan finish my cover the lowly is double the expedition to France now what we're asking is it should be Hashem should be borrow this should be I'm shocked about sham LaMotta to the point they could say he's la que no volcanoes a finish he he's attributed to you is my father's my mother my brother my god really is your God our dot allocate it's hard for us to grasp the finish and a flaw but that's what he's trying to explain the finish to be able to say the words Aeneas Emily Kasem should be a lake a new in other words a person shouldn't be a yeah shred of indifferent before my rock melech ha-olam finish my show Maha Maha illumise leus Yashvin inferred the from the apps my company hey Simlish ma I the whole world seems separated it's because he's a Mela the a mell of Molloy are there's no MELAS without a nation army lotion luminous luminous means calls that are extinguished blackened calls dolt calls Oh mimus bottoms sudden veneer Adam Samia Adam hi babe on him a knickers my Malik I am from Russia Kosovo makamaka mashaykhina sir on the crane Bonham lahmacun bra cara de hua Shan a girl taillights large commercial Kosovo Hamas there's a difference between a child and a nation it can't be a melis over your own children doesn't work you're not a father can't be called the king yeah you say is the king in the house but it's a shame ambush so the real concept of them a look and it can't be with a child why because you're like a pillow want a mell of below I'm I mean somebody who's completely separate I'm me Russian OMA Moscow Colin Kolles that are already dulled their fire is already very dull what's the idea a MELAS below yeah that the arm is completely separate from the king the only way could be a king is if there's a nation that correlates him as a kingdom far sham to be a Mela he needs a world that experiences itself as separate when you experience yourself as separate then there could be a relationship of Malthus you can have Malthus if it's something that's part of you it's impossible that's not Malthus MAOIs is always with something a relationship with something that's distinct from you that's separate and it chooses to have a relationship with you but she'll do you say bra Kyra Devore's like the foot in the head the Sun is the the foot Kyra Kyra is the foot to me the leg of the father what's the relationship between a foot and a head you don't call the head a king over the foot it's one thing if someone who's ahead and there's a foot then the head rules over the foot the foot in that it's all part of one entity the central nervous system it's one goal it's one cohesive integrated entity so therefore there's no separation between the two because there's no separation between the two it's not Malthus so what's built us a chakra that the person wakes up in the morning and he says Bora Qatar Shan and the finishes that hashem should be able to be attributed to le ke no she Karishma Elena he's saying that his name should be attributed to us like Ella K of ROM he's of roms God was the news of Rome's God what makes him of rums God of Rama's God that his definition becomes a vehicle that he belongs to Ramallah Kiev rum holding the age down how does that happen the person doesn't want to be separate says we may call fuse vickima Elam as we SaLuSa mainly ash Tom Nieto liebe measure maximum Sheila Marlena or Lucas Baraka Lewis patella bailiff canna Shama same eponymous high Lamas since the nature of fires to depart the entire life and existence of the worlds and the fact that they're created every moment from nothing to something depends on the fact that we bring down on ourselves so to speak we connect to his godliness to become one with them the souls are the engine of the worlds the pious of the illness the access so to speak upon which all the worlds revolve visited in Hashanah the nationís the pinna me is what I mean the Penniman is the ultimate raison D etre the ultimate objective the core the engine what keeps all the world's going that the Moloch should speak milord that the item should speak about things that seem completely alien to the essence of the king that the divine should become invested in creating all of the worlds which are completely not reflective of infinity and therefore you would think la forza the Malka as he said earlier this type of Miller daddy I tell what does that depend on the melech ha-olam depends on the Lak know the neshamah SAR the pen amis of the islanders there at the core of all the worlds affect the axis upon which everything everything revolves that's what I saw the soul is the interlacing link between heaven and earth it's the eye of the storm it's in the middle of everything it's the in the core of all the universes like that's where everything revolves around it you may see a huge ball but there's the axis upon which everything is happening that's where everything is becoming connected that's where everything is becoming a line that's where the whole world is finding its purpose in the consciousness in the consciousness of the soul command when I saw the Gemara Seska shame she officially laboulaye Rufus Cathy F shell oil and below you saw just as you can have the world without Rufus without the winds you can have the world without the strong show you Charlene qiyam or mind matka Lila Loomis neshama sister all is the key omits the mind me that holds up all the worlds who commercial hey hey goof should throw him up enemies Natasha Fiona's you look at a body you see a body you don't see anything else but what happens if you snuff out the soul from the body everything is there but it's a lifeless corpse the Shia have goofed depends on the Penniman FSK units on the biological soul shame yesh a similar have been our chef for ulis come called Gouffran epical Fela and what happens if something happens in the soul the whole body becomes sick I there's a big functioning body the answer is the nefesh is so powerful once lure a highly one things happens to the nephron illness and the whole cook becomes a file you sometimes have it in a person something happens in a person not in the body either not in the physical something changes in their motion of a person and the whole person becomes sick all of life becomes worthless why because you affected something in the pen amis the affected something in the plenum iasts so there's a domino effect everything shuts down everything just shuts down externally nothing happens but in the planning is something happened it transforms the entire reality of the person so the moment how golf is what's happening in the nefesh the inner consciousness that's not love that's what he says the Euler not because there's an element of the person that's also separate it's not the measurements of a vehicle coming mal but it's an element of the person the nefesh an arm is in the Gulf that's also separate of course the edenian of models of what right that's that's what he's saying so there's two elements then a some of the jewel is called bonham lahmacun like the foot and the head it's one Mitzi's it's not separate and then there is the world that aspect of the world that experiences itself completely a separate and that's where this mouthful yeah so there's a lake a new and is melech ha'olam Borei Qatar Shem to be able to become a lake a new and then even further more mellow phylum that's what he says Lehane I mean Baraka power similar came to Melek I love bearish borrow does is not thanks Boris means blessed but what does the word Bartok actually mean in Mishnah mhmm avaricious Agatha you know that is