Yiddish/English | Why Are There Souls With Special Needs?

the yeshiva.net okay yeah now sometimes if you grow up with the language you feel more sophisticated if you hear another language you know what i mean you do see right away writer is going to be muslim the and there's english and scrambling right okay sure is foreign is undersearchless they have a different type of missile a different type of mission and i'll start with telling a story that i heard from the bala mice himself who happens to be my brother my older brother his name is and he shared with me the story they told me that he was once giving a shirt to manhattan and a man walked in sat in the back [Music] and this is a shield that's dedicated for jews who didn't grow up with uh jews from manhattan who come from very different backgrounds but they want to discover yiddish this man walks in looks like 30 years old 29 years old that's the quebec in the back my brother sees that he's crippled a little bit it's hard for him to move his motor skills are compromised he has disabilities he's there for six months never says a word he was shocked of hashem after six months after the sheer he asked my brother if i could talk to you first time they have a conversation with and the man starts talking my brother sees his speech is also imperial it's very hard for him to communicate verbally and he says i have a different type of story i was born with a rear neurological disease my nelton and my tattoo mama was void in manhattan very affluent and they're part of the social fabric of manhattan heint is manhattan for de [Laughter] is foreign the doctor tells my mother and father this is going to change your life this boy is going to unfortunately have to have constant medical care and a lot of therapy it's going to change your life after height what a special needs trial does to a father and a mother and a michelle somebody who doesn't know doesn't know they'll never understand they think they're stressed they're pressured yankee kim times or he needs potato chips this one doesn't have a menova we didn't get the wicks there's no doughnuts we're late for the hanukkah party that's distressed enough to explain to this crowd what families go through everything changes so mad off behind they're not taking me home take me home they'll put me in an institution they'll take care of me but they never came to visit they didn't want to connect 30 years i never met my father and mother my brother said they live in the city yeah i never met them i checked a check make sure i have whatever i need a part-time job i'll to get but i never met my parents i met your son tonight i really think but boom i clapped with the telephone there's a dial tone my brother thinks they got disconnected okay he calls back he's like you don't understand that i hung up the phone on you it wasn't disconnected i disconnected you let me just remember he says give me don't talk to me about this mr christopher 11 who gives you a right invite and she says my husband and i made a decision 30 years ago don't ask us to revisit this decision what my brother tells her listen mention it you know people who don't lost their father lost their mother i know i told somebody i knew your father tell me a story about my father tell me a story about my mother tell me they'll tell me i never knew my mother i never knew my father so it doesn't make sense say get fire say get fire and what's going to happen should i stick it out you're not changing diapers he's not even asking to live in your house what's wrong my husband's decision okay let's talk to your nightmares afghanistan and nighttime clapping the telephone i roofed up the titan when i get them to the russia he didn't hang up on him he said lumber about father says he could come for a visit he could house on top of central park in manhattan my brother told me i never knew that it was such a big house i mean manhattan came up and something magnificent some you talk about the weather you talk about the president of the united states [Music] which one you figure it out you talk about in america sunday afternoon you talk about football seminars it's good for him to meet his father and mother and it's good for his father and mother to meet him they should be able to get to know each other you're one you're a family my brother tells me what happened next opens his mouth and he says something to his father and mother it's the first conversation he's having with his father and mother since he was born he never saw them he never spoke to them all he got from them were checks and he says these words in english and my brother said i knew that he had to in these words because it was not easy for him to say the words came out painfully so he had to memorize the words he had to repair it he looks at his mother and he looks at his father and he says these words he says mama he couldn't say mommy because his speech was impaired he could say mama he couldn't say mommy said mama papa he couldn't say palak in america pop pow danny you couldn't do mama poppa i am not perfect but mama and papa you're also not perfect mama and papa i have forgiven you for being imperfect i hope one day you'll be able to forgive me for being imperfect that i secure from repressed emotions that i secure you become alienated from yourself that is he hugged his son my brother tells