Yud Tes Kislev 5771 (2010): What Happens When a Chassid Ends up in Hell? - By Rabbi YY Jacobson

[Music] it is not a time or place to tout anyone's accomplishments however the never once eared that the nature of an emcee is to think to himself oh I can outdo the speaker he's not content with merely serving as emcee tonight however this is certainly not the case by Jacobson as a gifted speaker and globally recognized for his erudition scholarship and expert delivery of the richness of a city's I personally remember rabbi Jacobsen when he was known merely as Yossi after hours long of Shabbos fabrini ins where he was immersed in the rivers teachings he emerged with loads of information that the rebus shared he would often serve as a source of review and refresh for so many who could not remember all the intricate details of the rebus words without any further ado rabbi yosef Jacobsen [Applause] waiters please stop bussing will dessert will serve dessert after them hi my love and guarantee in love and got to grab my one in love and garter lover means white poppy um tiff but Yom Tov which I am mcian with raha to one and all and as it's customary by Hassidim to wish each other on you test Kislev l'shanah Tovah the limo dark I see this will be dark eh haha Cedars take a save over safe si ma may you and all of us be inscribed and sealed for a good and beautiful and awesome year in the learning of Cassidy's and internalizing casa de s-- in Our Lives mcian Lucayan Villa Rosa as it happens to be this Utah's kislev gives us a little foretaste just a little foretaste of what Utah's kislev will be when Messiah comes because this year - schist of the whole America celebrating as a holiday in every American home there is a festive dinner tonight of Thanksgiving of gratitude of expression of joy in fact well my word expressed to me that there would have been more people if not for Thanksgiving but no they're also celebrating it's just they not clearly certain yet of the exact nature of the celebration but you toss kislev is being celebrated in our entire country as we are here tonight to give thanks Thanksgiving of our shrine no matter Calcagno oh man I am gharlane oh oh my offer you shall say no for the great yom tov for the great holiday of u2's Kislev and for what does holiday represents for each and every one consciously or even more unconsciously to be connected to internalize the awesome light that was brought down through the Baal Shem Tov and through his students through the mazurka maggot whose yard set is on you - schist live and of course through the outer Reba whose saga Google the Liberation Day is a new tsk asleep they told the story about an Indian tribe which lost its chief and it needed a new leader so they put in a classified act and a Jewish boy who needed a job first locked moonshine ah it was set tonight okay Kevin say he gets shove a nut razor a maggot which means once you hear a speaker once you don't invite him again ain't it closer to market but the same is true with a joke they say that the a joke you can repeat twice a year in a speech and a story you can repeat once a year and add variety you could repeat twice in the same sermon so the Jewish kid apply to the job he had a dark complexion so he can be a mistaken as an Indian chief they asked him do you have the credentials he asked what other credentials they said you have to be able to look at the stars and predict the coming winter how cold it will be the Jewish boy says no problem he looks up at the stars he thinks to himself are you our boy I don't know how to read stars so he tells the Indians he says I see in the stars it's going to be somewhat cold the word somewhat is not milk 6 it's not fallacious some what could mean anything but he was curious so he sneaked out of the town the middle of the night he went to a nearby town he took a quarter and he put it into a public phone you remember public phones Alea marschallin he called up the Washington weather bureau and he asks them about the coming winter they say it's going to be cold so he goes back to the Indians he says I looked up at the stars again I see it's going to be cold chief changed from somewhat cold too cold it's going to be cold they started collecting lots of lumber to warm their bones in a chilly winter a week later he sneaks out again calls up the weather bureau in Washington new what's your prediction for the winter the man tells them it's going to be a very cold winter he goes back to the Indians he reports what he's seeing now and as it stars they start frantically assembling lumber for what's going to be a very cold wind the next week he sneaks out again and calls Washington they tell him it's going to be an excruciatingly ly cold winter he goes back to the Indians and he gives over the new report from the stars they become frantic twenty hours a day men women and children are collecting wood for this excruciating leap ending wind the next week he goes out and when he calls the bureau the man tells him it's going to be the coldest winter in the history of the US I think that you're calling you're calling the weather bureau send them my regards it's going to be the coldest winter in the US history the poor yudish a boy is dumbfounded and annoyed he turns to the guy and he says the maximum is surely you driving me mad why can't you make up your mind first you tell me cold then very cold then excruciating Lee called now it's the coldest winter that ever was what is going on and the man tells him he says listen young man I really don't know who you are but I'll be very blunt with you do you think we here in Washington know anything about the weather we know nothing about the coming winter trust me all we know is that this year the Indians are collecting wood like crazy this of course captures a phenomenon in which one never realizes how instrumental he or she is in actually creating the outcome of events not realizing that it's he himself or she herself who has that power when we want to stand back and reflect for bring inspire ourselves as to what the baal shem tov - what the alt arriba and their disciples toward the jewish world through terrorists are considers to the teachings of haciendas one of the first ideas that comes to mind is the power the potential that a human being that a Jew possesses cydnus in many ways as a commentary on Yakov's dream the yak alain vian a Sulha moots of arts a very Maggie Hashem i'ma yak of dreams of a ladder that's etched on the ground but it's had its top reaches the heavens the ability to look at a person as a Sulha as a ladder which is moots of art song which is etched on the ground and in the earth and yet very shame Agia hashem i'ma he or she is capable of touching heaven in a very real way without compromising or denying the fact that he or she is a Sulha moots Avanza a ladder that is simultaneously etched on the earth this was one of the first and great revolutions of cussedness in general and particularly citizens in the teachings of the altar ever somebody once asked an interesting question if you ever studied the Tonya I had the privilege of I'll be honest with you I learned I since I grew up in the bhava Chand cobot as my dear MC testified and his lovely and short eulogy so we learned Tonya yeshiva but when I was asked later as an adult to start teaching Tonya actually in Borough Park I realized that I first had to unlearn what I learned in order to start learning it a second time because often we can learn concepts and know the words but really not get it and as a youngster it was sometimes taught I mean I don't like saying it but it was taught in a very boring and monotonous way so that I was a little bit allergic to it so when I wanted to teach it I had to forget what I learned the first time and literally learn it anew and I had the privilege of teaching it for six years the first section of Tonya we had a class in Borough Park and heckle menachem every Sunday and then Tuesday which developed in a series called The Tale of Two Souls and there was one man who came there the first or second class or the third class and he got up in middle and he said rabbi Jacobsen I'm an old man and the way you're teaching Tanya I'm not gonna be alive by the time you finish so do me a favor speed up the process so I could celebrate the end of the tanya and he told everybody how old he is and how much longer he's going to live I took his words to heart and instead of 15 years it took six years and at