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we're not going to go over all of the
for for uh kanuka but there's one
particular thing that uh I
sawon Ben mhe actually do a sh in
a about it's a two minute clip three
minute clip whatever it was uh which
means that if he's doing this sh and
a for something that's technically
supposed to be pasu supposed to be very
simple common knowledge it means that
uh this is a very common mistake that
people make I know that I made this
mistake myself for most of my
life um partly because I didn't learn
the other reason because I didn't care
enough to learn and part of chuva is to
change all of those horrible midot that
we have that make excuses for for uh for
all of the things that we don't feel
like
doing so the simple Al is when do you
light Hanukah
Candles now most people they say it's at
night just uh you light at night that's
partially right it's partially right
it's not 100% right what's 100% right
you have to light the candles as soon as
the stars are out now everyone has I'm
assuming a smartphone and you can
download this application called calj or
my manim and I'll tell you exactly after
you put your ZIP code Cal JC LJ okay uh
or you go to my manim uh.com it's the
same company I
believe uh and you put your zip code and
it'll tell you exactly when there is a
Time called when is the time where the
stars are out because it's not dusk
which is really we don't know whether
it's night or it's still day if you
light your candles there you may have a
serious problem you may have a serious
problem unless your candles continue
being lit beyond the but either way it's
not it's not uh you're not supposed to
do it that way now what about if you uh
decide okay you know what I'm I'm busy
I'm going to have to go to a few parties
I got to do a few things by the time I
get home I'll do it you know at midnight
I got home at midnight I'll do it that's
a problem why is that a problem because
no one is outside at
midnight and you're supposed to light
the candles and put the candles at a
place in a window where other people
that as if they were walking outside
they would see your manora now if you're
putting your manora outside at midnight
unless you're in New York City no one no
one's going to see your manur which
means that you have not fulfilled the
Mitzvah you've not fulfilled the mitvah
like it's supposed to be now there are
say you still fulfilled the Mitzvah but
it's not the
ideal now anytime that we have a easy
mitvah that you can do right we have to
do it right some MIT are very hard to do
right because you have to learn a lot
but there are some MIT that are very
easy to do right very easy to do right
all you got to do is a little bit of
effort and you'll do it
right when we miss out on those easy
mitv it's like missing out on a lotto
ticket where you already know what the
numbers
are somebody already gave you the
numbers he's like yeah I don't really
feel like going to the to the shop to
buy the ticket oh okay so you should
just go put yourself admit yourself to a
mental
institution and uh instead of the uh
shop to buy tickets what you have the
winning numbers that's an easy Mitzvah
so the easy Mitzvah is actually the
Mitzvah of lighting the candles you're
supposed to light them at at the time
where the uh the stars are out which is
right after
dusk um and again like I said today for
example where I live it was 558
559 in the evening and you had had to
light the candles at that time yesterday
I think it was like a half a minute
earlier or something like that point is
is that
that's when you're supposed to light it
because if you light the candles too
early it's no good if you light the
candles too late it's also not so good
now what happens if you light the
candles by the time you get home from
work it's 8:00 9:00 you want to light
the candles yes of course light the
candles but it's not ideal meaning that
if you had a choice to light the candles
before but you chose not to because yeah
you know what I don't feel like doing it
I'll do it later I'll do it later after
I have dinner after I do this after I do
that then you have yourself a serious
problem now what about once it gets to
dusk once it gets to the time where it's
right be right
after and you're supposed to light the
candles and uh you want to say you know
what let me learn a little bit for
another you know let me learn for a half
hour and then I'll light you're not
allowed to learn you're not allowed to
learn Torah until you light the candles
what if you're hungry you're really
hungry you haven't eaten anything all
day you haven't eaten anything all day
you want to have a nice s you know a
hero sandwich the bigger than your head
you know you want to have one not
allowed to eat why because if you get
too focus on something else including
Tor you may forget to light the candles
at an ideal
time so it's very very important that a
person light the candles at the ideal
time because it's an easy Mitzvah it's
an easy lotto ticket like I said if you
just don't get home until 8:00 from work
and there just not possible for you to
light it at that time it's a different
story still light it but if you have the
ability to light it if you work out of
the house or you already home at that
time or something like that light it as
soon as the stars are out and uh you
don't have to go outside to look for
stars because sometimes it's cloudy all
you got to do is use one of these
wonderful applications that hasem
provided Us in this generation to tell
you exactly when the stars are out I
remember when I was a
kid when to know how Shabbat came out we
didn't have iPhones smartphones so how
do we know we went outside went outside
and look for
stars we has to we actually our Minag
was Seven Stars our Minag was Seven
Stars the reason why the Minag was Seven
Stars even though he's right says there
three stars is because we don't know
it's supposed to be three Middle siiz
stars supposed to be three Middle siiz
stars but we don't know what's a Middle
siiz star to us all the stars almost
look the
same so Army not was Seven Stars look
for Seven Stars hopefully within the
seven there's three middle size
stars but the point is is that it's very
very important to know what you're doing
how you're doing it because sometimes a
person thinks that he's doing a Mitzvah
he gets to Shay say oh yeah you have
3,000 years in gay what what are you
talking about I learned Tora my whole
life yeah you learned T but uh you
didn't keep 90% of
it so the 10% you have G and after you
finish the 3,000 years
so it's very very important to to get
these easy mitv right because they're
easy which means the judgment is much
more dear if it's a hard
Mitzvah then Hashem obviously knows this
is a hard Mitzvah he'll judge you
accordingly but if it's an easy Mitzvah
and we still slack then there's
something wrong with us so you got to
get the easy MIT out also for anyone
that's single you still have to light
the candles if it's it's a single woman
you still have to light the candles if
you're a guest at somebody else's house
you can uh uh rely on them lighting the
candle uh different different issues if
you have any specific questions about of
kanuka you could text me I'll give you
the answers but the point is is that I
wanted to give you the easy mitvah so at
least you could do it right because I
know most of my life I would light
candles somewhere around 9 10:00 at
night because I thought oh well what's
the difference 8:00 9:00 5:00 what's the
difference when you know you don't know
what you don't
know so you have to get this Mitzvah
right um as far as the uh the candles
most of the stuff is available online
but again if you're confused or anything
else you could always ask I'm only a
text message away we are meant to be a
light unto the Nations not to follow
their misguided practices remember every
Jew has to remember that he's a Jew and
she's a Jew we don't celebrate
non-jewish holidays even if they seem
harmless it's a zul
disrespect to the Torah and could lead
to CH Hashem desecration of God's name
stick to our holy Torah and our own
holidays that's the path of a true Jew