Why it's important to build your relationships | Rabbi Yoni Fischer

if you don't build that's why I say in Shalom bias all the time the automatic thing with every relationship is that if you don't build it it's going to naturally naturally naturally go away but I'm saying in a relationship let's talk about your spouse with Hashem with yourself with AA you always want to be developing your relationship with them and if you're not it automatically in order and that's hard to hear if you're not spending quality time with your wife you're not actively telling your wife that she's great actively building that relationship then that it it slowly slowly will I don't want to say deteriorate but it's hard it's hard you need to be building we don't live in that world so much if you're not kering your Garra if you're not kazing your mishna if you're not working on yourself if you're doing all those things especially at this stage in your life when you're 18 19 20 21 these are the times where you got to build yourself when else are you going to build yourself