the sium of tanya six years later he was there he was there and he spoke there was one man who would come every single week and sit against me at the other side of the table on the only other comfortable chair in the room there were two comfortable chairs in the room one for me one for him and the moment I would open my mouth he would fall asleep and not just fall asleep he would have a gash smack asleep he would snore to the point that at some times I would stop the middle of the class and some of you I know I followed the series in you hear I pause it's not my fault somebody was snoring very loud just the mic didn't pick it up but every single week at the end of the class he would approach me and he would say rabbi Jacobsen today you were outstanding so I would nod and say thank you but once I lost my patience I plotzed I say my holy tired idiot can you explain to me something it's been now six years you sleep at every single class you snore you don't wake up till I finish why do you keep on telling me every week today was outstanding he says you don't understand when I'm complimenting you it's not your class that I'm complement I'm complimenting the dreams that I had while you were teaching and I want to tell you the dreams I have during your class of tanya are so beautiful they're so pleasant they're just outstanding and incredible and for this I thank you very much it taught to me of course a lot of things one of the things that taught to me you don't know how you impact people sometimes a rabbi gets insulted when people fall asleep during the speech I know in this sure that never happens with such a fine and Adel the community but the place where I come from which is called New York there is a mimic to fall asleep during the ROVs de Russia and sometimes before and sometimes after and some rabbis get very insulted in fact there was a show where there was one man the president who would sit on top and he would every shop is full of sleep when the rabbi opened his mouth and the rabbi was upset but he couldn't do anything this was the president the shamash the gob I actually who usually hates both the rabbi and the president seized opportunity and tells their of he says you know this president is a hot spoon yok when you speak he snores give me permission to take on covered hot area respect for the tyrant and next rhombus when he sleeps I'm going to take a bat and knock him over his head and teach him a lesson the RUF says that's a beautiful thing to do it's a great mitzvah it's wonderful you have my resource go ahead next Shabbos comes the rabbi opens his mouth the president starts snoring the GABAA is prepared he had a wooden bat in the Bema stored away already a few days before Shabbos does be Shama and he takes out the bat and he goes over to the president and he knocks him over his hat the president opens his eyes looks up tells the gob I do it again the nabhi says Weiss as I could still hear thereof so we often get insulted when people don't respond to us the way we like them to respond to us but actually you don't know the impact that you have on people you often don't know now she doesn't like what I'm saying so someone asked an interesting question and it makes one think I don't know how many of you are familiar intimately familiar with the different Hasidic workers that there are of the different students of the Baal Shem Tov the maggot of miss rich and the other great masters in the generations afterwards but there is a notable distinction between the Tonja and many of the other Hasidic works many distinctions but one distinction I want to address the other Hasidic works are extremely heartwarming they discuss a phenomenon of a Jew who suffers let's say doubts or depression or gets into bad moods were feels apathetic cold dry empty frozen indifferent natural moods and emotions that take us over and when you open up some of the Hasidic works of these great masters the message in one language or another is God is with you right there in your lowly moose he's there with you in your melancholy in your dejection even in your depression God is there with you not only in your perfection but in your flaws and in your imperfections and you feel good or you feel a little better they somehow romanticize the inherent flaws and downfalls of the human person of the human condition in the Tanja probably you will not find more than once on expression of empathy one time in the whole Tanja in chapter 30 doctor ever the myths he made the MS she he Muhammad olive otsuma the truth is it is hard to be a to only wants every other chapter you could and he has a solution for everything you come to the altar that when you say I have Tim to my life my heart is plugged I feel nothing they once asked to do what's the difference between ignorance and apathy and he said I don't know and I don't care you come to the alter rebbe and you say I don't care I have Tim to my life pay her cuff test what does he tell you he gives you a solution he says you have a problem the problem is you're arrogant the problem is that the log is too thick and therefore the fire does not catch on the log all the way solid debate no item of Watson way you have to take the log and splinter into small pieces and the fire will catch and you'll be able to cook your turkey that he doesn't say in time yeah that's the American you discus addition right away a solution a person has Freitas in them when a person has doubts in faith again the end of chapter 29 and the alter rebbe says your animal soul has become a little inflated and it's Hotspurs expressing itself and you have to beat it up a little bit you have to scream it yourself a little bit and he gives us the exact adjectives we should tell ourselves a person feels down from the struggles they have in life chapter 27 and alternative says immediately he has a solution acknowledge that this is part of your mission this is part of your destiny and you may be judging yourself in a superior fashion you may have a misplaced sense of who you are and of your identity and so on and so forth I don't feel loved here is the way to feel loved I don't feel oh here is the way to feel or I'm not happy here is the solution so someone asked the question why doesn't he show more empathy why doesn't he keep on saying as some of his own colleagues kept on saying God loves you you're awesome you're great the way you are in your down is Hashem is there yes sometimes you'll find it but the emphasis in the Tanja especially in the Tanja even more than other works is yes you can and somebody said it's disheartening for me I mean I need something else but the truth is the question is an interesting one but he was missing the point that the love expressed to the Tanja is extraordinary a child comes home from school and says math I hate school it ever happens in Detroit probably not but again in New York where I come from and happens sometimes I hate school right you know about this mother who comes into her son's bedroom David David David it's nine o'clock in the morning get out of bed you have to go to school he says mommy I don't want to go to school she says why David oh and he says mommy all the teachers hate my guts and all that soldierin hate my guts why should I go to school and she says I'll also give you two reasons why you should go number one you're 49 years old number two you're the principal of the school the child comes home and says mommy Totti I really don't like my teacher I don't like the school I don't like the curriculum it's boring I don't understand a word I'm failing in hamish I'm failing in Mishnah is unfailing in math and failing in English I'm failing in now jump failing so mom turns to her child and says yo Scylla I know I know that school is not for you I know that you're incapable of learning kamesh Matthias Gemara English math science algebra I know you're inept but you know what I still love you and I love you on conditionally and I will always love you and come and let me give you a hug because you are mine for eternity and it really doesn't matter now I think that's a beautiful beautiful reaction but there's another mother who hears the same words of her child and says my son no you're under estimating yourself you are capable of achieving great things in life but perhaps we have to make some changes maybe not this subject as well as another subject maybe not this school as well as another school maybe not this environment as well as another environment