me he says why why at that moment i felt like a shopkin business i didn't belong there but i found the mens i turned to both of them i think all three of them i said i think i'm gonna say goodbye have a beautiful day it was a pleasure thank you and he left this and i felt like a shopkin without getting the check i left the house they were reunited father mother and child reunited that day when i heard that it made me aware it made me realize this powerful powerful question that is really a question that could only come from such a person and that question is did i really really forgive can i really forgive my child for not being perfect can i forgive my spouse for not being perfect can i forgive my parents for not being perfect and maybe one of the harder ones can i forgive myself for not being perfect jews have a hard time somebody once asked me what's the definition of a jew i said if he doesn't feel guilty he blames himself can i forgive myself everybody in this room i would say has the privilege the schools to deal in one way or another with those neshamas that were sent down to this world as i said with a different mission completely different and we don't know the secret of any soul we don't know if you have a jew a person special needs doesn't function well can't function well can think well can't hold a regular job once a comment is and they say give us one jew nephesh means well give us such a type of drew if not we kill everybody everybody you have 20 000 people they should all die come on does it make sense like negate for an occult perspective of logic doesn't make sense perspective that you don't know the value of an it was based in the shop and he was there for a long time the money come to rain and he was there for five minutes he went out and he was upset [Music] the lift the kites the royalty the maljos it's a simple stone but as mosby this quality that quality i quality i'm sorry garnish he got frustrated he got frustrated and he is special needs the shama i've developed when i mentioned the tacklers versus the indian the regular nasir the regular mahalik doesn't exist or your wives know from experience all of you that deal with this direct the um direct what's the point of these souls and i don't [Applause] that is there are souls they don't have to come down to work on themselves they don't have to come down to be fixed they don't have to come down some of vares is but when they come down they allow us they allow us to do what we have to do they given one's perspective they make us normal they make us normal they make us humble they make us balanced they teach us patience we live in a world i have to always go to the next thing dina sharmas teach you there's no next thing this moment is a present they don't live planning tomorrow next year millionaire three years a billionaire five years above jeff bezos is that finally allen meisters and williamsburg and the minerals i'm [Music] who is the most important person you're ever going to meet in your life and the answer is the person you're talking to right now what is the most important moment in your life and the answer is the moment you are present in right now and what is the most important place you'll ever be in your life and the answer is i don't have to say it in english so [Music] this is where it's at life is happening right now this is where it's all at these nashamas live that way they teach it to us they teach us to be present you know that they are so sensitive they're so in their own way they're so sensitive is busy with the phones and everybody became a multi-tasker you're sending what's-ups you're listening to what's up you're nominating presidents you're firing presidents this doesn't exist could you be in a relationship with me could you touch me could you feel me so these souls they teach us they teach us what it means to be human often adl kite good skies so it helps they don't hit in the supermarkets they drain the coffee table the cabbage table they don't drink coffee the innocence the purity i don't know what they need faith that they bring goodness to a world even beyond of what we understand consciously when i feel a mere unconsciously they also teach us the inner was handled with assaulting us is always challenged to ask himself or herself deep questions they challenge you not with words but with their being they make they make us ask deeper questions who we are because people are busy impressing each other i'm trying to impress you you're trying to impress me is the kenoif more superficial media mentioned nobody's impressing anybody you can't impress me and i'm not here to impress you so you start asking yourself what's real what's not real versus 11 11. and the different version of the different before should i explain i plan to go to a savoy desire i plan to go to tiatroyas to theaters i plan to go to plays i plan to go to coliseums gymnasiums sports centers i had a whole plan for entertainment today i had different plans i already put into ways in the gps i put it away is mcgate levi's playing the imagination resolution welcome bottom button i'll be right like the fizz the way says sorry you got to make a left the fists right [Music] bombs in the flea i'm against that's like a shimaka club and by the way if you're doing it already don't do it in the morning ask the guys for like seven in the