you graft the vine in other words you take the branch and you communicate it and you create a new plant you haven't Hebrew break our pool that's basically you from the well from the brook from the stream you bring in you gathered the water your mom says the waters he says borrow show you Verrilli usual Leah Shaima viola harvest : I'm sorry there should be how via the creation of everything I addition year-long of apprentice of like a new by being Lak new by my complete unity with our genre as a EML asylum the tikkun olam I came back all shocked on every morning Leah schema cabbage but to verb of Holly and Tom with massive bodacious of my voice unleash my animal because every day is a new decision on creation I ain't nymphs and Marshall come o you with the Mosaic law LaMotta Clara Harris wuhush however here we don't have an example a metaphor for this to see how the world is constantly being recreated rock efforts could say we have a little bit of a visual of it and that is cheb Akali Yo Ma Malaysia kalila Cabrillo Sushil own liberation south of Aden ahoy Livadia kamiesh Niang he says when you look at the transition from night today you see something a visual of that experience it's like a newness he says every single day just like when the creation happened first was darkness Dan was white tomorrow says by arif very very American he says every night you're looking at darkness and then suddenly dawn break Sun rises you have something of the experience of it's conscious it's like ash may I it's not mama she see ash me I in them the Sun is rising again and again and again but the point is it's that experience that that feeling of an absolute transition from one reality completely a new reality suddenly Wow a new day a new energy it's a feeling every day a person wakes up it's a new energy it's a it's a now you talk so he says the truth is that it's pakka makka - was called you know in my separation it's a completely new reality everything is recreated we always live with the past it's very hard for us to experience a new day every day is a continuation of last day and we get stuck there what happened yesterday but the person who's in tuned with the vine energy every day is completely a new experience I'm a founders but - of a client of mine Savannah just a new life a new relationship a new experience this is what's called a spiritual life a spiritual life means that every day you're a new person you're not the person who was there before and your approach every day is with an absolute freshness because you're not living with toxicity and pressure and burdens and calculations of what happened last night than what happened yesterday you show up to life as though you never saw it before every minute of the day yet in every minute you live mean this show up to life as though it never happened before I would show up here I never saw anybody Salaam alaikum I listened some you shop to your wife it's the first date it's the first date yeah you show up to your child it's the first time I haven't met this kid while he's cute you show up it's the first time you see literally you literally show up to you show up to life it's just happening right now now what does this even mean what do you mean I have bills to pay I have issues to deal with this happened last night then we had an argument last night in this happened last night and I'm not happy about this last night on that we got that we know that's why we go we just we we're busy continuing the same play you know it's just it's just a transcript playing itself out but then the MS is that the whole concept of night and day why did I shall make it this way this whole Galgo you know learning and there's your son as long what's the point it's fascinating how it works the point is to be able to give us a visual of recreation every day so what we could feel as we see the darkness to light the darkness to light that's it that's and that's really the way to say this explains why we have to sleep for so many hours it's one of the strange phenomena of creation autumn la lu la we weren't created to sleep we were created to work to produce so why did I share create a system that a person has to sleep eight hours yeah Shanti as your North Lee seven hours six hours those who sleep less but you need sleep those were my hard to 12 hours 18 hours in yeshiva whatever it is your job is is coming some people do 24 hours I said last night that the definition of consciousness is the annoying time between naps right but why they meet why the need for this why the need what's the need for it so he said biologically that's what you need I understand biologically but what's the spiritual reason that the biology was created that way and one of the answers is in order to be give the person the gift of his ashes of renewal imagine God would make that we don't need sleep imagine 24 hours right workaholics would love it 24 hours you don't need sleep but what would life look like series treadmill it would be one endless continuous series that's what life would look like he wanted to be able to be the concept of sahnaya tog it's a new day watches this conscious to be able to say I'm showing up new today so therefore the first thing you do is bring us a Shaka this is a chakra so let's discuss creation creation is unnatural why is it unnatural live or is that the mouth curly star even millon dead yet to surpass nisht mug nazar URI rakia it's not that of course it's us the cell of course but doesn't express the truth of Eliquis so you need to hold down the fire that's the finish of la que nous so Baroque art art should be borrows and name shift that the person creates the wick and the wood by a lake a new bike telling God I'll be in a relationship with you just for that it's worth it I'll be in a relationship with us for this it's worth it for this I'll do stupid things I'm a clown tricks you want cloud tricks I'll make ground tricks look this is his circus he makes better clown tricks than I do then the Ringling Brothers but it's clown tricks what do I mean clown tricks it's Miller dad theater yeah but what are you doing your child you want to entertain your kids you make hey no wait this right so that's your Tatas it goes like this it's called creating the world that's basically what it is the kids get excited why I want to spend time with you I want to spend time with you but that's the finish of la que nous alakina means it's not just if I call you I say you're my wife you're my husband it works both ways that the person feels yeah I'm Yours you're mine and you're ready to be defined that way Hashem it's not only other k of ROM I've run decided he's is God God decided that he's of roms God I belong to you that's the greatest excitement about you denied that God so to speak in the morning he's like wow you really want to spend time with me okay I'll do all my comm tricks I'm here I'm here what do you need you need oxygen you need sunlight you need Barton and the gun surveilled gate sir that's all okay no I he looks and he says he's the whole world is separate so he continued Mela for look he wants it to be mouths mouths this is a relationship a relationship is only with somebody who's separate so this is the element of separateness now you get into the details of the clown tricks but can symptoms I can quote from Alba sharanam nice now cut that's already two details but then the cousins de barros etosha Malik and Melissa this class is brought to you by the achieve Annette please help us 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