maybe this method is not very effective with you maybe this approach cannot take root with you but let's figure out your path and let's figure out how you will achieve tremendous Heights because your potential is far greater my love to you is unconditional but because my love to you is unconditional I also respect how great you can become the alter ever believed in people too much just to say you're uninspired we love you we love you but you're not an abacus you're assuming moots of art so you're a ladder that's etched on the ground but we really show Maggie a sham I'm on you in your art sees you in your earthiness can touch the heavens you which generated another major distinction between the alter rebbe and some of his colleagues the Altair ever had a Hassan who was a follower and disciple of his the alter rebbe also had a colleague a friend a man named Reb Michael he came from a city called Abdul AMD you are not add more but I'm doer they called him Reb heikal under a cycle of Amdur he was a student of the magnet of miss rich hence a colleague of the Alpharetta and a great master and he also had a pupil AHA slit and both of these custom the closet of the alter rebbe and the causative Reb Michael were neighbors and they'd avant together in the same show and one day the alter Epis cos it came to his rapidly after ebb and he began to lament and listen to what he was lamenting about he said we both go to the same shoe each morning - Davin chakras I looked at Rob Michaels closet he comes in pumped up if you go in even till today especially then - ste block - shoals of different Hasidic groups and sects you'll see people come in often from the mikveh the payers are still wet and shaking and swaying pumped up Davin allowed with a highest with a vitality with an inspiration with a passion and he says and this guy he just never has a setback he's always inspired he's always on fire he says I'm your concert I come to Seoul and immediately I'm struggling I'm not in the mood I don't understand they don't appreciate I start when he considers and ideas are not entering into me and for me to light some fire to Kindle some spark takes me an hour an hour and a half I miss Dominion and I end up on Milam Hauser on I love muhabba not I had the minion not I feel successful man I feel spiritual why is it he says my friend Brent he's on fire and I'm cold and dry now imagine you're ever in your hosted tells us team and the outer Deborah had suffered vacate he he meditated for a few minutes he placed his holy hand on his forehead and he meditated and when he lifted his head he looked at his Hassan and he said and I'm going to say it in there Evers and I'll tear up his words and then translate added Brent Michael Brandt in them own mere villain asthma so Alain Brennan paraphrasing or continuing the phrase of that fussing this man is burning and I'm dead I'm dry I'm cold so doctor episodes he's burning Michael is burning in him and we want that one should burn on their own the algebra not only that he believed in people's potential he withdraw he withdrew based on the idea that you within your own character and within your own identity can become a beacon of light of depth of inspiration and of holiness and he would not back off of respecting the truth that one can internalize acid in other words one can internalize godliness not only by surrendering their individuality toward a vehicle and therefore having this continuous flame that comes from overwhelming inspiration when you're connected to it Sadiq but rather having the ability to go and find your own spark within your own flame within your own soul within your own psyche in Bnei Brak there's a Jew he's a very popular teacher and speaker today he's known as the toner ever the Tandy rebus spoke a few months ago and Bnei Brak and he's extremely he's very anecdotal in his presentations he has lots of stories in numerous and he turned to the crowd and he said what's the difference between breslav and Labov ik he said today what's the difference between breslav and Hobbit and the Thomas said I'll tell you the difference you're ab national of breslav want to that breslav hassidim should have won't pay us alongside Lux and he said why that if they end up one day in hell knock on wood should be able to come in and grab them by their payers and schlep them out of purgatory flip the mount again so you said a breslav accosted passes on comes to heaven and they say knew you were happy he says I can't say that I was happy you served God with passion I'm not sure you went to Oman I went to Oman but I wasn't the real thing so what did you do shrugs his shoulders no you don't belong to Paradise you belong in purgatory and when he starts feeling the heat of the Grand barbecue he starts screaming yeah I bought a scheme father father and a black man hears the scream he comes in he sees the pay as he takes the pay slips him out of purgatory and he brings them to a good place the toneless says then you have Alabama Chuck about cost also his time come he comes to heaven they say no you were the way you were supposed to be shrug his shoulders you learnt try to learn a little bit but it wasn't very successful you Davin I don't know what that means you were connected to the rubber that's called connected I wanted to be connected go to hell so here in the breslav er both end up in purgatory he starts filling the barbecue so he also starts screaming it that bad the Tom Lasorda Deborah appears and seizes costed their the never takes out a dollar gives it to him says hot sloppy in your sh lift this right here but it's not just an anecdote the holy Degel machine Ephraim was a grandson of the Baal Shem Tov and he writes a beautiful beautiful insight what was the first revelation that our Shem has that moisture Rubino has he's in front of a burning bush and he sees the bush that's burning and what does he say a surah now the area samara God was so trashy a surah McConnell is terribly shocked let me leave my place and go there to appreciate this great sight of a bush that burns and is not consumed and he hears a voice and what does the voice say I'll take care of how long don't move shall now laughter may I regret that take your shoes off your feet why he have Makkah Masha to a middle of atmosphere show because the place upon which you stand is sacred soil says the daegil Marchioness Ryan people see a burning bush from far they see a fire and they imagine that this is the fire they're looking for this is the celebration of you describe their correct their craving for this is the mid suit this is the spark they're pining for and they want to come close and the voice tells them out ticker of hell don't move take your shoes off your feet kay I'm up in my shadow are you middle of Agnes condition don't think that you're gonna find holiness by being another person and being in another life or being in another place hamakom are shotta are you made the love Atma sky - you have to realize that in the place where you're standing the person who you are you are capable of finding the doucher within yourself think a moment about the name that the altar ever gave his magnum opus his great book we call it Tanya but that wasn't the name he gave it the name he gave it was safer shall bein in him those three words captures this entire message safer shall banana means the book for their ordinary person not safer shalt tsadikim but also not safer surah Shyam safer shall bein them for the ordinary person because thou to ever believe that the ordinary person the mocha Masha Allah the love you the way you are you are capable of heights and of depths that may be unimaginable to you as long as you can understand this truth that holiness is not reserved for the person who transforms himself holiness is reserved for the place where you are standing this theme immediately introduces a second theme this first theme namely that the tanya more than empathizing challenges because of its belief in the human being brings us to another point which may seem a little paradoxical but is really an expression of it namely thank you that means I should also say another luck I am Who I am what I am till the Tanya most books of Jewish ethics of Musa had two personalities they divided the Jews into two personalities there was that sadek and there was then tifos s of the Tzadik that Sadiq is the righteous person and then there's somebody who's not it sounded what makes someone at Sadiq but Sadiq is someone who