morning for sinking okay so marble cake but you have to know i'm not the biggest but i know that seven in the morning you know what the answer is unbelievable unbelievable ants if i could say this it's a stops answer but it's a real kabat scans you'll soon see why this is what he says he says the gemara is october gymnasiums and colosseums and stadiums and gladiators alts witness hypocrites is [Applause] foreign the innocence the purity from david elects it versus hashem section for children with special needs it was sponsored by the government a special section with special needs and there was a special part of the day was it for prayer for davonin and they used to darwin every day the 1970s one of the first things that they outlawed was prayer in public schools we don't want to send our kids to to religious jewish schools politics and corruption and they'll not educate the kids i said where do you want to send them so the kids should come out mention go to public schools i said listen if you hear my spay in my life i said if you hear my speeches you know i have some comments about our schools i make some comments about our schools our yeshivas our systems i don't think we're perfect you won't suspect me from all people that i think everything is perfect i get accused of saying things that you're not going to say you're fine right i'm wrong i said so you can trust me one thing you go whatever whatever you want one thing you won't find not in the misift is not an elementary school metal detectors the menu doesn't say i'm afraid that this boy this boy yeah i found one that will probably come in come in with a rifle there's 26 kids in their mouth so just remember that remember that it's not like even we have our problems we have our problem where do you think this comes from this is a gift thousands of years toys into your honest it's a gift card and a priest and a minister and they were sitting in starbucks coffee latte for 9 50. so what's up my name is [Music] so the priest says let me tell you what i would like to hear at my leviah israel somebody should say he was a true servant of the lord and the minister says i would like to hear somebody say at my funeral he was a real friend you could rely on him rabbi how about you represent i would love to hear somebody say at my funeral you know i think he's moving that's what i would really that's what i would really love schwarzkopf so they asked him they asked him what's your opinion about terrorists should we forgive terrorists she said it's not our job to forgive terrorists it's god's job our job is to arrange the meeting we've got them and solid them i told them before your criticism appreciate this appreciate the value of life and i believe it's one of the great siblings why they became dangerous places and values because the school the the section for special needs is governmentally sponsored church the state agape is religion the head of the hospital this is in the 70s the llamas i think three or four pages you're right to the head of the hospital the head of the department like in special needs children he said i want you to think about something special needs children can't communicate with the world like everybody else say happiness to potencia but they're people and they're full of love do you know how much pain they have inside we may not see it but they know that people don't understand them they know that people don't get them the way they know it we don't even know how they know it because they operate in their own world opposition is in this convention so i've been right to grace in the summers i've been hoping there's in he takes a net he puts it down in the pacific ocean farah yard side with 10 inches alexanus he makes a fool out of himself in your dining room there's a goldfish this is no fish in the pacific small intended he's swearing what was the problem the holes in the net were 10 inches of course there's no fish smaller than 10 inches your net can pick up fish less than 10 inches first taste the net that you use to catch the fish that's going to determine how large the fish are the kylie was if used the instruments i look at a person i can't communicate with you my net is 10 inches if candidates happen so what do i say you're not normal why are you not normal because i is everything is based on me well maybe you could be a little humble maybe there's other nets but most of us we called regular people to the music as analy and he said we the community people we don't yet we don't yet have the tools to be able to get them and they know it they know it who could understand them he made their prey he made their genes he made their chromosomes he designed their cells he knows them aina the boiler islam is the eight-second says do you know what prayer means for these souls that they can talk every day to the only one who really really gets them and now you're going to take this away from them and keep them with people all day you're going to take this away from them then i realized we really have to expand our net or shrink our net and the most powerful and impactful things in life you can't see with your eyes if you see it with your eyes it's not too powerful the biggest most powerful things you never saw you never will see well marshall cardona karana because you know how many coronaviruses can fit on this on the depends