identifies with Rutzen Hashem with the will of Hashem is bara internally externally and continuously somebody who's wholly within and without he is the Sadiq these were the two categories you're at Sadiq or you're not observing either you're in or you're out either you're in the game where you're out of the game the altar that was said I'm writing a different book safer shal Beynon what was this category that he suddenly became overwhelmingly infatuated with all right that's the wrong word then he became so connected to the Hebei Nene me discover my hair color the me I'm sure who is this Ben Oni you see this is a critical idea especially today as we try to educate our children the division of cloudy sorrow between tsadikim and Roshan created a major problem and the problem was this very few people can beat subject very few people can become completely divine inside them outside consistently and the remainder of the people looked at the Sadiq and did one of two things either they despair they gave up or they became fake either they gave up on themselves they said let me be honest to me it's not me I have no real place in avoider Sasha I'm just not this perfect Saint or if they didn't even have the courage for that they start living a false life this is a struggle that many youngsters have in yeshiva in school the child the teenager is learning about great people great personalities I'm sure some of us had this at the age of 16 and he decides you know what I'm gonna be a rabbi akiva if not the first rib react Eve I'll be Arabic in Vega at least I will be he's he may be sitting at a fabrini and he may be reading a book he may hear a shirred he gets a spot he says I'm going to become in the Chabad world on a pillow pirate er who was one of the great customer advisor Camilla IRA beats hook mossman's where I'm going to become back in the early days of Yanam and Zakai and for three days in his imagination he's just gonna be a Kiva but then one day this same boy walks down the street and he sees a site and he has a reaction and suddenly he realizes he's not Rebekah vague he's not the place and he's not a pillow pirate and what does he do with that he can do one of two things either he gives up on himself I don't belong to this class if I don't belong to this class let me at least make it in a different world where I can succeed or another one comes to the conclusion I could never ever be honest again I have to appear to be somebody and deep down he knows it's not him and he becomes a very unhealthy person a dysfunctional purse and it expresses itself in marriage and it expresses itself the way he raises his children or she raises her children this was one of the great revolutions of seifish Albanian them what the after never compromise ever shall bein in them he said you're not at Sadiq nor were you ever supposed to be at Sonic nor does God want you to be at Sonic nor are you capable of being at sad day because he's not interested in you as a Sadiq he doesn't want you touching and melting away in the burning bush I'm okay ma chatte ah oh he made a love at Moscow - ooh the way you are here today with your struggles with your fragmentation with your inner dichotomy with your roller coaster of emotions the way you are gazing at the mirror in the most honest and genuine way it's here where you are a power to connect to your soul and to connect to God not by transforming every facet of your character which you will not be able to but rather identifying who you are honestly and realizing in the alter Rebbe's words that your function is not necessarily always to transform but often to subjugate not always to metamorphosize but often to confront not always to revolutionize but often to face and subdue and it is within your character in your identity sulla Musa I saw very McGee are some I'm the place where you're standing you can find the real relationship with your binder shillelagh and with that Delta every gave millions of Jews the ability to become a Eve day Hashem BAM is to become servants of our Shem truthfully by being completely honest with who they are safer so bein in them it's the book for the ordinary individual he didn't want in the words of the Rebbe did not want holy people doing holy things sometimes our Shem wants unholy people doing holy things your unholy that's fine it's perfect as long as you can identify it and know what your mission is with this unholiness you sometimes look at yourself you're in Ganon you have Ashla this the bane and he is supposed to be obeyed and he's not supposed to be at salting there was another major contribution that author ever gave us the Baal Shem Tov and the students and his disciples gave us and our ever emphasized so emphatically again and again again and parents interestingly this two isn't the dream of Yaakov Aveeno sometimes one dream contains a lot what happens during that dream but he cooked my Avenue hamako he takes from the stones around him and he surrounds himself but when he wakes up by eks ah Evan he takes one stone so what are the cause I'll say Rashi brings that he surrounded himself with many stones and what happened the stones thought their surrounding it's up there they were like you know board members in a shoe I mean not distal but I sure and they started to fight and what was the fight a lion ear Todd the castration I am near South the cursor is she right everyone says I want the head of the Tzadik I want the head of the savin why should I be by the feet why should I be by the hands I won his head so what did I shall do we made a miracle what did he do he took all the stones and he congealed them into one stone but he Jesus however so now there's one large stone so the repin once asked a simple question were there ever used to call a klutz cash in order klutz crushes and he translated klutz kasha ah a klutz is a piece of wood a klutz kasha means they say Akasha that a klutz asks but usually they're the best questions because the smart people are scared to ask the good questions every much sorry Shabbos on the radio there would be robbed a Weinberger's designed asunder by y'all so on we would give over from the sickness of Shabbos in the Tonia and when he was out of town Rabbi Moshe pinned his cats all over solemn would give over on the radio the city of Shabbos so one would say Shabbos Rabbi Moshe Pinterest Katz of blessed memory gets up and says on the hind how did ever get a nephrons and above us the klutz crashes and today their ever asked one of his famous quotes conscious because never would often say is a klutz kasha that's how he introduced it on the radio was very charming Lena but was tainted for then above us the clots conscious so their best o'clock sky she says I don't understand even if 10 stones become one rock only one part of the rock can be under yakov's head so how did it solve the problem and the Rebbe his answer was the only reason you mind that somebody else has the head is because you're not one with that person but if you would understand the organic oneness then you wouldn't mind if somebody else has the head because when you have the head it's as though I have the head because you and me are one you know they tell the anecdote about arriba some master who was sitting on a chair and it was a very comfortable chair and of course in the cheer on what he was sitting there were little holes there were little holes to let an ear and make it even more comfortable and it's addicts that Sadiq was sitting on one particular hole so all the holes started to fight every hole said I wanted Sadiq to sit on me so they decided they're all going to become one big hole and he fell right through it often people preach unity let us be one big hole and he falls right through it but that has nothing to do with her Siddhas that has to do with egotism or bitterness or a combination of both Valtor Deborah taught and entrenched in Hassidim what they called her banana schmuck in Toyota I didn't to realize that the greatest thing a person can do in the world there's developed a taste to do a favor to another Jew I'll never forget that Shabbos for bringing when they're ever quoted the statement of the Baal Shem Tov the soul comes down for 70 80 years just to do one favor to a Jew materially or spiritually and the Rebbe said ah peace gum marvel those were his words it's a shocking statement of the more some term here is a Jew who put on tefillin who learned Taylor who had we did mezuzah who ate caution and who did 612 mitzvahs or all the mitzvahs that we can do nowadays and he did them well and the Baal Shem Tov says that all of this was only a preparation for what not even for himself that someone needs a favor and what type of favor he needs a physical favor he's going through a hard time and his soul comes down just to do one favor to this person in materialism or in spirituality but this was what the Baal Shem Tov taught and what dr. Deb wanted Hassidim to feel that the greatest fortune and life is when you can be there for another person and idea of the alter rebbe is so desperately needed because people are looking for solutions for different problems whether in this area or that area especially in the area of education and we often fail to realize the obvious if you can be there for a person for real you will solve most of the problems if a student if a child if a young man or a young woman if a young husband or a couple or a wife feel that somebody really cares without judgmentalism without superiority then you can create miracles with every person but for this we have to feel like one stone one rock I should be able to celebrate with you I should be able to empathize with you and for some it's a forgotten concept they forgot the idea of simply doing a gesture saying that varam of oracle warm idea a warm word to another person to strengthen them it was once abbis can occur I want to say two things and I don't know what to say first have to go to therapy for that but I'll say one it was once abbis Chanukah top Shinhwa mandalas 1973 a little while after the Yom Kippur War there was a big big Isha there was a convention of students from campuses that came to Brooklyn that Shabbos so the labovick trevor was speaking he said I give all the convert you can Amish live with his worth your whole life he said I said this is the foundation of ascenders he said look at this story no one realizes the detail of homage of Aisha everyone discusses the big story no one discusses the small aspect of the narrative and that is yes it becomes the preeminent stir and he saves the whole world from hunger because Perry appoints him as is as his mission Allah MELAS as his vice when as a result the ice have saves the world from famine he knows that the seven years of plenty followed by seven years of famine the whole store anybody knows but how did you get that position everybody knows party had a dream and I needed somebody to interpret the dreams why'd they bring ussen everybody knows because the butler of Perry had Yosef explain and decipher his dreams he was impressed he told pirate two years wait it is a guy who knows an interpreter each but how did the ice have come to interpret the butler's dream the tailor says exactly what happened was one morning in a dungeon and Yosef looked at a butler and a baker the enums if'n they were depressed they looked down trodden and what did he do he went over to them and he asked him a question for words madula Pinay them rhodium.i yo why do you look down today why aren't you happy at first glance it's a very strange thing there ever since what do you mean why they depressed what are they eating sushi at about Mitsu what are they eating turkey and cranberry sauce that are you disgust of Thanksgiving in Detroit and Oak Park they're in a dungeon in Egypt on death row for heaven's sake the Baker would be executed in three days what should it be doing dancing Cassatt's cos of course he's depressed but do open eyes him Ryan why did you surpass the question they were his brothers they was friends they were two ministers of power they were not Jewish they worked for power they were anti-semites what would your grandmother say if she would see them depressed you say I love Allah module panache tomorrow in my yard was an honor to be depressed what are they dogs in California they look sour you have to bring them immediately to a psychoanalyst so they're depressed they'll get over it no it's a story he asks what about he himself if there was any man who should have been depressed it was he usually when you're asking somebody why are you unhappy it underscores the fact that you're in a good place because when you're depressed usually don't have the mental space to ask other people why they're unhappy what about Yosef himself why was he happy if you would give a psychoanalyst a resume of Yusuf's life what do you think the diagnosis would be nine years old his mother died 17 years old his brother's kidnapped him plunged him into a pit and then sold him into slavery he ends up as a successful slave is accused of abuse and immorality and plunged into a dungeon in Egypt for life Egypt was not a democracy it's still a shady democracy Yosef yet seems to be completely enjoy and when he sees tune Egyptians is not happy my due up make him Ryan Meyer and the rabbit said here you see what I need this but since yes if knew that God is everywhere it means every experience in life has meaning and that means one ought to always have a positive and a happy experience of life because Yosef understood that God is everywhere and when he saw two non Jews who were depressed he felt it's not from the fear because to live means to be happy today we live in a culture where people feel they have to be miserable if you see somebody who looks too happy you want to know what he's taking what are you on your happy if somebody comes into shorts are hacks across answers love a borussia thang but if somebody's house Vishal I'm happy leather dick stain a pencil something wrong if to be institutionalized as we live in a culture where he's supposed to be miserable if teenagers are in a bad mood were all happy it's supposed to be in a bad mood god forbid if you're teenagers in a good mood what's going on you must be a terrible mother you must be so dysfunctional that your teenagers are so repressed they don't even know how miserable they I'm sure you're a horrible mother but this is a mistake you know the mice a few years ago when the Israeli economy was very dire so there was a group of Knesset members who met what can they do to help the Israeli economy so somebody suggested to learn from Germany and Japan after the Second World War what happened America destroyed them during the war and then America built them into economic superpowers so the Israeli Knesset members said let's declare war against the United States America will destroy us and then will become an economic superpower one Knesset member gets up and says there's one problem how cult OVF it's all nice but one Shila one question what happens if we win the war we have problems winning we have problems winning Israel won a war in 1967 and they still can't forgive themselves for winning if they would have lost a war it would have been beautiful Baruch Hashem we lost let's go cry and say to her for it's perfect Jews are supposed to lose but this is part of the Gullah that became part of the Jewish people a mentality of you have to lose you have to be miserable you have to be downtrodden the Baal Shem Tov stop saying Asia and he started to sing she Reshiram the Baal Shem Tov also cried about Kalos all terrible also cried about Carlos Miele nogada from the rebels acquired about Carlos but they started to say she hashira because they because they cried about dollars they wanted to bring the light of machines into dollars and the light of machines is a light of dignity and it's a light of happiness and it's a light in which the Jew doesn't have to be embarrassed that he or she has a message from God to the world I once said that somebody once said you know who drums are today but you makes a fist Israel makes a fist Wow Jews are making a fist and what's the next step a sham new but God new goes on the Alsatian I don't know I'm sorry for existing another person from a different culture makes a fist afterwards go check your nose by the doctor but the Jews makes a fist nice confessing for the rest of his life that he survived Yosef had a very different approach yo you said believed not only in his right to be happy he believed that everyone is supposed to be happy even a prison and when he sees two non Jewish prisoners were unhappy he says my do open a sham rally in my yard so you might think Yosef was a nice man comes the tailor and says no as a result of that question why do you look down today what happens ultimately it's spy rolls a domino effect to the extent that Yosef becomes the prime minister of the superpower of the time and saves the world