on the eraser of a pencil you know how many 3.6 billion first days 3.6 billion could fit on this if i was the size of the corona you can have 3.6 billion of me on this but i'm not planning to lose so much weight so fast who could see it we can we can see a corona did the coronavirus have an impact what do you say god's fine not bad for a loser that you can't see not bad again we'll find him keep it so somebody says please relax so i said let me tell you a story it happened last december 2019 it's a fictional myself i went to visit tell me you have leadership skills mr samanik he says me that marketplace to buy a couple of bats to feed my children i don't have global limb emitting the conversation his name is he sneezed he sneezed that's what he did and a few months later 7.7 billion lives were changed from this man who has no leadership skills and no global impact he just sneezed and everybody went on lockdown besides of course just like glo i always say global warming goes to miami los angeles doesn't come to new york the corona also didn't come to certain places [Music] you'll watch my clips and you'll see what i have to say about that at least a few months but in any case don't say you don't have an impact the person says what i don't do doesn't mean anything we waste the most powerful things we don't see the atom bomb nuclear energy anybody ever saw an atom nobody ever saw that electricity is pretty powerful electricity anybody ever saw electricity nobody ever saw interest the cells in your body the genes in your body everybody ever saw a cell it's pretty powerful stuff what we see is not so powerful it's what the eye can tough design what the eye doesn't see is much more real it's much deeper the nets that we use to be typhus reality is always limited according to our twister when it comes to these neshamas we see it the worst thing i can do is i judge him and i put him into the category of the normal people it's such a guy it's such a cutscene it's worse it's stupidity it's superficial it's kindness is essential to claudius on behalf not only of those people but on behalf of claudius when you take care of my brother or my sister i say thank you from the tipster is [Music] yes he sends him to somebody else the story when that giver came to the div the person said i [Music] that's not fear i call you a mensch and i call you a mensch on you your wife says i serve and his wife says i said both i mentioned not fair so you'll answer depends on the wife depends on the speaker but let me tell you what the sounds are of sir he said i've understated but look at the context was truth [Music] no family no wives no children no more no support oh yaakov alone nobody's here vulnerable vulnerable you abuse him you exploit him you attack i'm [Music] you deal with the vulnerable among us with people who can defend themselves and they're so vulnerable because they're so innocent say they sinners say lebanese i want to be close i also want to be loved i also want to love i also want connection i also cry i also laugh disabled abnormal strange doesn't fit into society doesn't get it yiddish and you are the people who day in and day out look at them and say matavakish and then you listen to the answer mention of patience to freggin shilas but they don't have patience to listen somebody once asked me what's up nick he didn't know he came in i guess somebody called him i didn't know what to say i said somebody you ask him my father is upset the bank wants to take away the house yankee was thrown out of yeshiva sort of late i didn't mean to hear vos herzeg he was supposed to say buddha is everybody is searching for their brothers trust me i meet a lot of people what do people want they want connection that's what they want when divas are in the grace of geniuses we don't need connection they want it even more they're just afraid they don't know how to deal with it so they run away to the books they want it even more this is loytoy and you give them that connection for who don't always know how to say the words thank you and make dinners and diplomats and announce it and the first time in my life that i see angels recently i don't see usually usually i get up to give a speech i remember to finish i was once out of speech sabaton in arizona sedona arizona floyd robertson esther young rice see is given from ghanaian so i remember she spoke before me so she was about shabbos sedona sedona arizona that is and i heard this from her and since then many many shabbatons that i went to different communities i always tell them stressed everybody's rests so far quran suddenly you realize all your little [Music] young man everything and you put the iron on the left an iron what is it i look at a person i look at a child you say your stick i look at the same person and i'm in a bad mood i'm depressed but i'm making up words but that's the matter guys you have to change the i in the perspective the same person you look and you see a malach same person you look and you see something else you look at these kids these adults and you see malachim and in that process you become aloha and you make the world a beautiful holy place until that moment in our stadiums amen [Applause] this class is brought to you by the yeshiva.net please help us continue the classes make even a small contribution at triple dot the yeshiva.net donate