from famine so the salvation of the entire world from a devastating famine in the imagination of the Tanakh can be traced back to what to one simple good morning address to two depressed people looking them in their eyes and saying my due up Nathan Roy in my own when I meet somebody in the morning I meet the child an adult a teenager a man a woman a friend not a friend and I see that they're sour they look to Jacqueline and I put my hand on their shoulder and I say tell me what is going on in your life give me a hug let me give you a walk you may view it as a very nice gesture but quite insignificant and inconsequential comes the tailor and says that question in the prison to two people is ultimately what allows yourself to save the whole world the world was saved not from a big cataclysmic event but it was saved from one good morning by one person to two individuals not even of his people and it's this foundation that is so often forgotten not always as one has to search for extraordinary tricks and schemes to bring people closer be nice be warm be kind don't be stingy of a hug to give a hug don't be stingy to be a passionate don't be stingy to taste to tell somebody you care for them don't be stingy with the words I love you be there for somebody else genuinely developer Gish McIntyre time I Aidan agus Mac to do somebody else a favor to help somebody out a piece of advice a good word a gesture alone whatever it may be and the effects of this and the ramifications of this are unimaginable this was the foundation without altar ever taught oddish mocking toilet and I hidden there ever a yachts the sick Obama never describes how one day his father there our shop took a walk with him and during the walk he described to him the tremendous value in putting on Tolleson thrillin and before you start diving you should think hazardous and there our shop said somebody who puts on Tallis and filling him before they start praying they take a few minutes and they think through in their mind a concept an idea of Hasid this in an internalized and personal way he said it accomplishes ten major achievements and he went through all the ten it illuminates and brings out the soul it refines the animal soul it trains the brain it transforms a person's life it puts a person in the domain of God ten things and then there are shop continued about outlets and minders but all these ten things that you achieve through learning and thinking has citizen Tolleson filling before Dominic Cooper snitched it pales in comparison to the greatness when somebody is given a gift by God so hub in a hush-hush market over time ie when somebody is given a gift from God to have a feeling and a dish mock to do a favor to another Jew this transcends all of the greatest spiritual achievements of self refinement you know sometimes I look at different I'm involved in education a little bit not as much as I would like but a little bit and sometimes there are people who are written off because they don't they're not successful within a certain cookie cutter structure and model but I often see that that kid has a gash schmuck in private time I didn't that kid has a sensitivity loves doing a favor to somebody and I always read I asked an educator principal I said look at this letter of the rabbit look at this secret this discourse of the of the six Lubavitch Ariba who probably understood a little bit about religion as much as you and he heard from his father that the ten tremendous levels of spiritual refinement don't come close to somebody who has a feeling to do somebody else a favor so now you tell me who's greater than who you tell me who's greater than earth and I have a congregant of mine who told me a story that he himself observed I know there's a few people in this room who will appreciate the story more than others because they knew him but if you knew him or not it's a very powerful story there was an old cousin who lived in Crown Heights in Brooklyn his name was a rep Solomon table your absolving table was and became and I mean he was a young man and then as usual happens young people become a little older and and he became an elderly drew he was not married and he would eat meals on the second floor of 770 in the house of the six of their every yachts by a severe took the previous Loeb average whatever the sixth of our children but they had a relationship with the river and I remember him already as an older man he would walk the streets and then he he either had dementia or Alzheimer's became senile and he couldn't function anymore himself so he was in an old-age home in Williamsburg called a Co Avraham which is a home for the aging where they put him and he didn't recognize people anymore he didn't have family I mean he had relatives but no immediate family so he didn't have many visitors he was there in the age in the old age when they took care of him and after years he lived too deep 90s he already recognized nobody it was completely Seema one year Erev Yom Kippur a few hours before Yom Kippur the Lubavitcher ever there ever had a costume he would give lettuce it would give honey cake to anyone who wanted to take a piece of lettuce with a blessing for us on ative / souk so the nurse or the attendant of representable knew how many years representable was by the Rebbe and they had a very close relationships he decided it would be worthwhile to bring the bazaar to get a blessing from the rabbi before Yom Kippur for the next year so they took him in a wheelchair and they brought him to 770 and they brought him to the river but he was completely senile so they took him out of the wheelchair they slept him and two people were holding him and they brought him to the door and they'd ever looked this was very close to Yom Kippur and he saw his almond table now our absorbant I brought an egg until abhava you know which Negin he brought a melody to Lubavitch and it's the melody of an Asda the cooker bridge that melody was brought to Habad by the absorbent I belen the 1960s syrup Zalman is standing there and the rabbit takes the honey cake and he looks at the azama but there's no there's no response now the person who shared his story with me who Darwin's a Marshall was standing right behind Zalman title so he saw it so their ever takes the cake and starts waving it in front of his eyes because he wanted to get his attention but the Brahma was not there he was he was completely senile I mean there was no distinction where he was standing he was just not present mentally and the line was huge it would go down Eastern Parkway till Brooklyn so the Rebbe put down the cake and started to sing to the absolving table and knots and tells me standing there zom entitles by the door the deputies in front of the door and he's singing a song solo to Zalman table no I believe who no no after the coup disabilities who disagreed you know come you may come by the car did I say and the rebel continues when we come Amy comedic I ride I say behold he done V dawn and after a while of singing suddenly Zalman table wakes up for a moment and he looks at the rapper and he realized that he's standing in front of the river and his face fills up with a huge radiant smile and the moment the rep is saw he was there present he gave him the cake he gave him a blessing and an absorbent eyeball retreated back into a space and moved on and the line went on I thought to myself some of us go the old agent some of us have relative in old age others you know the usual conception of society towards a man whose 90 was 95 was 98 he was very very old and this was a Devine Kippur with hundreds or thousands of people waiting on the line by the rabu water was important was to stop the entire line and to sing his song that he brought many many years ago knowing that to this song he might be able to reach a space in his psyche and he brought ribs arm and table back even for a few moments and he gave him that sense of dignity and that sense of happiness and that sense of wholesomeness that once again he was standing in front of his ever hosted laugh niryabi was a hostage standing in front of his Rebbe a few hours before calmly Dre of the urema Kaddish and then he can have another Yom Kippur and there ever can have another Yom Kippur and every person in their own way and in their own corner or to think about life in this fashion when I wake up in the morning before I go to sleep at night who can I touch and how can I touch them and if I just think this way you will see miracles happening as a result of your thoughtfulness I'm sometimes shocked a book person came to me the other day and he said I want to tell you that 15 years ago you met me in this in this place and you told me something about myself a positive thing and I want to thank you because as a result of that I found the courage to do so and so and that's why I am here where I yeah I don't remember that I said it I don't remember why I said it I didn't know the person's name was but then I realized why are people not obsessed with being nice to other people and saying nice things to them and being warm to them and they won't really don't realize the repercussions especially when it's to a young person who may be shaking and this style Trevor did not stop teaching with us it is that we have to see each other as one rock and not as a rock and the sense of Iraq feels no pain but Iraq in the sense that we are all part of one powerful entity and if you have the head I should have mind because your celebration is ultimately my celebration and from me to win you also have to win it's just as in a marriage when a husband thinks that he can win and his wife can lose he's simply a little primitive and doesn't understand that for him to win she also has to win and if one of the spouses is losing than the other one ultimately lost as well finally there was one third contribution that I want a share of what Cassidy's gave the Jewish world in such a powerful way and here I share with you an interpretation a beautiful interpretation of a safer called the bus iron Visayan is a Hasidic work authored by a man named Debbie of Rome of average in the generation of the alter rebbe a little bit after and on partial variation he presents a powerful interpretation which I want to share with you he quotes the story of Aisha of you who dead Tamar everybody knows the story you who the son heir marries Tamar dies childless Tamar marries the second son Einon who dies childless according to E boom levirate marriage is Tama ought to marry the third son Shayla you hood there's a fair fraid he thinks that she's guilty in the death of his two sons Tamar is desperate she can't marry another husband because she's bound up to Shayla she's not marrying Shayla because you who says you have to wait he doesn't want to give her the shame what do you do so the Rambam explains that before Matt and Terry boom was not only to a brother-in-law it was also to any member of the family including a father-in-law so Tamar creates a situation and she engages in a contact in a relationship with you who does she becomes pregnant you hood the here is that Tama became pregnant from who not from Shayla from somebody else so he wants to he gives the verdict it's you of his his sorry if she should be burnt and on the way out she sends the famous message to you who the hot care now recognized Tama was a clever woman before she engaged in relations with you hood that she took collateral for him and what did she take half a semanas she took his seal mater she took a stick till she took his court how can I recognize who these items belong to he is the man who impregnated me why are you the very mid-south crushes write me many it was me klk - a teal - a love me she's right because I didn't give her a shame on my son says the hailer Kaiba sighing listen abou sir you hood contains the names of Hashem you'd the --have of a the Gomorrah says you who didn't across much look at this bottle you who they represent God Tamar is a metaphor for the Jewish people Sadiq Katamari frog carries ball of one in years ago that sadiq blossoms like a tomar like a palm tree the Demario says in suka why do we use a lulav on suka from a front of a palm tree cuz you ashley lave after that has one heart lovino Sebastian mine representing the one heart of the Jews - our Father in heaven so you who'd there's a metaphor for Hashem and Thomas a metaphor for the Jewish people you who dared Tamar are deeply connected what happens why he commercialization abortion the Commish says that Omer and you who engage in a relationship three months later they come to you who then they say sunset America Lusaka Zambia daughter-in-law engaged in harlotry in a promiscuous relationship says the boss I in when it comes to Shoshanna I am Kippur every Jew becomes one with Hashem every Jew does true of every Jew becomes inspired we gotta show we Darvin we connect we do children by he Commission around three months later doesn't say three months around three months when is around three months later time of Chanukah goes Tishrei fresher and most of Kislev it's almost three months it says in kabbalah that the days of Hanukkah is gamar Hadean that's the end of the judgement of Tishrei you know jewish core everything is delayed delayed delayed say every Shoshanna says maturely and Kippur shine it up but really it's Hanukkah no know that you made up in Kabbalah ends up Hanukkah so three months later they're finishing the verdict the eight days of Hanukkah correspond the eight days of suckers three months later Vai Aguilar you who did the message comes to God by Omer they say son so Tom McCullar Sasha your beautiful color your beautiful bride your beautiful daughter daughter and we'll come or that date that palm tree that has one heart that Hashanah Yom Kippur was screaming the similar hashem elokenu livid aha that soul that was shouting vehicle polti at the power to the oven khalid sir khyati it's our t v-- a mechanism of appear similar case Ramallah Hamas I become a solo that Jews how it was aroused when the Schaefer was blowing and whose soul melted in ecstasy when he or she screamed Hashem who became a sham who L Aquila sha na ba bearish shall I am three months later winter comes Thanksgiving comes and look how he digs into a piece of Turkey suddenly he forgot the autumn you say they may offer us a filler for Kaveh Vakili me over ah - Malik al Khaimah Khayyam suddenly the winter months came he forgot through Sunday forgot iam kippie forgot soup receiver got some cos theta he becomes completely insurance in his own materialistic and narcissistic needs he becomes completely alienated from God and spirituality he becomes apathetic and in different zones saw Tom McAllister saw Tom Marr went to another man the guy mean a heart all is known him she's pregnant sometimes a person faldor if every person stumbles every person makes a mistake but she not only made a mistake she became horrible is noonim she's having a child to the other husband she's building a home with the other man it's not just a jew stumbled the Jew has another life he has a new identity he's completely not interested in you he's not interested in your relationship he went to somebody else she went to somebody else Mayumi you do this as I see you of Issus Rafe if this is the case it comes to dinner on Hanukkah he says so what do I need to do for the whole purpose of creating the Jewish people is that they become ambassadors of the Divine in this world the moment he becomes entrenched in the world what do I need the Jew it's similar to what happens on Purim nano mr. dosoo shall I say Russia if their entire value in their own eyes is that our Irish accepts them and invites them to the White House of Shushan to engage in the Purim and in the in the White House of Shushan the Persian sushi party and even if it's kosher if that becomes their identity Nana Masood or say what do I need he moot says Tama is being taken out to the fulfillment of the verdict that was given at a time of Chanukah because of the lack of inspiration of the Jew and on the way he shall call Camille a mer the Jew Thomas sends a message to you Hooda and she sends three items to him and what are the three items famous sillim and mater a seal up seal as a court of matters a stick and she tells you the hacker not look into these three items and you tell me who do they belong to whoever they belong to this is the man with whom I'm having a child says the boss I and it comes Chanukah everything takes on manator and Kindles a flame and Thomas sends three items to a sham and says hacker let me have a semeth who does this seal belong to I mean no ear is made up the first thing we have oil the oil represents the pact effort shall Shemin the gomorian Shabbos show your costume beliefs um we shall find out of the jug of oil that was sealed with the seal of the claim god--all the oil that we put in the midnight is a reflection and a continuum of that oil that had the seal of the coin goggle which stayed lit for eight days in the base of the happy Ceylon seal in Hebrew means up Cielo is away oil and there's a wick and then Mohammed joked about saying how matters do give my theory of Kaylie vessel which is the manure itself you have the vessel the candelabra you have the oil and you have the wick or you can add vomit is the stick the staff Tom Morris sends a message to you who then says look at the sonica manila and now look at the motto look at the wandering stick that the Jewish people have taken into their hands generation after generation locating from one place to another place from one country to another country only because they were Jews the Easter a liliani fiora you want to know who I'm pregnant with you want to know who I'm having a child with I'm having a child with the person who owns these items how can a hummer says you hood who I belong to whom I'm really married to who I want to build a family with whom I want to have children with how can I recognize why did the Jews fight the Syrian Greeks to a point of complete self-sacrifice why did calm man or seven children stand up Antiochus why did matter sir when his children and the guerrilla war of the Cushman I am stand up to a prevailing dominant aesthetic Greek powerful culture that threatened to dominate the entire world with the power of Greek philosophy and aestheticism look at this light of the menorah look at the oil look at the wick look at the candle a brown look at this wandering staff and you tell me let me Sasha Ain the lawyer my Fuhrer who the Jews are really committed to who the Jews are really loyal to my Yakka you heard the hood looks at the manator and he recognizes it via a man he says Sotka she's right I'm wrong me many these children are for me P alkane wayna satya with shale Abney because I didn't give her - a love my son says the bar sign Yakko Vivino tells you who did partial faith what does he tell you who the while Yasir shave it Mia who derma psychic my bae rabble of at Kiev is she live alone cause Hammond this scepter will not depart from you hoodie from Judah nor will the ruler leave his feet in other words royalty belongs to the tribe of you that ad Kiev is she late till Sheila comes what does Ashley say who's she lie so trashy she lay Zahra Melek HaMashiach she lay represents mushiya says her sham key alkane - a TLS a lab knee Sotka bummer is write me many she has a child from me klk - at the Elysee Liberty I three months later I see so many Jews are alienated they're uninspired they're apathetic I'm guilty key alkane - Satya Lachey loved me because I refused to bring them Ashiya I refused to introduce them to Shayla my son what can you expect of a wife whom you disappeared from 2000 years more than 2000 years so you expect that she should never look away you expect she should never stumble you should expect that she should never have a downer i'll kingliness lathela she loved me what do you want from this purse and the famous story of the magnetars yurt set is tonight you test kissless that his song above rama my rock above romney angel came to crying as a child and he said why you're crying and he said I was playing hide and seek with my friends so why are you crying he says I hid and my friends couldn't find me so his father says so you won the game it's great they can't find you you won he says no they stopped searching so the maggot said this is the story of life God concealed himself said the child's have searched for him but he hid himself so well that a child often stop search Vitthal is a sheer how long can he search zoom - Gazoo Montagu since the Gazoo Sunday he searched and Monday he searched on Tuesday he searched how long can he search for key alkane - Satya Lashay lab knee if anybody is to blame than I am to blame and this too was the great gift of the sinners to be able to look at a Jew that we should be able to look at ourselves and appreciate within ourselves and within another Jew that leash Asha a lawyer my fee Hara that the lack of inspiration and his side urges is ultimately superficial it's ultimately skin deep when you have a wound dulles people stop searching for God when he's so concealed people stop searching for him when he's hidden so well it's very hard for people to continue looking calcaneus at the allah Shayla Bernie and I see this came to reveal what a Jew really is what a Jew is truly searching for what a Jew is really connected to and said that everything else ultimately is very superficial and shallow and the moment will be the Masotti Allah Shayla Bernie the moment you can see the Shayla in a Jew as the mire and I am right that is a spark of Messiah and every person then that moment you'll recognize how loyal comer is and how connected Tomer is this event my friends are three or four of the major gifts for which we have our Thanksgiving tonight and we say Ashley no matter volcano to teach us how the ladder that standing on the earth is capable of reaching heaven not just because it's lovable but because its power and potential is awesome to teach the power of hamachi Masato oh you made the love add mascara to show where you stand you can cultivate and find holiness but I share who some as we read an assertion number three the consciousness of one stalled did their hair the feeling of cool on Dubonnet esse that were one person the ghee smack the fortune in life when you realize that the greatest thing your soul can do is to develop a love to do a favor to another person to emulate Yosef and ask the forwards why do you look down today how can I be there for you and finally number four the ability to be able to look at yourself and another Jew and God and salii Shasha a lawyer my fee harder that the holiness of Jews is gevalt is unbelievable the greatness of the Jewish people is awesome it's powerful that after 2,000 years they stumbled only as much as they stumbled that's the miracle concludes somebody once asked a question of a colleague of mine he was talking about my chef and he said why do you say we want mushy now you realize what mushiya comes there's gonna be a major Yom hot dinners gonna be a major day of judgment it's not gonna be fun maybe better not to ask for Messiah he said you know what you remind me of our husband leaves for work and the wife knows 7 o'clock he comes home and she's a good wife the old style she has the food waiting on the table with a plastic over the plate to me retain the heat and she's not on the phone and she holds the two crocks as he comes into the door so he could get into the crux right away I mean today it's a different min Hank talking about you know other times other days and he comes in to a hot soup and he starts eating and one night at seven o'clock and the soup is waiting and the soup is hot and it's deliciously hot the husband doesn't come home she texts him and he doesn't answer it's 8 and 9 and 10 and 11 and he's not home she gets worried he's not home no he'll come home at night late at night he's not home the next day he's still not home she searches and searches days pass and he's gone he's lost months pass no trace of him years pass and people come to her and say you don't have a husband anymore he forgot about you it's time for you to move on why do you still have the bowl of soup on the table she says he's gonna come back he told me he's going to come back he's going to come back years and years pass and intelligent people are saying shew Vesuvius Alamos you putting your hopes on straw he's not coming back go somewhere else and get rid of the soup but she tenaciously keeps the super there it takes two thousand years and the husband comes back and the first thing is it goes over to the soup and he takes the spoon and he tastes the soup what do you think is the first word he's gonna tell his wife you think he's gonna say why is the soup cold or he's gonna say wow wow what a soup 2,000 years and you still kept the soup waiting for me on the table that's what he's gonna say if mushiya would have come 50 years later a hundred years later new now he's gonna say wow you still kept the soup key alkane - a te le Shayla beneath you didn't bring Shayla can you really expect anything else but to be in a war to be in shock to be stunned by the godless by the holiness of me hi I'm Chris Wragge a Kurd Morris when he sees this once and for all he decides I have to bring Shayla Bernie came to Yolanda beam here of the amino mama Shyam which I am with [Applause]